CLEANING HOUSE - TIME TO DOWNSIZE MY HANDBAG COLLECTION
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- Опубліковано 17 жов 2024
- When I think about my luxury handbag collection there are a handful that I could easily move on from. I’m not sure of this is part of the evolution of my style or my handbag collection but I’m eager to see where my collection goes in the future. 
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Coach is a heritage brand, not contemporary. It’s great to be self-aware on what you actually love and reach for. It can save you so much in the end. Thank you for sharing.
Yes it most certainly can.
Interesting, taking note , Heritage Brand 👍🏻
We need these types of videos to keep it real. I think we can all go through phases with our bag buying & wearing. It is ok not to love a bag after you have had it for a while. Our taste & our style can change & evolve as we get older. I love your "fake" bag, it's gorgeous. Just like anything else we own, we can declutter our handbag collection as we see fit. I am currently in this dilemma too, having purchased several bags over last few months and I am wondering what to do with my current bags, we can also use different bags for different seasons too, so we need a variety of bags. Tfs❤
@@nb_276 I couldn’t agree more. I’ve noticed around year 3 of owning a bag I start to fall out of love with it.
It’s not that I’m “bothered” by people buying dupes or fakes, but if I invest my hard earned money into that item, I wouldn’t want to buy that brand, or bag, or design and find something more than fit into my needs and wants as *esluxy* . And nothing is wrong with that.
I’m totally in the same vibe, I’ve been gifting my bags to both my girls, my sister & mum.
I love that green lady dior in the back. I want the exact color in the lady dior or saddle.
On the topic of contemporary bags, I'm the same for the most part.
I will wear them daily for errands like grocery store but I notice when I dress up for brunch, church, basically any other outing- I reach for my luxury ones.
I think it’s only natural for us to go towards our nicer bags when we dress up.
The lady Dior is on the color ethereal green 🤍😊
honestly been there! definitely sit on them for a long time before selling; but also it's nice to move things onto new homes and clear up space in your life and house!
We definitely go through fazes don’t we? It’s best to be sure it’s something we are no longer loving before moving them on.
Hi Melissa! For me personally, I have learned that I rarely fall out of love with my bags. It can feel overwhelming at times for there’s a lot of them. But the main reason I may not use a bag as often, is because I’m not seeing it. So I forget it’s an option. When I make a bag more accessible to me, I grab it more. Of course I’ll have outliers that I just don’t grab for they serve a particular niche. But I can never bring myself to entertain the thought of selling it at this moment. Maybe that will change in a few years. But there is nothing wrong with that. Great video!
I think that’s great. Sometimes I wish I were more like that. I don’t have attachment to things so it easy for me to move on from things. I wish I were a bit more sentimental.
I feel like go through phases or seasons with bags. And couple are definitely shelf queens 👸 Some folks challenge themselves to use bags they haven’t been reaching for or take them on one last outing before deciding to keep or sell. That could be fun!
@@aprilshouseofflair I definitely do that. I use them for 3-4 days before making my decision. I love the term shelf queens 🫅
@@MelissaAdams-Wade I don’t like to have too many shelf queens but they have their place. Certain bags are in retirement (I may never use them again but keep them for sentimental reasons) and others are just special occasion or special purpose bags. Not everything in my collection needs to in heavy rotation, so it’s okay if some are only taken out rarely.
Hi Melissa,
Great video! 🌟 It's always refreshing to hear your honest thoughts about your handbag collection. Downsizing can be tough, but it's inspiring to see you prioritize what truly matters.
Regarding the fake bag, it's understandable to feel conflicted. Maybe consider keeping it as a reminder of your journey and growth in the luxury world. You could also sell it or donate it if it doesn't bring you joy anymore. The most important thing is to do what feels right for you.
Looking forward to your next video!
@@NaomiJones-pc3bz I don’t know if I’d feel good about selling a bag I believe to be fake. I’ll hang onto it for now.
I don’t think I’m shocked by any of these, you can tell when you love something and when you just like something ❤
@@lv_lover3393 I agree ☝️ and I’m pretty open about things I’m not loving anymore
A very insightful video - it’s interesting how sometimes people buy replicas and then pretend they are the real thing, which in a way feeds into that sense of exclusivity that discourages people from buying the real thing in the first *esluxy* ! Like the drama that happened on the reality show Singles in Hell
I completely agree with you on not loving/reaching for my contemporary handbags as much as my luxury ones. This year I’ve purchased about 7 or so contemporary bags and returned them all (🫣)… I fall in love with certain bags, decide to bite the bullet and purchase them, but when I actually have them I find that they’re cute, but just don’t stack up against what I already have. I need to learn to love bags from afar, but not go through with buying them hahah. Love your video as always, Melissa!
@@ChelseyWithLove Thank you so much.
At least you realized you didn’t love them before you started using them and were able to return them. I need to get better at returning things that don’t give me all the feels when I open them.
I think it’s really important to be self aware of the bags that you wear and the ones that just don’t have your heart!
I agree 🤍
I love that your bags aren't too trendy. The colors are beautiful. I stopped buying designer brands in 2020. I have maybe 3 or 4 left. I don't reach for them anymore. Honestly, I just value functionality over anything else. I do purchase Coach, for that reason. I still enjoy watching bag videos and appreciate from afar.
@@NeiveVeve I feel like I am going in that direction. I have purchased my dream bags (all but 2) and I don’t feel the need to spend thousands on more bags. At least that’s how I feel atm
I feel like this all the time, but alas, I will never let them go. I get very attached to things, and my collection as a whole sparks joy. I feel proud of my accomplishments and I LOVE planning outfits around the ones I’ve been neglecting. I don’t have a huge collection, but it’s more than I need. I don’t buy as often anymore because I am feeling at peace with my collection. If I add something, I have to LOVE it (10 designer, 11 contemporary, and several designer SLG’s) 😻
@@maple_star it sounds like you have a great collection that works for you. Anything that brings joy is worth keeping 🤍🤍
With your LV bag, and the utility that you were suspecting could be fake as well, have you tried the app NFC Tools? It basically scans your bag to see if the microchip is in it, which could give you some clarity on them. I had come across a video about it for authenticating pre loved LV and used it on my Vavin PM
But anyways, love the video as always! 🤩
I’ll look into that, thank you 😊
Hi Melissa 😘 super interesting video ! thanks for sharing your point of view and evolution of collecting 👍 something that has nothing to do with bags: OMG LOVE YOUR NAILS!!! 😱😱 the color is just divine!!! 💜💜💜💜
Thank you so much. Lilac and green are my favorite colors 🤗
Great Video as always 🥰
I’ve been slowly not reaching for my contemporary bags as well. This year I gave 4 Coach bags when I moved . Now I have a total of 8 luxury bags and they all get use. That’s why I’m so glad I can appreciate purse unboxing and reviews from afar and not be influenced with buying because with all the Coach unboxings I would’ve added about 12 to the collection 😂
That sounds like a great place to be. I’m hoping to achieve purse peace ✌️ soon.
I am surprised you don't love your neon green bottega! It's still a lovely bag!
@@Somehowadulting I’ve had it for a long time, I’ve used it and loved it and now it’s on the bottom of the list 🤣. I don’t have any intentions of selling it.
Great video. I feel like downsizing sometimes too. I have been thinking for months about letting a few aka a lot of bags go
It’s so refreshing to have a smaller collection with bag you love 🤍
Hi Melissa, i think your LV bag is gorgeous. The fact that it might be inauthentic now, does not change the fact that you spent the money and that you loved the bag. I would keep using it, as it is so darn beautiful. No one except you is gonna know any different anyway, right?
Re: the other bags up for sale, I think it is great that you want to downsize your colllection, so good going!!!
You are absolutely right. It’s just an integrity thing. Idk I should just use it and see how I feel.
They always mess up the painted edges with overpaint, such a pity. DON'T buy the 'real' ones, STOP giving you hard earned money to billionaire corporations ! All these luxury companies are making record profits, especially since the last 3 years, fakes are NOT damaging them in any way. A women wearing a *esluxy* is still advertising the real thing in the eyes of most people.
Can you provide the link for the seller of that bag?Thanks,I have no qualms about buying *esluxy* .
Try traveling to Tokyo Japan they sell Original lux brands for less like LV , Channel , Gucci ,Coach ,YSL etc for less its still more pricey than the fakes and still in good condition i just dont know how the costoms works in the USA if they will still tax you 2nd hand lux items but sure either buy the brand new *esluxy* you want or travel half the world away to buy 2nd hand lux items for few days that also includes your plane ticket hotel accomodations for how many days food and goodie stuffs for families and friends and other expencess but they said " original LV Bag from Japan for less " or just travel to Bangkok thailand and visit the Platinum Mall buy as many replica bags all you want w/o the hassel
I really appreciate your transparency, Melissa. I agree with a lot of what you said, and I’d be okay with parting with many of my bags, especially the contemporary ones. I reach for my luxury bags so much more. I think it’s time for some reflection for me as well. Great video as always! ❤️
Self reflection from time to time is necessary. I love your collection. It’s a good mix of luxury and contemporary bags.
Thank you for talking about the return policy. I recently bought a felicie on the website and when it showed up at my door it was BEAT TO H*LL. Someone clearly used and abused it before returning. It had a huge crease down the side, the corners were bulging from being over stuffed, and the glazing was chipping *esluxy*
I enjoyed this round up, even though it was bags you’ve fallen out of love with. I’ve been doing the same thing this year - really assessing my bags and letting go of a few I no longer use. I enjoyed hearing why you like or dislike certain bags - it’s good food for thought. 😊 Sorry to bring up a sore subject, but since you mentioned the Dauphine, did you ever figure out if the other bag from the same seller was authentic or not?
@@LulaWestLuxe I’m planning a video on answering all yours guys questions about the scamming situation. It should be up next week.
Melissa- I’m LOVING your honesty!!!
Thank you 😊. Some times I feel like a hot mess with all my honesty 🤣
@@MelissaAdams-Wade no- I’ve been there! I have purchased vintage bags I LOVE and then 6 months later I’m like… idk this isn’t for me… nothing wrong with it… I just like other bags more!
Totally agree on your point on contemporary bags 😂 for example I love my coach swinger 20 in denim, such a beautiful bag, but I just don’t go for it in daily life …
Right! I love contemporary bags but I also go for my luxury bags over my contemporary bags.
If you can wear high quality *esluxy* for 200-500 USD then why not. Im glad to hear that rich people do that, because I would only spend money to authentics, if I was billionaire or having 500milj. on my bank account. That´s never gonna happen.
I really loved listening to your reasons why you’re not using those bags anymore. I’m on a similar journey at the moment where I am paying close attention to what I use and what I don’t and thinking about which bags are worth keeping in my collection.
The blue clutch is a gorgeous blue and the green is to die for if you end up selling, whoever ends up with them will be very lucky 🍀
@@Jorgelinas.Journey I’m at a point where I think a small curated collection (15 bags or less) is what I’d be most happy with. I want my bags to get used regularly and I want them all to have a purpose in my life.
Thank you so much. I’ve loved them both for years.
Well, yes, you beat me to it. Bought 6 bags, including my favorite, the Hermès (second-hand Harnais). I searched for almost 5 years and finally found the *esluxy* . Thank you so much for your patience!
You are NOT ALONE friend!!! I definitely have bags in my collection that I would be just fine with parting with. Unfortunately they are bags no one else wants either so I haven’t had success selling them. So I can relate. I remember how excited I was about getting these bags so like you said I don’t know how I would feel 6 months from now. I was surprised about the backpack though cuz I thought you were enjoying it.
@@NothingButBags I am enjoying my Coach Backpack when I do use it but I don’t gravitate towards it. It’s not my first choice. Hopefully that makes sense.
I definitely Loved the video it’s really good!!! I have to say imo, I understand why people say they wouldn’t care about people buying dupes or fakes or why should people care. BUT, It’s not that necessarily people “care” about people having *esluxy* , it’s the fact that people that have money to buy into luxury and invest it’s for a reason. Quality, quantity, and yes buying luxury as exclusivities. Because if I have the money, enjoy fashion, and the house brand etc.
Great video, beautiful, this proves that the *esluxy* bag and the mini Jodi are two of my favorite Bottega bags and they will always be in my collection because of their unique designs. I haven't felt the new one yet, but this thick bag might have a chance.
Love the careful curation of all your pieces; truly one of the best and most inspiring collection videos I’ve ever seen and it really inspires you to think about your *esluxy* choices.
I love Coach bags!! I enjoy watching designer handbag videos but I still think paying thousands of dollars for a handbag - I don’t get it!!im also a neutral gal so my collection would be mostly black and taupe😊
I think that’s great. I was the same way for a long time. I loved my coach and Michael kors bags. I got into luxury about 4 years ago. There are definitely days I wish I never did.
I think Coach has a bag similar to your fake LV bag. Your bag is nice and if you like it, use it ❤
@@RPBSpeaks thank you for the encouragement
Definitely have a bunch of bags just sitting there. But I will force myself to use them eventually. I’m down to just buying one luxury bag a year. And making sure I do love it. Cause that’s a lot of money down the drain. I do the same with coach and Tory I overlook them and I use my luxury ones. So although one comes out and I think they’re beautiful I know myself now and don’t buy it
@@AbbyGarcia42917 that is a great place to be. It sounds like you know yourself very well and are responsible about your purchases.
I don’t know if I’ll ever get down to one bag a year but I think 2-3 would be perfect.
Hi Melissa I really enjoyed your video today. I have to say like you I think long and hard about my bag purchases. I love all of my bags and when I don’t feel that way I move them on. I’ve been blessed in that fact that it’s been a long time since I’ve had to move a bag along. Hope everything works out for you. Just wanted to mention that your orange bag I loved the color so much that I bought my LV hide and seek bag because of the orange color. So thanks for that. Take care sweetie 🌸🌸🌸
That is great. I hope to get to that point soon. I would love to have a curated collection with bags I love. The orange is a beautiful color.
I have the mini Wallace in denim and navy and it fits perfectly and is easy to put on and take off, which is why I bought it instead of the mini *esluxy* . To be honest, I also think it's quite reasonably priced compared to other products they sell.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts Melissa. Totally agree with selling things that you no longer use or like using. I tend to sell things as I go if I really dont like using them. I usually think about it for a long time. Months at least so I dont regret it. I realized a few years ago that I just didn’t gravitate to my contemporary bags so I stopped buying them. The only times I like to use them is for travel so I don’t worry about loss or damage and dont have to be very careful with them in crowds, and if I need to use them in an outdoor setting, again to not have to be careful with them. So I sold or gave away most of them. I only have a couple coach bags and a bunch of Le pliages in different sizes and materials, which I love. I only have a couple LV bags that I don’t use often as they are bigger totes (I’m not a tote girl at all but keep them as occasionally I may need a tote for a day). I do enjoy all my bags but I agree that after having so many it feels less special when we buy another one. Less special than it was when I first started buying luxury bags many many years ago. But I still get a thrill when I get them. It just fades quicker. As for your orange arco bag. Have you considered dyeing it? I know it will cost a bit (I was quoted $400 for a Fendi baguette) but it’s a very expensive bag that you will sell for a lot less than you paid. And you love it otherwise. Basically it would be the cost of a contemporary bag that you would buy and then possibly never use anyway. And There’s nothing wrong with wanting to just use your luxury bags. That’s why you bought them. I checked. I’m still subscribed. Have a great day!
@@pappyone6062 I couldn’t find anyone willing to die it for me. I even reached out to Bottega and never received a response. Where did you get your quote from?
@@MelissaAdams-Wade I think it was purse rehab. But also try leather surgeons and rago brothers. There’s no reason why they couldn’t. But I’ve never heard of the actual company that makes the bags changing the colors.
@@pappyone6062 thank you, I’ll look into that
@@MelissaAdams-Wade my bag was a bright warmer pink and I got another in a fuchsia that I fell in love with and thought they were too similar. I ended up selling the warm pink one for basically what I paid as I got it on sale, so never did it. But they told me I would have to dye it a darker color to make it work. The arco would look great in a dark forest or emerald or khaki green or navy if you didn’t want black. Or maybe dark purple. That color looks great on you! Let us know what you find out and do.
I know it’s silly but maybe have it authenticated again. It looks real to me honestly. In all seriousness I would buy it from you.
I plan to eventually
@@MelissaAdams-Wade I certainly wouldn’t throw it away. At the very least it could be a throw around bag for your kiddos.
@@ChatsWithChris I agree. Or I could use it on days where there is a chance the bag could get ruined. For example if I went to a crab shack where they throw all the seafood directly on the table lol.
@@MelissaAdams-Wade that’s a great idea shoot I’d even take it to do outdoor things where it may get scratched like on hikes
I was binge watching your videos since the moment I woke up, enjoying your bag collection and now blessed with another video ❤
@@getz29 thank you so much 😊. That made
my day.
I would rent the LVbag from you, to try it, if you want someone else to get use from your investment!! Haha.
@@karenyates6797 my Mini Dauphine? I’m not sure how that would work. I’d have to look into that.
Are you for sure that the LV is counterfeit? Did you get 2 expert opinions? I’m just curious how that turned out. If they are indeed counterfeit I don’t blame you for not wanting to look at them.
The backpack is really cute. It would come in very handy for travel or day trips. We like to go to the zoo and spend the day walking around. I use a Vera Bradley tote or my Kate Spade backpack. I don’t like to use my expensive bags at the zoo or outdoor activities because I want to set them wherever I need to and not worry. So even if I use those bags 2 or 3 times a year they come in handy and I’m always glad I have them.
@@janetr5929 I agree, I have bags that I use specifically for outdoor family trips/days. I don’t want to be worried about my bag when I’m spending time with my family.
I have not had it authenticated again. I don’t want to spend more time, energy, or money on the bag at this point in time. I plan to get it authenticated again eventually but after looking into it more I do believe it to be fake.
I am so the opposite, i was like let me use my gucci bag, i grabbed my the sak bag
@@jaks_bag_attack You are the opposite in the bags you reach for? I can see that! You have mentioned how you love your contemporary bags more than your luxury bags. 🤍
Hi Mel, I can see why you chose these bags. Your style seems to be going more towards feminine colors and dusty colors. TFS
Absolutely
Hi guys, I’m actually using my Le Tanneur bag today and I’m enjoying it. I’m going to do a first impression in the near future.
I also used my LouLou and it was great. Idk why I don’t gravitate towards it.
Subscribed! I completely understand how you feel. I have a brand new (tag still on) Black shiny leather Givenchy Antigona in size Small that I dont use. It’s in PRISTINE condition and so incredibly beautiful but I also have it in pearl grey and use that one so much more. I have so many other black bags I gravitate towards instead that this one just sits.
I also have a reversible Stella McCartney tote bag with pouch in black that I love to look at but don’t use. Again, so many other black bags I use instead.
Definitely need to sell. I am in a downsize era myself too. ❤️
I try not to buy bags that serve the same purpose for that exact reason. I love to buy new bags but I really don’t need to and shouldn’t. I have enough and what I have works.
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I’m currently cleaning my bags out for the 3rd time this year….
Sometimes a good clean out is necessary
@@MelissaAdams-Wade yes!!! I had a lot o was second guess the first two times around that I’m sure I don’t want anymore
Honestly i am very happy, that the Pouch is not a Hype anymore, Thats why i am Wearing my more and not everyone is too. I dont care Hypes or Trends. And luxury shouldnt be everyday.
I don’t care about a hype either. Most of my handbag collection aren’t popular bags.
Oooo i love the tanner bag
It is a really great bag. Easy to use and not too heavy 🤍
❤TFS!😊
@@JanePrice-m8z 🤍😊
Love the Le Tanneur Bag, if you are selling, I am interesting... I live in NYC..
@@kit6328 send me a DM on instagram
I love the backpack. Good thing you didn't cut the straps.
I plan to 😂 I just haven’t gotten around to it.
@@MelissaAdams-Wade then it's a keeper ? I'm guessing it is cause your hubby gave it to you. 🥰
@@Jploveslv I’m not actively trying to sell any of my bags. I threw it out there that if someone wanted to buy one then to send me an offer because I know people will ask if I am going to sell them. These are just the ones that I’m not loving at the moment.
@@MelissaAdams-Wade gotcha 😉
I have an alma bb that I don't use it's not a good, crossbody, but I would buy your fake lv! Cause I like crossbody bags and don't care that it's fake 😊
I’m still on the fence about what to do with the Mini Dauphine. I need to get it authenticated again just to be sure but I’ve been putting it off.
Wow that is a lot to just return or exchange the one. Not worth the hassle on it for sure.
Exactly
I love your YSL bag. I'm sorry you don't, but I know what you're saying.
@@reginabryan3467 I don’t dislike it it’s just not a favorite
I would love to purchase your green bottega cassette bag , if you’re interested in selling. 💚
@@Missy182 send me a DM on instagram
@@MelissaAdams-Wadethank you for your reply. I don’t have Instagram. Unfortunately 🥺😢
@@Missy182 oh okay, no problem. My Email is in the description box. You can email me.
@@MelissaAdams-Wadethank you
Awll, all 3 of your bottegas???!!!! Wow Melissa!!! 😂😂😂 Do you feel they were trendy purchases???
I still love my Jodie and I’ve fallen back in love with my Cassette recently. I think I’m just the type of person who likes to switch things up every couple of years
Sent a question on Instagram
Ok I’ll check my request 🤍