Can An Emotional Affair Become The Real Thing?
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Past trauma has a funny way of driving us into the worst kinds of relationships. A warm body or a diamond ring can feel like a little island of respite from the ocean of fear, shame and loneliness that often overwhelm's people with Childhood PTSD. So what happens when you wake up after the wedding and discover that real love is nowhere insight - or nowhere in the marriage, anyway. In this video I respond to a letter from a woman who is having an emotional affair that shows signs of being the relationship where she belongs. But can a good relationship every really result when it begins in secrecy and lies?
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This Good lesson and advice. To learn from.
Thanks for watching and taking the time to comment! -Calista@TeamFairy
Limerance in Art is Magic. Limerance in Life is CPTSD.
And I would also say, do not wait for him. Go on and live your life. I am sure something good will come out of it and
maybe, quite possibly, I think, it will have nothing to do with R.
You have become my virtual online therapist, a friend, and an elder sister I never had ❤❤😊
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He could be using you as excuse to get out of a relationship hes in. And if he doesn't have good self control. You could be right back in the same toxic relationship. I would put time and space between the two of you. And take it slow. When the mask comes off. Then you'll see his true colors. And maybe your yearning for something that may or may not happen. You'll have to work at no matter what happens. I hope the best for both of you.
R is bad news. Don’t trust anyone who is using and fooling another woman just to not be lonely.
Thank you Amanda for your letter, i relate a lot to your story, like it's ❤ or limerence.
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I almost got swept up in an emotional affair myself.
I became friends with another author a few months ago. He told me that he was stuck in an unhappy marriage with a woman who disrespects him and their children treat him badly. I felt sorry for him but as I don't have relationships with married/dating men, I thought that boundary was clear.
Well, he decided to test and see if my boundary was real and I soon realized that he had actually been flirting. I cut off all contact and moved on.
Honestly? If they're willing to do it for you, they're just as willing to do it to you.
Amanda take some time to heal first before you even consider him. i would just leave him alone for a while even if he comes seeking you. find out who you are as a person and what you really want, not just what you can crap-fit into your life.
Yes!!!! Take time for yourself and work on self!!!! Don’t be in a hurry to get into another relationship!!!
I just stay single... problem solved...
If its an emotional affair its already *"REAL"*
Hi anna mam
I am just commenting here to say thank you for you youtube videos
I have been recently following your youtube videos
I constantly blame myself for learning disability & emotional dysfunction
Your videos made me feel that i am ok to be like this and it is not my fault
Thank you ❤
Glad you are here! Thank you for taking the time to comment and for sharing your kind words towards Anna!
Nika@TeamFairy
I'm with someone, I do love him, but not in-love. I'm in love with my best friend, whom I don't see much, because it wouldn't be right. My heart's desire would be to be with her, Sarah ❤❤❤❤
Imagine if we all would live doing the best thing....the right choices. No, I can't imagine
that
Or he married her but he's in love with someone else.
I have questions i what know please can every relationship coach could answer i would be happy
1 if i was dating Morgan i starting seeing my ex boyfriend Stephen start to make emotional attachment to Stephen i when i know him from school to college by texting him and meeting up and talking to Stephen on phone and thinking about him and watching films with him without never never having no sex ? Is it emotional cheating
2 can i have affair without never never having sex.
3 is it really affair without having no sex
4 can i have emotional and physical affair without having no sex?
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Nika@TeamFairy
Cheating is cheating, Amanda. Still a distraction from whatever the real issues are. Everyone involved was unfaithful. What about working on selves and not tossing the marriage?
The letter said that her husband physically abused her and cheated on her, there isn‘t a need to work on a ‚marriage‘ like that. You just need to leave. Ideally right away without prolonging it with the distraction of an emotional affair.
There was a lot there. I forgot the part about physical abuse. Thought it was one of the other partners. Makes better sense now👍🏽.
I don‘t think it‘s healthy to even want to be with someone who is emotionally cheating for years and won‘t break off that marriage even when you ARE single but only when you give him a guarantee that you will be with him and he can hop on the next relationship. He is betraying and using his wife. And even on the off chance that he doesn‘t do the same thing to Amanda this shows serious cowardice and other weaknesses of his character that are bound to show up in other areas of life.
The same is true for Amanda and her ways of coping. I did the same things and it took two years of being without a partner and facing these deep pains and fears to get real change.