Baby Products I REGRET buying & what I'm getting instead (2nd baby!)
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- Опубліковано 31 тра 2024
- Sharing my updated newborn / baby product regrets & reviews and what I'm buying this time (second baby) for 2022 - some must haves & favorites for baby registry ideas, including the snoo, uppababy vista, mockingbird, mamaroo, halo bassinest, boppy, spectra pump, doona car seat & more!
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- Magnetic Me sleepers: go.magik.ly/ml/1v7hl/
- Cheapest Magnetic Sleepers: howl.me/ckcYf1ZP0pD
- My fave zipper sleepers with mitten sleeves: howl.me/ckcYgJgO3dH
- Graco swing I recommend (that one is sold out everywhere - this does the exact same thing): howl.me/ckcYiWUtDBG
- Toy organizer (similar, they already don’t sell the one we have??): amzn.to/3gk06Ac
- Glider we bought this time: www.potterybarnkids.com/produ...
- Wipe warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PoKp6g0
- bottle warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PVAQoMb
- Baby nail file (electric): amzn.to/3ugWM0Z
- Uppababy Vista V2: amzn.to/3q2uzLq
- The Mockingbird stroller is super similar and cheaper: howl.me/ckcYmPgJ9tL
- Doona car seat: howl.me/ckcYnlnm4Bf
- Hatch Rest Plus Sound Machine: amzn.to/3O5DKmw
- Snoo: amzn.to/3OqUJ49
- Double two-camera monitor: amzn.to/3DpuAwa
- Spectra pump (blue): shop-links.co/cgx4Qw9StwO
- haakaa milk catcher: howl.me/ckcYo5t22QV
- Hatch changing pad scale: shop-links.co/cgx4Vhe8v7D
- Boppy: shop-links.co/cgx4WjeP3yr
- Boppy covers (amazon): amzn.to/3oiXlU9
- My Breast Friend: shop-links.co/cgx4XwZ2EvE
- Cribsheet book: shop-links.co/cgx4YuSypod
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~ stuff I mentioned ~
(using these links means I may make a small commission)
- Magnetic Me sleepers: shop-links.co/cgx2ivf8fDm
- Cheapest Magnetic Sleepers: shop-links.co/cgx2hMEgNSw
- My fave zipper sleepers with mitten sleeves: shop-links.co/cgx2jyD1ozS
- Graco swing I recommend: shop-links.co/cgx2m8qvDfZ
- Toy organizer (similar, they already don’t sell the one we have??): amzn.to/3gk06Ac
- Glider we bought this time: www.potterybarnkids.com/produ...
- Wipe warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PoKp6g0
- bottle warmer: shop-links.co/cgx4PVAQoMb
- Baby nail file (electric): amzn.to/3ugWM0Z
- Uppababy Vista V2: shop-links.co/cgx2vp6JNw5
- The Mockingbird stroller is super similar and cheaper: shop-links.co/cgx2v3Uyr9c
- Doona car seat: shop-links.co/cgx2uNJAhqp
- Hatch Rest Plus Sound Machine: shop-links.co/cgx2xrUKuKZ
- Snoo: www.happiestbaby.com/
- Double two-camera monitor: shop-links.co/cgx2zmgDSSL
- Spectra pump (blue): shop-links.co/cgx4Qw9StwO
- haakaa milk catcher: shop-links.co/cgAfDVKJHgB
- Hatch changing pad scale: shop-links.co/cgx4Vhe8v7D
- Boppy: shop-links.co/cgx4WjeP3yr
- Boppy covers (amazon): amzn.to/3oiXlU9
- My Breast Friend: shop-links.co/cgx4XwZ2EvE
- Cribsheet book: shop-links.co/cgx4YuSypod
- Expecting better book: amzn.to/3FFx08u
Where is your bedspread from? I'm looking for one just like it!
First time grandma here. Where did u rent the SNOO? Would love to get it for my daughter but its to pricey for us. Loved this video. New subby here.
Hi Jessica! Congrats on the new baby. :) I’m trying to click on the link to the recliner/rocker you ordered. It’s not working though! Can you please post it again or recommend something different, but similar? Thanks! :)
Hi Jessica- thank you for this great information! What crib do y’all have?
what bassinet do you use instead of the halo?? I didn't see that in the video
Get 2 Haaka manual breats pumps and put one on each breast while showering. I would no joke almost fill them both up in 1 shower. The warm water stimulates let down. Genius hack I read on a baby board.
Wow! I never thought of that!
Thank you for this! Was going to get one, but now I'll get two!
Probably stupid question but how do they not slip off.
@@sheenachante they are like suctioned on to your breast
Same to the question above ^
Am I having a baby soon? No. Did I watch the entire video? Yes.
Just remember- more expensive doesn’t necessarily mean better!
Right, I love this video but I feel like it's above my pay grade lol
Yes, those Snoo bassinets seem like they would create new sleep crutches to wean them off of.
💯💯
She's promoting over priced unnecessary items. She keeps saying its an "investment"....😂
@@TranquilityWithinMe they’re the things she got for herself. You’re free to not do so. She’s just giving her thought process, but you have a choice in the market.
Former daycare worker here...we used a crock pot instead of a bottle warmer. And that's something you won't need to declutter later... just an idea!
On the warm setting?
Yes you can prep several and just keep them warm till use.
@@jennyjohnson5428the high setting!
That would be beneficial in only a daycare setting I would think when you need to prep more than one bottle otherwise it's just a big hassle to keep a large crock pot on your counter all the time. A bottle warmer is small and not that expensive anyways. Plus it will heat it to the exact temperature milk needs to be less guessing
Pioneer Woman has mini crockpots you can keep water warm all day and just throw the bottle in there instead of using a microwave to warm water.
I'm 19 weeks pregnant with our first and learning from all these videos is:
1. You need way less than you think
2. Buy 2nd hand
3. Buy after baby is born so you don't buy things you won't use
The best advice we were given is to use baby sleep gowns. No buttons or opening in the middle of the night. They were the BEST thing ever.
Jessica, I’m currently 6 weeks pregnant with my first child and I’m doing it all alone. I found your channel and it feels like I have a friend to guide me through this! I really appreciate you!
I just found out I'm pregnant with my first & I'm 6 weeks too! 🙂 sending you prayers & warm thoughts!
congrats momma have a healthy and easy pregnancy
I am 6 weeks too. Praying for you and your baby!
6 weeks asking I pray we all have health pregnancy and babies !!! I hope you find comfort somehow 😊
Congratulations everyone! Hope you all have a happy safe pregnancy journey.
Tip for the haaka from your friend who is pregnant with my 3rd.
Have coffee mugs around whenever you are using the haaka. I know you don’t think that you’ll knock it over, but you will. I set mine in a coffee mug every time with my second. Saved a lot of spills
Genius!
So smart! Literally would’ve saved me!
Wonderful advice. That first spill of breastfeed is devastating.
The newer ones have the suction on the bottom and come with a cap to close it
@@RandySoWavvy I have those!! But rambunctious toddlers + surfaces that they don’t stick to well have still ruined my day 🤣
One thing to be aware of with the doona carseat is it has a poor crash test safety rating. My husband is a crash test safety engineer, and he said there's no way he'd put our baby in that. Something to consider
Good to know. I really liked it considering that I am having my second baby 15 years later. The price kept me away knowing it wouldn’t be used for so long.
I have a Graco stroller that clips in the car seat. (Click & go?) I got that instead because it is a bit more effort but it’s got an excellent crash test rating.
Which car seats do you recommend? I’m having my second baby 14 years later and this is a whole new world for me again, I’ve been doing a lot of research and I like Britax travel systems or britax one for life.
I loved wipe warmer but never used bottle warmer
Which one does he recommend that has great crash test safety rating?🌻
Not even thinkin' about babies, but I always find it important to know what to get for the moms in my life! It seems so hard; I wanna make sure I'm getting gifts that will honestly help lol
Same!!
Same, no shade but I had nothing.
Every mom I've had the pleasure of gifting to has always loved a "nursing" basket. A lovely basket with a reusable, insulated water bottle, a good book to read, some puzzle books, their favorite granola bars, and usually an Audible subscription. I also like to include a charger for their phone so there's always one wherever they're nursing. If I know how many places the mom to be plans to have, I'll make a basket for each and then instruct their partner to make sure it always has water in the bottle and stocked with snacks. Even after breastfeeding is done, they've often been used when rocking a sick kiddo to sleep or when mom or partner are sick themselves. Everyone always thinks to get baby cute clothes and cute toys. Most people forget about momma. Another thing I like to do is get really nice body cream and a few pairs of comfy socks... PJs too if I know momma's size. IMHO momma should be changing from Pjs to PJs when she's given the opportunity to shower, at least for the first 6 weeks, minimum. It seems like once momma is wearing real clothes, everyone expects her to be back to her normal self... but the healing process both physically and mentally takes SO MUCH LONGER.
@@Chaotic_Pixie best gift ever! Or even a spotify premium subscription! :) which is super cheap. I love mine! The water bottle idea is great for anyone, even after a surgery!
You are a great friend!!!
One thing that makes baby number 2 interesting is when they don't like or respond to the same things baby number 1 did. So you buy/don't buy all this stuff based on the first experience thinking "yeah I'm totally gonna nail it this time!" And the new baby is like a whole new breed of human lol like I did NOT account for this 😫😂
Thanks for this advice! I didn't even consider that 😅
Weirdest Hack that I’ve done as a mom of 3 soon to be 4- instead of getting a wipe warmer I would grab a few wipes before I grabbed the baby and stick them in my bra, then they’d warm up before I’d change the baby and I didn’t need another gadget! Our second child HATED diaper changes and that’s when I started doing this and worked for us like a charm!
I'm definitely doing this 😅
Mum of 4 soon to be 5, started doing this with my 2nd baby. Used my thigh or arm to warm them up, best hack ever! Lool
Okay bottle warmer! - We don't even use bottles but listen to this postpartum mamas; put your peri bottle in there and boom you always have warm water to clean yo self! Very helpful for someone like me whos sink takes SO long to get warm water from!!
so smart
Genius
I’ve never thought of that. Genius 👍
Genuis
Wow, I wish I new this tip a couple weeks ago!
If you are annoyed by snaps at night you should just use gowns. We did for both kids and I always thought it was weird they don't get as much talk. You don't have to do anything, just pull it up and pull of down. So simple and cheap.
Number one regret was NOT looking into and deciding what formula I trusted/liked/wanted. I just assumed I was gonna be able to breastfeed. And when my baby didn’t latch I was left incredibly stressed sifting through the HUNDREDS of formula options while extremely exhausted/sleep deprived trying to make a decision. Not ideal and 100% contributed to my PPD.
Don't worry, the formula shortage took the stress out of choosing the perfect formula. Every week we tried a new formula, anything really. Eventually there was literally no formula and we had to move to goat$ milk.
Similac sensitive is mostly used in my family.
A lot of good doulas help with this and it's just a matter of try Harder knowing the health and psicological consecuences in adulthood.. ..Im based on evidence.
Kendamil (organic) . We did tons of research. This one isn’t filled with junk and also tastes good. We actually tasted them and the reg ones at the stores sold here in US taste and smell nasty.
@@caroldelosangeles3621 Please don't do that, don't shove breastfeeding down anyone's throat or make them feel guilty for not doing it. Everyone has their own journey and they're not all the same, everyone is entitled to make their own decisions without other people judging. My mom didn't breastfeed any of her 3 children and we all turned out fine. Also - I will be having a baby via surrogacy so breastfeeding isn't even an option for me. And that's ok. ☺
I’m the type of mom that will dress up my baby every day in cute outfits. My baby was born in the middle of the pandemic so I couldn’t go anywhere. So dressing her up makes me happy, doesn’t matter if she will spit up or get dirty. It’s clothes, they can be washes, and they won’t be in there for long, why not have fun. ☺️
It is fun, but it was my opinion mostly just impractical after one of those spectacular "blow outs" and having to PEEL the layers of tights, ruffle bloomers, and dress off and the potential of that $35+ set is potentially stained for good. Versus unzipping a $12 sleeper from Target.
If you want to buy a modular stroller - pro tip : buy the second seat right away when you buy the stroller. Yeah you might not use it but more annoyingly the brand often will change the style and it might be hard/impossible to get the second seat if the brand discontinues the line. This happened with the baby jogger city select 1 vs 2 so do yourself a favor and buy the second seat now! (this also applies to toddler bed conversion kits for cribs!!)
Thei happened to me with the same stroller except it was the lux. I have seats that don't match but I'm pregnant with #3 so I'm upgrading to a 4 seater wagon.
I am a new mom currently 26 weeks, and i loved this video. I was a nanny for many years and so many people don’t talk about how personal every baby item can be. No matter how cheap or expensive a product may be all babies are different and you can never call what will and won’t work. It’s a learning experience and so many moms stress about the perfect items.
I would definitely recommend “the Montessori baby”, the Montessori toddler”, and “simplicity parenting” books. Even if you are not a Montessori/Waldorf/gentle parenting family there’s really great information about development and understanding babies/toddlers better that I think would be valuable to any parent or guardian.
Love these books you mentioned!
Even if you aren't gonna fully do the montessori method it is so great to research because the toy organization and rotation and stuff is a game changer for keeping children entertained on their own. I still get overwhelmed when my children decide to dump all the toys they have access to out and take forever to help them clean it up again. But there is a HUGE difference between their clean and messy room.
Not to mention reading the books really clues you in to how many ‘Montessori’ labeled things just aren’t! I saw a “Montessori busy board” that was over 2 feet by 2 feet with dozens of different zippers and buttons, etc. ….that’s not a Montessori concept…:
💗🤰🤗👏exactly. But the marketing for stupid ittems and generations separations between babies and skin to skin to mothers ( fular ..baby cangoo mom will always be the best for all the consecuences ) is insane.
Have you tried infant gowns for nighttime?? Game changers!!! Literally all you do is pull it up, change the diaper, and pull it down. And they have built in mittens for newborns. You MUST try one!!
I have the doona and definitely regret buying that. The only perk is it’s a quick change from car seat to stroller but it’s HEAVY! Once the baby’s a bit bigger, it’s so hard to get them from the house to the car. Also, especially now in winter, the wheels get covered in snow, salt and mud and it then gets dragged onto your car seats and into the house. Now I’ll only really use it for a trip to the store when absolutely necessary. Also, the base broke within 6 months so beware!
The safety reports on it are horrible too!!
I’m not a mother yet, so wondering : why don’t people carry their baby to the car in their arms, use a car seat in the car, then get a six-wheeled stroller from the trunk to move around with the baby ?
The cloud island onesies are such good value - they fun true to size and have the fold over cuffs AND a two way zipper which is huge at the price point (3/$12)
I love the cloud island onesies! We were gifted some and for next baby we are buying only those ones!!! They were the most convenient, softest, and in my opinion cutest ones.
Cloud Island is everything. I freaking love those 3 packs and baby Ozzy isn’t here yet!
💯 agree. My go to brand and their bit stretchy which is nice longer lasting compared other brands.
Red lights are used on ships and things because it doesn’t mess with your night vision. However it tells your brain to go to sleep so the navy etc, has been moving to green light.
So red lights should be PERFECT for a nursery. Sleep little baby, sleep! ❤️❤️
We LOVE the baby brezza bottle warmer! It has multiple settings where you can use to warm bottles for formula or breastmilk. You shouldn’t use steam to warm breastmilk because it can kill good nutrients and bacteria in breastmilk so it has a setting that’s safe for that! You can also use it to warm baby food/pouches and even thaw frozen breastmilk! We have used and abused it for a year and it still works perfectly.
Instead of a bottle warmer we got an electric kettle with a "keep warm" setting. It is always ready for us to mix with formula and we can also use it for tea and all that. We love it.
Oh this is so smart *adds to the list of ideas* thank you
babies don’t have preference. you don’t need to heat up water for the formula at all. in France we use room temperature water instead. it’s good if you’re stuck somewhere with no access to warm water, your baby won’t object to colder milk
@@paulinaj7208 but the warm water sterilises the formula
@@thelondonbeautystylist only boiling water does the sterilization process
Yes if anything warm but not boiling water has more risks of containing germs ! A warmer can be useful to warm breast milk that was in the fridge or freezer though cause babies usually dont like it cold 😂
I think the main thing I recommend is that every baby likes different things so always buy secondhand if you can. No use in paying full price. We had our uppababy cruz stroller new though, and I recommend that just because a stroller can take a beating through multiple kids.
My babies are young teens and pre-teens, but I still love watching the baby videos of the UA-camrs I care about. It makes me smile to see the happiness a new baby brings.
I’m a senior in college and babies are definitely not on my mind, but you’re videos are so calming and chill that I couldn’t resist and I am now watching 🤣🤣
They must have updated the manual because loading the car seat into the ua-cam.com/users/postUgkxIG_q-ZqgbzYXwbeApK3AybegDUy4f2fF double stroller was mentioned in the manual (unlike previous comments/reviews). The undercarriage basket is quite large but it is difficult to access when the back rider is reclined, however my toddler usually doesn't fall asleep in the stroller these days so I haven't had an issue. I was amazed by how smooth the ride was and how easily I was able to maneuver the stroller in small spaces. My toddler loves that she can see her baby sister (see photo) during the ride :) Plus you can't beat the price! I have only loaded it once in my car and it is fairly light but my mother wouldn't be able to lift it in.
LOVE how honest and intentional you are!
We use the Hatch for our daughter. The red light is amazing for night time feedings. I also have the blue Spectra breast pump. It is wonderful having the option to pump where you need to around the house, in the car, at work and not be tied to an outlet. I love it.
Pregnant with my first baby; thank you so much for creating this content, very helpful. And thanks to everyone in the comment community as well! I’m much more at ease and prepared to create my registry now 😊
Wow! Wow! Wow! It’s amazing what’s out there now for parent help/baby care. My son is 25 & I would of loved these things. You guys have got this. I’m so excited for you.🥰
I had an old bassinet, the wicker type. I made a beautiful lace skirt for it and several replacement sheets. It was frivolous, but beautiful and I don’t regret it at all. There are very few things you “must have”, besides a baby, diapers, a way to feed the baby, and keep it warm. And a decent, safe car seat.
I totally agree about wishing I had known more about the 4th trimester! That was honestly the hardest part of being a mom for me (especially the breastfeeding part). I am reading Cribsheet now because of your recommendation! Loving it.
I just went through all this with my baby who is now 9w old. Couple comments in addition to what Jessica mentioned in case it helps any new moms.
-Babylist sells a bottle and pacifier sample pack. I highly recommend getting those first before investing in any one brand.
-Baby mittens and socks are so cute but useless. Ones she recommended are the way to go!
-Depending on the season baby is born (mine is a winter one) too many onesies aren’t really a necessity. I only bought 3 and ended up receiving a ton of them as a gift. I barely use them in order to avoid overheating the baby.
-Newborn and 0-3 outfits (not one piece footies) I really didn’t need more than one or two. I thought I would have the energy to play dress up every day or be able to change her in and out of them as she napped. It was a cute but naive thought as a first time mom 🥲
-Magnetic Me sleepers: My baby ends up naked under her swaddle every time I put one on. If you’re really wanting one, I would suggest maybe investing in only one to see how it works for your LO first (Nordstrom rack has them on sale often)
-Mamaroo: if you’re hoping to get your baby to nap (supervised) in this, I would think twice and maybe look into other options. I bought it out of desperation because my baby does not nap - period - While it entertains her and she likes it, it didn’t work for us for that purpose. I know, I know every baby is different but I don’t think any one motion is soothing enough for them to doze off.
-Don’t invest in one swaddle type. Get one of each to see what your baby responds to. We found out the hard way 🥲
Lastly and most importantly, enjoy your baby! While most of these are nice to have, they really truly don’t need much ❤️
I received the bottle sampler and pacifier sampler too! I didn’t want to buy multiples of one brand either
Totally agree with getting different swaddles! My daughter didn't really like the velcro ones, so I ended up buying one of the swaddle up ones and she slept amazing in those!
@@tpjyo Same with us!
Thank you so much for recommending the multi pack. We’re gonna invest in that before anything else!!
For basically all the reasons you listed, I'm buying most of my stuff from consignment stores or just second hand in general. The only thing I know I'm buying new is the carseat. I know both my husband's family and my family are going to get all kinds of clothes and knick knacks, so I didn't put a lot of clothes or toys on my registry. It has been saving an insane amount of money. I figured even if I ended up not using an outfit or an item a lot, at least I got it for cheap and just give them away to a momma that needs it down the road.
Wayyyyy past having babies (mine are 11, 8.5, and 7) but I will always watch your videos start to finish! You are the light of my lonngggg day after teaching kindergartners!
Just found out we're expecting our first after trying for 4 years, these videos help so much, thank you!
The boppy is great for anyone holding the baby ! Even for a formula feeding mama I would get the boppy as a gift for anyone expecting
Currently 19 weeks with baby #3!
I have 2 boys, Logan just turned 3 and is autistic and Weston is 22 months so my mama heart is secretly hoping for a baby girl...
Daddy is currently in rehab as he struggles with alcoholism etc... so its been quite hard feeling and living like a single mama... looking forward to his return and to find out baby #3's gender!!!
Congratulations to all of you mamas out there expecting or who have recently had a baby! Motherhood is so magical and rewarding!!!
Thank you for this wonderfully timed video Jess! Would watch regardless of if I was pregnant/ a mama or not!
Congrats on the newborn! They have a truly lovely mommy who cares for them, and I wish all the best for the dad who is working hard in his own way for his family and himself ❤ Yes, motherhood is a true gift and a complete challenge! All the best and a safe delivery of you and your husband's third (hopefully a 👧🏻!) child
@@SteppingStonevlogs Thank you soooo much for your beautiful reply Lauren!! If you happen to pray we could definitely use some prayers our way for daddy and strength in our relationship/family!
Thank you again for recognizing strength... as mamas we need to hear that from time to time!!! Means more than you can ever imagine!
Praying for your family 🙏
For me the $20 wipe warmer was the best thing ever even though I only used it for a few months. I wish I would have bought it sooner. It made the night changes a lot easier. She definitely needed the wipes warmer for both of our sanity during bedtime.
I find your rambling quite comforting lol. Makes you easy to relate to. I'm just 2 months pregnant so I'm here for it all. Best to you, mama!
I’ve never watched your videos before but I utterly enjoyed this one. Not only was your video very thorough and informative but you’re absolutely adorable and charismatic and it was a joy watching.
I’m 27 weeks pregnant as of today and I’m going to be a first time mom so the whole process has been quite overwhelming to me. So many choices and things to do and so little time. Thankfully I’m able to find gems on UA-cam like this video to assuage my baby prep anxiety.
Thank you much!
Love this!! We are still in the first trimester but are so excited and planning! This was the most helpful video on this topic that I’ve seen!
I absolutely LOVE supporting your channel Jess! ❤️ No matter what you post I'll be watching Girl! 🥰
A video on the best books to read. From early on to new born, (getting pregnant, being pregnant, postpartum, new born, etc.). Really love all the book recommendations you and Tyler have.
I think you did a great job on this video and loved how honest you are about what did and didn’t work and how much money can be spent in first babies based on brand names and what everyone else says works! I have 3 children and my first and second are 7 years apart so I ended up buying brand new all over again, but was able to use almost everything over again for the second to third child due to only being 2 years apart! It is so hard to determine how much stuff when it’s ur first cuz of course y want to try everything as well…… another great thing is when u and ur siblings are having babies around same time within a few years you can swap out on the newborn things like swings, bassinets, etc….. my sister and I did this and we only bought 1 swing, 1 bassinet, etc.. between 4 children!!
11 weeks 6 days pregnant over here!! Thank you for this content. ❤️💕
Congratulations on the 2nd baby on the way I pray you have a safe delivery.
I loved the Halo Bassinest. I swiveled it close to me many times. Made life just a bit easier at night. Used it for less than a year, but it had good resale value. Im currently pregnant again and definitely re-buying it for this baby.
I love all of this information and also the way you present it you’re just so cheerful and it makes me happy too!
I’m pregnant for the first time and 20 weeks now. I have HG so I’m still sick and I’m getting soooo overwhelmed with just everything to research and buy. This video was SOOOO helpful and you explained things well!!! Thank you so much.
I totally agree that no matter how many good reviews or how expensive an item can be, does absolutely not guarantee us that our baby will like it😭 I went all out buying the best quality and expensive items for my baby; I am so devastated to inform that she didn't like any of it. So some items totally have to wait to be purchased until our babies show us what they like♥️
27 seconds in and my thought process “I like her” 😭😭💗💗💗
I'm 36 weeks with my first. This has been very helpful to have someone talking about current products and what works and what doesn't. I have people giving me advice based off of products in the 80's lol (my baby's grandparents). Thank you for sharing!
Mine definitely only wore about 2 outfits in the first 3 months, she lived in sleepsuits! My theory is that when I’m just chilling at home, I want to be doing it in my onesie, not a fancy outfit 💖
I’m team Snoo for sure! It didn’t exist with baby #1 but we rented it for baby #2 and it was such a life-changer. He transitioned just fine out of it too. I’m currently a month or so behind you with baby #3 and we are going to rent it again for sure!
Jessica I am a long time subscriber and about to be a Grammy in June. Thanks for so many great suggestions. Breast feeding is legitimately one of the hardest things. My first month was hell. I had mastitis, bleeding nipples, hell. But then it became easy and so rewarding. I hope you have a good support person. My husband ended up being my best support. As a dairy farmer he encouraged me to eat well and drink tons of water. Ive never eaten more than when I was breast feeding and lost every pound of baby weight within six months. He encouraged me to sleep and relax as much as possible. He was so chill it helped me stop worrying. Whatever you decide I hope it goes easier. Maybe meet with a lactation consultant. I'm so excited for you.
I had a bottle warmer with my first and it was a hard when we would be out. With my second I breastfed and bottlefed.I would just use room temp purified water with her formula because I didn't want her to get used to a warm bottle. Luckily it worked and it was never an issue. Worth a try. It's amazing how much us mamas learn the first time around.
I bottle fed and so I never warmed bottles from the beginning. Even the ones they give u in the hospital weren’t warmed so never had an issue. I just kept water in counter or since I used powder formula, I would pre make bottles with just the water so they would be ready to go! Plus if u have water system in ur fridge, pre filling bottles makes it to where water isn’t cold!
I just used room temp water for formula as well, more out of speed because warming bottles is so tedious. This time I should be able to breastfeed fine and if I pump I'm going to need to heat it since it won't be room temp.
The uppababy will not disappoint! My son is almost 3.5 and our Cruz has never had a single problem, is super quick to fold down, and has been amazing. We still use it OFTEN-the $ is worth it in the end!
We have also loved our UPPAbaby so far!
I'm a mom of 3. Ive had almost all of the things listed here. I have used them all and made my mothering experience less stressful. Ive had all my babies on c section. After my last born. I couldn't get out of bed or carry the baby for a long time. I think baby things are essential. It depends on the preference of the mother and no one deserves to bash what works for the other mother. The first few weeks after birth are very stressful. Above all, a happy mom means a happy baby.
i'm due in July with my first and was so nervous to watch this video because I have most of the things here too. Reading your comment made me feel much better!
@@allisonracimo5477 wishing you a safe birth experience and a healthy baby. 😍
Please please please make an updated list now that Felicity is here! I swear by your recommendations and I'm dying to know the pros and cons of what some people consider "must have items" and whether you think that's an accurate label for things like the Snoo and the Doona and the mamaroo etc. Dying for the newborn and post-partum must have list!
The swivel on the Halo Bassinest saved my butt as a triplet mama! Really helps with getting three in a small space.
I only had 1 baby and it made night feeds and diaper changes so much easier. Im getting it again for my new baby.
Definitely not thinking about babies anytime soon but Jessica you are just so entertaining and fun to watch! This videos feels like we are on FaceTime together I love it!
IDK why but when you said “drip drop” it reminded me of the Surface Tension lyrics:
“It's pressure like a drip, drip, drip, that'll never stop, whoa!” 🤣
These are all such great product recommendations but I didn’t realize how $$$ everything is now! My kid is 19 & the most expensive thing he had was a stroller-car seat system that we barely used. I used my umbrella stroller with a neck pillow ALL THE TIME because it was so compact & light.
Thank you so much for taking the time to share all these tips. There are so many things in the market that I have no idea how useful or necessary it’s gonna be but I want to be sure I am buying the best stuff and your video makes a lot of sense. Thanks again
Excellent video!! I appreciate the candid moments, hearing about your honest feedback, and you are very engaging on camera. Keep it up! 👏🏼👏🏼
I love this video! I am currently pregnant with my 2nd and I agree with so much you mentioned. Let's do this! ❤
Literally the only time my bassinest was swivelled was when my toddler would bust in and give the poor baby a swing. Baby’s first amusement park ride.
I upgraded to the vista on baby two too - we are on the same wavelength 😉
It’s so fun to watch the process of you guys preparing for baby, you had Gigi shortly after I had my first, and now you’re having baby girl shortly after I’ve had my second. Completely agree about the Halo Bassinest, and the baby clothes, and the zip onesies. My little girl is 8 months old and LIVES in zippered onesies, I think I’ve bought maybe three actual outfits for her 😂! Thanks for sharing, as always, and best of luck as you guys transition to a family of four! 🥰
as a first time mom-to-be, THANK YOU! This video was so real and helpful
This is SO helpful thank you, Jess!! Every time I watch one of your pregnancy/baby videos I feel more confident about welcoming my first baby this summer! Some of these are definitely getting added to my registry 👍
OMG I need this in my life! Pregnant with my first baby so this will be REALLY helpful - thanks Jess! Hope you are feeling well!
Congratulations mama!!! 💗🤰🏼🎉 there's nothing like your very first pregnancy/baby.. the most special and memorable experience in your entire life!!! How far along are you/ when are you due??!
I'm 19 weeks with baby#3!!
Me too! 18 weeks with my first! I clicked SO fast 😂
As far as pumps I had issues with supply and I really loved the willow pumps. They made my life SO MUCH EASIER!
First Mum video I watch where I feel some connection to the Mum personality! Thank you for all the tips!
A double stroller is awesome my oldest sat in ours until she was 6. My two youngest still use it. We got the Evenflo Pivot Xplore, it’s a all terrain wagon stroller.
My daughter had a supply problem also. Here is the Lactation Cookie recipe she found that I made for her since it helped!
Lactation Cookies
Yield: 34 cookies
2 Tbsp Flaxseed meal
1/4 cup water
2 cups Whole Wheat Flour
1/4 cup Brewer’s Yeast ( for milk production)
1 tsp Salt
1 tsp Baking Soda
9 Fenugreek capsules (empty capsules & discard)
1/2 cup Butter, softened
1/2 cup Coconut oil, softened
3/4 cup Sugar
3/4 cup Brown sugar
2 Large Eggs
1 tsp Vanilla Extract
3 cups Large Oats
1 cup Semi-Sweet Chocolate Chips
Preheat oven to 375 F
Mix Flaxseed meal and water; set aside.
Stir together the flour, brewers yeast, salt, baking soda and Fenugreek, set aside.
Blend butter, coconut oil and both sugars well. Blend in eggs. Stir in flaxseed mixture and vanilla, mix well.
Add dry mixture, mix until just combined. Stir in oats and chocolate chips.
Scoop 2 Tbsp of dough, and place 1 to 2 inches apart on a silicone or parchment paper lined baking sheet.
Bake for 9 to 10 minutes,until the dough is matte on top.
Once cooled, individually wrap cookies in plastic wrap and place them in a container in the freezer.
Eat two cookies the first day and one cookie each day afterwards.
Just unwrap and nuke it in the microwave for 30 seconds, Enjoy!
P.S. we did not use that last bit of the recipe, I just placed the cookies in a container that my daughter keep in the fridge. No waste of all that plastic wrap and no nuking. 😉
I followed you initially because I was pregnant with my first (she’s now 3) and needed ideas of what to buy and pack in my hospital bag! And now I’m pregnant with my second one too!
I’m only ten minutes into this and it is already the most helpful video of this kind I have seen. Thank you!!
I’m 12 weeks pregnant and every pregnancy/baby video you post, I feel like you’re my best friend telling me all the stuff I need to know! Im the first of my friends to be pregnant so im like “wth I need to do?” Ahahahha and you’ve been big help!
The lady I took care of (in home care) bought me like 10 different one packs of bottles and then asked one I liked best she bought me more of those. She was 93... same with blankets and pacifiers. Lol she knew that even at 93 years old. Interesting fact she was the there when my water broke lol and she was like omg you need to go to the hospital 😂 I had no idea what was happening.
Awww, she sounds like such a wonderful woman. You were so blessed to have her.
@@ForeverGodsGirl03 She was amazing! I was blessed to have her in my life.❤ plus she told me about clinque drastically different lotion... still one of my favorites all these years later lol
@@hannahkayee831 wow, I wish I was blessed enough to have known her or someone like her. I'm gonna have to look into that product she recommended you. Were there any other products she recommended to you?
@@ForeverGodsGirl03 mostly clinque stuff lol. & there was an Avon lipstick but now they are soooo scented like rose perfume, it's nauseating. She had this one body lotion I'll look at the brand tomorrow but it was from a spa and super expensive so I won't recommend. Lol it smells good but not for that price.
I hope you meet someone like her such a genuine wholesome pure soul. My favorite thing to this day is still a quilt she made me., and my daughter a matching one. She was really religious (she passed that's why I'm saying was) and I was pregnant by someone I was no longer married to and she never said a rude thing to me. We were different in many ways but we had a great bond. ❤
31 weeks now with baby #3. We gave away all our stuff after baby #2 thinking we were done so I needed a refresher on what I really used/need. Thanks for the video!
Amazing video, and great timing since it’s a total baby boom right now! Best of luck in your final stretch ♥️♥️♥️
My baby is about to be 5 months! I’m a first time mom and have learned a lot, so far I think simple is better. People wanted to get us a wipe warmer and bottle warmer but I didn’t want either and we’ve been just fine without it. Love zipper sleepers, hate buttons lol. And I’ve found out the same thing about cute outfits, now we mainly buy comfy onesies bc it’s more realistic. Also, I know everyone says it but ENJOY THE NEWBORN TIME!! THEY GROW SO FAST! 😭💕 I wish I could hold my tiny baby again but he’s a big boy and wears clothes 2x his age now
I love your baby / pregnancy videos! I’m 38 weeks and about to have my first baby very soon! Love hearing your ideas!
We loved the tommee tippee perfect prep machine for bottles - so useful for middle of the night feeds
Love this video !! You were so helpful love your energy Also , your family are blessed to have you 💕
I'm only 1 month into motherhood, but the zippered "Joey" gowns from MK&Co are an absolute game-changer for nighttime diaper changes. Not only do you have the ease of a zipper, but you don't have to fight to get squirmy baby legs into individual leg holes. And they're SO soft!
The Halo bassinets was incredibly useful for me after a c section! It’s harder to get out of bed and also pick up the baby so the swivel on it was so convenient.
I bet
It’s the best, remember she didn’t use it not because it was not working or it was bad but because she didn’t need a lot of the features meaning it’s a great basinet. 100%
This is a great video. So many of those product reviews are nothing more than ads. This is super informative and useful - thank you!!
I’ve followed your channel for years for makeup videos but had to go back to these videos now that I’m expecting my first ❤
This was super helpful!! Thank you for all the information.
Babylist has a bottle box that comes with 5 different bottles to try out. Definitely worth checking out!
Old Navy sleepers are the best, they zip from the BOTTOM.... genius!!
Currently 35 weeks pregnant with my first! Thank you for making this video!!
I watched these when you posted and now rewatching at 6 weeks pregnant with my first ❤ thanks internet big sis
I am going on 55 in March and lost 3 babies. I helped my sister with her 2 kids and I am watching because 1...this is Jessica. 2...this is fascinating. So happy for you guys. Genevieve (my Aunts name was the same) will be a loving big sister. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss
We literally put our wipes by the heat vent lol. We bought a really nice packnplay to use for the baby to sleep in our room. It works sooo well at night for changing too bc it has the little changing spot at the one side on top And a canopy that comes over half the top so if you want to keep the lights on before you go to bed it doesn’t bother the baby!!!! Then once baby moves into an actual bed you can still use it to travel with bc it packs up easily!!!!!
Which one did you go with? We are thinking of doing this!
Omg a big big thanks for you! I'm pregnant with a twins so I'm asking myself what to bring and what do i really need and your video is just here for that! Thanks 🙏
Oh my god!!! Soooooo helpful! You have an amazing perspective. Thanks for walking through each thing thoroughly.