Lub Kua Muag Txij Nkawm. 6/11/2024
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Love can kill. Love makes you go crazy. I feel the pain in this story. I've been there and gain my strength to carry on.
Its easier said than done, that is why it took her so long to let him go...I understand why she did what she had to do...I was once in those shoes too...Tu siab kawg os, peb cov pojniam ces, we try and try until we no longer can to let go, as for certain men they just suck
I been there. We married for 5 years and then he cheated for 15 years before I let it go. If other people not in your our shoes they don't know 😢😢😢😢😢😢
If we knew then what we know now, we wouldn't make the mistake of marrying them. Take it as a lesson learned, love yourself and know your worth. Dont let your age deter you from letting go of a toxic marriage. Brighters days ahead ❤
Lady, leave the past in the past & move forward with tomorrow. The past is what made u the person today, so love urself & travel the world. Leave all ur bad memories behind. There r still a lot of good men out there. Give urself time to find the right person.
Tim yus txojkev ruam ntseeg neeg yooj yim nkaus xwb.
You have to be in her shoes to understand why it took her so long to finally leave him. It’s sad that Hmong men cheat on their loyal and good wife who made them what they are in the public eyes. When you trust too much, you get hurt that much. 😢
Not all some 😉
Tim yus txojkev ruam ntseeg neeg yooj yim thiaj li tau ris txojkev mob siab li no.
Only you will know when it’s time to move on. Much strength to you sister. In your shoes and still trying to figure it out too.
Stay strong, you've been strong for 30 years. You'll survive. You have your kids. Im in the same boat too. It will be hard but all will mend. We woman just need to love ourselves and stand strong. Power to all woman that are going through a life like this.
So toxic .. I would not go through this ever again. Only to my first marriage that I was stupid and endure the abuse physically and emotionally.. you only realize how stupid and what a waste of time you spent with the toxic husband after divorced
I'm sorry you had to hang on for so long but don't regret anything because you are who you are today, strong and brave. There'll be light in the end of the tunnel for you too sis. Sounds like my life story I feel your pain. Best of luck
I’m very proud of you. People think it’s easy just get up and leave. You don’t know til it happens to you. Some of us Hmong women stay suffering til we die. Best wishes to you. ❤
Ntuj os tus mi niam hluas, peb tej mi neej txoj kev txij nkawm tsis hlub ces zoo ib yam tsis txaw kiag. Tu siab tshaj plaws yom o....
Txhob ruam2 mas tus viv ncaus txiv neej twb tsi tau tag rau koj niag txiv siab phem ntawm ko ne,hlub yus tus kheej ua khov kho luag thiaj saib taus yus hos
I totally understand why you stay that long and I’m glad you are able to finally pickup yourself and leave in one piece sister! You should have no regrets moving on! He was toxic already when he mentioned or used the excuse about your boyfriend in the past. Stay strong & Self Love so you can move on!
Koj hais yog kawg hlub koj tus kheej koj tseem muaj nuj nqe rau koj niam koj txiv
Learn to love oneself. Hope you can find happiness.
Story like these makes me appreciate my husband very much. Thank you for sharing and Im so proud of you mama finally letting your wings 🪽 fly. Take care and good luck😭😔🙏🏼🫂❤❤❤❤❤️
I think this is bestest story ever been told. The first couple sentences already make my tears falling down. Thank you sister for sharing your story. Stay stronge and love, respect, take care, and put yourself first and live with your children and enjoy the rest of your life.
Been there, done that. Everyone can say leave but you leave when you are ready. You can only leave when you can. I took it for 28 years. I know how you feel.
Niam laus aw koj zaj das neeg. tub siab heej li os
Sister what can not kill you will make you stronger, just be strong and love yourself and take care yourself sister.
Kudos to you for standing your ground but as someone who is almost 50, you are not old. There is so much left to accomplish in life so stop feeling like you have no choice. Live a good and fulfilling life!
Ntxov ua poj nrauj ntxov tau zoo nawb cov mi niam tsev aw...
tus me viv ncaus ...koj hais tau yog kawg li lawm mog tus siab heev li tsuas thov kom koj tau txais ke noj qab nyob zoo xwb mog ...
Me sister aw, I can feel your pain. I am going through the same pain as you were now. Like you said I am still love him but he continues to cheat on me and not stop I will be the same as you.
😢😢same as my story too.... hurts me so much too....one day I will be same direction 💔 😪
I feel for this lady. At the same time, I wish for more women to love themselves and not torture them this much. When someone no longer love you, please find the courage to move on asap so you don't get stab by him over and over. The sooner you leave the more time you have to enjoy life without him.
We’ve most of the Hmong women’s really trying to working out with our husband’s because we are truly trying the best possible that we can to make sure given ourselves as many chances possible could, once we leave the cheater or abusive husband, than never return to the toxic relationship that’s why it taken her so long to finally left him. That’s one reason when a lady left him, she never has anything to regrets that she hasn’t tried her best!! Lady, wishing you the best! Don’t look back but looking forward to the future by living your best life without him, be free to sore like an Eagle 🦅!!!!!!!
Great story but I do not understand why it takes 30 years to figure it out. Your advice was good as well but your advice should be when you found your husband at the park, from that day on you should have divorce him and never look back. Instead you went thru the heartbreak for so long. My advice is when a man cheat on you, move on.
It’s always easier said than done. I believe she had hope and was hoping for the change. Unfortunately the change never came. Other reasons could be reputation and judgement from society, and other disappointments that she doesn’t want to impose on her families.
Txiv neej no ua li cas tseem nrog nyob thiab
Zaj dab neeg no yog kiag kuv lawm nawb
Hmong woman just don't know when to let go and move on..
Tu siab kawg li me aw lub neej txij kawm g hlub na
Oh dang … this could easily be the response to the one the guy told … hmmm🤔.
I hope you can see the grass isn’t any greener out there . Just leave for your happiness and not to find the one that got away .
Sad story pab hlub tus sister ko xwb os 1 leeg nim muaj 1 txog kev nyuaj siabi Os
It’s not sad, she choose it
So sad. I don't want this life of mine to ever end like this. Truly unfortunate
Cag hnov koj zaj no kuv kua muag los los os cag peb cov poj niam yuav raug txoj kev tu😢😢😢siab no xwb
Why wasted and waited 30 years? It's not like he tied you down. You should've moved on when you caught him in the act. He behaved badly because you gave him permission.
Peb cov poj niam taug txoj kev no muaj coob kawg nkaus es niam tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb os me Viv ncaus
Yog tsis sib khoom siab tus raug tsim tsis txhob uv nyob, tawm thaum tseem yuav pib tau tom ntej
Nra nyhav lub cev nws muaj chaw so nra nyhav nruab nrog yuav tog ntev 2 nawb
My Hmong sisters, please love yourself first.
Tus me niam tsev peb cov me niam tsev hmoob ces feem coob yeej tau taug tib txoj kev kj taug no os. Kv los yog ib tug ntawm kj txoj dab neeg no thiab os. Txhob tusiab rau tus neeg tsis hlub kj mog.
wow! When your husband said those hurtful things, let him go but watch how his life goes. Karma will get him.
Yg kawg o nm tai aw kv nyua qhuav mj 25 xyoos e kv TB pib quaj lm o yuav ua ca o
Sister..you stayed way too long and allowed him to torture so long. I'm glad you finally moved out but please don't ever go back and take him back.
You deserve happiness, please love yourself and don't go back
Tus me niam tsev cas nej cov niam tsev siab zoo ho tsi ntsib peb cov txiv siab zoo no os
Kuv ces twb nrauj thaum tham tus muam muaj me ab lawm os
Eb koj tseem muaj txiv e tseem muaj tu pab koj os hlub koj os viv ncau aw tau txiv ua hlua ce tu tu siab li os
Tug niam laug cag koj zaj no eg rawg kiag li kuv lub neej thiab og
Cas peb cov poj niam no es peb cov poj niam peb yuav tau taug ib txoj kev xwb os tu siab os😂
Your enemy is right in front of you. 😢
Ab me viv ncaus aw ca kj zaj neej neeg no nim zoo g txawv kv lu li o kv tu txiv ces kv nim uv uv lo tau 12 lub xyoo no xwb es cas kv me phaub hau nim pib dawb zuj zus e kv nim uv g taus li lawm o es ntshe muaj ib hnub es ntshe kv yuav ua ib siab li kj o me viv ncaus
Ab cas nloog koj zaj dabneeg no es ua rau kuv nim xav tawm lawm thiab os vivncaus aw…
Vuag ua cas es koj yuav uv tau ntev ua luaj li na.
just move on sister cov txiv dev txhob khuv xim
Me niam tsev aw cov nkauj nrab no mas lawv siab phem tshaj plaws li os, tsis raug leej twg ces leej twg yeej tsis paub nawb mog, cov txiv tsev no ces txog txij lawv mus tham poj nrauj lawm ces yus yeej tsis nyob ntawm nws lub siab lawm mog. Zoo kawg kav tsij muab niag txiv dev ko laig pov tseg lub ntuj yeej yuav xa ib tug zoo zoo los hlub koj xwb mog. Me niam tsev aw koj mas hais yog tshaj plaws os mog
Ntiaj teb nov ntshe tsis muaj ib tug txiv neej hmoob uas muaj siab siab ncaj li o lawv...ncaim tau ces ncaim tus neeg siab phem yus thiaj li muaj sia nyob ntev o lawv...kuv twb ncaim tau kuv tus me txiv Lem lawm thiab ..kuv niag hnub ua lub ntuj tsaug ...qhov nws nrauj kuv lawm ..hnub no kuv thiaj muaj kev Kaj siab lug o lawv aw
Tus uas tsi sib tau Los txhob nco2 cov uas sib2 nyiam es tau li no lo twb tsi sib hlub, ho mus yiav lwm yam neeg lo txhob txwv vim yuav tus twg lo yeej tsi zoo.
Tu siab tshaj li os ntshe yu lo ib hnub twg yuav zoo li kj hai koj thiab os niam tai aw tu siab heev li ke hmoog ke quaj li os
Sister, I don’t understand why u just didn’t leave him when u found him with that lady? And after he told u that he wasn’t gonna love u anymore? The image of him f****** that lady, will forever be engraved in my mind & it will make me hate him & be disgusted so much to the point of leaving him. Y’all ladies just need to love urself enough to know when to walk away & leave a toxic, loveless marriage. It don’t matter if y’all have kids together, leave him & put him on child support. It hurts but eventually, you’ll get over it & move on.
Thanks for sharing your story. Ua cas yuav hais tau ntxim hlub ua luaj 😢
Tus me niam tsev aws txhob tu siab heev thiab os tsis yog koj xwb kuv los twb rau koj kawm khau thiab os mog hlub yus tus kheej xwb txhob tshaw txiv neej txij kev hlub tsis muaj kev hlub tseeb kawm is mog
As cas koj nim muaj niam muaj txiv hlub2 koj os me niam hluas aw nyob li kuv ces twb tsi muaj ib tug hlub kuv li os nrog koj zoo2 siab ua koj muaj niam luaj txiv hlub2 koj mog hos tu siab nrog koj tus txiv ua phem rau koj os mog kuv li ces kuv tus txiv ho hlub2 kuv os
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Nrauj povtseg zoo dua os mog vivncaus tus zoo li no yuav los tsi txog twg lawm cia muab nrauj yus mam mus ntshiav dua cia lwm tus mam los tsim nws rau yus saib txiv neej 50 😊xyoo rov saum lawm ces tso mus yus thiaj tsi tau tu mas lov
It’s easier said then done. I understand why it took you so long to leave your toxic marriage. May his bless you and grant you happiness
Ua niam txiv txij nkawm txhob sib g hlub thaum pib hlub ntxov ce hlub rov xwb
Oh hell no, no one treats me like her husband treats her. Why does she allow him to treat her that way for so many years? Love yourself and don't let anyone treat you like a doormat.
Sorry for u, but sis, there's more to life out there. Losing a loser is better than kneeling down to his level. You're better off without him.
Zaj neej neeg no zoo li Kuv zaj thiab. 37 lub xyoo uv kom seb lub neej Puas zoo thiab kom Tej menyuam muaj Niam muaj txiv tiam sis uv tiag ces Ntshe yuav tuag tiag ces ua ib siab tso nws tes es Kuv mus ua ib leej Niam, ib leej pog, ib Niam Tais zoo rau wb Tej menyuam thiab xeeb leej xeeb ntxwv lawm xwb os.😢😢
Stop missing him and talking about the past. He doesn’t care anymore so don’t waste your tears and time. You need to move on and let him go. The more you think about the past, the harder it is to move on. He left you the day he cheated but you kept clinging to him and hurting yourself.
no sympathy for this kind of woman who continues to put herself in such toxic relationship. no one can help you if you aren't helping yourself.
Lllll
Eb tus me Viv ncaus ua Cas kuv lub neej es yuav zoo sib xws 😢.
Me Viv ncau aw koj ma hai yog tshaj plaw lawm os mog
Ab ca kj thiab kuv lub neej yuav mug thooj ib yam li o tu tu siab lub niag neej no li 😓😓
Koj ua yog tshaj plaws li os sister txhob tu siab thiab txhob ntshaw tus txiv dev zoo li no lawm os
Lub neej tau txiv siab phem limhiam tham hluasnkauj los tsimtxom yus mas lwjsiab tshaj plaws. Cia nyias mus nyias zoo dua li nyob tsaus ntuj nti ua mob rau yus lub nrog cev.
Koj uv 13 lub xyoo xwb, kuv ces uv tau 37 xyoo thiaj ua siab muab nrauj lawm
Twb yog koj uv taus kawg lawm os viv ncaus aw
I feel the same way but I don't have the courage to leave him maybe in the future when all my kids are old enough I will go my own way being together without love it's very hard
kuv lub neej zoo li koj thiab tiag tus viv ncaus aw 😂😂
Me niam tsev aw... Txhob khub xim tus neeg uas tsi hlub yus thiab tsi khub xim yus txoj sia os peb ua neej nyob ces hlub yus xwb txhob hlub tus tsim yus os kuv ces twb tag Kev hlub lawm thiab os.
Me viv ncaus aw… vim poj Niam lub siab ruam xwb es zam rag lis zam dua es zam2 Thaum kawg ces yus yog tus swb xwb os. Peb cov me viv ncaus txhob ruam2 lawm os mog. Hlub yus ua ntej os mog
Tu siab tiag2 li os 😢😢😢
You are wrong. You worked hard all your life for those money, house and living. Fight with him for everything. It is your right. Don’t allow him to continue to hurt you even after the divorce.
Your story is my story os sister aw😢
Zoo heev li os
Koj txiav txim rau koj tus kheej yuav thiab kuv los tib yam nkaus li no. Koj tsis txhob muab koj tus kheej rau txim tuag nthi rau tej yam teeb meem tshwm sim li no los sis puas zoo ze li no. Thaum teeb meem ntws los raug rau koj los yog kuv li no, yeej mob heev rau koj los yog kuv kawg nkaus. Tab sis koj yuav tsum muab koj lub siab nias qees kom ruaj nrees txhob qaug rau txoj kev ploj tuag vim yam teeb meem ntawv.
Wtf…txiv neej siab ohem
Why didn’t you want to lose a marriage when it’s been lost many years ago! I don’t understand why you waited so long to divorce a jerk.
Cas tu siab ua luaj os....😔
Hey I don’t know what to tell y’all women’s but P blinds our eyes 😂😂😂😂..if the meat is in our face we have to eat it 😂😂😂😂😂
No offense, but you don't respect yourself so he doesn't feel the need to respect you. Even if he doesn't want you, it's not the end of the world. Someone's trash is Someone's elses treasure. Respect yourself enough to not endure his dog ways.
Eb kuv nim Xav muab kuv zaj piav tseem tu siab tshaj zaj no los cas kuv nim nrhiav g tau Caij nyoog li ne
Sister, when you caught him the first time cheating. You should've divorced him.
Ruam ua luaj, the first time you caught him es rov los txog tsev nws tsis hloov thiab tsim, nyob zoo dabtsi naws. Nws hais tias koj tsis muaj siab muaj ntsw thiab hais saib tsis taus cov neej tsa. Why put up with all that pain, cas koj ntshaw nws ua luaj.
Ua kom tau li koj hais nawb
Tej laus txwv txiav los twb vim yog noob liam caj ces liam los vim koj tsis mloog hais.
Let go and move on sister. May you find happiness ❤
Aub yaub, caag yuav npwb ua luaj le nas puj awd. Ntxim le koj xij tso tsis taug nwg kag le sub as. Tej tug txiv dlev lam txwv le hov es tseem khauv xwm nwg dlaab tsis nawj. Cov tseem tseem txiv neej yawg muaj txuj kev hlub luj luj tseem muaj coob os. Just get out the dark for a brighter future.
Me viv ncaus aw. Koj zaj neej neeg no mloog xwb twb nrog koj mob siab lawm os.
Oh lord. This lady lived for everyone but herself. Such a sad and terrible life with no true self love and happiness. Love and live for yourself not your txiv dev or even kids. Should have left his ass like 10+ years ago. Now you’re even older and harder to find someone else. 🤦♂️