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Remember, there are so many differences I failed to mention in this video, I simply didn't have the time. Things like women being paid less for the same work, the difference in going to the doctor as a woman (doctors don't listen to me as much) etc, etc.
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wren is a scam, like the entire "global warming" industry.
And claiming "the first X customers will get Y" is a scam all its own, and is actually illegal in the EU.
All I can say is that I am praying for you and your family and I love your honesty when it comes to this video love your family friend John please take care xxx
I’ve been living as a woman for over two years now and I can relate to what you are saying. Personally I think that as a man other men at least to some extent subconsciously treat you as a potential competitor and a possible threat and women subconsciously treat you as a possible threat. As such it affects how they approach you and open up to you, especially if they’re strangers or don’t know you really that well. As a woman it’s far easier to both get help and connect with other people. One of the downsides is indeed that our security situation is far worse.
But female closeness is all fake, they are known to be far more harsher to each other at work than men with other men . It’s not all rainbows 🌈
@@ville__ Are you talking about yourself?
@@ville__ You tell them to stop playing victim, and yet you victimize them by attacking both of them when they never even mentioned being attacked once. Not to mention using slander based on past times.
i have experienced this so strongly, i even was wearing a dress and make up etc people were so nice i went out home changed to "guy clothes" i ran into 2 same ppl ignored me didn't recognize me perhaps, cold, though when ur girl mode potentially again feeling unsafe with men. more happens for girls, hate, love, assault, complements, all emotions.
I can promise you that men do NOT subconsciously treat you as a threat. At all. To be honest when you find out someone is trans the first thought is this person isn’t grounded in reality. They believe in something insane and false.
I was 41 when I started transitioning and I agree with a lot of your points on the changes from being a male to female. I’m much happier now as a woman.
Maybe you are happier with the female body.. but you have to take female hormons your whole life to fix your born male body into female.. and your soul is female.. all male born have an female soul.. female born have a male soul.. so now you are double female
What happens in physics, if you put - + - and + pluse + ? ? We are all guided from Hunab Ku.. you get you life energy from this star, if you want or not.. The Mayan said this..
@@marla31 you don’t make sense
I'm glad to see your comment because I'm 27 and I was afraid tht my age would affect me
Beyond labels you are one of the more intelligent honest voices on social media.
I always enjoy listening to you talk because, you make so much sense and have more dignity than most people
No
@@silkebroxdude7625 Yep.
@@makimusic1826 nope he is not
@@makimusic1826 gay person
@@silkebroxdude7625 You didn't need to out yourself.
You were in the advert I got before the video started
MTF here. As a kid, I cried a lot and was yelled at MANY times to stop crying. I was forced to suppress my emotions and it was horrible. I don't cry as much as I did as a kid, but I am glad to have my emotions back.
So much to unpack here. I’ve always been a crier. Too many of my childhood memories involve me crying. Not sure what that says about me, but… Anyway, I can’t help but wonder if part of the reason some men don’t compliment women on what they’re wearing, etc. is because they worry it may be construed as hitting on them? I don’t know. If I compliment a woman, it’s almost always someone I know. Or it could be shyness. I fall into both categories. Anyway, thanks for a thought provoking video. You always get me thinking.
Showing your emotions and being in touch with them is a good quality, something to be proud Of ❤️
Oh no, What I meant is, men don’t compliment each other. They don’t give each other compliment on things they wear etc.
@ I knew what you meant. And I’m happy to be in touch with my emotions… most of the time. 😏
@ We do compliment each other,just not about the same things as women because we are different to women. We’ll complement things like each other’s cars. Our workmanship on diy projects. Oh,then there’s the gym. Nothing better than when a guy in the gym says to me “looking big king!” The only complement i can return is “Just tryna be like you king!” 😂💪
I too, spent my childhood crying because of dysphoria. Everyday was hell. I came out just over 4 years ago when I was 31. My dad eventually booted me out because I wouldn't detranstion
@@themikaylashow9374 I don’t know how you guys do this. It’s hard enough dealing with the stressors of life in general, but adding gender dysphoria to it is a lot. Kudos to you, Mathilda and everyone else out there who has endured and thrived. ❤️
The way that women talk to each other is one of the best things. I love being on the inside of it now.
So true! I've probably cried, had the ability to cry, and show emotions more since I started transition than I ever did before. It is hard and yet amazing cause it is so much closer to who I am. You are so right :)
This is so close to my experience, but my god I’m so much happier as a woman 🥰. Gorgeous girl, love the top! :)
Hello Mathilda, on your last subject regarding going out alone, you should carry pepper spray. It is very effective against attackers and quite inexpensive. Amazon carries many of these spray devices which are quite compact and easily carried in a purse or pocket. You're an attractive woman and you're going to be noticed. Be safe!
It’s illegal in Europe
I have experienced all that you describe. Pretty privilege can extend into the 70’s😉 thank you very much. I describe my emotional transition as like passing from a world of black and white to one of brilliant color.
Loving yourself and accepting yourself for who you are is waaaaaaaay better than hating yourself and wanting to change. The most beautiful people are the ones who love themselves. LOVE YOURSELF. ❤️
I'm gonna be honest, speaking from my own personal experience, it seems pretty terrible to be a guy in modern society. Practically NO ONE has any empathy for guys, not even other guys.
10:32 This is very accurate. I talk to my gay best friend about my personal stuff, and he's a good sounding board. As a guy, I'm fortunate to have ONE person to talk to. Most guys have no one.
For a little while, I went to a men's group which was basically 2 hours worth of men talking about their shit every 1 - 2 weeks. Seems like a nice concept, but something about it seemed... shallow, performative, and disconnected. Maybe I suck at making friends, but there seemed to be virtually no connection outside the group meetings and telegram chat. I saw many people come and go and never be heard from again. I have no idea if any of those guys un-alived themselves or simply stopped showing up. I eventually just stopped going, and not a single person ever reached out to me even though many had my contact info.
In other cultures in other times, there are plenty of stories of men having passionate platonic friendships with one another. When I look around the United States, nearly all the men seem to be hollow shells incapable of connecting with anyone.
There's something very wrong about this, and I have empathy for FTM trans men who are in for a rough time.
Personally, before transitioning, i was living in a sort of toxic masculinity because i was afraid of being feminine (and that I'd like it, which i did lol).
Even with that tho, i was never able to be super masculine or anything, but was really careful not to appear feminine in any way.
Anyway, now that I've started transitioning, all if that has gine away, I'm waayy more free and don't ever think about how masculine or feminine i look (gesture wise; dysphoria is a bitch).
Authenticity is so important.
Oh it is I was trapped in a cycle of it for nearly 8 years finally cracked and said I can't take it anymore and confessed to my grandparents and now I'm getting my first appointment to start my transition journey ^^
I'm very much the same. I'm to old to transition now but I also grew up suppressing all my emotions because that's what boys were supposed to do. A lot of things I struggled with such as bullying, insecurities, injuries etc I never told anyone about (not even my parents) because men were supposed to be strong and just take it. It's so deeply engraved in me that I still do that :/
Okay, what I am going to say is out of respect. I do not think that this is a fair video. Maybe life a cute or attractive Caucasian Girl verses being a Boy. We should not judge how much each of us passes or not passes, and how some of us are very petite and some of us are plus size or if we are a person from a minority race. When you spoke of how helpful people are to you now that you are a girl, is a extremely loaded statement. I am happy that you brought this "halo" effect up towards the ending of your video, at the same time there were possibly many may have that turned or skipped away from your video, not waiting until the very end. Also, you did not cover race. I know folks are always throwing it in, at the same time I belonged to a Women of Color group that covered mostly Hispanic and African Americans, and this topic was brought up a few times. My main group is mixed, but like others we would listen to stories of how great some girls who not minorities were, and it came to be painful, because as soon as we were clocked, all of the racial fears would come running back to us. I feel that this might be difficult for you to grasp. If you are "clocked" ... I feel folks would just consider you as an effeminate Caucasian male, where as for us it is different because we instantly are considered lecherous or flat out criminal male standing in front of them.
So, I ask that if you ever consider doing a follow up for this video, to consider ones that do not look like you. Consider that some plus sized young Transgender girl is following everything you said, and believes that unless she looks like you then she will never be treated as a Girl. I still love your videos, and because of that again with respect, I felt I needed to say something.
Hey! You brought up a lot of important points and issues. I’m aware of the privileges I hold and I’ve discussed this in previous videos as well as on my instagram and I’m glad you brought it up.
However this video was about gender and the patriarchal structures. If I would discuss all of my privileges, being white, able bodied, conventionally attractive, having funds etc etc. the video would have ended up being too long.
The issues you brought up however are incredibly important and I will be sure to shine more light on my privileges in future videos. I try my best everyday to be educated and share light on injustices. I’m not perfect however, and I’m just a person.
I have different highlights on my instagram with trans issues, feminism and BLM, If you have any pointers please feel free to message me on Instagram @mathildahogbergs and I could share it on my stories. ❤️❤️❤️
All love to you and I hope you’re okay ❤️
But women control the Date and Sex market, and thus controlling the reproduction of the Human race... "patriach" is an illusion, and have not existed since the Medieval times , with Kings and Queens, and even then it was questionable... since they could even abort back then...
I just don't understand sweetheart most people don't look better with time!!! How is it you look so extremely more beautiful every time I see you?????? And cuter 😍💕 how is this possible baby girl??????
The yellow nails are so cool! Fab video Mathilda 🤟
Another great vid as always, keep up the great work!
This is my favorite hair color I’ve seen on you girl pop off!
i have to point out, that, if you NEVER put on make-up, you wont hear the comment „you look tired“, because you always look that way 😜
make-up is SUPPOSED to make you look „better“ 🤷🏻
Very true.
Make-up makes you look much more youthful, flush, etc.
If you always wear it, and suddenly take it away, you likely are going to appear less "bouncy" and by extension what one would reasonably assume as tired. And sometimes, it's not simply comparative, there's makeup to hide under eye shadows, etc. Make up literally hides tiredness.
Wearing lots of or feeling compelled to wear make-up is also a much more consumerist, consumptionist, hollywood, big city thing. I've noticed that the gender roles in big cities are far greater than where I'm from. Smaller areas, can go either way I suppose. In my experience, it's much more egalitarian, but I've also heard of extremely religious small areas where gender roles were probably worse than many big cities.
Conversely, most guys look kind of well, dingy, all the time. I wouldn't call it a "good look", and some guys are definitely obviously more tired out than others. Guys definitely also get told they look tired when they have some change in how they look especially. But also just strangers, and a lot of guys do very physical jobs or long hoursz and there's kind of this expectation, that men shiuld be working physically labourious jobs and being tired is just a byproduct of that and they shouldksuck it up. There's a lot of social pressure on guys to work while also neglecting their health. And bringing up concerns about health for guys, is often something society isn't respectful towards, hence many, many men die from avoiding bringing up concerns.
It's important to remember, it's not an offensive remark to be told one is tired, it's just another person showing empathy and concern towards you. It's OKAY to be tired, and it's okay to not wear make-up. We're all just human, and we need to look out for each other.
I'm glad you've found yourself and living your best life. For me personally, I don't have an issue with getting help from people, I always help when I'm able to so, to an extent I unashamedly feel entitled to others helping me.
I think it's very interesting that you saw such a difference in your emotional range and you were able to open up about non-trivial issues in a meaningful way. As a man, I think this is something we as men should actively and deliberately develop within ourselves and grow into, even before transitioning. I think I'd very interesting in watching a video about why you feel that this is the case, surely it can't be completely about hormones right?
love you ❤️❤️❤️
@@ville__ Yes you are
Lmao what a coincidence when I clicked on your video I had an ad that you were in lmao
You are so incredibly GORGEOUS.
Hi Mathilda! You Have A Great Show, And I Love You For It! You Explain Everything About Yourself In Great Detail. I’m Proud Of You For Doing That, I Know It Hasn’t Been Easy For You! I’m A Male Transvestite, That Dresses Up In Women’s Clothing Occasionally. I’m Kind Of Ashamed Of Myself For Being Like This. I Don’t Know What To Do, Explaining My Feelings To My Family And Friends. It’s Kind Of An Emotional Subject! I Think Your Shows Have Helped Me. Thanks Mathilda For Your Kind Support! Gene David Vos
I feel u sis.. literally
So glad you touched on makeup, it’s such a hassle and a scam. I just don’t wear it at all, it’s uncomfortable and unnecessary.
I feel you girl
As a woman your are allowed to show your emotions and as a man you don't get to show his emotions and you can hug your friends and not be called gay you are very beautiful and I am glad you are who you needed to be makeup is not very good for people and as a woman you can wear what ever you want pants and skirt's and there's a few things that women don't have to do that men do
yeah, I've noticed that even at family reunions no men hug each other, they only hug the women and shake hands with other men. My dad greets my grandfather with a handshake, but my grandfather hugs my sister, mom and I. How is it gay to hug your own father? I've never understood why men are so averse to any sort of physical contact with each other, maybe its an american thing.
Facts. Men, and sadly friendships and relations with other guys feels more…surface. Even hangout with, most people treat you like a guy so it’s like, more often than not people don’t really listen as much or open up that communication opportunity. You just have to bottle things up a lot and deal. It sucks.
Looking so gorgeous ❤️
Love You Girl ❤️
Matilda I feel that you and I are basically 2 peas in a pod cause so much of what you say in all your videos I feel like it's coming out of my mouth cause I feel about the same way you feel and and it makes me feel closer to you in I've always loved my neighbor and of course I love you as a sister!! Take care and I love you lots and lots from your sister Kenzie🏳️⚧️🫂😘💜💜💜💜
I'm still laughing a "wild animals?"
Always you have a best😍😍😍
Being non binary femme, I like some aspects of both aesthetics, so it takes so long to get ready, makeup, long hair, nails, body hair, beard, skin care, everything u said plus facial hair I like rocking a beard too ☺️😌 and yeah i feeling you on everything you said though some you have experienced perhaps to a stronger degree.
@@ville__ oh, think androgynous but more towards feminine alignment but not women.
Non binary just means not those 2 binaries man women but can be how ever u align that's just one thing in the non binary category 😄
@@ville__ yes u are very gross 😖🤮🤢
@@ville__ So are you. You’d be better as a Villy instead of a Ville.
good like always
Damn you are really pretty. ❤️
That’s crazy facts you listed at the end. It’s really sad.
Do you think that if you did not transition and just worked on your mental health or how to say it could it lead to not transitioning anyway?
I would definitely transition anyway. I’m trans, not depressed.
Listen to the video. She is definitely a woman, because she has no clue how men think or the issues we deal with in society,
If you are trans I dont truly believe you were ever a "man".
There is depth to truly being a real man that women cant comprehend.
As someone with a trans girlfriend, I completely agree. Much love to y’all
When I got helped to Search for job my coach told me to apply makeup bc it would be easier to hire me :))) me being 19 yo got really offended by that.
So it’s not like somebody tells us to do it rather we know the consequences of not doing it
⭐️⭐️💜
I like that green shirt
I just started transitioning, and this video kinda hits home. Living in a male body is very lonely =(
If you were lonely as a male now imagine your a male that pretends to be a woman... Imagine how many people looking for that. No one.
@@stevensgarage6451 clearly you don't know anything, so have fun with outdated toxic opinions rofl 🤣
Hope you're doing well!
You are so gorgeous
hi i love your videos you are soooo pretty and as i am a trans closeted woman your videos have been soo helpful and you have really been my light in the darkness. do you have any tips of how to come out to my parents?
You’re so damn pretty!
❤❤❤
So interesting about the estrogen. Haha being a woman is hard! So many emotions!
*we live in a society* but it’s 15 minutes long
Get well soon
The statistics I have to note, are not better for men at night. Odds of being mugged etc are much higher for men.
Women are more likely to be sexually assaulted, but crimes in general are more likely to happen to men.
#If you wouldn't let your woman-friend walk alone without offering to accompany them, why would you let your male friend?
That might be, but they are attacked by other men. Both genders are afraid of men.
Woman are susceptible to such attacks because they are smaller, lighter, and weaker than males. You don’t have that issue because you’re a biological male.
Hi mathilda my name is Erica and I really love your nail polish color and I was wondering if you could tell me what the color name is
It’s called Solero, like the ice cream ❤️
@ hi mathilda it’s Erica and I am wondering if you could tell me we’re you got your nail polish because I can not find that color around up here we’re I live in maine I was wondering if you could get me a bottle of it for me and I could send you the money for it and to send it to me I would really appreciate that
Hi mathilda it’s Erica and I am wondering if you could pick me up some of that nail polish and let me know how much it cost and send it out to me and I would send you the money for the nail polish
When i was a men, I was already so feminine compared to others mens
Except for Australians, they gotta watch out for wild animals too.
Iam mtf trans and am pretty sure that am a trans girl since i discovered this but i dont know what to do with insecurities that people make me feel about my self that am not really trans as am feeling or knowing and that's so hard for me to deal with so can someone help me !
Most trans people don’t really know at first in my opinion. Lots of trans people also experience the same insecurities and wonder if they’re really trans. It can take a while to figure out, but you will figure it out, be it in a month or 3 years.
You are still male ffs
@@silkebroxdude7625 Male is not a gender lol. It's a sex.
@@mattai075 thx 4 ur help 💜
@@silkebroxdude7625 Troll trying to hide error. How typical and yet, cowardly.
12:50 You are.
Your so beautiful! 😘💍
bot?
Can you explain to me what it means to live “as” a woman. That’s the part I don’t get. I know how to “be” a woman . I just get up in the morning and I am. No makeup needed. I can add that if I choose, but I never spend one minute of the day living “as” a woman. Never think about it. I’m sure you are a lovely person, I just don’t get it.
You failed to note that she also said living “as” a man, though in her case it would be living as a teenage boy. She’s speaking in 3rd person.
Buongiorno Gorgeous I'm John and hope you get well and love it video sending you a big hugs and great blessing to you love💖🌹🙏😇🙏😇🙏💙
1. if nobody is telling you to get all girlied up then why would you feel the need to do it, just because you see other women doing it? 2. You say women are nicer but have you ever approached a guy the same way and been as open?
Did you watch the video? Women get consequences for not having makeup. Small comments and gestures to try to conform you to wear makeup. According to statistics, women who wear makeup are treated better in society, have a higher succes rate in getting a job, and is more likely to find a partner. There are several studies made on this. It's because in our society it's a norm for women to wear makeup and women who step away from this norm get consequences.
Also during my years as a man, I never recieved a single compliment from another man.
@ You just proved that you are experiencing female privilege and don't even know it. Those consequences are from other women. Women are torturing each other and blaming men for it. If every woman refused to where make-up, men would be upset for about a week, then we wouldn't care. It is women competing with each other and bringing each other down that is the problem.
@ Hmm... it's hard for me to envision it but I'll take you're word for it. I honestly cannot remember if I've ever given a guy a compliment. As a matter of conversation I've mentioned a guy is handsome or looks good in a suit, but I don't think I've even told a guy directly.
I’m still trying to figure out how women’s stats relate to you. Do you have stats for biological men Who cross dress and wear make up vs Cross dressing men who don’t wear make up?
So Cute Honey 😘
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second?
tbh you kinda look like Kim wexler
If u don't have boy Fran I want to be ur life partner 😎
I love this video but why do guys have to suppress everything that makes them human? Society sucks.
I'm so confused.. Never would i've guessed you're trans.
You need to be more self aware.
Love u I want to be ur life partner seriously 😍😍😍
with all due respect, carbon keeps us alive.....and you're not a woman, you're a surgically altered man...thanks
I think a lot of trans cases are feminine men and masculine women. And they think oh, I souks be the opposite gender because my gender doesn't match my temperament, doesn't match my personality or my preferences. If gender shouldn't matter, why are we so stuck on gender affirmation? People say if you have a penis it doesn't mean you're a man, so why are we so persistent on gender reassignment? You can have a vagina and act like a man and that's perfectly fine! And vice versa. We shouldn't reaffirm gender stereotypes by having your genitals cut open. If you're a man and feel like you can't be emotional or soft or feminine, that's a you problem. Just be who you want to be.
The gender dysphoria is a different story, and I'm not telling you not to have the surgery. I have seen trans people be pressured by others in the community into thinking they need the surgery because they don't feel like the correct gender or what society has told you how your gender should act. And those are the majority of the cases that detransition.
That's why I appreciate your channel, you're honest and tell people it's okay to not have the surgery, as long as you're happy in the body you're in. That's all that matters. More people need to watch your channel.
YOUR VOICE IS A BIT DEEPER NOW THEN THE PAST VIDEOS
I’m sick. It’s not the end of the world. No need to be flabbergasted.
@ WELL IT'S BEEN A WHILE SINCE I SEEN YOUR VIDS BUT GET WELL SOON
Carbon footprint?
Get a grip.
Looking handsome man
Cope.
@@larykemey8297 i dont think you know what "cope" means
@@gigachad1021 Cope
@Sassy rat #Save Ukraine 🇺🇦 nope
Yes im a gigachad
@@larykemey8297 i don't think you know what "cope" means
You are so much cuter as a boy. Please turn straight again 🙏 😫 YOU ARE SOOO CUUUUTE AS A BOY 😍 💕
Um, she's taken, and that would wreck her mental health. Stop objectifying her -_-
You've male body bro
You really haven't.
Like, I have zero idea what living as a guy is actually like. None. Didn't understand men pretransition. Don't understand them now.
I've lived as a girl, and a girl forced short hair and boring clothes. 🤷