7 RED FLAGS IN WOMEN that Stoicism Warns Us About (AVOID THEM)
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🌟 Explore the insightful world of stoicism with our eye-opening video, "7 Red Flags in Women that Stoicism Warns Us About." This video delves deep into understanding certain traits and behaviors in women, from a stoic perspective, that might be cautionary signs in relationships and interactions.
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📍Timestamps:
0:00 DON'T SKIP
0:56 Red Flag #1 Excessive Materialism
4:01 Red Flag #2 Habitual Lying
7:43 Red Flag #3 Chronic Laziness
11:16 Red Flag #4 Disrespect for personal boundaries
13:44 Red Flag #5 Excessive Anger or Vengeance
16:47 Red Flag #6 Over-dependence on Relationships
19:57 Red Flag #7 Inability to Cope with Adversity
22:40 Stoicism Strategy to Identify RED FLAGS Early
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📌Timestamps:
0:00 DON'T SKIP
0:56 Red Flag #1 Excessive Materialism
4:01 Red Flag #2 Habitual Lying
7:43 Red Flag #3 Chronic Laziness
11:16 Red Flag #4 Disrespect for personal boundaries
13:44 Red Flag #5 Excessive Anger or Vengeance
16:47 Red Flag #6 Over-dependence on Relationships
19:57 Red Flag #7 Inability to Cope with Adversity
22:40 Stoicism Strategy to Identify RED FLAGS Early
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As an middle-aged man, I found this video to be judgemental and not particularly stoic. Especially the wording used; "especially in women". I can't agree with that, these traits can be found regardless of gender, I have always had a lot of female & male friends throughout life, and several partners, and these traits can easily be found in both genders. I was also raised by a narcissistic father which harbored many of these red flags.
There's a lot of stoic philosophy channels out there, but I found stoicbond to be the better one, mostly free of judgement and one that actually seem to understand the stoic path. For me, this video feels like a mishap. It doesn't align with stoic principle to judge others so bluntly. But ultimately I think this video is more of an algorithmic experiment to capture a young male audience. Which is a good thing. In this modern age, a lot of people could benefit from philosophical guidance. Targeting a specific audience like young men isn't a bad thing per say. but I wish the content was worded differently.
"The key to a peaceful mind is to cultivate inner tranquility amidst the chaos of the world." - Marcus Aurelius
YES!!!!!!!!!
Hello, I’m a woman.
I watched this video with an open mind, maybe to learn or to just listen. I don’t consider myself toxic by any means, but it’s always good to take in information. Could this be applied to anyone, male or female? Sure, but I suppose directing the video into a specific category caters to a demographic that be more inclined to watch it considering the channel statistics. Either way, I’m well aware of my own values and don’t feel particularly attacked or offended by its existence. That does not mean I don’t agree with fellow women in saying these things apply to both genders, but the logistics are very reasonable and this channel’s content has always been fairly objective.
I love this channel a lot, though. Will you do any red flags on men that women should worry about?
yeah i completely agree with you this stuff is applicable regardless of gender he's just targeting a mostly young male audience
As an middle-aged man, I found this video to be judgemental and not particularly stoic. Especially the wording used; "especially in women". I can't agree with that, these traits can be found regardless of gender, I have always had a lot of female & male friends throughout life, and several partners, and these traits can easily be found in both genders. I was also raised by a narcissistic father which harbored many of these red flags.
There's a lot of stoic philosophy channels out there, but I found stoicbond to be the better one, mostly free of judgement and one that actually seem to understand the stoic path. For me, this video feels like a mishap. It doesn't align with stoic principle to judge others so bluntly. But ultimately I think this video is more of an algorithmic experiment to capture a young male audience. Which is good! In this modern age, a lot of people could benefit from philosophical guidance. Targeting a specific audience like young men isn't a bad thing per se. It's just that the content could've been worded differently.
@@PixelShade Hi! Your comment is wonderful, and i really appreciate your objectivity on the topic. After reading your comment, yeah, I completely agree.
The circumstance most likely led OP to using this specific language, but I completely agree with the fact this applies to everyone, no matter the gender.
Stoicism teaches us to steer clear of harmful paths. Thank you for sharing this insightful and practical wisdom!
We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them." - Epictetus
Damn it!!! I already engaged with the content and left a comment 😂
"He suffers more than necessary, who suffers before it is necessary." - Seneca
"Accept the things to which fate binds you, and love the people with whom fate brings you together, but do so with all your heart." - Marcus Aurelius
This video is amazing. The comment section be salty because they are the red flags this video warns of. As someone with a GF who is excessively materialist, lazy, holds grudges forever, and has little respect for boundaries, I wished I had this video as a reference before getting serious with them. I love her but one day I hope I can balance out their excessive nature or it won’t work.
Oh boy. This video is very good, BUT it is relevant to some men as much as it is to some women. I appreciate the work that went into it. However, taking it down and replacing it would be, imho, a real virtue.
I watched the entire video, despite the ill-worded title because I was curious if the red flags were really exclusive to women in ( what I’m guessing heterosexual relationships). The unfortunate part is that, all the topics are red flags for ANY partner, friend, or family member male/female, straight or queer. It would have been much better served to the community had it been presented that way. Stoicism communicates self reflection and inner development, but this video has taken those very important lessons and turned into a lesson for the fragile self proclaimed “alpha male” and it’s not a good look.
Who?
Why is it an issue for you if the video is catering to a specific audience?
Great video. How about making one on the "7 RED FLAGS IN MEN"?
Hey, Pascal! Will definitely create one about the 7 red flags in men too. Thanks for being a member and contributing to the community! :)
"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." - Seneca
Hey @StoicEvolution1, thanks for sharing that quote from Seneca! It's definitely a great reminder to always be prepared for any opportunities that may come our way. 🚀
I'm curious, what do you think are some ways we can prepare ourselves to be more open to luck and opportunities? Let's continue this conversation in the comments section! 💭
Those are huge red flags in men, too!
'In chaos, Stoic wisdom illuminates the path to inner resilience.
Hey @StoicMindsetReal, I'm so glad you found value in the video! 🙌🏼 Stoicism truly is a powerful tool for navigating the chaos of life. 🌪️ What's your favorite Stoic quote or lesson? I'd love to hear your thoughts! 🤔 Keep embracing the Stoic mindset! 💪🏼 #StoicWisdom #InnerResilience
I like this idea
Hey @Quotes_Wisdoofficial, glad you liked the video! 🙌🏼 Stoicism has so much wisdom to offer in all aspects of life, including relationships. 🤔 Have you encountered any of these red flags before? Would love to hear your thoughts on how stoicism has helped you navigate them. 💭 Keep practicing stoicism and stay strong! 💪🏼
We all know those red flags lets not pretend Contention is best to avoid or stand up for Truth logic in the order of balance & understanding, some like to abuse , some want to be abused and some just want to be used.
and some of us just had enough if these Games.
disagreement with the weak people who have the opportunity to defend yet afraid to do so"
Bless the Poor who are more courages and compassion for these Type of behaviors" tolerance and patience with people who organise themselves with the lies"
Money issues, would you fight the Hand that feeds you..? would you get down on your knees and beg.
Hey @MrVisionDPB, thanks for watching the video and sharing your thoughts! It's true, there are definitely red flags to look out for in any relationship, and stoicism can help us navigate them. But you bring up a great point about balance and understanding - how do we find that middle ground between avoiding contention and standing up for truth? 🤔 I'd love to hear your thoughts on that!
@@stoicbond Contention Arrives whenver the False actions are appointed by the Narrative in challenging the Truth.
Truth which is the original state of its natural position inmoveable", Truth- as an Apple tree seed's is an apple tree, same as it is when it apple's, towards its future days. Unchangable by its first lineage chromosone, may have some differences in flavors and colors "but it is still an apple" as its original identification has become somewhat False through throgh the adaptation(Regulations) from its original state "the beginings of its History"
The False starts the contention the Challenging action".
The Truth puts the Balance back in place by regulating the False its action.
Both terms are Adjetives. They both must work together in the Balance of the Universal Law.
But willnever be Mastered by man. "will never happen in this dispensation as much as Science and Artificial intelligence wants to do so. "it is only Limited.
Example. If a tree branch gets cut by the misscomunication/misunderstanding from its first prior indication, "the First word(the Sign contract) only the truth can regulate the mistake that the False upholds "as its truth" in the Challenge.
Truth is inmoveable but can regulate and fix the tree branch by a special action(adjetive) healing the branch back into its original state but the wound would be noticeable(the wound is the indication of a False action that had taking place "the missunderstanding "the mistake")
only through understanding the False & Truth as Adjetives, one can begin to choose wether to act in Truth of False ways.
"If you think a Branch cant become heal look it up" Roses, Lizards tail can also work as an example.
Be Kind & Just with each other Lets Enjoy the mysteries of Life.
Be balance to Enjoy each other and the fruits of the World.
Music is TOO loud!!
The point of all these videos are to cultivate a stoic mindset--REGARDLESS of ones sex. All of these principles are for self reflection and growth.
@cureyourosity, thank you for your continued support and for bringing this important perspective. You're absolutely right-the core aim of these videos is to cultivate a Stoic mindset, applicable and beneficial regardless of one's sex. Stoicism is indeed about self-reflection, personal growth, and universal principles.
I apologize if the recent content suggested a narrower focus than intended. It's vital to remember and communicate that Stoic principles are universal. There will definitely be content addressing the male perspective as well, ensuring a balanced and inclusive approach. How do you think we can best integrate Stoic teachings into daily life for everyone, fostering a community of growth and understanding? Your thoughts and insights are greatly appreciated. 🌱📘
The comments need to chill xD yes these also apply to men and the channel could have included that but comparing it to andrew tate is ridiculous. Probably the channel just looked at their viewer statistics and picked the constellation that applied to the majority
logical, if you have 90% men viewers you put it so that it resonates with men, If I had 90% of followers from India I would talk about things about India.
As it is pointed out in the beginning, if you do not perceive harm, then there is none. It isn't about sex at all. It's about the stoic idea of simplicity and balance. If you are one of the women here who are commenting about it being sexist, you have a lot to learn on your journey. Be well.
It is interesting to see group think and identity politics surface so quickly simply by a little nudging. Hopefully this lesson will be the catalyst for self reflection and ego taming for some.
I admit, it was a clever rhetorical framing as a preemptive device of defense. 😉
And part of stoic is to not be quick to judge and to see both sides clearly but here we are snakpak. If you cannot see how the wording of this video reeks of hypocrisy and an underlying scent of misogyny then you too have a lot to learn on your journey. Be well too… truly.
I feel like these red flags are flags that should be avoided by both men and women. I don't like how he keeps referring to "as seen in a woman". I've known men that have many of these red flags as well. I think that this video should have been titled differently to include both sexes.
"Especially in women" repeated throughout. Implication being that in men these traits are not as destructive or harmful or that men don't have them? This is disappointing, because stoics were more than others willing to look at women as equal. Traits described in this video are equally seen in all genders, so pigeonholing women is coming across as misogynist. This is not a stoic approach. I am unsubscribing.
All stoics must be farmers then eh??
this is read by a computer generatet voice, isn't it?
Hey, Ivonedine! No, this is not generated by computer. It is an actual human voice! :)
Why not just say what to look out for in all individuals since this can be applied to all? Just because a lot of your viewers may be men you just lost majority of your female viewers now
Exactly. Guys like Ryan Holiday credit Stoic women in history for insights and he says his wife is the original stoic in their family. A real man gives credit where it´s due and treats both genders equally--no matter what.
I think the reason why this video is talking about women is because women in the Ancient Rome did not have rights and the same thing goes with the Roman Catholic then...
Yeah you should have lost me at especially in women but I hung on to see if there were any gems to self reflect about lol these are red flags in both sexes. I don’t know if you’re saying this for views but this just reeks of hypocrisy and a slight flavor of misogyny 😊
It's a pity; some men never learn. Maybe it's a fault in their character. Be watchful women.
@JoNellAmburgey-lh5cb, thank you for clarifying your point. You're absolutely right. The focus should also be on men recognizing and learning from these red flags in relationships. Stoicism teaches us about self-awareness and the importance of learning from our experiences.
Men, like anyone else, can benefit from being attentive to these warning signs and using them as opportunities for personal growth and better decision-making. From a Stoic perspective, how do you think men can be encouraged to become more self-aware and learn from their relationship experiences? Your insights are valuable for fostering a more comprehensive discussion on personal growth and awareness. 🌱📘
Why is this only about women. These traits are problematic in any partner… not very stoic and unbiased of you…
Hi @viannedemirel! Thanks for watching the video and sharing your thoughts. I appreciate your feedback and I totally agree with you that these traits can be problematic in any partner, regardless of gender. 🤔
However, as a UA-camr, I try to focus on specific topics and in this video, I chose to highlight these traits in women because they are often overlooked or dismissed. 🙅♀️
But I'm curious, do you think stoicism has any specific warnings or red flags for men? 🤔 I'd love to hear your thoughts on that. Let's continue this discussion! 💬
This video could have been done tastefully and logically, but the creator chose to be sloppy with his labeling and contextualization.
Perhaps, if the creator matures some and learns how to create intellectually balanced material, I will consider resubscribing. For now, I cannot waste my time with a creator who has such intense cognitive limitations as he has demonstrated here. I encourage all who would like to maintain the excellence of their logical minds to do the same. After all, the stoics believed we should prevent corrected and subpar information & people from dominating our time and thoughts.
Onto better material 🙂
@yerintaem, absolutely, I plan to address topics relevant to males in future content as well. It's important to provide a balanced view that resonates with everyone interested in Stoicism. And you're right-Stoicism guides us in maintaining a level-headed approach to critiques and perceptions. It teaches us not to take things too harshly but to use them as opportunities for reflection and growth. Do you have any specific topics or issues you'd like to see discussed from a Stoic perspective that would be beneficial for all viewers, regardless of gender? Your input is invaluable in shaping a more inclusive and thoughtful channel. 🌟📖
I agree it comes off extremely judgmental
Could’ve also been way shorter, it’s easy to make a half an hour vid with same few sentences repeated in different (or not so much considering limited vocabulary) way.
Basic knowledge, sloppy execution.
As a stoic I would avoid channels that “pour water” instead of providing actual knowledge- it’s another channel that goes for $ making a 30 min vid that could be 5-7 min vid.
Deception- isn’t that NOT stoic?
You made me hope I’d learn something new, now I feel like I wasted time.
Not recommended.
Should have said red flags in people - this whole channel now has an incel vibe 😂
@annak9646, I appreciate your feedback and apologize if the content gave an unintended impression. It was certainly not my aim to project an 'incel vibe.' Stoicism teaches us to be mindful of our intentions and how they are perceived by others.
Your suggestion to cover red flags in people, regardless of gender, is an excellent one. Rest assured, there will definitely be a video addressing red flags in men, aiming to provide a comprehensive view and to cover both worlds. In Stoicism, balance and fairness are key, and your input helps guide the channel towards that. What aspects or topics would you like to see included in the upcoming content about men? Your suggestions are always welcome and valued! 🌟📚
Why just women? These all apply to men. I haven’t unsubscribed , yet, but will with more content like this.
@laperlenoir, I appreciate your honesty and continued subscription. I apologize if the content seemed one-sided. The intention was not to single out women, but rather to address a specific topic of interest to some viewers. However, I understand the need for balance and inclusivity.
I assure you that future content will include perspectives on men as well, ensuring a more comprehensive approach. The Stoic principles we discuss are indeed universally applicable, regardless of gender. How would you like to see these principles applied in future videos to ensure a balanced and insightful exploration of topics? Your feedback is invaluable. 🌟📚
Who hurt you? 🤷♀️
A very judgemental episode, so disappointing.
Sexist much? No longer following.😡
@NightMystique13, I'm truly sorry to hear that you felt the content was sexist. It was never my intention to convey such a message. Stoicism teaches us the importance of balance, empathy, and understanding different perspectives, and I regret if this was not reflected in the video.
I assure you that upcoming content will cover both male and female perspectives, aiming for a well-rounded approach that aligns with the universal principles of Stoicism. Your feedback is crucial, and I hope to provide more inclusive and thoughtful content moving forward. 🌟📚
Don't try and please everyone my friend, don't burn yourself out trying to help others with their deluded emotional opinions. Wait that reminds me of a sex that makes the majority of their choices based off emotion instead of intellect! Oops I spoke the truth so now I'm a sexist too! Here's the proof: this woman or whatever it identifies as, who can barely create a functional sentence, resorts to name calling instead of a proper debate about the topic based off pure what? Emotion!
These apply to MEN as well. Stop being sexist.
That isn't very stoic of you. I'm sure he will do a counter video for women.
@@Bhodisatvas it is very unstoic to react to anyone and blame it on their sex.
@cindyrhodes, I apologize if the content came across as sexist - that was certainly not the intention. You're absolutely right, the principles discussed can and do apply to men as well. Stoicism teaches us about universality in virtues and vices, irrespective of gender.
I assure you that future content will address similar themes concerning men, ensuring a balanced and comprehensive perspective. It's important to me that the channel reflects the inclusive and universal nature of Stoic philosophy. How do you suggest we approach future topics to maintain this balance? Your feedback is invaluable. 🌟📚
@stoicbond Thank you so much for your perfect response! Stoic Bond is the FIRST Stoic channel that I discovered, and I always check for your videos. My hope for your channel is for it to be THE channel for Stoicism.
In the past couple of weeks, I have seen a number of "stoic" videos that either pertained specifically to XY chromosomes, and one of them even suggested how an older Stoic male should look for a younger female as a partner. Seriously, I know many older men who do NOT need to breed, as well as young women! These topics are not really Stoic-related, but sexist rubbish.
As pertaining to stereotypical sexism, Stoicism is the PERFECT spiritual path for men and women to learn how to control their hormone-driven urges, but the teachings need not be based in sexist talk.
I truly appreciate all that you do. Thank you. 💐 🌹 As for any suggestion that I might have..... just staying true to the core of Stoicism, in my opinion, is the right way, and that is exactly what you have stated as your intention. Thank you so much.
Is this channel a Stoicism channel or an Andrew Tate channel? Why specially women? And what does this have to do with Stoicism? Unsubscribe👎🏻
Lol and the women loose, their, minds.....
How about a list for women, to warn them about men. Also, why is there always a MALE voice?
Make a stoic video channel with your voice, then.
Single huh? 😂
There's a million other channels with women speaking, I'd highly suggest you watch any of those instead if you're unpleasant with this channels content.
ONE RED FLAG IS WHEN A CHANNEL SAYS LIKE THE VIDEO PRIOR TO WATCHING 😅😅😅 LOL
Satan is the father of lies ....liars won't inherit the kingdom of heaven...
@bryanfrombuffalo7685, I appreciate your candidness! My apologies if the question seemed out of place. It's meant to encourage a revisit to Stoic teachings and their relevance in our modern context. Your perspective is valuable, and it's these discussions that keep the essence of philosophy alive and evolving. If you have any thoughts or experiences related to Stoicism, or even constructive feedback, please feel free to share. Your engagement helps us all grow and learn. 🙏🏼
This a test for stoic females and they seem to be failing, any slight criticism and the comments section loses it. It is interesting to witness how their egos take it so personally.
"MeN are lOgiCal, but WomEns are emoTionAl." 🤣🤣🤣
Sometimes I pity the calm of folks with simple thoughts or minds.
@Bhodisatvas, your observation brings an interesting Stoic perspective to the discussion. Stoicism teaches us about the importance of equanimity in the face of criticism or praise and the value of controlling our reactions. The idea that criticism can be a test of one's Stoic virtues, like temperance and resilience, is thought-provoking.
It's also a reminder that Stoicism values the development of a strong, yet humble ego-one that is capable of receiving feedback without losing its balance. In your view, how can we all, regardless of gender, use Stoic principles to better process and learn from criticism without taking it personally? Your insights could help further a constructive dialogue on personal growth and emotional intelligence. 🌟📚
@@stoicbond I think a first good step would be for people to detach themselves from group identities and labels. Gender is just one of a myriad of traits that make up the human experience and the mind yet these days humans will adhere to the ideology of the group rather than investigate deeper to discover meanings that may actually help them in the long run.
Maybe it is a sociological thing where females must seem to appear more 'virtuous' than males and therefore feel the need to signal their offence to non virtuous behavior more strongly. Maybe females have a higher ego threshold because they are pandered to on social media more than males and therefore feel perceived attacks more strongly?
I do find it very interesting that just this one video on your channel has made you be compared to Andrew Tate and your male viewers being called 'incels', it really does show the group think that is prevalent in western society today.
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