Alexis and Danley: While Jesus Saves, She Misbehaves | Family or Fiancé S1E11 | Full Episode | OWN
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- A young couple hopes to gain the blessings from the bride's family, including her extremely religious grandmother. But in the process, the groom wonders if his fiancé's insecure and destructive behavior might signal that she isn't ready for marriage. (Original air date: January 18, 2020) Watch more Family or Fiancé on the WatchOWN app: bit.ly/watchow...
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The way I hollered when she said "but your Grandmothers alone" I said "okay girl" 😂😂😂
🤭🤣🤣🤣 girl i gagged 🤣🤣🤣 i woulda ran upstairs and cried
😂😂 me too
Exactly!!!!
Right! 😂😂😂😂 I lost it!
@@whasdaword8981😂😂😂😂 not running upstairs to cry lmfaoooo
Grandma was so focused on being seen a righteous woman, that she overlooked her granddaughter living with a man while they weren't married.
Ain’t nothing righteous about her, not even the nose😂😅
😂😂
You a preach.
Exactly
Whew now this is a word!!!
This girl is so crazy that even Tracy the therapist was like, “Danley, you in danger, boy!” 😂
😂😂😂😂
😂... I definitely think he should run.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Lawd
Run Danley
Run & never look back!
Alexis doesn't behave like she's saved. How can grandma judge Danley but her granddaughter isn't salt and light😢🙄🤦🏽♀️
Yeah, I totally agree
Christians and Bible spewing folks be the worse ones
Amen
U got dat right. She exhibited a different thing
Right ….her granddaughter out here fornicating and being insecure
Alexis is Not ready to be any Grown Man’s Wife. She is still 13yrs old.
The grandmother with that act at the door. Stop
I appreciate how her uncle hushed mom and grandma up by saying I'm asking him 😂
That made me cackle. I like the uncle 🤣🤣🤣
Exactly
Danley is one of the best men they have ever featured. The woman is one of the best toddlers to be featured but the award goes to grandma for sure.
😂
He took that ring back FAST. HE REALIZE SHE AIN'T THE ONE. HE IS BREAKING UP WITH YOU BOO😂
They're still together, and he got baptized, if you watch until the end of the show. I wish he was more concerned convicted about breaking up, he wasn't.
Calling 200 times is UNBELIEVABLE. It’s my experience that behavior is a clear sign of CRAZY.
I'm african american and granny calling Haitian's wicked is so offensive. AA literally been treated less then human in this country and you going to call other black people of the diaspora wicked is crazy
Right…they’re all ignorant just cause you don’t completely understand a culture doesn’t mean that they’re evil ppl smh
Exactly she is full of hate!
@@aricharichie4976and she’s supposed to be a Pastor more like religious
FACTS 👏🏾👏🏾
I'm not even African and I found that offensive
Her behavior is not only unacceptable but mean-spirited, delusional, and selfish. All attributes that can destroy even the most fortified relationships. He seems unbelievable to her because shes never seen a good man, so she treats him like he will be what shes experienced instead of as he is. She is destructive and he will be her main project if he stays.
“She treats him like he will be what she’s experienced instead of as he is” DAMN SIS I’m tweeting this quote 👏🏽🙌🏽🫱🏽🫲🏾👌🏽👌🏽🤌🏽🤌🏽
Moreover her family acted like they’re so righteous esp granny & looked down at this guy’s family & his background but now when he finally stands up to their uncouth daughter, they act surprised!😳
So true, i can't believe after all that she said the ball is in her court, that girl has so much work to do Wishing her the best
I agree with you.
This will destroy a marriage
This is not healthy at all
When the therapist said "but your grandma alone" 😂😂 she felt that 😂😂😂😂
I love the therapist on this show but she is also alone.
But, maybe the Therapist chooses to be alone...@@jasminehouston-burns1691
But she's been married. Multiple times. She's experienced enough to say that. I guarantee my good sis still got options as well... @@jasminehouston-burns1691
It is probably by choice.....@@jasminehouston-burns1691
After the grandmother did all that ranting about the children not being blessed, the granddaughter blessed the food like a kindergartener.
“God is great. God is good….”
Ma’am!!
That's what I was thinking 🤔🥴🤣😂🤣😂
So true😅
I felt like I was listening to my 3 year old blessing the food! 😂 Grandma had so much to say about everybody else, and granddaughter is very immature…
😂😂😂…it feels like they’re acting… are people really like this?
I was waiting for her to break out into a “father god” or something!
SHE LACKS EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE!!!!!!!! RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!
I'm still tripping off that the grandmother said that Haitians come from a wicked background! 😮
Most Christians believe that. Remember when Pat Robertson said that on PTL?.... Christians are the most judgemental people in the world
@chreazuremeyelove Perhaps granma may be forgiven on the bases of her age. Perhaps she no longer thinks clearly because even if she thought one group of people were "wicked" to use her words, it is polite not to say it out loud... she could have expressed herself differently whilst at the same time upholding the dignity and humility of the cultural heritage of her granddaughters boyfriend.
Birth place of voodoo, baby!
But thr grandma is wack for saying what she said. It's also the birth place of gumbo, and she didn't say they come from "cooking people."
@@mangoyachoage does not excuse ignorance. If you're in your right mind, it is your duty to respect other cultures. As a Christian she might need to read her Bible a little more. Love thy neighbor as thyself. Calling a whole group of people wicked is wrong and could be deemed hateful. And why are Haitians any different from African Americans? We were involved in the same slave trade last time I checked. 🤷🏾
@@knightowl368 I agree with you 100%. However, some elders lose their "filters" and do or say impolite statements as their clear thinking starts to deteriorate. Perhaps gran is entering into such aging process. Her statements simply dont make sense neither the part when she stands by the door ... she might perhaps be starting to lose her marbles a bit and one could think that she was taken advantage of by the younger family members who should know better. If my gran starts to say crazy stuff about other people I would certainly find other ways of entertaining her instead of hanging her on the laundry line for the whole world to make fun of her wierd statements.
The fact that she has a morning routine that involved her trolling his social media is highly disturbing
“A wicked background?” You can’t say things like that and expect any of his family, or him for that matter, to want to interact with you let alone have a familial connection! She is horrible!!!
There are wicked people but not everyone is
@@nick74195 exactly!
Exactly
And in her mind, she is the righteous one.
I'm not her, so i won't say all Christians are liars, but this old lady comes from lying people.
This made me so mad, for her saying that crap, yet she is a Reverend, who did not realized that her grandchild is living with her man.
I’m proud of Danley and the therapist for stepping up.
This girl comes from a toxic lineage who seem to be overly religious, and don't hold her accountable for anything. THEY are going to be her downfall. He needs to run fast!
Exactly, when her grandmother asked for the blessing and she said a child’s prayer I realized she was stunted in her growth. It also said that her family just allows her to do anything. If she’s never had a boyfriend before where did she get the ideas she has about BF? Where did she get the idea she can know everything about him but not the other way around. Or how is that level of intensity sustainable ?
Exactly. She found him and she is crazy
And with that same overly religious mindset they’ll be exactly where they think others are going & they’re not- hell 🙄🙄
Exactly!!!
That’s why marriage should be private
Alexis family has her like this. No accountability. Grandma is evil as well.
Grandma is definitely evil!
We know who she represents which is her father the devil. Saying ouhhh I know, granny you don’t know nothing 😂😅
Y’all completely skip over the part where the grandma was trying to get the devil out the door 😂😂 I said to myself the devil is your granddaughter
No frrrr!!! Made me LOL seeing the “devil” was still in the kitchen🤣
And herself 😂
😂😂😂😂😂Indeed
Why her family get mad when he took the ring and they didn't give their blessings anyway...they saw how foolish she is
Honestly, grandma is a big reason why people turn away from the church. 🙏🏽
But you're grandmother is alone 😂😂😂😂😂 the therapist on point with the read
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love when therapist don’t hold back
“But your grandmother is alone” 😮
I busted out laughing at that point
😂😂grand mother need the Holly Ghost. So lonely and insensitive. Also theAmerican church community now sleeping and being deceitful to their wife’s and sleeping with young man’s that’s more then wickedness it’s devilish. Coming form from and Haitian Queen. 😜. Boy run . 😅.
LOOK AT THE BEHAVIOR OF THE GRANDMOTHER, NO WONDER THE GRANDDAUGHTER IS TOTALLY SCREWED UP!!!😩
She Toxic for Jesus
Facts! The stereotype is so ignorant. I am a Christian and I do not agree. Smh
She’s uncultured
Like tracey said Grandma doesn't have a man
That’s rich coming from someone who calls herself Christian! “ Thou shall not judge lest you be judged “
That grandma is crazy af
Yes
The fact that Danley's mom and dad were not there speaks volumes!
I'm of African descent and I have many friends.... It's rare that you would see our parents participate in something so public..... I'm not sure if he has siblings but them being absent speaks more volume(s)....
@@eloquentlymo Your insight is so interesting - food for thought indeed!
@@eloquentlymo He’s Haitian so although from African descent he’s from the Caribbean.
@@eloquentlymoI agree, my parents will be like what is this nonsense 😂? But a brother or sister not being there means the family does not like her.
5 mins in and the grandma was so aggressive at the cultural differences of Haitian background, gahhdamnn 😮😂
This girl doesn’t have a narcissistic attitude, she has a narcissistic personality and Danley needs to run. The fact her grandmother called an entire culture wicked when the wickedness is in her own household and family.
I'm not Haitian and I'm offend by the wicked comment. Shaddy pines
They were not blessing the union but didn't want him to take his ring back. These people are hypocritical in that regard.
That was extremely weird. They should’ve been happy
So she goes through his phone but he isn't allowed to go through hers?
She wanted to see if he was hiding things from her like she was from him. Once she seen he wasn’t she could continue to cheat without a hitch🙄🙄🤫🤫🤐
RED Flag! 🚩🚩🚩
The grandmother is so concerned with judging she forgot the main commandment of God is to love. She raised a whole narcissist, who clearly doesn't have a relationship with God but have tbe audacity to call his culture evil.
Well said❤
HE called off the engagement, which surprised YOU, because you're used to him accepting your emotional abuse. So that makes u feel like the ball is in your court?....Bro, just finish the job & completely break up w/ her. The delusion is real. Smh
The uncle was on Danley side the whole time I loved that
This is the comment I have been looking for. He actually was
When she said grandma is alone that summed up grandma in a nutshell, but the way he snatched that ring off her finger was hilarious, they both need to mature and separate.
1. She is a psychopath. Like seriously. She seems like the type who would harm him or lock him in a basement or something if things don’t go her way. I mean, I’m, being funny, but I’m not. She looks literally insane in the eyes, and she doesn’t love him, she loves having control over him. Clearly she barely cares about the relationship. 2. Her grandmother is absolutely nuts. The very worst kind of hateful, judgmental, obsessed religious person. And she’s deeply uneducated & ignorant. 3. Her family seems terrible too. What does he see in her? Why is he staying? Anyone with eyes can see this girl is a Lifetime movie waiting to happen. It’s terrifying.
💯💯💯…
Feels like a combination possible for "SNAPPED".
He is too good for her!! She is the woman that helps create passport bros... bringing nothing but chaos to the table. Smh
Facts
😂🤡
Don't nobody want you😮😅
What is a passport bros? 😅
@@van5135 I want to know the same😅
Boy RUNNNNN
30 seconds In and this will not work . Both immature !
Update
SHE'S THE PROBLEM! RUN
I’m Haitian and it’s nothing wicked about my background she look wicked sitting there speaking like she holy 😒
I loved the Haitian culture, that old lady has no clue what she's talkin about 😍
Facts‼️she needs to go sit down somewhere
Her grand daughter look wicked to me
Facts cause she’s definitely religious and doesn’t know God at all in any way, shape or form!! Isn’t her goody two shoes granddaughter wicked for shacking up with a man before marriage. The hypocrisy is overflowing from her cup😅😅
@@youtubestreets3915 AT ALL
Alexis’s behavior is very alarming…she is a walking red flag
Not even a flag. A whole billboard.
🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
Not that preschool dinner prayer 😅
I said the same thing !!!!!! I’m like
Is she 25???
@@B_stayactingMentally she's a petulant child.
Did the daughter just bless the food with a prayer that they teach toddlers? LoL...proves that she is not a Christian.. hilarious
She was trying to send the bloody devil out by doing some spiritual sh** with opening and closing the door but she (the grandmother) forgot to walk out too.😩😂
I'm not gonna say she's not a Christian, but that was very much juvenile.
The length or extent of prayer doesn't mean you are or aren't Christian. I know people who prayer extended prayers, quote scripture but the life they lead is very "worldly" and sinful. But I guess by the above comment they're the Christian.
@@wellness1786 That is sooooo funny🤣🤣 good one indeed
@@snicole1022you are right because the grandma and Alexis’s behavior was nowhere near Christ-like
the young lady likes having a boyfriend and a 'ring' but she is not ready to get married. She needs to grow and mature on her own before committing as a unit.
Very Well Said!
It's easy to blame the person who is obviously wrong in a situation but it is important to take ownership in what you are allowing to happen. Something in you makes you believe you deserve poor treatment or else you wouldn't stay. He's staying with her because something in him is drawn to her toxicity.
💯🎯
He loves how she chasing him! I noticed he did things for her to chase or beg him to not go like telling her guess we single when we get home and taken the ring off her finger.
I agree
No accountability in this comment 🥴 that’s like a narcissist partner saying “I did that because you made me…”
Marriage is a covenant. Marriage is a covenant. Marriage is a covenant. It’s not to be played with.
Amen!
Nah Bro Don’t Do It She Gonna Be Putting Hands On You Next She Is Disrespectful And Has A Nasty Attitude
I'm so proud of you Danley......
She outright told that man to his face that she uses him because he's too nice. He absolutely feeds into her craziness. I almost felt bad for him, but he allows and accepts her behavior.
What’s him being Haitian and catholic equal to him not praying everyday? That’s him and his family…
Y’all know the Devil even knows the Bible too! She’s different and evil!
She's low key implying that he or his family is into vodou without saying it outright
Man this grandma A mess 😂😂😂😂 I hope they check her
I know she did not just come on National TV and say that Haitians come from a wicked background. This is why people are moving away from organized religion.
The judgement is insane.
Please read my comment I just wrote about this.
@@rayannwashington7568God has nothing to do with organized religion
The only difference between blacks from the islands and from the United States is a boat stop.
You doing just what she did. Organize religion she cannot speak for
Yea he needs to RUN from this young lady and her grandmother NEOW😂
ZIMMEDIATELYYY
Grandma had so much to say about the soul, being a Christian and him being Haitian, but accepts her granddaughter shacking up with a man that she is not married to!! Take a seat Granny 🤐🧐 She needs to lay hands on her granddaughter & pray her wickedness away!!
Most religious christians are extremely hypocritical
Catholicism is Christianity. I dont care who disagrees. The rivalry is hilarious to me.
It is but it’s practiced differently
So much ignorance coming from this Grandma and her family
Idk how anyone could disagree
I agree
I completely agree @kgbrown5563! It infuriates me when people say Catholics aren’t Christian!
I love the groom's best friend 😅
Thank goodness he took the ring back, I never wanted someone to leave someone so badly. YES!
Grandma OUT OF POCKET
When the grandma said she’s not disappointed about taking the ring back and also her confessional cam position is funny definitely giving grandma vibes🤣🤣🤣
I aint gonna to lie, Danley RUNNNNNNNNNNN!!! She is crazyyy asf! 🤭
How u wanna marry a man but reject his culture and where is HIS MOTHER? This whole episode means nothing without her.
Her family enables this behavior and that’s why she’s the way she is the way she is!!!!
The good ole I’m cheating so you have to be cheating! And I got you so confused about your fidelity that you can’t focus on my bad behavior…..
I know this because I was with someone who did to me, it's taken me years to recover and I have not trusted any men since that.
There are so many good men but my past experience holds me back
She seen her Dad and Grandpa CHEAT
You may have a point
With those two as wives I understand
@@jmarierealty 😂
Her grandmother is a horrible person…
I'm glad the young man evaluated the situation for what it is. He is saying she needs time to grow and mature. They need time plus go to counseling to know what marriage is first too....and grow individually as well. They shouldn't be living together either. Just be single and work on self and pray about it. This relationship is toxic.
As a Haitian that has dated African Americans in the past, I hate to say it but most often they’ve shown me cultural incompetence. They have no interest getting to know your culture or adapting to the customs. That’s just my personal experience
So true!!! Been there done that!!! I will never put myself in that situation again!!! She said that his culture is a work in progress. The ignorance is real!!! Run young man!!!!!
It goes both ways. In my personal experience.
So true! I dated an African American on and off for almost 10 years and I can say they really don’t care to learn about Haitian culture and are very judgmental to the way we live our lives.
Her family didn’t strike me as “African American”…at all! I’m not sure of their cultural background, but it’s not from these United States.
He needs to run, baby girl has issues that she needs to get through and heal..otherwise he'll come out of this bitter and messed up...
Her behaviour almost felt like classic projection. If your partner is distrustful for no reason even after you show them they can trust you and at the same time they’re deleting their messages from other men/women who are hitting on them, they are almost certainly cheating.
Sooo the grandmother knows every single Haitian and knows for a fact they’re all wicked???? Oh ok.. 🙄😑 so ignorant
She’s so immature and not ready for a relationship
Even the brides family criticizing the bride chile
DID ANYBODY ELSE CREAM WHEN THE PALE LADY SAID YOUR GRANDMOTHER IS ALONE😅 YOU CAN'T MOVE LIKE YOUR GRANDMOTHER YOU'RE TRYING TO GET MARRIED😮🎉😂😂😂😂😂😂👍🏻🛑
Pale??? She's biracial black and white. However, what she said was true.
y’all talkin about pale , wth is creammm?
@@1120forevrr lmfao
Danley shouldn’t have to put his foot down with Alexis
she should have respect all ready
What makes her think he can’t find a women better than her,if the relationship is only about making her happy.She’s beautiful but that’s all if she doesn’t change some of her behaviors this relationship isn’t going to work.
She knows he can do way better than her and that's why she is soo insecure. She just finds it difficult to be honest about her insecurities.
@@sashadavis3813 that’s just pushing him away and she doesn’t realise his going to have enough one day.Some guys do act perfect in a relationship,but cheat on the low but the truth always comes out.She keeps looking for something that’s not there.But acts like a cheater as well deleting messages from guys and leaving a room just to have a conversation on the phone.
Yes she is pretty. However, She's unattractive internally. That's not gonna fly.
Lolll yes take yo ring ! That’s how you clear a room!!
Her grandmother is " Evil" to call others wicked that you do not know☠☠
Catholicism is Christianity, it a denomination just like being Baptist, methodist …
Was looking for this comment. Lol I’m so confused why they keep acting like there is such a religious divide here.
Christianity is the most divided religion there is. Many sectors believe their belief is superior to the next and in fact have a monopoly on heaven. I think it’s ridiculous but I was raised to believe that and it’s so not biblical.
Catholicism is not Christianity
@@iselee9928Exactly…their issue has nothing to do with it. The grandmother trying to gaslight him.
@@lakita619Please look it up. Each fraction has a set of different believes…such as Catholics believe in an interceder as in you have to tell your sins to a priest…there just different practices.
So I am a African-American and I wanted to say that the Haitian culture is not a wicked culture if anything it is one of the most beautiful cultures I have experienced when I did in my past partner. I will say it is very important to be spiritually yoked, and typically in most cultures. The man is the leader, so typically the woman would have to convert to the man at the end of the day is up to the couple to make that decision, but I do not want to shame, or allow Haitian culture to be disrespected in any way, shape or form.
Leave them tethers alone
It’s not wicked but heavily steeped in witchcraft. However there are places in the south that practice witchcraft as well. When you play in that, you always get burned no matter if you get what you want initially. Those demons will come back for what they feel is theirs.
@MsE711 Haitian culture and traditions are AFRICAN traditions, thats probably more beneficial than a westernized oppressive white mans European religion👀
@@MsE711heavy French influence…look at Louisiana. Hmmm…🤔
@@MsE711Christianity posses witchcraft. Jesus was a witch…anyone turning water to wine, raising the dead, walking on water etc has some supernatural abilities. If Jesus walked this earth today we would be running from the man calling him a witch.
Lol the grandma act like she the voodoo person heck 🤣
The way she opened the door to let the "evil out" is definitely not of god. . .dare I say more voodoo like?
She need to get delivered her grandma done messed her up ....break free child are you going to always be by herself
I would say no not her son …not this family son NO…!!!
She embarrassed him and he had every right to take that rings. He needs to run from her asap
Who said that 25/27 is young? I mean to a 50 yr old it is lol but imo that’s the perfect age for marriage (that is if all other things are lined up)
Perfect age of fertility for women but sometimes men lack the maturity. In this case it's the opposite 🫠
She said but your GMA is alone 😂
And the girl is an absolute sociopath, and a narcissist I could definitely see it, and if he cannot see it himself, he is going to be in a very horrible situation. And yes, there’s a such thing as committing abuse
18 minutes in and she’s mad toxiccccc. 😭i Hope he gets with Someone not so hypocritical
If they are “Saved”. We in big trouble. Say goodbye to world peace.
SHOUT OUT TO HAITI 🇭🇹 MY LOVELY COUNTRY. IM 6 minutes in and loving it already lol
What scriptures in the Bible does she actually read? Cuz her actions not matching…
This
I notice that both sides was on Her about her nasty attitude at the dinner table whwn they discussed the phone n password..just wow!!!
Her toxicity comes from her grandma
They wanted the ring but not the Haitian? Bye Granny 🥳😜
The Grandma is the baby! (Joseline Voice)
His LIFE IS GOING TO BE A LIVING HELL IF HE STAYS WITH HER. TRUE Narcissist. They only get worse....
That grandmother is very unchristian-like. She’s judgmental and speaking negatively on a group of people that she knows nothing about. I thought Catholics and Christians serve the same God. The bride is very immature. She’s definitely an overgrown child. The groom needs to switch on the turbos and run swiftly!!
He needs help. If she needs help HE needs help as well. That don’t make no sense. They’re both wildly immature. Taking the ring off her finger like that, pulling a surprise attack and embarrassing her in front of everyone was immature and meant to be punitive. That’s not love at all. Then to just continue to enable her insecurities by giving her all your pws yet again and then blame her yet again. She’s told you who she is and believing anything else is foolish. He needs to search within himself why he allows and welcomes such abuse.
That’s true he needs help as well. Why would he accept this toxic behavior, why is he okay with this? What happened in his life that he thought this was okay? He will need to figure this out to find a good relationship cause he seems like a good guy