I absolutely love the suggestion to keep track of what you worry about vs what actually goes wrong, hopefully that will prompt me to actually throw myself into facing more of these fears. I also remember being my happiest when I was still keeping track of my accomplishments daily cause every little thing counts, thanks for this!
Sometimes it's helpful to just hear this kind of things from another person, even if is just behind a screen. And yeah, it's true. Sometimes focussing on bad results can litterally makes you forgot all the successes you had or the conquests you make in the present. Thank you for sharing your thoughs, it's pretty nice to see someone that has this approach on writing in a period of IA, social medias fanatics, driven opinions and other cold things. Se you on the next video!
Something I’ve learnt recently about perfectionism / being the owner of a vicious inner critic: how you feel while doing a piece of art (unmotivated,insecure, disappointed, anxious, depressed etc) is purely psychological and has no relation to the actual quality of the piece or more importantly, how it is perceived by the reader / viewer. After years of not finishing or publishing anything because it never “felt” good enough to be ready for an audience- i challenged myself to “prove it” last year by publishing monthly whether finished or not (process / progress sketches instead) I’ve received only positive feedback and the series gained a following immediately. I was stunned and then went through feeling it was a fluke each time and still experience some dread after releasing each new piece. But each time it was consistently well-received. The negative feelings / avoidance / procrastination have not gone away, but I’ve learned they’re rooted in some sort of wound from my youth and have nothing to do with how my art will be received by an objective viewer, today. This has now been confirmed repeatedly. I have an index card on my art board that says: This isn’t good enough… PROVE IT!
I’ve been struggling with this in recent times, so your video really reminded me how much I’m worth as I’m trying to improve. Thank you for uploading this. I really needed it. ❤❤
This speaks to me deeply and has come at a time I am having these exact thoughts and have come to many of the same conclusions as you. The difficult part is believing, I have written each of these thoughts down, explored them and sought advice on dealing with them and have found ways to do so. However, wrapping my head around the logic is what is proving to be really hard. If half of the battle is showing up and making your best effort, the other half is believing in your ability to do it. However, like you’ve said, past failures and struggles stick out in the mind much more, compounded they can make you give up before you even had a chance to start. Tiring! I will do my best in the areas I aim to succeed in. I can only trust in the process and be self compassionate enough to believe in my ability to succeed. Thanks for the video, i’m sure you’ll also overcome your struggles and get what you want out of life.
OH MY GOSH !!!! This video is literally so extremely underrated 😭🤍 I really loved hearing the anecdotes as I’m sick of hearing people telling others what to do with no mention of their own experiences at all. More people need to hear and see this video 🥹
Jina!! You keep getting prettier and prettier, and I love your voice and videos!! I'm also struggling with low self esteem while creating my first web comic, but i always remember of you and i get back to work!!
Really reminds me of the stoic quote "you suffer more in imagination than reality"
“Whether you think you can, or you think you can't - you're right.”
― Henry Ford
I absolutely love the suggestion to keep track of what you worry about vs what actually goes wrong, hopefully that will prompt me to actually throw myself into facing more of these fears. I also remember being my happiest when I was still keeping track of my accomplishments daily cause every little thing counts, thanks for this!
Yes totally!! And thank u for watching!
Sometimes it's helpful to just hear this kind of things from another person, even if is just behind a screen.
And yeah, it's true. Sometimes focussing on bad results can litterally makes you forgot all the successes you had or the conquests you make in the present.
Thank you for sharing your thoughs, it's pretty nice to see someone that has this approach on writing in a period of IA, social medias fanatics, driven opinions and other cold things.
Se you on the next video!
Thank you for watching !! Im glad u found it useful :D
That’s video helped me a lot , I was a little anxious about my future, now I feel better thanks to you , good luck with your channel ❤
Thank you!! So glad you enjoyed
Something I’ve learnt recently about perfectionism / being the owner of a vicious inner critic: how you feel while doing a piece of art (unmotivated,insecure, disappointed, anxious, depressed etc) is purely psychological and has no relation to the actual quality of the piece or more importantly, how it is perceived by the reader / viewer.
After years of not finishing or publishing anything because it never “felt” good enough to be ready for an audience- i challenged myself to “prove it” last year by publishing monthly whether finished or not (process / progress sketches instead)
I’ve received only positive feedback and the series gained a following immediately. I was stunned and then went through feeling it was a fluke each time and still experience some dread after releasing each new piece. But each time it was consistently well-received.
The negative feelings / avoidance / procrastination have not gone away, but I’ve learned they’re rooted in some sort of wound from my youth and have nothing to do with how my art will be received by an objective viewer, today. This has now been confirmed repeatedly.
I have an index card on my art board that says:
This isn’t good enough…
PROVE IT!
Omg this is so smart and admirable! Thank u for sharing that
Good talk to start the day and snap out of it; I'm doing better than I think.
I’ve been struggling with this in recent times, so your video really reminded me how much I’m worth as I’m trying to improve.
Thank you for uploading this. I really needed it. ❤❤
your videos are like free therapy
YAY im so happy to hear that
I literally needed to hear everything in this video 🥹💗
🙏🏽🎯I appreciate the words of encouragement. I know it is coming from a real place.
thank you for these videos. i feel like they seem to appear in my notifications the moment i need them most -- even when i am not aware of it myself.
I hope more people find your channel
Wow even in the first 5 minutes i felt called out lol
This speaks to me deeply and has come at a time I am having these exact thoughts and have come to many of the same conclusions as you.
The difficult part is believing, I have written each of these thoughts down, explored them and sought advice on dealing with them and have found ways to do so. However, wrapping my head around the logic is what is proving to be really hard. If half of the battle is showing up and making your best effort, the other half is believing in your ability to do it. However, like you’ve said, past failures and struggles stick out in the mind much more, compounded they can make you give up before you even had a chance to start. Tiring!
I will do my best in the areas I aim to succeed in. I can only trust in the process and be self compassionate enough to believe in my ability to succeed. Thanks for the video, i’m sure you’ll also overcome your struggles and get what you want out of life.
Thank you so much, i totally relate to this. Believing is the hardest part sometimes 😭 but we got this!
Thanks a lot for the great advices. Keep it up !
Aw thank u!!
Your videos are tremendously motivating
Thank you!! Glad to hear it!
This is so me. I've concluded that if I don't FTFO I'm going to fail at whatever it is I'm doing. 🤣🙄🙌🏼
thanks i really needed this
You have yourself a new subscriber ❤ thank you for putting into words what I (and most likely tons of other people) feel, cant wait for more videos!
Aw thank u!! So glad it resonated w u :))
6:17 i got that dawg in me (she has generalized anxiety disorder)
ARF ARF 🐕🐕🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️
OH MY GOSH !!!! This video is literally so extremely underrated 😭🤍 I really loved hearing the anecdotes as I’m sick of hearing people telling others what to do with no mention of their own experiences at all. More people need to hear and see this video 🥹
ahh tysm!! im so happy it helped
Jina!! You keep getting prettier and prettier, and I love your voice and videos!! I'm also struggling with low self esteem while creating my first web comic, but i always remember of you and i get back to work!!
Ahh tysm 😭🙏 !! Best of luck with the comic, im sure it will be awesome 💕
ty jinaaa
Right before you apologized for your background, I was noticing how cool it looked :)
Really helpful!
Fear is a dog barking at the door! 🖐 🎤 Girl!!! Is that an original quote? Putting that in my sketchbook ❤
I heard it from a therapist a while ago!
new jinasvideos everyone say hip hip hooray
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cat person i believe 🤧
You' re so cute 😍