@@stfu6397I'm actually glad that Mr sturmey doesn't get millions of views,this way he always creates genuine content rather than what will sell,he's definitely the best in the game for sure though no question
Years ago a friend of mine worked at a UK call center for a massive Nasdaq company. They decided to shut down that operation and manage it all from Canada. Something like 150 staff were going to be let go. The Canadian HQ approached my friend and 5 other people. They explained those 6 people had been identified as the best workers, and the company wanted the 6 of them to go to Canada and work there as part of the new setup. My friend wanted to go, but he felt torn because he knew he'd be leaving his workmates behind. He felt bad as they'd all lost their jobs. He was close to declining the offer to go, until I told him he was f'king crazy not to go. In the end he did (and I went to visit him one Christmas). It was one of the best decisions he made and it genuinely changed his life. FWIW, after his old work friends find out he was going, they all accused him of stabbing them in the back. The truth is, they'd have all done the same. As Kris said: you have to be ruthless and look after yourself first. Life is player vs. player; don't be the dweeb who's left behind.
from a young age I always listened to others, I never did what I wanted or did something because it would benefit me and not somebody else. It's a tough lesson to learn because you only really get the reality check once you see others living the life you want and your lagging behind, but once you do, life gets so much better in the long term
Any friend who drags you down is not your friend. He should be happy he left those bums behind. Imagine a work friend saying If i cant go you cant go. Shit is ridiculous, my friends wouldnt even think a thought like that let alone say it. They would be happy for my success. Thats some hood mentality crab in a bucket shit...
A girl I'm dating recently told me it's attractive that I put myself first in my life. I told her that as an adult, nobody is gonna look out for you, so you need to be the one to take care of yourself and be proactive about getting the life you want. If you don't prioritize your own goals, you'll end up just working forever on other people's goals-like helping your boss get his goals, or helping your family get their goals, but never getting what *you* actually want. If you don't put yourself first in your life, your happiness will either be an accident or never happen at all.
ahh i felt this video on a soul level. guys will dislike you when your doing well especially when woman are involved. helps weed out the bad people like you mentioned.
Broken 2 times, like one for ex, one for family...lowest been life...but God was by my side all the time..grateful to him im back..and the most fun part is even tho painful it was, not its sweet and stronger comeback
This is so fkn relatable. I've felt so alone in my success cause of all the "friends" I've lost. Feels good to know that it's something everyone goes through. The shit talking behind your back, back handed comments, not being happy for your success, secretly wishing for your downfall. I will never forget telling one of my friends about an investment that went tits up. The smug delight on his face while he basically said I told you so even though he doesn't know shit about fk when it comes to making money. That was the beginning of the end of our friendship. Known him since we were kids.
Ngl broke up w my shawty the other day, 3yrs, I couldn’t lie to myself and tell myself i was still happy after everything we had been through. The more you keep lying to yourself the deeper your life will fall into seasons and cycles you dont like fellas. Truth be told i never shouldve been in the relationship but instead of sticking to how i felt years ago i twisted out of scarcity. Sit down with your selves men, really get to know what you want, if i had listened to the teachings of Kris more thoroughly i coulda saved myself alot if heart ache. My friend told me the same thing, “you gotta be selfish and focus on you, youll know when your ready for that stuff again”.
I have really learnt on my Self Improvement journey, that Kris is the only guy worth listening too. So many 'Influencers' are faking it and switch up. I love Hamza and will be eternally grateful for all he has done but he's constantly recycling his content and switches up what he preaches all the time. Your the real one Kris. Hope this helps anyone who struggles to know who to listen too, on their personal journey!
Same boat here, Hamza changed my life and got me onto self improvement but lately he's been too inconsistent and childish. I prefer listening to Kris, he's more mature and serious.
@@Rin-id2sd exactly man, he’s doing stuff like that man. I think he is a genuine guy but he’s too contradictory and I think he’s lost a lot of his older audience because of that
So much truth here. Drank a lot from 13 years and then when I was 22 I just realised what a waste it was getting hammered and quit after getting arrested for scrapping a copper. Reaction from some of my closest pals at that time was visceral, “weirdo” etc Now we’re in our 30s some of those lads have severe social anxiety and are now quitting booze but without the decade of gains I had realised in the same period.
Man, tnaks for giveng me more hope and optimism! Descover your channel recantly, as a 17 yo brokie, and watching your vids I get so confident about my future. Also tnx to Hamza who told me about this channel!
I missed out on a huge opportunity to model for a high fashion brand this week… All because I asked my manager at my day job for time off instead of just pulling a sick day (so I did the moral thing, but wasn’t selfish and I lost out.) Mixed emotions about this :/ ahahaha
For me my craft is before any job. If my team got me on a first team match call up. I will pull a sick day. The job is simply there to get me money. If I get fired, so be it, there’s other jobs around.
Having a big goal like wanting to live in another country has made me selfish, job, gym, online business, doing the same thing every day to make that goal a reality
“The most important part of one’s environment is that cre- ated by his association with others. All people absorb and take over, either consciously or unconsciously, the thought-habits o f those with whom they associate closely.”
What you said at the beginning of the video is 100% accurate, well for me personally. I was hanging with couple of people last week. We talked about girls for the majority of the time, which made me feel like I should hop back on dating apps and create a dope instagram in order to attract women. It was almost like I was getting sucked back into everything I am running from. They are good people, and I would certainly hang out with them again but it is important to keep your goal on the front of your mind and not get distracted easily.
15:34 this reminds me of andy griffith. he was from a small town in north carolina, and everyone there at the time didn't like him due to him leaving for hollywood. my family was distantly related to him and they apparently didn't like him because he didn't come to the family reunions. It's ironic Mt. Airy's entire thing now is being branded as the place where he grew up lol. This stuff you're talking about has been true for a long time.
So true on people giving you jealous vibes. Had to leave me old friend group as well after the loads of back hand comments that they make seem like jokes but it’s really what they mean lol
“One's intimate associates should be chosen with as much care as one chooses the food with which he feeds his body, with the object always of associating with people whose dominating thoughts are positive, friendly, and harmonious.” -outwitting The Devil.
Great video honestly I've learnt this the easy way. Sooo glad I came across your UA-cam account last month been enjoying your content much needed content for us men in our 20s
Thats why I'm always on my own and don't have ppl around me. Everyone preaches good stuff and success until you reach it. Afterall it's good to be an outcast and isolated by choice or whatnot
The hardest moment in your life is when you get something really great happening in your life because this is the moment you see the real face of everyone. This is the hardest but the best.
Nothing is more fun than going into a new environment and meeting people, assembling a crew, and going to see what’s out there. Then when it gets old dissapear and do it again. (Also those little comments are called little murders)
16:13 Selfish men succeed. I probably operated mostly with this being agreed-upon in my head, but not in the subconscious part. I saw the few obvious ones, but there were some others that were really fucking close, and and full of animosity, resentment, and pointless distain in their heads, but not to my face, and certainly not because of anything experienced from my actions or words wherever I spoke them. I don’t care so much now and I wish them well. I feel bad for, actually. It’s all just a game we’re playing and it’s not the kind with opponents. Really sucked learning for a couple of them.
It’s a shame that you can’t push on with what you believe will benefit the brand. Even if you just made the same videos like you did in 2020, you know for a fact people would be like “ugh, he just makes the same videos over and he never made any improvement.” So don’t worry about those guys, we back you on what you believe in, you’ve given us too much already.
Hey Chris. I have always wondered what you do to think the way you do? Is it journaling, writing, stuff like that, or something else? Keep it up with the great content.
Believe it or not guys, at 58 I believe my life is only just beginning. Having the best sex ever with my beautiful girlfriend, lots of creative hobbies and retiring in 2 years . Im going to be travelling the world balling on a budget. I'm jacked and always lived clean. Haven't conquered the world but lucky to have a stress free government job, access to lots of overtime, working 5 on 5 off.
14:00 the other side of that which sucks is when you surround yourself with entrepreneurial winners, and even though you fully support them and all of their financial success but you haven't gotten there yet yourself, they drop you because you've become "a part of their past"... in my scenario, I became boring and non-driven to this person because I still wanted to hangout with him and talk about things besides money and status.
It always annoys me when people say "your friends from childhood are your real friends." Implying that the friends you make when you're successful are fake. Sure in some instances that's true. But do you really think that people dont change? Do you think that people have the same interests when they're in school all the way through their lives? It also pisses me off when people say "money chaned him." Or maybe he changed who he is, as a result he got the money.
Hmmm there are reasons outside an individuals control in regards to not being able to get women, it totally depends on the women in a place being approachable in the first place which in the UK are not, maybe in other cultures but the UK is one of the most challenging for sure
Hey Kris can you break down your earnings? I want to make $50k a month and understanding your streams would really help me materialize my goals. Thanks!
At 58 I was until recently going to get married when I retire at 60. After watching "Men never get what they want" I realised I've got to be selfish and not get married and not live together either. I love my life, I don't need that shit.
@@lamborghinicentenario2497 they got their money back. Not a single comment complaining about that except you. Grow some decency and stop trying to ruin someone's brand over nothing
You're the only wise ,mature guy in the industry man,no brainrot no eye cocaine,just pure mature and well made content,cheers
@@stfu6397 I was about to mention Rich - he's definitely said / done questionable things, but pretty on point for most of the time.
@@stfu6397I'm actually glad that Mr sturmey doesn't get millions of views,this way he always creates genuine content rather than what will sell,he's definitely the best in the game for sure though no question
@@JoeBidensdememtiapills If he thinks that, then yeah he is. If he thinks every guy should aim and strive for it, that's different.
Years ago a friend of mine worked at a UK call center for a massive Nasdaq company. They decided to shut down that operation and manage it all from Canada. Something like 150 staff were going to be let go.
The Canadian HQ approached my friend and 5 other people. They explained those 6 people had been identified as the best workers, and the company wanted the 6 of them to go to Canada and work there as part of the new setup.
My friend wanted to go, but he felt torn because he knew he'd be leaving his workmates behind. He felt bad as they'd all lost their jobs.
He was close to declining the offer to go, until I told him he was f'king crazy not to go. In the end he did (and I went to visit him one Christmas). It was one of the best decisions he made and it genuinely changed his life.
FWIW, after his old work friends find out he was going, they all accused him of stabbing them in the back. The truth is, they'd have all done the same.
As Kris said: you have to be ruthless and look after yourself first. Life is player vs. player; don't be the dweeb who's left behind.
from a young age I always listened to others, I never did what I wanted or did something because it would benefit me and not somebody else. It's a tough lesson to learn because you only really get the reality check once you see others living the life you want and your lagging behind, but once you do, life gets so much better in the long term
Real
Any friend who drags you down is not your friend. He should be happy he left those bums behind. Imagine a work friend saying If i cant go you cant go. Shit is ridiculous, my friends wouldnt even think a thought like that let alone say it. They would be happy for my success. Thats some hood mentality crab in a bucket shit...
A girl I'm dating recently told me it's attractive that I put myself first in my life. I told her that as an adult, nobody is gonna look out for you, so you need to be the one to take care of yourself and be proactive about getting the life you want. If you don't prioritize your own goals, you'll end up just working forever on other people's goals-like helping your boss get his goals, or helping your family get their goals, but never getting what *you* actually want. If you don't put yourself first in your life, your happiness will either be an accident or never happen at all.
Exactly 💯
Women who actually like you are turned on by the fact that you're selfish and put yourself first and don't engage in people pleasing
SMP looks great
what does SMP even mean
@@attainascendscalp micro pigmentation
@@attainascend the hair tattoo
1stman posts I watch, it don't matter what I'm watching currently
Same!
Ah yes, slobbin on another man's knob over your own projects, very high value
yes.
Yes☕️☕️☕️☕️
Best thing about 1M is that he's true to himself. He aint trynna make his videos look and sound like everybody else. Such a breath of fresh air man.
ahh i felt this video on a soul level. guys will dislike you when your doing well especially when woman are involved. helps weed out the bad people like you mentioned.
Broken 2 times, like one for ex, one for family...lowest been life...but God was by my side all the time..grateful to him im back..and the most fun part is even tho painful it was, not its sweet and stronger comeback
This is so fkn relatable. I've felt so alone in my success cause of all the "friends" I've lost. Feels good to know that it's something everyone goes through. The shit talking behind your back, back handed comments, not being happy for your success, secretly wishing for your downfall.
I will never forget telling one of my friends about an investment that went tits up. The smug delight on his face while he basically said I told you so even though he doesn't know shit about fk when it comes to making money. That was the beginning of the end of our friendship. Known him since we were kids.
Ngl broke up w my shawty the other day, 3yrs, I couldn’t lie to myself and tell myself i was still happy after everything we had been through. The more you keep lying to yourself the deeper your life will fall into seasons and cycles you dont like fellas. Truth be told i never shouldve been in the relationship but instead of sticking to how i felt years ago i twisted out of scarcity. Sit down with your selves men, really get to know what you want, if i had listened to the teachings of Kris more thoroughly i coulda saved myself alot if heart ache. My friend told me the same thing, “you gotta be selfish and focus on you, youll know when your ready for that stuff again”.
I have really learnt on my Self Improvement journey, that Kris is the only guy worth listening too. So many 'Influencers' are faking it and switch up. I love Hamza and will be eternally grateful for all he has done but he's constantly recycling his content and switches up what he preaches all the time. Your the real one Kris. Hope this helps anyone who struggles to know who to listen too, on their personal journey!
Same boat here, Hamza changed my life and got me onto self improvement but lately he's been too inconsistent and childish. I prefer listening to Kris, he's more mature and serious.
Hamza said he will NEVER ne on instagram again after they banned him. Now he blue checkmarked 😂
@@Rin-id2sd exactly man, he’s doing stuff like that man. I think he is a genuine guy but he’s too contradictory and I think he’s lost a lot of his older audience because of that
So much truth here. Drank a lot from 13 years and then when I was 22 I just realised what a waste it was getting hammered and quit after getting arrested for scrapping a copper.
Reaction from some of my closest pals at that time was visceral, “weirdo” etc
Now we’re in our 30s some of those lads have severe social anxiety and are now quitting booze but without the decade of gains I had realised in the same period.
So many people make fun of this guy on TikTok 😂 but icl he speaks straight fact
Fuck tiktok lol
@@rockyblumble just a bunch of little kids on that app
@@gsftbeast9761facts tik tok full of clowns.
I've been binging 1stmsn lately. I'm very happy there's a new upload!
Being alone is hard AF but it's the only way make leaps of progress in small amount of time
Man, tnaks for giveng me more hope and optimism! Descover your channel recantly, as a 17 yo brokie, and watching your vids I get so confident about my future.
Also tnx to Hamza who told me about this channel!
I missed out on a huge opportunity to model for a high fashion brand this week…
All because I asked my manager at my day job for time off instead of just pulling a sick day (so I did the moral thing, but wasn’t selfish and I lost out.)
Mixed emotions about this :/ ahahaha
That’s a tough one… at least your a man with values.
@@fabioouattara561thanks bro. I have my integrity but £600 poorer haha
For me my craft is before any job. If my team got me on a first team match call up. I will pull a sick day. The job is simply there to get me money. If I get fired, so be it, there’s other jobs around.
@@drillingig2368 trust me, I learn from my mistakes.
I was too trusting last time. Haha
hey man i think i can add something to your UA-cam and social media presence ... let me know if you are open to it we can have a quick meeting.
Having a big goal like wanting to live in another country has made me selfish, job, gym, online business, doing the same thing every day to make that goal a reality
“The most important part of one’s environment is that cre- ated by his association with others. All people absorb and take over, either consciously or unconsciously, the thought-habits o f those with whom they associate closely.”
glad to see the platform is up and running
He's charging lifetime guys though
i am lifetime did not pay since and can still access so wtf are you on? @@PredatorSoulfly
I was in the middle of a 2 hour podcast and then I see Chris post, I easily ended it to watch some 1stman!!
First man you are one of very few men in this space that has gone up in competence, attractiveness at the same time.
Perfect timing with this video. Cut off and blocked all of my loser friends today. Been wanting to do this for years now finally had the courage to
What you said at the beginning of the video is 100% accurate, well for me personally. I was hanging with couple of people last week. We talked about girls for the majority of the time, which made me feel like I should hop back on dating apps and create a dope instagram in order to attract women. It was almost like I was getting sucked back into everything I am running from. They are good people, and I would certainly hang out with them again but it is important to keep your goal on the front of your mind and not get distracted easily.
“constant association with a person whose thought-habits are negative influences one to form negative thought-habits”
Devils always wants to drag you down to their level. Most of what people consider “friends” are indeed devils, don’t be deceived, get away from them.
True friends feel your win sand loses as part of their own. Same team.
I just watched Part I and man, the contrast in both versions of you - inspiring. Currently 29 and on the same path. Salute
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15:34 this reminds me of andy griffith. he was from a small town in north carolina, and everyone there at the time didn't like him due to him leaving for hollywood. my family was distantly related to him and they apparently didn't like him because he didn't come to the family reunions. It's ironic Mt. Airy's entire thing now is being branded as the place where he grew up lol. This stuff you're talking about has been true for a long time.
So true on people giving you jealous vibes. Had to leave me old friend group as well after the loads of back hand comments that they make seem like jokes but it’s really what they mean lol
Happy to see your progression over the years Kris. Been watching your content for the last 3 and a half years. Great stuff
“One's intimate associates should be chosen with as much care as one chooses the food with which he feeds his body, with the object always of associating with people whose dominating thoughts are positive, friendly, and harmonious.” -outwitting The Devil.
Okay guys, we've got a BUNCH of videos here
fucking love these comments everytime hahaha
That scene in good will hunting when chuckie told will to not waste his potential was an emotional scene
Great video honestly I've learnt this the easy way. Sooo glad I came across your UA-cam account last month been enjoying your content much needed content for us men in our 20s
Great video Kris! Thank you for this valuable message as I really needed to hear that as a young man who is trying to level up in all areas of life.
I swear this video's so simple yet so profound 🔥👌
Thats why I'm always on my own and don't have ppl around me. Everyone preaches good stuff and success until you reach it. Afterall it's good to be an outcast and isolated by choice or whatnot
woof woof looking good
1st let's go
Would you consider doing a meet and greet.
Live Q and A
The hardest moment in your life is when you get something really great happening in your life because this is the moment you see the real face of everyone. This is the hardest but the best.
Those people are pretty much everywhere it’s overwhelming
Keep up the videos man. Love it
Nothing is more fun than going into a new environment and meeting people, assembling a crew, and going to see what’s out there. Then when it gets old dissapear and do it again. (Also those little comments are called little murders)
Love the recent uploads Kris, keep it up
16:13 Selfish men succeed. I probably operated mostly with this being agreed-upon in my head, but not in the subconscious part.
I saw the few obvious ones, but there were some others that were really fucking close, and and full of animosity, resentment, and pointless distain in their heads, but not to my face, and certainly not because of anything experienced from my actions or words wherever I spoke them.
I don’t care so much now and I wish them well. I feel bad for, actually. It’s all just a game we’re playing and it’s not the kind with opponents. Really sucked learning for a couple of them.
It’s a shame that you can’t push on with what you believe will benefit the brand. Even if you just made the same videos like you did in 2020, you know for a fact people would be like “ugh, he just makes the same videos over and he never made any improvement.” So don’t worry about those guys, we back you on what you believe in, you’ve given us too much already.
Hey Chris. I have always wondered what you do to think the way you do? Is it journaling, writing, stuff like that, or something else?
Keep it up with the great content.
Believe it or not guys, at 58 I believe my life is only just beginning. Having the best sex ever with my beautiful girlfriend, lots of creative hobbies and retiring in 2 years . Im going to be travelling the world balling on a budget. I'm jacked and always lived clean. Haven't conquered the world but lucky to have a stress free government job, access to lots of overtime, working 5 on 5 off.
Last night I was watching balling on a budget yet again when I received the balling on a budget email. Nice.
Yes new drop!
14:00 the other side of that which sucks is when you surround yourself with entrepreneurial winners, and even though you fully support them and all of their financial success but you haven't gotten there yet yourself, they drop you because you've become "a part of their past"... in my scenario, I became boring and non-driven to this person because I still wanted to hangout with him and talk about things besides money and status.
ty for your advice. It really helps 🔥
The blue card is a great idea they’ve had it for indoor soccer forever
Interesting take on the blue card, it might work
The movie/series is a dope idea man.
Can u make a video on ur opinion on credit and the ability to borrow money?
Great video
When 1M posts a video you listen.
'selfish' is relative
It always annoys me when people say "your friends from childhood are your real friends." Implying that the friends you make when you're successful are fake. Sure in some instances that's true. But do you really think that people dont change? Do you think that people have the same interests when they're in school all the way through their lives?
It also pisses me off when people say "money chaned him." Or maybe he changed who he is, as a result he got the money.
Bro that is so true for real! People in my class are talking about that i do cringe uploads and stuff. But I also dont care.
Why did you even Tell them
@@sdfsdf928 If you upload on the internet, whole school knows it after a few days because everyone else are losers who have nothing going on
I enjoyed this video and related to the truth in it. Thanks
Hmmm there are reasons outside an individuals control in regards to not being able to get women, it totally depends on the women in a place being approachable in the first place which in the UK are not, maybe in other cultures but the UK is one of the most challenging for sure
Do you not ship to Germany? I've tried getting your supplement but it seems Germany isn't an available option to ship to.
I love that jacket of yours, it gives you that masculine boss vibes with a cozy warm feeling. Suits you perfectly...
Where can I buy one?
Just type in flight jacket with fur collar on Google
Fucking brilliant video, well delivered aswell.
Again.
The supplement does NOT ship to germany!!!! Why?!Can we PLEASE fix this?
Hey Kris can you break down your earnings? I want to make $50k a month and understanding your streams would really help me materialize my goals. Thanks!
You can put the pieces together fairly quickly. But if you can’t, email him.
Gracias 🇲🇽
I’m having a hard time leaving my old friends behind even though there not good friends to me any advice?
At 58 I was until recently going to get married when I retire at 60. After watching "Men never get what they want" I realised I've got to be selfish and not get married and not live together either. I love my life, I don't need that shit.
I think selfish men is the wrong word it's all about knowing your value and caring about yourself and your future
1:13 start
Where do I get that jacket?
I agree but what’s if it’s about your family…
the pep guardiola of life.
Can you other payments methods? I would like to pay by crypto
9:55 lol, so funny
Where do you get that jacket fam
Agree
@1stMan where can I find part one?
Search bar.
Free shipping worldwide
The grift continues,unashamedly
Hey Kris, have you thought about starting a skool platform? would be great for this community
Yes please
Lethes goooo!
Kris is so real, this is amazing content, keep going
Damn this vid so fkn fax
Chris is fucking funny man
THIS is exactly what happened to me .... your friends turn on you .
🎯
1:27 Bruh
20:58 😂😂😂😂 faaakin el
Be too selfish and your reputation will go down mate
Refund the lifetime guys who you charged on top of the "lifetime donation"
You're not helping@@PredatorSoulfly
@@lamborghinicentenario2497 they got their money back. Not a single comment complaining about that except you. Grow some decency and stop trying to ruin someone's brand over nothing
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Soho house is not a very successful business - its never turned a profit. Other than that, great vid
she's a good women mate ✊, you could do worse 😆😆
😮12Q
"promosm" 💖