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Hey everyone! Before commenting please watch the full video so you'll understand the full scope of what went into this decision. Thank you for your support! -Cole
Do what is best for you. Trust whatever decision you make. You are a smart young lady. There's a lot of routes success and building a foundation for happiness. 😄🌷
I believe she did the right thing guys.
My humble piece of advice to you today is; JUST BE YOU. You guys are a breath of fresh air to a good number of people out there. Keep up your good work guys.
Cole, in my opinion, you are the most adorable person on planet earth. I am saying this as a health professional - ICU nurse specifically......
This is the single best decision of your life baby girl. You are young, take your time, pray on it, and let god guide you!! You have to have a passion for anything you do..this is your life we are talking about (as a OTR i promise you that you didn't miss out on anything my sister..i lost my passion for OT long ago..and i hated every moment i spent in gradschool pursing OT and i respect the profession but wish I was brave enough to leave when i had the chance..to not look back and pursue my passion which was medicine...but now time is not on my side and my hubby and i want kids...life just happened so fast). I am sooooo proud of you. I am in awe of you. You will manifest the life of dreams and will bring you everything your heart desires.
My next passion has nothing to do with school and im gonna go out and pursue it, you inspired me babes.
You are fearless 😍😍😘😘😘
Congratulations on your next journey, on evolving past the standards society set for you..you pushing past and above that. To find and pursue your passion is a double blessing.
I am excited to see where your life takes you..its going to be AMAZING🤗🤗🤗💃💆🙌
Charisma, you already know what you don't want! This is already a lot ... God will help find the right path👍😇💖💖💖😗Mylène from Paris
Forget that. You are smart enough. Don’t go into debt. Live your life. Omg you guys are beautiful together. I hope you guys have babies soon.
Just because you have a UA-cam channel and share certain aspects of your lives doesn't mean you have to explain and divulge everything. People have to understand that , ultimately, this is YOUR LIFE.
Yes! Charisma...do you!
You are an amazing couple I love to watch you guys Charisma is so cute and positive ,and Cole is so handsome and positive and so loveable the love is real God bless you (2)
I’ve switched careers multiple times... you don’t have to explain yourself to anyone!!
Super awesome...and the more you switch the more you find yourself and still find others who don't want to here anything concerning school.
Omg, that's happen me too. Sometimes I'm very angry of give explanation to every one about my desitions. Horrible. Is like if you change your opinion is bad.
she's a loser. so embarrassing to the black community.. she quick after she found out she was going to marry to the money. yes, he is not rich but he can keep her stable (money wise).
@@numberone-vm4gg How can you say this girl is an embarrassment to the black community? She is obviously in love with Cole. She pays her own bills and does not need your approval. There are plenty of ways for her to make money. She doesn't seem to be in it for the money. She is bright, articulate and hard working. She is not lazy. You should be proud of her in the black community. She's a very lovely girl who is spreading positive messages and offers encouragement. I love this young woman. She is destined for goodness and success.
She is an asset to the community and is a contributing member of society. I don't delineate because she happens to be black because that's racist. Be proud and pray for the nay sayers 🙏🙏 🙏.
I felt it when you said bachelor degrees don’t do anything, and you’re paying back student loans your whole life. 😢 It was a deep feeling.
Literally me now. I had a Bachelor's degree and was getting paid on 12.75 at a PART TIME nonprofit job.
Nora Stimpson Sane. Expect I don’t have the .75 tacked on. I have a BA and never made above $12. I had worked at a magazine for
5 years and it was literally the worst. I hated it. The pay sucked, my boss was awful. COMPLETELY AWFUL. Took me 5 years to get out.
I felt that too. But such is life.
Oh wow. Where yall live? 12.75 thats entry level here
@@nora_ray depends on how much u took out?
I just love how Cole looks at Charisma. You can tell that he absolutely adores her and she adores him. I wish them many more blessings and even more success to come.
I'm quad for over 8 years and i find this channel just now?? THANKS UA-cam ALGORITHM...
And u find it while the topic is about school 😂
you are most welcome. it's addictive. once you start, you will love it all the way. enjoy.....
I'm sorry but I think it is rude as hell and demeaning for ppl to just expect Charisma to get a job to support both her and Cole. COLE IS NOT IMMOBILE OR UNABLE TO FEIN FOR HIMSELF. They are a team! God has a plan for everyone and there's always a reason on why you are feeling the way you are about certain situations. Keep pressing on Charisma and Cole!❤ STAY POSITIVE 💙💚
No I think you got it wrong mate! Charisma can't work to take care of Cole, Cole Syndnor is rich!!
@@Godgirl1966 rich????????????
@@LifeJourneyful why are you getting so hype about it??!! Yes rich.😏
@S W Common sense would indicate that Cole is not struggling for money, he recently purchased a home. His parents are doing well , however it is best to have your own money. Cole gets paid well for speaking events and engagements.
@@Godgirl1966 I have Spina Bifida and I 'm on SSDI. I'm on a fixed income. I bet Cole is in the same situation.
I have a useless degree that I have been trying to pay off for years. Half way through getting my BA degree I knew I was probably making a mistake, and with technology today it is outdated. Wish I had been brave enough to take a break when I was having doubts. I was so worried about disappointing everyone around me and now I realize how they would have supported me. I did struggle as I was unable to find a job in my field and have raised my 3 children as a single mom. I worked 2 jobs at times but still managed to be there for school programs, home work, bedtime, and special moments. I'm very proud of the adults they have become. Throughout those years I became aware that being a care giver is something that fit my personality, I found joy in, and had a passion for. I work in an assisted living facility for seniors with dementia and love my job. So I took a longer path to get where I was going, but it has been a happy and rewarding one. This is a place of positivity, so if anyone wants to criticize for you doing what you needed to do for you, they should move along. We each have our own journey, live your best life girl!
You don’t have to explain yourself. My daughter was in her second year of her doctoral program, 100k + in school debt felt the same way. She called and expressed the same fears. I told her to follow her heart and she feels so much better about herself and has started two business during the pandemic. You go for your dreams.
I now know who Charisma favors in looks.........a young Eartha Kitt !
Yup
Yyyyyyeeeeeesssssss!!!!💐
I was thinking the same thing 👍
I see Eartha too!!
Right! I been watching for months and couldn’t put my finger on it!
Hey! I made the decision after 3 years of college to drop out and join my fiancé’s family in the business world. I remember my Accounting Professor telling me that I was making a huge mistake 😱 I still pursued my Accounting passion in the family owned business. 42 years later I am happy for that drop out decision. I am accounting educated, I work closely with our CPA. She is thankful for my knowledge and my expertise that makes her job easy ❤️ Life is GOOD 🤩❤️ Never feel shameful for making a decision from the heart ❤️
Charisma take care of you first. Remember you can't please everyone. Your dreams are your dreams. Follow your heart. Love ya.
This is a great story. More people need to hear stories like this. I was in fact in a similar situation. I was born with a disability and have used a wheelchair all my life. I was in the top of my class all throughout grade school and high school. Then college hit me like a brick. My freshman year was the toughest time I had academically. In fact, I was afraid to ask for help because I felt like I would be seen as stupid and I was also afraid of failure. After a year, I dropped out and got a job helping people with disabilities. Fourteen years after I dropped out, I made the decision to go back to college and finish what I started. I'm still doing that today and I even help out in the disabilities office. I learned so much in those fourteen years that boosted my motivation to go back and do what I need to do to be successful this time around, both academically and socially. If you'd like to hear more details of this story, please refer to my video entitled "Pathway to College Success".
YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY, GOD WILL LEAD YOU TO THE PATH THATS MENT YOU. YOU GUYS ROCK
Charisma you are on the right path!!!! And I totally get you.
I just love how supportive Cole is to Charisma. Love you guys!!
When something doesn’t feel right, it’s important to figure out why and act. 👍🏼
I love your transparency and you're definitely not a disappointment, I admire your strength and love you both as a couple and individuals!!
I dropped out of college when I was 19, never looked back. I have felt more successful without having an "education".
I agree with Cole your health comes first
Sooo very true we will continue to pray for you and your family.I will continue to watch you guys go forward in life as long as you allow me to watch your Utube.
There is only one person you need to please: yourself, and two people you have to answer to: yourself and Cole. The world can only benefit if you're being true to yourself and doing what brings you joy. Much love, light and blessings to you both!❤
You don't owe anyone an explanation, people judge what they don't know anyway
If it takes more energy and affects your health than taking a break or quiting is the best option, you already have a lot on your plate as it is
Well said and she is already a accomplished OT. Sadly it seems like she is in line for a stroke. At Times her speech is interrupted and her brain seems like the electrolytes are imbalanced.
❤❤❤❤ on point. Same thing I wanted to say. I have a masters and struggle with keeping my head a float. Wanted to push my children to go to college but not anymore. Its all a lie and people steal the money you have to pay back.
adriane ross preach
I left a 5+ career in accounting for a career in memory care - I still feel like I have to explain myself even though I am happier than I ever thought I could be in a career!
Cole look very handsome. He said he lost weight it is also a healthy look. Charisma you are beautiful no matter what hair style and I think Cole love them all. Both of you are so good together ❤️💕 and it shows. Inspiring for me love watching ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️♥️.
Wow!!! That sounded so overwhelming. The commute and the stress was not worth it. You just have to do what’s best for you. It just wasn’t your destiny. You’re just on a different path. It is exhausting to try to live up to other ppls expectations. Just do what makes you happy! It’s never too late to go back as well. You’re young and you have time. I went back to school at 35 and two kids in a totally different field from my first degree. Work at your own pace.
It's nobody's business why you did that
Charisma, you are being an OT and living an “occupational” life. The aim of an OT is independence-using life’s resources to enhance life. The education you would have received would have defined your technical professional skills but the life you’ve chosen to live, will be refined because you’re living your best life...living and loving and being loved and cared for by your beloved. You’re experiencing life.. girl or rather Ms. Charisma, live, learn and continue to be open to the changes your spirit desires.
You and Cole the best.luv u guys
Exactly!!
Byran Your comment is well worth reading, thank you for your wisdom.
Cole is a great guy. Blessings to Charisma and Cole always. 🙏🏽🕊❤️
as a person who forced themselves through grad school and was unhappy the entire time, i am so happy for you! congrats on making such a great decision for yourself!!!
I never had any interest in grad school. The moment I finished my bachelor's, I knew I was done. I always had a dream of being an old fashioned stay at home mom honestly. I went to university as a backup; incase I would not find a husband. When I met my now husband in my final year of my degree, I knew I was done with university lol
Neo KirchBaby how are the boys ☺️
Never rely on a man
Proud of you.
What if your husband die? Who will fend for the family?!
@@phurplkyxxex I understand your concern for sure. But I think she has the degree to fall back on. If you're industrious enough to get a 4-year-degree, you're industrious enough to find a job if you need one. Or even another husband is her love is being a homemaker. The job world is great for some; overrated for others.
I'll support you with whatever you want to do.
Amen
I cannot agree more!
I'm currently doing my masters and I'm often feeling so overwhelmed. I'm glad you made your decision to best benefit you. I'm scared to leave because I feel I would have disappointed so many people. I can't wait to just finish honestly
I feel if you start something you should finish.
Exactly. I finish in June and it's been so stressful. I cry every week. The curriculum is rigorous.
@@tiffany171720052005 Almost there Tiffany!! Congrats 👏
@Jenette M thats what 500 level courses are for. Juz gotta handle it 👍
If the program is not making you ill, please finish it. How can you regret completing the degree?
My husband a similar migraine that was stroke like many, many, years ago that was stroke like and stress related. He switched careers and, knock on wood, he hasn't had another. Do what you need to do to make you happy!
Charisma, the path you took led you to your true passion. Me personally, I'm proud of you for making the decision so many of us might be afraid to make.
I'm in such a similar position right now! You've got to just focus on what you love and what makes you happy above all else! Life is way too short to be stuck doing something that your heart isn't in 💕
Charisma you made the right decision. I’ve been an OT for 40 years and although I love it , the field has changed and healthcare is a big business. You’re a natural and I’m impressed by your abilities and how awesome you are with Cole and how you guys work together. You’re on the right track!! I wish you both success and happiness❤️
WOW. I feel like it was fate that I ended up on your channel. This is destiny. I am in OT school right now, thought about doing PT before, because I thought I wanted to go into healthcare and now that I am in school..I have no drive, I have no excitement, I have no motivation and it is scary!! Mind you, I am in my first week and first year, but I just can't describe it and it is HARD to describe to others what I am feeling. The emotions I am experiencing. Thank you for making this video. I am passionate about working with seniors and planning excursions, dances, birthday parties, movie nights and making their lives more pleasant through the events I put on for them. I feel like that is what I like and enjoy, but it's hard to make that final decision. I don't want to live a life with regrets or be in debt for something that I am unsure about.
Enjoying life is way more important than school. If you find something that make you happy go for it. Don’t worry about what people say just do what best for you and Cole. Stay positively
It takes courage to both find and follow your passion.
Anything that makes you sick doing it isn't worth it. I'm happy for you that you knew the right thing to do for you. It's your life you are doing great.
Your health is more important. I figured you weren’t in school but it’s ok. You really don’t have to explain. My nephew dropped out of school his senior year in college. He know works in his field and takes care of himself, has traveled out of the country 7 times, and is loving life. Most of all he’s happy. All without the degree. He does plan to go back but the company he works for is paying so now he doesn’t have the stress of student loans. Keep your head up, we are proud of you. You will achieve success in whatever you do.🥰🥰🥰🥰
I love how open, vulnerable, candid this channel is. You both are very genuine hearted people and it shows. It’s good that you have a backup plan & honestly going to grad school
For non profit studies sounds like a winner. ☺️☺️🙏🙏👍👍
Live your truth Charisma. You and Cole will do fine.
You don't owe anyone an explanation. I have changed my Major twice and I do not apologize to anyone. Just follow your heart and whats best for you. So glad you made the decision that is going to make you happy.
Charisma, this is you and Cole’s life and you should always do what makes you happy and fulfilled, as long as nobody gets hurt! Y’all do so much to help others that it could be easy to lose yourselves in the process! I am proud of both of you for making this hard decision and always follow your dreams! The sky is the limit! Most people end up either changing majors or leaving school for their career or after graduation getting a totally different career choice! Such is life! Thanks for sharing everything so selflessly! Love and prayers! ❤️🙏🏻❤️
If you hadn't gone down the OT road then you wouldn't have met Cole. So now that you have met Cole, that road has served its purpose and now it's time to travel down the new road together.
As a mom and educator, I do believe school is important, but it doesn't define you as a person. I am not a religious person but I know that we are all given talents that we are meant to share with the world. When you are doing what you're created to do it's not work and everyone benefits. I believe you were destined to meet Cole and have the life you are living now. You both are teaching the world so much. When you are doing what is best for you and your family you don't have to explain yourself to anyone. Take care of yourself first so you can take of those around you. You guys are amazing!
Congratulations, on your bravery and for following your dreams! We can’t wait to see where your journey takes you both. I took a 10 year break before getting my masters degree so don’t worry, take your time.
It's refreshing to hear someone feel the same way about OT and obtaining a master's degree. 2 years ago I tried to pursue OT (submitted applications and everything). After getting some experience, I felt it wasn't for me and ended up not pursuing it. I don't regret my decision. :)
I’m a COTA/L (Occupational Therapist Assistant). I chose the associates degree and graduated with very little debt. I went to a “trade” college and do not regret the decision at all. I worked full time while going to school full time. I’ve been in the field 15 years. People make comments on how I’m “only a COTA.” I don’t want the mountains of paperwork OTR’s have to do. No thanks!
Thank you girl. Im also struggling and I just withdrew from my masters program this semester and I needed to hear this. It is hard sometimes and my mental health was getting a big hit so I had to do it. I still havnt found the courage to tell anyone yet, but this really helped me. Sending love from Australia ❤
You're so brave. Thank you for sharing your story with me. I'm glad you are finding a happy place for yourself.
I'm thinking about doing the same thing too. I applied to grad school but I found out my anxiety and depression are back after another consultation. I've been struggling on and off for the past 6-7 years. Also, I had severe migraines and my left eye was twitching for like 3 weeks straight.
I want to go, but also my mental health is deteriorating a ton. I don't feel present or alp there. Furthermore, I'm spending more money than what I bargained for.
You both are so wise! You are so right, so on target, so insightful, so helpful, and in my eyes, absolutely perfect! I mean it from the bottom of my heart!
Glad you've taken the decision that is best for you, dear Charisma! Proud of you! 👏👏👏🌻😊
I’m glad that you’re ok! You need to take care of Charisma ❤️ Do what makes you happy❤️❤️❤️
I'm a full time college student going into year 6 and still have 2 more years and I'm struggling. I've cut back on work to focus on school but even then I've changed my major 4 times after finding out I wasn't on the right path. Just follow your heart! You're doing great!
I’m very proud of you Charisma! I’m currently taking time off (on my second semester of taking time off currently), because I was assaulted (sexually) last August and I simply couldn’t function, and basically I failed out, and was very suicidal. Went to a mental hospital last May for a week and then was forced to live at home as I wasn’t trusted to live on my own (for safety reasons), and I’ve been home ever since. I am disabled as well (Spina Bifida) and am not allowed to work or I’ll lose my healthcare most likely (I bet y’all know all about that bullshit). So I’m currently at home doing nothing. I don’t have the money or motivation (still incredibly depressed) to go back to school, and getting a degree is the only way for a disabled person in this country to live really. It sucks and I feel stuck. The only way I won’t be in poverty my entire life is if I move to a different country, get a bachelors degree while struggling still, or die, either by natural cause, or by my own hands. It’s so hard living with a disability in this country. I realize that my mental health has to come first right now tho, but I feel stuck. I don’t know how Cole does it and stays so positive all the time.
You are right that you don’t have to explain why you aren’t in school to anyone. It’s very hard for me when people ask me why I’m not in school, and I wish it wasn’t. So, I understand how that can make you uncomfortable. We’re here for you and we love you (both). ❤️
Charisma we will ONLY be disappointed if we don’t get this wash and go tutorial lol. We all love you regardless of what you choose to do! I’m proud of you personally! 💗 Love you guys!
Girl!!! I'm sitting here waiting on it myself!
Love the hair
You love other very much
You are the only author of your life story....never give strangers the power to write chapters for you
I see many have said it already, but absolutely, you do not owe anyone an explanation for any decision you make! Having suffered migraines all my life, and knowing some of my worst ones were totally from stress and no one needs to feel that stressed to cause them! Take care of yourself, and make your decisions for yourself!
I support you 1000%. Life is short so do what makes you happy and fulfilled. Love you C&C.
You do YOU and follow the path that makes YOU HAPPY!! We only live once and it’s not a long time do what fills your heart and this goes for everyone!
Amen
You make me want to cry. I love your testimony. You both are so encouraging. I think what matters is if whatever you do if you enjoy it , you'll never feel like your working a day in your life. Your love is pure God will take care of you both and your babies, with creative ideas.
Charisma I can understand the fear of telling your parents and Cole's because there are parents out there that are not that supportive of a decision like that and I feel so sorry for those that do not have the support of their parents. You and Cole have such great parents and both are just so supportive in all that you guys do. Both you and Cole have a great future ahead of you! I just know that! You both are smart and are driven with everything you do! I'm glad that you do not have that pressure on you anymore! And Migraines are no joke! I suffer from Chronic Migraines and it is not fun!
Wow how could anyone be disappointed in you? You are such a beautiful soul & Cole clearly recognised that judging by the way he looks at you. You’re beautiful together x
I declined my mum's offer to pay for my masters degree. I was tired and of being in school, she got disappointed but later made peace with it.
Jacintha Namiiro Baseka lmao school is tiring!!! I was contemplating doing my doctorate but naaaaah i cant anymore. Im so over it.
Your family is so supportive. My family was not the same when I quit school. I was struggling mentally and my family didn’t care. All they cared about was me finishing.
I was wondering about this. Your journey is your journey 🙏
Charisma you don’t owe anyone an explanation. Whatever your path is you probably won’t know you are on it because it won’t seem like work. It will be joyous and easy, it will just you being you! ❤️
Your Health Is More Important. So im glad your in a place where your health is being taking care of. You got support from both families. And im looking forward to being on walking with you on your next journey. I love the way Cole said i would be there in an hour. That's love.
You can! Whatever u decide, it's gonna work out. You got this!
I have a second cousin who's paraplegic, he's been doing education for schools and people in small own Kansas. He owns a family farm, and gets help, but his wife is a school teacher who met him after his accident. Its been 20 plus years, he got sick this summer but pulled through.
Charisma,
Please don't worry about pleasing everyone! I'm so glad you made the decision that was right for YOU! I'm a teacher and married with 2 children. Two years ago my oldest son was diagnosed with cancer, and 6 short months later my husband became disabled. I had to leave my teaching job and become a substitute part time to support our family. Things don't always go as planned, and you have to make changes & adjustments but that's okay! Keep moving forward and do what makes you happy! Much love!❤
I have several advanced degrees from prestigious schools and the only one that makes me money (50-65$/hr) is my little nursing degree from Cleveland State University. Some bachelor's and associate degrees do pay... nursing was never my dream but neither was struggling for money... make the right decision for you, degrees for the sake of degrees don't mean a thing. Thank you for this channel and being brave enough to push in another and true direction.
At the end of the day you have to be happy and not overwhelmed, still love you guys and support you 100%
You were there to meet Cole.
Truly understand your reason for putting it on hold.
BTW love your hair.
I have been an OT for 27 years and it is my passion. I commend you for realizing it wasn’t yours and finding the path that fuels your fire.
I went through OT school and eventually graduated. I agree with your points of paying back the grad school loan back for the rest of your life. I was the lucky few who owes $100,000. Others had $250,000. I'm 4 years out and still owe $71,000. During OT school, I went through extremely severe depression and mental break downs where I had to see a psychiatrist. Other classmates started coming to classes hung over, and even the best students took days off due to mental stress.
Other things that you don't learn in OT school is the immense amount of unpaid overtime work you bring home as well how companies will push for you to treat patients in a group when some patients need more 1:1 sessions. I've had good and really bad experiences depending on company. New grads get paid starting $68,000 but taxes take a chunk, and after rent, utilities, daycare, car insurance, etc, there's barely anything left.
COVID-19 certainly didn't help either... So I am happy that I stumbled onto your video about you finding a different path instead of OT school.
Canadian OT graduate here. Luckily our tuition is far cheaper but the struggle is the same. I went through similar challenges I burnt out so many times and had to go part time stop working. I’m 6 months post grad and not working as an ot yet not because I don’t want to but I can’t handle it medically. I still have a lot to do in my recovery before I can think of doing so. Financially it is hard but I know is the best decision for myself. I want to be fit and give my all when I work as an ot
@@lilcuty1492 I hope you are getting family support and psychiatric counseling. I am glad that you were able to graduate. I wish the best for you.
On a side note for U.S. individuals considering applying to OT school, and want to save money... it's best to enter now before 2027.
ACOTE and AOTA' will require OT graduate programs to be doctoral degrees in 2027 for U.S.
So I can easily imagine those new OTD students will graduate with at least $250,000. But knowing that interest rates increase every quarter/semester, it'll be higher.
I hope the salaries will increase to balance out the debt to salary ratio.
@@WKaznartist thank you. I am :)
Wow! I heard about that that is insane. Our program in Ottawa is a masters level, 6 semesters, approximately 8000CAD per semester for residents and citizens. Probably double for international students but sounds like it’s still cheaper than in the US.
From one Millennial to another. I'm happy you've decided to not finish school now rather then senior year you've definitely saved yourself time and money. Times have changed school isn't the only way to make money, I support your decision Charisma!💕
I just finished my Doctorate of Physical Therapy in May and passed my boards in July.. PT school was by far the hardest 3 years of my life and it was SO easy to lose track and want to quit but I'm so thankful I didn't because I love my profession. With that said, therapy isn't the field for everyone and I'm glad you made that decision before you completely dedicated your life (and finances, it's too pricey!) into it. Best wishes to you and your future profession/career path, I love watching you all and know you will do great at whatever you put your heart into
i left school for physical and mental health reasons this year & this video means a lot to me
I thought the commute was unsustainable. Grad school is hard without the added stress of a very long commute and very early start to your day. You and Cole need to be happy. That is what is important. You will find another path and you may not finish grad school. Accept the opportunities that come your way and embrace the new adventures. I am sure it will all work out. Wishing you much peace and happiness 💗🙏🏻
Omg I completely understand. I changed my mind alot too. I graduated in O.T. Got into the masters program and left the first semester. I still want to be in the medical field.
Why’d you leave? Good for you though if you knew it wasn’t for you and got out early
Only you know what’s best for you! I used to believe that I wanted to do Cardiology but am now in Nursing & LOVE it. Sometimes it takes time in order for you to realize what you want. Don’t feel bad Charisma 💕
I know a lot of people are saying that its ok but I want to add thank you. Thank you for sharing this with us not only because we love and support you but because it means a lot to people, like me who are in school and having similar struggles. To see you, not giving up but choosing a different path, is really comforting to me in giving me options and showing me that if I decide not to continue its not a failure and its ok. So thank you for sharing and for letting us see you not complete grad school because it is not what most people show on the internet and can feel very lonely.
I've been out of school for 3 years now (going back in September) my mom was okay with it, but she hid it from friends and family. It was a subject I dreaded at any social outings. I worked my butt off and saved some money, I used the excess to travel for a year. When I do finish school, I won't have any debt and I will be well traveled.
So agree Charisma, you need to be happy and both you and Cole would be happier. They are many opportunities that you can capture many by spreading the awareness. Health comes first.
“Life is not guaranteed...” Well said Charisma!
It's not! That's why I'm trying to figure out if I want to go right to grad school. I'm already in debt. When she said you're paying for school your entire life, I felt that in my shundo. I thought I wanted to do PT and nursing too.
The way Cole looks at Charisma is so darn adorable. Keep pressing on!
I am leaving my job for similar reasons and understand how you felt. Luckily, I have supportive family and friends too. I will continue to pray for the best for you and Cole and ask for your continued positivity in the world. 😍🙏🏽
Your decision is your decision Charisma. Your health and your well-being is the most important thing. You have "Roll With Cole & Charisma, UA-cam, speaking at seminars, taking care of Cole and you're getting ready to prepare for a wedding to get married girl! You have enough on your plate. Please yourself!
Charisma, I completed a graduate program in rehabilitation counseling and later a law degree while while working full time and it was hard and stressful. I also started having migraines which were horrible, I also ended up with Severe RA, and later Cancer because I put my career aspirations first. I wish I could go back and rethink things but that's not possible. I know what you must be dealing with, ultimately you and only you know how much you can handle. I am glad you listened to your body. You have been doing a great deal and were in a new relationship that required a bit more commitment than most. Just take the time you and Cole need to plan your wedding and to prepare for your life together. You are young and have plenty of time to think about your next move or the right career path. I know that whatever you do it will be the best decision for you both. I am also now a licensed therapist and recommend you do some counseling before getting re-involved in school again. Praying for you guys; seek the Holy Spirit for Guidance, he will never steer you wrong.
So proud of you! You will definitely expand your reach and you are still doing what you love. Not disappointed at all! We got your back!
Charisma it's your life, all that matters is your own happiness!!!! No one has a right to make u feel bad about a decision that you made, that is this best decision for you!!!!! You are awesome girl, stay positive💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗💞🤗
Gotta live YOUR life, Charisma!! Always supporting C & C....Ride or die.❤️️🙏 #support #nojudgement
When someone is talking and you're looking at him or her that is respect and love
I observe the same. I love the way Cole looks at her while she speaks and does not interrupt..
I was in my 40's when I went back and got my MSW
Me too
I’m 50 and just applied for the MSW Program... yikes !
Patrice B get it!! Proud of you 👏🏼👏🏼
Congratulations Queen! Continue To Be You!!! You have your undergraduate degree & a Master's degree will be a Bonus if you later decide to get one.! You are a beautiful, strong & intelligent young lady!! Your bravery is commendable. Do what makes you happy!!!
Charmisa, great decision and especially if when you discovered it early. I was an OT for 11 years and on a SCI unit in an inpatient rehab hospital. I just left back in Sept '19. I loved it and I hated it. I was exhausted all the time. Health care industry is so hard. I have my own health problems from an autoimmune disease. I finally felt like I was failing the people I was working with and trying to help. I found a new opportunity and am still rediscovering myself. But I feel so much better and give myself more to my husband and daughter. Best wishes to you!! :)
Sweetheart you don't owe any one any explanation. You owe it to yourself to do what's best for you. Find your passion and when you find it you will blossom like a flower in spring.
Blessings!
Love from Guyana 🇬🇾
I think you two should do what you think is the best for you two! Keep being positive!
Cole and Charisma you two are outstanding couple. I see love and this alone is so beautiful. I really enjoy “Roll with Cole and Charisma.” I feel these videos that you put out has really help so many people. Charisma, if you need time out from college then take it. Do what you really want. You will be loved regardless of your decision.
Never ever ever feel that u have to explain yourself to anyone only u know what u can do and how u feel. The Lord has so many more doors to open for and if u were supposed to continue u would have. We have a way of talking ourselves into doing something that we feel would make other people happy. I have learned so much from watching u guys and the education that u have given me and I thank u for that. Keep being great and may the Lord continue to bless you and Cole ❤️❤️❤️❤️
As long ss your life is full and productive, and you're happy, that's what matters most. Cole is so supportive. Aaww.💓💕❤💞