Feminine Persona Always Brings a Man to You

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  • Опубліковано 10 гру 2024

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  • @kimberlyboyd5150
    @kimberlyboyd5150 5 років тому +1429

    I used to think that I didnt want to play games...until I learned (much older) that you better at least learn the game because it's being played whether I like it or not. Keep preaching and teaching

    • @MelissaWatt
      @MelissaWatt 5 років тому +21

      Kimberly Boyd truth

    • @TheDstinfrared34
      @TheDstinfrared34 5 років тому +59

      I'm coming to grips with this b/c I never wanted to play in the game but you're right..i better at least know how it's played.

    • @tajthegreatone9326
      @tajthegreatone9326 5 років тому +86

      I've been saying this for years. Know the game or become a victim of it. No exceptions.

    • @cc_chi123
      @cc_chi123 5 років тому +48

      Exactly. I learned it just this year (super late) and I'm trying to help my friends but they all say "I don't want to play games" and I'm like... it's already being played, you just don't know it.

    • @brittany1484
      @brittany1484 5 років тому +4

      Yup! So true

  • @Roses-Peonies
    @Roses-Peonies 6 років тому +1662

    This dusty said to me, "i thought you were a strong woman". I said, "i thought you were a real man, apparently we are not right for one another".

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 6 років тому +50

      👏👏👏👏👏👏😚

    • @vfree4579
      @vfree4579 6 років тому +55

      That was some quick thinking🤔 I like that and that was too funny girl🙊. I thought you was a strong woman💪 clap back I thought you was a real man🦍😛. I know that Dusty mouth was left wide open😣😦🤤🤥😲.

    • @stephe.8818
      @stephe.8818 6 років тому +88

      I freaking love what you did woman! No dusties allowed.

    • @TatiSaysSo
      @TatiSaysSo 5 років тому +34

      He tried it!

    • @HabitualLover
      @HabitualLover 5 років тому +22

      @@TatiSaysSo ...and he failed! 💣💥 😎 Enough is enough. With her simple response, I suddenly believe the future is looking bright for women tired of being gaslit. 🎉

  • @kathygadson7874
    @kathygadson7874 6 років тому +1221

    My favorite story about my parents is the one where my mother did not accept the first engagement ring from my father...she told him the ring was too small for her and that he could do better...he actually came back with a bigger ring...and the rest is history...she was the ONLY stay at home mother that I knew growing up...All the other mothers Worked...my father worked two jobs and always brought the money home!!!
    This my first time watching you!

    • @sophiemoreau3049
      @sophiemoreau3049 6 років тому +1

      J

    • @zlajaibra394
      @zlajaibra394 6 років тому +8

      He a Fucking beta to the bone!!

    • @wonhoptoo
      @wonhoptoo 6 років тому +204

      ALPHA. He never gave up on her.
      He GOT her and kept her. ALPHA

    • @unbothereddee6518
      @unbothereddee6518 6 років тому +34

      That's beautiful

    • @siri7atma668
      @siri7atma668 5 років тому +62

      Kathy Gadson Thanks for your story I actually did the same thing My now husband bought me what I thought was a tacky ring haa haa so now I wear a nice emerald and diamond ring, never give in to cheap
      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @stephaniemartin5693
    @stephaniemartin5693 6 років тому +832

    Ladies...You cannot compare yourself to celebrities!!! You are not rich or famous. The men cardi b attract are dusties at heart but they have money now. Believe me, they still act like dusties.

    • @brtzcake
      @brtzcake 6 років тому +48

      true

    • @daisygoodwin7680
      @daisygoodwin7680 5 років тому +28

      True she did get cheated on by her baby daddy

    • @KayShinds
      @KayShinds 5 років тому +9

      You’re so right!!

    • @kharizmacobb4690
      @kharizmacobb4690 5 років тому +6

      Stephanie Martin perfect point

    • @Thatslaw
      @Thatslaw 5 років тому +31

      Stephanie Martin before cardi and offset were married he tried to charge her for a feature before she had gotten big. A real bf wouldn’t have tried to charge her. And she got mad 😂

  • @MichelePearl
    @MichelePearl Рік тому +299

    I am a licensed therapist and I am telling you this woman is a genius! ❤

  • @dyembag
    @dyembag 6 років тому +582

    I'm married and u got me getting my ass up early every morning getting cute. I've lost 7 lbs.. Its a start. U are very motivating. I've deleted all the other witch channels I had. I only need u. Ty so much girl!

    • @user-og8ii5dc4l
      @user-og8ii5dc4l 6 років тому +69

      +ally dye a lot of her followers are married women. Sometimes we need those refresher courses, lol. Over time husbands and wives can get comfortable or lazy or take things for granted. We have to always keep them chasing us. Being feminine and pretty is a win/win!

    • @MaRiAm936
      @MaRiAm936 6 років тому +11

      @@user-og8ii5dc4l exactly

    • @ZipporahAanael
      @ZipporahAanael 6 років тому +29

      7 lbs? Congrats girl!

    • @wizeguy1402
      @wizeguy1402 6 років тому +16

      @@user-og8ii5dc4l we never stopped chasing its women that are asking questions like "why cant we holler at dudes why cant we propose" trust me I'm a for chasing yall I love it it's in our blood😂😂

    • @GoldieLocs524
      @GoldieLocs524 6 років тому +19

      I’m married and up early too girl! 🤣

  • @jessicat2304
    @jessicat2304 6 років тому +419

    I naturally act feminine so this is easy

    • @boiboi4625
      @boiboi4625 6 років тому +13

      God bless you ..

    • @wonhoptoo
      @wonhoptoo 6 років тому +104

      all women do. but for some
      it's been raped out of them &
      for some it started with their
      own parents defeminization
      of their daughter (along with
      emasculation of their sons)...
      Time to get it back y'all, peace

    • @Lalajewel
      @Lalajewel 5 років тому +1

      Jessica T Yesss so do I ❤️😌

    • @EM-ps4kr
      @EM-ps4kr 5 років тому +19

      wonhoptoo This is so true!! Best to act feminine unless in a dangerous place then put out the don‘t eff w me vibe. But in the company of gentlemen act feminine. Feel like my femininity has been abused out of me and trying to get it back. I deserve so much better than what i have gotten from men. I‘m married and turned husband‘s proposal down for like 5+ years lol. But i have the bling bling now. It is still a struggle with him because of how he was raised. I‘ve repeatedly dated down from how I grew up because my parents didn‘t start me out w anything so i worked in service roles to make ends meet.

    • @vickykale3304
      @vickykale3304 5 років тому

      Lucky u....this is had work for me. I'm crying...

  • @mahoganymi
    @mahoganymi 6 років тому +485

    You are absolutely right! My ex was raised by a single mother and he took her mentality and became a feminine man who sought every opportunity to get money from me instead of making money for the household. He wanted to split the bills, chores, everything 50/50. He was basically demanding that I come to the table to help chip in or get out. He then lost his job and so I picked up a second job. He had no issue sitting on his ass playing video games all day while I was out playing bob the builder. And yes pickmisha is my middle and last name. He was the female and I was the male and we were headed no where. I’m so glad I woke up, leveled up, and still leveling up!! Thank you Shera!

    • @kellytclarice
      @kellytclarice 6 років тому +20

      This!!!!!!! Wow same situation for me accept he has not lost his job. But his mom who has no life is constantly in his her about what he should and shouldn't do bc we ain't married omg!

    • @marthaayalew2505
      @marthaayalew2505 6 років тому +20

      I hope u left his ass by now.

    • @amasion2882
      @amasion2882 5 років тому +47

      The whole 50/50 racket is exactly that. A racket. The primary beneficiaries are men. I was stunned post-separation when I realized how high-maintenance my ex was. But it makes sense if you think it over. Generally men consume more than women. Groceries, electricity. If you go 50/50 with a man you are paying for you and part of him.

    • @phoenixsun6956
      @phoenixsun6956 5 років тому +12

      Yep did the same thing. With 3daughters in the and him. Needless to say when he got on his feet saved his money and stopped paying bills. He left me for a travel teacher he went to college with, and calls her more successful than me💯

    • @vanaphill2454
      @vanaphill2454 5 років тому +9

      @@amasion2882 That is why he must bring the money and pay all the bills.

  • @bori80
    @bori80 5 років тому +247

    I laugh but you are so right. I knew someone who was almost in her 50's and she had men crawling at her feet. I notice she was always extra feminine around them and they were drawn to her like magnets and this was an average looking woman but she was very feminine in the way she talk and walk. So yes, it does work.

  • @meme-qg2gq
    @meme-qg2gq 6 років тому +589

    “this is not gonna be an all nighter.” video: 4 hours 😂😂😂🤣

    • @Cattitude369
      @Cattitude369 5 років тому +63

      😂😂😂😂 I had the exact same thought...immediately checked the length and cracked up.

    • @khwezay
      @khwezay 5 років тому +8

      Girl 😂

    • @celine7811231
      @celine7811231 5 років тому +4

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Meauxxo
      @Meauxxo 5 років тому +2

      MagieNoir 💖💖 same lol 😂

    • @Spik-w2c
      @Spik-w2c 5 років тому +6

      xo B that's Shera for you !

  • @stasia2389
    @stasia2389 6 років тому +482

    LOL Viewer: “How can I stop attracting dusties?”
    Ashera: “Go to dust-free zones!!” Hahahahah

  • @AxelSituation
    @AxelSituation 6 років тому +245

    I'm just here watching SheRa's acting skills. I think she needs a Daytime Emmy. Love it!

  • @SlimmDrea
    @SlimmDrea 6 років тому +264

    “Y’all got some Hennessy” my ratchet self lmao 🤣🤣🤣

    • @MsCeCe-lt1zg
      @MsCeCe-lt1zg 6 років тому +6

      I learned about my love for cognac thru Shera too lol

    • @xxmegababygirlxx
      @xxmegababygirlxx 3 роки тому +1

      Yoooooo. I just read this comment and heard her say it and laughed out loud foreal.

    • @thevixenxiii
      @thevixenxiii 3 роки тому

      🤣😂😂

    • @Baddgallindsay
      @Baddgallindsay Рік тому

      Me too and I say it just like that 🤣🤣🤣

  • @Barbiedangerous1111
    @Barbiedangerous1111 6 років тому +197

    Be wanted not needed 🗣👏🏾

  • @medicinacontanyabelliard6510
    @medicinacontanyabelliard6510 6 років тому +227

    😂 part time receptionist for a non profit! Lmao

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 6 років тому +159

    In the city that I live in there are lots and lots of people who are sailors navigators, they have lots of money in raport with the country that I live in. So that's gonna be my husband, because I want that lifestyle. I see them wifes, they have nice cars, they have lots of money, they stay at home take care of the kids. That's what I'm going to have. :).

    • @friedajohnson1460
      @friedajohnson1460 6 років тому

      Irene Irene where do you live ?

    • @becuteforme
      @becuteforme 5 років тому +5

      Any update? :)

    • @heymisswest
      @heymisswest 5 років тому +15

      Good job girl!!!! You can totally have that life! I have that life now and so do the moms in my area and its literally NO other way to live! You can have it just speak it and manifest it

    • @genevawelch9865
      @genevawelch9865 5 років тому +2

      Hey Miss West How do you speak your desired reality into existence? Like by saying “I am married to a provider protector man” or something like that?

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 6 років тому +175

    Telling them you are a receptionist when you are something else, like you have a good carreer won't work practically because he's going to find out real quick what you do. And you cannot do that if you are looking for a husband. But what I would do, is tell him what I do, but really tone it down. Like I work at the office, I live with my brother, he pays my bills, to give him the impression that I'm not making that much money

    • @ShesMongolianASMR
      @ShesMongolianASMR 5 років тому +13

      Irene Irene great advice

    • @abisolaabisola7357
      @abisolaabisola7357 3 роки тому +13

      I always say customer service although I’m a Price Cost Analyst for DoD.

    • @BlacKWidoW70s
      @BlacKWidoW70s 5 місяців тому

      @@abisolaabisola7357😂😂😂😂

  • @manunascimxnto
    @manunascimxnto 3 роки тому +157

    i thought the "baby voice" thing wasn't that serious, but girls, IT IS!
    days ago i was talking on the phone with a guy "friend", and at a certain moment the conversation went a little "hot", so unintentionally my voice got slower and a little high pitched, and more closer to the microfone. girlssss, this guy was MELTING because of this voice i made, and he even said _"wow, i really like when your voice changes like this, it's so soft but also so sexy, you drive my mind crazy!"_ 👀🤭
    usually my voice is feminine but a little fast, so i think i'll start to talk more with this "baby voice" that drive the guys crazy 😅

    • @Liz-ic6jb
      @Liz-ic6jb 3 роки тому +13

      That is hilarious 🤣.

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 5 років тому +69

    Women love with conditions, if you cheat, or lie or hit her or broke, she is gone. Your mama will still love you after all that.

  • @MIZZO_101
    @MIZZO_101 6 років тому +156

    I learn something new on every single video of yours! Life changing!

  • @lr4973
    @lr4973 5 років тому +231

    If women follow your advice all men would level up too and less dusties 😝😄😁

  • @christinalove4494
    @christinalove4494 6 років тому +156

    Shera your videos is getting so addictive and good.That hair look great on you.

  • @alexisimanii5417
    @alexisimanii5417 6 років тому +144

    In the middle of watching, a friend of mine called. I used this as an excuse to try out the baby voice. It WORKS! Lol

  • @flowerh691
    @flowerh691 6 років тому +354

    I actually think ultra femininity intimidates men. Whereas the ‘one of the boys’ type of girl is more aproachable.
    But the upside is that feminine women atract quality masculine men.

    • @justanotherabc8888
      @justanotherabc8888 6 років тому +154

      Then "one of the boys" types of girls, will not be respected as the feminine one. Unless he's not hetero, he's going to want a feminine woman.

    • @slimmama84
      @slimmama84 6 років тому +9

      @Belletaina Agreed.

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 6 років тому +27

      I’m half and half I love it. Blowing their minds

    • @xcookiefacetwx6123
      @xcookiefacetwx6123 6 років тому +82

      For me when I was one of the boys i didn't get noticed, but as soon as i started wearing makeup dresses and purses they started complimenting me and buying me snacks when i refused they said i want you to have it please take it.

    • @lionsskyblue442
      @lionsskyblue442 5 років тому +72

      even gay men value a feminine women more

  • @lionsskyblue442
    @lionsskyblue442 5 років тому +66

    Keep the act up, just like customer service.

  • @spartanman5231
    @spartanman5231 5 років тому +125

    As a man oh yeah she is so right Feminine women is what we all like. If we wanted a man we would just get a guy. I myself have a reall woman in my life now and it was very hard to find her. because most women today want to be men

    • @MayaOmoweh
      @MayaOmoweh Рік тому +6

      Gotta target Africa and Asia where the modern woman vibe haven't ruined everything

    • @bbygirl8363
      @bbygirl8363 Рік тому

      @@MayaOmowehsadly americans have ruinee some part of immigrsnt africans and asians

  • @joannaharris1759
    @joannaharris1759 Рік тому +29

    i stopped using vulgarity entirely and see great results from speaking correctly. I even use correct English while speaking with friends through texts.

  • @DetroitHimawari
    @DetroitHimawari 5 років тому +85

    If you are trying to lose weight it matters what kind of food you eat as well, not just the calories. 300 calories from pasta would be much harder to lose then say 300 calories from salad with toppings. Hope that helps women on the weight lost journey.

  • @levelupwithmarine9769
    @levelupwithmarine9769 4 роки тому +72

    Yesterday i put on makeup etc... To walk a little bit, even dusties hold me the door and called me madame ( i'm 19 yo) it was so funny 😂😂😂

  • @jjames6554
    @jjames6554 3 роки тому +88

    Femininity is a superpower. Feminine woman, drive me wild. Too bad the Feminist got it wrong.

  • @ak-47intelligence75
    @ak-47intelligence75 5 років тому +55

    " Y' all act like a woman cant cheat back " 😂😂😂😂👍

  • @hightopv1352
    @hightopv1352 6 років тому +48

    Im listening to you at work, (actually listened to several vlogs) tried it on a few male customers...omg this works lol

    • @hunny585
      @hunny585 4 роки тому +3

      Examples what you tried?

  • @HabitualLover
    @HabitualLover 5 років тому +71

    1:37:53 I love that you said: "Besides, If James never did anything to deserve being treated that way..." Good job, Shera. People forget that character always means a lot more than pure cash. If a woman or man is that loose with their loyalty, they might as well be strictly for hire, and nothing more. Yikes. Great answer. That was the best response ever ;)

  • @joannaharris1759
    @joannaharris1759 Рік тому +22

    In 2019 my sugar daddy purchased me a 2019 lincoln mkz...I recently grew tired of it thus he bought it back from me cash... I never asked him to purchase it the first or 2nd time... he did it voluntarily. He is 67 and I am 38 been dating 6yrs. Yes a man with money will volunteer and invest freely.

    • @jadejxoxoxo
      @jadejxoxoxo Рік тому +1

      Does dating mean you are exclusive with him for 6 years or does it mean you see him once a week, go on dates and he takes care of you and you date other people ?

  • @msqueenlyminded7579
    @msqueenlyminded7579 6 років тому +59

    sipping tea...laughing at Shera got me here for a 4 hour video that was supposed to be a few minutes long #loveher

  • @DiamanteDea
    @DiamanteDea 6 років тому +114

    SO many young women with guys their exact age. Tsk Tsk.

    • @faa1412
      @faa1412 5 років тому +12

      so? not every woman cares to or wants to marry a man old enough to be her father or grandfather... there are young men who are successful.

    • @moontears3887
      @moontears3887 5 років тому +9

      I think they should look for an older guy but not that much older.

    • @GemZbabe101
      @GemZbabe101 4 роки тому

      @@faa1412 and some actually like it

  • @aachalshrestha895
    @aachalshrestha895 6 років тому +46

    I was waiting for this video my whole life

  • @MsChichi93
    @MsChichi93 5 років тому +40

    I watch your videos every day when I'm getting dressed for work. A lot of this stuff I've done naturally, and some I'm still learning. But great videos.

  • @MichelePearl
    @MichelePearl Рік тому +43

    I was dating a man he started out okay getting me bags, etc. But he all of a sudden three months in, mentioned sharing expenses. I told him if that happens I would be in my masculine energy and that means NO MORE SEGGS. Dumped his dusty a*s two weeks later after he fixed my dryer and got my last gift.

    • @chepkorirkoriryo819
      @chepkorirkoriryo819 11 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂you had to make sure he fixed your dryer

  • @carlynewoodrow8494
    @carlynewoodrow8494 6 років тому +85

    Omg shera. I wanted to say you are DEFINITELY RIGHT about freestyling alone. I went to an upscale bar and saw some girlfriends of mine happened to be there...let's just say they really need to watch your videos 🤦‍♀️

    • @heymisswest
      @heymisswest 5 років тому +32

      Bringing the wrong People is embarrassing and can ruin your whole vibe

    • @faduma_jama
      @faduma_jama Рік тому

      how they doing now? 😂

  • @doomsdaymaid
    @doomsdaymaid 6 років тому +140

    I look very feminine, but I am really masculine in mind set and how I operate. I can't stop it because I'm scared of being dependent. I've been there and it eventually turned into me being treated like a child and a burden. I feel like everytime I let my guard down and settle into my femininity that men abuse that and start trying to run over me cause I need them. How do you pull it off without getting your life snatched from under you?

    • @marthaayalew2505
      @marthaayalew2505 6 років тому +26

      I think once u married to a rich guy. U have secured the bag. Means u can hold it against him if u divorce, u can walk with half his money. He will stay put unless his stupid.

    • @Cattitude369
      @Cattitude369 5 років тому +65

      You also have to NOT let your guard down. Shera speaks on this - always keep them on their toes. Never let them think they have you 100%. She has videos on this so try searching (if you haven't done so already).

    • @valoridenise7244
      @valoridenise7244 5 років тому +7

      @@Cattitude369 Riight!!!

    • @InTheBeginning83
      @InTheBeginning83 3 роки тому +40

      Never let your guard down. Keep yourself marketable so your man knows his work is never done. You can be loyal to your man; with readily available options. Keep multiple income streams......he doesn't have to know. There's his money and your money. Make sure you invest some of his money to create your own wealth.

  • @Mia-sp8jc
    @Mia-sp8jc 6 років тому +73

    #Beauty Your hair is literally 🔥🔥🔥 & your cheekbones are fleeking-out. SheRa is on point ladies. Longer hair, sweet voice and delicious scent will drive a masculine man out of his mind! I'll have to return tom'r. for part 2.

  • @paulaslife3781
    @paulaslife3781 6 років тому +47

    You are so so funny... Only you can make me howl with laughter. I wish you were my friend. You could be a big
    Star on the screen. 👏👏👏👏👏😂😂😂

  • @maritzag4502
    @maritzag4502 6 років тому +56

    Looking young and cute shera

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 4 місяці тому +3

    “You might as well act and not work”. I’m here for it ! I can’t until that day

  • @Xzawn
    @Xzawn 6 років тому +42

    All the advice you have given are working 😍 I need to work on my feminine voice 😩

  • @medicinacontanyabelliard6510
    @medicinacontanyabelliard6510 5 років тому +19

    Just love the way she put up this scenarios to teach us😂😂 I love her!!❤️

  • @401671999
    @401671999 Рік тому +3

    Thanks! You are a girl's best mentor.

  • @luxuryedition78
    @luxuryedition78 6 років тому +40

    Hey Shera! I highly you should launch videos about, “Recovering Independent Woman Syndrome’s”, “How To Find Out If The Man Of Means is Legit”(ex. how to run a background check & how to find out his last name if he claims not to be on social media), and “What To Expect When Meeting Your Older Man’s Friends & Family”. Thanks and looking forward to watching☺️✅

  • @Shayycraft_
    @Shayycraft_ 3 роки тому +19

    You’re right you have to do it in person. I tried practicing online. Having standards etc and the men were like disrespectful, low quality & rude. My account got banned for Apparently selling something and I try didn’t sell a thing. I wasn’t going to meet up with them I just wanted practice until I got out there. The treat you rudely online. They kept trying to get me to get drinks I was like I don’t do that

  • @mindset_olympics2
    @mindset_olympics2 5 років тому +167

    This act she’s talking about and doing is literally me NATURALLY in public! Therefore, I was born for a man of means pretty much 🤔 haha

  • @lovelylady2910
    @lovelylady2910 Рік тому +13

    I’m a mix of feminine and masculine. I think it works for me because men tend to really like it. What they don’t like is a lack of confidence and a lackluster personality.

  • @piciulnostru575
    @piciulnostru575 6 років тому +45

    I mean, even though I do 50 50 with my brother on bills and rent,, I would tell him that my brother pays for everything

    • @hawonuurmahdi8657
      @hawonuurmahdi8657 5 років тому +14

      I live with my brother i never pay nothing ☝️🙅‍♀️

  • @ashmarilyn
    @ashmarilyn 5 років тому +17

    Lol yoo I dropped dead when she said a part time receptionist for a nonprofit but I actually am one but I’m fulltime now lol

  • @MichelePearl
    @MichelePearl Рік тому +8

    “Go to DUST FREE ZONES” omg I burst out laughing. Brilliant

  • @LG-bx3wl
    @LG-bx3wl 6 років тому +71

    So what do you do if you no longer suffer from Independent woman syndrome - what do you do with your high paying job, home and luxury car?

    • @kkkkk695
      @kkkkk695 6 років тому +93

      L G keep it and get more

    • @redroselace9545
      @redroselace9545 6 років тому +95

      Find someone better and richer than you so automatically become womanly and respect him. As well as let him pay for everything. One of Victoria secret model doesn't pay for any of bills or stuff her husband does even doe she's super rich! 😉😁

    • @Dilenga23
      @Dilenga23 6 років тому +25

      Live your life?? You have the money why not enjoy it while a man is taking care of your finances??

    • @sophiemoreau3049
      @sophiemoreau3049 6 років тому

      @@kkkkk695 k

    • @sophiemoreau3049
      @sophiemoreau3049 6 років тому

      @@kkkkk695 j

  • @user-nq8nl4wh9w
    @user-nq8nl4wh9w 6 років тому +151

    SheRa can you do a video on why females are mad when you level up and hate on one another and how we can not fall into that mindset.

    • @nishamack586
      @nishamack586 6 років тому +87

      Ugh! Ive experienced this @ work. My supervisor is a woman. She started hating on me soon as I started wearing make up to work. I switched it up, told her she has nice eyelashes. Now she's wearing make-up & off my back!!😂😂

    • @user-nq8nl4wh9w
      @user-nq8nl4wh9w 6 років тому +33

      Nisha Mack yes Ive had to convert a bitch all my life. I had the same thing happen to me my boss who looks haggard was not very nice to me but honey I was very nice to her remained sweet and complimentary and honey she is sweet as pie. So I killem with kindness and get and keep folks off my back. Now she asking about my weekends before she wouldn’t even smile at me. Lol

    • @user-nq8nl4wh9w
      @user-nq8nl4wh9w 6 років тому +51

      Super Nova yes I agree I’m tired of being in imaginary competitions with people.

    • @MS-tn6kf
      @MS-tn6kf 6 років тому +10

      @@user-nq8nl4wh9w Nice tactic, thanks.. will try with my jealous ones 😂

    • @MS-tn6kf
      @MS-tn6kf 6 років тому +4

      @@nishamack586 😂

  • @LoveMinnie1102
    @LoveMinnie1102 4 роки тому +9

    You’re my online mentor! Love you girl! Thank you! You’re an inspiration!

  • @fatoumfatoumeh
    @fatoumfatoumeh 4 роки тому +21

    Hi Shera you tell us to go after men who are atleast 15 years older, but most of the single men over 35 are divorced with kids and alot of relationship baggage. I don’t see myself being a carer of someone else’s kids (not anymore) and alot of the time there’s ex-wife drama especially if he’s very successful and she wants that money :( I was 27 and almost married a 44 year old divorced, very successful plastic surgeon...so much drama and his ex-wife (she’s in her late 30s) was insane! She would even use their little kids against him. It was exhausting dealing with all that, at some point his generosity and masculinity just didn’t matter, I just wanted peace, so I dumped him.

    • @Theoracleprincess
      @Theoracleprincess 4 роки тому +5

      Wow that so sad. Sounds like the wife has that " if I can't have you no one else can have you " mentality. He'll either have to man tf up and put her in her place or just remain single since his ex has him by the balls.

  • @thecrazyfam6789
    @thecrazyfam6789 6 років тому +53

    I still have masculine traits in me because I run, play with my kids and lift weight at the gym. As a single mom we do it all with God’s help. How can we be feminine while still pay bills and run a business and play with two crazy toddlers? How can I be softer and less masculine?

    • @thecrazyfam6789
      @thecrazyfam6789 6 років тому +17

      I just did my nails I’m always on point but my personality is masculine. May be because there no one to practice with.😂😂😂🤔🤔🤔🤔

    • @crownjewel832
      @crownjewel832 6 років тому +19

      +Hello Kitty practice everywhere you go, at stores, over the phone, with teachers, neighbors etc

    • @thecrazyfam6789
      @thecrazyfam6789 6 років тому +3

      Ant Dean, one Year: thanks for the input guys. I think I do not get approached bcz of my masculinity and even the way I drive😂😂😂 some of you are right, femininity is traits you have or don’t. But, masculinity does not attract anyone.. maybe flies😂😂😂😂 it’s been 2 years after my divorce, and still dating no one....

    • @thecrazyfam6789
      @thecrazyfam6789 6 років тому +5

      Ant Dean true. My intake on this bcz I was with two men younger than me. I always felt that I have to guide them as they did immature things. Now I need a real older man despite my masculinity I still feel I need a man who can provide cz I’m tired of taking charge.

    • @xcookiefacetwx6123
      @xcookiefacetwx6123 6 років тому +10

      @ant dean @ hello kitty i can say from experience i have went to masculine to feminine girl. It's not pretending like one year said you become it. I went from hating anything girly or feminine to accepting i'm a female and it's okay so i started doing feminine things over a few months i became more softer and i enjoy being feminine. I use a soft girly voice i didn't even force it it just happened and i just noticed this like a few days ago when im at the store or at college my voice gets soft and feminine and sweet and I like it, I think every woman should be feminine but be masculine when we need to be.

  • @itsmeDe326
    @itsmeDe326 3 роки тому +50

    Being feminine is very difficult for New York women. We are the toughest men around, sadly 😂

    • @ayee_ja2898
      @ayee_ja2898 Рік тому +5

      I have to change my accent, raise my voice and talk slow.😂

    • @Baddgallindsay
      @Baddgallindsay Рік тому +2

      😭😭😭

  • @rabbherself3380
    @rabbherself3380 6 років тому +30

    I love this whole look!!!!! 😍

  • @Dreamgirlhav
    @Dreamgirlhav 6 років тому +48

    "Y'all got some Hennessy !" 😂

  • @HabitualLover
    @HabitualLover 5 років тому +8

    Lady , you crack me up. You have a way of doing certain things that is just sooooo freaking funny.

  • @SEKHMET-7777
    @SEKHMET-7777 6 років тому +20

    Girl.. u such a ACTRESS@@@ I LOVE IT!😁😁😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @michelejoseph6202
    @michelejoseph6202 4 роки тому +15

    When you were asked, what do you do when you're not attracted to someone and they want to sleep with you and your answer was three shots of tequila baby! I'm dying laughing! You just crack me up

  • @donnaw7528
    @donnaw7528 5 років тому +25

    I meet a man that looked like he didn't have a dime I was the only that paid him some attention he was a millionaire image that

  • @patc1839
    @patc1839 6 років тому +14

    Thank you for explaining this. Omg that’s why I keep attracting the dusty.

  • @blackamethyst721
    @blackamethyst721 6 років тому +21

    I needed this 🙌🏼💗 Thank you soooo much

  • @nalue7963
    @nalue7963 5 років тому +6

    Super long but Goodness, so many valuable jewels dropped in this video!

  • @katechipata9934
    @katechipata9934 5 років тому +15

    I watch all your videos from start to finish. So many gems and also entertaining. Your thumbnails and titles are EVERYTHING. I enjoy watching you and Mikki :)

  • @flygirl1942
    @flygirl1942 5 років тому +12

    This is great girl thank you! You are changing lives!!😘

  • @vibingchakras
    @vibingchakras 5 років тому +34

    Lol @ the dude using "Jesus was poor" as an excuse to stay broke 😂😂😂😂😂
    Reeaaallyyy??? The RACHETNESS of it all!!!!

  • @genevak90
    @genevak90 5 років тому +15

    I LOVE this hair color on you

  • @cygnevara8400
    @cygnevara8400 5 років тому +10

    Shera was dropping some 💎 GEMS 💎 on this one!
    Always foes but this was has everything in one~

  • @Luckimee
    @Luckimee 6 років тому +26

    In LA men are definitely in the club at 40+

  • @vee2890
    @vee2890 3 роки тому +5

    Shera got the game baby!! Sprinkle sprinkle 💫⭐️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️

  • @KayShinds
    @KayShinds 5 років тому +24

    Shera: “No this is not gonna be an all-nighter cause I gotta go” 4hours later lol 😂 love you Shera 😘

  • @virgeanngeorge5381
    @virgeanngeorge5381 6 років тому +23

    Shera you are so on point with this video girl

  • @jeneka0989
    @jeneka0989 6 років тому +21

    This hair is the best on you!

  • @tiffanyobinyan7339
    @tiffanyobinyan7339 5 років тому +11

    Beautiful shera you look like Ashanti with this look 💕

  • @kaaaaaaaaa
    @kaaaaaaaaa 5 років тому +8

    OMG am just learning about all this wow thank you so much, am learning a lot, am from Jamaica 🇯🇲🇯🇲🇯🇲

  • @lr4973
    @lr4973 5 років тому +10

    Idk but I love you and advice you give out teaching my daughter this and telling my friends about you

  • @adrienneb5445
    @adrienneb5445 6 років тому +24

    Damn, I got too much pride.

  • @1newwoman07
    @1newwoman07 Рік тому +4

    @ 14:37 the fact that she even needed to announce what she had and how impressed the delivery man was, was masculine all on its own

  • @lumintalocke7724
    @lumintalocke7724 6 років тому +18

    This is amazing and so funny! Ty!!!!

  • @Kashmir-lt4cx
    @Kashmir-lt4cx Рік тому +3

    You always locking sooo 😍, but I am loving this new fresh look on you!

  • @rariferetti1976
    @rariferetti1976 6 років тому +14

    Love The HAIR!!! 😍😍😍

  • @kellyrosefarquharson6433
    @kellyrosefarquharson6433 6 років тому +21

    1:17:59 I laughed so loud when you said we'd be staring at eachother like we're both stupid. Hahaha

  • @KK-ud4le
    @KK-ud4le 5 років тому +9

    Shera has all da game.

  • @divinejusticetarot
    @divinejusticetarot 6 років тому +10

    I love the hair !

  • @Apifie
    @Apifie Рік тому +1

    this hair color looks amazing on you whatttt❤

  • @lafrance8849
    @lafrance8849 Рік тому +9

    I enjoy being a feminine woman ☺️

    • @anicaroper7914
      @anicaroper7914 Рік тому +3

      Me too girl. Yesterday I had to put air in my tire and because I looked feminine and had on a sundress, a man stopped and asked if I needed help because he couldn’t see a beautiful woman struggling. Once he asked me if I needed help I activated my baby voice 😂😊.

  • @thulelamagatya7191
    @thulelamagatya7191 5 років тому +5

    The accuracy in this video.

  • @AllThingsRickita
    @AllThingsRickita 5 років тому +7

    Thank you so much for this. You're the Aunt I never had 😘🥰

  • @melina1337
    @melina1337 5 років тому +3

    shera u look really nice with your hair like that...suits you a lot!

  • @trewfb9855
    @trewfb9855 5 років тому +8

    "That ain't me. But if I do that versus working, I'm doing THAT" 😂😂

  • @samantha3092
    @samantha3092 6 років тому +10

    Beautiful funny and smart!!! Ahh I love you. Changed my life!!

  • @azucenakennedy4850
    @azucenakennedy4850 5 років тому +3

    I love these video and all the things you talk about it's truth, truth, truth,

  • @tirenahewitt773
    @tirenahewitt773 Рік тому +2

    She is so prettyy