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  • Опубліковано 4 вер 2021
  • How Min and Jae met while living in South Korea.
    📹 Filming Camera - iPhone 12 Pro Max
    📱IG - we.min.jae
    🎼 Intro Music - Chillout Commercial
    🎶 Outo Music - Winter Bear - BTS V

КОМЕНТАРІ • 221

  • @kimleemoon
    @kimleemoon 2 роки тому +130

    I love your story. It’s definitely not typical, but very interesting and honest. I usually don’t follow “couple” channels but you two are so cute together..it irresistible🙂 I wish you the best of luck with your relationship. ❤️

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +5

      Thank you!!

    • @wmmv2019
      @wmmv2019 8 місяців тому

      ​@@MINJAE1I just saw you both getting married today accidentally on my feed... I get teary-eyed... beautiful wedding. Congratulations for both of you! The Lord bless your wedding ❤

  • @sgx2380
    @sgx2380 2 роки тому +186

    I love how open you guys are. Even with each other’s sexuality. Your first meeting wasn’t quite the conventional one but if it’s meant to be it’ll surely work out! Thanks for sharing a part of your lives with us. Keep on being cool!

  • @doesntdoitok
    @doesntdoitok 2 роки тому +24

    Girl, You are brave and so genuine.

  • @shoshw9328
    @shoshw9328 Рік тому +10

    Just watched this again, and I was again charmed by you, by your honesty and straightforwardness and how "real" you are.
    So glad UA-cam put your video in my feed...and so glad I started following you! Thanks for being you and for sharing yourselves with all of us!

  • @letheafloyd1081
    @letheafloyd1081 2 роки тому +16

    Unique beginning. It is good that you did not rush into anything and allowed time to develop into where you are now. I truly appreciate you sharing your journey into love.

  • @millicentsimonsays
    @millicentsimonsays Рік тому +3

    Loved the video! Thank you so much for uploading and sharing with everyone~~🥰🧡

  • @lifeofmariam3225
    @lifeofmariam3225 2 роки тому +8

    Y’all a breath of fresh air love you both❤️❤️

  • @purpleprincessa
    @purpleprincessa 2 роки тому +23

    Jae is so naturally pretty, reminds me of Kehlani. I love your guys' vibe, hope you'll always be happy together ❤️

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +6

      Now THAT is a complement I never heard 😭 Thank you for that!!!

    • @purpleprincessa
      @purpleprincessa 2 роки тому +5

      @@MINJAE1 Girl, you glowww! You deserve the hype, I promise 💕

  • @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587
    @laur-unstagenameactuallyca1587 2 роки тому +42

    what you said about showing your bare selves from day 1 because you weren't going on dates is just so incredible. I can't put it into words. I grew up with siblings so, unlike only children, I did have people around my age that I showed my true self to. I've never been in a relationship in my entire almost 21 year career on earth (💀) and so the idea of being with someone, never mind someone you've just met, and acting the same around them as I do (or similar to) with my siblings aka letting them see how you act at home (my only reference is life with my siblings and how I act around them), etc... feels very, very scary. yet liberating. you guys are super cool is what I'm trying to say :)

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +7

      Awe thank you! I totally understand~ I’m sure that’s the same reason people have a ‘different side’ in the beginning of a relationship~ to show someone your craziness from the start can be hard lol, but still possible :)

    • @sannivictoria445
      @sannivictoria445 7 місяців тому

      You and me both, my darling 🎈. Im single and scared of guys out there, i have social anxiety and zero sociak battery. I'm so skeptical about people,mainly from the stories i have heard and seen myself of my friends and acquaintance. God bless your heart and your relationship 💕

  • @staceyk.210
    @staceyk.210 Рік тому +29

    Diversity I think is the key 🔑 in any interracial relationship!! To me it means both parties are willing to Step Out of their comfort Zone and try something NEW!! Just the fact that you two were willing to take a leap of faith says that you both were meant to be together!! I came to Seoul in 2019' for my Birthday and took a excursion with a Great Guy who was korean!! And all I have to say about that is I have never meet anyone quite like this guy who treated me So Good!! Ladies FYI korean men are very Gentle Kind and Sweet and they treat their ladies like Princesses!! I wish you guys all the Best💜💜💜💜

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +6

      Yes 100%
      I will say not all Korean men are so great, they are just like any other men around the world, and there are some you have to watch out for 😅

    • @staceyk.210
      @staceyk.210 Рік тому +3

      @@MINJAE1 Thanks for the tip :-)

  • @mairamaira5589
    @mairamaira5589 Рік тому +3

    I really enjoy your channel! You come both across so genuine🥰

  • @baj41
    @baj41 2 роки тому +4

    I like the positive videos. Nice background story.

  • @papa9099
    @papa9099 Рік тому +2

    I’m so glad I came across your videos.I have literally spent the day watching all your old vlogs!
    You guys are awesome! ❤❤

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому

      Haha welcome to the family :) glad we got a good amount for you to watch ^^!

  • @aiquinn
    @aiquinn 2 роки тому +16

    You're both so adorable 💜

  • @lawanda.southerland965
    @lawanda.southerland965 Рік тому +4

    I think your story is amazing from how you met and had such great connection. You both were quite brave with everything going on in the world that you didn't pick an outside place to meet. Anyway I love you both so happy things have worked out for you, wishing you forever love and happiness❤🇺🇸

  • @MakeMusicLA2012
    @MakeMusicLA2012 11 місяців тому +3

    I so enjoyed hearing your story. I like the natural progression of your friendship and love. I found hope in your being yourselves. I also just watched your marriage proposal. You are both so fortunate to have found each other. Congratulations and I wish you both a blessed and beautiful life together. In addition thank you for sharing your amazing, gentle and warm lives with all of us.

  • @iStorm-my5fp
    @iStorm-my5fp 11 місяців тому

    You guys are so honest is refreshing

  • @bialeonel9143
    @bialeonel9143 2 роки тому +2

    I glad for this video ❤️

  • @simplyandoime7344
    @simplyandoime7344 2 роки тому +3

    I love the honesty.

  • @sistersistera
    @sistersistera Рік тому +8

    I so enjoyed listening to you two. Best of luck to you both. When you find someone you can connect to just work on your relationship.
    I met my husband about 49 years ago and we have been married for 48 yrs. I am glad I found you.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +2

      wow, that is just amazing! Relationships are never easy and will always require work, but it’s so amazing to hear about and see those that have been together for so long! A true inspiration of love and dedication ♥️

  • @vigerminaberrios4116
    @vigerminaberrios4116 3 місяці тому

    I like how honest the two of you are. Very good story and I’m glad you are happy. ❤

  • @sifisojele6828
    @sifisojele6828 2 роки тому +2

    Lovely video guys. CONGRATULATIONS

  • @aishwaryaahirrao
    @aishwaryaahirrao 2 роки тому +7

    What a lovely sweet couple ✨💕 btw i love that tata plush/pillow in the bg💜😁

  • @sophiesjourney1551
    @sophiesjourney1551 Рік тому +5

    She's pretty, he's cute. What a gorgeous couple. 😍

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Sophie ☺️

  • @paulacontrerasletelier8896
    @paulacontrerasletelier8896 2 роки тому +8

    U guys are the cutest🥺💛💛💛

  • @WhatUpDoe248
    @WhatUpDoe248 10 місяців тому +2

    I just watched your proposal video and now I really enjoyed hearing your "how we met" story. I love to hear the more unconventional stories of couples, and yours is certainly unconventional. You both were open and honest with each other from the jump , and in todays world it's a rarity. I think the pandemic helped in stripping people of their artifices. You been in the house for months on end, wearing t-shirts and yoga pants. Face-timing people to have connection, it's no need to be nothing but raw with each other. I hope for all the best for you both, your relationship ,and your future together. 😀

  • @hobiday5833
    @hobiday5833 2 роки тому +7

    Yes do a video about meeting eachothers parents!!

  • @mikejung1582
    @mikejung1582 2 роки тому +5

    WOW! I subscribed to your channel after being so impressed with this video on how detailed your memory was kicking off after the initial meet on Tinder. Really, really, never saw a couple agree on every aspect of your relationship. Thumbs up to both of you.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +1

      Awe thank you so much!!!

  • @lexis__world
    @lexis__world 2 роки тому +1

    I’ve been waiting for this video hahahaha. How did I just notice?!

  • @SunWindWater_girl
    @SunWindWater_girl Рік тому +2

    I like how you met the most natural way.

  • @letteking3554
    @letteking3554 2 роки тому +9

    Please show your photos from dating app… in fact it would be nice to see photos of you guys from childhood to now. Love your videos.

  • @loveywarbrick9636
    @loveywarbrick9636 Рік тому +2

    And that's why your relationship is awesome. ❤

  • @dashingmay
    @dashingmay 2 роки тому +6

    Wow, you two will reach 100k subscribers in no time!

  • @jrbear12182000
    @jrbear12182000 2 роки тому +5

    Omg you guys are so cute.

  • @carlethiastreet7596
    @carlethiastreet7596 2 роки тому +4

    I really loved your story. So open and honest and I did subscribe to your channel

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you :)

  • @Myah_asianbutterfly03
    @Myah_asianbutterfly03 2 роки тому +6

    I met my husband on Tinder 5 years ago on tender too😊 I wish you guys the best!

  • @lizgill5874
    @lizgill5874 2 роки тому +30

    I love this story! It’s honest and real and makes me admire you guys even more.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you!! 💜

    • @KenRolls
      @KenRolls 11 місяців тому

      hey stacey u gotta try me

  • @jadaalston3280
    @jadaalston3280 2 роки тому +5

    First comment. I love your channel.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому

      Thank you 💜

  • @Katice634
    @Katice634 2 роки тому +1

    Lol. The this story. Good vibes from you guys 😎

  • @aramoonasmr1111
    @aramoonasmr1111 2 роки тому +4

    Love your channel, your IG account but most of all both of your personalities 💕💕💕

  • @randomcheryl
    @randomcheryl 2 роки тому +4

    So happy for you Janelle :>

  • @jastmijastmi9063
    @jastmijastmi9063 Рік тому +2

    That is an original drama🤣i love it 💕👌That's fate, if you are meant to be together, one day you will meet! no matter the place. Love u guys thank u to share yours story with us😊

  • @tanialucas4579
    @tanialucas4579 2 роки тому +2

    Y'all love you both

  • @cristinasarrafmunoz1020
    @cristinasarrafmunoz1020 2 роки тому +8

    This is a lovely story. I am from México.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +2

      Gracias 💜

  • @keishaowusu597
    @keishaowusu597 2 роки тому +4

    Good story 👏

  • @Warriors..570
    @Warriors..570 Рік тому +3

    We got lucky. We didn't kidnapped each other 😂😂....cute...God bless you two.

  • @patriciagarrick8455
    @patriciagarrick8455 Рік тому

    New to this I have been watching you guys for along time just starting to comment❤❤

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +1

      Well we are glad to see you in the comment ♥️♥️

  • @myoungbin
    @myoungbin Рік тому +1

    천생연분 입니다 ㅎㅎ !

  • @margaretwrein9606
    @margaretwrein9606 2 роки тому +6

    Min, your English is great, both you and Jae make a great couple! It's great yo hear how the both of you met and being honest.

  • @lindaturner790
    @lindaturner790 2 роки тому +2

    Love both of you

  • @emeraldcrystal6934
    @emeraldcrystal6934 2 роки тому +5

    *Nomu Kamsahamnida Tinder!!😂 for Matching these Two Amazing & Awesome Souls 💑 Wishing You Two a Bright & Promising Journey Together as You Travel This Journey called "L I F E🍃" & look forward to more Content on your Channel!*
    💛💑 Love & Support from the Friendly Pacific Nations!xo

  • @hoanhbui6419
    @hoanhbui6419 4 місяці тому

    I am watching this clip again, Jae is charming

  • @syco3077
    @syco3077 2 роки тому +3

    Stop cause you guys are so cute wth

  • @Senorita-le2ef
    @Senorita-le2ef Рік тому

    Love you guys

  • @sramas757
    @sramas757 2 роки тому +14

    What a beautiful couple!

  • @Erika-yy8ry
    @Erika-yy8ry Рік тому +2

    Großartig. Es gibt doch noch normale Männer in Korea.
    Ich find euch beide super!

  • @junemedford3296
    @junemedford3296 5 місяців тому

    Omg just found your channel woe that is an amazing story but I was shocked about you letting him just come to your place wooo thts dangerous like yall said you have no idea who the person is and that really could've been horrible..but I love how it turned out you were definitely put together..I love how you met and just never left 😂..Im definitely interested in Asian men but live in the U.S. so haven't met one yet..very happy for you two!

  • @sassymess7111
    @sassymess7111 2 роки тому +3

    My friends met through Tender like 8 years ago and have been together ever since.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +2

      Love to hear success stories!!

  • @RaaySantos
    @RaaySantos Рік тому

    A tradução do youtube é esquisito mas dessa vez parece que traduziu certo, adorei seu conteúdo!

  • @aparajitabanerjee4840
    @aparajitabanerjee4840 Рік тому +2

    You guys are perfect and open minded person where earth needs to upgrade our society . God bless you two forever ❤. I just stumbled up your vlogs and cant resist myself from subscribing. Love from India ❤

  • @foxy5833
    @foxy5833 2 роки тому +5

    cute :)

  • @BeaComplex
    @BeaComplex 2 роки тому +43

    Hi! ^^ as someone else said, I love how you both were open and honest about your relationship. It definately is scary meeting someone on an online dating app, as you have to think of so many things like are they gonna be crazy xD I met my current boyfriend on tinder too and its nice hearing other peoples stories about meeting their person on tinder and how easy it was connecting with each other so quickly x to many more good times together ^^

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +3

      Ohh another success story, we love to hear it too… it’s rare for tinder, but it’s great when it happens 💜 I hope you have lots of happiness too!

    • @BeaComplex
      @BeaComplex 2 роки тому +1

      @@MINJAE1 it is quite rare with tinder but I’m happy I downloaded the app when I did ☺️ and thank you x

  • @SamJones01011
    @SamJones01011 2 роки тому +2

  • @brucehur2051
    @brucehur2051 2 роки тому +2

    파이팅 !파이팅 !파이팅 ! !파이팅 !파이팅 !파이팅 !파이팅 !

  • @vuyokazinogwente5321
    @vuyokazinogwente5321 2 роки тому

    That was a nice introduction

  • @AranzaNEKOCHAN
    @AranzaNEKOCHAN Рік тому +1

    Cuttiessss

  • @uwamahorojohnpeter8959
    @uwamahorojohnpeter8959 2 роки тому +2

    Hullo gays I like you couple God bless you jeans Pierre from Kigali Rwanda

  • @debbiecrum7585
    @debbiecrum7585 2 роки тому +4

    I am 64 years old married for 45 years, and I hate labels that people need. Your refreshing to say the least. No BS for you. Your raw and yet very down to earth. Whether that comes from your youth, or your own sensibility, I don't know. However, it is refreshing to see. When I dated almost 50 years ago, labeling everything was the norm. Oh do not date anyone not of your race, don't socialize with her, she is guy, don't talk about finances, or heaven forbid sex with anyone. We, my husband and I grew up with strict parents. We could not even stay alone in a house we purchased before we married. It was crazy. But times have changed. Still you need to be cautious and honest. I would not have probably let him stay over night, but It seemed to work out. You were very lucky. Min is a good man. Your a smart lady and I am glad to watch both of your growth as individuals and as a couple.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you so much! I think labels create segregation and separation, there really isn’t any need. And I agree, there was a huge risk in having him stay the night 😅 I made sure to tell all my close friends if they don’t hear from he the next morning to report! It was a risk that was well taken 💜

  • @vinishapaul7135
    @vinishapaul7135 2 роки тому +11

    Ok.now i believe that what's meant to be , it will be. 😭
    Your story is not the typical how we met story... And i love it. 😁❤️❤️
    Now i think i will continue to show my raw self in front of others even though people tell me that i shouldn't do it bcz it's too much and my openness and vulnerability scares away the guys😅

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +6

      Be yourself~ and not a shy less.. someone is out there :) the energy you put out, is the energy you will receive 💜

    • @danieldunlap4077
      @danieldunlap4077 2 роки тому +1

      Hey Vinisha. As man in my early 40s, I prefer it if a woman shows what she's about because I don't have time to go through that dance anymore of finding out who a person truly is 3 months in. Show who you are from the start. You might be surprised how guys react to that. Perhaps a guy who's a little older might have the maturity to handle who you are.

    • @vinishapaul7135
      @vinishapaul7135 2 роки тому

      @@danieldunlap4077 guys haven't reacted well towards this ...i guess my vulnerability and straightforwardness becomes too much to handle for them. Lol

    • @danieldunlap4077
      @danieldunlap4077 2 роки тому +1

      @@vinishapaul7135 then they aren't for you. I have a similar type personality so I understand your pain.

  • @moonlightraindrops6767
    @moonlightraindrops6767 2 роки тому +31

    Just a lovely story! This made my day :) Thank you for sharing it with us! I'm really interested in knowing more about your backgrounds, you parents etc and also do you have any future plans? Love your channel, congrats on the subs! :)

  • @danteinferno761
    @danteinferno761 2 роки тому +3

    Beautiful story. I've lived in Korea 1987 DMZ, 91 Seoul, 94 Cp. Casey and finally 2001 Daegu. (Retired Army). Hopefully my job will have me sent to Korea later this year.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +2

      wow that’s an amazing journey !! I hope so too~ you can really see how much it has advanced!

  • @sakgat
    @sakgat Рік тому

    I really like your kind of relationship.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому

      Thank you ^^! ❤️

  • @szszszsz95395
    @szszszsz95395 2 місяці тому +5

    I cannot believe you let a complete stranger into your apartment. 😅 I hope most people watching this video do not follow in your footsteps. But, I'm glad to hear it worked out.

  • @beramyers8873
    @beramyers8873 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤

  • @SokhomPrins
    @SokhomPrins 9 місяців тому

    My late husband from South Africa. We were in India in July 1995 on the way to Africa to work there. After working in Mongol 1997 flew to SK to help that country during AFC - Asian Financial Crisis. But now my heart lost to India. My memoir Love of Life - A Miraculous Story! will be released soon.

  • @Kagrra01
    @Kagrra01 10 місяців тому +1

    Hello!! I’m late to the party but recently came to know you two and appreciate learning about yalls story. I don’t have much dating experience , only had one bf before and dating here and there haha so it’s interesting learning how ppl come together. I have one question if there were no labels did that mean that both of y’all were free to see other ppl during the time you were not together but still casual? I think even if labels are not important there should still be some discussion so expectations are in alignment , to avoid misunderstandings.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  10 місяців тому +1

      Good questions!
      I guess we could have seen someone else, but we mutually had a “feeling” we didn’t/ wouldn’t want to, but I suppose we could have an did any of us did, then it wouldn’t have been a problem since we both (at the time) weren’t looking for a relationship.
      Also, there really wasn’t much time apart. Honestly maximum 1 week 😂 other than that we were practically living together, so I guess just in our actions we were together (even though we never asked each other, we did tell a few friends who asked that we were together 😂)

  • @ashrumtaxcal7668
    @ashrumtaxcal7668 Рік тому +1

    아~ 저는 두분이 미국에서 만나신 줄 알았는데 한국에서 만나셨던 거였어요? +_+ 킨더 깔아봐야 되나... 근데 저는 영어를 못하.... ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

  • @jalabi99
    @jalabi99 11 місяців тому +2

    That's going to be on the wedding invitations: _"We didn't kidnap each other"_ 😂

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  11 місяців тому +3

      Omg if I didn’t already design them that would have been funny to add! Maybe somewhere at our wedding 😅

  • @dikshakatyal4856
    @dikshakatyal4856 5 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @gracymanoj.
    @gracymanoj. 2 роки тому +1

    💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

  • @joanrose2050
    @joanrose2050 11 місяців тому

    Nice

  • @anacaicedo3002
    @anacaicedo3002 5 місяців тому

    Que historia se podría escribir una película ❤

  • @lindatang4955
    @lindatang4955 2 роки тому +2

    Jae have beautiful skin colour

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +1

      Thank you~

    • @lindatang4955
      @lindatang4955 2 роки тому +1

      @@MINJAE1 You're most welcome 🤝

  • @nandaschomakers6472
    @nandaschomakers6472 Рік тому

    Hi im a newby and i love your relationship!And i see a V bias there???!!!!Just like mine!💜💜💜❤️❤️❤️💯💯💯

  • @franklinbrathwaite1256
    @franklinbrathwaite1256 Рік тому +1

    HE COULD PLAY
    SUPERMAN ❤😂🎉
    2023 APRIL 23RD
    SUNDAY 8:38 A.M.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +1

      Yessss I agree hahahahah

  • @feyaj9021
    @feyaj9021 2 роки тому +3

    So I’m a big fan of you guys and I’m planning to move to Korea in February for work. What was the biggest adjustment that you had to make when you came to Korea? What was it that made you the most home sick?

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +5

      Awesome! Hope your trip is great! I think my family story is a bit special which caused me to not be “home sick” and a main reason I went to Korea. I didn’t really have a hard time adjustment 🤔… maybe I’ll make a solo video about it in the future ☺️

  • @lapeligrosa81ify
    @lapeligrosa81ify 2 роки тому

    Si 👏🏽

  • @yohan1004
    @yohan1004 2 роки тому +2

    Casually slipping out two ex gf part was Very MZ generation moment, Love it !! 😍 [from 4x year old asian gay man 😂]

  • @ednaeisaqui8988
    @ednaeisaqui8988 11 місяців тому

    Vocês são muito lindos ♥️🫰🇧🇷

  • @saras5552
    @saras5552 Рік тому +1

    Lol I tried meeting someone that way and it didn't turn out well 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @asmabader-zr6oq
    @asmabader-zr6oq Рік тому +1

    The most beautiful couple I have ever seen I come from your Instagram I now believe in love because of you I wish you happiness I am following you from Iraq

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  Рік тому +2

      Oh welcome from Instagram! Hope you enjoy our videos! I hope one day you find the love you are looking for! ♥️ Thank you for the kind words!

    • @asmabader-zr6oq
      @asmabader-zr6oq Рік тому +1

      @MIN & JAE Thank you, I enjoy watching your videos on Instagram, you are amazing people, keep spreading love to us through your videos, and thank you for your kind words to me~❤️

  • @1Jasmin
    @1Jasmin 2 роки тому +3

    2:07 hahah she is amazing 😂😅 can we please be friends? 😂🙋🏼‍♀️ lmao. Love her energy

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому

      LOLOL I’m down~

    • @1Jasmin
      @1Jasmin 2 роки тому

      @@MINJAE1 😉

  • @lashrendaharris1146
    @lashrendaharris1146 10 місяців тому

    This is so beautiful congratulations. how can i meet a korean guy i’m from Florida and i speak english i would love to meet a korean guy. please help

  • @cutekinoko_
    @cutekinoko_ 2 роки тому +5

    I’m not even sure how I came across your videos but I noticed in your thumbnails that Jae was giving me fruity and not overly femme presenting. This caught my eye bc I identify as queer (pan) and I’m fluid with the way I present (both “masc” and “femme”). I found it really comforting to see you present/dress/ be yourself even on ur UA-cam videos. I love dressing in my basic tshirt outfit, “masc” vibes but I’ve been struggling w the concept of feeling pressured to be “femme” when trying to date men… idk but this just …. I needed to see this. Question, in your tinder pics Jae, this is an odd question but what were they giving? Bc even on tinder I still pressured to show only femme pics even tho majority of the time I prefer more masc/androgynous looks

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +3

      I can’t say I ever felt such a pressure, I guess you can say I was lucky in my environment. My whole grade school years I dressed “like a tomboy” but these days I just wear whatever is comfy or I like. At work it’s very nice clothes and way more femme, at home it’s probably the shirt on the floor and some shorts 😂😂😂
      I kind of do whatever, sometimes I have my nails all done for months, and other times I have them looking rough haha
      I appreciate you sharing your story, and I hope you don’t feel and pressure to live your life how you want.
      As for my tinder, I would say it was mainly upset body selfies, so couldn’t really tell my attire. 🧐

  • @safiyahamisu5874
    @safiyahamisu5874 8 місяців тому

    Wishing you all the best but Your audio is not loud enough.

  • @Bob-wh6qr
    @Bob-wh6qr Місяць тому

    Ancestors cry.

  • @Yorilua
    @Yorilua 2 роки тому +9

    Can you share how his parents react to him being in a relationship with you? Cause I’ve heard a lot of korean parents don’t want their kids to marry outside of their ethnicity?

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +8

      We sure can!

  • @e.fooyoung7451
    @e.fooyoung7451 3 місяці тому

    The dude best not mess with the chick. She's buff and she will easily *-MESS-* you *UP.*

  • @edb9139
    @edb9139 2 роки тому +4

    Just being curious Jae, you dated two women before Min, what happens if you met another woman that you liked? Fair to say you are Bi, correct? The way your relationship started is very interesting & I agree it made it easy to get along since non of you was trying to impress the other, no pressure. I have watched couple videos & they have being fun. Look forward to watching more.

    • @MINJAE1
      @MINJAE1  2 роки тому +11

      It is no different then any other relationship, if someone meets someone they like.. and I don’t like labels so you can’t call me bi or w/e lol I think the “term” for me would be pansexual though~
      Like in a girl and boy relationship the girl meets a guy she likes, is no different if I meet a girl.. girl or guy doesn’t really change the outcome~
      But I am happy with my partner for life, not saying there won’t be other great people who might enter my life, but I am confident I found my one :)

  • @CeciliaCarleen_Stories
    @CeciliaCarleen_Stories 2 роки тому +2

    Happy holidays to you both. Gorgeous couple.
    Korean men are very sizzling.
    California 💛