Dating in Japan: Red Flags you should avoid!!🚩❌girl chat with

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  • Опубліковано 16 лис 2024

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  • @flazay_da
    @flazay_da 2 роки тому +96

    Yes I am LOVING all the Black Japan youtubers collabs happening lately, I'm finding so many new people to follow! I found your channel through Sundai and have been binging your storytimes. They're all hilarious. If fans of one can spread the love around everybody Black will beat this algorithm

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +9

      Yessss to this comment! I try my best! Happy I can introduce you to yet another lovely black content creator 💖✨

    • @dasjdajd
      @dasjdajd 2 роки тому +1

      Same here! Found this channel through Sundai and loving it!

  • @neonecko1876
    @neonecko1876 2 роки тому +26

    Ilah was so on point when she talked about morals, values and religion or respect for your religious beliefs because if that's not aligned then a real relationship is impossible. That's a definite deal breaker for me and I love that she brought up looking at a guy's friends, who you associate yourself with says a lot about who you are. Great video, Corny! I've been missing your uploads, I need to catch up 😁♥️

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      Yessss she killed it, spot on with her thoughts. Glad we got to chat 💖

  • @NirindraAzou
    @NirindraAzou 2 роки тому +11

    Loving thee collaborations as well Corny 🥰 Nice to see these different black women living, working, dating and thriving in Japan 👯🏾‍♀️👯🏿‍♀️👯🏽‍♀️ I can remember a few years ago when there wasn't many black female youtubers living and vlogging in Japan. It’s nice to see more of us living abroad and being brave 🤧
    And congrats Corny, your community is growing 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

  • @twinningintokyo5487
    @twinningintokyo5487 2 роки тому +14

    Oh my days as a Black Brit 🇬🇧 in Japan 🇯🇵 married to a Japanese man I'm loving this. Girls don't lose hope and you ladies are stunningly gorgeous wow!! Let's be friends Tokyo crew 🥰😘!! 💕

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      Hahah heyyyyy 🇬🇧 yes! 😆💖let’s!

  • @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan
    @AsagisLifeNoBSJapan 2 роки тому +11

    While I enjoyed your conversation, I couldn't help appreciating how pretty and graceful you two are 🥺❤️

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      Ahhhhh thank you babe! just the person I need to talk to💖💖💖DM’s

  • @Lifeisnow1234
    @Lifeisnow1234 2 роки тому +6

    GIRL THE INTUITION THING - every time I don’t listen, it has ALWAYS gone down hill 😩 thank you for sharing your thoughts ladies, you two are GORGEOUS!!

  • @daytonchris8351
    @daytonchris8351 2 роки тому +7

    yeah if people talk about others behind their backs then they're probably talking behind yours too.
    and the watching how people treat others things is true, but sometimes you gotta look out for when people act a certain way in public, to keep up the appearances of looking like a nice person.

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +2

      Ahhh that’s true! Gotta watch real closely .. Too many fakes and manipulators! 👀 🥷 thanks for stopping by 💕😆

  • @Yllah
    @Yllah 2 роки тому +9

    This was so much fun 😂❤❤ love the vibes ! Thanks for having me

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +2

      Of course hun! Anytime! Was a blast! 💖

    • @cyanrose499
      @cyanrose499 2 роки тому +1

      Ahhh!! Yllah!! I'm so happy to see you on here too! Please have more collaborations together, you guys are literally my favourite black youtubers in Japan🤗 What I'd give for a travel vlog with the two of you😭

    • @Yllah
      @Yllah 2 роки тому +1

      @@cyanrose499 ❤️❤️❤️ we’re planning to !

  • @robertstanley5051
    @robertstanley5051 2 роки тому +2

    Soooo right and sooo much laughter. My favourite topic is the conversation which happens when you meet over a Tinder, all works out well then switch to WhatsApp or another to carry on the bright connection....then.... then..l the game starts about who deletes their Tinder profile first or if the mystery goes deeper when one Unmates....Relationship problems 3.0 in 2022

  • @Nastrodamous89
    @Nastrodamous89 2 роки тому +3

    This collab was so entertaining to watch. Can’t wait to see more of you girls in the future!

  • @cyanrose499
    @cyanrose499 2 роки тому +1

    Thank you so much for bringing Yllah on the channel!🤗 I absolutely love both of your channels and these were great tips🌟

  • @nicolewimbley8653
    @nicolewimbley8653 2 роки тому +3

    Hey! Melanin popping! Love the bubblegum pink! And she was working those puffs!
    🚩🚩🚩🚩How he talks to his mother and the other women in his life. Mom can’t be under his shoes or up on a pedestal either! That same 2min so and so treated his mom like she hung the stars(nice at first) but his sister like a pariah! I should have bounced when the action was fizzled at best! But his daughter’s mom was treated like a burden who should have been greatful for his seed! When his mom thought she could yell at me and he was cool with it I was done! I signed my own walking papers!😂

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +2

      Oooh thanks you! 💖and Excuse me miss! Where was this when I asked in the community tab to share your horror life stories and experiences? Get your butt to that tab! 😂😘I need more info! The way he treats his mom is a huge one 😆 I agree.. balance is key! 👏🏽✨thanks for adding to the conversation

  • @phillygyal5143
    @phillygyal5143 2 роки тому +7

    Hi Corny! Once again, you have another great video! You asked for a red flag 🚩, so here is one for you! Gaslighting! Every narcissist loves to do this. If you know someone who does it, distance yourself from them.

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +2

      Oh gosh! Yesss! Gaslighting! Almost scared me last year! Absolutely trash humans do this. This is a good one to mention ! 🚩thanks for coming through and sharing 😘

  • @jacquelines3685
    @jacquelines3685 Рік тому

    Loved this! New SUBBIE!
    I also love your friend Sundai Love❤️❤️❤️

  • @onigiri460
    @onigiri460 2 роки тому +1

    I have my finals 2moro and I'm relaxing before I sleep. I clicked ur video asap when I opened the UA-cam. Thanks for another video!!

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      Oh wow! You are watching me before sleep! 🥹😘 good luck with your finals tomorrow! Come back and let me know how it went xx ! 🍀🌈

  • @lizzie7929
    @lizzie7929 2 роки тому

    Thank you, although it's not fun, it's good to know these red flags, appreciate the video!

  • @bennygati324
    @bennygati324 2 роки тому

    AS ALWAYS I ENJOY WATCHING UR VLOGS. QUITE INTERESTING.

  • @lizzie7929
    @lizzie7929 2 роки тому +8

    Another red flag is, well it can apply to all relationships and friendships , not just dating. The person that emotional dumps their stuff onto others! Not just the one off, as you want to show support! Constantly! Very mentally draining! Stay away from others that do that!💗

  • @Sweetie321
    @Sweetie321 2 роки тому +1

    AHHH my two favourite youtubers together!! Love your videos and you're both so funny! 😁😁

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      Awww I always love to hear this! 💖 so glad we came through for you ✨👏🏽💖

  • @bareh3art53
    @bareh3art53 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this. This answers my questions that I asked on Instagram. THISSSS IS WHAT I LOVE!!!!!

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      Awwww this is you!!! 😆 hahaha I have more to answer but that won’t be coming until later 😆💕 glad you are pleased! 🔥✨

  • @userygfd
    @userygfd Рік тому

    lol, me being an actual Caribbean person i was like " what the hell did we do!?!?!? "

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  Рік тому

      Lmaoo it’s all love, I only selected Caribbean’s as an example because of my heritage so it’s less offensive 💕😅🇯🇲

  • @podfine
    @podfine 2 роки тому +1

    Great chat that black girl magic! 😃♥

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      Thank you! We try 🖤

  • @lejaponennoiretblanc
    @lejaponennoiretblanc 2 роки тому +2

    I’m still waiting for you to post our video 😂😂😈😈😈

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      Lol I couldn’t believe when the same thing happened again!!! 😭 and it was around the same time too 😅maybe I’m cursed? we’ll redo eventually 🤦🏽‍♀️💕

  • @bigc4991
    @bigc4991 2 роки тому

    Hey how are you doing thank you for all the information I really thinking about moving to Japan the only thing I was wondering about was dating

  • @bunbunBia
    @bunbunBia 2 роки тому

    Such good advice!❤

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      I think so too! 💖👏🏽

  • @sharonluquis5823
    @sharonluquis5823 2 роки тому +2

    Black beauty got dem on de run…Big up ya selves young queens…🔥🖤🔥🖤🔥

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      Ooooh I feel hyped! Thanks love 😘🖤

  • @howsoul7034
    @howsoul7034 2 роки тому +6

    LMFAO, she's hilarious! This red flag is getting bigger than China. It's the Chinese flag! lmaoooo

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому

      She’s a good time💕 ✨

  • @NayvieNoir
    @NayvieNoir 2 роки тому

    This video feels like my older sisters are sitting me down to warn me about men

  • @kelxone
    @kelxone 2 роки тому +2

    Two beautiful woman 🌹

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +1

      😘😘😘😘

    • @kelxone
      @kelxone 2 роки тому

      @@Cornyco 🌹❤️

  • @ms863
    @ms863 2 роки тому

    Breezy eloquent look
    works

  • @airgaborpara3824
    @airgaborpara3824 2 роки тому

    Guys from Uganda or Congo can please you not the japanese tiny gadget guys! :D

  • @ElegantPaws01
    @ElegantPaws01 2 роки тому +3

    It is a conservative culture. Different aesthetics.

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +12

      Absolutely, just a couple of black girls sharing our experiences and opinions 💖✨ thanks for watching!

    • @ElegantPaws01
      @ElegantPaws01 2 роки тому +1

      @@Cornyco I thoroughly love your channel.

    • @Cornyco
      @Cornyco  2 роки тому +2

      @@ElegantPaws01 thankyou sweet pea! appreciate the love n support 😆 trulyyy 👏🏽 you guys are so sweet