Girl, don't apologize for talking about yourself! Ya'll are a team and a package deal. We want to know about both of you and how you navigate this crazy thing called life (even hair routines). Keep doing what you do and thank you for sharing a part of you. Look forward to following your blog!!!! #naturalhairpoppin
I think it's because some people give them lot of hate. They delete the hate comments, there are even racist ones to both of them. I can be wrong but I think she don't want to get bad attention.
I’m married to a black woman from 🇹🇹. Last night I helped her wash her hair and dry it. It takes hours to do but I love her and I don’t complain and I enjoy helping her. She always feels so much better after a hair wash. Black hair care is so much different then white hair care. It requires a lot of patience and love.
@@rachmae4180 that's good to ask for help because my mom just left my hair..she didn't know how to take care of it so my dad ended up doing it lol but it was always actually super cute when he did it 😋
I'm a 61 year old white old lady. LOL Lately I've been into watching Hair care for the African gals. I am so into it. I love silk press Never saw hair so shinny. I think I've watched so many I could actually do the silk press. I'm still trying to understand the products and such Also learning some about different staged hair. I don't know why but Suddenly I want a new career. LOL STAY POSITIVE and my God bless your blog. AMEN
That's cool, it's fun to learn about and get interested in things outside of your personal daily experience that you might not otherwise have been exposed to. UA-cam is pretty awesome really, you can learn more about almost anything
Maranatha Quickly I hear your joy so please hear me in 🥰 love... as I trust you mean/meant no harm. *Please don’t use GaL when referring to, talking about or talking to Us* please just know it’s rooted in bad history and dehumanizing us. #BeWell
I love this!! My boyfriend is also white and I am mixed, black and white. He asked if he could tried to braid my hair, I only got to explaining he had to separate it into three parts and he quit 🤣🤣
When Cole said he'd love for his kids to have a "mess of hair" I imagined just little energetic kids with free, natural hair being complete cuties with their hair getting messy in the wind as they run around and play :D
My husband is white and alot of times he gets curious about my 4C hair and Im always happy to teach him about my hair! I really think its great when white guys in relationships with black women make an honest effort to learn about our hair!
I like that Cole is so open-minded and he's inquisitive and wants to know about things. Charisma you really are stunning very pretty and it's funny because Cole just watches you and you can just see in his eyes that he's memorized by you.
Can we talk about the passion and love in Cole's eyes when he looks at Charisma? Just pure focus on her. They are the definition of love. Race, abilities whatever doesn't matter. Keep being yourself ❤❤
Yeah, I agree! I knew she looked like someone familiar, but couldn't put my finger on it. Charisma is an attractive young lady. Continue to treat yourself well, Charisma!
Hello, Roll with Cole & Charisma! Bathroom scene...what's up here? Black hair...oh my!! It's all good! Lil' Sis, you have beautiful hair. So, PLEASE, do your best not to neglect it, ok?😏 Don't take it for granted; alhough, I don't think you intend to. I wish you well Cole!👍🏼
You guys are so cute I can’t stop smiling watching you guys. My boyfriend and I have the same type of vibe and it’s refreshing to see other couples being able to feel so much love for each other despite differences and struggles 🥺💗
Cole straight up embodied the white guy blinking meme when the hair clip that Charisma was trying to use blew out of her hands... I love you guys, but I have never laughed harder than his face in that moment
“I recognize that terminology...” 🤣🤣😂🤣 He sounds like my husband when it comes to hair el oh el but sissss Spill the skin care deets. Your skin is beautiful and clear. Yess we love cole but we love you too!!
My husband had no clue about women’s hair and what we have to go through. After I talked him into shampooing my hair it only took one time for him to start paying for me to go to the beauty shop and the nail shop twice a month. 😆. He said he doesn’t know how women do it. He said we use too many hair products and it confusing to him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think it all depends on hair type and personality. My have oily, fine, thin hair, so I just need to wash, condition the ends, and a bit of volumizing dry shampoo on the roots and I'm good to go. It air dries in minutes, even in the winter.
@@alisaishere fine thin club here too. It sucks honestly. I have to use so much product just to make myself look like It's not so thin. I miss my thick hair, I don't know what happened 😣
I look forward to these videos. I find myself pouring through the postings looking for something I haven't yet watched. Most importantly, I have recently suffered spinal cord injury through illness. So, I am now dealing with paraplegia. Watching you has helped me and has given me much needed information in order to deal with this. Most importantly, I feel motivated to get my life back...or even a better life back.
@@shantaworld4702 Im a white chick. I wake up. brush my hair and away. My ex neighbors and friends are from Zimbabwe and Kenya. The extent they went through. I would go and check it out. But the damage done to the hair was crazy. Beauty is harsh in the case of their hair. So many bald spots. Opened my eyes.
My sister is half black and my black friends taught me how to do her hair when she was little. I've had a lot of practice taking care of her hair and I know I am real good at it...it takes practice and research...it's actually easy .
@Laura I’m glad you learned and helped keep your sister’s hair done. Idk why some of the comments come off as discrediting the ease in which you do YOUR SISTER’S hair especially since anything you’ve had a lot of practicing doing will get easier and become easy. Also just because your sister is biracial doesn’t mean her hair isn’t natural nor does it mean that she automatically has the perceived mixed girl/easier to deal with hair. I know plenty of mix people with hair that takes more time to manage than non mixed black people. You never know what hair you’ll get being mixed. However, most of the non mixed black people that I know do have to put in more time and care than most other people. But, at the end of the day, practice and experience do help. I’m glad you’re good at doing your sister’s hair because I’m only mediocre at doing my own hair.
@Monica Jones my sister has very very coarse hair. She doesn't have wavy hair, or however you're saying. It's easy for me because I remember instruction pretty fast and I am very good with my hands; my Asian friends also instructed me what to do. I've been doing my sister's hair up to the age of 18..no i am not black , but I am good with all types of hair..for me it's easy
Cole you never cease to amaze me, you’re always trying new things with Charisma, and charisma, you’re always willing to learn things about Cole, you guys Rock, I’m a 56 year old woman from Alabama, that love your UA-cam channel, can’t wait to see the wedding:
You have a warm and good friendship. Also a loving relationship. Which will get you through life as a couple . Love how you complement each other. Cole you are very special and understanding. Stay safe guys ❤🙂😷
Awww Cole you are so sweet. I can feel how much you wish you could do Charisma's hair. But just sitting by hair and giving her the moral support is so amazing!!!
Normally, I don't encourage newlyweds to have children, but I just love that Cole looks forward to becoming a Father. I think you will have beautiful children. I would love to see Cole attempt to do a little girl's long, curly hair! :)
Lol when the conditioner was rolling away - imagine someone starts watching the video from there and you guys are talking to something on the floor😂😂 hugs and love to you both.
I love the fact that ‘natural hair’ can be changed into so many other looks. Most people would love that. So unique and love Cole’s involvement lol. You guys are so good together 💕
You guys are the cutest couple! The fact that Cole is willing to at least try/learn how to do your hair is awesome. I can’t even get my husband to brush or play with my hair, I’m so jelly! I love that you talked about yourself in this video because it still shows how you work together as a couple and navigate the things many couples deal with. Blessings and good health to you both 🙏💜
You're a huge part of Cole's life don't be shy about talking about yourself too! You two are such a beautiful couple inside and out. New but subscribing! So far it's been fun, happy and educational.
Good for Cole 👍🏾 for trying to understand more about ethnic hair!! Can’t wait 😊 till the day when we see Charisma walk down the aisle & start a family 🥰🥰🥰🥰.
I love black women's hair, there is so much you can do with it! I have thin stick straight Navajo hair that won't hold a curl at all. I have to wash it every day. Grass is always greener I guess 😁
Thank you sweet Charisma for posting about your hair. It's really interesting and for some of us (i am not African American) it is the only way to learn about different hair textures etc. I would never approach any of my African friends and put them on the spot or make them feel self conscious by asking them about it, but any time anyone volunteers to give me information about something, I AM ALL EARS!! I love, love, love your posts and wish you and your handsome beau a LIFETIME of happiness together xx
I love authentic, transparent & unapologetic blogs. Shared heartfelt and honest experiences are truly ‘the journey.’ Those are the ones I read. I’m sure yours will be fabulous. Can’t wait.
I just watch your “ Love don’t judge” on Snapchat and as soon as I saw you had a UA-cam page I just had a follow you because you are a beautiful couple with a strong connection💖 I wish the two of you nothing but the best😘
I agree do not ever apologize of who you are and anything about yourself. It would be nice to see more about how Cole will adapt to the new house with you alone. Also, may be when you have kids how will he manage. These blogs are very educational. Even though me and my husband are able body. You never know what life may turn out for you. Blessings to you both Kay S. In California
Awesome!! You guys are a team so, it doesn't matter what you two talk about with us on YOUR channel!! Charisma you are beautiful inside and out!! Have a wonderful, safe and blessed day! Peace and Blessings!
I dont know why I laugh every time Cole hides under a curtain, he's so silly😂 I love it. Also, my 3 kids are biracial and they all have very different hair. I'm black and had to learn how to maintain their hair.
Cole and Charisma you are one in a million. You will never imagine the positive impact your videos are on your subscribers. Keep up the good work and don't let negative people discourage you. Remember you have more people for you than those against you. God bless you both.
What a guy👏 awesome job guys. 👍 You brought back memories of one of my favorite movies "out of Africa "when robert Redford washed Meryl Streep's hair.💙😷🤗 praying continued blessings
CAN NOT Wait for the blog!!!!!!would love to see: tours of your city and spots that you like/vintage shopping for your home furniture/ workouts / Your diy for your garden + house!!!! Can’t wait !!
My daughter (6) was cracking up at Cole when the conditioner rolled away...😂 We love watching yalls videos! And if we ever see you around (we live in the same area!) we are gonna have to say hi! 🥰
Omg! You two are a perfect match! Charisma I have to admit I was trying to figure you two out. I have watched a lot of your videos but after this one I get it! You LOVE working with Cole and allowing him to do anything he’s willing to do! Cole is very handsome so of course he’s attractive and as an Occupational therapist this is your heart and soul, I see now Cole isn’t a burden to you AT ALL, you actually enjoy every second you’re together. You allow him to do things on his own and you’re always there to help if he needs you but you encourage him to do the things on his own, like you enjoy watching him and seeing him in all his glory ❤️. I love you guys! And Cole’s determination and constant upbeat spirit is very encouraging. I love how he makes you laugh and he is very funny. So sweet!
I love this quality time & all-around education of disabilities, black culture, & everything that y'all experience personally & together. Maybe I can educate anyone that doesn't know this, but most "standing" showers have floors that are built downward/concave, in hopes to keep the water from going out & damaging the floors. If the water were able to get out, not only could it damage floors, but also the baseboards, walls, etc. So it's generally better to not create a flat surface in your "standing shower."
I really love you guys... You both give me hope that a better world is possible... One full of love, respect, humor, support, acceptance and of course Positivity!!! Thank you both for being such awesome people!!!
Love you guys and watching y’alls relationship always puts me in a good mood ❤️ I don’t know if you will see this but after the corona virus stuff is over you guys should make a video about things to do in the Richmond VA area! (maybe emphasize what things are accessible and what things aren’t) I will be moving to Fredericksburg in a few weeks and would love to know some hidden treasures like good Restaurants and what not in the area :)
The struggle of having nature hair, is all the work that goes into it. Charisma made it look easy, and fun having Cole help out. Excited for the blog :)
Once you learn what products to use and what works best for you it's easy. I use to spend a lot of money on products but now I buy coconut oil or olive oil that you cook with and a maybe eco styler gel or gorilla snot. Keep it simple and allow your hair to do what it wants.
My 7 year old son is biracial. I'm white and his daddy is black and he ended up with my straight ass hair. We have from time to time people not believing he is his dad because of his hair. 🙄
You only have to look at Paternity court to see that just because someone looks a little different does not make a difference. Heaps of black men are like its not my kid its white. HOW RUDE for a start. Then the jokes on them because the DNA comes back. I have a friend whom on her Dads' Greek side has one Cousin who is blonde and blue eyed. But her Aunt is also Blonde blue eyed. All the rest of the family are olive, black hair and brown eyes. Back to Paternity court. You then can sometimes look at the kid and go yea thats his. Then the DNA comes back and you get floored.
hey you never know! my sibling had pretty straight hair, it was curly at the ends, and then they hit puberty and all of a sudden their hair turned into a like 3c/4a hair type
My wife has had people (that sees her everyday) ask her if the kid she is holding is hers. My daughter is very light skinned but has a lot of my wife’s features.
Girl, don't apologize for talking about yourself! Ya'll are a team and a package deal. We want to know about both of you and how you navigate this crazy thing called life (even hair routines). Keep doing what you do and thank you for sharing a part of you. Look forward to following your blog!!!! #naturalhairpoppin
I think it's because some people give them lot of hate. They delete the hate comments, there are even racist ones to both of them. I can be wrong but I think she don't want to get bad attention.
Yessss
I find talking about your hair so interesting & amazing ☺
So many products & mantience🤦♀️
End result beautiful ❤
I think because it's a couples channel, so she feels bad doing something by herself. Plus a lot of their content is about Cole's disability.
We do!!!!
Thank you! ❤️
I’m married to a black woman from 🇹🇹. Last night I helped her wash her hair and dry it. It takes hours to do but I love her and I don’t complain and I enjoy helping her. She always feels so much better after a hair wash. Black hair care is so much different then white hair care. It requires a lot of patience and love.
Just consider it bonding time. Im sure she appreciates you trying to help!
I'm a fan of Charisma & Cole from 🇹🇹
Trinidad and Tobago in the house. 🇹🇹
Trini Massive 🇹🇹 🇹🇹 🇹🇹!! Happy Independence day everyone! I love seeing Cole and Charisma's content crossing continents to all cultures
@@rachmae4180 that's good to ask for help because my mom just left my hair..she didn't know how to take care of it so my dad ended up doing it lol but it was always actually super cute when he did it 😋
Cole is getting the Black hair experience!! LOVE IT!!
Um..he’s just doing his girlfriends hair. Why does it matter that she’s black?
Oh BTW they're engaged
Ashley Madison it doesn’t matter
Ashley Madison it doesn’t but black hair is different than other types, it’s extremely kinky and curly
@@AshleyMadisonsRight because our hair is different.
Lol Cole is afraid of hair products,brave man to even attempt his ladies hair. You two rock
She got the hair twisting done really quickly. Wonderful couple. I thought they were already married. God bless.
Great job! I know how hard natural hair can be to style.
+q+
I love the way Cole looks at Charisma and when he talks about there future children his eyes 👀 light up; so cute 🥰!!!!!! #StayPositive
The way he looks at her when she’s speaking 😍😍😍 so sweet
The way Cole looked at Charisma while she was talking abut her blog...😍
"I want BIG curls like macaroni noodles..." That was so cute! You two are beautiful together!
YES that was cute lol
Cole, your face when Charisma was talking about her blog was so sweet. So much love in those eyes 😀
I'm a 61 year old white old lady. LOL Lately I've been into watching Hair care for the African gals. I am so into it. I love silk press Never saw hair so shinny. I think I've watched so many I could actually do the silk press. I'm still trying to understand the products and such Also learning some about different staged hair. I don't know why but Suddenly I want a new career. LOL STAY POSITIVE and my God bless your blog. AMEN
Aww I find this so sweet 💗 Keep exploring your passion!
Lol so sweet 💕
LOL. Our hair is not easy to deal with but we a loads of versatility
That's cool, it's fun to learn about and get interested in things outside of your personal daily experience that you might not otherwise have been exposed to. UA-cam is pretty awesome really, you can learn more about almost anything
Maranatha Quickly I hear your joy so please hear me in 🥰 love... as I trust you mean/meant no harm. *Please don’t use GaL when referring to, talking about or talking to Us* please just know it’s rooted in bad history and dehumanizing us. #BeWell
I love this!! My boyfriend is also white and I am mixed, black and white. He asked if he could tried to braid my hair, I only got to explaining he had to separate it into three parts and he quit 🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
I learned how to do it many years ago on long campervan journeys. We used to sit on a picnic rug with a fringe and plaite them together
nature hair isn't for the faint of heart! lol
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Lol, now that's sad
Charisma is so pretty !!!
Receives greetings from Mexico 🇲🇽 🇲🇽
When Cole said he'd love for his kids to have a "mess of hair" I imagined just little energetic kids with free, natural hair being complete cuties with their hair getting messy in the wind as they run around and play :D
My husband is white and alot of times he gets curious about my 4C hair and Im always happy to teach him about my hair! I really think its great when white guys in relationships with black women make an honest effort to learn about our hair!
This is too cute that Cole really wants to understand your natural hair.😂❤️
I like that Cole is so open-minded and he's inquisitive and wants to know about things. Charisma you really are stunning very pretty and it's funny because Cole just watches you and you can just see in his eyes that he's memorized by you.
Can we talk about the passion and love in Cole's eyes when he looks at Charisma? Just pure focus on her. They are the definition of love. Race, abilities whatever doesn't matter. Keep being yourself ❤❤
Does anyone ever tell Charisma that she looks so much like Eartha Kitt?
All the time!!
A lot of people say that, in my opinion Charisma looks like Zoe Saldana
@@kre.7339 yep
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@@coleandcharisma lol
Yeah, I agree!
I knew she looked like someone familiar, but couldn't put my finger on it. Charisma is an attractive young lady. Continue to treat yourself well, Charisma!
The fact that he mentioned porosity - love it! Black hair, such work!
👂🏾”High Porosity” Go Cole! I love this dude🥰
Cole you are so funny😄 Charisma your hair is beautiful you guys are such an amazing couple stay blessed safe and healthy
Ms Charisma, your hair is beautiful those twist curls are gonna look bomb!
I am smiling every time I see u guys. your love is contagious! I LOVE YOU GUYS.
MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT FROM ETHIOPIA. Stay blessed!
I found these two from "LOVE DON'T JUDGE" and must say they are so cute! And she is so pretty!
YAY!! I'm so proud of you guys for making this far. Cole did a great job on your hair Charisma!
Way too cute! I love how Cole is already thinking ahead on how to help with their future children. Yes! I want to follow your blog! God bless
This is so cute!🥰 Cole knows all the curly hair terminologies. He’s killing me! 😂😂
Hello, Roll with Cole & Charisma!
Bathroom scene...what's up here?
Black hair...oh my!! It's all good!
Lil' Sis, you have beautiful hair. So, PLEASE, do your best not to neglect it, ok?😏 Don't take it for granted; alhough, I don't think you intend to. I wish you well Cole!👍🏼
Y’all are the cutest couple!!! I’m so excited to see y’all become parents. Your children will be so beautiful inside & out!
You guys are so cute I can’t stop smiling watching you guys. My boyfriend and I have the same type of vibe and it’s refreshing to see other couples being able to feel so much love for each other despite differences and struggles 🥺💗
I love you guys so much u guys are the cutest couple ever I can’t wait for another video
Cole straight up embodied the white guy blinking meme when the hair clip that Charisma was trying to use blew out of her hands... I love you guys, but I have never laughed harder than his face in that moment
13:22 for those who aren't sure what I mean.......
Sunday Fun!!! I love the natural look!!! No relaxer, damaging chemicals....healthier hair. #interesting #fun
They way y’all look at each other is pure love ❤️ best couple ever
I love it. Lol. Too cute how Cole was watching you. You could see the love in his eyes.
“I recognize that terminology...” 🤣🤣😂🤣 He sounds like my husband when it comes to hair el oh el but sissss
Spill the skin care deets. Your skin is beautiful and clear. Yess we love cole but we love you too!!
My husband had no clue about women’s hair and what we have to go through. After I talked him into shampooing my hair it only took one time for him to start paying for me to go to the beauty shop and the nail shop twice a month. 😆. He said he doesn’t know how women do it. He said we use too many hair products and it confusing to him. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That's the way to do it!!👍🏼😀👍🏼
👍🏾
Paid off for you lol
I think it all depends on hair type and personality. My have oily, fine, thin hair, so I just need to wash, condition the ends, and a bit of volumizing dry shampoo on the roots and I'm good to go. It air dries in minutes, even in the winter.
@@alisaishere fine thin club here too. It sucks honestly. I have to use so much product just to make myself look like It's not so thin. I miss my thick hair, I don't know what happened 😣
I look forward to these videos.
I find myself pouring through the postings looking for something I haven't yet watched.
Most importantly, I have recently suffered spinal cord injury through illness. So, I am now dealing with paraplegia. Watching you has helped me and has given me much needed information in order to deal with this. Most importantly, I feel motivated to get my life back...or even a better life back.
I still get emotional when I remember your mum proposed to Charisma 😭😖 so cute I love her!
A dime size is absolutely never enough for natural hair 😂
Such a good couple your hair looks good
Thank you guys for making this video I don’t know anything about Black people’s hair
Now you know Jade, it’s a struggle. White woman can just wash blow comb and go, not black woman. We go thru it lol
@@shantaworld4702 Im a white chick. I wake up. brush my hair and away. My ex neighbors and friends are from Zimbabwe and Kenya. The extent they went through. I would go and check it out. But the damage done to the hair was crazy. Beauty is harsh in the case of their hair. So many bald spots. Opened my eyes.
@@shantaworld4702 Depends on the black woman. Lots of type 4 wash and gos. It's just that we choose to do more styling.
It's a job, Jake.
Shanta' World it’s depends. My hair is too thin and its a challenger every time I do my hair.
My sister is half black and my black friends taught me how to do her hair when she was little. I've had a lot of practice taking care of her hair and I know I am real good at it...it takes practice and research...it's actually easy .
Is not easy. I guess biracial people and black ppl's hair is to different nt
I think it’s lovely you learnt how to take care of your sisters hair 💖
@Laura I’m glad you learned and helped keep your sister’s hair done. Idk why some of the comments come off as discrediting the ease in which you do YOUR SISTER’S hair especially since anything you’ve had a lot of practicing doing will get easier and become easy. Also just because your sister is biracial doesn’t mean her hair isn’t natural nor does it mean that she automatically has the perceived mixed girl/easier to deal with hair. I know plenty of mix people with hair that takes more time to manage than non mixed black people. You never know what hair you’ll get being mixed. However, most of the non mixed black people that I know do have to put in more time and care than most other people. But, at the end of the day, practice and experience do help. I’m glad you’re good at doing your sister’s hair because I’m only mediocre at doing my own hair.
@Monica Jones my sister has very very coarse hair. She doesn't have wavy hair, or however you're saying. It's easy for me because I remember instruction pretty fast and I am very good with my hands; my Asian friends also instructed me what to do. I've been doing my sister's hair up to the age of 18..no i am not black , but I am good with all types of hair..for me it's easy
@Shell my sister's hair is coarse and now she's grown up and I am still good at it...it's a gift. To God be the glory
You guys are so awesome together, you can truly see the love!!!! Stay safe, healthy and blessed!!!!
Cole you never cease to amaze me, you’re always trying new things with Charisma, and charisma, you’re always willing to learn things about Cole, you guys Rock, I’m a 56 year old woman from Alabama, that love your UA-cam channel, can’t wait to see the wedding:
So happy with the growth I’m seeing on your channel! You guys deserve it all 💖
Ill watch them everyday
“As I am” is a great co-wash. It gets your hair clean like a shampoo, but doesn’t strip the hair and it adds moisture like a conditioner.
Charisma your twists are soooooo neat...
That can never be me 😂😂😂
This is hysterical... you’re so stinkin cute and genuine! Thanks for being a good example and encouraging to others!
You have a warm and good friendship. Also a loving relationship. Which will get you through life as a couple . Love how you complement each other. Cole you are very special and understanding. Stay safe guys ❤🙂😷
I just love y’all chemistry. Yes that natural hair is something else
“Can’t be contained” black hair in a nutshell
Awww Cole you are so sweet. I can feel how much you wish you could do Charisma's hair. But just sitting by hair and giving her the moral support is so amazing!!!
Omg Charisma singing while washing her hair is literally me 😊❤. Love you guys!
Normally, I don't encourage newlyweds to have children, but I just love that Cole looks forward to becoming a Father. I think you will have beautiful children. I would love to see Cole attempt to do a little girl's long, curly hair! :)
2:25 Omg it’s called a container because it contains things..Cole just made me realize this 😂
Hahaha, eureka moment!😂💖
Lol when the conditioner was rolling away - imagine someone starts watching the video from there and you guys are talking to something on the floor😂😂 hugs and love to you both.
A must watch, Cole is too cute
I love the fact that ‘natural hair’ can be changed into so many other looks. Most people would love that. So unique and love Cole’s involvement lol. You guys are so good together 💕
I wish I have a man willing to care for my fro hair. You two are so cute 😍😍😍 greetings from Cameroon, Africa
You guys are the cutest couple! The fact that Cole is willing to at least try/learn how to do your hair is awesome. I can’t even get my husband to brush or play with my hair, I’m so jelly! I love that you talked about yourself in this video because it still shows how you work together as a couple and navigate the things many couples deal with. Blessings and good health to you both 🙏💜
It’s 2.15am and couldn’t sleep. So I logged in and look what I found! YAY! You guys are fab!! Cheers from Australia 🇦🇺💙🐶
You're a huge part of Cole's life don't be shy about talking about yourself too! You two are such a beautiful couple inside and out. New but subscribing! So far it's been fun, happy and educational.
Cole's gonna be a good daddy. He really wants to know all about your hair Charisma.
I'm addicted to watching your videos.You guys are my favorites.
Cole: De-co! Deep Conditioning 🤣🤣🤣
I will be borrowing his word "de-co!"😆
Charisma and Cole you show people that anybody can do anything and no one can tell you different!
Good for Cole 👍🏾 for trying to understand more about ethnic hair!! Can’t wait 😊 till the day when we see Charisma walk down the aisle & start a family 🥰🥰🥰🥰.
You did a great job with your hair, and I’m sure Cole learned a lot, love you guys
I love you guys so much!!! I was watching another video of yours when you posted this lol!!!! 💕
I just love their relationship and how they look at each other. This is such true love and it is so beautiful to watch.
I love black women's hair, there is so much you can do with it! I have thin stick straight Navajo hair that won't hold a curl at all. I have to wash it every day. Grass is always greener I guess 😁
Thank you sweet Charisma for posting about your hair. It's really interesting and for some of us (i am not African American) it is the only way to learn about different hair textures etc. I would never approach any of my African friends and put them on the spot or make them feel self conscious by asking them about it, but any time anyone volunteers to give me information about something, I AM ALL EARS!! I love, love, love your posts and wish you and your handsome beau a LIFETIME of happiness together xx
YAASSS Cole with the natural hair term "High Porosity"... Love the end result Charisma, great job Cole!
I love authentic, transparent & unapologetic blogs. Shared heartfelt and honest experiences are truly ‘the journey.’ Those are the ones I read. I’m sure yours will be fabulous. Can’t wait.
I just watch your “ Love don’t judge” on Snapchat and as soon as I saw you had a UA-cam page I just had a follow you because you are a beautiful couple with a strong connection💖 I wish the two of you nothing but the best😘
I agree do not ever apologize of who you are and anything about yourself. It would be nice to see more about how Cole will adapt to the new house with you alone. Also, may be when you have kids how will he manage. These blogs are very educational. Even though me and my husband are able body. You never know what life may turn out for you. Blessings to you both Kay S. In California
I would like to know, what do Cole & Charisma do to care for your inner being so that you can stay refreshed & positive?
Agreed!!
God is the answer
Queen Butterfly What if not?
Awesome!! You guys are a team so, it doesn't matter what you two talk about with us on YOUR channel!! Charisma you are beautiful inside and out!! Have a wonderful, safe and blessed day! Peace and Blessings!
“Do we have duct tape?” 😂😂😂
Seeing this the same time he said it 😂😂😂😂
Love Charisma’s hair, so full and beautiful.💕💕
I dont know why I laugh every time Cole hides under a curtain, he's so silly😂 I love it. Also, my 3 kids are biracial and they all have very different hair. I'm black and had to learn how to maintain their hair.
I just love you guys!! Definition of real love ..you guys are so lucky to have each other!
Love it.. Good job helping Cole..
The way he looks at her, he’s like I love her so much, you guys are a beautiful couple 💕💜💓
"Do we have duck tape?" LOL I died, duck tape is the solution to everything!
Cole and Charisma you are one in a million. You will never imagine the positive impact your videos are on your subscribers. Keep up the good work and don't let negative people discourage you. Remember you have more people for you than those against you.
God bless you both.
What a guy👏 awesome job guys. 👍 You brought back memories of one of my favorite movies "out of Africa "when robert Redford washed Meryl Streep's hair.💙😷🤗 praying continued blessings
CAN NOT Wait for the blog!!!!!!would love to see: tours of your city and spots that you like/vintage shopping for your home furniture/ workouts / Your diy for your garden + house!!!! Can’t wait !!
My daughter (6) was cracking up at Cole when the conditioner rolled away...😂 We love watching yalls videos! And if we ever see you around (we live in the same area!) we are gonna have to say hi! 🥰
Omg! You two are a perfect match! Charisma I have to admit I was trying to figure you two out. I have watched a lot of your videos but after this one I get it! You LOVE working with Cole and allowing him to do anything he’s willing to do! Cole is very handsome so of course he’s attractive and as an Occupational therapist this is your heart and soul, I see now Cole isn’t a burden to you AT ALL, you actually enjoy every second you’re together. You allow him to do things on his own and you’re always there to help if he needs you but you encourage him to do the things on his own, like you enjoy watching him and seeing him in all his glory ❤️. I love you guys! And Cole’s determination and constant upbeat spirit is very encouraging. I love how he makes you laugh and he is very funny. So sweet!
I love this quality time & all-around education of disabilities, black culture, & everything that y'all experience personally & together.
Maybe I can educate anyone that doesn't know this, but most "standing" showers have floors that are built downward/concave, in hopes to keep the water from going out & damaging the floors. If the water were able to get out, not only could it damage floors, but also the baseboards, walls, etc. So it's generally better to not create a flat surface in your "standing shower."
I really love you guys... You both give me hope that a better world is possible... One full of love, respect, humor, support, acceptance and of course Positivity!!! Thank you both for being such awesome people!!!
Love you guys and watching y’alls relationship always puts me in a good mood ❤️ I don’t know if you will see this but after the corona virus stuff is over you guys should make a video about things to do in the Richmond VA area! (maybe emphasize what things are accessible and what things aren’t) I will be moving to Fredericksburg in a few weeks and would love to know some hidden treasures like good Restaurants and what not in the area :)
I just love you guys. Cole has such a great and fun personality. Charisma is so sweet
You guys are the perfect couple ever!!
The struggle of having nature hair, is all the work that goes into it. Charisma made it look easy, and fun having Cole help out. Excited for the blog :)
Once you learn what products to use and what works best for you it's easy. I use to spend a lot of money on products but now I buy coconut oil or olive oil that you cook with and a maybe eco styler gel or gorilla snot. Keep it simple and allow your hair to do what it wants.
My 7 year old son is biracial. I'm white and his daddy is black and he ended up with my straight ass hair. We have from time to time people not believing he is his dad because of his hair. 🙄
That's on them then. You don't have to prove anything. There is nothing wrong with straight hair. :)
You only have to look at Paternity court to see that just because someone looks a little different does not make a difference. Heaps of black men are like its not my kid its white. HOW RUDE for a start. Then the jokes on them because the DNA comes back. I have a friend whom on her Dads' Greek side has one Cousin who is blonde and blue eyed. But her Aunt is also Blonde blue eyed. All the rest of the family are olive, black hair and brown eyes. Back to Paternity court. You then can sometimes look at the kid and go yea thats his. Then the DNA comes back and you get floored.
hey you never know! my sibling had pretty straight hair, it was curly at the ends, and then they hit puberty and all of a sudden their hair turned into a like 3c/4a hair type
My wife has had people (that sees her everyday) ask her if the kid she is holding is hers. My daughter is very light skinned but has a lot of my wife’s features.
No worries. I've seen so many types of mixed people. Some with curly, kinky, wavy and straight hair. At this point i've seen it all.
Your videos are uplifting and fun to watch. Hope your relationship lasts forever with your humor and and devotion to eachother.
Wishimg you the best