This is everything! 🙏 When you start focusing on your own strength and self-worth, they begin to realize what they took for granted. Stoicism shows us that the real power lies in our ability to let go and move on. 👑💫
When someone leaves, they chose to do so. We don't need to think about what they feel, just continue to be true to ourselves. Being strong and defined is the most important thing. 💪🙏
My X called, I guess he realised that I was happier without him. I refused to take his call, only to call my son and find out they were together, and after asking: "Why's he called, I don't want to speak to him, you with him now? .... Ok, I will call you later.". I guess he got his answer. I got some lame excuse he finally wanted stuff he refused to pick up several years ago, and asked my son to sell. More like he wants a new car and realised he doesn't have the cash for it, nor can he afford the loan payments.
Once they sincerely apologize, I'll give them a chance ... forgive ... let go of all the past unpleasant or hurting experiences ..., and move on but I will always be cautious not to open doors that may invite any such recurrences with these people..
I’m going through that in life..I tried my best in 37 years I’m a 60 year old dude..retired from my union work,but I’m still working.. I’m just having a drink now at a local bar..she’s calling me,but I’m answering..
I walked away after years of taking me for granted. The last and final time he yelled and disrespected me - I walked away and I have been silent for a year and half. He never expected me to be this way. He was always able to pull me back in. Not this time. I was his security blanket for years. I have nothing to show for the 6 years of my time. I thought we were going somewhere, but his mind games and push pull was a pattern. Enough is enough.
Thank you Professor,every single word from you make me happy, laugh,full of confidence,suprise, correct , calm all are very very intersting, brcause all the answers are very true, is a very good lesson to those who had hurt and wrongly handled, what else I can say,O am happy now and I eill ne very careful,thank you once sgain.👍👍👍👍🙏❤️
At stage 7 desperation they know they are going to loose you... Frantic attempts.... yet We still stand Firmly within our Self Worth, the one of Desperation can all see know and feel of being defeated and chooses other measures and now plots revenge. The desperate person knows the inner workings of the one who has left them knows what triggers her or him on both good and bad... Sometimes some people use children, objects, income, sex, fake pregnancy, etc to use against them. A desperate person will go to extremely desperate measures to cause strife and hindrance to that individual. This includes paying a person or people to cause; physical harm; defamation of character, calling police, spreading lies, paying people to taunt them to the point of loosing their minds so they inflict self harm or paying people off saying they have assaulted them as well to have them pay for leaving them .. these people both male and female will waste all this energy and time for years even more so after they have gotten into a relationship and after that person leaves them, they can't take accountability for THIER own character flaws and not only causes conflict for that person goes back to the extreme saying it's that person who left them after so many chances and or possibly only stayed with this harmful person due to having a child with them... I can go on and in of this truthfully though reality punch in the gut ..
Anyone can experience these emotions! But in reality, to be able to deeply understand the problem, they probably have to be the ones who really want to find solutions rather than passively receiving information!
Does this count if they replaced you within a matter of weeks after a ten plus year relationship? He's in a rebound for the last few months. I'm not sure he'll ever realize but I was beyond good to him.
Yes it does ! Rebound relationship are pain killers- they almost always reach out to you- once the newness wears off- suggest though do not take them back without them showing you an active changes - being sorry is not enough You will regret then all respect for for you will be gone forever!! Ppl miss the goodness & ur value when you are truly gone .. Video is💯true
@browneyes9507 Thank you, I won't. We're in our 50s, were finally engaged (after 10 years and some betrayal and drama), with a blended family and a life together. I was honest, never cheated, am financially independent, acted with integrity and was always very good to him and believed in him. I took the ring off due to broken promises and not feeling like a priority and trust issues. Weeks later, I was "replaced" by someone 20 years younger than him. That was six months ago (they're still a thing) and I've been working on processing, healing and feeling much better. I will not go back but I'm not sure he'll ever realize what he lost or regret anything.
If he moved on so quickly, it speaks more to his inability to appreciate what he had than to your worth. Sometimes, people rebound to avoid facing the emptiness inside.
@ oh yes he will you’ll never see it though- time has a way of showing up on ppl who did you wrong. Cuz Karma never misses an address. He will get treated the same way he treated you - by someone else- That’s just the way life goes - but you’ll be happy with ur new life ❤️❤️
When they walked away, they walked away. No big deal. No need to ponder how much they missed you or how regret they are. Just moved on with your life. No one, absolutely no one, be it they, us, or you are irreplaceable. Don't buy into this 'make you feel good' bullshit to make you like, comment or subscribe. Be strong, be vigilant, be yourself (ourselves).
I walked away after years of taking me for granted. The last and final time he yelled and disrespected me - I walked away and I have been silent for a year and half. He never expected me to be this way. He was always able to pull me back in. Not this time. I was his security blanket for years. I have nothing to show for the 6 years of my time. I thought we were going somewhere, but his mind games and push pull was a pattern. Enough is enough.
No contact is my freedom, my silence is my power.
👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️
This is everything! 🙏 When you start focusing on your own strength and self-worth, they begin to realize what they took for granted. Stoicism shows us that the real power lies in our ability to let go and move on. 👑💫
When someone leaves, they chose to do so. We don't need to think about what they feel, just continue to be true to ourselves. Being strong and defined is the most important thing. 💪🙏
This has saved my heart really saved me I was going down my heart is slowly coming back thanks she just left me just like that
Since you walked away. Their world is shattered.
So if they have young children....that is your advice .???
Yes!!! So true thank you❤😊
Great speech .. ❤
My X called, I guess he realised that I was happier without him. I refused to take his call, only to call my son and find out they were together, and after asking: "Why's he called, I don't want to speak to him, you with him now? .... Ok, I will call you later.". I guess he got his answer.
I got some lame excuse he finally wanted stuff he refused to pick up several years ago, and asked my son to sell. More like he wants a new car and realised he doesn't have the cash for it, nor can he afford the loan payments.
Thank you. I accept this message.
Walking away isn't just about leaving them behind, it's about finally choosing yourself. The regret they feel?
Once they sincerely apologize, I'll give them a chance ... forgive ... let go of all the past unpleasant or hurting experiences ..., and move on but I will always be cautious not to open doors that may invite any such recurrences with these people..
I’m going through that in life..I tried my best in 37 years I’m a 60 year old dude..retired from my union work,but I’m still working.. I’m just having a drink now at a local bar..she’s calling me,but I’m answering..
I walked away after years of taking me for granted. The last and final time he yelled and disrespected me - I walked away and I have been silent for a year and half. He never expected me to be this way. He was always able to pull me back in. Not this time. I was his security blanket for years. I have nothing to show for the 6 years of my time. I thought we were going somewhere, but his mind games and push pull was a pattern.
Enough is enough.
I’m silent and deadly ❤💛🖤
Thank you Professor,every single word from you make me happy, laugh,full of confidence,suprise, correct , calm all are very very intersting, brcause all the answers are very true, is a very good lesson to those who had hurt and wrongly handled, what else I can say,O am happy now and I eill ne very careful,thank you once sgain.👍👍👍👍🙏❤️
Thank you! 😃
At stage 7 desperation they know they are going to loose you... Frantic attempts.... yet We still stand Firmly within our Self Worth, the one of Desperation can all see know and feel of being defeated and chooses other measures and now plots revenge. The desperate person knows the inner workings of the one who has left them knows what triggers her or him on both good and bad... Sometimes some people use children, objects, income, sex, fake pregnancy, etc to use against them. A desperate person will go to extremely desperate measures to cause strife and hindrance to that individual. This includes paying a person or people to cause; physical harm; defamation of character, calling police, spreading lies, paying people to taunt them to the point of loosing their minds so they inflict self harm or paying people off saying they have assaulted them as well to have them pay for leaving them .. these people both male and female will waste all this energy and time for years even more so after they have gotten into a relationship and after that person leaves them, they can't take accountability for THIER own character flaws and not only causes conflict for that person goes back to the extreme saying it's that person who left them after so many chances and or possibly only stayed with this harmful person due to having a child with them... I can go on and in of this truthfully though reality punch in the gut ..
Anyone can experience these emotions! But in reality, to be able to deeply understand the problem, they probably have to be the ones who really want to find solutions rather than passively receiving information!
Does this count if they replaced you within a matter of weeks after a ten plus year relationship? He's in a rebound for the last few months. I'm not sure he'll ever realize but I was beyond good to him.
Yes it does ! Rebound relationship are pain killers- they almost always reach out to you- once the newness wears off- suggest though do not take them back without them showing you an active changes - being sorry is not enough
You will regret then all respect for for you will be gone forever!!
Ppl miss the goodness & ur value when you are truly gone ..
Video is💯true
Love your independence.
@browneyes9507 Thank you, I won't. We're in our 50s, were finally engaged (after 10 years and some betrayal and drama), with a blended family and a life together. I was honest, never cheated, am financially independent, acted with integrity and was always very good to him and believed in him. I took the ring off due to broken promises and not feeling like a priority and trust issues. Weeks later, I was "replaced" by someone 20 years younger than him. That was six months ago (they're still a thing) and I've been working on processing, healing and feeling much better. I will not go back but I'm not sure he'll ever realize what he lost or regret anything.
If he moved on so quickly, it speaks more to his inability to appreciate what he had than to your worth. Sometimes, people rebound to avoid facing the emptiness inside.
@ oh yes he will you’ll never see it though- time has a way of showing up on ppl who did you wrong.
Cuz Karma never misses an address.
He will get treated the same way he treated you - by someone else- That’s just the way life goes - but you’ll be happy with ur new life ❤️❤️
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When they walked away, they walked away. No big deal. No need to ponder how much they missed you or how regret they are. Just moved on with your life. No one, absolutely no one, be it they, us, or you are irreplaceable. Don't buy into this 'make you feel good' bullshit to make you like, comment or subscribe. Be strong, be vigilant, be yourself (ourselves).
Yeah, I was wondering why I got tired of listening this BS.
I was left in the cold
She is glad I'm gone.
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I walked away after years of taking me for granted. The last and final time he yelled and disrespected me - I walked away and I have been silent for a year and half. He never expected me to be this way. He was always able to pull me back in. Not this time. I was his security blanket for years. I have nothing to show for the 6 years of my time. I thought we were going somewhere, but his mind games and push pull was a pattern.
Enough is enough.