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stayed with an ex before because i thought she would change, yea now im about me, selfishness is contageous , from a young age tought to help others, as i got more selfish over time people disliked me more, like you say who cares? the good guy gets walked on. I learnt selfishness now everyone is gone. Yay 😃
Maaaaaaan learned this shit late in life. What really blows me away is that she will give her box away to a pookie for free and let him live and eat for free and drive her car while you jump through crazy hoops for her. Know your worth kings 🤴🏿
You know, I do feel like this was directed to me. Been trying to please people all my life. The problem is, now that I'm being more conscious of my ego, these very persons I've been pleasing are not happy with me anymore 🙃
You spit gold brother,felt like you are talking to me, especially after my breakup,I gave everything for that girl and I got dumped like a piece of sh**..but no more, I've learned my lesson, thank you for your great content again! Take care brother 💪
@@ShaunZachary hey brother,I was wondering..do you have a discord community? I'll be glad to take part in something like this, encourage each other and post our progress
Hey Shaun, love your videos brother - you talk so much truth. I was recently dumped by my girlfriend because of my anxiety - I was a people pleaser, not intentionally - I am just a nice guy. I was putting other peoples needs/shit at a higher priority than mine and I have mentally became unwell in doing so. So I will give this advice to anyone, do shit for you (obviously dont be a dick!) I have lost two long term relationships putting everyone else's needs before mine. Seriously you do you, and the rest will take care of its own.
You may be hated in the beginning of for being self focused, but people are going to respect you eventually if you put your needs, goals, and peace of mind over anyone's. Your friends, family members, co workers, and relationship partner always have to be behind to your own priorities.
I should've been more selfish in my relationship. Obviously my ex-wife wasn't a team player lmao. All jokes aside do not settle everyone. I learned this lesson the hard way. Now my mindset is to be a little more selfish & tackle my goals. If people don't get it, then keep it moving. Focus on bettering yourself. Always strive for greatness.
Man bro I been telling my boys showing my boys everything you done told me , I'm near 40 , these boyz still won't listen.. you have change my life .. I'm now the evil person to a few of my friends, but honestly I became selfish now
This video finally drove it home for me! Dumped over the phone after 6 years of treating her like gold and taking care of every little thing and getting nothing in return. The back rub comment was spot on!!! Never got one of those either! Every day I give way less a F$#@ about what she thinks, where she's at, and what she's doing. Love all your videos Shaun! Thanks again!!
Today is the first time I’ve been watching your videos , after just seeing the girl I want to be with and commit to , but you’re information is helping me a lot. It’s something I already know but too pussy about it. I’m glad there’s people like you giving proper male advice, a lot of wrong advice out there. You’re a gent.
Shaun, my dude love these videos. I've shared your vids to my brothers and friends. Told them to listen carefully to what you have to say and subscribe! Bro I'm a Ball Hog now, I'm getting that MVP 💯!
You made this video just for me. It's too on time. My biggest problem is caring about what others think, how they feel and what they think I should do. Women, family, friends, etc. This video serves as confirmation that I need to be more selfish. Especially with women. Once they know you care too much, they lose ALL respect for you and attraction to you. 1,000,000 on the way. Keep up the great work. You're changing lives man!
You’re right Shaun, living to please others and being a yes man doesn’t work in the long run. Dudes shouldn’t feel bad about putting themselves first. All throughout life we will have people telling us to put ourselves last and place our women above us, but how are we gonna have our needs met if we live like that? We have to put ourselves first because we cannot count on others to do so.
I am going to watch this video 10 more times and read all the comments twice! You DA MANN and thank-you 💪 sir.... You hit the nail in the head to say the least! I appreciate you!!!!
The intro alone sank into my head straight up. This is all me always trying to please people forgetting I have myself to deal with. I already pledge to put myself first. .. Thanks for this video
Watched this one also the day I ended a recent 3 month relationship. It helped cement the strategy I had in ending the relationship. Again,uncanny insights- and no candy coating! Well done. Also, you mentioned giving back. I spent 30 years traveling the world as global corporate ex. That ended in 2021. I always said that when my corporate career came to a close-, I would give back and teach. 3 years as an Adjunct professor -and clearly NOT for the money- I found my purpose at 60. Give back. These GenZ’s need wisdom and real world experience. The most fulfilling in the world is having student thank you for your mentorship. No bonus could match that…
I need this advice. Im always helping people but who is helping me? Im certified to be a tracher but nobody helping me fit in that position as a teacher. I helped out people in college and was used but who is helping me when I need it? Nobody....
I could underline each word - born in the 50ies you had to be a 'good boy', helpful, obeyant with a feeling what others need... it took much time 1st to see the core of that game and 2nd to change yourself accordingly . I started then an authentic and true way of life with true friends a.s.f. - regards from Bavaria😊
Another fantastic video, SZ. Like another commenter wrote, this is definitely one of those conversations Dad should've put more emphasis on. I'm at a pivotal period of my life where I can work towards and realize my full potential but it'll of course involve sacrifices; your vids (along with some other resources) and the habits I adopt along the way are gonna get me there and nothing's gonna stop me from getting what I want, certainly not other people's wants or feelings. Cheers and good luck; looking forward to your content in the future. Thanks for everything 👍💪
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Bosses only care about advancing their careers
Loyalty is long gone nowadays
We need to start focusing more on ourselves and our own needs 😤😤
I love this title.
You can only reach the top by having an overwhelming sense of self and a complete disregard for others.
stayed with an ex before because i thought she would change, yea now im about me, selfishness is contageous , from a young age tought to help others, as i got more selfish over time people disliked me more, like you say who cares? the good guy gets walked on. I learnt selfishness now everyone is gone. Yay 😃
Maaaaaaan learned this shit late in life. What really blows me away is that she will give her box away to a pookie for free and let him live and eat for free and drive her car while you jump through crazy hoops for her. Know your worth kings 🤴🏿
Oh yeah, another Dad talk I didn't get growing up.
Good thing we found this channel!
@@Davidchendavid Not gonna lie man speaks the truth and it's stuff I am gonna pass down someday.
Felt like this was directly spoken to me. Thank you. I appreciate you, brother!
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You know, I do feel like this was directed to me. Been trying to please people all my life. The problem is, now that I'm being more conscious of my ego, these very persons I've been pleasing are not happy with me anymore 🙃
I was a selfish asshole when I was a kid, now I have more self control in terms of being selfish 🙏🏽🙏🏽💯
You spit gold brother,felt like you are talking to me, especially after my breakup,I gave everything for that girl and I got dumped like a piece of sh**..but no more, I've learned my lesson, thank you for your great content again! Take care brother 💪
Same
Keep on your grind bro!
@@ShaunZachary hey brother,I was wondering..do you have a discord community? I'll be glad to take part in something like this, encourage each other and post our progress
Not as of yet but I’m going to look into it bro. Thanks for the idea
Hey Shaun, love your videos brother - you talk so much truth. I was recently dumped by my girlfriend because of my anxiety - I was a people pleaser, not intentionally - I am just a nice guy. I was putting other peoples needs/shit at a higher priority than mine and I have mentally became unwell in doing so. So I will give this advice to anyone, do shit for you (obviously dont be a dick!) I have lost two long term relationships putting everyone else's needs before mine. Seriously you do you, and the rest will take care of its own.
Thanks my man 🙏🏻
You may be hated in the beginning of for being self focused, but people are going to respect you eventually if you put your needs, goals, and peace of mind over anyone's. Your friends, family members, co workers, and relationship partner always have to be behind to your own priorities.
We at 7K people. Shout out to everyone who was here before 1k! Let's hit this 100K mark.
💯 appreciate you fam
This video is absolute wisdom!
Thank you Coach Zachary.
I should've been more selfish in my relationship. Obviously my ex-wife wasn't a team player lmao.
All jokes aside do not settle everyone.
I learned this lesson the hard way. Now my mindset is to be a little more selfish & tackle my goals. If people don't get it, then keep it moving. Focus on bettering yourself. Always strive for greatness.
Facts!
You’re the goat. Man on purpose and knows what he wants. Thank you for this channel and being real. God speed
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do one on how her friends & family come first lol
Man bro I been telling my boys showing my boys everything you done told me , I'm near 40 , these boyz still won't listen.. you have change my life .. I'm now the evil person to a few of my friends, but honestly I became selfish now
This is my national anthem!
5:38, you repped that hard lol. Another banger!
This video finally drove it home for me! Dumped over the phone after 6 years of treating her like gold and taking care of every little thing and getting nothing in return. The back rub comment was spot on!!! Never got one of those either! Every day I give way less a F$#@ about what she thinks, where she's at, and what she's doing. Love all your videos Shaun! Thanks again!!
Salute bro ✊🏼
The realest shit I’ve heard,
Boundaries must be set for everyone in life, If they are not ok with you putting yourself first then fuck em💯👍🏻
Big facts brodie
The more you do for someone the worse will come
No good deed goes unpunished
Today is the first time I’ve been watching your videos , after just seeing the girl I want to be with and commit to , but you’re information is helping me a lot. It’s something I already know but too pussy about it. I’m glad there’s people like you giving proper male advice, a lot of wrong advice out there. You’re a gent.
Appreciate it bro!
Shaun, my dude love these videos. I've shared your vids to my brothers and friends. Told them to listen carefully to what you have to say and subscribe! Bro I'm a Ball Hog now, I'm getting that MVP 💯!
Lock in bro! Good shit
You made this video just for me. It's too on time. My biggest problem is caring about what others think, how they feel and what they think I should do. Women, family, friends, etc. This video serves as confirmation that I need to be more selfish. Especially with women. Once they know you care too much, they lose ALL respect for you and attraction to you. 1,000,000 on the way. Keep up the great work. You're changing lives man!
I appreciate the kind words, bro. Happy to know I can help! ✊🏼
Just wanna tell you youre the same. Its natural to feel an attraction towards a women who respects herself and makes decisions to serve herself
You’re right Shaun, living to please others and being a yes man doesn’t work in the long run. Dudes shouldn’t feel bad about putting themselves first. All throughout life we will have people telling us to put ourselves last and place our women above us, but how are we gonna have our needs met if we live like that? We have to put ourselves first because we cannot count on others to do so.
such a critical message
I am going to watch this video 10 more times and read all the comments twice! You DA MANN and thank-you 💪 sir....
You hit the nail in the head to say the least!
I appreciate you!!!!
Salute🫡
The intro alone sank into my head straight up. This is all me always trying to please people forgetting I have myself to deal with. I already pledge to put myself first. .. Thanks for this video
The best channel. We the prize fellas. Let’s gooooo
I like this dudes attitude and how he talks.I wish this type of dude was around when I was in my early 20s.Good job man👍🏽💯
Man you're talking directly to me! Exactly what I needed to hear, you are the real deal bro,keep up the good work. Grateful for the education.
Another 1 I’m ready for it. Bouta add this to myself
Great message! Gen Z’ers absolutely needs to know this
Bro there's moments in your videos you just crack me up I really enjoy your videos Man they help me get through the day at work no cap
Thanks for watching bro 💪🏼
Glad you’re spreading that word Fam!
Watched this one also the day I ended a recent 3 month relationship. It helped cement the strategy I had in ending the relationship. Again,uncanny insights- and no candy coating! Well done. Also, you mentioned giving back. I spent 30 years traveling the world as global corporate ex. That ended in 2021. I always said that when my corporate career came to a close-, I would give back and teach. 3 years as an Adjunct professor -and clearly NOT for the money- I found my purpose at 60. Give back. These GenZ’s need wisdom and real world experience. The most fulfilling in the world is having student thank you for your mentorship. No bonus could match that…
this man is talking sense; humans are never satisfied no matter your sacrifice to help them.
I need this advice. Im always helping people but who is helping me? Im certified to be a tracher but nobody helping me fit in that position as a teacher. I helped out people in college and was used but who is helping me when I need it? Nobody....
8:39 Lol lol lol lol lol 😂😆
I absolutely agree with you sir.
Cheers to 7k subs!
Thanks my man 🙏🏻
I could underline each word - born in the 50ies you had to be a 'good boy', helpful, obeyant with a feeling what others need...
it took much time 1st to see the core of that game and 2nd to change yourself accordingly . I started then an authentic and true way of life with true friends a.s.f. - regards from Bavaria😊
this HIT HOME jesus christ
Quite class. Class in session
The professor
💯
Don't be a good guy but be kind.
Preach...I LEARNED A LONG TIME AGO, I COME FIRST,AND STOP TRYING TO SAVE THE WORLD.TEAM ME!!!
Congratulations on 10k subscribers my friend
Thanks fam!
Put yourself first and pay yourself first.
I’m out here binging your playlist.🙌🏾🙌🏾🔥🔥🔥 Fire content.
Good shit bro watch em all- they’re all good 👍🏼
Bro it's a matter of time before your channel blows! You've been a massive help, thanks for all your tips and advice dude!
Thanks my guy 🙏🏻
I truly appreciate you my brother
Good shit!!
Real talk!
Pure facts spoken 💯
Came with the energy on this one
Always look forward to your vids great content
🙏🏻 thanks fam
Preach it bro👏
This dudes motivation is much needed. Thank you brother ❤️🔥
Hell yeah. It took me a long time to get this and be confident enough. I've saved this just in case I need it again. Thx man.
Another fantastic video, SZ. Like another commenter wrote, this is definitely one of those conversations Dad should've put more emphasis on.
I'm at a pivotal period of my life where I can work towards and realize my full potential but it'll of course involve sacrifices; your vids (along with some other resources) and the habits I adopt along the way are gonna get me there and nothing's gonna stop me from getting what I want, certainly not other people's wants or feelings.
Cheers and good luck; looking forward to your content in the future. Thanks for everything 👍💪
Thanks fam ✊🏼 Stay on your P’s and Q’s bro and keep grinding. It’s only ⬆️ from here!
Once you realize dad wants you to be just miserable as him least most dads
Preach!
That Sh*t Hits Hard🔥
Keep it Goin🙏
Facts!!!
Bless you 😊
On point brother
The big brother I never had!
Shaun the man Zachary!
thanks brother
Great video
Introducing my teenage siblings to your channel.
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Thanks fam!
Agreed 👍🏿
keep up word for word
life saving advice God bless
Truth city
💯 right.
Much-needed Uploads shaun kindly this Boss deserves from us more and more sharing ,How can we get 100.0000k with in this year.bravo coach
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You therapy bro keep going 💪🏿💪🏿
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Another great upload Zach 😎
Real talk.......
My dude 🙏🏻
Rated E for everyone🔥
One the best videos man
True
Please upload more on mindset’s and and about woman ! These woman are fuckin pain in the ass
The truth!
💯💯
Bruh 😎💯
Wisdom
Hey bro I like your background music can you share i would like to listen
It’s called “Paradox”!
Is there a way to coach with you in personal session
Yep hit me up at shaunzachary.com
Lol he a lil harsh, but he speaks facts..
Learned the hard way
Guys need to be more selfish 🤣