Saving a Relationship After a Rejected Proposal

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  • Опубліковано 21 бер 2021
  • A meme floating around social media has everyone talking, so of course we had to weigh in on the topic! If a woman rejects a man’s proposal, is there a chance of saving the relationship?
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  • @TheRealDaytime
    @TheRealDaytime  3 роки тому +17

    If a woman rejects a man’s proposal, is there a chance of saving the relationship?

    • @alexisjackson8587
      @alexisjackson8587 3 роки тому +1

      I have been proposed to by a guy but I turned him down because I knew that he still had feels for his baby mom

    • @theuglybeing4673
      @theuglybeing4673 3 роки тому +1

      Yes they need to stop rushing it

    • @annatar6453
      @annatar6453 3 роки тому +4

      I’m a man. If I propose to my gf and she rejects it, it’s over

    • @josephlovely7759
      @josephlovely7759 3 роки тому +1

      I miss this deepness😊. Now the ladies are too mature, in love and happy in their relationships. They need to recall more from where they used to make mistakes or struggle and then give their advices.

    • @jneezypv
      @jneezypv 3 роки тому +1

      According to my wedding band, No. The relationship can be salvaged.

  • @tessa4181
    @tessa4181 3 роки тому +102

    Marriage should be a topic of discussion before the proposal...if you spring it up on her and she says no, don’t be mad

  • @sweetola2170
    @sweetola2170 3 роки тому +86

    I think a guy should actually speak to the woman about marriage to know where her head is at before the proposal.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +5

      Exactly!

    • @princessvictorUK
      @princessvictorUK 3 роки тому +9

      I think so too. My Husband had already asked me if i wanted to marry him long before he actually proposed.

    • @MrAllysonn
      @MrAllysonn 3 роки тому +3

      Of course!!!!

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +46

    That man in the audience came dressed to impress!

  • @Mel__21
    @Mel__21 3 роки тому +25

    It’s interesting looking back at this now. This plus Jeannie’s other conversation when she said “I Knew after the first year it wouldn’t work.” That’s probably what Jeannie means about the first few years being hard. Regrets + trying to work through it. I remember this sort of was like a red flag to me. She was living in denial the whole time.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +22

    Honestly, most rejected proposals happen out of the blue. Do not propose to someone if you two have not had a serious conversation (or several) about marriage!!! You cannot simply assume you are on the same page.

  • @jneezypv
    @jneezypv 3 роки тому +38

    Some men propose just to keep her around. He doesnt really want to get married.

    • @beetle-juice
      @beetle-juice 3 роки тому +4

      Yup. My cousin was with this guy for 9 YEARS!!! He finally propose...well more like slip the ring on her finger while she was asleep. A surprise, but pretty lazy. He still didn't change after that. She finally have the courage to leave him. In less than 2 years after that, she got marry to a good man. They only been together for a year and quickly got married. Still happily married with a kid today.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +27

    Adrienne, thank you for your honesty.

  • @miranda13c
    @miranda13c 2 роки тому +16

    I’m so glad that Jeannie knows what REAL love is now. Looking back at her mentioning Freddie, it was clear that she didn’t have that PASSIONATE and real love like she has now with Jeezy and now she is pregnant with their child and being in love with Jeezy is what started to change her opinion on being a mother. It seems like she just could not see herself having a child with Freddie and based on his immature and gross behavior (not to mention his beliefs), I don’t blame Jeannie for leaving him and thank god she did.

  • @lalasland5174
    @lalasland5174 3 роки тому +27

    Marriage has to be a conversation that you have in a long term relationship, if not than obviously that relationship isn't going places 🙄

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +16

    There have been SO many situations where people dated for YEARS then broke up soon after getting engaged or married. I always wonder what happened.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +1

      ​@bihbhkjbnlk It is always heartbreaking because they seem so happy then boom, the relationship is over. :(

  • @robynbeckles
    @robynbeckles 3 роки тому +14

    A proposal shouldn't happen unless the couple has talked about and agreed to get married. It doesn't ruin the surprise of the proposal to talk about the future of the relationship beforehand.
    Edit: engagement is not the time to determine if you want to be together. You don't get engaged unless you know that you want to be together. If something happens after you're engaged that ends the relationship then that's different. But you shouldn't be figuring out if you want to be with one another after you've accepted a proposal. What is the point in doing that?

  • @keziahbrutus
    @keziahbrutus 3 роки тому +17

    This is an amazing conversation👏🏽👏🏽

  • @keziahbrutus
    @keziahbrutus 3 роки тому +27

    Can't wait to attend one of these shows🥺

  • @theuglybeing4673
    @theuglybeing4673 3 роки тому +11

    I kinda would be pissed if I proposed and they said no. But then again you shouldn't rush it and wait till they are ready... Nothing personal!

  • @migi5917
    @migi5917 3 роки тому +13

    oooh i’m early lol... but i feel if they want to fix a relationship that it’s rocky with a ring that’s a big NO

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +24

    If someone proposes too soon then the couple has a conversation about it, they can make it work.

    • @vodoumyers
      @vodoumyers 3 роки тому

      But if I'm with someone for more than 3 years & they say no..... I'm out.

    • @zohayazdani00
      @zohayazdani00 3 роки тому +1

      Nope it's a wrap. You know a few months in if you wana marry someone. no points dragging things out too long and hurting yourself and the other person.

    • @gaila.9852
      @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +2

      @@zohayazdani00 I disagree.

  • @srlynsaldin388
    @srlynsaldin388 Рік тому +1

    Facts I look forward to coming and looking at this and asking myself the ultimate question do I pick to cry now or later is it the right time or person is this who I am and what I want??????!!!!!

  • @McMahonHater
    @McMahonHater 3 роки тому +3

    You don't. If you're ready and the other isn't then it's time to move on.

  • @gaila.9852
    @gaila.9852 3 роки тому +3

    The Real, we want to know the original air date.

  • @juanalverez7409
    @juanalverez7409 2 роки тому +1

    You don’t have to lose weight your perfect just the way you are

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 3 роки тому +3

    Black book🤣😂 player card🤧

  • @XPXhumble
    @XPXhumble 3 роки тому +2

    F that if she say no I’m out

  • @emmaf.7023
    @emmaf.7023 3 роки тому

    If you feel like you are going to marry this man but you aren’t ready then why not a long engagement instead of saying not ask me again later? I’m sure there’s a reason why but I’m not sure 🤔

  • @MrsReggieRegg
    @MrsReggieRegg 2 роки тому

    If you're proposed to and you're not ready but you want to marry that person there's nothing wrong with saying yes cuz that's what's being engaged is for

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 роки тому

    She just wanted a ring he didnt wanna marry her

  • @josephlenehan4461
    @josephlenehan4461 3 роки тому

    Joseph and Tuesday TV 😀

  • @quailbanks4483
    @quailbanks4483 3 роки тому

    I don't ever wanna get married too many women for me to choose from 😂

  • @henrybrown9711
    @henrybrown9711 3 роки тому

    Yeah I would say its over. If the argument that women mature faster and already planned out the future with the man is true, then her rejecting my proposal; I'm out.

  • @zohayazdani00
    @zohayazdani00 3 роки тому

    Don't fool yourself. If you hear a no It's a wrap!

  • @wirelesscaller5978
    @wirelesscaller5978 Рік тому

    No!!!?up to a dicipn make

  • @catherinejohnson9555
    @catherinejohnson9555 3 роки тому +1

    Loni's make-up needs some serious adjustments! She's such a Naturally Gorgeous Woman, born having her own, Naturally Radiant, Bright, Vibrant, Rich, and Beautifully crafted skin. Made by God himself!!
    ** -- So, WHY IS HER FACE COVERED IN THICK LAYERS OF MAKE-UP?? ESPECIALLY UNDER the EYE AREA &/or the AREA FOR HIGHLIGHTER to be applied....!!! The person doing the make-up clearly didn't know what she was doing. That was like basic highlighting 101. From school!!!
    She has No make-up skills for any skin color but, light as can be possibly be achieved!!
    Let's be "REAL" here! ..... I hope I'm in a place where I can be. But.......
    Is it ok to talk about the fact that way way way too too too many people can get backed as credible, or better as Good, (or even great.. wtf on that?..) Make-up Artist, that Can NOT PROFESSIONALLY (&/or haven't been taught, trained, certified, and etc... at all as is actually ****REQUIRED**** in most states), APPLY ANY MAKE UP OTHER THAN WHITE!!!!!!!!!!
    TONS OF HAIR STYLISTS are Unfortunately the SAME!!!
    *****IT MAKES ME SO MAD!!!!!*****
    Having been a former MUA and licensed Cosmetologist myself, with Dreams of EQUALITY and how I thought it may not be much. But, if I could at least help educate others rather than shame them! I'm sure a percentage, of way too many!!! (Even .000000001% is Still, way too many!!)!!!! That may just not have ever been taught differently &/or don't know any better till something like this comes along and ruins a career!...
    I wish you all the luck and love in Jesus, because your going to need it!!!!

  • @annettenevarez306
    @annettenevarez306 3 роки тому

    I So Love Adrian. But...for ONCE I DISAGREE WITH HER🙆

  • @stacyranch7878
    @stacyranch7878 3 роки тому

    Dam I'm about to be 30

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому

    Keep that same energy when men investing as well

  • @theagencynyc1182
    @theagencynyc1182 3 роки тому +1

    It is really difficult to visualize a real man asking any of these left over women for their hand in marriage. Unless the simp is trying to marry up (financially)

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 роки тому +1

    Everybody dont want to be marry

  • @juanalverez7409
    @juanalverez7409 2 роки тому

    Selena will you get to know me plz

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому

    Ok so bump his feelings but we have to respect her girl bye

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому

    Ok why is it ok for her not to be ready but when it's him it's a problem

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому

    Loni sit down men are not the only one that's cocky

  • @trendalecharon7021
    @trendalecharon7021 2 роки тому

    Don't sit over her whine and cry about a ring and then when he ask say no.

  • @malaikapaul6315
    @malaikapaul6315 3 роки тому +7

    Sorry Tamera you only know someone until you start living at the same place.

  • @madkabal
    @madkabal 3 роки тому +2

    Gentlemen if you propose, and she says no it's over you wanted to take it to the next level she does not. If she tries to keep you around it's because she sees you as a disposable human being that she can use for a while. Do not be a pathetic simp and let this happen to you if you propose and she says no, just walk.

  • @doneecemcneil7826
    @doneecemcneil7826 Рік тому +1

    Hi edagdwg talking it over is real I love you but let's wait a while if you are really in love both of you it will happen god at work Linda j .peace

  • @marcellacollins4697
    @marcellacollins4697 2 роки тому

    He cheated on her

  • @missylee6149
    @missylee6149 3 роки тому +1

    I don’t like Jeanie hair short

  • @dennishawaii5267
    @dennishawaii5267 3 роки тому +4

    Actually I Don't Care what jeannie has to say

  • @troybradley2575
    @troybradley2575 3 роки тому +4

    4 Hypocrites

    • @cynthiar7470
      @cynthiar7470 3 роки тому +20

      Why are the haters the first to comment??? Your haters really are your biggest fans 😂😂😂

    • @troybradley2575
      @troybradley2575 3 роки тому +3

      @@cynthiar7470 👀 you don’t even know what I’m talking about, you just decided to open your soup coolers and assume I’m a hater! Next time instead of assuming just asked for context! Because you actually look like an idiot!

    • @ibraheemmusah766
      @ibraheemmusah766 3 роки тому +8

      @@troybradley2575 you look more of an idiot by your senseless comment.HATER

    • @troybradley2575
      @troybradley2575 3 роки тому

      @@ibraheemmusah766 another ass

    • @djosephine
      @djosephine 3 роки тому +4

      Why are the hypocrites I’m curious ?
      And I agree the “hater” comment was way unnecessary