He is a hypocrite and a narc. I do wish you and Donnie block him both on social media, block him from events, and also block him from coming to the social proof building. This is narcissistic abuse right in front of our face, Donni and David I really hope you see this message. The last thing you want is for this man to prey on women that are attach to your brand. What I mean is literally use the Social Proof Podcast as a pool to access and prey on certain women to only lower them into relationship that can HIGHLY potentially lead to a narcissistic abuse. He is religious and does things a certain way but hates the advice Donni gives to filter and preserve herself before tieing herself sexuallu with him. So, someone please explain to me a religion that exist where they encourage people to just go around and casually engage in sexual activity in the talking phase of a relationship. That is in the incubation period of a relationship. MAKE THAT SHIT MAKE SENSE!!!
10 minutes in and I don’t see what y’all are saying about dude.His girl is clearly easily influenced by their thoughts over his and that is a conflict of interest. Anyone who speaks outside of that it’s not their place. If she for it,then it’s great he should of been for direct about it
@@jonreelwilkins9346 I wish you were right, but this is not the case. If he wanted her to think for herself, he wouldn’t have any interest in influencing her decisions on who to follow. He is a liar and a manipulator just based on that comment he made alone. Never mind the other excuses he made for his controlling patterns of behavior.
My husband is like this and I made excuses. I've been mentally, emotional and physically abused for 24 years. I finally got out and got my own apartment for me and my son this January. I had to get therapy to be able to make the shift and change.
How are you saying that she shoukd think for herself when you're thinking for her? He doesn't like the fact that she values someone else's opinion over his. I feel like he wants to follow Dave so he can use his advice as if it was his and the girlfriend will admire him instead. Dude is weird. I don't understand how he even tickles her fancy with this foolishness. Girl throw that fish back in the sea and be great as you were before that disruption walked into your life!!!
If ya daughter has a man why is she looking for other men to lead her who’s not you or her man? Why is she with him if she feels he can’t lead or is she being rebellious bcuz she see he ain’t got much n since she can’t see the other guy she can’t see that he’s lying
He doesn’t want any male competition plain and simple. Like he said he can’t fight so he’s not willing to put HIMSELF in a position where he has to fight with a man mentally, physically, intellectually or in any other capacity. RUN SIS RUN!!!!🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
If any young lady is looking at these comments, I want to say that the other side of you leaving a toxic environment will release a level of happiness you never experienced before. That hard feeling on your chest with feeling unsafe will be lifted and you will be able to live again. We really love you and you will not be alone ❤️
How can so many people see someone who appears intelligent but is really a psychopath and does not have a clue. He is textbook psychosis behavior! He really believes he has it together. Damn! Scary! Sis “Get Out” and “Get Out” NOW! And then he adds religion to it but he is having sex with lady but he is not committed! What religion? He is groping. Truly lost!
I’ve had friends that this has happened to & I’m always surprised that they don’t know it’s these small things like this that can be the stairway to potential abuse.
Also, he’s literally the example of people with bad intentions. Why was he around yall and had these type of feelings towards yall? That’s so weird and scary
He has an abusive mindset. The fact that he saw everything you both said as pessimistic is a problem. He may not have physically abused her yet but I bet the verbal abuse has started. Thank you both for having this hard conversation.
I’m not gonna lie… I thought Donni was gonna jump up out that chair on this man 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️ Every time he said something I was nervous! I really hope this girlfriend watches this and if what they talked about is the case… I Pray she receives this message and moves on it immediately
My wife asked me to watch this video, and I realized it wasn’t the typical content so I asked why am I watching this. She asked me to keep watching and the realness of this conversation and the way it was handled was truly professional. I’m proud of the leadership you two displayed and I believe that seeing him for who he is and operating from a place of love was amazing. Pushing beyond discomfort and speaking directly to the young lady who is in emotional danger was classic signs of a real #BossMove
I don’t even know where to start. I have gained so much FREAKING respect for both Donnie and Dave. Literally I don’t know how yall didn’t jump out of your seats. I went from anger to shedding a tear to literally being proud of Donnie all in 1 minute … I am praying for this dudes girl as well. Hopefully she reaches out 💗🙏🏾…
He’s also discrediting her. By challenging the knowledge she’s gaining and saying “think for yourself” he can create a different standard for her chase and remove all of the information and logic she’s currently working with from the table. And the basis for all of it is emotions. It’s intellectual warfare when you can’t “win” with integrity.
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderNo. Nothing about this was okay or makes sense. I don’t know the logic for controlling someone so much that they have no choice but to choose you (aka being forced) instead of giving your partner free range to choose you because you’re who they actually want and their feelings for you are genuine.
Donnie I want to tell you you were so gracious in your responses during this interview. This was definitely an unexpected topic but a relevant one nonetheless. Y'all will help a lot of men/women with this one.
When Donnie started to tear up , I felt her spirit through the screen , because she went back to that place of fear when she was in that dangerous situation. I’m glad that I am now out of my controlling toxic narcissistic relationship with a woman who happens to mother my kids , I stayed for the kids but it started to cost my peace which is outside of my emotional budget
It was him asking questions off topic to deflect what was originally being asked. My heart was racing the whole episode and if I was her I would RUN. Also, asking Donnie, “does she feel she is able to be led” tells so much. I would not be shocked if that is the leading convo to his girlfriend as the “religious” (as he stated) husband that leads and she follows him as a sign that she knows how to be led “listening to his advice”. I could say more, but this was so good! Look at the signs sis!
Part of me wanted to give the guy some grace to explain himself. Like there was just something we were missing that’s actually a really deep lesson. But what I got was just some of the weirdest most unabashed narcissism I’ve ever seen. It’s not just what he’s saying it’s that he actually fully allowed ya’ll to dig deeper and sat there smug, like it was logical. Like he couldn’t even read how uncomfortable he was making the room (except David who seemed slightly amused 😂) jk, you two really brought home the seriousness of his behavior. Donni peeped the game from jump. This man is dangerous. He needs a therapist instead of asking questions like he is one. He spent this whole interview gaslighting and trying to bait y’all. Appreciate ya’ll walking through that I think it was good for women (or men) to hear who are in a controlling situation, but there may be some ppl more controlling than they realize who need to hear this to say “Is that me?” Naw but fr this man is far gone.
Simply put, he feels that the men like David will positively influence his GF in a direction that will take her away from him. That's what he meant when he said it's not positive for everyone, bc it'll be positive for her growth and life, but negative for him because he won't fit in that future version of her life. Girl leave! I already know how that cookie crumbles 😢
Thank you David for standing up and checking This man for his bad behavior, and bad decisions. Thank you Donnie and David for putting a lifeline out for those who are struggle and need help. This guy was crazy. Thank you for checking him. We need more of that in our society.
I seen this episode for the first time ever and it triggered everything in my past, I am so thankful to not have been in the room, but super proud of Donnie for allowing God to Release that story! Sis your advice, story and compassion is going to set so many people free, when you started to cry I wanted to just hug you and be like sis we made it!! I am so proud of the women you are and the women your becoming! Keep allowing God to use you, PLEASE NEVER STOP TELLING YOUR STORY. My brother David thank you for showing the anger of a man that loves his wife and daughters and the women in his life, you tried to remain claim, but the devil can’t come into a protected kingdom and reign! Thank you for shining the light on the signs of abuse. This episode had me in tears and I really am just proud of you both. But on a serious note maybe your community members need to all be virtual. Safety always first!
This is definitely an emotional and real life episode. I believe wholeheartedly that this will help someone. David and Donni, THANK YOU for taking the weight on your shoulders, and not letting people keep you from serving the world❤
Just ordered another 2 copies. Straight up interrogator CD. Ask question to confuse and feed off of the others desire to figure out how to make you “get it” good call
I just watched this with my daughter and this was such an eye opener . What was disappointing was the update, it appeared ahead of time was making excuses for her man’s behavior. I hope she’s safe.
Donni is a great follower by the way. That’s why she is indeed a great leader. Some men watching seem to believe she’s “too outspoken”. However, good leaders are good followers. AND GOOD MEN LEADERS are good at what they do and don’t have to force it.
@@quaneshiah.2608 I actually think it’s the opposite. He asked his girlfriend to unfollow 4 men on social media, one of the men had a financial incentive by the way. And in exchange he receives a lecture about abuse. I think Donni and David were gaslighting this man. Y’all can’t pimp me 😂
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderthey were gaslighting him bro lol , she basically lookin for other men to lead her while u work n give whatever little u can give and help watch the kids.. she doesn’t even know if he’s living the life he’s flexing about.
@problackbetamale @yourealoser1 yall are weird af in agreement with whatever the guy was saying. You need to look inward and talk to someone about your thoughts.
I can relate. Both My son and daughter were in toxic relationships. I made it a point to stay connected and checking on them, even when their spouses bad-mouthed me. I let both abusers know that I was not going away and if needed I would show up. Both of my kids were adults and I couldn't force them to leave their situations but I continued to let them know I supported them and would do whatever was needed to ensure their safety. I believe this gave them the courage to figure it out and remove themselves from their situations. Please don't dish out empty words when someone asks you for help-but help in any way that you can. Help is not always convenience but necessary!
I ABSOLUTELY adore Donni & Dave for this valuable conversation. You two showed up in a real way during this conversation. I salute the two of you wholeheartedly!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! ❤🙏🏾
This was a powerful and emotional episode. I pray that her family and friends hear this conversation and immediately create a safe presence and space for the young lady to leave him. Someone needs to share this episode with them.🙏🏾
Donnie just went up so many points in my book when she told dude she’ll stomp him out. lol Seriously please run away from him as fast as you can. That man is highly insecure and doesn’t want any other man to have a positive influence on her because he’s whack.
David and Donni, you handled this so well! This one was hard to sit through but you both offered some constructive insights and great perspectives. One of the most important decisions we all have to make is to protect our peace and never give our personal power away!
I wasn’t expecting this episode at all. Listening in the car yelling “ run girl”. I pray that woman is able to see a way out of that relationship. You guys did an amazing job keeping your cool and informing of the dangers of this form of “love”
My heart has been beating so fast this entire interview because this young lady is in a dangerous relationship. This young man needs help. Donni and David, you two are a class act. The way you handled this conversation was too notch.
But if she was with a thug y’all wouldn’t bat an eyelash. She’s with a mature, caring and supportive beta male who tried to assert himself for the first time and he’s getting slaughtered 😂
He’s not going to publicly declare that he hits her but it’s totally evident. Abusers have a pattern, a behavior and a language. His calmness and his way of trying to throw it back on y’all is a clear indication.
This episode hit sooo hard for me. I’m in tears 😢from Donni words of encouragement. To David’s words aspiration I’m currently in a situation and im stressing myself to find a way out. Following the wrong person from ATL to Chicago has me in a state with children where I don’t know a soul. 😢😢😢but when there is a will this is a way. Gratitude for this episode❤
Oh my. At the one hour mark. When Teni said don’t you think that’s pessimistic. That’s the part. No bro. That’s just a real perspective Donni shared from her own personal experience. As men we have to realize that we have some liberties that women do not have. And we also have some realities that we have to face.
Wth is happening right now. Bro, wants his girl to think for herself but is telling her what to do. 🤔 he is religious and he wants his girl to do what he wants her to do. Can’t find a good reason for her not to follow Dave. Buddy is goofy
This is an emotional episode. I thank you both for bringing this topic up and creating the space to have it. The way you both allowed him to display his ignorance and didn't belittle him was very professional. Thank you for advocating for the people who didn't know they needed this. I loved the No More "At Least" mindset. We all deserve to be and have a better life.
Donnie is just so brilliant!! This conversation was so necessary! I’ve never seen David elevated, but it was so great to see this side of him in such a serious circumstance. Y’all are just fantastic the way you both handled this individual.
I desperately seek the kinda of discipline that Donnie and Dave have when they were discussing the topic at hand with this guest because I woulda been lost it on him😂😂😂 this is a example of confronting a person to get transparency and getting nothing 💯
Something that stood out from jump is that he described himself as very religious. People who lead with that belief about themselves are often more prone to being rigid in influence and alignment. In the way David’s religious views came up, and clear wrong assumptions were made, there’s a good chance that the overall influence was based on invalid understandings and unreliable sources. But again if you’re a man/woman who has not experienced healthy leadership vs unhealthy gaslighting or manipulation it all probably looks the same. Praying everyone gets the help they need.
This was a tough watch!! I want to echo what someone else said, that this behavior usually goes unchecked. Thank you for standing for love and truth by using your voice!! I hope this episode reaches everyone in need. There’s always a way out 🙏🏽
Donni preached a whole sermon. She needs an offering! I went from laughing to from the confusion to 😳 This topic is so taboo. I’m so glad you didn’t dismiss the conversation but instead decided to unpack it. Love yall!
Because he definitely tried it. He thought he had got under her skin when she said she couldn’t stay in the conversation. Nah bruh her spidey senses were tingling
Because he definitely tried it. He thought he had got under her skin when she said she couldn’t stay in the conversation. Nah bruh her spidey senses were tingling
He wants his lady to be a stay at home lady? He doesn't want her to be more successful than him. He doesn't want her to have any freedom so he can control her.
You are not tripping. He is not being direct about how he feels. He despises you. Keep an eye on that man, seriously. You are a threat to his existence.
The " this was the last place I was for safety" was wild as hell! that is classic narcassistic behavior! He knows he is being ridiculous so he felt his back against the wall and tries to combat it with falsely screaming of danger.
Dave, I applaud you for maintaining a calm, collected energy/space. Donni I applaud you for gathering him so gracefully. Y’alls dynamic is so powerful! Thank you for sharing with the world, yet another enlightening, inspiring, uplifting, powerful episode.
He has a reason, but he knows that its not socially desirable to state on social media. Honestly, if he thought it was a reasonable answer he probably would be able to articulate the reason.
This is it. He knows what’s up, but he would never say it publicly. It wouldn’t make him look good. It really seems like he doesn’t like the feeling of her “looking up to other men” when he’s not a man that can offer the information that these mentors can.
The first way that I got out of an abusive situation is that I told people. Even when I was ready to leave. I just KEPT sharing it. I had to tell people EVEN when embarrassed. It took me getting stomped in front of my friend to realize that it was okay to tell people. I wasn’t ready for a long time. I was ready to leave for a LONG time. But I acted like I was. I even broke up with him. Eventually, we went on to get pregnant while trying to “work on the relationship”. We shouldn’t have worked on the relationship. I’m thankful for my son. I would be even more thankful if I gave my son a good father. I loved my ex. But I didn’t love me. This was obvious to everyone but me. I got tired of hearing ridicule and “advice” from my friends that I confided in. But I kept telling them with hopes of it changing something. I couldn’t change him. Eventually, we moved to Philly. It got worse. Eventually, I made the decision to move away. That move was necessary. He eventually moved as well. We reunited. Eventually, I began therapy. That therapy helped me to leave the relationship. Eventually, I rented a room from someone that I was able to live in. I took time for myself so I wouldn’t get in anymore abusive relationships. Recap: Step 1: Tell people. And keep telling them over time. Step 2: Work to slowly leave the relationship without telling the abuser. Step 3: Surround yourself with people who are going to influence you and help you in a positive way. - Surround yourself with Christians that actively pursue Christ. - Surround yourself with people and influences who have very healthy marriages and mindsets. - Find people who can help you move. Find people who can Help with: a home, finances, counseling, childcare, food, transportation, gas, clothes. Step 4: Get therapy. Find a free or cheap resource. Mine was free at my university. Your university may have free counseling/ therapy. Step 5: Change Cities or States. If possible. (If not possible, maybe change the side of town COMPLETELY) If you can change your city or state, it makes a huge difference. But MOVE either way. Step 6: Repeat Step 3. ****Surround yourself with people who are going to influence you and help you in a positive way. - Surround yourself with Christians that actively pursue Christ. - Surround yourself with people and influences who have very healthy marriages and mindsets. - Find people who can help you move. Find people who can Help with: a home, finances, counseling, childcare, food, transportation, gas, clothes.
As someone who has been through a relationship with a person who was a manipulator and came out the other side….. I felt this episode in my core 🙏🏾 I wish I had watched this episode a decade ago! Thank you for sharing this Donnie and David, I feel like this has possibly saved a few people’s lives 🙏🏾
One thing about a controlling man or woman…they hate for anyone to have influence over the person they so call love other than themselves💯 this was a great episode as well as how you handled your ex-friend boyfriend 💯
Such an extreme amount of insecurity he is carrying. He wants to be her guiding light but is full of darkness. So he wants to shield her from all the light that is adding to her well-being so he can seem worthy of praise. A very scary scenario for that young lady, being controlled by a weak minded man.
Wheeew this episode was so uncomfortable in a good way for sure! My hair clip ins are literally snatched out. I was so stressed out watching this. It was so releasing and well NEEDED because I was once one of those women in a relationship with a guy like that in college. and to hear Donni speak up for us just meant so much. Men like that believe thats love and thats the even scarier part about it. He manipulating himself out of the truth of what he is actually saying that its not making sense.
I’m glad he didn’t bring her so he could be embarrassed alone. Prayerfully, she’ll disconnect. This is a problem that maybe she loves him too much to notice or feels she’s too connected to pull away from. Please ma’am, disconnect from this guy. Manipulation is a form of abuse.
Came here from @Themis&Thoth and immediate followed you! Wow...this episode was ...WOW. As a young lady who once was in HS and had a boyfriend like hers, THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING UP. It's so validating to victims and I bet money on t hat fact that you were the first people to speak on her abuse and validate what she felt - partners like him definitely isolate their partners and bully them in the dark. I know his girlfriend wanted to thank you both. One day and hopefully soon she will have the courage to run and never look back.
This was well needed and received. I have a few consultations for therapy today. My first time ever taking therapy in my 29 years and I'm nervous but excited. This brought up somethings for me. Donni stood on bizness in this and I'm so glad she did.
So proud of you! As a therapist I want to encourage you to search until you find the right fit for you. Every therapist isn't for everyone. Best wishes on your journey!
Did anybody hear when David said”This is the classic reason I’m going to continue to ask, have you ever hit her?” The dude said “ yes” …Anybody else hear that or am I tripping? Side note: Being a person who have been through domestic abuse in multiple relationships this was very triggering for me. Due to the fact that the abuse was more so mental and emotional which In my opinion is a little scarier than physical abuse because it’s easier for the abuser to get away with what they are doing especially if the victim is unaware of what’s happening to them . Not to take away from someone who is going through physical abuse because all abuse is horrific, I’m just saying emotional and mental abuse has the ability to go undetected because for the untrained eye there’s no external evidence that abuse is taking place which for a victim of it this fact could make it hard for them to get out of a situation because for one they may not realize they are being abused or no one believes them because the only abuse most people recognize or understand is physical abuse. Even in this particular interview, the guy was being abusive both emotional and mentally to Donni and David! I believe Donni’s body picked up on what was happening due to the fact that she had been through an abusive relationship before but he used so many tactics against them but there was one in particular that trigger me the most . When he purposely answered and asked questions and made statements that he clearly knew and could see was triggering to Donni and David and then when he saw he had triggered and was getting a triggered reaction from them he sat back all cool & calm like he didn’t know what he had done and played victim saying “ if something happened to me this is the last place I was” . That’s called reactive abuse. An abuser pushes you continuously in a manner they know could get you to react in a way that you look like the abuser when in reality you are reacting reasonably to the situation at hand. Thankfully in this situation Donni and David were able to walk away from this person who had done this and tell him to stay away but unfortunately some are stuck with sick individuals like this until they find the help or strength to walk away. I pray the girlfriend in this situation and anyone else dealing with any kind of abuse find a safe way out and heal.
I’m barely 20 minutes into this and maaaan this is spicy dawg. - mind you the UA-cam algorithm had this playing while I was sleep. I woke up once I heard bruh say he “made” shorty unfollow David and was getting at Donni for the feedback lol. I said oh hold up lemme wake up and watch this 🍿
Please share this episode!!!🙏🏼
He is a hypocrite and a narc. I do wish you and Donnie block him both on social media, block him from events, and also block him from coming to the social proof building.
This is narcissistic abuse right in front of our face, Donni and David I really hope you see this message. The last thing you want is for this man to prey on women that are attach to your brand. What I mean is literally use the Social Proof Podcast as a pool to access and prey on certain women to only lower them into relationship that can HIGHLY potentially lead to a narcissistic abuse.
He is religious and does things a certain way but hates the advice Donni gives to filter and preserve herself before tieing herself sexuallu with him. So, someone please explain to me a religion that exist where they encourage people to just go around and casually engage in sexual activity in the talking phase of a relationship. That is in the incubation period of a relationship.
MAKE THAT SHIT MAKE SENSE!!!
10 minutes in and I don’t see what y’all are saying about dude.His girl is clearly easily influenced by their thoughts over his and that is a conflict of interest. Anyone who speaks outside of that it’s not their place. If she for it,then it’s great he should of been for direct about it
Be careful accepting stuff from people. Even if you know them. People are out here doing witchcraft like never before. Ask God/JESUS about that hat.
Please share which religion you rock with on Saturday. I was thinkin SDA this entire time fam! Im not looking to bash, Im intellectually interested.
@@jonreelwilkins9346 I wish you were right, but this is not the case. If he wanted her to think for herself, he wouldn’t have any interest in influencing her decisions on who to follow. He is a liar and a manipulator just based on that comment he made alone. Never mind the other excuses he made for his controlling patterns of behavior.
The most dangerous man is the one that really thinks he's a great guy while doing his damage.
The most!! 💯
facts!
Big facts!!!
Facts... That's what bothered me about that dude....
Yes!! 🤯
I LOVE how they "ended" the conversation with him but spoke indirectly to him and about him for the next 30min!!😅❤🔥
And Donni with the constant side eyes/glares the entire time 😂
😂😂
My husband is like this and I made excuses. I've been mentally, emotional and physically abused for 24 years. I finally got out and got my own apartment for me and my son this January. I had to get therapy to be able to make the shift and change.
So happy that you made that decision for you and your son. Thanks for watching.. Please share!
So proud of you
Grateful you were able to do this. That's a long time, please continue to work on yourself mentally and don't give up.
How are you saying that she shoukd think for herself when you're thinking for her? He doesn't like the fact that she values someone else's opinion over his. I feel like he wants to follow Dave so he can use his advice as if it was his and the girlfriend will admire him instead. Dude is weird. I don't understand how he even tickles her fancy with this foolishness. Girl throw that fish back in the sea and be great as you were before that disruption walked into your life!!!
Congratulations and keep moving forward
This type of behavior goes unchecked because it isn't aggressive. Its extremely subtle. But it is definitely intentional and deliberate
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The covert narcissist
I love Donni, her response to being led was 😙👌🏾 *chef’s kiss*
Thank you!! ☺️
Wasn’t it!!! But the man had way more ?’s then answers. Which was a 🚩 and prime example of someone being manipulative
Absolutely
And it WAS!!!
The head shake and okay at the end when she was like that’s all you took from this. She was ready to slap him!
As a man with a daughter im very concerned about males like this character. I will tighten up💯
If ya daughter has a man why is she looking for other men to lead her who’s not you or her man? Why is she with him if she feels he can’t lead or is she being rebellious bcuz she see he ain’t got much n since she can’t see the other guy she can’t see that he’s lying
@Yourealoser1 lead yourselves out of poverty! Males without vision looking to lead intelligent women to doom just to feel like a man.
@Yourealoser1 so out of the billions of people on the planet, a woman can only learn from her father and her husband?? No one else? 😂😂😂
He doesn’t want any male competition plain and simple. Like he said he can’t fight so he’s not willing to put HIMSELF in a position where he has to fight with a man mentally, physically, intellectually or in any other capacity. RUN SIS RUN!!!!🏃🏽♀️ 🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️
Exactly this!! 🎉
The accuracy here!!💯💯
Thank You. Please Share!
Exactly! That's exactly what it is.
Narcissistic personality
If any young lady is looking at these comments, I want to say that the other side of you leaving a toxic environment will release a level of happiness you never experienced before. That hard feeling on your chest with feeling unsafe will be lifted and you will be able to live again. We really love you and you will not be alone ❤️
Truth!
How can so many people see someone who appears intelligent but is really a psychopath and does not have a clue. He is textbook psychosis behavior! He really believes he has it together. Damn! Scary! Sis “Get Out” and “Get Out” NOW! And then he adds religion to it but he is having sex with lady but he is not committed! What religion? He is groping. Truly lost!
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Thank you for holding this guy accountable and calling him out too many times this behavior is ignored. This was literally unbelievable
Thank You for watching!
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I’ve had friends that this has happened to & I’m always surprised that they don’t know it’s these small things like this that can be the stairway to potential abuse.
Someone tag the goofy... I gotta see something 👀
"A man understands that he never has to say 'I lead you', he just shows up, and its leadership"
maaaaaaaaan yal tore his ass up!
Also, he’s literally the example of people with bad intentions. Why was he around yall and had these type of feelings towards yall? That’s so weird and scary
THATS WHAT I SAID!!!
Yup
Facts!!!
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Scary for sure
He has an abusive mindset. The fact that he saw everything you both said as pessimistic is a problem. He may not have physically abused her yet but I bet the verbal abuse has started. Thank you both for having this hard conversation.
We need an update with the girl on the podcast, PLEASE! ❤❤❤
Yes!! Please share
@@RealSocialProof most definitely!
Yes, have her own.
The composure that they both kept the entire interview is commendable.
The scariest thing was that he was confident enough to share this. Like he sees no issue with this
And thats the part rite there. There are so many men n women like thus. It's wild.
People like that have nothing going for them.
that is scary
The same way you’re confident in sharing the baby you made with Pookie with every man you date 😂
I know an abuser when I hear one. I can see it in his eyes. It's usually in the eyes. I've been there. Glad I tuned in and subscribed.
This sound like the sequel to “Who TF did I marry” 😂😂😂
She need to run!
Definitely serious
😂😂😂😂😂 this man is stressing everybody out then he acting confused meanwhile he’s confusing everybody!!
I really just wanted him to form one complete sentence 🤦🏾♀️
This sounds WORST!
This guy is DANGEROUS! He doesn’t want her influenced because he wants to control her.
Moral of the story.. There was no logical reasoning, just a lot of hypotheticals & control. Bro middle name must be Legion.
Yoooo when Donnie said “Lead by who? You can’t lead me” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Clutch my pearls then concluded the statement with “ I can be lead but I will not be controlled “ I was screaming “ preach”
When he proudly had his legs crossed with the adidas sandals you wear to the swimming pool.. a 🚩should have popped up then.
I’m crying! 😭
Played himself
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This comment made me laugh!! lol...yes
this plus as soon as hearing his voice - i knew it was about to be some bs
Here from IG - didn't even wait to get the link for this episode, I came and FOUND IT. 😂 She ATE and I had to come see the buffet 😂🔥👏🏾👏🏾
Me too, saw a clip on IG and came to YT searching.
Okay!? Me too 😆
Same here!!! I came w my plate 🍽️
Same!
I’m not gonna lie… I thought Donni was gonna jump up out that chair on this man 🤦🏽♂️🤦🏽♂️
Every time he said something I was nervous!
I really hope this girlfriend watches this and if what they talked about is the case… I Pray she receives this message and moves on it immediately
Facts not even laughing. She was ready
ON MEEEE! I thought this episode was gone be short!
Babee donni was doing all she could to do to knock this dude out and cussing him out!
My wife asked me to watch this video, and I realized it wasn’t the typical content so I asked why am I watching this. She asked me to keep watching and the realness of this conversation and the way it was handled was truly professional. I’m proud of the leadership you two displayed and I believe that seeing him for who he is and operating from a place of love was amazing. Pushing beyond discomfort and speaking directly to the young lady who is in emotional danger was classic signs of a real #BossMove
I don’t even know where to start. I have gained so much FREAKING respect for both Donnie and Dave. Literally I don’t know how yall didn’t jump out of your seats. I went from anger to shedding a tear to literally being proud of Donnie all in 1 minute … I am praying for this dudes girl as well.
Hopefully she reaches out 💗🙏🏾…
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Donni was definitely ready to get up our seat, but she's at “work”. Lol
One of the warning signs of abuse is isolation. The way he's intellectually isolating her.... is horrifying 😳
He’s also discrediting her. By challenging the knowledge she’s gaining and saying “think for yourself” he can create a different standard for her chase and remove all of the information and logic she’s currently working with from the table. And the basis for all of it is emotions. It’s intellectual warfare when you can’t “win” with integrity.
Dude said David make sense so he told his girl to unfollow him 😂😂😂
Insane
I’m flabbergasted
He saw the hypergamy in her eyes…..I’m not mad at bro. Y’all think y’all slick 😂😂😂
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderNo. Nothing about this was okay or makes sense. I don’t know the logic for controlling someone so much that they have no choice but to choose you (aka being forced) instead of giving your partner free range to choose you because you’re who they actually want and their feelings for you are genuine.
Lol fuckin clown forreal
1:03:47 “to be able to think for yourself, you have to disconnect.” YES. From YOU. She needs to disconnect from your influence.
Donnie I want to tell you you were so gracious in your responses during this interview. This was definitely an unexpected topic but a relevant one nonetheless. Y'all will help a lot of men/women with this one.
Sis held her composure
When Donnie started to tear up , I felt her spirit through the screen , because she went back to that place of fear when she was in that dangerous situation. I’m glad that I am now out of my controlling toxic narcissistic relationship with a woman who happens to mother my kids , I stayed for the kids but it started to cost my peace which is outside of my emotional budget
Yall see the lady in black trying hard not to laugh?....😂😂😂
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I was cracking up everytime the camera panned over to her. 😂😂
Why I 🏃🏾♀️ to the comments looking for this comment! 😂 I knew I couldn't be the only one!!
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Ayo - They did everything but say, “if you meet someone like THIS guy sitting with us today, get help!” 😂😂😂
It was him asking questions off topic to deflect what was originally being asked. My heart was racing the whole episode and if I was her I would RUN. Also, asking Donnie, “does she feel she is able to be led” tells so much. I would not be shocked if that is the leading convo to his girlfriend as the “religious” (as he stated) husband that leads and she follows him as a sign that she knows how to be led “listening to his advice”. I could say more, but this was so good! Look at the signs sis!
He's "very religious" but has a problem with someone telling his girlfriend not to have sex with him if he's not serious.
Which religion???
This the question!!
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Clock it!!
I was 👀for this comment. -- Bingo, he has selective Christianity meaning, he pick & choose what he wants to abide by 🤡clown activity for sure
This is the one! 🎯🎯🎯
Narcissists explained and described!!
Part of me wanted to give the guy some grace to explain himself.
Like there was just something we were missing that’s actually a really deep lesson. But what I got was just some of the weirdest most unabashed narcissism I’ve ever seen.
It’s not just what he’s saying it’s that he actually fully allowed ya’ll to dig deeper and sat there smug, like it was logical. Like he couldn’t even read how uncomfortable he was making the room (except David who seemed slightly amused 😂) jk, you two really brought home the seriousness of his behavior.
Donni peeped the game from jump. This man is dangerous. He needs a therapist instead of asking questions like he is one. He spent this whole interview gaslighting and trying to bait y’all.
Appreciate ya’ll walking through that I think it was good for women (or men) to hear who are in a controlling situation, but there may be some ppl more controlling than they realize who need to hear this to say “Is that me?”
Naw but fr this man is far gone.
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Simply put, he feels that the men like David will positively influence his GF in a direction that will take her away from him. That's what he meant when he said it's not positive for everyone, bc it'll be positive for her growth and life, but negative for him because he won't fit in that future version of her life.
Girl leave! I already know how that cookie crumbles 😢
For every David, there is a Derrick Jaxn.
Heard this on Apple podcast and had to come watch this episode to see this guy I really hope this young lady run as far as possible from this clown
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Same here. I had to see who was speaking.
Ditto. I’m a trauma therapist and own my own private practice. I’m like I got to see this Narc
Same here.
Yall handled that really well! The closure of the don't come back was needed. Glad to see it.
“For your safety”.
Thank you David for standing up and checking This man for his bad behavior, and bad decisions.
Thank you Donnie and David for putting a lifeline out for those who are struggle and need help. This guy was crazy. Thank you for checking him. We need more of that in our society.
I seen this episode for the first time ever and it triggered everything in my past, I am so thankful to not have been in the room, but super proud of Donnie for allowing God to Release that story! Sis your advice, story and compassion is going to set so many people free, when you started to cry I wanted to just hug you and be like sis we made it!! I am so proud of the women you are and the women your becoming! Keep allowing God to use you, PLEASE NEVER STOP TELLING YOUR STORY. My brother David thank you for showing the anger of a man that loves his wife and daughters and the women in his life, you tried to remain claim, but the devil can’t come into a protected kingdom and reign! Thank you for shining the light on the signs of abuse. This episode had me in tears and I really am just proud of you both. But on a serious note maybe your community members need to all be virtual. Safety always first!
This is definitely an emotional and real life episode. I believe wholeheartedly that this will help someone. David and Donni, THANK YOU for taking the weight on your shoulders, and not letting people keep you from serving the world❤
Thank You
Thank you very much! 🎉
What a cray-cray 😢
The lady is NOT SAFE! Please reach out to her and do a wellness check. He’s not even denying or clarifying anything
He said he’s religious… but didn’t like the advice to not have sex before marriage?!?! I hope you guys call for a welfare check! All jokes aside!
"Be clear, I'LL FIGHT!" Me too girl!!
This guy is a complete nut narcissist with a control drama of interrogator if anybody's ever read The Celestine prophecy, hope she gets OUT🙏🏾
DAT even yo got damn wife ! Do she not know that’s not her husband she don’t hv to listen to/ submit to him or nothing like that ! Tf
Yes I said Run! From experience this gets really dark.
facts'
Just ordered another 2 copies. Straight up interrogator CD. Ask question to confuse and feed off of the others desire to figure out how to make you “get it” good call
@@stylzgohardvipthat’s how yall think? Then wonder why divorce rates so high yall don’t practice what you preach lol can’t beat facts
I just watched this with my daughter and this was such an eye opener . What was disappointing was the update, it appeared ahead of time was making excuses for her man’s behavior. I hope she’s safe.
Wait who is she? Where may I find this update?
Donni is a great follower by the way. That’s why she is indeed a great leader. Some men watching seem to believe she’s “too outspoken”. However, good leaders are good followers. AND GOOD MEN LEADERS are good at what they do and don’t have to force it.
Thank you kindly! 😊
❤. Donnie’s comments was 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Kudos to Dave and Donni to have the patience with this conversation because I was done with it the first 5 minutes.
He’s a classic GASLIGHTER ‼️
Every word that came out of his mouth was gaslighting
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I actually think it’s the opposite. He asked his girlfriend to unfollow 4 men on social media, one of the men had a financial incentive by the way. And in exchange he receives a lecture about abuse. I think Donni and David were gaslighting this man. Y’all can’t pimp me 😂
@@DominantBlackMaleLeaderthey were gaslighting him bro lol , she basically lookin for other men to lead her while u work n give whatever little u can give and help watch the kids.. she doesn’t even know if he’s living the life he’s flexing about.
@problackbetamale @yourealoser1 yall are weird af in agreement with whatever the guy was saying. You need to look inward and talk to someone about your thoughts.
@@Yourealoser1yall weird. She isn’t married. Argument over.
I can relate. Both My son and daughter were in toxic relationships. I made it a point to stay connected and checking on them, even when their spouses bad-mouthed me. I let both abusers know that I was not going away and if needed I would show up. Both of my kids were adults and I couldn't force them to leave their situations but I continued to let them know I supported them and would do whatever was needed to ensure their safety. I believe this gave them the courage to figure it out and remove themselves from their situations. Please don't dish out empty words when someone asks you for help-but help in any way that you can. Help is not always convenience but necessary!
He had a Freudian slip… Dave: have you ever hit her?
Teddy: Yep
I thought I was the only one that heard that 🤯
Yes, that "yeah" was him flashing back to it in his mind.
Am I crazy? I feel like the end was a confession.
I heard that and I was hoping they’d speak to the matter. This was a powerful episode.
Yoooo I thought the same thing!
I ABSOLUTELY adore Donni & Dave for this valuable conversation. You two showed up in a real way during this conversation. I salute the two of you wholeheartedly!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!! THANK YOU!!!!!! ❤🙏🏾
This was a powerful and emotional episode. I pray that her family and friends hear this conversation and immediately create a safe presence and space for the young lady to leave him. Someone needs to share this episode with them.🙏🏾
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He wants her to think for herself, but made her unfollow someone…. How’s that thinking for yourself??
Donnie just went up so many points in my book when she told dude she’ll stomp him out. lol
Seriously please run away from him as fast as you can. That man is highly insecure and doesn’t want any other man to have a positive influence on her because he’s whack.
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the Adidas slides tell you everything you need to know
And them blue socks 😂
David and Donni, you handled this so well! This one was hard to sit through but you both offered some constructive insights and great perspectives. One of the most important decisions we all have to make is to protect our peace and never give our personal power away!
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Don't cry Donnie, I'm with you on every single thing you said.🙂🙂🙂
I wasn’t expecting this episode at all. Listening in the car yelling “ run girl”. I pray that woman is able to see a way out of that relationship. You guys did an amazing job keeping your cool and informing of the dangers of this form of “love”
He’s not mentally stable. It’s giving dangerous. She better leave.
For EVERY EXAMPLE, he provides NO EXAMPLE 🤦🏾♂️
That part. I was really hoping for an example.
This was annoying and infuriating 😂
I can be lead but I can’t be manipulated-🎯
My heart has been beating so fast this entire interview because this young lady is in a dangerous relationship. This young man needs help. Donni and David, you two are a class act. The way you handled this conversation was too notch.
Saaaaame!!!! That young lady needs help! I hope she leaves him because my God
But if she was with a thug y’all wouldn’t bat an eyelash. She’s with a mature, caring and supportive beta male who tried to assert himself for the first time and he’s getting slaughtered 😂
i thought it was only me!! My heart was literally in my throat the whole time! Jheez that man was a piece of work!
That dude is psycho. He wants to come across as a pseudo intellectual but he's an extreme narcissist.
The woman in the background facial expressions and body language are speaking sooooo LOUD!!! 😂😂😂😂
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He’s not going to publicly declare that he hits her but it’s totally evident. Abusers have a pattern, a behavior and a language. His calmness and his way of trying to throw it back on y’all is a clear indication.
I don’t think he was scared of Donni and David at the end but for people that know of him
Now. I am just in awe, would have been hard to be on set
This episode hit sooo hard for me. I’m in tears 😢from Donni words of encouragement. To David’s words aspiration I’m currently in a situation and im stressing myself to find a way out. Following the wrong person from ATL to Chicago has me in a state with children where I don’t know a soul. 😢😢😢but when there is a will this is a way. Gratitude for this episode❤
This was actually crazy to see this thinking in real time 😭😭 that man needs real help .
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Oh my. At the one hour mark. When Teni said don’t you think that’s pessimistic. That’s the part. No bro. That’s just a real perspective Donni shared from her own personal experience.
As men we have to realize that we have some liberties that women do not have. And we also have some realities that we have to face.
Wth is happening right now. Bro, wants his girl to think for herself but is telling her what to do. 🤔 he is religious and he wants his girl to do what he wants her to do.
Can’t find a good reason for her not to follow Dave. Buddy is goofy
This lady better run now
This is an emotional episode. I thank you both for bringing this topic up and creating the space to have it. The way you both allowed him to display his ignorance and didn't belittle him was very professional. Thank you for advocating for the people who didn't know they needed this. I loved the No More "At Least" mindset. We all deserve to be and have a better life.
Love how real yall are and call people out with no problem. Sis, run!
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Donnie is just so brilliant!! This conversation was so necessary! I’ve never seen David elevated, but it was so great to see this side of him in such a serious circumstance. Y’all are just fantastic the way you both handled this individual.
I desperately seek the kinda of discipline that Donnie and Dave have when they were discussing the topic at hand with this guest because I woulda been lost it on him😂😂😂 this is a example of confronting a person to get transparency and getting nothing 💯
Yeap
I loved it! The open ended questions! And he kept sounding insane!
Dave was bout to light into him toward the end but kept his composure 😅
Donnie is the GOAT 🐐 with responses❤...
Something that stood out from jump is that he described himself as very religious. People who lead with that belief about themselves are often more prone to being rigid in influence and alignment. In the way David’s religious views came up, and clear wrong assumptions were made, there’s a good chance that the overall influence was based on invalid understandings and unreliable sources. But again if you’re a man/woman who has not experienced healthy leadership vs unhealthy gaslighting or manipulation it all probably looks the same. Praying everyone gets the help they need.
Great episode, talking about these issues and calling out this guy is something we all need to hear
This was a tough watch!! I want to echo what someone else said, that this behavior usually goes unchecked. Thank you for standing for love and truth by using your voice!!
I hope this episode reaches everyone in need. There’s always a way out 🙏🏽
He sounds insecure. He doesn't want her to follow dudes more successful than him.
Donni preached a whole sermon. She needs an offering! I went from laughing to from the confusion to 😳 This topic is so taboo. I’m so glad you didn’t dismiss the conversation but instead decided to unpack it. Love yall!
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A satanic sermon, because women not supposed to preach according to the Apostle Paul himself 😂😂😂
Agreed. I was praising the Lord and saying thank you Jesus and all! Tears and more
Thank you. I truly appreciate you all for sharing this episode💚
37:44 @Donnie, you handled this response so well.
Yes! Got him together real good!!
Because he definitely tried it. He thought he had got under her skin when she said she couldn’t stay in the conversation. Nah bruh her spidey senses were tingling
Because he definitely tried it. He thought he had got under her skin when she said she couldn’t stay in the conversation. Nah bruh her spidey senses were tingling
He wants his lady to be a stay at home lady? He doesn't want her to be more successful than him. He doesn't want her to have any freedom so he can control her.
You are not tripping. He is not being direct about how he feels. He despises you. Keep an eye on that man, seriously. You are a threat to his existence.
I love this awareness! This will save someone’s life ❤
The " this was the last place I was for safety" was wild as hell! that is classic narcassistic behavior! He knows he is being ridiculous so he felt his back against the wall and tries to combat it with falsely screaming of danger.
Dave, I applaud you for maintaining a calm, collected energy/space. Donni I applaud you for gathering him so gracefully. Y’alls dynamic is so powerful! Thank you for sharing with the world, yet another enlightening, inspiring, uplifting, powerful episode.
He has a reason, but he knows that its not socially desirable to state on social media. Honestly, if he thought it was a reasonable answer he probably would be able to articulate the reason.
This is it. He knows what’s up, but he would never say it publicly. It wouldn’t make him look good. It really seems like he doesn’t like the feeling of her “looking up to other men” when he’s not a man that can offer the information that these mentors can.
The first way that I got out of an abusive situation is that I told people. Even when I was ready to leave. I just KEPT sharing it. I had to tell people EVEN when embarrassed. It took me getting stomped in front of my friend to realize that it was okay to tell people.
I wasn’t ready for a long time. I was ready to leave for a LONG time. But I acted like I was. I even broke up with him. Eventually, we went on to get pregnant while trying to “work on the relationship”. We shouldn’t have worked on the relationship. I’m thankful for my son. I would be even more thankful if I gave my son a good father. I loved my ex. But I didn’t love me. This was obvious to everyone but me.
I got tired of hearing ridicule and “advice” from my friends that I confided in. But I kept telling them with hopes of it changing something. I couldn’t change him.
Eventually, we moved to Philly. It got worse. Eventually, I made the decision to move away.
That move was necessary.
He eventually moved as well. We reunited. Eventually, I began therapy. That therapy helped me to leave the relationship.
Eventually, I rented a room from someone that I was able to live in.
I took time for myself so I wouldn’t get in anymore abusive relationships.
Recap:
Step 1: Tell people. And keep telling them over time.
Step 2: Work to slowly leave the relationship without telling the abuser.
Step 3: Surround yourself with people who are going to influence you and help you in a positive way.
- Surround yourself with Christians that actively pursue Christ.
- Surround yourself with people and influences who have very healthy marriages and mindsets.
- Find people who can help you move. Find people who can Help with: a home, finances, counseling, childcare, food, transportation, gas, clothes.
Step 4: Get therapy. Find a free or cheap resource. Mine was free at my university. Your university may have free counseling/ therapy.
Step 5: Change Cities or States. If possible. (If not possible, maybe change the side of town COMPLETELY) If you can change your city or state, it makes a huge difference. But MOVE either way.
Step 6: Repeat Step 3.
****Surround yourself with people who are going to influence you and help you in a positive way.
- Surround yourself with Christians that actively pursue Christ.
- Surround yourself with people and influences who have very healthy marriages and mindsets.
- Find people who can help you move. Find people who can Help with: a home, finances, counseling, childcare, food, transportation, gas, clothes.
Thanks for sharing
Wow!!! Thank you for sharing this!
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😮 wow.
As someone who has been through a relationship with a person who was a manipulator and came out the other side….. I felt this episode in my core 🙏🏾 I wish I had watched this episode a decade ago!
Thank you for sharing this Donnie and David, I feel like this has possibly saved a few people’s lives 🙏🏾
One thing about a controlling man or woman…they hate for anyone to have influence over the person they so call love other than themselves💯 this was a great episode as well as how you handled your ex-friend boyfriend 💯
Such an extreme amount of insecurity he is carrying. He wants to be her guiding light but is full of darkness. So he wants to shield her from all the light that is adding to her well-being so he can seem worthy of praise. A very scary scenario for that young lady, being controlled by a weak minded man.
David and Donni, I hope you all were able to heal and remove this energy after this episode. This was heavy for you all.
I can relate to Donnie when she was told there are some men who want to get with you to break you down because they can see her strength.
Wheeew this episode was so uncomfortable in a good way for sure! My hair clip ins are literally snatched out. I was so stressed out watching this. It was so releasing and well NEEDED because I was once one of those women in a relationship with a guy like that in college. and to hear Donni speak up for us just meant so much. Men like that believe thats love and thats the even scarier part about it. He manipulating himself out of the truth of what he is actually saying that its not making sense.
Absolutely 💯
“Real conversations”…an excellent episode!
I’m glad he didn’t bring her so he could be embarrassed alone. Prayerfully, she’ll disconnect. This is a problem that maybe she loves him too much to notice or feels she’s too connected to pull away from. Please ma’am, disconnect from this guy. Manipulation is a form of abuse.
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Came here from @Themis&Thoth and immediate followed you! Wow...this episode was ...WOW. As a young lady who once was in HS and had a boyfriend like hers, THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING UP. It's so validating to victims and I bet money on t hat fact that you were the first people to speak on her abuse and validate what she felt - partners like him definitely isolate their partners and bully them in the dark. I know his girlfriend wanted to thank you both. One day and hopefully soon she will have the courage to run and never look back.
This was well needed and received. I have a few consultations for therapy today. My first time ever taking therapy in my 29 years and I'm nervous but excited. This brought up somethings for me. Donni stood on bizness in this and I'm so glad she did.
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So proud of you! As a therapist I want to encourage you to search until you find the right fit for you. Every therapist isn't for everyone. Best wishes on your journey!
Very much appreciated!
What business did she stand on exactly? Black feminism?
Did anybody hear when David said”This is the classic reason I’m going to continue to ask, have you ever hit her?” The dude said “ yes” …Anybody else hear that or am I tripping?
Side note: Being a person who have been through domestic abuse in multiple relationships this was very triggering for me. Due to the fact that the abuse was more so mental and emotional which In my opinion is a little scarier than physical abuse because it’s easier for the abuser to get away with what they are doing especially if the victim is unaware of what’s happening to them . Not to take away from someone who is going through physical abuse because all abuse is horrific, I’m just saying emotional and mental abuse has the ability to go undetected because for the untrained eye there’s no external evidence that abuse is taking place which for a victim of it this fact could make it hard for them to get out of a situation because for one they may not realize they are being abused or no one believes them because the only abuse most people recognize or understand is physical abuse.
Even in this particular interview, the guy was being abusive both emotional and mentally to Donni and David! I believe Donni’s body picked up on what was happening due to the fact that she had been through an abusive relationship before but he used so many tactics against them but there was one in particular that trigger me the most . When he purposely answered and asked questions and made statements that he clearly knew and could see was triggering to Donni and David and then when he saw he had triggered and was getting a triggered reaction from them he sat back all cool & calm like he didn’t know what he had done and played victim saying “ if something happened to me this is the last place I was” . That’s called reactive abuse. An abuser pushes you continuously in a manner they know could get you to react in a way that you look like the abuser when in reality you are reacting reasonably to the situation at hand. Thankfully in this situation Donni and David were able to walk away from this person who had done this and tell him to stay away but unfortunately some are stuck with sick individuals like this until they find the help or strength to walk away. I pray the girlfriend in this situation and anyone else dealing with any kind of abuse find a safe way out and heal.
Wait he said yes? I totally missed that. Where was that?
I’m barely 20 minutes into this and maaaan this is spicy dawg. - mind you the UA-cam algorithm had this playing while I was sleep. I woke up once I heard bruh say he “made” shorty unfollow David and was getting at Donni for the feedback lol. I said oh hold up lemme wake up and watch this 🍿
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He doesn't want his lady following a Man that he deems better than him. 1:05:06