This poor girl just wants to go to college and be a nurse and her mom is forcing an unwanted marriage on her to a complete stranger and the mom is saying that she is pissed!???
The “I just came here to have fun, you seem like a nice guy” thing was so well-handled. Good for her for showing such class and excusing herself well in an uncomfortable situation.
John Sampson their “tradition” is outdated and sexist. Normally I don’t have any problems with peoples traditions but this is hurting so many young girls. She and so many others clearly don’t want to get married at this age. They are being robbed of their childhood and then forced into a life of servitude for a husband that they didn’t choose.
The fact that Steven is 23 and Selena is turning 18 and Selena’s mom is okay with them getting married and pressuring Selena to give up on her dream is disgusting
@@RaccoonHills18 is an adult in number only. Huge maturity and experience gap between 18 and 23. It's not always bad but when it's forced that's creepy as hell.
@@ruben7937 What for not wanting to get married at 17? If this ever happened to me I would NEVER speak to my family again. She has a right to be angry.
@@olivej445 she was spoilt. And if you are an adult, you can leave the home. But you can not expect another adult to pay for your life the rest of your life.
@@olivej445 yes, because money grow on trees?;) 1. You have to fill inn all the blanks when analyzing. Example just as much as your "she was not saying to pay for her gollege"... she was also not saying "you have to get married, even if you do decide to move out of the parents house". So lets be realistic. As long as she expected her parents to pay for her life, the parents will then have a big influence. They can cut of the money train anytime after she has become an adult. So she is now of marriage age. Where most women are adults and ready to start own families in most of the world (except westerners who reminds as brats and children until they mature somewhat at age 35-40 years of age). 2. These girls live in a society where it is normal to start families at age of 18 years. 3. This is from TLC.... you can not trust anything from that tv channel;) 1st of, the socalled gypsies are almost always either not gypsies but gorges acting like they are gypsies. Or they are x-gypsies which was outcasted from the gypsi communities due to very unacceptable bad behaviours. No real gypsies would accept putting their families on display on a tv show. 3.2 The actors know they will get extra paied if they make up some big scandals etc. 3.3 Just like 90 days, the amish show, etc... tlc serves the actors with lines of what to say. Claiming it makes better tv punchlines etc etc. Many of the events even never happend. In many european countries such level of dustortions of the truth would be considered fraud. But in usa... you can almost call anything aa reality serie or "based on a true story"... even if almost only the names are the only thing correct;) Never trust tlc. Consider it as entertainment. Nust like mtv etc.
her standing up for herself was amazing. seriously, it’s good to see her stand up for herself against her mother who very obviously just wants to control her and force her to live the life that she wants.
@@FUBARGunpla some queens are independent and prefer to go out and wander rather than sitting all day getting special treatment though but I get your point she is a strong woman! :D
Not only did Selena speak for herself, she spoke for some many girls in this culture who want to do the same thing but scared too. I hope she’s doing well now.
Macy McCaden, THANK YOU! 🙌 I can't stand parents/people who just are so entitled and controlling---and most likely narcissistic (!) With their kids! Your children are autonomous people with their OWN opinions, beliefs and views, NOT SLAVES ! UGH! Poor girl, if she were my daughter I would be SO proud of her!
this girl must’ve raised herself, and raised herself right. she was so respectful, even when brought into an awful situation. she honesty deserves the absolute best.
Honeymoonari how would you react if you were trying to enjoy your birthday party, and your own mother try’s to get you married off to stop your own life? She wants to go college and get a real career instead of sitting at home getting married off to some guy who’s older.
@@chelseacasey3691 I never said what her mother did was right. What her mother did was sick and controlling, I just couldn't picture myself calling my mother a bitch. So when you said "respectfully" I was so confused.
Ik, that’s absolutely ridiculous and outrageous AND she’s getting a man that’s like 5 years older than her to PROPOSE when they have never met each other before!!
Yea, Gypsy tradition. But SERIOUSLY, she’s doing way more better than me, and her MOM is wanting her to stay HOME and take care of her CHILDREN, while her husband who is 5YEARS OLDER THAN HER is working, yea he’s workin but no. No, not happening, shes Actually striving for her dream to be a nurse, they get paid real good.
Exactly there are so many females now getting pregnant at 15 and 16 and have no goals and she was blessed with a daughter who has goals and she wants her to marry a 23 year old stranger who looks damn near 50
Her Mom put, "this career" in air quotes like it's mind blowing to her that her daughter chose an education over being pimped out to a slack jawed stranger. 🤯😂
I dont agree with that life style but that what they're told from young ages is that all they're good for is being someone's wife and having kids and the mom is obviously deeply rooted with that ideology.
@@jazzmynemartin8017 ya i was told that from a young age its a hard mindset to get out of. Luckily unlike my family members i swapped out of it before my teen years.
If I were her,I would trick them into thinking that I actually wanted to get married,but secretly go to college and on the day of the wedding,I would get a plane ticket,and leave without a trace 🙃
He is horrible! The way he says ‘I’m going to make this one mine’ is totally disrespectful to a woman! He’s treating her like an object that he can throw around as he pleases!
@@fa1rytale646 although im atheist i agree! women arent objects, were human beings with feelings and a personality!!! treat everyone with respect and you'll get respect back. accept and respect others boundaries.
Well it has been their norm for the longest time, marrying their daughters off at a very young age instead of having education. The mom was probably married off like that too, so she probably thinks it's the best for her daughter bec it worked out for her. But her daughter did go to school, makes you see the sad difference bec they can't understand each other :(
Can we all give this beautiful young girl a round of applause for standing up for herself. If she was my daughter I would be so proud and know I did my job right.
Can we please go offer all these Gypsy teens some school scholarships?! I mean if they still want to do the traditional stay at home mom/ dad brings the bacon thing that's fine, but if one spouse dies at least the the other one can have a career and keep food on the table. Im a stay at home mom but, I never understood telling children they don't need an education or some kind of career training.
This whole thing is awkward. Steven is proposing to this girl that he doesn’t even know after he described her as “alright.” The mom doesn’t want her daughter to get an education? This whole situation is weird.
Juliana Franco It's their culture🤷🏻♂️ important for women to be married young even before 18 and shouldn't be thinking of the future for their own. Kinda stupid but that girl wasn't into that culture anyways.
@@zunrt9230 Of course I know that's cultural, but that don't make it right, she could be much more approachble about it, but seems to be an ego thing also.
I need an update on Selena because honestly I was so happy for her creating her own path in life by doing something as admiral is working in healthcare! I hope her dreams came true
Usually all gypsy girls are brainwashed into thinking they're supposed to get married before the age of 18 but this girl actually surprised me! It's really good that she is standing up for herself!
@@naviagarcia6772 An American here and I have absolutely no idea what this is. I've never seen or heard anything about this "culture". But to be fair there are tons of subcultures in America. So I guess this is one I've never come across. When she was getting her makeup done she was wearing a University of Kentucky t-shirt and they all have really strong Kentucky accents. I live in Kentucky yet I've never heard of such a thing as this particular subculture. I'm all kinds of confused.
The fact that that mother just forces her daughter to give up on her dream and make her marry a stranger and say “I don’t give a f*ck what you want” to her daughter is just disgusting
Right about one thing why should women stay in a house hold all day we need jobs I dont want a man to depend on me I can sweep the floor and things wash dishes but you dont expect me to clean your mess I dont wanna live in your house I need a job to
@@TheMormonSorceress most women like to be housewifes it's not like it's a bad thing, you're referring to it like a bad thing... but what happened in the vid is a tottaly different story
@@brownie6933 *”most women like” they don’t like it, they must because having a family means responsibility and in most households lives that idea of women being in charge of the chores.*
I really hope so too. She does not deserve the way her mom is treating her at all. If she had less of a spine she would've been pushed into marrying a complete stranger against her will!!
Love Selena. Such a boss Queen. She knows what she wants. She’s not sticking with traditions. She’s making her own path. Standing up for herself. I support this Queen💗
Provale Balkanske Scene Možeš sve samo ako ti to želiš, moraš vjerovati u sebe a takve ljude ignoriraj, uvijek će ih biti ali usredotoči se na sebe i svoj život i pokaži da možeš ne za njih nego za sebe! Sretno
Provale Balkanske Scene usually someone who tells you you can’t is someone who is below you and when they’re below you they have limited vision and when they do it’s because they can’t see your success and goals. You keep on going and don’t let others “vision” about you make your up about yourself
I love how polite she was when she turned him down for a dance. She’s much more mature than her own mother. I was worried because most Gypsy girls are NOT mature but she handled the situation well.
OvaryScary yes I actually do know what arrange marriage is I am Indian. It’s agreed from both side from the groom and bride and both have to accept from meeting first and then decide to move on to marriage. This was forced on to her when he got on one knee when she had no idea that was going to happen or who he even is.
nor7435 there’s many types and this is an example of one form, the mother has chosen her suitor and expects them to marry, it happens in many cultures. Although it does happen less these days, and a more happier version of an arranged marriage is out there
The mother should had butt out of her daughter's love life but there is a reason why she set her daughter up because she wanted her daughter to found the man of her dreams. Time 8:10AM Sun 2/10/19
@@neddyconstant2618 SHE'S 17!!! I watch this show and these parents try and marry off their daughters at 14 almost all of them aren't even allowed to go to school. They just clean and take care of their siblings because apparently women and girls are only useful for domestic values.
Mother: she's so disrespectful Selena: I don't want to marry this guy that's 6 years older than me, I want a career and a future where I can support myself and be happy Mother: Ugh IN FRONT OF MY FAMILY
Hearing this mum say “You’re not going to go out and have a career” and “I don’t care what you want” is horrifying. Selena deserves nothing but the best, and I hope she is doing well in college. Does anyone know how Selena is doing?
SoulAwakened what the fuck?? She's her friend. And the girl wasn't wanting to leave she wanted a break and the girl wanted to comfort her. All she wanted to do was a nice thing and you're saying you'd hit her because of that?
I agree but I also don't think there's anything wrong with stay at home moms. My mom was a stay at home mom for a few years and I really feel fortunate to have had that
FrankieO7 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent but I think it’s just the fact that she went the pathway she wanted to go instead of just following what her mom wanted from her.
She might actually be the smartest girl I’ve seen on this show
Ikr
It really be true tho..
Yazzy playz ikr.....
Facts
ommm she know wassup she to smart 💯
A mother that defends a random man instead of her daughter says a lot.
True. Disgusting
IKR
YEP
relatable
At least it's not another "marry your cousin" episode.
This poor girl just wants to go to college and be a nurse and her mom is forcing an unwanted marriage on her to a complete stranger and the mom is saying that she is pissed!???
Ella Klarich you know what the HUUUGE problem is? This happens quite often in this show
There is a 5 years difference 🤣
Ella Klarich right. Her mom is such a jerk and she doesn’t care about her daughter
I’m just glad that this girl has her own plans for life
let’s beat ha ass
The “I just came here to have fun, you seem like a nice guy” thing was so well-handled. Good for her for showing such class and excusing herself well in an uncomfortable situation.
What happened to her know
the mom: he is very handsome
the guy: a rat infused with drugs and cooked in a alcoholic sauce.
Na the sautéed one was golden nice try...
Lmao
im dead
I feel so bad for laughing at this comment but I cant😂😂
I'm going to watch ratatouille after this, your description reminded me of that movie.
the editors deserve an award for attempting to make it look like there were more than 17 people at this party
Lmaoo that's funny
Ong lmao
That mother is a fool
😂
Ikr, they even put sound effects of people talkingXD
The mum is so rude and shes acting like the victim.
Lala Fiona your right she’s like being over protective of her my point is let her daughter be her and have a happy life and be a nurse
Lala Fiona I mean the boy also looks like a goat
Nick Young a whole billy goat lol she tried her 😭
Just wants that money
Lala Fiona tell me about it, if this was my mum, someone would have pulled her up and said no this is wrong, it’s your daughters choice not yours
"She just shamed me in front of my whole family..."
Uhh no Woman. YOU have shamed yourself in front of the whole world now.
no she didn’t lmao this her daughter n i am selena’s sister n that fact every one thinks it’s real is hilarious 😭😭
She gets all dolled up and her guest look like they just left walmart
😂😂😂
Just got off his interview to push carts at Walmart.
even the gypsy dude
True doe
welp-that’s kentucky for ya. (i actually live there tho it’s actually like that💀😭)
“Fuck all y’all for clapping” ....😭GET EM
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂 she is coming for everyone
😭
@@yvngchula hi hun u r so beautiful would u like visit me u r welcome Egypt Luxor city am tour guide
You don’t need to cuss
This young lady is the only one actually acting like an adult.
@John Sampson yea but their tradition is dumb anyways so no one cares how they feel about it
@John Sampson just like the ppl in the video, so i don't give a fuxk
@John Sampson It's kinda sexist so-
Period
John Sampson their “tradition” is outdated and sexist. Normally I don’t have any problems with peoples traditions but this is hurting so many young girls. She and so many others clearly don’t want to get married at this age. They are being robbed of their childhood and then forced into a life of servitude for a husband that they didn’t choose.
The fact that Steven is 23 and Selena is turning 18 and Selena’s mom is okay with them getting married and pressuring Selena to give up on her dream is disgusting
I mean she can whatever with her life and it's her choice to turn him down...but how their marriage is inappropriate...they're adults no?
@@RaccoonHillsit’s weird because she doesn’t even know that guy, and her mother thought she would just make her daughter marry a complete stranger
@@RaccoonHills18 is an adult in number only. Huge maturity and experience gap between 18 and 23. It's not always bad but when it's forced that's creepy as hell.
she had just turned 17
extremely pedophilic on the mom and the weird mf’s end
He looks like a goat. Like, her mom really went out into the country side and found a goat for her daughter to marry.
LMAO 🤣😂🤣😂
A goat on drugs
Ikr 🤣🤣🤣 5:58
Naaaaaah.
Lmao he has the goat beard and everything
“F*ck all of y’all for clapping” damn she is on the right track on following her dream. She’s more mature than her mom.
Cursing left and right in many clips, is not a sign of being mature.
She is also spoilt and unrealistic.
@@ruben7937 What for not wanting to get married at 17?
If this ever happened to me I would NEVER speak to my family again.
She has a right to be angry.
@@olivej445 she was spoilt.
And if you are an adult, you can leave the home.
But you can not expect another adult to pay for your life the rest of your life.
@@ruben7937
She wasn’t saying anything about someone paying the way through college?
@@olivej445 yes, because money grow on trees?;)
1. You have to fill inn all the blanks when analyzing.
Example just as much as your "she was not saying to pay for her gollege"... she was also not saying "you have to get married, even if you do decide to move out of the parents house".
So lets be realistic.
As long as she expected her parents to pay for her life, the parents will then have a big influence.
They can cut of the money train anytime after she has become an adult.
So she is now of marriage age. Where most women are adults and ready to start own families in most of the world (except westerners who reminds as brats and children until they mature somewhat at age 35-40 years of age).
2.
These girls live in a society where it is normal to start families at age of 18 years.
3.
This is from TLC.... you can not trust anything from that tv channel;)
1st of, the socalled gypsies are almost always either not gypsies but gorges acting like they are gypsies.
Or they are x-gypsies which was outcasted from the gypsi communities due to very unacceptable bad behaviours.
No real gypsies would accept putting their families on display on a tv show.
3.2
The actors know they will get extra paied if they make up some big scandals etc.
3.3
Just like 90 days, the amish show, etc... tlc serves the actors with lines of what to say.
Claiming it makes better tv punchlines etc etc.
Many of the events even never happend.
In many european countries such level of dustortions of the truth would be considered fraud.
But in usa... you can almost call anything aa reality serie or "based on a true story"... even if almost only the names are the only thing correct;)
Never trust tlc.
Consider it as entertainment.
Nust like mtv etc.
"I did not raised her like this"
that's right she raised herself RIGHT
PREACH!!!!
I ate to much pasta my tummy hurts :(
But I want cupcakes :(
And chocolate
And blueberry slushies 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
her standing up for herself was amazing. seriously, it’s good to see her stand up for herself against her mother who very obviously just wants to control her and force her to live the life that she wants.
'I did not raise her like this' Well duh, she raised herself like a queen
@Maria Hagert age is not a problem, he's just dumb that's the thing
@@reginagrobosz8807 age is a problem like what
Like a strong woman*
Queen's are pampered and doted upon, they hardly raise themselves Hahaha
@@FUBARGunpla some queens are independent and prefer to go out and wander rather than sitting all day getting special treatment though but I get your point she is a strong woman! :D
yuhh
If she said no to dancing, why would she say yes to getting married??
shazwana shazwana nooo i know she didnt im saying it to the mum
I know right like wth
Waleed Al-Harthy the mother is pretty stupid for not wanting her daughter to accomplish her dream
Taehyungie Oppa yeahhh i know
Taehyungie Oppa just dont read things wrong
“And f*** all ya’ll for clapping” You tell them!!!
When her mom told her to be quiet and she said, " not if you talking about some bullshit!" I clapped.
MOOD
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Peridot
she is strong and intelligent and will make a fabulous nurse and she will find and equally amazing husband , if she wants one, after her studies
Not only did Selena speak for herself, she spoke for some many girls in this culture who want to do the same thing but scared too. I hope she’s doing well now.
That mom is gonna probably end up marrying him
Hey, at least they look closer in age
IDK if probably is the right word
HAHAHA!!!!!
Honestly
-probably-
Selena’s best friend looks more like a producer or assistant hired to act as one.
LMAOOO DEADASS
She is more like a handler! Hired to brainwash her!
Frrrr
Right because if that was my best friend I’ll be like “girl let’s go”.
💀💀💀💀
she really said “she just shamed me in front of my whole family” like she didn’t do that to her daughter
*Let the girl go to college. She wants to be a nurse. That's great! She's independent.*
Macy McCaden, THANK YOU! 🙌
I can't stand parents/people who just are so entitled and controlling---and most likely narcissistic (!) With their kids! Your children are autonomous people with their OWN opinions, beliefs and views, NOT SLAVES ! UGH! Poor girl, if she were my daughter I would be SO proud of her!
Macy McCadden I apologise for spelling your name incorrectly!
@@forestgump2211 it's OK! Everyone does. Also I LOVE Forrest Gump!
Yes
It’s a cultural thing, but her dam mom need to realize that her daughter doesn’t want to be a part of that culture
this girl must’ve raised herself, and raised herself right. she was so respectful, even when brought into an awful situation. she honesty deserves the absolute best.
faxs
She literally said fuck you to her mom.
Honeymoonari how would you react if you were trying to enjoy your birthday party, and your own mother try’s to get you married off to stop your own life? She wants to go college and get a real career instead of sitting at home getting married off to some guy who’s older.
@@chelseacasey3691 I never said what her mother did was right. What her mother did was sick and controlling, I just couldn't picture myself calling my mother a bitch. So when you said "respectfully" I was so confused.
She should become a nurse and go to college I don’t know why this mother is acting like this.
This show is a great example of why tradition isn’t always a good thing.
Exactly
Facts
Straight up factsss
Yup
Yeppp
Bro I love this girl so much.shes independent and not scared to stand up for herself.shes so pretty as well
"I did not raise her like this."
Couldn't agree more.
"I did not raise her like this."
Good!
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What does that mean "I did not raise her like this ?"
@@sheadeveney2840 The mom didn't raise her daughter in the way that she'd actually stand up for herself and her wants and not gypsy traditions.
@@frickbro so she the daughter doesn't know how to stick up for herself
The fact that she doesn’t want her daughter to go to college and succeed is repulsing
I was going to say the same
Yep, god forbid she actually gets a JOB and becomes MORE than just a wife
Ik, that’s absolutely ridiculous and outrageous
AND
she’s getting a man that’s like 5 years older than her to PROPOSE when they have never met each other before!!
Yea, Gypsy tradition. But SERIOUSLY, she’s doing way more better than me, and her MOM is wanting her to stay HOME and take care of her CHILDREN, while her husband who is 5YEARS OLDER THAN HER is working, yea he’s workin but no. No, not happening, shes Actually striving for her dream to be a nurse, they get paid real good.
Exactly there are so many females now getting pregnant at 15 and 16 and have no goals and she was blessed with a daughter who has goals and she wants her to marry a 23 year old stranger who looks damn near 50
“You seem like a nice guy, but I came here to have fun”
She raised herself to be a queen.
Yes she did and hi Illumi
Hi people I don’t know
@Brsafrizal 246 Hi
@Brsafrizal 246 why who are you
@@chicken9721 what’s going on? And hi
Not the producer pretending to be her FRIEND LOL
Ikrr
Her Mom put, "this career" in air quotes like it's mind blowing to her that her daughter chose an education over being pimped out to a slack jawed stranger. 🤯😂
JessyBeezy Blu she doesn’t know better, her level of self worth is drastically different than her daughters’
I dont agree with that life style but that what they're told from young ages is that all they're good for is being someone's wife and having kids and the mom is obviously deeply rooted with that ideology.
Most mothers would die for a daughter with that mindset
@@jazzmynemartin8017 ya i was told that from a young age its a hard mindset to get out of. Luckily unlike my family members i swapped out of it before my teen years.
The smartest gypsy have ever seen she doesn’t want to get married at a young age she wants to go to school get her career and education yes girl.
Facts. I would do the same.
PERIODDD!!
We stannn
Exactly! I hope she never changes her mind.
If I were her,I would trick them into thinking that I actually wanted to get married,but secretly go to college and on the day of the wedding,I would get a plane ticket,and leave without a trace 🙃
Mom: I think he’s the one
Also mom: pulls a 30 year old drug addict who got released from death row
AHAHAHHAHAA
LMAOOO
MasonMC
Found him in the really really bad Walmart’s
Walmart has have cool stuff but the bad ones just scare me
Lamo xDDDDD
MasonMC sheesh that was harsh
When she stood up to her mom I was all HERE for it! I’m happy to see girls break the misogynistic tradition
"She has no right to act this way"
What no right to politely decline some random guys proposal?
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Maybe she should set her mom on a date as a "surprise "
He is horrible! The way he says ‘I’m going to make this one mine’ is totally disrespectful to a woman! He’s treating her like an object that he can throw around as he pleases!
Your right no one should be treated like a object. But it’s pretty normal to say she’s mine or he’s mine there’s nothing wrong with it.
@@fa1rytale646 maybe
@@UnoThePast maybe
Periodttt
@@fa1rytale646 although im atheist i agree! women arent objects, were human beings with feelings and a personality!!! treat everyone with respect and you'll get respect back. accept and respect others boundaries.
She’s shaming her daughter who’s wanting to have a good stable career, unbelievable.
Well it has been their norm for the longest time, marrying their daughters off at a very young age instead of having education. The mom was probably married off like that too, so she probably thinks it's the best for her daughter bec it worked out for her. But her daughter did go to school, makes you see the sad difference bec they can't understand each other :(
Some people still believe that a woman’s worth is based entirely on how many men want to marry her.
katj she talks exactly like a narcissist, it’s vile
The fact she wanted to go to college and have a career speaks for itself. 'I don't need that from you, I'm fine all by myself' Like- QUEENNNN
Steve looks like a guy that's suppose to stay 100 miles away from all schools
Haha
LMFAO
😂😂😂😂
LMFAO OMG I LEGIT JUST BURSTED OUT IN LAUGHTER OML 😂🤣👏
LOLOLOL
He literally didn’t even say anything.. he just pulled out a ring.
Madison B what could he even say though? “Nice to meet you”
He didn’t even say ONE word😂😂
You have a point but would you marry someone you just meet for 0.1 second??
5:58 they way he stared at her tho he looked like he wanted to kill her
@@sadiebrianna1469 😂😂😭
I hope this girl ended up getting a college degree like she wanted to. She seems to be a smart and independent girl.
@@MisaloSloe Oh geez, that's rough!
@@MisaloSloe aw dam, did she go to collage after she got the divorce? I hope she did at least
@@nekofarah Lol no that's fake. That didn't happen
@@roshadomar5815 omg I hope not, that would've sucked so much, what happen at the end? I really hope she moved out and went to college
its all fake I have seen the same guy in other videos of tlc shows too they just acting
I love how she is standing up for herself! She knows what she wants
Can we all give this beautiful young girl a round of applause for standing up for herself. If she was my daughter I would be so proud and know I did my job right.
geraldine lynch can I get an amen ✊
Can we please go offer all these Gypsy teens some school scholarships?! I mean if they still want to do the traditional stay at home mom/ dad brings the bacon thing that's fine, but if one spouse dies at least the the other one can have a career and keep food on the table. Im a stay at home mom but, I never understood telling children they don't need an education or some kind of career training.
It’s scripted
If you where her mom you probably wouldnt make you daughter marry someone she doesn’t even know
👏👏👏
This whole thing is awkward. Steven is proposing to this girl that he doesn’t even know after he described her as “alright.” The mom doesn’t want her daughter to get an education? This whole situation is weird.
@@adelina5741 ....I don't believe they are actually retarded by nature, but instead having "traditions" that are abnormal
@@Jaycee_flanuwu their traditions are retarded.
@@Jaycee_flanuwu Yes,and I agreed with you, thanks for the personal attack though. Lmao
That is just their culture
@@THEGiraffePerson doesn't make it right.
What kind of mom would want her daughter to marry some strange guy she doesn't even know instead of going to college and getting a career???
That's not a fucking mom AT ALL
Gypsies.
Juliana Franco It's their culture🤷🏻♂️ important for women to be married young even before 18 and shouldn't be thinking of the future for their own. Kinda stupid but that girl wasn't into that culture anyways.
@@zunrt9230 Of course I know that's cultural, but that don't make it right, she could be much more approachble about it, but seems to be an ego thing also.
Ones who think they know better
I need an update on Selena because honestly I was so happy for her creating her own path in life by doing something as admiral is working in healthcare! I hope her dreams came true
Finally a young gypsy girl who wants to go to college instead of getting married !!!
“Make this one mine”
Are you serious? Dude, Frick off. You’re 23, she’s 17.
Girl, go follow your dreams! Go and become a nurse!
18
Because she is 18 it’s legal to be Married
RaineBow How tf is he only 23? He looks like he's in his forties
вєαυтι fυl Just because they are legal to get married doesn't mean her mom can bring in a stranger that's 5 years older than her.
Raine Bow agreed
Usually all gypsy girls are brainwashed into thinking they're supposed to get married before the age of 18 but this girl actually surprised me! It's really good that she is standing up for herself!
Like I’m so confused are they a race or a “American religion “ or what??
Navi’s Garcia idk what it is but I think it might be a religion or uh like a choice? I think it’s a lifestyle or sum,idk.
@@naviagarcia6772 An American here and I have absolutely no idea what this is. I've never seen or heard anything about this "culture". But to be fair there are tons of subcultures in America. So I guess this is one I've never come across.
When she was getting her makeup done she was wearing a University of Kentucky t-shirt and they all have really strong Kentucky accents.
I live in Kentucky yet I've never heard of such a thing as this particular subculture.
I'm all kinds of confused.
Watching& Listening rightttttt I’m Mexican everybody knows what race/ culture is that but not Gypsy 😂😂
@@naviagarcia6772 Exactly! What the heck is happening here?! Can't help feeling like all of this is just made up for the t.v. show.
I’m so proud of her and I hope she’s doing well.
I’m not sure if she went to college but she does have 3 kids now and is with another man she seems happier
The fact that that mother just forces her daughter to give up on her dream and make her marry a stranger and say “I don’t give a f*ck what you want” to her daughter is just disgusting
They seem to believe women should be in the kitchen and should be married off wrong
Right about one thing why should women stay in a house hold all day we need jobs I dont want a man to depend on me I can sweep the floor and things wash dishes but you dont expect me to clean your mess I dont wanna live in your house I need a job to
@@TheMormonSorceress most women like to be housewifes it's not like it's a bad thing, you're referring to it like a bad thing... but what happened in the vid is a tottaly different story
Here to remind u Bout your likes
@@brownie6933 *”most women like” they don’t like it, they must because having a family means responsibility and in most households lives that idea of women being in charge of the chores.*
She’s my favorite she told him “ I don’t need nothing from you I’m good on my own by my self “ yes girl you go get your career and your education !!
Yes Selena is one of my favorites! She went from a girl looking for love to a young woman getting her own!!
Marsiela Jones fr! I love Selena! She seems like a bright and smart girl
Yeah from most of the other episodes, she is very appreciative and respectful to herself and others.
Exactly
Yesssssss Queen goooooooooo
Ps for selena
"YOU CANT MARRY A GUY YOU JUST MET" -Elsa
Bush KingShin Fajardo lol
HAHAHAHAHHA
PREACH
YES 😂
Happens alot especially in arrange marriages.
Steven: "She didn't seem like too bad of a girl." Wow he seems great
I hope that girl becomes a nurse and gets married when she wants to
Yah 😭😭😂😂
I know right?? She can find her own man her mom doesn’t need to even find her a boyfriend
We really need an update on her life.
and marries WHO she wants to.
I really hope so too. She does not deserve the way her mom is treating her at all. If she had less of a spine she would've been pushed into marrying a complete stranger against her will!!
That dude looks so sketchy hell nah I’m glad to see her be one of the gypsys that change the whole game up
PixelatedGal I turned the like the like button to 100 ur welcome
Pets And Beyond your not welcome
PixelatedGal, yeah their 6 years apart too. I am fine with age gaps but only when both people are game.
Lady, your daughter was born with something called, rights
Yes thank you she has right god lord to this mother
Yes finally
ironic coming from yumeko jabami
For real. And common sense to make something of herself.
@@marleydean7811 lol yeah
Love Selena. Such a boss Queen. She knows what she wants. She’s not sticking with traditions. She’s making her own path. Standing up for herself. I support this Queen💗
Literally the FIRST parent who doesnt want their kid to go to college or get a job. Wow.
Im confused, this is how it used to be for girls?
My mum was and is still telling me all the time I can't make it
Provale Balkanske Scene
Možeš sve samo ako ti to želiš, moraš vjerovati u sebe a takve ljude ignoriraj, uvijek će ih biti ali usredotoči se na sebe i svoj život i pokaži da možeš ne za njih nego za sebe! Sretno
@@iskra3550 Normalno, to i radim. Hvala 💓
Provale Balkanske Scene usually someone who tells you you can’t is someone who is below you and when they’re below you they have limited vision and when they do it’s because they can’t see your success and goals. You keep on going and don’t let others “vision” about you make your up about yourself
She met him for 2 seconds 10 minutes ago and now he's proposing 😂
Thats the gypsy way hunny
It sounds like a sims game, but unfortunately its not
Kezia Tamba idc if it’s Gypsie it’s crazy asf
"you cant marry a guy you just met" - elsa
I love how polite she was when she turned him down for a dance. She’s much more mature than her own mother. I was worried because most Gypsy girls are NOT mature but she handled the situation well.
I was proud to see that she had a great mind set,she didn't want her life to thrown away
6:02 she really ate that whole conversation like period 🤩
The mom: “he is very handsome”
The guy: looks like an Amish man on drugs
not "an Amish man on drugs" 🤣🤣
BYE😭
DEAD 💀 😂😭
This!
He doesn't look very intelligent. ..
The mums pissed because she refused to marry a stranger? Poor girl
The guy look way older then her like so much older
@@lunachew3302 he was 23 and she's 17 so he is older than her
@@martav758 6 years is alot! Her mom really is Psycho
@@rioforeverplays269 I know yea 😅 that's why I said the age difference 😅
@@rioforeverplays269 its not a lot at all 😂 My parents are 6 years apart and my grandparents are 10 years apart
Shout out to the girl’s friend for having her back. She just kept coming to the girl whenever she needed support. She has a good friend.
Hey babe 😎
"your mom is a psycho" good support indeed
Shravani Jidge but was she wrong...
Hi, just three shreks
Fact:
shrek is the superior species. they are top of the food chain lolol
:" I didn't raise her like this "
Guurl she raised her own self and thank god she did
“You’re not ready for something real” SHES 17. OF COURSE SHES NOT
Ikr, they just wanna push 17 yr olds out of childhood, their still children
I hope she went to school and never talked to them all ever again 😂
leopard-adict-92, so do I! 💯👌👏🙏
Lmao only if it was that easy
@@scotteishalucas9624 she had money away that had dad left her so when hes 18 she can go to college
Why doesn’t the mom just marry the guy
Deadass😑
lmao right?
If she's obsessed with him so much
fr tho
True. He got all the stuff that the mom wants. What more could the mom ask for? 😂
that 17 yr old is an icon ✨
“How dare my 16 year old child not accept an arranged marriage!”
OvaryScary it wasn’t a arranged marriage. This was forced
nor7435 do you even know what an arranged marriage is??
and from a complete stranger whom she's never even DATED!! Jesus
OvaryScary yes I actually do know what arrange marriage is I am Indian. It’s agreed from both side from the groom and bride and both have to accept from meeting first and then decide to move on to marriage. This was forced on to her when he got on one knee when she had no idea that was going to happen or who he even is.
nor7435 there’s many types and this is an example of one form, the mother has chosen her suitor and expects them to marry, it happens in many cultures. Although it does happen less these days, and a more happier version of an arranged marriage is out there
The daughter is NOT disrespectful
She stood up for herself
she was actually a little nice.. she wasn't super rude to the guy, only to her mother
when he kept making eye contact with the camera I got second hand embarrassment
Yeah, she stood up for herself like a QUEEN
yeah, she stood up for herself!!
Facts. The daughter is smart. She has a good head on her shoulders.
If that dude is “good looking” for her mom...
I really don’t want to see what “bad looking” means for her mom....
Probly someone who does look good
ATEEZ stole my wig it finna be the hot guys
Ikr
Lol true (and btw I love your picture and your name
ATEEZ FAN!
If she didn’t want to dance with him
*WHY ON EARTH WOULD SHE WANT TO MARRY HIM!?*
Ikr
That guy is uglyyyy
baby doll it’s not even only that. It’s the fact that he’s old and doesn’t know her 😷
You have no idea how hard it is to say no when a man makes a dramatic proposal
He looks shady af.
When she rejected to proposal ii was like she raised herself right and she was respectful and i was so ◡̈⋆ⒽⒶⓅⓅⓎ😊 that she continued her career
I'm worried about Selena. I hope she makes it as a nurse and finds a more stable loving family and friend group.
Kristen yeah she seems to be the only smart one there unfortunately.
So true, like I understand traditions, but there are just some traditions that can do more bad than good..
Mele Baledrokadroka yeah like this show isn’t like true gypsys. They are like a different breed of toxic modern gypsys.
from my knowledge she did follow her dreams
She's pregnant with a baby girl
Where did the mom get the guy from? The gas station? The trash? WHERE!?
And is he really 23?
maybe not. maybe he is actually 46 years old and trying to prey on minors
Ikr it’s disgusting. I wouldn’t even want to touch that guy with a 100m pole.
So pretty much that relationship is illegal until she turns 18
@@ankeshact2583 wasn't it her eightinth and totally agree it should never be legal to marry him tbh
She found him on Facebook 🤮
I hope you go to college sweetheart and that your future goes well , you don’t need your mom in your life if that’s the way she is gonna behave
Justin
Maya Tinoco facts sis
The mother should had butt out of her daughter's love life but there is a reason why she set her daughter up because she wanted her daughter to found the man of her dreams. Time 8:10AM Sun 2/10/19
Neddy Constant true, that but remind you she just pulled out a complete stranger and expected her to marry him
@@neddyconstant2618 SHE'S 17!!! I watch this show and these parents try and marry off their daughters at 14 almost all of them aren't even allowed to go to school. They just clean and take care of their siblings because apparently women and girls are only useful for domestic values.
She’s an icon. She’s a legend. And she IS the moment
“Your mom’s psycho.” AGREED.
Steven: "I'm gonna make this one mine."
*Everyone disliked that*
He is treating her like an object.
Yeah she is no an object
Someone volley him into a wall.
hes so ugly too
ew omg-
Mother: she's so disrespectful
Selena: I don't want to marry this guy that's 6 years older than me, I want a career and a future where I can support myself and be happy
Mother: Ugh IN FRONT OF MY FAMILY
How does this have 1.2k likes and no replies. I’m breaking that.✌🏼😂
inbred mentality 100%
Shes 17 he looks like he is 40. 💀 There is no way he is only 23. Even if she is 17 and he is 23 that is still a big age gap.
selena: *walks a little distance*
her friend: 🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️🏃🏼♀️
She’s a really supportive friend ngl
Lmaooo
She is a good friend
She castes I’m happy
her friend was clapping 🤔
She treated him perfectly considering this stranger just proposed to her , that mother is awful
Exactly
Exaclty she wasn't rude at all.
And a failure too what kinda a mother is she?!🤨🤨
Hearing this mum say “You’re not going to go out and have a career” and “I don’t care what you want” is horrifying. Selena deserves nothing but the best, and I hope she is doing well in college. Does anyone know how Selena is doing?
@Sparky Marie I also wish her the very best. Hopefully she's in college or has graduated.
A nurse wouldn't graduate in a year
I heard she was a boxer or something
@@squidgoat7725 lol that was a different girl. Priscilla i think?
My mom raised me like this. I joined the Army. I showed her 🤣😂😁😬😟😳😢😭.
This girl is awesome! I love how supportive her friend is! That friend was shooting daggers at that boy! I'm so glad this girl stood her ground
We all need pink-shirted lady running after us with her ponytail swinging so we can rant about the people in our lives trying to sabotage us.
"Pink-shirted lady" 🤣🤣
SoulAwakened what the fuck?? She's her friend. And the girl wasn't wanting to leave she wanted a break and the girl wanted to comfort her. All she wanted to do was a nice thing and you're saying you'd hit her because of that?
Alicia Koepke yes i need this girl in my life😂
I am literally SO proud of this girl! Good thing she’s strong minded, she’s going to be an excellent nurse!!!!
Amber Donovan amén
Amber Donovan she has the whole nurse vibe about her. Like she just looks like someone who would be a nurse😂
Amen she’s gonna be rich
IKR
I agree there she is very strong hearted woman.. I am proud of her for standing her ground
That young lady is so smart and is gonna go places if her mom doesn't make her get married. Shes refusing to give up college and a job
ASMR With Isa army?💜💜💜
ASMR With Isa she made the right Descion to do that jt is her choice
Her mom is crazy got doing that
I look back on this of how amazing this girl is. Her mom is absolutely insane
That is the smartest gypsy I've ever seen and heard...that child has a brain...
Lord only knows where she got it from...
I’m proud of her for becoming a nurse she will do way better than sitting at home cleaning
I agree but I also don't think there's anything wrong with stay at home moms. My mom was a stay at home mom for a few years and I really feel fortunate to have had that
FrankieO7 there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a stay at home parent but I think it’s just the fact that she went the pathway she wanted to go instead of just following what her mom wanted from her.
@@frankieo7800 yes some people are forced to tho
She’s pissed, that her daughter wants to go to college? Tf kinda backwards crap is that?
Its called culture, and sometimes culture is crap.
Sometimes you gotta rewrite culture
I think you didnt read the title. Theyre gypsys
@@alarmedllama5910 well yeah but her daughter doesn’t want to do that yet...so she shouldn’t be mad at her
The mom when she reads this:
“ItS gYpSy CuLtUrE!”
The fact that only like 10 year olds turned up and only 8 people were there 💀💀
It's scary to think I'm her age. Can't imagine being obligated to marry some random person.
Same. I’m 17 and can hardly tie my shoes.
Lights blunt in the womb
nice my chem profile pic
Mad respect to her for standing up for herself. She has goals and big dreams.
She is the smartest, independent, and most badass person to have ever been on this show
I feel grateful, that i have supportive parents.
@@space-nl7cw me too, my parents tell me I'm not a prize to be won, I belong to no one, focus love on myself. King and Queen.
Your gay
Frr💀
@@space-nl7cw LITERALLY
It's SUCH a RELIEF That This show is UNCENSORED!!!!!
THANK U SO MUCH!!!!!💯💯💯