Family is Everything in Appalachia - A Culture Built Around Family

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  • @CelebratingAppalachia
    @CelebratingAppalachia  11 місяців тому +2

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  • @deborahmantha1080
    @deborahmantha1080 Рік тому +63

    I had that kind of relationship with my late mother-in-law. My own mother moved hundreds of miles away after I got married and had our first child. My mother-in-law became a mom to me...she taught me just about everything I ever learned about cooking, canning, crocheting, sewing, being a wife and mother. For a long time we lived just a mile away...but we still stayed close even when we moved 35 miles away. It was my privilege to help her in the last months of her life as she battled cancer...someday I'll see her again, but I still miss her here and now.

    • @LouiseAnneWelch
      @LouiseAnneWelch Рік тому

      I have relatives in Baton Rouge, Lake Charles, and several other places.

    • @LouiseAnneWelch
      @LouiseAnneWelch Рік тому

      My late husband used to say that you were treated like a "red haired stepchild", as if you aren't part of the family. I think that's sad, because I was adopted at four years old. I love your family stories. Thank you.

  • @lisabeal8615
    @lisabeal8615 Рік тому +7

    There is a wonderful children's book called "the relatives came" by Cynthia Ryland about the warm feelings of everyone coming home and piling in the house to sleep. I remember reading it to my daughter and getting that warm sense of kinship.

    • @janeenadams
      @janeenadams Рік тому

      That’s my favorite children’s book. It reminds me of traveling to visit my family in upstate New York.

  • @kimgreene9241
    @kimgreene9241 Рік тому +12

    I’ve lived next to my In-laws and my Mother lived next door before she passed. It was so comforting having my Mother next door, especially when she got cancer it made it easier for us to care for her which was my honor.
    My husband’s parents and mine got along so well. We did Thanksgiving, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, and Birthdays together which was wonderful.
    Cory, don’t ever feel bad about how much time you spend with your folks. It’s a precious time. ❤

  • @marcellagodbold9015
    @marcellagodbold9015 Рік тому +3

    My Mom was a twin her sister n her always talked to each other on the phone almost every day.. there both passed on in are with Jesus, I miss them both alot

  • @sweetg12651
    @sweetg12651 Рік тому +52

    I loved your story about your mom saying "We're right peaceable right now." That made me chuckle - so cute!

  • @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY
    @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY Рік тому +3

    Corie is sooo sweet! She answers "I'll let you hijack (the conversation) anyday, I just love spending time with you. I'm more of a listener." Gotta love that match of great puzzle piecemeal 💕

    • @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY
      @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY Рік тому +1

      Oops should have put 'placement'. 'Piecemeal' is a word I've never ever used 🤣 and it popped up. Then I googled it. It seems to carry with is what I don't mean for y'all, a sense of haphazard array. Your two personalities are like matching puzzle pieces. Katie, Matt, Austin, Nick, Granny, Ms. Cindy 🙏🏼 no piece isn't necessary were your family a zigzag puzzle. 💝

    • @CelebratingAppalachia
      @CelebratingAppalachia  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Renee! You always make us feel so good!! 😀

    • @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY
      @EMBERS-BECAME-BRIGHT-JOY Рік тому

      Likewise, Tipper Pressley 😁

  • @catherineake6309
    @catherineake6309 Рік тому +3

    A long time ago my husband and I moved to a small farm in southern Ohio. When his parents came to see the place we went to the little church we attended. When we walked in and we introduced his parents Walt hollered over to his wife, "Juanita, come and meet their people!". We were thrilled to know we had "people"!!! And what a blessing our people were. Miss them so much. Thanks for sharing your people.

  • @lindaharper6378
    @lindaharper6378 Рік тому +5

    We lived about 5 houses down the road from my parents and enjoyed all the wonderful benefits of that for many years. When they passed, our son bought their house for his family and now we are being blessed by them being that close. ❤

  • @PJRMamawJo
    @PJRMamawJo Рік тому +1

    I was raised in southern Ohio and we lived on the "hill" an old dirt road (paved now)with all my father's brothers, and families living right next door from each other. With my grandparents house in the middle of us all. Us cousins had a great time growing up together, we all were close. Times have changed so much. But I am 64 now and 2 of my children live on the same road as I do and my oldest son is just 20 mins away. So thankful. God bless you all. Really enjoy your videos. Congrats on the baby, oh what a beautiful blessing!

  • @evagardner6013
    @evagardner6013 Рік тому +2

    We don’t have a close-knit family. My husband and I are first generation Christians and praying when our children grow up, this is how they’ll feel.

  • @shmataboro8634
    @shmataboro8634 Рік тому +1

    Family is everything. My dad's work moved us from southern Indiana to Michigan, just south of Detroit, when I was a kid. People there talked so fast I couldn't understand them 😂 We lived there 10 years and it never ever felt like home. I lived for the weekends when we could come down home to see our folks. When I was married just 2 weeks my husband changed jobs and moved us to Wisconsin. His jobs moved us around a few more times after that. He was not one to stay in one place. When we divorced, the kids and I moved back home to my people in southern Indiana. My kids, now adults, live in 3 different states and one in Europe. I cant help but think my life would have been a whole lot different if we'd all have followed the advice of my Appalachian ancestors, "Don't go off and live so far away that you can't see the smoke from your mom and pap's chimney." That seems like the best advice to me. My papaw gave a plot of land to his daughters when they married, and built their houses. They were not rich, it was little cottages, but the aunts and uncles and cousins lived right up the lane from mamaw and papaw. That was a wonderful life in so many ways. Our family is so close in our hearts now, but it would be heaven to walk back and forth for a visit instead of a day-long drive or taking an airplane.

  • @paullynch5621
    @paullynch5621 Рік тому +10

    Pap was a good Daddy in-law, just to hear that he took Matt under his wing and taught him how to build houses. That’s a great testament to him and shows how he taught on how to build a home, the family. That portion of the video made me tear up. Love your videos.

  • @joannhanson3397
    @joannhanson3397 Рік тому +1

    I grew up in a tight knit family in southern Illinois - everybody was in everybody's business. I left when I was 18 and joined the Army, I didn't know what to do with my life and I wanted to get away from my family. I met and married a man from the west coast and we settled out here after we got out of the military. My biggest regret in life is that my children were not raised near my family. They missed out on so much and it took me getting older to realize what I gave up by moving so far away. I still live out here and I wish more than anything that I could just jump in the car and go visit them. Many have died off and I missed so much. I still count my blessings and I go out to visit whenever I can.

    • @ConnieM777
      @ConnieM777 Рік тому +1

      God bless you. My mom didn’t leave but worked and never had any time for me.

  • @brendafrye5875
    @brendafrye5875 Рік тому +19

    I totally agree with you. Family is everything. I lived right across the road from my parents after I got married. My daddy gave us land to build a home and we lived there for 25 years. Unfortunately my husband didn't believe in family like I do and he chose to leave our family for someone else but with all that I praise God for my parents and family. Without them I would not have made it through all the changes in my life. Today my parents are gone and I live in my parents home. My son and daughter live on the same farm with me. There is a beautiful family who live in my home across the road. I am so blessed. Tipper I cried with you when you were talking about your father's death. I feel the sme way when I think of both my parents. I think you have a beautiful family. I have followed you for such a short time but you feel like family to me. I live in the Sandhills area of
    NC but can identify with so many of your feeling. Thank you so much for your kindness and brining back so many memories. ❤️

  • @ConnieM777
    @ConnieM777 Рік тому +1

    Your channel is healing me.I’m so lonely.

  • @triciatinker9456
    @triciatinker9456 Рік тому +1

    My late husband was a minister. The first couple of churches we served gave us a pounding when we went to their church as a minister family. It was wonderful because we served small churches that couldn’t pay a lot. In the first church we served, a church member owned a small grocery store. He would always chase me out of the store with a bag of meat or flour and sugar. He would always tell me I “forgot” that bag in the store. He was a wonderful Christian man who really blessed us!

  • @AuntMaryNC
    @AuntMaryNC Рік тому +7

    "Who are your people" used to be a common question in Nashville, but the city has gotten too big for that now. My family goes back many generations here, but everyone has passed on now. I am grateful to have a family of choice, not blood, we take care of each other as if we were kin. It's important to have connections to other people in some way. You all are truly lucky to have each other.

    • @alperdue2704
      @alperdue2704 Рік тому

      I understand. Most of my family is gone but me and my kids have been “adopted “ by a big loving family. I feel especially blessed.

  • @Printertrouble
    @Printertrouble Рік тому +1

    Im from Wisconsin and out cultures are very similar... Esp centered around family. Its starting to wain abit in certain areas, but where we are from its still very in tact.

  • @skyjust828
    @skyjust828 Рік тому +4

    Congratulations on a year 🎉❤😂 we raised our oldest children near my father-in-law who spoiled our children with 💕 & when the youngest 2 were born we lived near him as well but the youngest was only 1 when he passed😢 but he & my husband's oldest daughter were the only babysitter we trusted😊

  • @donnawv
    @donnawv Рік тому +7

    Another wonderful video! I’m 64, but as a child my parents migrated from WV to Ohio. Most weekends would find us going “home” to WV. At 14, we moved back to WV for good. After marriage, I either saw or talked to my mom every day until she passed away 16 years ago. My husband and I eventually left the county our families lived in due to the husband’s work. I found that while West Virginian’s are some of the friendliest people you’ll ever meet they can be somewhat “clannish.” It took us years to fit in to the area we’d moved to. Talk about a lonely feeling, it really was. I always feel like you’re like a wonderful neighbor that I get to talk to when you have a new video. Thank you!!

  • @garybrunet6346
    @garybrunet6346 Рік тому +12

    You’re an amazing storyteller,Tipper! You make us feel so welcome!😊🇨🇦

  • @adventurenana
    @adventurenana Рік тому +64

    I never ask about when children will come.
    You never know if a couple are struggling with getting pregnant.
    I have a niece who tears up every time someone asks her. 😢

    • @CelebratingAppalachia
      @CelebratingAppalachia  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for watching!

    • @Sewmena918
      @Sewmena918 Рік тому +12

      I agree. Sometimes people just ask the most personal questions without thinking.

    • @biancacox8630
      @biancacox8630 Рік тому +6

      @@Sewmena918 well both Corey and Austin did a video after they were first married answering that question and they both stated they wanted to wait a few years before having kids ..maybe folks forgot about that video

    • @donnawv
      @donnawv Рік тому +5

      My daughter gets asked that question and it really bothers her. She can have (we assume) children but just doesn’t feel like that’s her thing. Nothing wrong with that, but many people have tried to make her feel bad about a very personal decision.

  • @Needlewich
    @Needlewich Рік тому +4

    I think Appalachian hospitality is unlike hospitality anywhere!! There is no comparison! Loved the story about Pap giving over his paycheck to the church and Granny thinking about where she would get food and then here comes “pounding” food!! Your family closeness is wonderful! So sweet! I hope it will always stay that way! God bless and love to all! 💕🤗🙏🏻

  • @homesteadingpastor
    @homesteadingpastor Рік тому +3

    Family closeness is very important to us here as well. Unfortunately today so many families are not close like they use to be but ours are still pretty close like you guys are.
    One of the sayings around here when you visit folks is YALL DON’T HAVE TO RUN OFF. Robbie Lynn & I always say we could listen to you share your stories all day long.
    Thanks for sharing. 😇🙏🏻🙌🏻❤️

    • @CelebratingAppalachia
      @CelebratingAppalachia  Рік тому +2

      Thank you Pastor Lon! Wish we lived close enough to each other to visit often 😀

  • @yuvondaseal6736
    @yuvondaseal6736 Рік тому +13

    Congratulations Dear Corie and Austin
    Poundings.....we would have been hungry many times just after Dad started preaching if it had nor been for the congregation. I remember one time when I was about 11, I guess, I looked out the front window of the house we had just finished building and there was a whole string of people coming down the driveway carrying bags of groceries and bowls of food. And that happened many times through out the first few years. God always takes care of His own❤❤❤❤

  • @carlacunningham4006
    @carlacunningham4006 Рік тому +3

    I admire the strong family bond you all have. My family moved from Iowa to WA state when I was 13. After that I had no contact with any cousins and eventually lost my grandparents there as well. I think I am drawn to youtube families like yours because of a need to remember what families could be like.

  • @tonytherf-mb3dg
    @tonytherf-mb3dg Рік тому +10

    Although I am born and raised in Michigan and things are different here. I'm blessed with a loving family. Through your stories and videos I imagine and have a deep sense of the love and feelings you express when talking about your family, friends, neighbors, community home and rich history. ❤

  • @cherihabegger9856
    @cherihabegger9856 Рік тому +6

    I still remember my Aunt Mary watching me the year before I started school. I was the youngest of 3 and she had 4 who were all older than me. My mother started work and she kept me. What a wonderful time. We were so close, and stayed that way for her entire life. That's what families do, help each other and take care of each other.

  • @Alicia652
    @Alicia652 Рік тому +23

    You hit the nail on the head, Tipper! Family centeredness is everything. The close knit ties, the legacy shared through the stories, the sense of being and belonging, the laughter and warmth that comes from being with “your people” that you have history with, there is nothing like it! I come from a very close knit family too and I cherish the memories I have of our many times together. I really feel for people who do not have the closeness of family. They are really missing out! ❤

  • @KathyShaw-su1iw
    @KathyShaw-su1iw 8 місяців тому +1

    Having family around must be such a blessing. I have no family around. I am single. I have one son. The only friends I have are coworkers. I like being alone.....but I do long for a friend occasionally.

  • @straightmom9774
    @straightmom9774 Рік тому +19

    You all represent good American values. Yall are really representative of the American dream and who we are as a people. Thank you for sharing as a great reminder to many of the truly important things in life. 🇺🇲❤💪👑

  • @arianahoule7223
    @arianahoule7223 Рік тому +17

    I thoroughly enjoy your stories of Appalachia and your beloved family. It gives me hope for our world knowing there are beautiful people like you. Tipper, you and your family, by creating your videos, are playing a huge part in helping heal our planet. I grew up in Los Angeles and all I knew about Appalachia was, it was a place where a bunch of hillbillies' lived in broken-down trailers. Amazing how smug people can be. I would have given anything to have been brought up in such a beautiful and loving family as yours. So, please continue sharing your stories. They give me a sense of peace and tranquility. Sending loving and peace-filled thoughts to everyone.

  • @sunshinerain6426
    @sunshinerain6426 Рік тому +6

    What a lesson of obedience. God's always faithful to take care of his children.

  • @TRMTRM-qw7ov
    @TRMTRM-qw7ov Рік тому +18

    I love the story about you daddy and his paycheck. I have often hoped you'd do a video about community response in Appalachia. Stories about community coming together to help someone in need, due to a storm, illness, loss, or even harvesting would be truly uplifting. Here in Ohio, there are many stories about the Amish and Mennonite communities in a few of our counties coming together for barn raisings, crop cultivating, etc. We need to recognize the strength of community now, more then ever.

  • @angiethompson5684
    @angiethompson5684 Рік тому +4

    Such a beautiful story today ❤. Family is everything

  • @christyroper4122
    @christyroper4122 Рік тому +1

    My husband and I both grew up living surrounded on all sides by family - grandparents, aunts and uncles, and cousins. When we married we moved about 20 minutes away but my parents recently gave us 3 acres and we built a house next door to them and have been here for about 5 years. I’m so happy to be “home”, still surrounded by family on 3 sides. If you grow up this way, I think you understand the boundaries but also being here to take care of each other, garden together, borrow a cup of sugar or flour, or just sit on the porch for a little bit. We absolutely LOVE it!

  • @robertgreene8933
    @robertgreene8933 Рік тому +1

    My dad's dad, owned 35 acres which he lived on and subsequently gave portions to the each of his four children. I grew up on that road with all of my aunts, uncles and cousins and it was wonderful!

  • @carolynpurser7469
    @carolynpurser7469 8 місяців тому

    Some folks just don't understand that beautiful family oriented Appalachian culture. The world needs more of that culture.

  • @sunnygal57
    @sunnygal57 Рік тому +12

    Honoring loved ones through stories is such a beautiful way to keep loved ones alive. You are such a blessed family! ❤

  • @michelleweaver632
    @michelleweaver632 Рік тому +1

    That must be so nice to have a mother like you have Tipper and the mother that you are for your girls. My mother is terribly abusive and I had to remove myself and my family when she continued the abuse onto my children. I would live under a bridge before I ever lived with my mother again. I wish the sense of family I should've had growing up in Appalachia had been part of my life. God bless.

  • @lisalooney2681
    @lisalooney2681 Рік тому +6

    Family is love! Your Family is Awesome! I love everybody!!!
    Im so glad Austin & Corie are a happy, beautiful couple! I just love them!!
    God's Speed Only.

  • @skyjust828
    @skyjust828 Рік тому +4

    The "poundin'" is how true Christians are supposed to be. That's how God gets His work done 👍🙌🙏

  • @jklynb
    @jklynb Рік тому +1

    Oh how I wish I had the kind of family that you do.
    You are so blessed !

  • @leonardbray3733
    @leonardbray3733 Рік тому +2

    Beautiful storytelling. Thank you for sharing about your family. You folks are an example to many parts of the world.

  • @rondahoward5341
    @rondahoward5341 Рік тому +1

    You didn’t lose a daughter, you gained a son. Amen!
    We will celebrate our 28th anniversary in November snd we’re married in the same Baptist church my parents were married in, my grandparents, my great grandparents and my great great grandparents!
    Yes, the church has been there since early 1800s.
    We still spend the night with my dad and my kids still come here and stay.
    I tease and say they come to eat…..
    It’s so comforting to know that families still do that.

  • @vanessaj2551
    @vanessaj2551 Рік тому +1

    I love how close your family is. My daughter is married and her husband got a good job 3 hrs south of me. It’s not far but it’s still hard not seeing her on a daily basis. But I go down as often as I can to see my 2 year old grandson. My daughter is a twin and now she is having twins! God has blessed us! ❤

  • @laurafromme4103
    @laurafromme4103 Рік тому +2

    When I was a young married Momma my husband would travel some for work and I always went home to my Momma and Daddy for the whole week while he was traveling. It was wonderful and I cherish the memories!

  • @NormanChester882
    @NormanChester882 Рік тому +5

    God bless Corie and Austin

  • @summerfunrides
    @summerfunrides 3 місяці тому

    Nothing like the love and closeness of an Appalachian family. I use to go stay with mom through the day or stay the night and when she passed I’d stay the weekends with my aunt and go to church on Sundays then out to eat and ride through the countryside and stop at family cemeteries or family or friends house. The old family and friends would always say, come in and sit for a spell. I sure miss my aunt now that she’s gone. She was the glue and I miss hearing her stories about my family and ancestors. We have family all over the Tennessee, NC area. …….. from Athens, Tn.

  • @sandrataylor3723
    @sandrataylor3723 Рік тому +6

    Always love to hear you two talking about family closeness and the ties that bind one another.

  • @sharonpasquini5772
    @sharonpasquini5772 Рік тому +5

    Your family is beautiful and we are blessed that you share them with us...

  • @Stephanie-kt9vh
    @Stephanie-kt9vh Рік тому +1

    Oh my, I forgot about Poundings. A lost way of life. Our church used to have those for those in need or like you said just to bless others.
    As for going to your parents after marriage, I used to go to my Parents every day when hubby went to work. And every Sunday we went to Moms for lunch after church.
    I love the phrase, "Come on and go home with me" I had forgotten about all these.
    What I wouldn't do to have those days again. My Parents are both gone now, the bond that held our family so close seems to have gone away with Mom .. my heart longs for those days and times. Thank you for reminding me of precious days. I have to tell you yesterday, April 29, I was praying for the Lord to help me remember those times, and today you post this and the memories flood back YOU, Mrs Tipper, were an answer to my prayer I prayed for last night. God is good. Thank you for letting Him work through you to be a balm to my heart. I miss having my people.
    Oh my goodness, the story telling' that is so true and explains my 'LONG' comments.
    Thank you Corie andd Tipper.

  • @shirleyshuler5689
    @shirleyshuler5689 Рік тому

    When I got married, we bought a mobile home and put it on a piece of my momma's property. Years later after my momma passed, my daughter did the same on that piece of land. I talked to my momma every day on the phone and visited her often... same with my daughter. We've all ended our vine calls or visits with "I love you"...
    when we go out of town we still talk! I'm thankful my family has stayed so close throughout the years. Family is so important!
    I love your stories! Y'all are so precious!

  • @RectanerTreadway
    @RectanerTreadway Рік тому +1

    How I would describe this video (and in general, all stories told by Tipper): Extraordinary, pure, enchanting, transcendent,...deeply peaceful. SO beautiful, you both are. It's an honor to sit back and listen, and dream. Even as an onlooker, it is so comforting to know that the byproduct of the sacrifices for the world haven't also ripped apart the foundation that kept you close with your flesh and blood.
    I see a peacefulness that is enveloped by multiple generations. Having such a rich history around you must give great meaning and purpose to your lives, and be very restorative (even during times of skepticism). The simplest things can become exquisite metaphors in this culture you guys have preserved.
    It's clear your quality of life and definition of value, is inseparable from what it exists in your heart. The root of your joy is interconnected with your personhood, and --- because you have made this a priority I think you're able to avoid spending excessive time during our short lapse on the earth: being lost.
    There's something otherworldly about those mountains! Thanks for inviting us along. ☺

  • @melissajulian5003
    @melissajulian5003 Рік тому +1

    I love that you're a very close family. I wish I had that. Unfortunately both my parents are gone and my only sibling, sister, is an addict and I cut ties with her. I absolutely love your videos. God Bless from Ohio

  • @kimb6893
    @kimb6893 Рік тому

    I used to drive my children from Florida to West Virginia twice a year to see my parents. Sometimes we wouldn’t tell my mother we were coming and her look of sheer joy and surprise were worth every mile. Family is worth it.

  • @mmoretti
    @mmoretti Рік тому +3

    Unfortunately many people do not understand about the closeness of families. So many these days live so far apart. My Annie lives an hour away and I miss her. The stillness of having no one there is the worst. I truly enjoy all of your videos so much. When my Steve and I got married (I had been the last of the girls at home) my mother used to come spend time at our apartment, or I would stop in to visit her if he was out fishing. My in-laws were so different, they weren’t as close or easy to talk to, my mother in-law was not someone I could grow close to.

  • @12clr12
    @12clr12 Рік тому

    Family is EVERYTHING! When Corrie married Austin you never lost a daughter you gained a son! You are two of the most BEAUTIFUL LADIES in all of Appalachia! Your beauty is not just outward but inner as well, God Bless you both.

  • @MsPdog1
    @MsPdog1 Рік тому +1

    I think you do more good to the world then any politician, Harvard grad, rocket scientist, ect ect.. Don't ever change you guys are gold.

  • @ruarifinn
    @ruarifinn Рік тому +1

    When I got married I used to tease my husband that my parents liked him more than they liked me. What I noticed shortly after getting married was a transition where my parents became my friends, not just parents. We had dinner together nearly every week. My dad loved yard sales. He planned out his route for Saturdays and always included a stop at our house for a cup of coffee to drink with the donuts he would bring. I miss them both so much but always carry them in my heart.
    PS- I never heard of a pounding, but I love the idea!

  • @SJ-ni6iy
    @SJ-ni6iy Рік тому +3

    I live in Appalachia, I’m the oldest of 4 and we all live within walking distance. I live in a place where my kids can play outside and spend the day with their cousins.

  • @rainbow616
    @rainbow616 Рік тому +1

    Heartwarming and very valuable this conversation/storytelling. I have this with my parents. I live like 10 min from them now and visit them often. I call/app my mom every day. We used to stay at my grandparents house with the whole family. My mom has 7 siblings. All the cousins sleeping in the attack. So much fun and good food in their backyard in the summer. Best childhood memories. 🙏🥰

  • @sherributler7084
    @sherributler7084 Рік тому +1

    Family is everything! My family was pretty close knit although my dad was in the service but we would get together as much as possible. Now I live in Arizona close to my husband’s family and all of our 5 kids live close and we spend as much time together as possible. My side of the family live in Tennessee close to Nashville and it sure is hard not being near them. Thank you for sharing about the community in Appalachia such a blessing! ❤

  • @biancacox8630
    @biancacox8630 Рік тому

    I’m the baby sister out of 3 girls and the older 2 helped raise me …I wish so much we all 3 lived next door to each other …I would never tire of popping over for a glass of iced tea…or the 3 of us spontaneously deciding to make Christmas fudge in July and sitting around the table eating it together or while cooking dinner the 3 of us break out singing a favorite worship song …if one has family they get along with it sure can make one’s life easier and far richer being close together 💕

  • @BRuthable
    @BRuthable Рік тому +4

    Hi Tipper and Corie, this conversation was so like my life. Family connection is very important to me. I remember when I was working and taking a vacation, my department head commented about my trips to WV to see my family and that I didn't go on a real vacation. He was from Louisiana and his wife had a French background and they even bought a home in France for a few years but eventually moved back to the DC area. Their focus was on traveling the world. Both my husband and I are from WV but his job moved us here to Knoxville and it truly is a beautiful part of the state but we still missed our family. Now that I am a widow and thinking about my older son and his family including 3 grandsons, I made a decision to be near them in my later years in VA. I will be on his property and feel so happy to be there sometime this year if it's the Lord's will (as my grandmother always said). I hope my younger son ends up in that area also. I told them both happiness for me would be to have my two sons in my general area.

    • @biancacox8630
      @biancacox8630 Рік тому

      I would rather spend my vacations with family too if they lived far away…❤️

    • @CelebratingAppalachia
      @CelebratingAppalachia  Рік тому

      That is wonderful Betty! So glad you will be with them 😀

  • @susansoots449
    @susansoots449 Рік тому +7

    God has blessed you with a great gift for storytelling. It is important to keep family history alive. Many valuable lessons to be learned😍. As always thank you for sharing your family stories with us. I love each one!

  • @margueritehebert5389
    @margueritehebert5389 Рік тому

    As my daddy would say “That’s some good people right there “ after he met people like you all. Love y’all family closeness.

  • @MDAdams72668
    @MDAdams72668 Рік тому +1

    My son bought the land next to mine (after being apart for years) and ofter building his home brought his fiance (now wife) with him in Sept last year(2022) they were married in December and will be neighbors and friends till I die. I am truly blessed on my small dirt road in the foothills. Their plan was to get married last December and have 5 kids over the next 10 yrs Time will tell but with good neighbors and now family here I am truly happy and wouldn't trade what a have for a billion dollars

  • @trevawilson5086
    @trevawilson5086 Рік тому +2

    After l married l lived next door to my parents. I wouldn't take anything for that time. They are both gone now. They helped me so much . Family is everything!

  • @teresaburleson7226
    @teresaburleson7226 Рік тому +2

    There's so much of your conversation I can relate to.
    I have a funny story about my husband's aunt's family moving to California in 1950s. You're were telling about Granny's sayings when you were leaving. Aunt Pearl was born and raised in The Appalachias, so when they moved to California, she said they would have friends over to visit and when the friends were leaving, she would say "Y'all come back",
    when they would get some distance down the walk, and the friends would turn and come back to ask what she wanted 😅😂❤

  • @grammyb5216
    @grammyb5216 Рік тому +8

    My kid SS and I were a family with my parents. It was such a wonderful blessing. I’m so thankful for every moment we spent together with them. It’s so special to have a close family. ♥️💗

  • @bethwillard7795
    @bethwillard7795 Рік тому +1

    Blessings blessings always

  • @brendablevins9658
    @brendablevins9658 Рік тому +1

    My family is all gone. I feel lonesome for them. Love the wind chimes.

  • @rightpath44
    @rightpath44 Рік тому +2

    And Sunday Dinners. We usually have 20-30 people at Mama's every Sunday after church, even now, when that's kind of a rare thing these days, but we're a very close family, here in the mountains of Western North Carolina. That is such a blessing. We all cook and put it together, and eat like kings..lol

  • @nicolegardiner5845
    @nicolegardiner5845 Рік тому

    My in-laws live four houses away. I absolutely love it! They are such wonderful people and it's amazing to be so close! Family means a lot in Michigan too!

  • @SandraBugler-vq6co
    @SandraBugler-vq6co Рік тому

    I could listen to you talk forever. You're lucky to have such a close family.

  • @adean3587
    @adean3587 Рік тому

    My parents moved from Appalachia to Indiana in the late 40’s for work but we always went back Home to the mountains for vacations down on Elk River. It was always known as back home.

  • @robingregory3829
    @robingregory3829 Рік тому

    I lived right beside my in-laws and 5 minutes away from my parents and would not have changed a thing. I loved every moment of it. My children could walk across the back yard and through the gate and get to my in- laws. They were always around one set of grandparents all the time.

  • @ScholarFromTheHoller
    @ScholarFromTheHoller Рік тому

    My thoughts exactly! Family is everything in Appalachia.

  • @jakezgab8576
    @jakezgab8576 Рік тому

    Good family is the wind beneath your wings.

  • @0Hillbilly
    @0Hillbilly Рік тому

    I've lived with my daughters in Wisconsin for 15 years. When we go back to West Virginia to visit, total strangers will ask my daughters if they are Rays grandaughters. Everyone knows my dad and me too. They ask if their my daughters. It's a big joy for my dad to hear the stories of people asking if he is their Pawpaw. Bless y'all.

  • @stacyhustak2855
    @stacyhustak2855 Рік тому

    I love it! We're right peaceful right now. Made me LITERALLY LOL.

  • @tamizambrano4742
    @tamizambrano4742 Рік тому

    Some of my favorite memories was when our family would go to Sand Mountain where my Granny Wade and most of my mama’s family lived and where she grew up. My mama was the oldest of 11. We spent every summer there. My granny’s house wasn’t very big, but all of the cousins would spend the night together at least once and there were about 15 of us. We would all stay on the floor in the living room and we were wall to wall! We’d fall asleep giggling and telling scary stories!

  • @dawnaw1434
    @dawnaw1434 8 місяців тому

    I think it's great that y'all are so close to your family. When I was around 7 yrs. old my family moved close to my Gram and Gramps (my dad's parents). We lived 10 minutes away and would visit them nearly every weekend. We would watch "Lawrence Welk" as well as "Hee Haw." I loved goin over there and swingin on their porch swing, having barbecues and playin in the backyard. My Gramps has been gone 40 years and my Gram has been gone 28 years. I sure do miss them.

  • @stanleygallman7800
    @stanleygallman7800 Рік тому +3

    Ladies I couldn't agree more! Family is everything and very good family connections, interactions and interest are all the better ☺️. Your sharing the experience of life in Appalachia has been wonderful to learn about.

  • @ironhorse7588
    @ironhorse7588 Рік тому +3

    The farm communities where I live are very close knit Christian families. It's exactly like you say there are stories abound. Thanks to all of you for sharing your journey through life with us. 🙏 😇💒

  • @SeeTheWholeTruth
    @SeeTheWholeTruth Рік тому +1

    Hoping for the best for all of you.

  • @sarachesterfield9028
    @sarachesterfield9028 Рік тому

    I remember reading something once that stated that "we are our memories". We're living in the present but in the blink of an eye that present becomes the past. So all of our sweet, sweet memories make us who we are and our wonderful loved ones shaped us. I love that idea and Tipper, you are able to put a lot of my thoughts into words. I would so love to be able to talk with you face to face. My family on my Granny's side were Chastains from your neck of the woods. I don't physically live there anymore but my heart never left. Bless you and your family.

  • @juliejackson3333
    @juliejackson3333 Рік тому

    I was always at my grandmothers house she raised me and was like a momma to me. We lived basically next door.

  • @janesmith1398
    @janesmith1398 Рік тому

    My mom always said "blood is thicker than water". I really believe that. Thanks, Tipper and Corie. ❤

  • @PellyjellyMom
    @PellyjellyMom 6 місяців тому

    I had the most wonderful Mother-in-law but unfortunately she passed away about a year after we were married. I didn’t have a close relationship with my Mother and unfortunately my daughter and I are polar opposites. Thank goodness she gets along very well with my husband and leans on him for friendship and advice. You are so lucky to have the mutual love and respect with your daughters. Please if you are reading this don’t ask people about their childbirth issues. We were married 14 years and never tried to prevent a child but were told we would not have one. It is so painful when people ask why or when or many other comments. We had our miracle baby after 14 years. But you never know what a couple is planning or suffering. Your daughters are wonderful young women, Tipper. A real blessing to your family.

  • @lswest1569
    @lswest1569 Рік тому +1

    Congratulations on your first year! Wishing you many many more years together.

  • @mflynnnj1
    @mflynnnj1 Рік тому

    I loved the joke with the handcuffed folks in Heaven!
    I love your family's music, the stories, the gardening, & the fact that you all love Jesus, but I really think that closeness that y'all have, is what draws me in. Our immediate family is tight. I wouldn't have it any other way, just love it! My momma was my very best friend. Now she's past & my husband & children are my best friends. May God bless you & your whole family even more. -much love from NJ ~Mary & fam

  • @michellewalker8533
    @michellewalker8533 Рік тому

    My family is scattered and we are just not really close in proximity or relations. Everything changed when Daddy then my sister passed away. I really admire your family's closeness and thus the reason I really enjoy watching your videos. When we would visit my Grandma Burchfield, it would take 30 minutes to get away. We would say "bye" in the house, in the carport, at the car with the windows rolled down then wave bye as we were leaving. And she would always say, "Now y'all come back when you can stay longer." 😀I miss her something fierce.

  • @groman2k
    @groman2k Рік тому

    God bless and keep you all.
    Thank you.
    Shalom!

  • @mariyncarter8207
    @mariyncarter8207 Рік тому

    I love family too. Our oldest daughter loves up the hill from us and our youngest daughter loves about a mile down the road. My husband's mom and dad lived up the road and my husband's sister and her husband love up the other hill from us. So cousins were raised close together and was so good. Love from Missouri

  • @lindasmith6654
    @lindasmith6654 Рік тому

    I lived right next door to my grandparents (my mother's side) from the time I was born (my grandmother actually was the one that delivered me at home)until I got married and moved. My husband was in the military and we moved around a lot. I have always loved I had that experience ❤❤

  • @Texan_Gal
    @Texan_Gal Рік тому +7

    Y’all are the FIRST White family I’ve seen that shares these family values as we do (Mexicans). Here in Texas it’s so different. But we’ve never allowed our surrounding or others to change us. We are looked upon as weird, or dysfunctional, or “too close”. Thanks for sharing!🤍

    • @smc130
      @smc130 Рік тому

      Very true! I’m an elderly white Texan and I have never had family or friends spontaneously invite us to sleep over. My father would escort you to your car, open the car door and making sure you are locked in and waving goodbye as they walk away. My father was the master of getting family members on the road back to their own homes!!

    • @shmataboro8634
      @shmataboro8634 Рік тому

      ​@@smc130sounds like my in-laws. My family was all, " No sense taking a long drive this late, y'all stay over, we can make up pallet beds on the floor for all the kids". Its wonderful to have people who hate to see you go!

  • @swoodhaus
    @swoodhaus Рік тому +5

    Such a heartfelt conversation. I look forward to your videos as they are natural, genuine, calming, uplifting, revealing, sincere and so much more. They take me to a good place.
    Thank you both for sharing!

    • @CelebratingAppalachia
      @CelebratingAppalachia  Рік тому

      So glad you enjoy them Sonja!!

    • @biancacox8630
      @biancacox8630 Рік тому

      I sooo agree!! I’d rather watch Tipper and fam any day over other choices on u-tube…so genuine and loving and down to earth❤️😊