So happy for sister that you have found love at last. A lot of the comments here were blaming you for studying, but they would not understand you unless they walk a mile in your shoes. ❤
My Hmong sisters, stop thinking divorce will ruin your children. You will ruin your children by choosing to stay in a toxic and or abusive marriage. Please find the courage to leave. Paub hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma, cov vivncaus aw.
To our Hmong woman.. Need to remember u are in control of your life. If he isn’t supportive spouse. It’s not bad to leave. By leaving your are surviving life.
Our community, our culture...we need to do better than our parent's generation. We need to teach our daughters that daughters are as valuable compared to our sons. We need to appreciate our daughters. We need to teach our daughters to leave an abusive relationship, an abusive spouse. We need to assure our daughters that our arms and our doors are always opened to welcome and accept them back. As men and fathers, we need to do better for our families, for our community. We cannot preach words and expect others to live by our standards, when we are doing the opposite. 🙏🙏🙏
Hais rau cov txiv dev pheej hais tias nej cov niam yau momo ab no, lawv hluas dua tej zaum ! Tabsis dhau txiv neej petsawg tus lawm ? Tsawg kawg ntshe 10 tus lawm pob thiaj txawj 2 qoj nej thiaj nyiam heev os.
Xh tshaj lug twb haistias, txiv neej tau ntsej muag vajtswv tab sis tau siab dev hos pojniam tau ntsej muag dev tiam sis tau siab vajtswv. Txiv neej lam tau ntsej muag thaum tseem muaj pojniam khov kho xwb, hnub twg pojniam khiav kiag rau neej tsa lawm ces txiv neej tau kiag ntsej muag dev. Pojniam mas thaum tseem muaj txiv ces tus cem thiab ntaus npaum li cas los ua dev leg los chawj tus txiv, tab sis hnub twg nws txiav txim siab kiag lawm ces nws tsis quaj tsis thov tus txiv li lawm.
Tus me niam tsev aw!! yus nyob yus tsis txhob ua siab zoo2 es tseem yuav zov niam yau tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob zov2 es niam yau hos koj kaws thiab os mog es yus hlub yus tus kheej nawb mog .
Why stay married to a person when you are practically on your own? When you accepted and approved of his niam yau, you became the doormat. No wonder others step all over you. You have no love and respect for yourself. Koj yog ib niag neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws. Lawv tsim thiab ntxub koj npaum ntawv los koj tseem muaj kev cia siab. You could've called the police for a stalker, but you let him hung around and peeked at him all night. The right response is move on when someone treated you like trash.
Ua li cas mloog kj coj dad neeg txiv siab phem no es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os niam lau ,kv tu ua ib zuag neeg tsis zoo es rov mus ua zaub ob lov cas tseem ham yam tsis zoo thiab os tu2 😢kg li os
I don’t get you sister. You said that you don’t want your kids to be like you an orphan but they are like you. Your husband is not even there. So what is the different?
Cas yuav dhuav cov niag poj niam ruam zoo li no ua luaj li lau. Zaj tas zaj tuaj li os. Tsis txhob tuaj nroo nroo txoj nej tej niag kev tu siab ko li os. Yus nros yus txoj kev ruam ces kav tsis nyob raws yus txoj kev ruam. Txhob xav hais tias yus ua tus siab zoo zoo kom kwj twj neej tsa qhuas yus no os. Luag tsuas nyhos yus xwb vim luag tsis ruam li yus. Lwm tiam es mus thov ntaub thov ntawv los ua neeg kom ntse mi ntsis thiaj tsis nkim niam txiv lub zog tus hlob.
What the hell sister, you have endured enough pain, heartaches, disappointment and suffering, and sacrifices. You were sister, mother, father, best friend, to your brother's. Your husband never truly love you. You were nothing but just a doormat. He lied and cheated during your whole marriage. He deserves and belongs in prison. He married his affair mistress and abandoned you and your children. What the hell do you still want him for? Why the hell did you bail him out of jail for. Do you not have children or better things to do with your money than to used to bail that S.O.B. out. You should've listened to your brother and divorced him.
Tus niam tsev aw....niag txiv dev ko thian nws niag maum dev nkawv ces sib phim xwb os....kav tsij muab nws tso mus es mus nrhiav tus tshiab los hlub koj lawm xwb txhob quav ntsej niag dev thawj thiab ko lawm.
Your dad was paying child support therefore your mother and stepdad should paid for your brother’s wedding. ncawv muab nyiaj child support noj tas nkawv tsis xav them nqes nyab tsis yog lawm nawb.
I should feel sorry for u but I dont. U grew up in America & have a choice but chose to stay in that toxic relationship & let him coninue to abuse u. U stayed for ur kids was ur main reason, but how is this better than what ur parents did? Even after u divorced, u continue to let him control u. Ur children are the only ones suffered.
Dont blamed staying in your toxic relationship because of the kids. That's a lame excused. Leave and be a mom to your kids if you don't want them to be like u and your siblings. You don't need a man to fulfilled your life. smfh
It's easier said than done, brother. Some children who grew up in a broken home are more fragile when it comes to being assertive about their life choices. They have so many scars that they don't want their children to experience as they did.
If I were your boyfriend/current husband, I would have dumped you when you couldn’t make up your mind about your ex-husband. Tsis yog Koj lub siab tawv, yog koj tsis muaj siab xwb. You are very confused and absent minded. I got frustrated listening to this story. 🤦♀️
I’m glad you found your happy ending. I hope your second husband stays true to you. But don’t do too much for your children. Take care of yourself first so you can care for others.
This dude is just mad because he knows he threw someone nice away. Now he got to lay in the bed he made. "A man's trash is another man's treasure" which is true.
That ex husband doesn’t love anyone but himself. When he realizes he lost you, he used his tears to guilt trip you. Glad you didn’t fall for his tricks. He got what he deserved
The title is incorrect, tsis yog poj niam siab tawv os. Twb yog poj niam tag kev lawm vim tus txiv mus yuav niam yuav lawm. Kuv paub tias tus niam tsev didn’t want her kids to go through what she and her siblings went through. Being so weak with no confidence, her ex husband trampled on her pride, love and loyalty. At the end when he divorced her, she has no choice but to move forward. Ultimately I’m glad she found someone that loves her and happiness.
Just because you came from an ugly toxic family doesn't mean you should tolerate your ex-husband as well. He was emotionally abused you, manipulated, mistreated, cheated on you, etc. the whole marriage. You couldn't love yourself properly because he didn't do a good job at taking care of your well-being. Your ex-husband left you for another version of himself, lol. Thank him and his wife for letting you go. You deserve a love story of your own!
I guess I thought you'd be here forever Another illusion I chose to create You don't know what you got until it's gone And I found out a little too late I was acting as if you were lucky to have me Doin' you a favor I hardly knew you were there But then you were gone and it all was wrong Had no idea how much I cared Now being without you Takes a lot of getting used to Should learn to live with it But I don't want to Being without you It's all a big mistake Instead of getting easier It's the hardest thing to take I'm addicted to you, babe You're a hard habit to break You found someone else, you had every reason You know I can't blame you for runnin' to him Two people together but living alone I was spreading my love too thin
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So happy for sister that you have found love at last. A lot of the comments here were blaming you for studying, but they would not understand you unless they walk a mile in your shoes. ❤
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Agree with this ❤
Hlub tog nrav xwb ces tsis txog txij twg.
Yuav tsum cia cov txiv neej txawj mob siab thiab es thiaj li tsis khib peb cov poj niam thiab os yom
My Hmong sisters, stop thinking divorce will ruin your children. You will ruin your children by choosing to stay in a toxic and or abusive marriage. Please find the courage to leave. Paub hlub yus tus kheej thiab ma, cov vivncaus aw.
To our Hmong woman.. Need to remember u are in control of your life. If he isn’t supportive spouse. It’s not bad to leave. By leaving your are surviving life.
Yog kawg,zoo heev me viv ncaus pab koj siab mog👍👍
Our community, our culture...we need to do better than our parent's generation. We need to teach our daughters that daughters are as valuable compared to our sons. We need to appreciate our daughters. We need to teach our daughters to leave an abusive relationship, an abusive spouse. We need to assure our daughters that our arms and our doors are always opened to welcome and accept them back. As men and fathers, we need to do better for our families, for our community. We cannot preach words and expect others to live by our standards, when we are doing the opposite. 🙏🙏🙏
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nrog koj zoo siab mog txhob ntseeg tus ub no cia siab rau koj tus txiv hluas nraug xwb mog.
Hais rau cov txiv dev pheej hais tias nej cov niam yau momo ab no, lawv hluas dua tej zaum ! Tabsis dhau txiv neej petsawg tus lawm ? Tsawg kawg ntshe 10 tus lawm pob thiaj txawj 2 qoj nej thiaj nyiam heev os.
Peb los ib yam thiab os mog. Nyias hlub nyias tus kheej xwb mog me sister
Yog kawg! Nrog koj zoo siab thiab koj nrhiav rau tus ua hlub, hlub koj lawm os. Peb cov txiv tsev thov nes hlub hlub nes cov niam tsev nawb.
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Xh tshaj lug twb haistias, txiv neej tau ntsej muag vajtswv tab sis tau siab dev hos pojniam tau ntsej muag dev tiam sis tau siab vajtswv.
Txiv neej lam tau ntsej muag thaum tseem muaj pojniam khov kho xwb, hnub twg pojniam khiav kiag rau neej tsa lawm ces txiv neej tau kiag ntsej muag dev.
Pojniam mas thaum tseem muaj txiv ces tus cem thiab ntaus npaum li cas los ua dev leg los chawj tus txiv, tab sis hnub twg nws txiav txim siab kiag lawm ces nws tsis quaj tsis thov tus txiv li lawm.
You are not close to being brave. You stayed till he divorced you! 😅😂
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This one should be titled, "Txhob Cia Qub Poj Niam Yuav Txiv Es Yus Mam mus Quaj Vwm Loj Vwm Leg!" 😅😂
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Tus me niam tsev aw!! yus nyob yus tsis txhob ua siab zoo2 es tseem yuav zov niam yau tus me nyuam thiab tsis txhob zov2 es niam yau hos koj kaws thiab os mog es yus hlub yus tus kheej nawb mog .
Why stay married to a person when you are practically on your own? When you accepted and approved of his niam yau, you became the doormat.
No wonder others step all over you. You have no love and respect for yourself. Koj yog ib niag neeg tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws. Lawv tsim thiab ntxub koj npaum ntawv los koj tseem muaj kev cia siab. You could've called the police for a stalker, but you let him hung around and peeked at him all night.
The right response is move on when someone treated you like trash.
You're so pretty Niam Ntsuab Teev.
Tus me niam hluas cas koj txoj hmoo yuav phem li kuv thiab os me niam hluas cas yuav tu siab rau wb lub neej ua luaj li os los
Even if you go with your ex-husband, remember that he hasn't divorced his 2nd wife yet, too.
Ua li cas mloog kj coj dad neeg txiv siab phem no es yuav tu siab ua luaj li os niam lau ,kv tu ua ib zuag neeg tsis zoo es rov mus ua zaub ob lov cas tseem ham yam tsis zoo thiab os tu2 😢kg li os
Vaug koj Mas siab tiag cas yog kuv, tau koj,hlub,os
Ntxawg.xjooj..tus..tham.lhuas..nkauj..ces..jog..tus..tsis..lhub..koj..xwb..nawb..mog..es..txhob..tos..nws..li..kev..lhub..lawm..nawb..mog ❤️❤️🎉🎉💕💕🎉
U did what u did. As long you're happy at the end.
I don’t get you sister. You said that you don’t want your kids to be like you an orphan but they are like you. Your husband is not even there. So what is the different?
Exactly!
Cas yuav dhuav cov niag poj niam ruam zoo li no ua luaj li lau. Zaj tas zaj tuaj li os. Tsis txhob tuaj nroo nroo txoj nej tej niag kev tu siab ko li os. Yus nros yus txoj kev ruam ces kav tsis nyob raws yus txoj kev ruam. Txhob xav hais tias yus ua tus siab zoo zoo kom kwj twj neej tsa qhuas yus no os. Luag tsuas nyhos yus xwb vim luag tsis ruam li yus. Lwm tiam es mus thov ntaub thov ntawv los ua neeg kom ntse mi ntsis thiaj tsis nkim niam txiv lub zog tus hlob.
Harsh but true
What the hell sister, you have endured enough pain, heartaches, disappointment and suffering, and sacrifices. You were sister, mother, father, best friend, to your brother's.
Your husband never truly love you. You were nothing but just a doormat. He lied and cheated during your whole marriage. He deserves and belongs in prison.
He married his affair mistress and abandoned you and your children. What the hell do you still want him for? Why the hell did you bail him out of jail for. Do you not have children or better things to do with your money than to used to bail that S.O.B. out.
You should've listened to your brother and divorced him.
Peb pojniam yuav tsum tawv thiab khov hos.😊
Tus niam tsev aw....niag txiv dev ko thian nws niag maum dev nkawv ces sib phim xwb os....kav tsij muab nws tso mus es mus nrhiav tus tshiab los hlub koj lawm xwb txhob quav ntsej niag dev thawj thiab ko lawm.
Tu siab tag npaum no ntshe yuav tau nrauj thiab los ua cas.
Cas yuav muaj nqi ua luaj li os puas yog hais koj sab xwb na
Txiv neej taj tiag2
Tus niamtsev aws pab koj zooplawv kg yom! Cias nws khuvxim thb es xaj tsimnyog qhov nws tsislhub koj os.👍🏻😄😄
Poj ruam os poj ruam aw.....! Yog ruam li koj ces yeej tseem yuav mag ntxiv os
At least, you have a happy ending
Hahahaha neeg siab phem ces zoo li tiag
Your dad was paying child support therefore your mother and stepdad should paid for your brother’s wedding. ncawv muab nyiaj child support noj tas nkawv tsis xav them nqes nyab tsis yog lawm nawb.
I should feel sorry for u but I dont. U grew up in America & have a choice but chose to stay in that toxic relationship & let him coninue to abuse u. U stayed for ur kids was ur main reason, but how is this better than what ur parents did? Even after u divorced, u continue to let him control u. Ur children are the only ones suffered.
Dont blamed staying in your toxic relationship because of the kids. That's a lame excused. Leave and be a mom to your kids if you don't want them to be like u and your siblings. You don't need a man to fulfilled your life. smfh
It's easier said than done, brother. Some children who grew up in a broken home are more fragile when it comes to being assertive about their life choices. They have so many scars that they don't want their children to experience as they did.
Ua tau zoo kawg li os sister
Koj ua tau zoo kawg tab sis koj khav theeb heev lawm tsis tsis paub tag kis li os txhob khav tsam txiv tub hluas muab koj tsim duab nawb
Niam laus kv pom mj ib tug UA-cam pheej tso koj cov dab neeg es puas yg koj tus lm thb na
Tu poj niam no cas yuav khawv xim tu txiv neej no ua luaj li na
If I were your boyfriend/current husband, I would have dumped you when you couldn’t make up your mind about your ex-husband. Tsis yog Koj lub siab tawv, yog koj tsis muaj siab xwb. You are very confused and absent minded. I got frustrated listening to this story. 🤦♀️
What a POS! Tell him to xuas tswg npuj nws lub qhov quav es tuag mus xwb mas!
Cas ruam tshaj ruam!
Ntshe koj yog tus poj niam uas lucky xwb os
I’m glad you found your happy ending. I hope your second husband stays true to you. But don’t do too much for your children. Take care of yourself first so you can care for others.
Hai ib zaj ruv pua Tau os
the road of love leads to darkness. live and learn.
OMG🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Pojniam Hmoob yeej ruam li no tiag lov.
Cakojmuaj hmoo ua luaj
Today we really dont need each other if not true love.
This dude is just mad because he knows he threw someone nice away. Now he got to lay in the bed he made.
"A man's trash is another man's treasure" which is true.
That ex husband doesn’t love anyone but himself. When he realizes he lost you, he used his tears to guilt trip you. Glad you didn’t fall for his tricks. He got what he deserved
Yog kuv tau koj ma yuav hlub koj tsaj li os me muam zoo hlub aw
The title is incorrect, tsis yog poj niam siab tawv os. Twb yog poj niam tag kev lawm vim tus txiv mus yuav niam yuav lawm. Kuv paub tias tus niam tsev didn’t want her kids to go through what she and her siblings went through. Being so weak with no confidence, her ex husband trampled on her pride, love and loyalty. At the end when he divorced her, she has no choice but to move forward. Ultimately I’m glad she found someone that loves her and happiness.
Sister, koj ua zoo rau nws txaus dhau lawm. Nws thib mob twb tsis npaum koj, vim thaum nws tau tus tshiab koj twb tsis muaj 1 tug li nws hnub no koj mus. Kavtsij mus txhob tig saib qab, tseem yuav lov pos tsuab kom txhob ntsib lwm tiam.
Wow another txiv neej hmoob ruam noj quav loj...
Just because you came from an ugly toxic family doesn't mean you should tolerate your ex-husband as well. He was emotionally abused you, manipulated, mistreated, cheated on you, etc. the whole marriage. You couldn't love yourself properly because he didn't do a good job at taking care of your well-being. Your ex-husband left you for another version of himself, lol. Thank him and his wife for letting you go. You deserve a love story of your own!
The part he said "my wife make my eyes red and green. Knock me out peaceful". What does that mean? Lol. 😂😂😂 what kinda method is she using?
Koj ruam dhau es tseem mus tso cawm koj niag txiv tom jail thiab nawb
This story makes my blood boil
I got a headache from smacking my head the whole time. I think I lost some brain cells like this woman. 😂
I will never understand Hmong men who have no money, barely out of high school and want to get married. Does not make sense!
Karma at its finest!!😂😂
I guess I thought you'd be here forever
Another illusion I chose to create
You don't know what you got until it's gone
And I found out a little too late
I was acting as if you were lucky to have me
Doin' you a favor I hardly knew you were there
But then you were gone and it all was wrong
Had no idea how much I cared
Now being without you
Takes a lot of getting used to
Should learn to live with it
But I don't want to
Being without you
It's all a big mistake
Instead of getting easier
It's the hardest thing to take
I'm addicted to you, babe
You're a hard habit to break
You found someone else, you had every reason
You know I can't blame you for runnin' to him
Two people together but living alone
I was spreading my love too thin
You sound like you are her ex-husband?😅😂 Pab tsis tau lawm laus thaub!😢
@@nkaujmoobleeg hey babe..you want some too hahahha
Your trash, somebody's treasure
No self respect, love yourself first
Not worth my time listening. Please choose better stories to tell.
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Kojtseemhluasmuajzogsibdo
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Glad you found happiness while your ex is living with regrets .
Sister, you allow this to happen to you. You accepted his behavior and have no respect for yourself. I have no sympathy for you.
He got what he looking for.