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  • Опубліковано 12 лис 2024

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  • @debt2none
    @debt2none  4 місяці тому +4

    Hey buddies!!!! 🤍 Thanks for hanging out with me today. I’ve missed y’all terribly! How have you been? We’ve been struggling a bit over here. Let’s chat. 🤍

  • @imkrafty2424
    @imkrafty2424 3 місяці тому +4

    Hello! You just came across my feed. First, I want to say I'm so, so sorry for your loss! I just lost my son on his birthday last year! He made it to 32! I'm still in disbelief! I pray that God gives you strength. Being a mother hits different than anything! I'm still struggling today! And my husband was not his biological! It still hurts the same, he was in his life for 31 years!!!

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Oh my goodness! I’m so sorry for your heartbreaking loss as well. They were the same age. Death is hard to handle in general. But there’s something more intense and so unnatural when a parent loses their child. May God give you & your husband all the comfort and strength that’s needed as you both continue navigating through life without him. 💗

  • @etherealenergy222
    @etherealenergy222 3 місяці тому +3

    People who truly cared about your husband and his mental health wouldn't tell him to stay quiet about his struggles when asked "how are you doing?". If that question comes up in a workplace setting, your coworker is asking just to be nice. I would keep them at arms length and not open up too much. Coworkers aren't always friends. Now if close friends/family are asking, they should want to know the truth (the good and the bad). Remove people who aren't helping you heal through this difficult time.
    Best of wishes to you and your husband💓💓
    Also I'm waiting for those moving videos hahaha 👀

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +2

      That’s so true. He has come to see who really cares about him during this-who’s genuine and who’s not. I appreciate your advice & well wishes 🤗❤️ Thank you so much. Oh yea, I need to get these videos uploaded for sure 🤣🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @yvonnezamora7345
    @yvonnezamora7345 26 днів тому

    How strange, this is the second video of yours I watched. I appreciate this video, I have a special needs child and it reminds me to savor the little moments even though it can be challenging. Like right now he doesn’t want to go to bed. lol. God bless you and your family, I’m sorry for your loss. I can only imagine how hard it is. That connection with a special child is indescribable and deep.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  26 днів тому

      Aw, you get it. What a blessing you have. 🥹 Yes, it is so important to savor those moments. Though this is the hardest thing we’ve ever dealt with, I believe we’ll get through it with God’s help. Thank you so much for your kind words.

  • @budgetwithlina
    @budgetwithlina 4 місяці тому +2

    Everyone grieves differently. I agree. Sending you and your husband lots of love and prayers ❤❤❤ especially a child loss. I can’t fathom ❤❤❤❤

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      So true. Each one is unique. Thank you so very much for your love & prayers 💗💗💗

  • @a2zbudgets101
    @a2zbudgets101 3 місяці тому +2

    Hi Kim!! I've missed you sis... I know you and hubby have to heal. I left last year for a few months and we somehow lost touch. I love you guys, stay prayed up and over time you'll feel better..See you next video ❤❤❤

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  2 місяці тому +2

      Hey my sweet friend!!! Oh my goodness, it’s been a minute. I’m so glad you popped in. I miss you too!!!! I’m looking forward to life settling down soon so I can get back on track with my YT fam. Thank you so much Shon❤️ Love you girl!!!

  • @LorettaNadeau
    @LorettaNadeau 4 місяці тому +2

    Big hugs all around. Congratulations on the progress. 🤗💜

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you!!!! 🤗

    • @LorettaNadeau
      @LorettaNadeau 4 місяці тому

      @@debt2none your welcome 🤗

  • @moneywithjustliving5258
    @moneywithjustliving5258 2 місяці тому +1

    Hey Kim, I don't know why I'm not getting your notifications. But here now!

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  2 місяці тому

      Heeey Paula!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @Itsmedesydes
    @Itsmedesydes 4 місяці тому

    It’s crazy to think how different your life can change in just as little as a year. Seems more like a blink of an eye. Kim, thank you for always being authentic, funny & just yourself. I hope that this new move & new chapter for you & your husband will be amazing! I can’t wait to see your future videos! & if no one has told you lately, you’re amazing! Keep it up! ♥️

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much for your encouraging words. I can’t tell you enough how much I appreciate it. You just made my day! 😘❤️

  • @financiallylux
    @financiallylux 4 місяці тому

    Ohhhh hi Kim! It’s so good to hear from you. Loved this update and video. Praying for your hubby. May he be allowed to grieve and heal in peace. 🙏🏾

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you soooooo much for your prayers my dear friend. 🩷 I think the move to Georgia will help him to grieve and heal in peace. No one down there expects him to be a certain way. I’m looking forward to the fresh start.

  • @K717MOS
    @K717MOS 4 місяці тому

    Much love,Kim!!! Sending prayers your way. God is with you. Sending much love 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Thank you my friend! ❤️🤗

  • @heiresswithchrist3731
    @heiresswithchrist3731 2 місяці тому

    Hi Kim ☺ I'm excited for you and hubby with those offers! You two deserve good things and rest with what you're going through.
    I think give some furniture or items away for free to lessen the stress of having to sell everything. Especially if you get a really good offer for the house.
    God bless you two always ❤💫

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  2 місяці тому +1

      Hey my friend! 🤗 You are right in line with my thinking. We practically gave furniture away-sold couch set for $30. It all went pretty smoothly. I have to get the video uploaded soon to share what happened. But everything is so cluttered in our new place, it’s hard to think straight. I’m hoping to get it done this week. And thank you so much for your encouraging comments!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @erinthornley9165
    @erinthornley9165 3 місяці тому

    What a beautiful video about a beautiful family. ❤

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Aww!! Thank you Erin! 🎉

  • @ginamoffett1973
    @ginamoffett1973 4 місяці тому

    It’s so good to see you❤I’m sorry your having a stressful time. I glad to hear you’re you are moving. I bet it will be amazing 🤩

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Gina! ❤️ I wish people were less critical of my husband as he grieves. That has been stressful. But I’m excited that we got 6 offers on our house, all of them higher than the list price. 🎉🙌🏾🤗

  • @faithbydesignXO
    @faithbydesignXO 4 місяці тому

    Hey Kim!! It’s so great to hear from you! Loved seeing the vlog. Congrats on the offers and the move! How exciting! 💜🌻🌷🙏🏾

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +1

      Thank you Imani!! I’m excited for the fresh start. We’re officially under contract now. Closing date is August 16th. Hope it all goes as planned.

  • @anitanava6070
    @anitanava6070 3 місяці тому

    Hi Kim, much Love happy to c u again 🥰

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Hey there!!! 💗💗💗 Thank you my friend

  • @GillianBudgets20203
    @GillianBudgets20203 3 місяці тому

    Hey lovely lady.. You've been on my mind.. So I had to physically search for you as I didn't get notification of this video.
    Really enjoyed hanging out with.. Getting a bit of the best of you..
    I never knew that you had a son of your own..
    My dad passed away early this year in January.. And having already lost my mum.. It has a different kind of pain /loss..
    There is no time scale on grief.. People need to appreciate that 💛💜..
    You're all in my prayers my friend.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Hi my sweet Gillian❤️ It’s so good to hear from you. I’m glad you checked on me!
      Oh yea, I remember you telling us about your dad. 💔 I am so sorry for your loss. It hit me hard when my mom passed 10 yrs after my dad died. Losing both parents so early was hard for me. I can only imagine what you feel because everyone is different, each of us grieves our own way. And you’re so right, there’s no time scale. Thank you, thank you, thank you…your prayers and friendship is greatly appreciated 💗

  • @TheHumbleBudgeter
    @TheHumbleBudgeter 4 місяці тому

    Hey you’re back! Glad to see you 😊 Congrats on the new move to GA! I hope this move will help with the healing process. ❤

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you my friend! ❤️ I really hope it will too. 🙏🏾

  • @budgetfor5withstephanie
    @budgetfor5withstephanie 4 місяці тому

    Hi Kim, I'm so glad you posted, I was just thinking about you! I enjoyed your vlog. I think more than being embarrassing when you're in the stores is being mindful of not recording others without permission. Congrats on your over asking offers 🎉 congrats on the move and thank you for sharing you and your husbands emotional journey

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +1

      That’s so true! I should wear a sign that says “UA-cam vlog in progress” 🤣 But I guess the people walking in front of me knew they were on camera. And thank you for all of your support ❤️❤️❤️

  • @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle
    @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle 4 місяці тому +2

    I have started a channel since you’ve been gone. I hope that I am someday comfortable in front of the camera like you.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому

      You did?? Wow!!! I am going to check you out. That’s so cool. You’ll definitely get used to it. 🙌🏾

  • @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle
    @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle 4 місяці тому

    Great to see you back.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @TessLynnxo
    @TessLynnxo 4 місяці тому

    Hi Kim,
    This is Tess, just did a name change.
    I am always interested in what’s going on with you😊 I LOVE vlog style videos. Hope to see more💕
    Excited to see what your new moving adventure brings.
    I was a caregiver to my mom (most of my life) grieving as a caregiver brings on another layer of letting go. A couple of years later i was still waking up in a moment of panic, worried that i didn’t take care of her needs that day.
    I think the bottom line with grieving is…
    It takes time and it does get easier,but it never goes away.
    Sending love to you and your husband💕

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому +1

      Hi Tess!!! Thank you for always being here. I am so grateful for you my friend! ❤️🤗

  • @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat
    @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat 4 місяці тому

    Hi Kim!! I’m here…I love seeing and hearing what’s going on with you!! Congratulations on 4 offers…catch wait to hear the resolution. Beautiful pictures at the end!!

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому

      Heeey Melissa!!! Yea, you were definitely one of the few that I was thinking of when I was talking to those who are interested in what’s going on with me.❤️ And thank you!! We are making a decision today on the offers…we have 6 to go through 🤯

    • @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat
      @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat 4 місяці тому +1

      @@debt2none yes!! 6 is a blessing…you are selling in the right market!!

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +1

      Such a blessing! We’re under contract now-closing on August 16th. I pray everything goes as planned. 🙏🏾 Cuz I’m ready for a change of scenery.

    • @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat
      @BudgetStuffSaveRepeat 3 місяці тому +1

      @@debt2none I will say a prayer too…right now!! Congratulations!!

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Thank you so much Melissa!!! 💗💗💗

  • @kajukuja
    @kajukuja 4 місяці тому

    Nice to see you 🤗

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому

      Thank you!!! ❤️🤗❤️

  • @Suzy_Queue
    @Suzy_Queue Місяць тому

    Hi! I hope everything is going well for you. When will you be giving an update? Or are you done with youtube?

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  Місяць тому +2

      I will be uploading soon. The move has had me out of sorts for a while but I’m pretty settled now 😬 Thank you for checking.

  • @IDesireeWealth
    @IDesireeWealth 4 місяці тому

    heyyy Kim. I hope all is well - the garage things.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому +1

      Hi Desiree!! 🤗 Things will get better in time I believe

    • @IDesireeWealth
      @IDesireeWealth 3 місяці тому

      @@debt2none 1000% correct

  • @crunchingwithcris
    @crunchingwithcris 4 місяці тому

    This is so sad that people think is ok to say go out and been social when someone just lost his child. I wonder if this people making this silly comments ever lost a child. They would stop saying this silly words. Will that the time he need to grief in his own terms not any one else. Praying for you and your husband 💗💙💗

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  3 місяці тому

      Thank you Cris. They don’t understand at all & can’t really relate. It stinks but I suppose I get it. Death makes people so uncomfortable and they just want him to be good even though he isn’t. 🤷🏾‍♀️ I really appreciate your prayers my friend 💗🤗😘

    • @crunchingwithcris
      @crunchingwithcris 3 місяці тому

      @@debt2none so sad

  • @bird7464
    @bird7464 Місяць тому

    Hi Kim! Any new videos coming soon? How are you? You did very well on your yt , you grown so fast subscribers. Why you don't want to just focus on yt as your job?

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  Місяць тому +1

      Heeey!! I really do want to get back to yt. I’m trying to get a recording area together in our new place. It’s pretty tight in here but I just need to get organized. Thank you for your encouragement. I really need it right now. ❤️❤️❤️

  • @emtdispatcheronabudget
    @emtdispatcheronabudget 2 місяці тому

    🩷🩷🩷

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  2 місяці тому

      Thank you!!!😘💝

  • @MsWhitneyS2
    @MsWhitneyS2 4 місяці тому

    Grieving takes time. Your husband not only loss his child. He lost a role in his life... caregiver. His daily routine has changed and it's not easy to go from being a FT caregiver to a sick child to being a happy go lucky person going out all of the time. She was his life/world and his world just got shaken up. He needs time to adjust. If ppl aren't supporting the two of you mental and physical space, you may need to remove them. If they aren't part of the solution, they are part of the problem.

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому +1

      That’s so true. 💯 It was a very special bond. He needs as much time as it takes him. Yea, we’re definitely seeing who we can be close to and who we can’t. I think the move will be the change we need.

  • @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle
    @FIRE_DrNinjaTurtle 4 місяці тому

    Sell it with the house

    • @debt2none
      @debt2none  4 місяці тому

      Sell everything with the house? I definitely will if the buyers want it. 👍🏾 We’ll see