Forgiveness and love come from Jesus. He’s changed my heart so much, through all these trials with my husband, and it gives me the power to forgive him when he hasn’t asked. That’s the only way I can be who Jesus has called me to be.
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Sorry to hear that bro. I’m in the same boat. I’ve tried everything. There’s somethings we have no control over. May God bless your life and future wife 🙏
So sorry but still forgiveness is important. It took someone I love 25 years to re ognize the damage they did and still without possibilities of coming back forgiveness gave closure.
Forgiveness and reconciliation are commanded by God. Some people will never forgive until they are saved. Unforgiveness is a heart hardened toward God and others. Your videos and advice are always good because it helps us grow as individuals, and in the image of Christ, and I always enjoy and learn from them.
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What if your spouse refuses to forgive and just wants to torture me? He is! It’s extreme verbal, mental and emotional abuse!!! I can’t take it anymore.
I think it's a mischaracterization to insinuate someone is DEMANDING forgiveness, but rather SURPRISED or baffled that someone who claims to be a Christian would choose not to (in defiance of clear scripture commands...see Ephesians 4:31,32/Matthew 6:14,15), and instead choose to hang on to bitterness and resentment over relatively small offenses (like a raised voice in response to their anger outburst)...especially when you have already forgiven them of much worse offenses (ie, physical and severe verbal abuse).
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How about coming to terms with what happened, accept it and move on. A lot of Christians view forgiveness as the only path. You don't have to forgive someone who hurt you terribly, you don't have to have that person in your life at all. There are people out there that will love you for who you are.
I betrayed my wife in the worst way and I am remorseful and sorry but I woud never ask for forgiveness. It's not necessary. If she wants to forgive me for her own sake, that's fine but I don't need it. I need to move forward and ensure that it won't happen again.
My husband blames me for those around me saying things to him that he doesn’t like. He wants me to confront them. In his words I need a backbone and should have his back. How do I handle this?
Why doesn't he confront them ? And, how can you control what others say ? I guess ask yourself why others are talking about him, it is very uncommon for people to talk bad about someone for no reason. So, what is his part in this ? It has to be something.
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this is probably the best podcast I've ever listened to and it actually gives me courage
You guys are my hero. Please keep doing what you guys are doing.
Forgiveness and love come from Jesus. He’s changed my heart so much, through all these trials with my husband, and it gives me the power to forgive him when he hasn’t asked. That’s the only way I can be who Jesus has called me to be.
The PIES concept is the best.
So glad you love it! Don't forget to check out the PIES Podcast we host called It Starts With Attraction, if you haven't already! You can find it anywhere you get your podcast!
Said it once say again the PIES are great I couldn't forgive but the pies I made part of my life moving forward
As great as you and I love your advice, it didn’t save my marriage. I tried and she didn’t want to- so I let her go after 20 years.
20 years 😭😭😭😭
Sorry to hear that bro. I’m in the same boat. I’ve tried everything. There’s somethings we have no control over. May God bless your life and future wife 🙏
So sorry but still forgiveness is important. It took someone I love 25 years to re ognize the damage they did and still without possibilities of coming back forgiveness gave closure.
That's like "How to say sorry for shooting your spouse". How about "How not to need forgiveness by staying faithful."
that does what to who already failed?
Forgiveness and reconciliation are commanded by God. Some people will never forgive until they are saved. Unforgiveness is a heart hardened toward God and others. Your videos and advice are always good because it helps us grow as individuals, and in the image of Christ, and I always enjoy and learn from them.
Thank you so much Donna Smith. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on UA-cam. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
Blessings,
What if your spouse refuses to forgive and just wants to torture me? He is! It’s extreme verbal, mental and emotional abuse!!! I can’t take it anymore.
If only don’t have the access to catch your spouse….
Have you been working on your P.I.E.S.? Look into that. But dont take it to long because life is to short...
Thanks !!!!!!!
I think it's a mischaracterization to insinuate someone is DEMANDING forgiveness, but rather SURPRISED or baffled that someone who claims to be a Christian would choose not to (in defiance of clear scripture commands...see Ephesians 4:31,32/Matthew 6:14,15), and instead choose to hang on to bitterness and resentment over relatively small offenses (like a raised voice in response to their anger outburst)...especially when you have already forgiven them of much worse offenses (ie, physical and severe verbal abuse).
Great advice. Thanks! 😁
Thank you so much Marvin R. Ward. We truly appreciate your comment and are grateful to have you as part of our community here on UA-cam. Please, don't hesitate to reach out to us if there's anything else we can do for you. marriagehelper.com/marriage-strategy-call/
Blessings,
How about coming to terms with what happened, accept it and move on.
A lot of Christians view forgiveness as the only path. You don't have to forgive someone who hurt you terribly, you don't have to have that person in your life at all.
There are people out there that will love you for who you are.
You should forgive the person, but you don't have to reconcile at all cost. Forgiveness is for the forgiver's good.
I betrayed my wife in the worst way and I am remorseful and sorry but I woud never ask for forgiveness. It's not necessary. If she wants to forgive me for her own sake, that's fine but I don't need it. I need to move forward and ensure that it won't happen again.
"I need to move on and make sure 'it' doesn't happen again?"
Elaborate ❤
My husband blames me for those around me saying things to him that he doesn’t like. He wants me to confront them. In his words I need a backbone and should have his back. How do I handle this?
Kindly ask people not to disrespect your husband In front of you because if it hurts his feelings it should hurt yours to
Why doesn't he confront them ? And, how can you control what others say ?
I guess ask yourself why others are talking about him, it is very uncommon for people to talk bad about someone for no reason. So, what is his part in this ? It has to be something.
Hes given silent treatment for two weeks. My husband. I dont wany to speak and argue
Hey sa ali! It sounds like something that could be extremely beneficial to you would be our SMART Contact Toolkit. This will teach you exactly what to do to start rebuilding healthy communication with your spouse! Highly recommend you consider checking it out here: marriagehelper.com/product/smart-contact-toolkit-product/
We truly hope it helps you.
Has Marriage Helper gotten any feed back on how this turned out. Also was your analysis correct?