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These 5 Common Mistakes DISQUALIFY Preachers from Ministry

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  • Опубліковано 6 сер 2024
  • We MUST watch out for these sorts of preachers… In this video, Allen Parr discusses 5 common mistakes that DISQUALIFY preachers from serving in the Church, ranging from physical violence to sexual immorality.
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    TIME STAMPS
    00:00 - Do The Scriptures Teach It's Possible To Be Disqualified From Ministry?
    02:59 - What Does It Mean To Be "Above Reproach?"
    04:53 - What Does A "Husband of One Wife" Mean?
    06:44 - Does Spiritual Abuse Disqualify A Pastor From Ministry?
    07:28 - Rod Parsley Spiritually Abusing Staff
    09:38 - What Does "Manage Your Household" Mean?
    10:05 - Should A Pastor Who Has Been Abusive Be Disqualified From Ministry?
    10:44 - Can A Pastor Drink Alcohol And Be Fit For Ministry?
    11:02 - Should A Pastor Be Disqualified For False Doctrine?
    11:39 - Disqualification Question #1
    13:49 - Disqualification Question #2
    15:32 - Disqualification Question #3
    17:15 - Disqualification Question #4
    18:49 - Disqualification Question #5
    20:18 - Final Remarks

КОМЕНТАРІ • 503

  • @sajj2473
    @sajj2473 Місяць тому +58

    Reading alot of the comments here and just in my own life experience, I think the mistake we keep making is that we put our faith in man, who will always let us down. We need to put our faith in the ONE who has overcome the world, we need to put our Faith in Jesus. Love you all.

    • @vickieadams6648
      @vickieadams6648 Місяць тому +2

      True, tell that to the people expecting an elderly unsaved millionaire to rescue them instead of Jesus.

    • @thelookout5802
      @thelookout5802 Місяць тому +2

      On point. We put our trust in pastors, church leaders and other people who are just sinful men instead of in God.

    • @25447carepear
      @25447carepear 12 днів тому

      Alan as well as a few other so called youtubers will not speak on Tony Evans either because they hold him in high regard. They are drinking the kool-aid Tony Evans was selling them and can't even call him out. That's what I dony like. They pick and choose and call themselves really doing something but are scared of people with " big names," for fear of seeing them in public and being called out. Tony Evans is not what yall thought ALLEN Parr. He's just as bad. Tony fooled yall.

  • @lelanicampher4813
    @lelanicampher4813 Місяць тому +52

    In regard to having his own house in order. You do see pastors whose own families are not cared for and lacking in good relationships with their spouses and children who think that they can pastor a church. If you can't be faithful with a little, you can't be faithful with much.

  • @Rev_rider775
    @Rev_rider775 Місяць тому +39

    One issue I have seen is a pastor is removed. They don't seek repentance. They move on and start a new fellowship.

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 20 днів тому +3

      Agreed. It's a huge problem.

    • @num1Jaysta
      @num1Jaysta 11 днів тому

      Yep! They get people to make excuses for them and cover up their sins.

  • @Just_a_Reflection
    @Just_a_Reflection Місяць тому +53

    Let not many of you become teachers, my brethren, knowing that as such we shall incur a stricter judgment.
    James 3:1

  • @user-ts8sn5ts2z
    @user-ts8sn5ts2z Місяць тому +32

    Involvement with an underage child, sexually should be a disqualifer even when there is true repentance.

    • @dynastygaming4556
      @dynastygaming4556 27 днів тому

      Would you say to Paul (a murderer) and David (concubines many underage, murderer, slave owner, adulterer, etc.)?

    • @LeMuz-ce6ig
      @LeMuz-ce6ig 26 днів тому +2

      @@dynastygaming4556 Paul did pay with his own life being a follower of Christ and sorry, David was not a pastor.

    • @Jonathan-tw4xm
      @Jonathan-tw4xm 25 днів тому +1

      Yh this does disqualify him permanently although i think he may have truly repented

    • @TheProphet-gc1pt
      @TheProphet-gc1pt 23 дні тому

      Glad you are now acting as God! That comment is not scriptural in the least bit. God has no perfect people to work with. This is his business alone.

    • @amaragrace94
      @amaragrace94 20 днів тому

      Amen to that.

  • @dpsm373
    @dpsm373 Місяць тому +26

    I understand no one's perfect and even the most faithful can stumble but once a pastor does something out of line, don't care if it's just once, my trust and respect ain't gonna be the same anymore. 😕

    • @user-rs6bz9so3g
      @user-rs6bz9so3g Місяць тому +7

      Physical or mental abuse or fooling around on your wife or getting drunk constantly is hardly a stumble those are all conscious decisions

    • @deborahbarksdale826
      @deborahbarksdale826 11 днів тому

      While we can understand that all pastors are human and subjected to falling into sin, on an emotional level it’s hurtful and disappointing. It can make you feel disillusioned with church leadership. Most recent example is Pastor Tony Evans. I was shocked. I thought he’d retire not have to step down because of some unnamed sin.

    • @evanwildermann7034
      @evanwildermann7034 2 дні тому

      I mean we gotta have the same grace with them as we have for ourselves..that's kinda the point Jesus made in the sermon on the mount at that point it's left to subjective judgement and the judgement being what is the best way forward

  • @juliem.3936
    @juliem.3936 Місяць тому +57

    Pastors disqualifying themselves from ministry will continue to happen because it has been written that in the last days there will be a falling away. Sad, but true. Some of these are not as subjective as they seem. I think Paul was pretty clear about what type of a man's character qualifies him for ministry.

    • @WMPBLSD
      @WMPBLSD Місяць тому +9

      It is important to remember that although a person can be disqualified from ministry, they will never be disqualified from the cross.

    • @juliem.3936
      @juliem.3936 Місяць тому +3

      @@WMPBLSD If they repent.

    • @PatrickInCayman
      @PatrickInCayman Місяць тому

      Correct, Paul did, and we call these men Bishops and Presbyters ordained through successive Apostolic consecration.

    • @CoCoFantastique
      @CoCoFantastique 21 день тому

      This is not what the great falling away means. Also there were pastors doing these things for demands and just not being held accountable because there were no recording devices and social media to expose them. More Pastors are stepping down because of an increase in exposure.

    • @juliem.3936
      @juliem.3936 20 днів тому

      @@CoCoFantastique The "great" falling away is when people fall away from the church because they have become lukewarm in their faith and having lost confidence in the leaders of the churches. So, yes, I think that is what it means.

  • @Smart_nap
    @Smart_nap Місяць тому +18

    I’ve really really struggled with a pastor that I really trusted and thought I got to know quite personally, him and his wife and kids, and even helped them when they moved to my country as missionaries… only to find a year after that he was caught in adultery and had absolutely no repentance. In fact, he then left his wife and kids and went to be with this other woman. And then started to post pics of him celebrating occasions such as Halloween with his new family etc…. It was a 180 it seemed and just so hard to watch and see and so terribly confusing. He was removed from ministry as soon as the adultery was found out …. But it’s just so heavy on my heart. I can’t even try to understand what on earth happened…..!

    • @py20
      @py20 Місяць тому +8

      He is unrepentant and deserves to remain out of ministry. But don't stop praying for him. Also, don't let his sinful behavior discourage you. Christ alone is our example; look to Him only, not any man, and follow in His lead, one day at a time. Blessings to you.

    • @perfectpeace123
      @perfectpeace123 22 дні тому

      He is a backslider. He enjoys sin more than being a responsible person. He did not want to repent.

  • @alfredgetzlaff5570
    @alfredgetzlaff5570 14 днів тому +1

    Wow. I know we are all sinners, but pastors are, in my opinion, called to be models for Christ at all times. I know that is hard! I also know that it's my job as a church member to pray for my pastor, that the Lord will always guide him along the right path so that he can continue to be the example. PRAY FOR YOUR PASTOR!

  • @bhcm1962
    @bhcm1962 Місяць тому +9

    I totally agree!! I left my church because I couldn’t look at nor listen to the word coming from my previous Pastor.

  • @RuslanKD
    @RuslanKD Місяць тому +12

    Great analysis.

  • @kevhernandez
    @kevhernandez 29 днів тому +3

    For the lack of examples, we are encouraged to know that the same Spirit that gave Paul understanding guides and leads us to discernment in these nuanced situations.

  • @ericsjaunirsjoekoer8535
    @ericsjaunirsjoekoer8535 Місяць тому +6

    Have been through a few pastors like this. Said goodbye to their church. "Feed the sheep not beat them"!

  • @kateonly29
    @kateonly29 Місяць тому +29

    Family is your first ministry. If you cannot raise God fearing and God loving children who had been with you since they were babies, how can you lead any other ministry?

    • @MarkMay-cr6bv
      @MarkMay-cr6bv Місяць тому +1

      Spot-on comment. Thank you.

    • @ntabile
      @ntabile Місяць тому +3

      It is tricky. Because there is one Pastor in the US where the son rebels and becomes apostate. I saw the son's video, and he is totally the opposite of the father.

    • @Tye-pf8vi
      @Tye-pf8vi Місяць тому +9

      Deuteronomy 24: 16 says, "Parents shalt not be put to death for their children, nor children be put to death for their parents; each will die for thier own sins. Everyone is accountable for their actions."

    • @lawrenceehrbar8667
      @lawrenceehrbar8667 Місяць тому +1

      Pastors with unruly, rebellious, worldly, and spoiled children seem to be commonplace. Especially with those pastors who are very charismatic and treated like roylalty. In fact, it seems that these pastors create such an aura about themselves that congregants start idolizing them and begin wanting to "hover" around the pastor. This causes the pastor to create a protective inner circle of confidants to guard himself from his "subjects." It becomes self perpetuating. We see the same thing in the world. You've heard the stories. About celebrity such-and-such who place an "edict" that subordinates aren't to ever look the celebrity in the eye. This is almost commonplace in some churches.

    • @MoonlitShoreWalk
      @MoonlitShoreWalk Місяць тому +10

      I think it's referring to when children are still in their parents' household. While they're being raised, the pastor/wife should be raising them well, in love, in the knowledge of God and His Word, and with patient discipline. If they've done that well, to the best of their ability, then what their kids do as adults should not disqualify the pastor. After all, you can do everything right raising a child and s/he can become apostate, while other families do everything wrong (kids raised in abusive homes, no God, no church, taught to do drugs at an early age, etc.), and those kids can turn out to be Christians, even pastors. Each adult is accountable for their own actions.

  • @MEAToftheWORDsermons4theMATURE

    I appreciate the clean language you use in your videos. Makes me comfortable listening to this with my 7 year old son and then discussing your words with my son after. He's my disciple, so I try to have him by my side as much as possible.

  • @joshuawhite8114
    @joshuawhite8114 Місяць тому +8

    Great video.! I was always curious if I was disqualified as a minister due to my past. This was so encouraging..thanks Allen!

  • @joycecarter2868
    @joycecarter2868 Місяць тому +6

    Thanks for bringing some clarity to a very delicate and serious situations.

  • @ImationX3
    @ImationX3 Місяць тому +9

    Todd Friel talked about this and I am inclined to agree with his assessment. If you are sinning as a pastor--while there is grace and forgiveness in Christianity--you should not be back behind the pulpit. There are many examples he brings out from Church History that agree that the one who errs should be removed from the pulpit. They need to get themselves into a good Bible preaching church under a Godly pastor and learn in submission.

    • @Gargeler
      @Gargeler Місяць тому

      The perspective on the Christ Righteousness and holiness certainly is the cause of divisions from so called Christians , both past and present, even from ministers from those that advertise the Show “Chosen” and the ones that dont.

    • @MrVernRoss
      @MrVernRoss 10 днів тому

      Respectfully Allen, I think you failed to make your case. Nothing is “subjective” in the pastoral qualifications found in the passages you referenced. Paul knew and Timothy (and Titus) knew and the 1st century congregations knew EXACTLY what the qualifications objectively meant.
      Not given to too much wine means just that (drunkenness or addiction). Do you lead and have an orderly home where your kids are being reared in the Lord? Etc.
      There is nothing subjective about the godly standard of being above reproach as a pastor.😊

  • @robbiesedgeman8698
    @robbiesedgeman8698 Місяць тому +10

    This was helpful in thinking through these types of situations… Thank you!

  • @alfredoalva9240
    @alfredoalva9240 Місяць тому +5

    Thank you for the information. It would be a nice follow up on how members of the church should deal with pastors who should be disqualified and yet refuse to step down from ministry. Blessed with your videos and content.

  • @karlinwilliamson9329
    @karlinwilliamson9329 Місяць тому +2

    You broke it down as good as I've heard. This is not an easy topic. Thank you for your clarity

  • @jkdm27
    @jkdm27 Місяць тому +13

    Luckily I did not choose to go into ministry. I'm definitely not qualified. I'm just grateful for God's forgiveness, but all I can do is to serve in a lesser capacity.

    • @JoseRodriguez-yr9uv
      @JoseRodriguez-yr9uv Місяць тому +2

      Jkdm27, As believers, we are All in full-time ministry. There is no lesser capacity. Your ministry has immense value to God.

  • @praiselujahradio-show
    @praiselujahradio-show Місяць тому +1

    Great job, Allen! This is so necessary. Thanks for covering this!

  • @Just_a_Reflection
    @Just_a_Reflection Місяць тому

    Thank you, Allen. As a long-time subscriber who has been hacked and canceled in a similar fashion that you have, I have your back 100 percent.

  • @cassandrarae3464
    @cassandrarae3464 Місяць тому

    Thank you for this! This was an answered prayer from God for me since my husband and I was having this discussion and we have different opinions but this definitely helped me to see how there is subjectivity to the list that is given in 1 Timothy.

  • @memunatusaffa9216
    @memunatusaffa9216 Місяць тому

    Good questions to get answered Pastor Allen. Thx 🙏 and God bless you

  • @kevinandbeckyguinn4209
    @kevinandbeckyguinn4209 Місяць тому +6

    Managing household well--includes managing finances and things related to the home

  • @ChristianCareerJoy
    @ChristianCareerJoy Місяць тому +1

    Thank you for this video Allen! In a time where people are speaking in opinions, you are equipping the saints! Very helpful video, especially as the LORD seems to be separating the wheat from the chaff right before our eyes!

  • @michealcheng6021
    @michealcheng6021 Місяць тому +8

    If the situation is still QUESTIONABLE after many years of pastoral restoration……it’s best for the minister to step down.

  • @jayjones4191
    @jayjones4191 Місяць тому +4

    Thank you Mr. Parr

  • @jsjoel2
    @jsjoel2 Місяць тому +2

    This video raises a lot of really important and valid questions. I would like to see the other side of the coin discussed that is connected to the last question of distraction.
    What is being done to foster healing of the entire body of Christ? What needs to happen to a leader who has sinned is undeniably important. However, the line between consequences/vengeance, mercy/avoidance are often not talked about.
    Ironically, these types of situations are often used by God to finally “qualify” someone who has been viewed as meeting the requirements prior to a discovery of sin.
    A person who cannot look at a leader without seeing a past sin is in need of restoration as well. Fallen leaders are only the tip of the iceberg. Churches would be wise to remember that ships sink because of what is below the surface.

  • @reed3625
    @reed3625 Місяць тому

    Great and timely word of insight, big bro. Thanks for all that you do to inform and build up the body.

  • @user-zj4ct2mi4j
    @user-zj4ct2mi4j Місяць тому

    I really got a lot from this. The information distinguishing a 1 time incident verses an ongoing issue was insightful. Thanks!

  • @geekgazette
    @geekgazette Місяць тому +14

    I am listening to you and how you are dividing the Word of Jesus Christ as mentioned in the Book of James and your lessons from Study The Bible series for doing exactly what you are doing now sir. Righteously defining the meaning of key words from Greek is a life lesson. I am trying to do this on my young UA-cam channel but no where is well as you, sir. I thank you for all that you are doing for the Kingdom of Jesus Christ. Be blessed and I will pay $20.00 dollars using the dollar symbol because I know that you have a family and staff to support, pastor Parr. Be blessed always by Him Who can do immeasurably more than anyone else can do…to Him be the praise and glory always in Jesus Christ. Amen.

  • @virtueq
    @virtueq Місяць тому

    Love this teaching video. Allen Parr is on parr and on point. Fair and just in his explanation and judgement 🙏🙏🙏

  • @isaac-walterhurd71
    @isaac-walterhurd71 Місяць тому +3

    Great Teaching Man Of God!!! 🕊️✌️✌️🕊️

  • @warholcow
    @warholcow Місяць тому +15

    I agree and I’m glad that you’re going over these and clearing up things because this is obviously something that’s really relevant. I will say, however, that in our day and age with social media and access to information, that we should not be too quick to draw conclusions because people can make accusations that are false. It doesn’t mean that people need to have this specific proof in order to prove that something did happen, but to think that people don’t bare false witness is also not entirely correct. So we should be cautious, make sure that we’re ensuring the safety of (alleged and confirmed) victims, but also make sure that we gather information before fully coming to a conclusion if the situation may call for it. This isn’t the case for everything, but those cautionary tales where people’s lives can be ruined because of things that end up not being true, are important because those are still peoples lives. However, often times there’s lots of evidence and if it’s a pattern, then that’s way different.

  • @brucegreen7554
    @brucegreen7554 28 днів тому

    God bless you brother! Continue to exposed ungodliness.

  • @tituspannell6009
    @tituspannell6009 27 днів тому +2

    I know of a man who abused his staff. He told the head pastor to leave the church, which he ended up doing. Then the church turned around and made him lead pastor. We must be in the end times. Churches are not doing the right thing, and people are failing upwards.

  • @lindasmith6668
    @lindasmith6668 Місяць тому +1

    You shared appropriately. Thank you

  • @geekgazette
    @geekgazette Місяць тому +20

    Thanks, Pastor Parr for all that you do, sir. Blessings to you and your family always in Christ Jesus. Amen.

    • @lectron307
      @lectron307 Місяць тому

      Where can you make donations to Brother Parr ?

    • @geekgazette
      @geekgazette Місяць тому +1

      @@lectron307 The dollar symbol and 'Thanks' is beside it to the far right of the thumbs up icon. Be blessed.

    • @LoveWisdomCourage
      @LoveWisdomCourage Місяць тому +3

      Amen! Thanks for your generosity!

  • @geraldwilliamsjr1825
    @geraldwilliamsjr1825 Місяць тому

    Great video, brother Allen!! God bless you and your ministry!

  • @DebbieKaradeema
    @DebbieKaradeema Місяць тому

    You are absolutely right on all points.

  • @michaelroots6931
    @michaelroots6931 Місяць тому

    Good balanced teaching. Thanks Allen.

  • @BWell247
    @BWell247 Місяць тому +115

    Thought provoking information as always. I believe child abuse would be a non-negotiable disqualification.

    • @ftmb1022
      @ftmb1022 Місяць тому +3

      Exactly.

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  Місяць тому +13

      I would 100% agree!

    • @jesusprofessor314
      @jesusprofessor314 Місяць тому

      Does that include biblical spanking? The liberals have broadened the definition of abuse to include that in many places.

    • @laurykristensen6239
      @laurykristensen6239 Місяць тому +2

      Yes, thats why he and others had to misrepresent the truth. His earning potential was irresistible to all of them.

    • @cailewilkinson8362
      @cailewilkinson8362 Місяць тому +1

      @@thebeatagphey brother a friend of mine a brother in Christ committed child sa before he got saved, now he is a legitimate repentant follower of Christ and is in ministry. What are your thoughts on that? Should the people he ministers to be concerned?

  • @CinemaSermons
    @CinemaSermons Місяць тому +3

    Great video, Allen! This is actually part of the reason why I stopped doing the "sermon" part of Cinema Sermons. I've shared with you some of my struggles in our personal conversations and there's some other things I'm actively working to overcome, but I just wanted to make sure that I don't give the gospel black eye in any way. I want to make sure that the same guy doing videos at the same guy that they'll see out doing karaoke on a saturday. So I'm just enjoying making videos about movies and trying to be the best coach I can, and when I feel the time is right and that the Lord approves of it I'll start doing the sermon part again. Well done as always, my friend!

    • @thebeatagp
      @thebeatagp  Місяць тому +2

      Good to see you on here! Thanks for the clarification. God bless you!

    • @CinemaSermons
      @CinemaSermons Місяць тому

      @@thebeatagp God bless you as well!

  • @kiggundufrancis5225
    @kiggundufrancis5225 Місяць тому

    Thanks Mr Allen

  • @willwatson8394
    @willwatson8394 Місяць тому

    Very good lesson. Greatly appreciated

  • @gailnowaski7336
    @gailnowaski7336 Місяць тому

    Very fair and clear , thank you👏🙏

  • @johniejoyce8876
    @johniejoyce8876 Місяць тому

    The recordings starting at 7:30 remind me of what it was like to serve in ministry during my time at Liberty University. Especially after being ordained at a church several miles north of campus, I was treated like this, and then blamed for everything. Calling them on it got me in big trouble, leading to a contract not getting renewed. Amen, Allen! Ministers need to quit acting like that!

  • @heatherburke-townsend4638
    @heatherburke-townsend4638 Місяць тому

    Great teaching Allen!! Thank you! God bless you & your Family… my schoolmate!!
    Go Steelers🖤💛 😊

  • @joshuamartinpryce8424
    @joshuamartinpryce8424 Місяць тому

    Thanks

  • @anabelasoares2835
    @anabelasoares2835 Місяць тому

    Thanks 👍 you were very informative.

  • @cjunker66
    @cjunker66 Місяць тому

    I’m glad this is stuff with Rod Parsley is finally coming out

  • @director365
    @director365 15 днів тому

    Allen, you might also consider how the legal profession deals with similar issues in law. If a lawyer, for example, commits a felony, that lawyer is permanently disbarred. Pastors are also "professional," they have a "calling," in the narrow sense of the word. They might consider coming up with a code of ethics and perhaps police themselves in a way which restores confidence to the pulpit. Another example: if a witness has committed a felony or "crime of moral turpitude" (that is, a crime involving lying or stealing), then his testimony can be "impeached," meaning it becomes de facto subject to attack. Sometimes witnesses' criminal history will not subject his testimony to attacked IF the crime happened ten years or more ago. Anyway, hope this gives you something more to consider. Love your channel. Keep up the good work!

  • @jacobgrantphotography
    @jacobgrantphotography Місяць тому

    Well said, Allen.

  • @Jaydubbayoutwo
    @Jaydubbayoutwo Місяць тому

    Very good point, especially when it comes to subjective opinions.

  • @bobrice3120
    @bobrice3120 15 днів тому

    As always, tastefully well done.
    So proud

  • @donnahines125
    @donnahines125 24 дні тому

    Thank you for the Word. I heard an older minister say "If you do not love Gods people more than you love preaching or teaching, you shouldn't be preaching or teaching"...surely that goes for pastoring also..

  • @kristellw5929
    @kristellw5929 Місяць тому +1

    Im so impressed with the redemption work the lord has done in Carl lentz life and his family. The pod cast he started is very supporte and healing and amazing testimony of the lord. He takes FULL responsibility

  • @MSLILLY4533
    @MSLILLY4533 Місяць тому +30

    You know Allen if its a bad character issue I think ministry is not the place for that individual. We all sin it doesn't make it right but as long as we're attached to this flesh we have problems. For me I choose to show mercy and pray for the person because eventually I'll need mercy also.

    • @david4unthank
      @david4unthank Місяць тому +13

      You are correct in what you say, however, the office of Pastor is not the same as everyday Christian. It has higher standards and when those standards are not met, then disqualification applies and the Pastor is no longer qualified for that office.

    • @Jaydubbayoutwo
      @Jaydubbayoutwo Місяць тому

      @@david4unthankis the standard perfection for leadership? Or what standards are there to determine when a leader crossed the line? Is there a sin limit? Is there a category of sin that leaders commit that automatically disqualifies them?

    • @shanteladams7613
      @shanteladams7613 Місяць тому

      ​@@Jaydubbayoutwothere is also the fact that sexual abuse is a crime. This man is roaming free and not paid for his actions. After that, maybe the next steps could be taken, but no one should get away with this

    • @dahliaherrod4301
      @dahliaherrod4301 Місяць тому

      ​@@JaydubbayoutwoI think it depends on your duties and the type of sin. For example, if it's confirmed an elder stole money from the church and defrauded them then remove them from access to the money and place them elsewhere. You don't have to kick them out or keep them from ministry forever. It may be a particular duty is just not appropriate for them. This protects the church and the elder too who may be struggling with a chronic sin issue

  • @kimberlygover7703
    @kimberlygover7703 Місяць тому

    These were good guidelines to build on Church leaders should call on him to set rules within the church or leadership conferences over a group of churches

  • @MEAToftheWORDsermons4theMATURE

    I guess overall (you asked what we think), I might not agree with you on everything, but I like that you're pointing people to what the actual scriptures say and pointing people to church history. That's one thing we are trying to do is to remove commentary and ritual from the scriptures and look at what it actually says, what it does not say, and look at how the church handles these matters (on what does that really mean) for the past 2,000 years.

  • @emmanueldedmon6690
    @emmanueldedmon6690 Місяць тому +3

    Great video

  • @cahillrebel
    @cahillrebel Місяць тому +2

    This is gonna be a long question for Pastor Parr but I would like for his advice.
    What about an individual who was deep in a sin, never confessed it to a person, but confessed to God, asked for forgiveness and surrendered to Christ? Then they were delivered from it?
    Could someone who never was in ministry but had a sin they were delivered from in the past be in ministry?
    This was me. Early age I fell to the video sin (you know what I mean). It was horrid. I wasn’t in church anymore during this time. But after high school and then college, I had this urge to be in church more. Almost got stuck in a oneness church but I was led to another college in another town that was more biblically sound. I met my future wife the same day at the new college when the semester began. And a second time at the college church fellowship sponsored by the local church. Same week. God led me back to church and yet still had the sin (but this was a step in His purpose for me). I’d be mad at myself and beating myself up. But I prayed more and more because I wanted to be with Him. I was saved as a little kid but fell into all that mess. I felt as though I was condemned because I was not listening to the right voice. I asked God to forgive me and I fought so long. At some point I surrendered everything to Jesus and I never do those specified things again. Now, I am resisting the temptation to look at parts of a woman’s body, and I feel I still beat myself down when I do so by accident and unintentionally, but Jesus has helped me through this mess and I do my best to follow Him (letting Him work in my life).
    The Holy Spirit has helped sanctified me so much with more self-control and also reassuring me that God loves me and has a purpose for me. I feel detached from the world and I don’t like it. I long to see God and not do the sin others do. I want to do His will. I’ll never be perfect but I want to follow my Savior, my Shepherd. Temptation stings but Jesus Christ is worth my praise. To Him be all the glory amen.
    This is my confession to you all. And the reason I say this is because God has put into my head the idea of ministry and I have a tugging in my soul to do so. But I’ve been fighting back because of my past and my perceived ability to do something like it. I don’t think I’m worthy enough to do ministry and yet the tugging remains. There was something someone said regarding our abilities at the time and God’s purpose for us. “God doesn’t choose the prepared. God prepares the chosen.”
    This very quote has repeatedly worn away my fears over time. But I need advice to pursue what I feel God is leading me to.
    This same thing happened a year ago when out of the blue the idea of teaching was put in my head. Told my wife countless times I couldn’t fathom the idea of teaching (she’s a teacher). But that idea entered my head, I prayed about it with my wife who said it’d be a miracle if I got hired in a month since schools were about to open again. I got all my provisional licensure and prereqs done, and hired, in four weeks. Including masters program so I can teach and do classes for it. It was a miracle that I can only give God the complete credit. I know this feels similar to what I’m now experiencing but this is a bigger leap.

  • @TheBlessingReport
    @TheBlessingReport Місяць тому +2

    Talk that talk

  • @janpendergast5236
    @janpendergast5236 Місяць тому

    Thanks Pastor Parr,!! You are a Godly you man, that seems to know the scriptures, as well as having common sense. I’m I. Agreement with you. My thought is o. Some of these issues are - if you are in moral sin before you ever get to the pulpit and still in sin as you are preaching, I ask the question - “ Did God call then into ministry while they were operating in sin. I say NO, that is not the characteristics or ways of our Holy God. If they have repented before being called, then I would say that could definitely be God calling them, since we all sin. However, God lets us know the Dangerous sins, which are rarely being preached!! God gave .Adam & Eve one warning promise, they broke the covenant (His warning promise) God kept HIS WARNING PROMISE, Rev. 22:18-19 - “ “if you add anything to this book, or take away anything from this book, I will take away your name from the BOOK OF LIFE!!!” We all need to hear the full truth from our leaders!!! At 85, I can tell you life is very short and very serious. We need to hear the full council of God, then it is our CHOICE, and when we blow it, leaders need emphasis TRUTH, SIN, & REPENTANCE!!!❤️❤️ ❤️❤️❤️😊

  • @TerryKeever
    @TerryKeever 11 днів тому

    Good info. Thanks

  • @ruthvaughan450
    @ruthvaughan450 Місяць тому +1

    My pastor/husband (of 39 years) was denied a calling to 2 different churches because the search committee found out that I was divorced 40 years ago due to his adultery. Even though this isn’t biblical, this was their belief that I’m not qualified for a “leadership” position. So wrong!

  • @mahaylahuff2026
    @mahaylahuff2026 8 днів тому

    I agree. Amen.

  • @sabrinajohnson9579
    @sabrinajohnson9579 Місяць тому

    Allen I was waiting 4 u to speak on this about pastors

  • @blayladavis8592
    @blayladavis8592 Місяць тому +8

    I definitely agree that when someone stays in the pulpit while living a double/sinful lifestyle that is a big deal and they like should not be restored

  • @nadinejo7036
    @nadinejo7036 16 днів тому

    Yes and amen!

  • @poppoprudisill9325
    @poppoprudisill9325 Місяць тому +1

    Once again brother Parr, you are dead on target, keep putting out these videos, our elder team is currently studying the requirements of an elder and or pastor, it's very humbling when you understand, though studying scripture, the responsibility that God has given to the elders to carefully watch over His sheep.

  • @alvincobbs92
    @alvincobbs92 Місяць тому +10

    I always thank God for your UA-cam channel. I wanted to take my Bible study to a new level. I prayed about it and I came across your UA-cam channel, please keep up the good work

  • @fbwag1
    @fbwag1 Місяць тому +2

    What happens with Repeat offenders such as, Jamal Bryant who is not held accountable by the church board or church members.

  • @LadyJpraise2024unbound
    @LadyJpraise2024unbound Місяць тому +1

    I know a pastor no one knew was abusive but he truly was saved. The couple ended up starting a marriage ministry and ministering to others. His reputation is solid and he gives his testimony to others.. I say if they get caught in a sin yet don't repent and get help then there is a problem. If it is a pattern that he can't break then stepping down may b best option. This Christian walk is hard and support to truly walk free and in His work limited to none

  • @DH-wm8pd
    @DH-wm8pd Місяць тому +29

    Keep these videos coming brother you are truly a blessing shout out from Toledo Ohio✊🏿✊🏿🙏🏿

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 Місяць тому +1

      Just heads up; think your phone rearranged your words. My phone does that all the time ☹️ Just letting you know ✌️

    • @travarusmart24
      @travarusmart24 Місяць тому +2

      Ayeee Ohio in the house

    • @DH-wm8pd
      @DH-wm8pd Місяць тому +1

      @@gohawks3571 thanks 🙏🏿✊🏿

    • @gohawks3571
      @gohawks3571 Місяць тому

      @@DH-wm8pd YW👍👍👍 I knew what you meant 😉

  • @CoCoFantastique
    @CoCoFantastique 21 день тому

    I agree with you. Perhaps some people don't find what Rod said as disqualifying because they call themselves Christians and talk to their spouses, family and others this way unfortunately. There are people who possibly grew up watching their so called God fearing fathers and mothers treat family this way therefore feel you can be godly and like this as well.

  • @CynHicks
    @CynHicks Місяць тому +2

    Above reproach is actuality failry specific and objective. Essentially, if there's anyone in the community (Christian or otherwise)that has a legitimate social debt to correct from them then they aren't above reproach. Have they wronged someone and not made ammends? They aren't above reproach.

  • @teresaedmondson4749
    @teresaedmondson4749 Місяць тому

    Hello Allen, I love your videos. I have a longtime friend who has been deceived by the TV show Shepherd’s Chapel. She kept watching it, after I told her that Arnold Murray is a false teacher and that the teaching in this show is blasphemous. Can you make a video about Shepherd’s Chapel, there is a lot of online information as to why the content of this show is devoid of Biblical truth? After four years of telling her to stay away from this TV show and praying for her, I finally told her that she needs to repent of the sin of worshipping a counterfeit gospel. She has studied this false teaching for over 10 years. Now this counterfeit gospel has become apart of who she is in Christ, it comes out of her mouth when she talks about the Bible. I contacted a pastor about Shepherd’s Chapel, he told me that this has been a major problem for many pastors to counter and correct in their congregations. I appreciate everything that you do for our Lord Jesus Christ. Thank you and God bless you. Sincerely, Teresa

  • @WillJennings-xr9cb
    @WillJennings-xr9cb Місяць тому +1

    I'm not a pastor but I believe these guideposts should be strickly listed and remembered for all who will themselves to be followers of Jesus Christ.
    What is required for ministry of pastors should seriously be adopted as requirements to lead a Christian life pleasing to our Lord Jesus Christ.

  • @toddboucher3302
    @toddboucher3302 29 днів тому

    All this stuff why am happy I’m a Presbyterian pcs.
    It’s already been written in our bylaws if confessions is that perfect situation probably not but I believe everything’s already been discussed

  • @sallyjane8274
    @sallyjane8274 Місяць тому +42

    I could NEVER trust a pastor that had an affair. Period.

    • @nickjones1314
      @nickjones1314 Місяць тому +1

      I could never trust any man to speak and or write on behalf of a god.

    • @whoaitsally7676
      @whoaitsally7676 Місяць тому +1

      @sallyjane8274 me either. That shows such a lack of control and morals and boundaries.... like the pastor in SC who's wife just passed... he had had several affairs and divorces. Never should've been pastor.

    • @henning439
      @henning439 Місяць тому +6

      If David was of this time, he would not stand a chance with you.

    • @davidpmilligan1965
      @davidpmilligan1965 Місяць тому +6

      @@henning439David was a king , not an elder/pastor. Apples and oranges

    • @henning439
      @henning439 Місяць тому +7

      @@davidpmilligan1965 So adultery has another meaning because David was a king? He slept with someone's wife and plotted his murder, yet God forgave him. Be very careful in your radical approach. You saying that you would never trust a pastor that had an affair is completely unbiblical because you suggest that they cannot change and do not deserve a second chance.

  • @dukedp78
    @dukedp78 Місяць тому

    I think my only question is what is of the congregation is regards to forgiveness? Yes trust is broken, that is understood. But does that have us to continue to hold a person’s past against them moving forward?
    No, they may not be restored to their position or title, but sometimes I feel like the Church even suppress the gifting too

  • @Slipy300000
    @Slipy300000 Місяць тому +6

    The husband of one wife could mean only married once and faithful. Also not divorced.

    • @EDFCentral
      @EDFCentral Місяць тому +2

      This is what I was taught it meant in every single church I've ever been in. It literally says husband of ONE wife. I personally think it means not married to multiple women like they used to do back in the time it was written. I don't think it means divorce and the reason I say this is because I know a wonderful pastor whose wife left him for another man. He tried to resign because he had always been taught that "husband of one wife" meant he couldn't be divorced. The church refused to let him resign and he has gone on to be an effective pastor and church planter to this day. God still uses him in a pastoral role and he is now married to a wonderful Godly woman.

    • @eli-bt4he
      @eli-bt4he Місяць тому +2

      A man who remarries after a divorce, except in the case of adultery by the wife, is committing adultery, and is disqualified permanently from being a pastor. However, I would only apply this to men who got remarried while already a Christian.

    • @theeternalsbeliever1779
      @theeternalsbeliever1779 Місяць тому

      @@eli-bt4he It doesn't really matter how you'd personally apply it. We have to look at how _God_ would apply it.

  • @LifeOnHoth
    @LifeOnHoth Місяць тому

    I'm agreeing with your logic on this. It challenges me a bit tho. I'm in a setting where the division between teacher and the people being taught isn't that clear. Like a small house church. I really don't care to dig in anyone's past. I dig in my own tho. So even tho I'm not a pastor, I'm not a teacher, I really sometimes wonder if I'm unfit to do what I do - I study a lot, right now I have a little pause, but usually I study a lot, and people in my circle, I know they appreciate my opinion on matters when it comes to learning how to read the bible in context and offer insight on matters.
    Sometimes I feel like a teacher, but I'm not. And sometimes I feel like I'm unfit, or doing something I shouldn't, because of sins I did before I became a christian. And that's like 30 years ago. I take it seriously, but I think I take it too seriously too. I just don't wanna do anything that's not right towards my friends, and I don't wanna condemn myself also by teaching when I shouldn't. Meh, this is complicated and what I write is just my random thoughts coming up as I watch the video.

    • @user-iz8np3vv4i
      @user-iz8np3vv4i Місяць тому

      I thank Christ Jesus our Lord, who has strengthened me, because He considered me faithful, putting me into service, even though I was previously a blasphemer and a persecutor and a violent aggressor. Yet I was shown mercy because I acted ignorantly in unbelief; and the grace of our Lord was more than abundant, with the faith and love which are found in Christ Jesus. It is a trustworthy statement, deserving full acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, among whom I am foremost. Yet for this reason I found mercy, so that in me as the foremost sinner Jesus Christ might demonstrate His perfect patience as an example for those who would believe in Him for eternal life.
      -excerpt 1 Timothy 1
      -words of Paul

  • @ColourfulXO
    @ColourfulXO Місяць тому +2

    There is an example of, Charles Stanley... He was unfaithful and him and his wife decided to divorce. He stepped down from preaching. But, soon after the church "overwhelmingly voted" for him to continue being the Pastor. And he vowed to remain celibate and focus on feeding the flock! I think in that situation it ended up being the right choice.

  • @EM4Christ7
    @EM4Christ7 Місяць тому

    What are your thoughts on Proverbs 6:27-33? (33) being the focus because you said there is no indication of permanent disqualification, just asking for your thoughts.

  • @samonethompson5373
    @samonethompson5373 Місяць тому

    Great insight as usual. Why is there a video of Pastor Earl McClellan included in this video?

  • @DarinClack
    @DarinClack Місяць тому

    I would agree with all the points. As a minister, you have to always be humble, because your boss is God! If he would approve of it, then why would you. As far as getting feedback when calling a new minister, from a previous congregation they served is important, but always with the filter of it is a voice a few or many. I know that I can't say something that everyone agrees with, or has no problem with, but you can always get the "parking lot" group that disagrees.

  • @bilandshark
    @bilandshark Місяць тому +5

    @allenparr what I’m yet to understand is Robert Morris was one of Pastor Mark Driscoll personal accountability Pastors. Yet, He’s been totally silent on this RM child abuse issue. And since he is very vocal about other men. I find it curious he’s now silent.

    • @johndibert5509
      @johndibert5509 Місяць тому

      Get over it, I think enough people have piled on RM

    • @bilandshark
      @bilandshark Місяць тому

      @@johndibert5509 pathetic reply. Seriously. Wasn’t talking to you anyway. People like you enable abusers.

    • @bilandshark
      @bilandshark Місяць тому

      @@johndibert5509 Get over a pedophile Mega Church Pastor? I’ll pray for your salvation.

    • @benjaminprice3219
      @benjaminprice3219 28 днів тому

      @@johndibert5509get over the repeated seggual assault of a minor by a married pastor and father… right… that is something that should be “gotten over”.

  • @stevedrake380
    @stevedrake380 Місяць тому

    What happens if the members never know about what caused the pastor to step down in the first place? Maybe not all of the terrible details, but the nature of the sin itself? True repentance involves not only forgiveness, but confession, does it not?
    How would any member trust the elders if only the elders know about the pastor’s indiscretion and the members don’t?

  • @MEAToftheWORDsermons4theMATURE

    when he says I finished the race, I kept the faith, does that seem to point to remaining to the end... meaning salvation?
    If so, does being disqualified really mean from being a pastor, or does it mean from walking away from salvation?

  • @tinashechikwanda9454
    @tinashechikwanda9454 28 днів тому

    Isn't there a difference between the 5 fold ministry from God Ephesians 4:11 and the bishop, being an elder etc in these Timothy passages?

  • @BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED
    @BIBLE-UNBUTCHERED Місяць тому

    Wilful, unrepentant or overly grievious sins are a distraction to the flock..and a shocking representation of all that is holy. Good job Allen

  • @byronwastaken
    @byronwastaken Місяць тому

    The video editor🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @jaroncjones
    @jaroncjones Місяць тому

    Good video

  • @Encourager-Purpose-Destiny
    @Encourager-Purpose-Destiny Місяць тому

    Galatians 6:1: Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.

  • @mrsheatherteske
    @mrsheatherteske Місяць тому +1

    I feel a restoration would be okay with me, crime woukd be a different issue though.... however, its really up to the elders and ifnthe elders allow them back yhem congregation just have to make a choice to stay or go.