What risks did Vanessa take? Eric put it all out there only a month into the relationship. Vanessa barely had to do anything to win him over; it was too easy for her.
@@Studyismypridemost of us have been there. I know i have. Just pull all the way back til she go crazy for you. I’d break up with her, go no contact and reset the relationship when she comes back
They leave because they want me to vist their countries 🤣case closed , for example they invite me to visit UK Germany Spain and Italy , and they will pick me up then
Focus on your purpose. Let her bring up the relationship talk. As men when we date, it's best to focus on the 3 Hs- hangout, have fun, and hook up. Don't text and call too much. Only use the phone for setting dates. Stay busy when you're not on a date with her. Keep things playful and fun. Don't get butthurt about things.
this works 100%. About 3 years into a relationship my girl whom I lived with started disrespecting me and talking to other men. I walked out and even though I wanted her I acted like I could care less. She changed her tune real quick and fought to get me back. I remind her of that from time to time. We are married now.
Why do women do that? And also, did you have trust issues after she did that? I feel like if that happened to me I’d be very hesitant to marry her. What if she does that during the marriage? Not trashing you btw so I hope my comment didn’t come off that way. I’m just very confused with how women are nowadays
So true, my relationship ended 2 months ago because I rushed stuffs, started talking about future plans and marriage when we just started dating for 3 months, she decided to pull away and end it... I wish I could do it all over again and take it slow, enjoy the quality time and enjoy the space between us. Thank you Chris, binge-watched all your videos and I am a stronger man now, ready for the new experience.
What's the guarantee that she would be ready after a year.. I have seen people who were not ready even after many years in a relationship...if she'd break up with you after 2 years the pain would have been lot worse... Things happen for a reason my friend your life partner is out there and atleast you are ready for her this time.. Have a nice day ☺️
I know a guy that has been with the same girl for 10 years.....she is the one asking for marriage, and he is the one being evasive. It looks like she's leaving now, but compare the length of time and you can see.
@@gabriellanoelle1606 She has a new place now and is moving her stuff out. If she had strong boundaries, the guy would not have been able to string her along though.
DO NOT GET MARRIED! Modern marriage is a trap and if divorce comes the system will be severely stacked against you depending on time and circumstance amongst other factors.
Your love is a resource. The more available a resource is, the more cheap it becomes. For example, even though we need water to live, we still waste water all the time, because it is an available and cheap resource. However, even though we don’t need gold to live, we still cherish it and desire it, because gold is rare and expensive.
I LIKE YO COMMENT VERY MUCH MY BROTHER .....U R RIGHT MAN HAVE TO MAKE THEIR LOVE EXPENSIVE INSTEAD OF GIVING AWAY CHEAPLY TO WOMEN .....THOSE STUFF WHO R TOO AVAILABLE IN MARKET PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND THEIR WORTH ....THAT SAME THE FEELINGS OF GIRLS FOR GUYS
@Rovan Blake BROTHER I UNDERSTOOD THIS ALL RECENTLY BY SEEING THESE GUYS VIDEOS ..........I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THIS AS OTHER GUYS I WAS ALSO WAS NEEDY WEAK IN FRONT OF WOMAN I LIKE SO MUCH NOW ........SHE IS FROM THAILAND AND IM FROM INDIA NEVER MET .....RIGHT NOW SHE IS NOT TALKING WITH ME ....BUT SHE TOLD ME WHENEVER I COME TO THAILAND I JUST CALL HER .........SO I FEEL CHANCES R STILL THEIR FOR ME .
@Rovan Blake MY BROTHER I HAVE STARTED TALKING TO MANY WOMEN NOW IM NOT NEEDY , BUT WHENEVER IM IN THAILAND I WILL CALL HER OR TEXT HER THAT TIME ONLY .........I DO KNOW SHE IS SINGLE MOM LOST HER JOB COZ OF COVID 19 AND SHE IS THE ONLY ONE EARNING MONEY TO FEED HER 3 KIDS AND HER VERY OLD MOM IN VILLAGE ....SO 1 MONTH AGO SHE DEDICED TO START SELLING FRUITS AND SHE TALKED WITH ME ON VIDEO CALL 15 DAYS BEFORE .....SHE DID ALL SILLY THINGS IN FRONT OF ME AND STILL LAUGHS WITH BIG EYE CONTACT ....AND BROTHER 2 MONTHS BEFORE I HAVE SAID VERY BAD THINGS TO HER IN ANGER BUT SHE FORGET ALL MY MISTAKES ...............
Exactly what happened to me, more than a month ago. But although I lost her, I gained a very important wisdom.. Never put any woman on the pedestal, never be a simp.
@Karakaš Not necessarily needy. It's mostly a matter of education and having proper masculine role models in one's life. Modern men are being raised by women and weak fathers, so it's hard for them to know any better.
You are right! Im now with my gf for 1 year. When we first met I was a needy, but I did not realize. And ofc she was a little bit cold etc. After I watched your videos I started to understand your perspective on woman and relationships, and now I apply your advices. Now my gf is more into me, than im into her but still i love her very much. She invests in me, cares about me and even payed for a vacation to venice! Lol! So you are the MVP! Keep up the good work. Love you haha
@@kosco32 Yes he did, but look closely and you will see that it is possibly kind of shallow. Fact is, you can take two identical men. Give one man a set of rules to follow, and another a different set of rules. The woman will only be interested in the man that follows one set of rules...which begs the question, does it have anything to do with the man at all.... He's been with his gf for 1 year, but has he really though? Is he ever his true self? Ive been pursued by a woman for years simply because I barely pay her any attention, while she's ignoring the man that is actually there for her, and treats her really well. Therefore I'm not sure if there is really anything to be happy about.
Women are strange beings. I’ve tested this with girlfriends and my wife. If you’re clingy and give women too much attention they aren’t interested. If you focus on yourself and don’t give them all your attention they come find you. It’s a strange way of thinking and the opposite of what women say they want, but man does it work.
Ever since I discovered this channel, i have become a stronger man than i was before and I'm learning each day. All your teachings works in real life. Much gratitude from SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦
Always do the opposite. The more love and caring you show to her, the least she will appreciate you. Always love with your mind but not with your emotions
@@adrianshaw4639 Men need to think like a woman, and act like a man. But most men either think like a man, and act like a man, or think like a simp, and act like a simp.
It really sucks that you just can't love a woman and express it (in all aspects)..edited even if she tells you that's the way she wants to be loved. Strange and beautiful creatures
@CarlosChip Morales it's like Patrice O'Neal said.. they can never be as cool or funny as us! I wish he was still alive to see all this fuckery going on!!
@@grandmasterupokusaju860 That's exactly what I meant, expressing it in all forms. I'm sorry my comment wasn't one dimensional. I've always been on my purpose and take care of business in every aspect of my life and I'm a very caring and empathetic person to my woman as well..if she can't see that it's her loss not mine. It just sucks that you think you're doing everything right and you are but hypergamy is always the killer of relationships but it's okay. The one true unconditional love I have is from my daughter and she appreciates all the sacrifices I make for her, I'm just going to enjoy life as I've been doing, travel and have fun. Good luck on your journey all the best.
Never care about outcomes and definitely don’t let them influence you. This takes practice but once you achieve that mindset you will be unstoppable in the world of dating and relationships.
You should always care, but as with all things you should not exaggerate. Try to have fun in your interactions with women and then relationships will come naturally.
This reminds me of chowder ( cartoon ). Lol that pink bunny was all over Chowder , just thirsty after him. Then one episode chowder actually wanted her, but the female was like “bruh stop being so needy” “ i need my space” lmao. It’s funny how a kids show teaches you about female nature.
@@CloudTribe If you download the tubi app, and watch the Popeye The Sailor Man from 1931, it shows how his woman is hypergamous and sti attracted to other men and ask them to come back to their house while popeye's pissed and figuring out how to impress her, and his girl saying "Im addicted to a guy with uniforms", crazy shit
Best advice is to not deal with them period. Focus on yourself only. Hit the gym, work as hard as you can at your job, acquire more knowledge. The only thing that dealing with them brings is a potential derailment to your own success.
What I learned from this video was that I need not to be clingy to her, and not be obssesed in being in a relationship with her, what I just need is to make her look at how great I'm by myself, how much do I love doing things alone, and then express myself physically to her, not via cellphone messages, and flirt with her, making her understand that i'm not his friend, that I'm interested in her in other ways, all of this is okay? I'm missing something?
I’m giving this girl so much attention and effort, we were in a 3 year relationship which she ended up calling it off , and take a break because we argued a lot. i’m giving her so much attention and effort and energy to make this work so we can get back together BUTTT i see no effort coming from at all. Yet she’s the one that she called it off.
Yes I noticed this to the women I met, first two months is okay, we always talk everyday she's showing interest in me and we had fun to each other. But suddenly her replies are getting shorter and day by day she's losing interest. I think i gave her too much attention and I haven't got a life on my own. Now I am focused to myself and investing more on clothing and to my workout.
I am actually going through this phase right now. All wonderful at the start and all of a sudden, it's going downhill. Exactly what you said, "her replies are getting shorter and day by day she's losing interest".
@@HYITHO This is because you were providing her ego with a shiny new toy, but the ego is never satisfied and the toy grows dull. You will find the same with practically all other women, and she will do exactly the same with all other men. This is because the connection is shallow, egoic, and is never from the heart / soul, or true self.
Lol a lot of guys here are really taking this as an opportunity to bash women-you’re doing the EXACT thing he says not to do, stop being bitter/emotional and letting someone control how you feel-it’s about understanding women, and being the master of your domain-I say this as a guy that has recently got burned by a woman-is me bashing her gonna get me anywhere? No. I have to move on and realize my worth-THAT’S what he is preaching.
True, but a lot of guys have been lied to since birth. Therefore them bashing women is probably their way of processing it, or venting. In order for them to stop being bitter, they need to deal with it, and process it first, and then move on.
Chicks don't chase men, they chase men's resources. It's often phrased as ''chicks chase you'' or ''they will come to you'' or ''they will be attracted to you'' because the ego is avoiding the raw truth that women only care about what a man can provide them.
I literally dont have room for love...i vibe you today we be good you start misbehaving i give you time..in that time i move on..time waits for no man...agreat man once said " women are like buses you miss one very many more a waiting in the cue." I personally learnt a lesson ...i will never forget to hell with love...
I was thinking that if I follow u I’ll lose my love but i said I’ll try then imagine the result she comeback after 5 min hahahahaha i was thought that I’ll take a lot time like 6 weeks hahahah thank u so much i love i so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It's hard to not be anxious whenever a reply takes long. It's quarantine and she's been getting cold lately. I realized I was too available and replied too fast. She's taking advantage of my availability and not value me anymore. It's difficult to be busy especially when you have so much time.
@@DevelopAttraction am having same situation am always available but she is the one always starting conversation so how can I change this behavior before she got bored?
Difficult to be busy when you have so much time? you kidding me? strength training, reading, working on projects, making money, doing freelance, learning new skills, watching movies, building stuff, growing food, gardening. The things you can be doing for fun is endless.
I really do see my life now as a fortress of solitude. I love my solitude. I would have to be absolutely bowled over to disturb that. Not just attracted, not just vaguely interested, **bowled over.**
You can show you care about a girl a lot if you are truly strong internally. I have a friend who is married to a 10/10 high quality woman. We were roommates when they started dating. I watched him shower her with love and affection. The thing with him though is he is one of strongest people I've ever met. Unshakeable internal strength and character, work ethic etc. Because he has an overabundance of internal strength he has the space to show love to his partner. The lesson I learned from watching him was that the stronger you become the more love you can offer without it being weird.
Big words, but just words! One day you`ll be married like all your friends and relatives! You will care....and be afraid to lose someone who treats you good, be jealous and unhappy. Simple
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
This is both coldly cynical and deeply depressing at the same time. It's troubling how we men have to restrain our full emotions in order to keep a woman's interest, but I know he's preaching the truth about the warped sex. So messed up. Wish I knew all this in my 20's !!
I know. I wish I knew this in my 20s too. Its like u have to be robotic with women these days by restraining your emotions. Once u tell her "i love you" shes gone.
Thing is I used to think like you. How shitty that as men we can’t express our emotions, etc. But what I’ve come to realize is that the better we become at being men we become more emotionless in a stoic way, doesn’t mean we don’t feel but we feel differently. I used to be needy and scared a couple women back in the day, but as I become a better man this has ceased to be a problem. I’ve had sex with 3 different women this last 2 months and I don’t love neither one of them. The one that wants me for something long term needs to let me know. And I’ll see if I want her to stick around.
I have a question; If you generally care about a girl and act aloof and distant, she’s attracted to you and falls in love, you get together etc. Yet eventually your true self is going to show through, we are humans and have an natural hunger for connection and ‘love’. So what is the point in getting into a relationship with someone who isn’t actually attracted to you, just the image you portray of yourself? I’ve just been through this, I’m naturally a caring person and for the first year acted not so interested, aloof etc. Naturally though eventually my true caring side came out and she started to pull away, sensing the inevitable, I finished it before she could. What’s your opinion on forming pointless bonds with people based on the premise that it will ‘attract’ them, but in the long term, you are just going to be incompatible. I know this isn’t maybe a question for this channel as you teach guys how to attract, just interested from a psychology perspective. Surely it’s just going to leave you empty inside in the long run, forming pointless bonds? FYI first year I acted ‘red pill’, she was first to say I love you, she asked me for the relationship….As I got more comfortable, my natural side came out…And she pulls away and become unattracted. Surely this isn’t a good long term strategy?
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learn to live alone
no fear of loss
abudance mindset
My abundance already cross global
What is woman if you dont care they cry and be angry if yo care they leave you saying you are needy
Amen to that, Learn to live alone!
@@poepopeee6554 they are mad and making us pshycho
Yep. Learning to live at peace with living alone is the path to true freedom as a man. Everything else is gravy.
'The One Who Cares The LEAST, Wins." - A Wise Man.
And fails at love. You only find when you are willing to take risks and put it all out there.
No one wins if the women cares least
What risks did Vanessa take? Eric put it all out there only a month into the relationship. Vanessa barely had to do anything to win him over; it was too easy for her.
@@Jleed989 You do not put it ALL out there. You put some, out there. Then, see what happens.
@@dominicvaldes5890 This means you must find a new woman, who cares more about the relationship than you do.
This is true. Show too much attention and she gets bored. Show little to none and she wants you bad
Chin up deshaun, something tells me you gonna be just fine
yh...ignore her and be aloof, she comes begging
I wouldn't go with the "little to none" approach. There is a middle ground between complete disinterest and being a needy bitch.
Yep im done with this shit
the greatest tactic is to show attention and then face off and repeat and repeat. Just don't give too much of anything and divide it
When you need her more than she needs you she has all the power
She has all the powers,she is in full control,what next?
I'm so depressed,I loved cared I gave my soul😭😭😭😭
Help me na 😞
@@Studyismypride Start contacting her less...indulge in other activities like sports to forget her...then she will lose all the power she has on you.
@@Studyismypridemost of us have been there. I know i have. Just pull all the way back til she go crazy for you. I’d break up with her, go no contact and reset the relationship when she comes back
@@KamaldeepSingh7100% - In fact don’t contact her at all. Make her do 100% of the contacting. Setup dates when she calls you though.
When you need her more than she needs you she leaves.
Women: We just want to be loved!
*receives love and attention*
Women: You are a great guy and will make a girl very happy! *Leaves*
why
Yup
Draxter what a life
They leave because they want me to vist their countries 🤣case closed , for example they invite me to visit UK Germany Spain and Italy , and they will pick me up then
nani tf
Even women do NOT understand themselves lol. Love going back these videos, thank you for your book. It changed my life
These chicks twisted in the head
So true, but it's not our job to help them sort themselves out/ get their sh*t together.
Woman do understand themselves
Stop stereotyping women cause of your ideas
It changed mine too!
It's our job to stay single and it's the woman's job to push for the relationship.
@Anthony Gomes says the guy that's not showing his face on UA-cam.
Exactly amigo!
💯💯💯
No its not, why force a man to want you, hell no!!!
Men who don't want you either jst not interested or have options
Focus on your purpose. Let her bring up the relationship talk. As men when we date, it's best to focus on the 3 Hs- hangout, have fun, and hook up. Don't text and call too much. Only use the phone for setting dates. Stay busy when you're not on a date with her. Keep things playful and fun. Don't get butthurt about things.
This is a 3% man right here
This.
Could not agree more!
Looks like someone is a "3% man"
@UCtoNi2wALamtoScHOcrp5dA lol I'm a uni student and in the same class with my crush
THIS is how I lost her... take note men. TAKE NOTE, or be heartbroken for a long time.
Yes. Incredible!
Women are strange.
They are in the 21st Century.
@@gazza2933 21st century cannot do millions of years of evolution.
I experience this myself too. Showed emotions and started caring. The result was that she left me alone. So pay attention guys !
I lost her too and its too late to get her back
Same here just few weeks ago
this works 100%. About 3 years into a relationship my girl whom I lived with started disrespecting me and talking to other men. I walked out and even though I wanted her I acted like I could care less. She changed her tune real quick and fought to get me back. I remind her of that from time to time. We are married now.
Why do women do that? And also, did you have trust issues after she did that? I feel like if that happened to me I’d be very hesitant to marry her. What if she does that during the marriage? Not trashing you btw so I hope my comment didn’t come off that way. I’m just very confused with how women are nowadays
Don't worry she got at least 7 dudes in her dm's 😂
i feel sorry for you
@@TushTheTerrible no need to i showed her I had boundaries.
@@TushTheTerribleno, this guy is a champ and his women will stay with him forever. i feel sorry for you for not understanding that lol
"I LIVE FOR MYSELF AND I ANSWER TO NOBODY." -- Steve McQueen
Book is amazing Chris!!
Yes ,Right On w/ that. Although, now most Wooman think exactly that . Tides are turnin ,row yer own Boot.
The one who cares the least in a relationship has all the power
" I would rather be alone rather than be with the wrong person"
-Robin Williams
there's no right person but yourself.
So true, my relationship ended 2 months ago because I rushed stuffs, started talking about future plans and marriage when we just started dating for 3 months, she decided to pull away and end it... I wish I could do it all over again and take it slow, enjoy the quality time and enjoy the space between us. Thank you Chris, binge-watched all your videos and I am a stronger man now, ready for the new experience.
What's the guarantee that she would be ready after a year.. I have seen people who were not ready even after many years in a relationship...if she'd break up with you after 2 years the pain would have been lot worse... Things happen for a reason my friend your life partner is out there and atleast you are ready for her this time.. Have a nice day ☺️
I know a guy that has been with the same girl for 10 years.....she is the one asking for marriage, and he is the one being evasive. It looks like she's leaving now, but compare the length of time and you can see.
@@gabriellanoelle1606 She has a new place now and is moving her stuff out. If she had strong boundaries, the guy would not have been able to string her along though.
DO NOT GET MARRIED! Modern marriage is a trap and if divorce comes the system will be severely stacked against you depending on time and circumstance amongst other factors.
That's my man!! All the best brother
Your love is a resource. The more available a resource is, the more cheap it becomes. For example, even though we need water to live, we still waste water all the time, because it is an available and cheap resource. However, even though we don’t need gold to live, we still cherish it and desire it, because gold is rare and expensive.
I LIKE YO COMMENT VERY MUCH MY BROTHER .....U R RIGHT MAN HAVE TO MAKE THEIR LOVE EXPENSIVE INSTEAD OF GIVING AWAY CHEAPLY TO WOMEN .....THOSE STUFF WHO R TOO AVAILABLE IN MARKET PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND THEIR WORTH ....THAT SAME THE FEELINGS OF GIRLS FOR GUYS
@Rovan Blake BROTHER I UNDERSTOOD THIS ALL RECENTLY BY SEEING THESE GUYS VIDEOS ..........I KNEW NOTHING ABOUT THIS AS OTHER GUYS I WAS ALSO WAS NEEDY WEAK IN FRONT OF WOMAN I LIKE SO MUCH NOW ........SHE IS FROM THAILAND AND IM FROM INDIA NEVER MET .....RIGHT NOW SHE IS NOT TALKING WITH ME ....BUT SHE TOLD ME WHENEVER I COME TO THAILAND I JUST CALL HER .........SO I FEEL CHANCES R STILL THEIR FOR ME .
@Rovan Blake MY BROTHER I HAVE STARTED TALKING TO MANY WOMEN NOW IM NOT NEEDY , BUT WHENEVER IM IN THAILAND I WILL CALL HER OR TEXT HER THAT TIME ONLY .........I DO KNOW SHE IS SINGLE MOM LOST HER JOB COZ OF COVID 19 AND SHE IS THE ONLY ONE EARNING MONEY TO FEED HER 3 KIDS AND HER VERY OLD MOM IN VILLAGE ....SO 1 MONTH AGO SHE DEDICED TO START SELLING FRUITS AND SHE TALKED WITH ME ON VIDEO CALL 15 DAYS BEFORE .....SHE DID ALL SILLY THINGS IN FRONT OF ME AND STILL LAUGHS WITH BIG EYE CONTACT ....AND BROTHER 2 MONTHS BEFORE I HAVE SAID VERY BAD THINGS TO HER IN ANGER BUT SHE FORGET ALL MY MISTAKES ...............
@Rovan Blake facts
Ur words are gold
Exactly what happened to me, more than a month ago. But although I lost her, I gained a very important wisdom.. Never put any woman on the pedestal, never be a simp.
I have noticed that women are actually turned off by men who declare their love too much and take them too seriously.
facts
@TheSlimmshadyy
You're very perceptive.
+100
@Karakaš Not necessarily needy. It's mostly a matter of education and having proper masculine role models in one's life. Modern men are being raised by women and weak fathers, so it's hard for them to know any better.
It should all be realistic
When you stop talking to her texting her and calling her she will call you or text you it works every man should try it
Not all the time though
You are right! Im now with my gf for 1 year. When we first met I was a needy, but I did not realize. And ofc she was a little bit cold etc. After I watched your videos I started to understand your perspective on woman and relationships, and now I apply your advices. Now my gf is more into me, than im into her but still i love her very much. She invests in me, cares about me and even payed for a vacation to venice! Lol! So you are the MVP! Keep up the good work. Love you haha
U nailed it man 😂😂🇮🇹
Brother, i'm in it right now, i feel too needy, any solution for me master?
@@kosco32 Yes he did, but look closely and you will see that it is possibly kind of shallow. Fact is, you can take two identical men. Give one man a set of rules to follow, and another a different set of rules. The woman will only be interested in the man that follows one set of rules...which begs the question, does it have anything to do with the man at all....
He's been with his gf for 1 year, but has he really though? Is he ever his true self?
Ive been pursued by a woman for years simply because I barely pay her any attention, while she's ignoring the man that is actually there for her, and treats her really well. Therefore I'm not sure if there is really anything to be happy about.
Excellent job as always, coach! Stay healthy.
Women are strange beings. I’ve tested this with girlfriends and my wife. If you’re clingy and give women too much attention they aren’t interested. If you focus on yourself and don’t give them all your attention they come find you. It’s a strange way of thinking and the opposite of what women say they want, but man does it work.
That's not strange, that's insane.
Ever since I discovered this channel, i have become a stronger man than i was before and I'm learning each day. All your teachings works in real life. Much gratitude from SOUTH AFRICA 🇿🇦
Always do the opposite. The more love and caring you show to her, the least she will appreciate you. Always love with your mind but not with your emotions
Shocking but true- just ask them what they want and do the opposite
@@jakemf1 exactly it's not hard it's very simple. Men just caught up in their emotions which is a no no.
@@adrianshaw4639 Men need to think like a woman, and act like a man. But most men either think like a man, and act like a man, or think like a simp, and act like a simp.
Exactly.
When you stop caring they start chasing
Really?
Meanwhile koi aur chod gaya to?
V confused yaar
I care too much
@@Studyismypride dont care too much
Love 'em and Leave 'em guys!
'Plenty of Fish' etc
Thanks Chris.
Ya, and most of the “fish” smell like dead fish
i tried forcing a relationship on a broken women who got cheated on and this video is the solution to all simps
Also a former simp member
I dont waste time on despressed broken girls , no a big no , red flag , stay away
Value my worth
There are tons of broken girls in Eastern Europe bars clubs , stay away . I know where to find girls
It really sucks that you just can't love a woman and express it (in all aspects)..edited
even if she tells you that's the way she wants to be loved. Strange and beautiful creatures
@CarlosChip Morales Hell Yeah bro I agree!! Wack AF!!
@CarlosChip Morales it's like Patrice O'Neal said.. they can never be as cool or funny as us!
I wish he was still alive to see all this fuckery going on!!
All takes time
@CarlosChip Morales 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂exactly,boring😀😂
@@grandmasterupokusaju860 That's exactly what I meant, expressing it in all forms.
I'm sorry my comment wasn't one dimensional.
I've always been on my purpose and take care of business in every aspect of my life and I'm a very caring and empathetic person to my woman as well..if she can't see that it's her loss not mine.
It just sucks that you think you're doing everything right and you are but hypergamy is always the killer of relationships but it's okay.
The one true unconditional love I have is from my daughter and she appreciates all the sacrifices I make for her, I'm just going to enjoy life as I've been doing, travel and have fun.
Good luck on your journey all the best.
This video is 💯 accurate
This story just described my last relationship so accurately it freaked me out.
Never care about outcomes and definitely don’t let them influence you. This takes practice but once you achieve that mindset you will be unstoppable in the world of dating and relationships.
You mean the world of being misused and paying for her way? I'm not interested 😣
F relationships and dating your waisting your time I see all men in a relationship with women and or married and there not truly happy period
Love your voice and the animation style.
I gave thumbs up! Good presentation and effort into cartoon and all. Well done.
You should always care, but as with all things you should not exaggerate. Try to have fun in your interactions with women and then relationships will come naturally.
the red pill is the most difficult one to swallow. this video is spot on, believe me.
The silence in the end of the video was spot on! Finally it hits again after a long time. It’s amazing haha
This reminds me of chowder ( cartoon ). Lol that pink bunny was all over Chowder , just thirsty after him. Then one episode chowder actually wanted her, but the female was like “bruh stop being so needy” “ i need my space” lmao. It’s funny how a kids show teaches you about female nature.
ayyy my boi watches chowder too...plus he's fat too
øMeguløus nah, he a thicc boi
If you ask me their aren't enough kids cartoons/movies like that showing men how a women would actually behave once you show thirst for them.
@@CloudTribe If you download the tubi app, and watch the Popeye The Sailor Man from 1931, it shows how his woman is hypergamous and sti attracted to other men and ask them to come back to their house while popeye's pissed and figuring out how to impress her, and his girl saying "Im addicted to a guy with uniforms", crazy shit
Best advice is to not deal with them period. Focus on yourself only. Hit the gym, work as hard as you can at your job, acquire more knowledge. The only thing that dealing with them brings is a potential derailment to your own success.
Yes bro u r right. Unfortunately this world is lke that. But I can tell you every man is worth more than 100 woman.
I liked your book, it changed me. Thank you
While this is true, you must also be careful not to be TOO distant. If you won't commit, eventually someone else will.
What I learned from this video was that I need not to be clingy to her, and not be obssesed in being in a relationship with her, what I just need is to make her look at how great I'm by myself, how much do I love doing things alone, and then express myself physically to her, not via cellphone messages, and flirt with her, making her understand that i'm not his friend, that I'm interested in her in other ways, all of this is okay? I'm missing something?
Good interpretation
Pretty spot on man.
This is a FACT!!! Great info!
Lol this channel make me beat every situation with women
You should only give a girl attention in bursts and make her work for it or else she’ll have nothing to work towards
As always, I enjoy watching your videos Chris! It is interesting how you exactly show what I experienced. Awesome to be always reminded of that!
I’m giving this girl so much attention and effort, we were in a 3 year relationship which she ended up calling it off , and take a break because we argued a lot.
i’m giving her so much attention and effort and energy to make this work so we can get back together BUTTT i see no effort coming from at all. Yet she’s the one that she called it off.
This actually works🤣🤣🤣🤣 just need patience and self control that's all.
Yes I noticed this to the women I met, first two months is okay, we always talk everyday she's showing interest in me and we had fun to each other. But suddenly her replies are getting shorter and day by day she's losing interest. I think i gave her too much attention and I haven't got a life on my own. Now I am focused to myself and investing more on clothing and to my workout.
I am actually going through this phase right now. All wonderful at the start and all of a sudden, it's going downhill. Exactly what you said, "her replies are getting shorter and day by day she's losing interest".
@@HYITHO This is because you were providing her ego with a shiny new toy, but the ego is never satisfied and the toy grows dull. You will find the same with practically all other women, and she will do exactly the same with all other men. This is because the connection is shallow, egoic, and is never from the heart / soul, or true self.
@@mreverybody1150 yeah that is very true. At least now I know what to look out for.
Lol a lot of guys here are really taking this as an opportunity to bash women-you’re doing the EXACT thing he says not to do, stop being bitter/emotional and letting someone control how you feel-it’s about understanding women, and being the master of your domain-I say this as a guy that has recently got burned by a woman-is me bashing her gonna get me anywhere? No. I have to move on and realize my worth-THAT’S what he is preaching.
True, but a lot of guys have been lied to since birth. Therefore them bashing women is probably their way of processing it, or venting. In order for them to stop being bitter, they need to deal with it, and process it first, and then move on.
Well of women can bash men after being in a bad relationship then so could men. Equality.
all of your videos are great but this one was my situation to the exact T
Dont chase women. Invest your time and energy in developing yourself, and let the chicks chase you.
Chicks don't chase men, they chase men's resources. It's often phrased as ''chicks chase you'' or ''they will come to you'' or ''they will be attracted to you'' because the ego is avoiding the raw truth that women only care about what a man can provide them.
I literally dont have room for love...i vibe you today we be good you start misbehaving i give you time..in that time i move on..time waits for no man...agreat man once said " women are like buses you miss one very many more a waiting in the cue."
I personally learnt a lesson ...i will never forget to hell with love...
Don't chase a woman, chase your dreams and she will chase you!
I cared for women, they rejected me. I stopped caring, now they ignore me.
Wow fantastic. You have been helping out more then you you could realize
I was thinking that if I follow u I’ll lose my love but i said I’ll try then imagine the result she comeback after 5 min hahahahaha i was thought that I’ll take a lot time like 6 weeks hahahah thank u so much i love i so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Great vid as always ! Keep it up 💪🏽
Hey. I like your every videos, short but compressed, all important points are include, ease to learn. Thx man
This channel has always done such a great job at showcasing how attraction REALLY works on a biological level 💥🔥
Your videos are so fun to watch
Brilliant video
I learned this lesson the hard way b now I'm woke just focused on me my purpose and my kids I couldn't b more happier
It's hard to not be anxious whenever a reply takes long.
It's quarantine and she's been getting cold lately.
I realized I was too available and replied too fast.
She's taking advantage of my availability and not value me anymore.
It's difficult to be busy especially when you have so much time.
Instead of getting anxious and waiting for her reply, take control of the situation and make sure she is the one waiting for your reply.
@@DevelopAttraction am having same situation am always available but she is the one always starting conversation so how can I change this behavior before she got bored?
Simping is painful
Difficult to be busy when you have so much time? you kidding me? strength training, reading, working on projects, making money, doing freelance, learning new skills, watching movies, building stuff, growing food, gardening. The things you can be doing for fun is endless.
I really do see my life now as a fortress of solitude. I love my solitude. I would have to be absolutely bowled over to disturb that. Not just attracted, not just vaguely interested, **bowled over.**
Best guy on UA-cam hand Down
You can show you care about a girl a lot if you are truly strong internally. I have a friend who is married to a 10/10 high quality woman. We were roommates when they started dating. I watched him shower her with love and affection. The thing with him though is he is one of strongest people I've ever met. Unshakeable internal strength and character, work ethic etc. Because he has an overabundance of internal strength he has the space to show love to his partner. The lesson I learned from watching him was that the stronger you become the more love you can offer without it being weird.
The first time am watching your videos on same day of upload 😁😁😁teach us Alpha
Love the animations, also thanks for the advice.
I know this work but the problem is: i really dont care anymore. =/
thats the point. good job
Me too lol
@@fonyterguson9894 of course lol
Big words, but just words! One day you`ll be married like all your friends and relatives! You will care....and be afraid to lose someone who treats you good, be jealous and unhappy. Simple
Amazing content
Men, do not hesitate for one moment to put a restraining order against your female partner if you feel your safety and health is in jeopardy. Placing a permanent restraining order on my female partner was absolutely the wisest protective move of my adult lifetime. My only regret is not doing it years earlier. Men, be safe!
Great video, and love the channel!
Your concept of every video is same but I love your videos. Atomic attraction is not just dating book rather it's more than self improvement book.
Good point extremely interesting
great job!
This guy is brilliant
This is both coldly cynical and deeply depressing at the same time.
It's troubling how we men have to restrain our full emotions in order to keep a woman's interest, but I know he's preaching the truth about the warped sex. So messed up.
Wish I knew all this in my 20's !!
I know. I wish I knew this in my 20s too. Its like u have to be robotic with women these days by restraining your emotions. Once u tell her "i love you" shes gone.
Thing is I used to think like you. How shitty that as men we can’t express our emotions, etc. But what I’ve come to realize is that the better we become at being men we become more emotionless in a stoic way, doesn’t mean we don’t feel but we feel differently. I used to be needy and scared a couple women back in the day, but as I become a better man this has ceased to be a problem. I’ve had sex with 3 different women this last 2 months and I don’t love neither one of them. The one that wants me for something long term needs to let me know. And I’ll see if I want her to stick around.
@@samuelvelazquez8834 Well put, good luck to you brother!
Women who don't appreciate your care and attention are either immatured or they do not belong in your life.
Im in same situation
this is so true
Facts
Loved you Book
Please do suggest some books like your ones
I have a question;
If you generally care about a girl and act aloof and distant, she’s attracted to you and falls in love, you get together etc.
Yet eventually your true self is going to show through, we are humans and have an natural hunger for connection and ‘love’.
So what is the point in getting into a relationship with someone who isn’t actually attracted to you, just the image you portray of yourself?
I’ve just been through this, I’m naturally a caring person and for the first year acted not so interested, aloof etc.
Naturally though eventually my true caring side came out and she started to pull away, sensing the inevitable, I finished it before she could.
What’s your opinion on forming pointless bonds with people based on the premise that it will ‘attract’ them, but in the long term, you are just going to be incompatible.
I know this isn’t maybe a question for this channel as you teach guys how to attract, just interested from a psychology perspective.
Surely it’s just going to leave you empty inside in the long run, forming pointless bonds?
FYI first year I acted ‘red pill’, she was first to say I love you, she asked me for the relationship….As I got more comfortable, my natural side came out…And she pulls away and become unattracted. Surely this isn’t a good long term strategy?
I rlly understand what you are saying. Been there
Great
Thank you for all you do
Really Informative, Thanks👍
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Very timely 🙂
Ça vaut de l’or 🙌🏾💯
Hey Man you are great... I learnt lots of stuff from you...
I realised I did the same thing. And she started losing interest in me. I lost her at last. After being together for 5 years 😔
Yup.
I MISS HER EVERY MINUTES!!!
I love you man, thanks
1:30😂 He fucked up when he said he loved her never care for them just have fun with them
It actually touched My heart Bruhhh...
It's weird that the best advice in regards to a relationship is to not pursue it at all, idk I have given up at this point
I can help you
I can introduce you to a man who can help you bring back your ex within 3 hours
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get your s hit together
it's the best choice you made in your life.
trust me
Every father needs to give a copy of your book to their sons.
So happy to see a new video uploaded.
"I LOVE YOU!!!"
Happy alone is happy full stop.