And they wonder why everyone is antisocial and afraid of vulnerability. People sharing is considered a sign of bad behavior and a red flag. Absolutely wild lmao.
Being brave enough to be authentic is so true. Its intimidating, vulnerable and difficult to be fully authentic. Especially for those who feel like they have to proof themselves.
Not really ,you just open the doors to be manipulated by the bigger predator. Honesty doesn't deliver,lies on other hand,like this women wearing make up talking about astral attraction 😂
She has some good things to say but to be honest with you, it isn’t going to work if you keep playing these mind games. Yes these things work, but you should actually be living like how you’re presenting yourself. If you want your time to be scarce, don’t pretend you’re busy, go join clubs, groups, activities, etc. so you’re actually a busy person. No one likes fake people that play games, and people also don’t like gross arrogance. Be humble and a good valuable person and you’re good
you don't need to have a million activities to be busy. Just working on yourself daily takes your time and your patience and most of the time requires solitude. Being scarce doesn't necessarily mean you are outside doing everything
yeah and there’s people who is naturally like that and charismatic but that’s bc it is how they really are, there’s no need for the rest of us to lose our identities bc of wanting to be mysterious and sexy
@@missqueen20_ It's like a drug, a person gets a high for some time, thinking that they suddenly hit the genetic lottery and behaving like an emperor or empress, but when there is no validation from others then it all falls flat like a house of cards. I guess that the final objective of these techniques is to allow a man to get only fans type of women to miss him because of how much he behaves like an emperor, but sadly she won't even notice geeks playing the hard to get game.
Confidence is one thing, but the way you hold the space for us and make us feel so goddam calm (at least me personally) is immense! queen of transparency, tranquility and tenacity! 💃🏼❤️🔥✨
This is my first time listening to @HouseOfHighbrations Highbrations and are absolutely right. She exudes it to the maximum. Just listening to her voice and tone and her delivery was very relaxing and extremely effective. It hit me hard when I started pondering over my bad habits and mistakes because she was able to have that effect on me. Can't wait to listen to more of her videos! May God give her more strength, knowledge and ability to do what she does for the sake of bettering humanity one person at a time.
16:18 this is valid. i saw a psychic and she said for us women. we need to take care of ourselves. women cling onto men for money and love. if we’re able to provide for ourselves and give all that material to ourselves and love to ourselves, that’s when we’re able to find something divine.
So true about overtalking. When I catch myself in that somewhat spastic moment of jabbering and get silent and still, I find my focus and clarity of the life I want. And your point of having your table set is powerful. When we feel our inner peace and power the choices we make are perfect for us.
My absolute favorite channel. You are so relatable and comfortable. You don't sugarcoat things and tell them how they are, making me feel your content is more valuable. I can't even begin to say how much this channel has helped me, but I want to thank you! You have truly changed my life in an invaluable way.
Because of you, I have been working on myself all summer, giving the self love lots of attention,. I am in a fantastic place now, and I will keep at it. Finding your videos at the beginning of summer was the best. I was going through a rough patch but it seems like nothing now as I have put myself first. I love how you express yourself, and your accent is the best. This video was so full of amazing content and I am so grateful and very happy. Thank you!!
wow all her videos are going viral! 114k subs in only like a year,, i only discovered her this year when she was at 38k - her energy is literally manifesting her subscribers- she is already a multiple 6 figure earner- this girl is all sorted out! got her life totally figured out!!
I've watched many videos on this topic, but the content often didn't sit right with me. However, after finishing your video, I don't regret clicking on it one bit. You are an incredibly eloquent person who speaks with common sense, and I appreciate how your ideas are sequential and complement each other it feels like what you say goes straight to my head. I am sure you are irresistibly attractive yourself Thank you for sharing this valuable knowledge.
Hey, I’m a 21 man watching your channel from Texas. I grew up with New York Italian/Puerto Rican culture prominent on respect, work ethic, and romance. Also being from the south, being a southern gentleman is something I take seriously. Don’t get my wrong, I’m still a young buck and I can get rowdy at times but I really want to refine my character into being more of a “God Tier” man as you said. From a woman’s perspective, or even your very own unique one , could you create a video for us gentlemen to listen to that sheds light on the topic? I also have a 2.5 year relationship that I would love some advice on. I want to really tap into her heart, mind, n spirit & anything else I don’t even know I should be tapping into! 😂 Hope to hear from you soon! Keep up the great work! Peace ✌🏽
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Very true, I used to go to a church and I hung out a lot with the other college students there. One day they asked where we all wanted to go and eat, I mentioned that I didn't want to go to panda express because I didnt like their food, people looked at me and just ignored me saying "Ya, we're going to panda express" I never went back to that church. Now almost all of them have approached me asking me to come back, it's been months since that day.
Awesome video, it's worthy of a sub definitely xD I can recommend the book called 'Chase No More: The Path To Success and Love'. Because ultimately, women love successful men, don't they xD But seriously, the book teaches you about some secret psychology tricks about dating life and managing meaningful relationships. Not to mention how writer shares his own experiences and gives you clear tips on every aspect of life: wealth, self-improvement, success, men's fashion and style, emotional intelligence and so on.
I’ve stumble upon your videos this morning! You are a breeze of fresh air my darling! Keep showing up the queen you are and change lives the way only you do
So this is where i struggle I agree that being silent is really important. I believe that we don’t need to share everything with everyone I just think that sometimes we also make things overly complicated - sometimes you do just need to say what’s on your mind in a moment. Sometimes I just need to express it - journaling and talking to myself isn’t what I need… I need to express it to that specific person
watched this video twice already and her voice is sooo soothing and so calming that it really makes you want to come back again and again to watch it cuz everytime you watch it you learn something new. 🧡🧡🧡
@@HouseOfHighbrations oh no I'm so sorry, i was watching a nyc apartment tour which was in my "watch later" section along with one of your videos, but before I commented on that video it auto played and I posted the comment on this video 😭
Your content is Gold. Every video is like a masterclass on self-respect and of course self-love. You are educating us girls (and guys) and I am super grateful! ❤
I want to just give an important side note towards the idea "oversharing is really a sign of loneliness" That might be true for neurotypical people, but there is an element to neurodivergent people especially with ADHD, or milder spectrum of autism (and probably many more) that naturally leads into some form of oversharing, that might not be common, but is normal for that type of brain function. So if you don't feel, like your tendency of overtalking/oversharing comes from a place of insecurity/loneliness, do not judge yourself too harshly, as it just can be part of who you are, and that's fine.
Love the part about shiny things. In our context it's like even if you take away all our shiny expensive musical instruments and leave us with low grade instruments, we'd still be able make something amazing because we have the fire and passion to do so. Also we have practiced pretty much half of our lives, haha
Thank you for telling about your New York experience!! I had something similar: I went on a date with this guy who drove 200km to take me to the prettiest restaurant on the lake. The view was amazing and dinner was good. At the end of the night he tried to kiss me but I politely turned him down because I don't kiss on a first date (my boundary). When I told this to my sister she said something like "you should have kissed him after all that effort. I would have kissed a man if he did that to me". And I started to feel kinda guilty for not reciprocating the kiss. Today I can say that I do not regret embodying my boundary. So thank you for sharing about your dating experience and talking about "shiny things". I really needed to hear that!!
Why are you even dating then? If not kissing is a religious thing then you really shouldn't be dating. Unless you didn't really like him enough to break the rules for him
Your accent is so beautiful, I could listen to your voice all day hahaha I'm doing crochet atm so it's a perfect background to get these information into my subconscious mind ;)
So when I used to go on dates i would not ask about their ex or my ex because frankly, I'm not here to talk about that, leave that for your therapist. Or When these men would say "Oh my ex was like " and I cut it off completely I tell them I'm not here to learn about their ex. I feel like that is a hot topic to bring out to "break the ice" but again we want to have a feel for each other. I like your point of view. Thank you for this video ❤
This was much needed video. I can relate so many things yog said and its an eye opener. Thank you so much Bobbie for guiding people with so much of clarity. I would love to speak to you any day because as per my situation, I need guidance how to manifest correctly and change my reality. Even if this is difficult still i know i will speak to you soon because I want it.. 😊 you actually can impress any guy with your skill set and how such confidence we can develop constantly everyday is what I need to build upon, fulfilled in my own skill
I agree with all of this apart from people who overshare intimate details about their lives to people they've just met do so because they're trying to gauge who gives a sympathy response, and whoever does give into the pity party response tends to be the one that individual hyper focuses on because they're easier to manipulate. Be very cautious of over sharers when you've only just met them or when you barely know each other. If you're an over sharer, stop. People have to earn those stories about you. They're not given for free.
Some people really are just trying to connect with others. Not everyone is out here trying to manipulate everyone. Some people have gone through some deep and dark shit that you couldn't imagine. See them as a lonely and broken child trying to heal in a way. Humans are social. We want to find people who relate, give us advice, been through or know someone who is or has gone through similar and yes, show us sympathy and empathy, but that doesn't mean they're trying to manipulate the one who shows it.
@@LeahmariuhhhhI hate to tell you this, but you're in denial. I was too. An "empath" or trying hard to connect is trying to manipulate too. Once tied to an outcome then it's not innocent.
@@oliver7011 lmfao while being on a video with a title such as this…. Seems you’re still in denial. That better than thou attitude, ain’t it. We are fucking humans bruh. We are meant to connect and we have emotions that want to be expressed and we want validation and to resonate. My children acting out in certain “undesirable” ways, is raw emotion. They’re not trying to manipulate me lol. I see it the same with adults. That’s the beauty of this world. We are all allowed our own perspectives.
What is the “manipulative” outcome someone looking for meaningful cconnection would want…? I agree with the above commentary that some people overshare simply because they are lonely and they crave connection, not trying to “gain” anything from anyone Yet it is fair that people should not over share becausenot everyone can be trusted.
That is so true about subtle leading of the man. I had a boyfriend in college who would rub my feet after a long day of work and I would fall asleep to it. He showed me love like no other man ever has.
This is such a great video! My vibes were so high(brating) while watching this that i ended up watching it twice in the same day 😭💞 and it felt like having an actual meaningful conversation with a bestie even though I'm literally so new to your channel 🤭 ily! We would love more videos about this topic just for the Highbrations!
This just landed on my recommended page and I instantly thought that Billie Ray girl from Tiktok started doing self development videos and got a British accent lmao. Really like the content though! My kind of jam.
As a man I can tell you that I feel depleted from sexual exchanges. It is a bit arrogant to tell women that they are getting depleted from it and that they need to therefore guard it. Gives men a bad rap (as if they were vampires or something). It is a two-way exchange.
Yes.. men in this day have lost the art of chivalry I find.. but I am good on my own.. would love to attract a God tier man when the timing is right ♥️🌹
Genuine question, I agree with what she said about what good man could and should do,those are great ideas: courting her, making her feel safe, protected, anticipating needs etc. but what about a woman and what she could and should do ? What’s that look like? What makes a high value woman in your eyes?🤔 20:32
Just want to say that I got accepted for an internship that is very hard to be accepted at in my country 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'll do my best to be employed as a regular employee💘💘thank you so much Bobby 😞💞
Ooohhhh. I'm anxiously waiting for the 100k and was wondering why you weren't uploading. Just love your accent and everything you say is just so calm and soothing. You really have an aura and that's very attractive.
Greta video and great points. Only disagreement is with the sexual exchange where you said it leaves the woman depleted and the man energized, maybe other guys are different but after sleeping with a woman I’m drained and sometimes they can keep going and going and are full of life and energy while my own feels drained.
I want to congratulate you for standing in your feminine power, guarding your feminine power, your spiritual soul gifts. You have enriched yourself 10 folds before God, you are the child of the living God, you are a partaker of His kingdom. Thank you for being authentic!!! Congratulations!!!
Hot girl advice is so cute: “Be silent…and scarce. Don’t care if they don’t agree with you.” In practice if most women act this way then they will get ghosted. I’m in a committed relationship and I love her when she “overshares” and talk as much as she wants. This makes her feel better, lets her feel heard and understood. And we are closer as a result. Good relationships are based on openness and showing a little vulnerability. Honesty leads to trust and trust becomes genuine security ❤
Remember to check in on YOUR Ego, you are also not superior to the person you are not impressed by. Its interesting when the Ego points its finger outwards, and speaks unconsciously about its narrow viewpoint of 'others'.
I think this opens with potentially toxic / divorcee / girl-boss advice which is seriously not working (at all) for women... women bring AMAZING power to negotiations and relationships, many of which were also covered in this video.
It is an energy exchange. Both participants are left depleted and provide pleasure but if there is any “life force” that is being given and taken… it’s the male secretion.
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8:35 "oversharing is really a sign of loneliness, because you're trying to expedite that intimacy" That hit me hard 💖 Thank you & love you 🥰
Love you ❤️
Me too.. resonated so well.
A person with depth will look overstating to a shallow person.
Damn I felt this.
And they wonder why everyone is antisocial and afraid of vulnerability. People sharing is considered a sign of bad behavior and a red flag. Absolutely wild lmao.
Being brave enough to be authentic is so true. Its intimidating, vulnerable and difficult to be fully authentic. Especially for those who feel like they have to proof themselves.
Not really ,you just open the doors to be manipulated by the bigger predator. Honesty doesn't deliver,lies on other hand,like this women wearing make up talking about astral attraction 😂
She has some good things to say but to be honest with you, it isn’t going to work if you keep playing these mind games. Yes these things work, but you should actually be living like how you’re presenting yourself. If you want your time to be scarce, don’t pretend you’re busy, go join clubs, groups, activities, etc. so you’re actually a busy person. No one likes fake people that play games, and people also don’t like gross arrogance. Be humble and a good valuable person and you’re good
So real
you don't need to have a million activities to be busy. Just working on yourself daily takes your time and your patience and most of the time requires solitude. Being scarce doesn't necessarily mean you are outside doing everything
yeah and there’s people who is naturally like that and charismatic but that’s bc it is how they really are, there’s no need for the rest of us to lose our identities bc of wanting to be mysterious and sexy
@@missqueen20_ It's like a drug, a person gets a high for some time, thinking that they suddenly hit the genetic lottery and behaving like an emperor or empress, but when there is no validation from others then it all falls flat like a house of cards. I guess that the final objective of these techniques is to allow a man to get only fans type of women to miss him because of how much he behaves like an emperor, but sadly she won't even notice geeks playing the hard to get game.
I love u , good people still exist
Confidence is one thing, but the way you hold the space for us and make us feel so goddam calm (at least me personally) is immense! queen of transparency, tranquility and tenacity! 💃🏼❤️🔥✨
Yay love u 🫶🏽🎉💘🌈❤️🩷🎀
@@HouseOfHighbrations love you more! ✨
This is my first time listening to @HouseOfHighbrations Highbrations and are absolutely right. She exudes it to the maximum. Just listening to her voice and tone and her delivery was very relaxing and extremely effective. It hit me hard when I started pondering over my bad habits and mistakes because she was able to have that effect on me. Can't wait to listen to more of her videos! May God give her more strength, knowledge and ability to do what she does for the sake of bettering humanity one person at a time.
16:18 this is valid. i saw a psychic and she said for us women. we need to take care of ourselves. women cling onto men for money and love. if we’re able to provide for ourselves and give all that material to ourselves and love to ourselves, that’s when we’re able to find something divine.
You have disbelieved in God if you went to a psychic or soothsayer.
No
“I saw a psychic”😂 I swear women are truly still children inside
We have our own life force (Semen Retention). So not valid to 100%
So true about overtalking. When I catch myself in that somewhat spastic moment of jabbering and get silent and still, I find my focus and clarity of the life I want. And your point of having your table set is powerful. When we feel our inner peace and power the choices we make are perfect for us.
That. S true . Over sharing is also the loneliness
My absolute favorite channel. You are so relatable and comfortable. You don't sugarcoat things and tell them how they are, making me feel your content is more valuable. I can't even begin to say how much this channel has helped me, but I want to thank you! You have truly changed my life in an invaluable way.
❤️ YOU did that 🫶🏽🎀
I am from India and presently staying alone in USA. Listening to you feels so much better ✨
Because of you, I have been working on myself all summer, giving the self love lots of attention,. I am in a fantastic place now, and I will keep at it. Finding your videos at the beginning of summer was the best. I was going through a rough patch but it seems like nothing now as I have put myself first. I love how you express yourself, and your accent is the best. This video was so full of amazing content and I am so grateful and very happy. Thank you!!
25 minutesssss the world is healing!!!!
I am obsessed with your voice and mannerisms
wow all her videos are going viral! 114k subs in only like a year,, i only discovered her this year when she was at 38k - her energy is literally manifesting her subscribers- she is already a multiple 6 figure earner- this girl is all sorted out! got her life totally figured out!!
the end, the way you unite all the ideas and give them a bigger and deeper sense is just astonishing
I've watched many videos on this topic, but the content often didn't sit right with me. However, after finishing your video, I don't regret clicking on it one bit. You are an incredibly eloquent person who speaks with common sense, and I appreciate how your ideas are sequential and complement each other it feels like what you say goes straight to my head. I am sure you are irresistibly attractive yourself
Thank you for sharing this valuable knowledge.
Hey, I’m a 21 man watching your channel from Texas. I grew up with New York Italian/Puerto Rican culture prominent on respect, work ethic, and romance. Also being from the south, being a southern gentleman is something I take seriously. Don’t get my wrong, I’m still a young buck and I can get rowdy at times but I really want to refine my character into being more of a “God Tier” man as you said. From a woman’s perspective, or even your very own unique one , could you create a video for us gentlemen to listen to that sheds light on the topic?
I also have a 2.5 year relationship that I would love some advice on. I want to really tap into her heart, mind, n spirit & anything else I don’t even know I should be tapping into! 😂
Hope to hear from you soon! Keep up the great work!
Peace ✌🏽
Wow! Well said, being authentic is a POWER. Your body is your sacred temple. Thank you!
You and Erik at The Power of I Am.. are the best on youtube for authenticity. Yin and Yang...bad cop and good cop of self concept and manifestation.
Agreed
I love them both. 🎉
0:01 Talking about being irresistibly attractive, you are so irresistibly attractive
Clearly it works 😂
More like deluded
You’ve never slept with anyone attractive clearly
If she was an uggo we probs wouldn't have clicked
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
You need to stop with this, empower people with things that truly help, please
That book is shit
People like you are always posting these comments to advertise this I see it everywhere. Stop trying so hard
Very true, I used to go to a church and I hung out a lot with the other college students there. One day they asked where we all wanted to go and eat, I mentioned that I didn't want to go to panda express because I didnt like their food, people looked at me and just ignored me saying "Ya, we're going to panda express" I never went back to that church. Now almost all of them have approached me asking me to come back, it's been months since that day.
Awesome video, it's worthy of a sub definitely xD I can recommend the book called 'Chase No More: The Path To Success and Love'. Because ultimately, women love successful men, don't they xD But seriously, the book teaches you about some secret psychology tricks about dating life and managing meaningful relationships. Not to mention how writer shares his own experiences and gives you clear tips on every aspect of life: wealth, self-improvement, success, men's fashion and style, emotional intelligence and so on.
I’ve stumble upon your videos this morning! You are a breeze of fresh air my darling! Keep showing up the queen you are and change lives the way only you do
So this is where i struggle I agree that being silent is really important. I believe that we don’t need to share everything with everyone
I just think that sometimes we also make things overly complicated - sometimes you do just need to say what’s on your mind in a moment. Sometimes I just need to express it - journaling and talking to myself isn’t what I need… I need to express it to that specific person
Amazing video, I didn’t expect anything but was pleasantly surprised
watched this video twice already and her voice is sooo soothing and so calming that it really makes you want to come back again and again to watch it cuz everytime you watch it you learn something new. 🧡🧡🧡
Thank you for this masterpiece. You never failed to deliver
This is seriously one of the best nyc apartment i have ever seen.. Like girl the views are worth millions❤
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@@HouseOfHighbrations oh no I'm so sorry, i was watching a nyc apartment tour which was in my "watch later" section along with one of your videos, but before I commented on that video it auto played and I posted the comment on this video 😭
I absoultely love your self awareness. You are a 1 in a million girl
You are a magical person who brings so much hope to this world. Thank you for this video.
Not to take credit for this gem of a video, but I totally attracted it into my experience at the perfect time. Thanks empress.
Your content is Gold. Every video is like a masterclass on self-respect and of course self-love. You are educating us girls (and guys) and I am super grateful! ❤
I want to just give an important side note towards the idea "oversharing is really a sign of loneliness" That might be true for neurotypical people, but there is an element to neurodivergent people especially with ADHD, or milder spectrum of autism (and probably many more) that naturally leads into some form of oversharing, that might not be common, but is normal for that type of brain function. So if you don't feel, like your tendency of overtalking/oversharing comes from a place of insecurity/loneliness, do not judge yourself too harshly, as it just can be part of who you are, and that's fine.
agreed! if someone judges you for oversharing, create that absence because they don’t deserve your authenticity
Love the part about shiny things. In our context it's like even if you take away all our shiny expensive musical instruments and leave us with low grade instruments, we'd still be able make something amazing because we have the fire and passion to do so. Also we have practiced pretty much half of our lives, haha
Thank you for telling about your New York experience!! I had something similar: I went on a date with this guy who drove 200km to take me to the prettiest restaurant on the lake. The view was amazing and dinner was good. At the end of the night he tried to kiss me but I politely turned him down because I don't kiss on a first date (my boundary). When I told this to my sister she said something like "you should have kissed him after all that effort. I would have kissed a man if he did that to me". And I started to feel kinda guilty for not reciprocating the kiss. Today I can say that I do not regret embodying my boundary. So thank you for sharing about your dating experience and talking about "shiny things". I really needed to hear that!!
Did you get another date?
@@headbandassasin not yet because he had to leave for a 2 weeks trip in another continent lol but I'm sure there will be ;)
Why are you even dating then? If not kissing is a religious thing then you really shouldn't be dating. Unless you didn't really like him enough to break the rules for him
@@saramichaelashraf1961 hi, I said I don't kiss on the first date. that's it.
@@ziannahdehlle Why? And why the first date specifically? Do you treat a kiss as being intimacy?
I just found your video on my youtube homepage yesterday and now im obsessed
I haven’t heard of a well defined human being as you .. very intelligent concepts is a pleasure hearing your points of view.
Your accent is so beautiful, I could listen to your voice all day hahaha
I'm doing crochet atm so it's a perfect background to get these information into my subconscious mind ;)
Wow you are elevated, divine mindset to say the least. Took so many notes, thank you🙏
This just changed my whole life, thanks a lot Bobbie
Incredibly powerful messages. Very well delivered 🌞
The message on "oversharing" is absolute Gold!
This was so good and SO true. Trying to keep my mouth shut these days and listen more!
I love how in detail you explain everything, thank you so much.
It definitely takes courage to be authentic ! 🎉❤ Such a beautiful reflection
Came across this video today ! Omg i just love it !
So when I used to go on dates i would not ask about their ex or my ex because frankly, I'm not here to talk about that, leave that for your therapist. Or When these men would say "Oh my ex was like " and I cut it off completely I tell them I'm not here to learn about their ex. I feel like that is a hot topic to bring out to "break the ice" but again we want to have a feel for each other. I like your point of view. Thank you for this video ❤
So true about our feminine life-force! Thank you for the reminder ❤
This video is for the boys too. This advice not only improves women, but men also. Love this!!
I’m always so excited when you post, loved this video❤️
I think women will simply benefit from being more direct well directly saying they want a relationship vs a emotional experience
Any man trying to better themselves can take really good notes from this video. Specially 2nd half. Really enjoyed this one! XO
Thankyou
You just gave me a life lesson especially at the end of the video .
Congrats on reaching almost 100k subs! 👑
I initially clicked on this video because of your beauty but I stayed bc of your brillinace. That says everything for you ladies 😂
This was much needed video. I can relate so many things yog said and its an eye opener. Thank you so much Bobbie for guiding people with so much of clarity. I would love to speak to you any day because as per my situation, I need guidance how to manifest correctly and change my reality. Even if this is difficult still i know i will speak to you soon because I want it.. 😊 you actually can impress any guy with your skill set and how such confidence we can develop constantly everyday is what I need to build upon, fulfilled in my own skill
I agree with all of this apart from people who overshare intimate details about their lives to people they've just met do so because they're trying to gauge who gives a sympathy response, and whoever does give into the pity party response tends to be the one that individual hyper focuses on because they're easier to manipulate. Be very cautious of over sharers when you've only just met them or when you barely know each other.
If you're an over sharer, stop. People have to earn those stories about you. They're not given for free.
This!!!
Some people really are just trying to connect with others. Not everyone is out here trying to manipulate everyone. Some people have gone through some deep and dark shit that you couldn't imagine. See them as a lonely and broken child trying to heal in a way. Humans are social. We want to find people who relate, give us advice, been through or know someone who is or has gone through similar and yes, show us sympathy and empathy, but that doesn't mean they're trying to manipulate the one who shows it.
@@LeahmariuhhhhI hate to tell you this, but you're in denial. I was too. An "empath" or trying hard to connect is trying to manipulate too. Once tied to an outcome then it's not innocent.
@@oliver7011 lmfao while being on a video with a title such as this….
Seems you’re still in denial. That better than thou attitude, ain’t it. We are fucking humans bruh. We are meant to connect and we have emotions that want to be expressed and we want validation and to resonate.
My children acting out in certain “undesirable” ways, is raw emotion. They’re not trying to manipulate me lol.
I see it the same with adults. That’s the beauty of this world. We are all allowed our own perspectives.
What is the “manipulative” outcome someone looking for meaningful cconnection would want…? I agree with the above commentary that some people overshare simply because they are lonely and they crave connection, not trying to “gain” anything from anyone
Yet it is fair that people should not over share becausenot everyone can be trusted.
your voice is soo therapeutic and attractive i could listen to it for hours!!
I feel grateful to have come across you
This is gold..i keep listening to this n remind myself of my gold value❤
wow! This video had some real gems in it, things I never thought about /heard in regards to manifesting and stepping into a new reality. Thank you !!
This video was top tier! I love how you broke down everything and gave examples of the energy you were referring to! 😊
25 minutes of pure value 🔥💅
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why do i feel like i totally love you
Girl you got me into all this when all the others failed I LOVE YOU MOTHER BOBBIE❤ and there is no secrets for you to be naturally irresistible
I’m so glad I chose to click this video. About to re watch and write down key points. Thank you SO much for sharing your excellent advice.
That is so true about subtle leading of the man. I had a boyfriend in college who would rub my feet after a long day of work and I would fall asleep to it. He showed me love like no other man ever has.
And you’re speaking of him in the past tense? What happened?
@@Al-Sahem-Al-Ghulshe said ,he was "college" bf ,there are workplace bf, side/hook up bf ,marriage material bf ,learn the game ,wake up.
@@eternity.in.a.m0m3nt Eww so this reached incel men as well tf. Get away from here.
@@eternity.in.a.m0m3ntBro spilled all of red pill casually haha
This is such a great video! My vibes were so high(brating) while watching this that i ended up watching it twice in the same day 😭💞 and it felt like having an actual meaningful conversation with a bestie even though I'm literally so new to your channel 🤭 ily! We would love more videos about this topic just for the Highbrations!
Okay but when I found this, you had 444 comments. 👑
Excellent information! Reminders noted! Thank you 🙏🏻
My license plate says Empress. We use this word a lot in Jamaica 😊
This just landed on my recommended page and I instantly thought that Billie Ray girl from Tiktok started doing self development videos and got a British accent lmao.
Really like the content though! My kind of jam.
As a man I can tell you that I feel depleted from sexual exchanges. It is a bit arrogant to tell women that they are getting depleted from it and that they need to therefore guard it. Gives men a bad rap (as if they were vampires or something). It is a two-way exchange.
Yes.. men in this day have lost the art of chivalry I find.. but I am good on my own.. would love to attract a God tier man when the timing is right ♥️🌹
Fantastic. The ability to laugh at yourself speaks volume too?
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Genuine question, I agree with what she said about what good man could and should do,those are great ideas: courting her, making her feel safe, protected, anticipating needs etc. but what about a woman and what she could and should do ? What’s that look like? What makes a high value woman in your eyes?🤔 20:32
You’re very well spoken I wish you the best of luck with the content you produce
24:55 that made me emotional, you're so right. Thank you ♥️
Just want to say that I got accepted for an internship that is very hard to be accepted at in my country 😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ I'll do my best to be employed as a regular employee💘💘thank you so much Bobby 😞💞
Ooohhhh. I'm anxiously waiting for the 100k and was wondering why you weren't uploading. Just love your accent and everything you say is just so calm and soothing. You really have an aura and that's very attractive.
I really like your long videos. You are a pleasure to listen to! ❤
love this, expediting intimacy by saying too much
Omg, I took so many notes! This was a bible of self development
Share with the group?🥹🩷
Greta video and great points. Only disagreement is with the sexual exchange where you said it leaves the woman depleted and the man energized, maybe other guys are different but after sleeping with a woman I’m drained and sometimes they can keep going and going and are full of life and energy while my own feels drained.
Thank you for sharing this valuable message. You inspire me 💕
What an interesting person you are. Glad I found this channel.
I want to congratulate you for standing in your feminine power, guarding your feminine power, your spiritual soul gifts. You have enriched yourself 10 folds before God, you are the child of the living God, you are a partaker of His kingdom. Thank you for being authentic!!! Congratulations!!!
One of the best video on your channel. Thank you ❤
Thank you for the english subtitle, I'm french and you help me so much in life !! Love you so much 🫶🏻
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@@HouseOfHighbrations 💜💜💜
11:24 You're right! Confidence is always attractive.
Great video . Thank you
Thank you I needed this today
Hot girl advice is so cute: “Be silent…and scarce. Don’t care if they don’t agree with you.” In practice if most women act this way then they will get ghosted. I’m in a committed relationship and I love her when she “overshares” and talk as much as she wants. This makes her feel better, lets her feel heard and understood. And we are closer as a result. Good relationships are based on openness and showing a little vulnerability. Honesty leads to trust and trust becomes genuine security ❤
new here , wonderfully said . Golden Nuggets . Another beautiful channel to add to my backpack in this daily life ! 💛
Remember to check in on YOUR Ego, you are also not superior to the person you are not impressed by. Its interesting when the Ego points its finger outwards, and speaks unconsciously about its narrow viewpoint of 'others'.
I think this opens with potentially toxic / divorcee / girl-boss advice which is seriously not working (at all) for women... women bring AMAZING power to negotiations and relationships, many of which were also covered in this video.
Please make this a series❤️
It is an energy exchange. Both participants are left depleted and provide pleasure but if there is any “life force” that is being given and taken… it’s the male secretion.
I Wish Everyone True Love! ❤
I wanted to clap when you got to the part about sexual energy. Your points were amazing and I agree with everything you said.
Great content thank you .active listening always . Ben doing it for many years it works