7 Ways To Save Your Marriage
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- Опубліковано 27 гру 2024
- Your spouse wants out. You may be thinking, “Is it actually possible? Can I really get my spouse to come back? How?!” First of all, yes, it is possible.
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In this video, Kimberly Holmes, the CEO of Marriage Helper, outlines 7 steps you can implement- starting today! Focus on where you are now in order to get the work done that you need to get done- in your interactions, forgiving your spouse, and being able to move forward.
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I am standing no matter what and I will NEVER give up!
Amen brother. I hope you are in a good place now
Stay strong
How is your marriage now?
@@aceliu5997 mine not great we are separated right now because of my anger alcoholism. But we are having positive conversations mostly because I am getting help for both my issues. And because I actually listened to her request for space and tried not to be needy and smother her.
It's common for relationships to encounter obstacles, but there is always a solution. My own marriage faced considerable issues, but with appropriate guidance, my husband and I worked through them and deepened our connection. Solutions are achievable if you're ready to work together. Stay hopeful-there's always a way forward.
Parting with someone you love is always a challenging process, but in my experience, I had the guidance of a spiritual guide who prevented my marriage from collapsing. His name is Father Akunna.
I promise you will not regret it.
I belive" Marriage Helper" gives people support and hope that things can change for the better. Especially in today's society, where everything is expected to be so disposable.
There's always hope
Marriage helper you are my hero. You have always saved my Soul on several occasions. Whenever I hear from any of you my life and marriage is strengthened in one way or an other. Thank you so much for the good work. May the Almighty God bless you abundantly.
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There are several things for saving your marriage
Try to talk more
Help each other out more
Try to give and take more
(I read these and the reasons they work on Mirykal Marriage Plan website )
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God is with you pray for your married
Deuteronomy 28
Pray read bible psalm 16,32,41,42,59,77,90,105,137,150,together
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You and your husband &wife are one soul
Pray God don’t want separated
So simple but yet makes sense. Who can argue with success?
Thank you.
This channel is truly helping me. Thank you
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Same here
Thank you for the positive words in this message. I needed to hear this. It's been 4 and a half months but I have some hope left to make it wonderful again.
How did it end, did you get back together? :)
Any update in 2024? Hoping you were able to salvage things.
I got back in touch with my spouse, and have spent two months improving myself and learning to take responsibility for the things that I caused. I have also learned to not be angry and to rather revert those angry thoughts to a CBT framework, so I can write down my frustrations, focus on me, and try to rebuild trust. That's all going ok. How do I start to rebuild attraction so that I can connect again with my spouse? I don't expect a solution tomorrow, but I'm stuck now that I'm able to get her to meet up with me.
How did it play out for you mate?
I really need to hear this right now. Thank you for your words
I am just recently going through this. I am very confused as to when marriage became so disposable. We are not physically abusive, we don’t yell and scream. We argue and voices raise but nothing over the to. I definitely know there are areas I need to improve upon, but without being given that chance I can’t understand it being grounds for divorce. She’s dropped hints and said things here and there but I never knew it was like this. Never did I see this as an option
I hear ya. Similar story here. She says she was clear years ago that we were headed down the wrong path. But I didn't hear or I just didn't listen
Same here. I was not abusive, didn't cheat, didn't go out clubbing or with the boys or even spend too much time at the office.
I made mistakes but was willing and working on all my stuff. There were no grounds for separation or divorce, but yet she walked out and said she is filing for divorce.
We vowed for life and she even said, "Grow old with me, the best is yet to be", and "I'm not going anywhere, you're stuck with me" after an arguments.
Talk is cheap and marriage "vows" are now pathetic in this society.
Unless there is abuse, adultery, or something major like that, we have to figure it out and work through it.
Problems can make marriages stronger if we both work together. Lust and infatuation are emotions. Love is a choice.
I hear you.
Is it possible to save the marriage when your spouse is not interest on save it? an you work alone to save it?
I have the same question. It's been 4.5 years he left me, nevdr asked got divorced and I have brr. constantly asking for all these years to work it ou
Thank you for this God-sent encouragement. ♥️🙏🏼
My marriage needs major help! Neither want divorce, husband giving up, but I’m not.
Having some break through with husband. Praise God!!!
@@krissyw638 what did you do to make it better?
Debbi Beans well it’s just been baby steps but there is some improvement. My husband even planned a Mother’s Day thing for me which he hasn’t done for 8 years! I’ve been listening to Jimmy Evans, BTG movement, High Thrive Coaching Marriage Max and reading What did you expect by Paul David Tripp. Also been praying a lot and improving myself. Hope this helps!
@@krissyw638 I hope things are still getting better for you two. Things are stressful between my wife and I. God willing, things will be better too for us
@@krissyw638 Jimmy Evans is great. I did a study with my wife with him.
Unfortunately it didn't help in the long run and my wife left. Only God can hep at this point.
You are an excellent businesswoman,compassionate and knowledgeable about this subject...you made me a believer,I will follow these points in hope to restore our marriage.
Thank you for your us.
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@@darrylaurence1863 What state is he in? I am in the Island and my wife is in the States
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I’m so over my husband mess. I really don’t care anymore! Whoever he’s with they can have him . It’s his lost because I’m a awesome woman. Not gonna keep waiting on someone that doesn’t want me.
Trust and believe God!! Keep the faith!! You can’t change your husband and don’t even try. Work on yourself and be the best you that you can be. God will work on your husband. I wish you and family much success. 🙏🏾
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I have always loved my wife, I would do anything for her. She hurt me years ago and Im still hurt.
Try to forgive her. Marriage can't survive unforgiveness.
It's hard but can be done especially if you ask for God's help.
At first when my wife said she wanted a divorce, I wanted to try to save the marriage for my kids. But now I view her as unworthy of my love and a relationship. Someone that flaked out on me once could do it again at any time. I don't want to feel like a sword of damocles is hanging over my head that may fall at any time.
Well we are all very sorry to hear that this has happened. It is completely your choice if you wish to do that. But it's our mission at Marriage Helper to help you save your marriage to last a lifetime. So we believe there is always hope. Thanks again and hope we can help you in the future.
You do a lot of good work for a bunch of people. Good job !!!!!! marriage matters !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Also are there any more success stories that I can listen to?
Read my story.
We all need some sort of hope when we've entered a part of a relationship that seems hopeless. Its anecdotal and helps to cope to see that spouses do come back around.
Thank you, I think the reason I was so fearful was because I absolutely didn’t know how to be. Thank you for your advice
This is really lovely and very informative, my wife left with our kids and she told me she don't love me anymore, because I insult, don't love her enough and that her name is not in any of my properties. I still love her and I want her back but also want her to stop those things that gets me angry .
Get a clue, time to visit a SBT counselor.
By being love: breathing, speaking, thinking love-yourself and others. Rather then making your feeling and acting of love dependent of how someone else acts. Love can sometimes be letting someone go, giving space, dropping judgement what you believe is right for the other... it is not easy, but you probably know living your current reality isn't easy either
This is such a great advice. Thank you so much ❤
My partner told me 8 months ago that he didn't love me anymore. I've tried to save our relationship since. I feel it is a bit better today. Still, he says he has feelings but that he doesn't consider us as a happy couple. What can I do? Is the process to save a relationship that long??
Did it work?
These things work great, but only if both parties are willing to change for the better. If only one party is doing the best to save the marriage while the other one doesn't, then it's just gonna get more painful.
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Depression, anxiety, mood swings, anger, abuse and OM . I do want to restore my marriage as we have 2 young children - but don’t know if it’s possible.
Same thing man , hang tough. Your not alone
It is worth fighting for. Follow the steps she gave. Never give up. Ever.
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How things can turn around, I just want to thank everyone at Marriage Helper for your videos that got me through a very tough time in my life.
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I'm needing help. Your words are speaking to me
I'm there to the point that I believe that it's not over
Matthew, we believe that any marriage can be saved. Do not give up hope. Please visit our website at www.marriagehelper.com or call our office at 866-903-0990 to see how we can help you.
@@rubencheek3356 please. I'm trying but feel like there's no hope
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We both say we are still in love but the respect is gone . We dont live together i moved out 2 months ago
Mary, I am in the same situation. We love each other deeply. But he has issues with hollering getting angry. He is either up, very loving and attentive, or really down, mad, angry, hollering. But always apologizes.
@@angieauldridge7409 as a man. I apologize. I don't know what exactly caused your husband to do this. But, for me, I grew up in an abusive home. I promised I would never hit a woman. But, I did not learn that yelling is just as, if not more, hurtful. I learned that I have anxiety, and when a stressful situation or an argument presents itself, I lost control and yelled and curse, catch myself and them stop. Its really hard to explain. But, there is a saying that goes: If you were never taught, you don't know. I never knew how to treat a woman, never learned to manage my stress, buried my emotional scars and the list goes on. Once you can help your husband acknowledge this (directly or through a mediator) he will be on the road to real change. It is very hard, but if you guys love each other it is worth it. And the last thing you should do is keep reminding him of every instance, it will just make him feel worthless and will sink more and more into accepting that he can't change. Sorry if I interrupted, just...wanted to share.
Am so sorry to hear that. It is really tough. The hardest part is to remain civil to each other. If only one person is willing to let go of all the past arguments and incidents etc I can almost assure you that the entire boat will shift direction. When we, as humans, break up, we remind ourselves over and over about all the bad, and more often than not, there is always way more good. I hope you guys work it out. Just thought I would share.
Hows it going?
Deep dive on the emotions and situations behind the behavior, help him on that. Don’t just say “you have to change or stop this”. Setting boundaries but help with love.
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slp2007 , no you aren’t alone. I felt the same way as you. Now 27 years later, he’s moved out saying he loves me but isn’t in love with me. He wants to dictate our time together. I’m frustrated. I was in love with him but life got in the way. I want to be in love with him again and he says the same but I just don’t see any progress in that direction. AT ALL! We only talk about surface things and our grown children. This is how we have talked for at least 10 years. Now he’s happy living by himself. 🤷♀️🤷♀️🥺🥺😤😞💔
@@EadsB7002 take a cold shower and grow up.
i feel like this is too late for me. I messed up and my wife wants to leave me. She said there is no hope, no way changing her mind.
My husband filed for a divorce the other day. He doesn't know that I know,either. He has also been battling addiction. He is also involved with someone else that has kids. We have no kids and I feel she keeps using her kids against him. Can anyone give me any advice that may help me save my marriage. I pray daily for our marriage. He is starting to be distance towards me where he has never been that way. I feel in my heart its not too late. He filed on Nov 15,2019. He has filed before and we stopped it. Should I just give him what he wants or do I fight for what I want????? Help anyone please
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My husband is 26 years older than me and we have married for almost two years now and we even have a son but they say age doesn’t matter in a relationship but he always flirted with another girls on social media and he never told them that he has married and he never post my pictures on social media and he also act like he is single. And after that he started to cheat on me and sometimes accusing me unnecessary accusations. So one day I saw several women’s numbers in his phone so I took one of the number inside her phone and I texted the girl and the girl we are almost the same age, so I text her and the girl started insulting me and tell me all kinds of words and even told the girl that he didn’t married and the girl told me that he only wanted his son not me so she told me everything and she said that she will never live my husband alone, so I called my husband and ask him if he knows that lady and my husband told me that he only wants to help the girl because his parents are dead and I forwarded all the texts the lady sent to me and how she insulted me and my baby. And then he still continue talking to the girl he never gave me no attention when ever I need him he always ignores me and told me that he is not interested in making love so I forget about it and then on day the girl forward my husband voice message while he was begging her for sex through the phone 😰 so I got so mad and me too I started to cheat on him about almost a weeks and later he find out that I was cheating on him with another man so I told him the truth and I confessed to him and then he said he has forgiven me and he always told me that he loves me . And then after sometimes he begin to cheat on me back with the same girl on social media and the lady even told her that she is a virgin so after some times I suspected that he is cheating on me so I searched his phone to know who is she so I see the Same girl and I confronted my husband again and he told me that he only wanted to help her for her school problems nothing else and then he apologized to me again and I forgive him because my baby is too young and I don’t want my baby to asked me when he grows up about his father and my baby is one year six month old and after a days I told him to send a message to the girl that am around he should not text him or call him because he’s a married man so he did what I told him to do . The next day I saw there conversation and told the girl that he only sent that message to her to be careful that I am around and he never sent it intentionally because am the one that order him to do that and then he even promised to give the lady a lot amount of money and told the girl that let them continue their relationship and he will always love the girl . So please ma what can I do to solve my marriage back because right now am heart broken 😰😰😭.
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I'm in the beginning stage of separation and I want to save my marriage.
Same here. You’re not alone in this
Same. Im hoping we can fix things but Im not happy living like roommates & my husband is. Do you stay together & give up any hope of love & intimacy just for the sake of not breaking up your family? Its terribly lonely
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I am working on myself to try to change myself and help save my marriage. I feel my wife is having issues with a pastor who is married and also an older man in his 60 or 70 age group.
My wife of 20 years wants a divorce she is 110% adamant that she does not want to continue with the marriage I suggested marriage counseling she's not interested I moved out because I couldn't handle being around her I was getting too emotional and I broke the first rule can I come back from this
How have things worked out for you two? My wife of 24 is doing the same. I hope things worked out Pete.
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My wife has left and won't talk to me what can I do to changing that.
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I have taken on advise and make very little steps at a time, I have made all the classic mistakes, in the past I make progress and then ruin it all because in my heart I did not even know also if i wanted be married. it always seemed to go back as a competition whom was most hurt. really nothing seemed to be working at all. I am taking these basic steps, not to push or beg. it does not work ever. I have more hope just watching these youtube videos. really no one tells you to how have a long term relationship.
Do how do you give love when you don’t feel loved ?
I feel you on this question 😩
True love is not conditional .It's just about treating another person well. Try it you will find you will love and feel better about yourself. Sometimes it comes back sometimes it doesn't but in the end you get loved more in life by giving. Just give a little if that all you have .do what you can .don't worry about whether its enough and don't worry about anybody else .
Love anyway. Be consistent. Real love generally is returned over time.
Your videos mentioned during dating about speaking their love languages. I speak my wife's love languages but she doesn't receive them. Her languages are Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation. She doesn't let me service her anymore. She doesn't accept my affirmations to her. So, what do I do?
MY wife is stuck with things I done to her in the past and I was recently hit by a car so I been on short term disability and my wife had to become the provider of the home while I recover now shes overwhelmed and stress from work it's like she's taking everything out on me I'm walking around on egg shells around her and she bringing the past back up building a emotional wall and not showing me no love at all and we hardly communicate we have 3 kids together and shes talking about separating she need her space and get herself together is my marriage is over I been trying for 3 months to fight to stay but she still has that attitude.
Hi Quinn Jackson, I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. I hope you recover well and feel better soon. Here is a link to the replay from our live show that can encourage you with stories of hope! ua-cam.com/video/kj3PCEaxuLo/v-deo.html
@@mjqueen415 yes I do
What if your spouse has cheated constantly for 42 years because of uneven sex drive and has no intention of stopping.. can u help that?
What happens when you're separated, still living in the same apartment, share the same bed and have a 3 year old? Is it still possible to repair when she wants out?
Keep doing what your doing, enjoy the videos.
I can across your video on Secret fixer blueprint - there are many awesome videos there that should help out
I recently found your channel and I finally have hope that I can bring my husband home to me! I have been feeling down and slightly depressed for years now (even before he left and that is partly why he left). I asked my doctor for an antidepressant but I am scared to take it. I know these types of medicines can help but they can also make a person feel worse. I know you can’t give me medical advice ....just wondering your stance on these medicines as in starting to help work on my PIES.
Thank you Kimberly
Would you suggest telling your spouse that you realized you have been too controlling recently as you were afraid they were slipping away ?
Furbee82, Thank you for your comment. The first thing we try to teach people is how to have healthy communication with their spouse to avoid making the situation any worse. One of the main tips is to stop PUSH Behaviors. This is anything you do (or don't do) that tends to push your spouse away from you. We teach you 4 other rules you need to follow to help with this situation in our free e-book! You can download it here if interested!
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Yes! Be open with them and admit when you are wrong.
Come together stronger and see what you can each do to improve your marriage.
And read the Love Dare together. That is just gold that I did when my wife left- I wish I would have done it together with her before.
Really appreciate these videos
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Should I apologize for my mistakes
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How can I save the relationship if she said she has no feeling on me? She dont feel want to love me
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After 30 years of marriage and two teenage kids, my wife has given up, has found a new love interest and wants a divorce.
It is SO hard not to be begging her to stay, even for the good of our kids.
She is adamant she wants to go.
We've tried counselling and that hasn't worked.
She is smitten with her new guy.
But she wants me to stay in the family home that we both own, so that the kids aren't affected too much, and she wants me to pay the mortgage and bills.
And she wants to be able to use our facilities for her home based job when I am at work.
Went to the wrong counselors, find SBT counselors.
Hi it's been 4and a half months since my wife left snd she filed for devorce but yet we are still intermit with each other how do I save my marriage
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I think I've watched this video three or four different times and I've watched several of your other videos and I am in basically the same situation is this video talks about. My wife left with the kids went to her complex that she works at because it was convenient and easy she's taking the basics for them to live with taking most of the kids stuff but left some other stuff here. Told me the night before she left my kind of had a nice sit-down talk at least I was in depression mode kind of freaking out unfortunately cuz I found out last minute however she said it was but she just needed some space but more importantly she told me she was in a month to month at the apartment complex and that she was not locked into any long period of time. That tells me deep down she wants to work things out but I'm not sure. I know I need all the help I can get
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How did your situation play out mate?
How do I forgive when my husband continues to keep doing what he’s doing? And tells me he will never stop talking to this other girl?
Try to get him to counseling with you. Or find someone you both trust.
I learn how to forgive by the grace of GOD. A lot of bible reading,writing, and prayer. I'm okay now and I have forgiven him. Something will happen and they will part ways. Focus on you and the power of prayer. Trust in the LORD
Become his best friend again.
Praying 🙏🏻 and hoping.
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Have you had recociliation that took place after a spouse started an outside family I'll and promised the mistress marriage
I've done so much terrible shit to my husband. I've basically pissed my marriage away. I've cheated and lied to many times to count and he is still by my side but it's like he is dead inside. Idk where to start to even begin to try and help him heal and be able to make him happy instead of him constantly feeling like he's being reminded of the pain I've caused him. How do you earn trust back after you've broken it so many times. I want to fix what I've done. What can I do? 😭💔
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@@donnaspivey6710 I'm so excited my broken marriage has been restored my ex lover is back after he left me and our kids for another woman. I was so happy to me how he help many people to bring there lover back
What if we already signed divorce papers?
If you love each other, don't let technicalities change that fact. My wife wants a divorce. I will not fight it. If a year from now she calls me and say "let's work it out." I will be there in a heart beat. I would do anything for her, and my family. It's really difficult, since emotions flair up, this and that thoughts take over your mind, but, believe it or not, making every effort to remind yourself of all the good, each and every day, meditating on it, makes a huge difference.
What if, my step daughter has issues, and since she and her sister and Mom, (wife) moved in 2005, she didn't like me. Both kids are out and married themselves. Oldest step has now, 2 grandkids and because she doesn't like me, she is holding that over her mom, not letting grand kids come to our house.
So mom(wife) at this point, is siding with daughter. And is moving out.
Does both have to attend your workshop...because my husband says it me. Not him...and of course I say he changed and has become disconnected...maybe he's right
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I am hoping to save the marriage, been married over 16 years. Problem here is my husband has another gal in the picture. The reason right now we are still married is he has a large life insurance policy on me. He is trying to help me along. He is an narcissist kind of guy, very much into power, control and abuse. But still I believe we could turn this marriage around if only he would work on that. Right now he won't. I have moved out of our home and am living with my son. My husband uses poisons like a fuel treatment for his semi-truck to mess with my health. I have told the police but its my word against his. I am a Christian and believe in my vows. But how in the heck can this all be fixed and saved? Oh yes I am 70 and my husband is 69.
I tried hard to save, but not any more, my wife is a narcist, and now its her way or highway, I better take highway
Wow! how can us women go through something like this... we love our partners so much that if we want to save our marriage we have to kiss ass.🙄
Lol. That can go both ways.
Leticia Cobarrubias sorry Ma'am men too go through the same type of situation.
What if your husband has an intimici problem, and doesn’t want to have sex with you? And talking about it, makes it worse? And talking about real feelings isn’t possible because it always end with a fight, or he withdraws or thinks he is under attack.
Its just too hard to restore a marraige when you cant feel any connections anymore,
First step is stop thinking everything is too hard. Nothing good comes easy. It takes work.
I really wish you would add finances as part of your Pies concept. So crucial and the number one cause of divorce is money fights and money problems so to ignore that aspect is like missing the elephant in the room. Other than that I really like your videos and think they are very helpful when someone’s brain is in that place where they fear a loss.
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I have a question how can I get my wife back if she has but I found out to be narcissistic Tendencies at the very least is Justin is married to be saved is it worth saving we've been together 10 years we have no kids the last five or six years has been nothing but fights or arguments nothing physical but she does not want to communicate does not want to put God in our marriage location of interest in spending any time with me whatsoever
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What should I do, when your partner said he needs space? I’m planning on just leaving for a little bit of time to give him some space. Is that a good idea?
I've read that separating to give each other space is actually not a good idea. Absence makes the heart grow less fond. Your oxytocin levels will fall while you are apart, and you will also both learn to cope without each other.
@@Teutoburg09 I agree.
@@Teutoburg09 so very true. Its killed my relationship and didn't help at all.
I’m not sure I found this one helpful. My husband cheated on me sexually three times, but they talked almost everyday on the phone for 10 years. I was devastated when I found out. Months later he told me he loved me, but was not in love with me. Those words nearly killed me. About 6 weeks later he promised me that he only loved me and was only in love with me. I believed him. He lost is job soon after and we bought a house in Georgia. Living here slightly less than a month, I noticed he was sulking. I knew it was over his girlfriend, Donna. He denied it that day, but the following day he once again told me that he loved me, but was not in love with me. I don’t want it to be, but I think my marriage is over. 10 years of having an emotional affair with an old high school sweetheart is a lot to forgive, I thought I could do it, but with him sulking and telling me again that he is not in love with me is just too much. I feel like I’m just waiting for him to tell me he is leaving. How am I supposed to have any hope in saving my marriage of 31 years.
He was such a good liar that I never had a clue. How do I know if he is lying in the future?
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I tried looking you up on Facebook, I did not see you there. Maybe send me your email. I am finally happy again. Let you wife know before you contact me. Don’t keep ANY SECRETS from her. Remember see is the wounded party. It was a long journey and I am happy again and would love to see you and your wife work things out too. You need to go down a very different path.
How did things work out for you. My wife of 24 has asked to be in separation and things don't look good for me. I've never been so devastated.
Cappy we still together, but it’s a struggle. My husband is like a yo-yo on a string.
@@susankooser9866 well I hope that it all works out for you. This is the most pain I've ever felt and wish this on no one.
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What if you were NOT really in love at first but due to pressure and authority figures telling you this is the one...you say I do? What if you wanted to be a guy but only due to sexual abuse? What if you were both were so screwed up from the past that you both never should have gotten married?
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I love my husband we have been threw alot in 13 years 😢
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Absolutely not. If it starts going sideways, it will never be "peachy" again. You're setting yourself up so your "spouse" can wait until you're 60 years old and steal all of your stuff, and latch onto another sucker like she's getting the daily newspaper. I'm just being real, here. Don't be a fool.
This happened to me! I tried so hard to save my marriage after he cheated. I thought it was the right thing to do. Well fast forward to several other betrayals and verbal abuse, and he left me while I was hospitalized. He refuses all communication and is trying to take everything we worked so hard to obtain. It's crushing. Please, people, don't try to save a marriage when the other person doesn't want you anymore. I wasted my youth, and I believe his bad behavior made me sick. He destroyed my life. He waited until we were 50. 25 years of marriage, down the drain. It is devastating. He did this almost three months ago and never talked to me again, didn't even care when I was in the ICU with my life in danger from pneumonia. If they want to go, let them. Push them out the door! Run away if you have to! Once they've cheated or left you, leave them back and never ever return no matter what.
There no communication, I can’t talk to him about anything... it’s been 26 years and I don’t think he can be the man I need...
Pray God gets his attention. God is bigger than he is. Make sure you never nag him. Just love him. Be the sweetest wife ever. Even if it is not returned at first. Pray and pray God gets his attention even if it means that something temporarily slows him down or puts the fear of God in him. Never give up. Find a good female friend to talk to.
She cheat ed I lift her. We have a son adored by each of us. She says regrets it sorry let's start over can not get over the lies!! I just can't. I love your concept of pies! Hope to become better father maybe husband again in future not dateing got serious trust issues as you might guess. Wish I had known Of you guys before I lift her.we talk every weekend or if he as appointment. Truth each day I feel less lonely
No not Any person. This doesnt work for people with NPD.
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I'm stuck in a situation where my wife had told me that she loves me but is not in love anymore. I know I wasn't always there and made her feel I wasn't giving her the attention that she needed or wanted, and it drove her away to find attention from someone else. She had eventually told me what she had done, and I forgave her about it. I wasn't there, and I didn't give her that attention, and I apologized to her about it. I need help trying to get her back and fall in love with me all over again. We have had some good times this past week or two, but she still doesn't know what she wants. she says she wants to be alone and is just depressed and doesn't know if she can be happy again. I'm giving her time and not talking to her about what happened because it was pushing her away even further away from me. I've been doing what I can to better myself and give her space, but I don't know what else to do to try and help her through this time, and I'm not giving on her I just need help I want to fix and save our marriage and trying to do everything I can it feels like I'm doing this all by myself because she don't know what she wants? I need help
Mate. You situation is IDENTICAL to mine
@@justinclark1182 similar to mine, too.
Many times women will have it in their minds that if something doesn't change they will leave...without actually communicating that.
So they let/force their heart to close and get cold and then nothing we can do will reach them.
That's when we need to turn to God more than ever. He is the only one that can do it.
My husband married other women in Africa but he still haven't go to see her yet I still have hope he will come back to me we have two kids together I need help please I love him so much!
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Is it possible for kind words affection hugs kisses love notes vacations dates gifts to push away the spouse?. This is ALL from the beginning of the marriage NOT during seperation. I did all these and she didnt. she STILL left me. I didn't smother her at all but she still left. I was confident and she still left. I was kind affectionate loving patient and she still left. I'm not perfect But didnt abuse her or yell at her and she still left
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Hi it’s been now like more than 4 years our sex life play vital role in our relationships but I find out he could not satisfied me. Any suggestions plz to improve?
Yes, that is so true. I had to find techniques to take care of the relationship along with my needs. Having special conversations with someone, kept me satisfied and able to keep my marriage alive. I am a person with very little needs, even then when my spouse would not be willing to satisfy those, I was very disappointed. Finally, with such a simple technique, things became better.
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