Jerry O’Connell Wants To See Remorse | Everybody Loves Tom | Ep.02

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  • Опубліковано 29 чер 2024
  • Comedian, TV Host & huge Bravo fan, Jerry O’Connell stops by the show to have a face to face talk with Tom. While Jerry apologizes for what he said about Tom on WWHL, he still holds Tom accountable for his actions and wants to see Tom own his mistakes.
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  • @TomSandoval01
    @TomSandoval01  8 місяців тому +75

    Thanks for watching everybody 🤟Join our Patreon here for even more exclusive BTS videos, pics, live streams & more: patreon.com/everybodylovestom

    • @CoffeeBuzzzz
      @CoffeeBuzzzz 8 місяців тому +6

      Jerry asking some good questions in a respectful way

    • @LinaGenX
      @LinaGenX 8 місяців тому +4

      Nope, not joining yours, or anyone elses Patreon. I'm not visiting anyone behind a pay wall

    • @galecantrell1184
      @galecantrell1184 8 місяців тому +5

      It's a shame that this story is still being talked about. Those still talking about it have some serious issues with their own life.

    • @colonelbuster9335
      @colonelbuster9335 8 місяців тому +2

      100% agree

    • @bobrob3841
      @bobrob3841 8 місяців тому +5

      ​@@galecantrell1184- I agree. And Ariana can't keep his name out of her mouth. Notice how people are sick of her milking it. About time the tide turns!

  • @mystrece4878
    @mystrece4878 8 місяців тому +190

    A few years ago, when I was a principal in Compton, you and Ariana came and read to my kids. I will always remember the humility, sweetness and sincerity you both showed, when there was no media around. So, I know there is goodness in you. I have experienced it firsthand. I don't think people are looking for another apology. I think people are looking to see you take full responsibility for the hurt you caused. People who watched the show thought highly of you and believed in your character and your integrity. Their anger stems from empathy towards Ariana and grave disappointment in your choices. Every time that I hear you discuss the issue, there seems to be a lot of excuses, defensiveness, blame and comparisons. You don't come across as though you feel that you were completely in the wrong. You need someone else to be wrong with you. People want to see acceptance of responsibility and growth and then eventually comes redemption. And there needs to be an acceptance that it will take time. Give people time. It heals all wounds. Your impatience for it to pass and for people to get over it, will only slow things down and make the process take longer. Accept where you are. Slow yourself down and take the time to grow from this. Painful experiences can be transformative if we allow them to be. I believe you will get through this and come out on the other side.

  • @corigouveia7024
    @corigouveia7024 8 місяців тому +48

    I think Jerry hit the nail on the head when he said that the affair was so egregious, not only because people were invested in the relationship and have such major feelings around affairs anyway, but because of the righteous role that Tom always plays on the show. He and Raquel spent the season preaching about “being real”, doing the right thing, living your “truth”, even calling others out for their behaviors. Meanwhile, behind closed doors, they were the ones lying, cheating, and deceiving. I can totally understand how the cast was so upset after being publicly preached at all season by the two of them. To be lying to everyone is their lives but at the same time telling those same people that THEY need to be honest? It goes far beyond just a issue that he and Ariana need to resolve. Tom and Rachel need to take ownership for that part of it too.

  • @barbarahansen5353
    @barbarahansen5353 8 місяців тому +51

    Never did i expect to hear Jerry O’Connell be the voice of wisdom. He’s a true friend.

    • @barbarahansen5353
      @barbarahansen5353 8 місяців тому

      @@lfedits1353 It’s just that the persona I’ve seen has usually been lighter and less serious. It was just a pleasant surprise for me to hear this side of him.

  • @heavenlyvilla8681
    @heavenlyvilla8681 8 місяців тому +16

    Jerry would make a great counsellor - listens, empathetic, honest and real about the situation.

  • @michelewagner4672
    @michelewagner4672 8 місяців тому +31

    Tom, You don't need to continue to apologize to everyone. It's ridiculous that people keep asking you to relive the pain. You look great. There are still alot of people that understand and just want to see you thrive. BTW, love the necklace! Your band is a blast. Screw the haters at this point.

  • @yvettetorres7829
    @yvettetorres7829 8 місяців тому +18

    Wow, Jerry said exactly what we’re thinking. It’s not just apologizing, it’s an authentic recognition of living your regret. Not forever Tom, but for at least a while until you truly transmit and stop making excuses, justifications. People will feel your authentic growth when it happens irl.

  • @PlumPerfect
    @PlumPerfect 8 місяців тому +78

    Mad respect for Jerry. He’s a classy human

    • @1020honey
      @1020honey 8 місяців тому

      He’s a wuss

    • @ThereseHerring
      @ThereseHerring 8 місяців тому

      Jerry is authentic. I love that he reminds Sandoval that his actions were not ok and that viewers feelings should not be dismissed. This sidekick co-signing drummer is delusional and needs to go away.

  • @erikapistacchio8375
    @erikapistacchio8375 8 місяців тому +17

    Good on Jerry. Finally someone asked the questions that knows what they are talking about. Ive recently went through something with my fiance (who is 43 im 31) who slept with one of my friends and I found out because of his lack of skill hiding shit (moved the camera, didnt show up for work) and my intuition... and I have interrogated this man until no end, and theres never a good explanation. We will never get what we are looking for because they dont even why themselves.

    • @realestatebykemi
      @realestatebykemi 8 місяців тому

      Correction: Your soon-to-be-ex fiancé. If you’re smart.

  • @the12thcrone
    @the12thcrone 8 місяців тому +33

    I lost my ex husband and close friend to suicide in June. During all this VPR shit and it honestly made watching that reunion awful bc i know that words can push people who are struggling over the edge. Its never ok to tell
    someone to kill themselves. Tom didnt murder anyone. He cheated. We all can be better and grow if we take accountability. It troubles me where society is nowadays bc of social media. People say things thinking just because they can, they should. I wouldn’t wish losing someone to suicide on my worst enemy. Its become an epidemic in this country. Anyways that’s my spilz. Glad to see Tom take accountability and I think everyone is allowed room for growth if they admit where they were wrong and it seems Tom has.

    • @lindapfister2484
      @lindapfister2484 8 місяців тому +1

      I agree..look at lala she is one of the worse.

    • @PeaceMeBish
      @PeaceMeBish 6 місяців тому +2

      So sorry for your loss. Trauma changes people. It makes us far more conscious. I forgive those who are less conscious far more easily now. In order to become more conscious, we often have to face hard reality either through our own actions or the actions of others. I don’t wish that on anyone, but it’s a journey that we all must take at some point. There is no coming out of this life unscathed. Hence why I’m so happy that Tom is showing up and facing his stuff. It’s very brave in a World that wants to see people suffer, usually coming from people who’ve either never truly experienced hard realities or haven’t dealt with it and hate on those who are facing it. Take good care. ❤

    • @darceymichie2725
      @darceymichie2725 5 місяців тому

      Telling someone to go kill themselves is just about the lowest thing anyone can do. How can you be so vicious and feel like it's justifiable? Shame on anyone who behaves that way.

    • @Theycallmemama
      @Theycallmemama 4 місяці тому

      I agree 💯! Who cares what other people think or want-a crisis like this one shows you who is really important in your life. And it is NOT the internet as a whole, and NOT people who don’t know you personally. Tom has apologized over and over. Enough-he has had more than most people can handle. Let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

  • @BeautyXXBrittany
    @BeautyXXBrittany 8 місяців тому +6

    WOW I DIDNT WANNA LIKE THIS BUT SEEING JERRY OCONNEL ON HERE AND HES ACTALLU TAKING ACCOUNTABLITY FOR WHAT HE SAID BOUT TOM WOW JUST WOW!!!!!!! AMAZING!!!!!

  • @MonicaMartinez-pl5fy
    @MonicaMartinez-pl5fy 8 місяців тому +11

    I don't think people need/want to hear and apology. I think it's just more about showing remorse and taking accountability without adding any type of excuse. And let me add, you don't owe us anything. You're you and tbh we don't have to live with you or speak to you or even watch you on the show but it is difficult for those of us that have grown to love both Toms to accept that you could be so heartless to shift the blame on other people for your wrong doing. I can't speak for everyone but it was hard for me to see you act like this especially because I have been a huge fan of the Toms since the beginning. But there is nothing you can really say now that will help your situation. Now it's going to be all about your actions and truly humbling yourself.

  • @Anna-pz9ry
    @Anna-pz9ry 8 місяців тому +7

    There is no going back to the old Tom. There is only the new Tom with echoes of his past self. And that is a good thing.

  • @SusanWallSpeaks
    @SusanWallSpeaks 8 місяців тому +5

    @tomsandoval
    You should write a non alcoholic cocktail book for those of us in recovery! I’m 2 years sober today!

  • @sherylburns9470
    @sherylburns9470 8 місяців тому +13

    I love that Jerry O'Connell is being very honest in how he is feeling then and now and holding him to answer the questions we all have had. Such a great podcast. I feel like it brought honesty. And I am here for that

  • @angelastroupe8599
    @angelastroupe8599 8 місяців тому +5

    It was Tom’s righteousness and how he always portrayed himself as the one who was walking the moral high-ground when others made similar mistakes. He was the first t one to insert himself in pointing out others (especially the girls i.e. LaLa and Katie) bad behavior as though he had THE moral compass that makes people feel so deeply disappointed in him. Also, the misogyny and fuckboy attitude that makes women seeth over his hypocrisy.

    • @angelastroupe8599
      @angelastroupe8599 8 місяців тому +1

      But it still doesn’t mean he (Tom) should be publicly crucified until he is contemplating suicide.

  • @verohdz
    @verohdz 8 місяців тому +42

    I like what Jerry just said about, accountability. But it's true, he can only say sorry so many times

    • @kristelcorrea769
      @kristelcorrea769 8 місяців тому +3

      Words mean nothing. Actions speak louder than words. And it needs to be both genuine and sincere, not pre-planned as a strategy to get people to just think it is. It needs to be organic and in the moment. People get vibes from their senses when it's a staged thing because it isnt real. And it will just make getting true forgiveness harder to achieve because no one will believe it's genuine.
      Forgiveness takes time. And everyone deserves a chance at redemption. He shouldn't be punished for the rest of his life.
      Why the vitriol is being aimed at others associated with Tom is beyond me. That's not ok. Everyone is entitled to have a support system for their own well-being.
      Tom has never been a favorite of mine since day 1 season 1. I think he is a huge narcissist. He's always rubbed me the wrong way. But that's ok. He doesn't even know I exist, so who cares.
      Applauding Tom for realizing alcohol was a problem. Hopefully from here on out he will make better decisions with clarity now that alcohol isn't clouding his judgments.
      Make amends to Ariana. It's more important that she forgives Tom first. At least get to a place where you both can be in a room together and be civil. Obviously, you both wont be best friends, but at least have a civility. Make things as right as you can to Ariana.
      Make your money so you can buy out her half of the house or pay off your half of the house so she doesnt feel strapped to you financially forever. That's not fair to her otherwise. You both can decide which one of you should get the house. You are the one who did her dirty not the other way around, so keep that in mind.
      We havent seen the new season of VPR yet because it hasn't aired. Maybe once it does and viewers see how you and Ariana were during the season that the viewers will ease up on the vitriol. I truly hope Tom made the best out of his time during the season working towards redemption for his goal. Both with Ariana and the VPR friend group.
      Keep going to therapy, Tom. Learn to humble yourself in your everyday life and actions. Use this horrible era of your life as a lesson to change your ways. I think to some degree you do realize that since you gave up alcohol. I do applaud you for that. Hopefully over time your life gets better as a result.

    • @WhitneySmith513
      @WhitneySmith513 8 місяців тому +1

      ​@@kristelcorrea769Great perspective and advice.

    • @kristelcorrea769
      @kristelcorrea769 8 місяців тому

      @WhitneySmith513 Thank You :) Hopefully, Tom takes it to heart. Just because I was never a fan of his to begin with does not mean I wish him ill will or anything of the sort.
      America loves a good comeback story.

  • @emilysavage276
    @emilysavage276 8 місяців тому +74

    This is so interesting. I think we are going to see more of people walking back just how crazy mean they were. I like this forward facing approach.

    • @TomSandoval01
      @TomSandoval01  8 місяців тому +10

      Thanks so much for watching Emily

    • @susieq727
      @susieq727 8 місяців тому +5

      Podcast should be called “Apology Tour”😂

    • @Erin-ho8qu
      @Erin-ho8qu 8 місяців тому +8

      @@susieq727 except he's not actually apologising

    • @bobrob3841
      @bobrob3841 8 місяців тому +6

      ​@@Erin-ho8qu- Only 100 times already!

    • @constancemcguire5870
      @constancemcguire5870 8 місяців тому

      ​@@bobrob3841Tom apologized his butt off at the reunion then after all that, on the same show, he made a disgusting comment about Adriana wearing a T-shirt. Disgusting piece of 💩. He is only sorry for getting caught. He is a talentless, fake, insincere, untrustworthy jerk!

  • @ningyding
    @ningyding 5 місяців тому +1

    You can say sorry a million times, but when you finally really MEAN it, people will sense the difference and accept it.

  • @juleslavallee7666
    @juleslavallee7666 8 місяців тому +5

    Tom Sandoval, I love your charisma. I have been a Celebrity Writer for 10 years. You have a great show. I wish you much success.

  • @leontineanderson919
    @leontineanderson919 8 місяців тому +5

    What a great rapport between the three of you! Wishing all the best to you, Tom!

  • @suzs3770
    @suzs3770 8 місяців тому +1

    Jerry looks scared to try that drink 😂

  • @RomiKia
    @RomiKia 8 місяців тому +4

    Tom you should look into your astrology… birth chart. It explains a lot about you and your nature (without judgement)… Sun in Cancer and Mars in Cancer/Gemini moon is your attachment to your past and why you generally struggled to leave Ariana officially and decide to make the official call. Venus in Leo is why you fell for Rachel’s attention and what you felt was lacking with Ariana. Gemini moon is your ability to over intellectualise your emotions (and often seen to justify vs “show emotions”)… it’s really fascinating.

    • @elllledub
      @elllledub 8 місяців тому +1

      Lol which birth year are you using doll? he's running around with a few and has been claiming to be 40 for years

    • @RomiKia
      @RomiKia 8 місяців тому

      @@elllledub lol pretty sure 1983?

  • @1020honey
    @1020honey 8 місяців тому +6

    GOOD LORD JERRY. You are the MOST EXTRA ‘RIGHTEOUS’ RIGHT NOW! 🤣 Tom, your grace is incredible! 🎉

  • @JDaulman
    @JDaulman 8 місяців тому +37

    Enough is enough; it’s sad that we live in a social environment where a real human mistake could lead someone to consider suicide. Truly disgusting. It’s time to forgive and let Tom move on with his life, as we certainly are when we make a mistake. Let’s be better everyone! ❤

    • @novascotiaskater1868
      @novascotiaskater1868 8 місяців тому

      I completely agree but I actually don’t believe he truly or seriously considered it- he’s way to in love with himself- but I absolutely agree the amount of drama and coverage of the affair was crazy and embarrassing

  • @marnatieger6652
    @marnatieger6652 8 місяців тому +6

    Tom is all about TOM

  • @debraarcher4285
    @debraarcher4285 8 місяців тому +17

    So glad jerry came on the show even though he was nervous. Tom might have been an asshole but he did not kill anyone. So much crap has gone on Vanderpump Rules , this was big but everyone deserves a second chance and redemption.

  • @lindapaldino7891
    @lindapaldino7891 8 місяців тому +6

    Did I hear Tom say he misses Rachel?

  • @susieq727
    @susieq727 8 місяців тому +13

    I didn’t expect to listen as long as I did. Good job, Tom. I’m gonna stick around.

  • @heatherc2042
    @heatherc2042 8 місяців тому +6

    I REALLY like what the Principal from Compton wrote. That was right on and if you could only truly hear that and think about how betrayed your fans felt. We supported you and Arianna and from our perspective, she didn’t do anything to merit what you did to her. If you’d broken up with her, I’d have felt sad because I thought you guys had something really special but I wouldn’t have been upset with you at ALL! I’d have wanted good for both of you and would’ve watched to see what was next for you and cheered you on as I had since Season 1 when you were with Kristen. I’d love to hear you explain why you felt you needed to lie to Arianna and especially if you were in therapy with her. You must know the difference between right and wrong. You don’t always have to be the hero or be doing things for others to have people love you as fans. But, you can’t expect to have fans when we can’t trust what you’re saying is real and unscripted. Seems like everyone was in a reality show except for you and it’s confusing. That said, I hope you’ve learned something from all of this and maybe one day you’ll be able to share it in a meaningful way.

  • @Hello_k8ee
    @Hello_k8ee 8 місяців тому +20

    I'm proud of you for continuing your journey of being better and moving forward. I have watched the show since season one and I think we all did take it personally somehow because we were so invested. I was disappointed in your actions but nobody is perfect & we've all made mistakes! I'm proud to see you growing and being more positive. Good job Tom 🤍🤍

    • @i_CARLYYYYY
      @i_CARLYYYYY 8 місяців тому +2

      Thisssss!!! 🙌🏻

  • @marthamccray635
    @marthamccray635 8 місяців тому +4

    Loved it. Wishing you Peace Tom.

  • @lisamoore9691
    @lisamoore9691 8 місяців тому +11

    What Tom has had to go through is absolutley ridiculous! He made a poor choice and fell in love and came back to life after Ariana had drained him. He wasn't married and Araiana never wanted to get married. Seems like she got a new boyfriend in a hot second who she shows way more affection to than she ever showed to Tom. People judging him for this are so brave behind their keyboards. But, I was in Anaheim at the concert right after the news broke and was so happy to support him. I only saw true fans at that show. Keep on being you Tom. You will come out of this a better person. Your cast mates have all done worse things and are making money judging and pointing the finger at you.

    • @bobrob3841
      @bobrob3841 8 місяців тому +3

      Amen!! I'm so glad he's done with Ariana. Now if she can really get over him!

  • @sunshinegirl6854
    @sunshinegirl6854 8 місяців тому +11

    It is about time that you started a channel. Basically security beyond bravo. I think you have potential. You need to genuinely show you are learning and growing. How about bringing on a therapist on your channel whether kati morton or psychology in seattle. They seem to have neutral point of views.

  • @kr-jj5kr
    @kr-jj5kr 3 місяці тому +2

    I don't hate Tom i just think he has the maturity of a 16 year old.

  • @teresasundin589
    @teresasundin589 8 місяців тому +3

    You are not your worst moment. Do better than you did yesterday and just keep growing on your journey forward.

  • @laurazytczak9840
    @laurazytczak9840 8 місяців тому +6

    Going to your show in Clearwater Fl, Oct 15th so excited !!!!❤️ always a fan 💕

  • @sunshinegirl6854
    @sunshinegirl6854 8 місяців тому +11

    I saw you last night on the MASKED SINGER! Congrats!

  • @namastefitnesswithkimberly6642
    @namastefitnesswithkimberly6642 8 місяців тому +2

    That was great !! ❤

  • @krisy5118
    @krisy5118 8 місяців тому +2

    Great show💕!i'll always remain hopeful that everyone will forgive you because we all need forgiveness and love you all so much!🙏❤️

  • @lozzascozza
    @lozzascozza 8 місяців тому +7

    I have always liked Tom the best. I always thought he was accountable. The reunion showed everyone’s true colors. Nasty awful friends. He was always a wonderful friend. Had your back. Paid for parties, everything. He Was there for the underdog when Katie and the girls would bully everyone. His treatment this year has always pissed me off. He fucked up. He said he did. Again. And again and again. I wish him nothing but success.

  • @mandylem
    @mandylem 8 місяців тому +20

    I’ve been a Vanderpump Rules watcher since season 1. Throughout the show, I’d always think of how Tom wanted marriage and kids and Ariana didn’t. Something like that can be a big deal to not be on the same page about. I love them BOTH and know they will flourish on their separate journeys! Jerry -loved you hosting The Wendy Show!

    • @amandaarizona
      @amandaarizona 8 місяців тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing. When you want marriage and kids, that feeling doesn’t go away. It brings a purpose to your life that didn’t exist before 🥰

    • @sherylburns9470
      @sherylburns9470 8 місяців тому +1

      Even though I am not thrilled how things ended I think the can both flourish as individuals and be happy

  • @jennifermckelvie8181
    @jennifermckelvie8181 8 місяців тому +19

    Love this podcast! Both episodes amazing so far! Loved Jerry too! Rooting for Tom and love to see the hard work he puts in every day! Never give up! 🎤🎸🔥

  • @ginaconnors5983
    @ginaconnors5983 8 місяців тому +6

    Love this!!! Great job, Tom 🎉

  • @user-xy2tt5xb3b
    @user-xy2tt5xb3b 8 місяців тому +11

    All we want to hear is that you are sorry for hurting her and betraying her, no excuses no explanations just "you were wrong, and you are sorry for the pain you caused" and that you miss her

    • @novascotiaskater1868
      @novascotiaskater1868 8 місяців тому +3

      He probably doesn’t miss her and I’m pretty sure he has actually apologized- he did on the reunion

    • @juliaarnaz6329
      @juliaarnaz6329 8 місяців тому

      How many times does he have to say sorry, unbelievable for the love of God how many celebrities cheated on their wives with children

    • @juliaarnaz6329
      @juliaarnaz6329 8 місяців тому +2

      I'll do your podcast, being the fact that I'm Lucille Ball and Desi Arnaz granddaughter and I have been supporting you all along and a national spokesperson for breast cancer, lost my beautiful model daughter three years ago at age 31 from this hideous disease. I've been doing podcast radio and TV appearances. You can read my story with People magazine interviewed me in 2020. Hopefully you have people reading your comments or you will read this yourself. With all my love Julia Arnaz from Connecticut

    • @juliaarnaz6329
      @juliaarnaz6329 8 місяців тому

      Quick story cuz you guys are talking about forgiveness, and also talk about these trolls on social media. While my daughter was in hospice my only child fighting breast cancer in her last days my best friend a 30 years and my husband of 9 years got caught in my backyard doing inappropriate things with one another, mind you while my daughter was fighting for her life. I know this sounds crazy and nobody will understand this I forgave both of them. A lot of alcohol was involved on their part. The Betrayal what's excruciating, a hell of a lot worse than you could ever have imagined to do to Arianna, girlfriend / roommate. I was the victim. Never once did I tell people that they couldn't be friends with my girlfriend that betrayed me with my husband months went by after my daughter passed away, and I decided to choose forgiveness just a quick story I wanted to share. My friendship with my girlfriend will never look the same when we speak from time to time and we are cordial. I decided to work things out with my husband, because I love him and I knew he did not know what he was doing because he was inebriated. Needless to say he doesn't drink anymore.

    • @juliaarnaz6329
      @juliaarnaz6329 8 місяців тому

      Sorry my point of my story is go easy on yourself, and forgive yourself. You deserve nothing but the best

  • @foodtravellife88
    @foodtravellife88 7 місяців тому +1

    I can't belive its only been 8 months!!!!! You've already filmed season 11! She has a new man dancing with the Stars you touring and special forces holy shit I feel like it's been over a year lol

  • @johnpinegar8027
    @johnpinegar8027 8 місяців тому +9

    Glad to see you back on UA-cam Tom. ❤❤

  • @kamijackson7521
    @kamijackson7521 7 місяців тому +1

    This is great😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @lisaroberts6437
    @lisaroberts6437 8 місяців тому +4

    Great podcast. Congratulations

  • @mariannedrummer8956
    @mariannedrummer8956 8 місяців тому +6

    I love everything about this. I love Jerry interviewing Tom. I love Tom being honest. It's good stuff.

  • @devondannhaus473
    @devondannhaus473 8 місяців тому +2

    🐾🌴ALWAYS HERE FOR YOU BRO, YOU’RE THE MAN! 🐾🌴

  • @agill5826
    @agill5826 8 місяців тому +3

    the co host is such a yes man.

    • @bellacton
      @bellacton 8 місяців тому +2

      Flying monkey

  • @samoyedjoy1
    @samoyedjoy1 8 місяців тому +3

    I need more mocktails in my life 🍸💚🤩😎👑👍🏼✨✌🏼⚡🐙🕺🏻💰💅🧑🏻‍🎤🍄🎶🩷💪🏼💚🎺

  • @Lil-p5s
    @Lil-p5s 8 місяців тому +3

    Look at this... Dudes being bros 🤜🤛 love it 😊

  • @heatherc2042
    @heatherc2042 8 місяців тому +3

    Why doesn’t Tom give an honest accounting for what he did and why he did things the way he did them? Cuz this isn’t about cheating on someone. It’s about the masquerade that was played out on someone that you said you loved. Rachel who’s certainly not a master of words, managed to express her remorse much better than Tom has. He’s never been short on words when it came to moralizing with Lala or Jax or any number of people. I don’t believe he’s truly remorseful about his actions. He is however, very sorry for himself and wants it to be forgotten as quickly as possible.

  • @TeaWithTambo
    @TeaWithTambo 8 місяців тому +8

    You are not the first person to ever have a lapse in judgment on how to handle situations. And you aren't the first person to have an affair. Depression is hard and I'm glad you're getting help. I wish you best.

  • @maijahaataja6196
    @maijahaataja6196 8 місяців тому +5

    Hi Tom, i love that u are doing this. This changed my opinion and perspective of all of this what was/is happening. Im going to burn my Team Ariana-shirt and change it to Team People make mistakses and learn from it- shirt 🕺✌️

  • @emineince687
    @emineince687 8 місяців тому +2

    Tom, i think the best action you took & biggest most important change you made about yourself & lifestyle was to stop the over drinking and smoking. You cant use any drug/alcohol as a crutch to escape your life or supress your true feelings. Hope you continue on this healthier way of living & you will be your best self, for you. Emmie from Australia

  • @DavidDevanMT
    @DavidDevanMT 8 місяців тому +3

    One way to keep moving forward and not getting that hate is to keep ties cut with Rachel and that’s probably been helping people to move forward with forgiveness for you Tom

  • @valarmstrong7801
    @valarmstrong7801 8 місяців тому +2

    ❤great to see you again! Good episode

  • @ajensen366
    @ajensen366 8 місяців тому +13

    Reminder: Tom is not a murderer. JHC!!! The world has gone completely insane. Seriously VPR cast and others look in your own mirror and carry on. Great job Tom hanging out with your buddies and having what feels like authentic interactions and conversations... and he's apologized enough to the weird world at large… Ariana isn't ready for an authentic apology. But when she is she will hear it. And that will be none of our damn business

  • @jessicaschreck1986
    @jessicaschreck1986 6 місяців тому +2

    I love Jerry so much. I hope Tom has more ppl in his life like this.

  • @EaglesChicFan
    @EaglesChicFan 8 місяців тому +19

    Love this!!! Great job Tom!!!! Congrats

  • @m.anastasiabucskova893
    @m.anastasiabucskova893 8 місяців тому +3

    I tried to watch this but Tom will never change. He is so defensive.

  • @kardilee
    @kardilee 8 місяців тому +19

    Tom and Jason are doing such a great job with the podcast so far! Loved seeing Jerry on here today as he’s always a great guest and host. Keep moving forward, Tom 🎉🎉🎉and please bring us some more covers from your band 💜

  • @310filmbuff
    @310filmbuff 8 місяців тому +11

    Great conversation for me to wake up to. This last minute booking turned out great. Tom, perhaps this can become your thing… Impromptu Bookings.
    I wish you nothing but the best.🌸

  • @kerrie-annepratt3723
    @kerrie-annepratt3723 8 місяців тому +2

    From day one of this drama, I have firmly stood in Tom's corner. I have been abused and received the most disgusting comments from hundreds of people from all over my life. I have been in exactly the same position as him and I understand how it happened and also how much the hate takes a toll on your mental health. It's like people won't be happy until you are unalive. I am a publicist and I live in Australia but I have worked and toured with the biggest bands in the world....People love to hate and it's a bloody sickness in society. You're clearly doing the work, keep it up and feel good that as long as these assho*** are hating on you, they are leaving some other poor basta** alone that may not have the strength to carry on.

  • @jodijoy8906
    @jodijoy8906 7 місяців тому +1

    L♥️VE The TOMS!!!
    This is just a bump in the road not the road You will end up on.

  • @Deanastl81
    @Deanastl81 7 місяців тому +4

    As someone who knew you when we were young….I absolutely know without a doubt the kindness that exists in you. You’re human and we all make choices that cause pain to others when we’re figure out things. I am always rooting for you!

  • @msbeth3342
    @msbeth3342 8 місяців тому +13

    Tom - I've been a long term fan of the show and you, in particular, and that hasn't changed. People get caught up in stuff in their personal lives all the time but aren't on TV for all the terrible mean bored people online to comment on it like they know you. I think you would be cool to hang with and be friends with for what it's worth.

  • @ningyding
    @ningyding 5 місяців тому +1

    Now I just want more of Jerry

  • @beefwhiskers
    @beefwhiskers 8 місяців тому +4

    Tom is an imperfect (human) dude caught up in the hustle of being a reality TV star and living the LA lifestyle, and I've got bad news for everyone, he's far from the worst out there - not even close to being deserving of undying harassment and hatred. You just think so because you binge watched a TV show.
    Realize that these people are public figures because they were part of a perfect storm of morally bankrupt youth and reality television editing. This show doesn't work without people making mistakes in the way that Tom did.
    They put their lives out there to entertain you, they did a major favor to the fans by baring all. None of us have to tip-toe through complicated relationships, living situations, etc. for the benefit of TV show ratings. We don't know what it is like to be in that headspace. This is so much more than a simple relationship disaster, remember you are only seeing what is on the surface.
    Anyway, I really haven't seen the whole show since I only catch up as my girlfriend watches, but even in my isolated view of tabloids and social media I can see that people are just treating Tom like the worst person walking the earth.
    Let him move on, learn from his mistakes, enjoy your television show. The guy deserves a crack at life.

    • @kardilee
      @kardilee 8 місяців тому +3

      Yes 💯💯💯 thank you for this!!! We all make mistakes and we all deserve forgiveness. It’s time to move on to someone else, haters.

  • @tiffanybascomb5906
    @tiffanybascomb5906 8 місяців тому +14

    It's sad that a person would feel scared to come on someone's podcast and speak their truth. What had the world come to, to think that you can't support someone after they made a mistake. So sad.

  • @trae74
    @trae74 8 місяців тому +5

    I hope we can start to move on from this topic now. What's done is done and nothing can change it.
    Being in a sexless relationship is fkn hard.
    Of course he should have ended it first but damn, he didn't kill anybody.
    Haters are going to keep hating but hating bitches ain't happy. This world will always have miserable people in it. It is what it is.
    Rock on Tom. Keep pushing forward!

  • @leenab9497
    @leenab9497 8 місяців тому +3

    I always #teamtom and #teamrachel

  • @NancyDroubie
    @NancyDroubie 8 місяців тому +1

    Laughed my ass off!

  • @leenab9497
    @leenab9497 8 місяців тому +1

    Really enjoyed this episode ❤

  • @classyconversationswithrho344
    @classyconversationswithrho344 7 місяців тому +1

    Another great show! Everyone makes mistakes, it's how we learn. You apologized enough.
    No shade to Jerry. I do understand his thought process. We were all invested for over a decade. Thank you for being Authentic.

  • @martina7524
    @martina7524 8 місяців тому +15

    You did something wrong in 2023…the new Era of hate! It made it very easy for your castmates to throw you and Rachel "under the bus" and profit from it. I am glad to see you are doing well! Love the podcast!

  • @tracyamber5970
    @tracyamber5970 8 місяців тому +2

    Love you Jerry! Only one judge in life and it is God. You are doing a good thing Jerry!

  • @Cherazny
    @Cherazny 20 днів тому

    I just discovered your podcast. They're awesome.I just subscribed.

  • @denisecook5640
    @denisecook5640 8 місяців тому +2

    Jerry....my childhood crush....such a talent and sweet guy!❤

  • @kirstymaxwell4636
    @kirstymaxwell4636 8 місяців тому +4

    I'm a massive VPR fan from the u.k.
    I have empathy for Arianna but I also have empathy for Tom.
    Enough is enough why do we feel the need because of social media to comment on someone's mistakes when we do not know someone personally🤷‍♀️.
    We as viewers an humans in general should just advocate to be kind an be mindful that even though we watch these people on our screens they are humans with feelings.
    Spread love and kindness❤️

    • @BravoRecs
      @BravoRecs 8 місяців тому

      Amen 🙏🏽 ❤

  • @anthearobertson9663
    @anthearobertson9663 8 місяців тому +3

    Well said jerry 😊

  • @AMalijen12
    @AMalijen12 8 місяців тому +2

    This definitely confirms that Jason is the producer and editor/handler😮

  • @glamcoffee841
    @glamcoffee841 8 місяців тому +4

    I love it. I know you’re remorseful and people make mistakes. The hate has gone too far.

  • @Mamahen87
    @Mamahen87 8 місяців тому +1

    I really enjoyed this episode 🎉🎉

  • @alexandriameyer9578
    @alexandriameyer9578 8 місяців тому +1

    Love it!

  • @hayfergroup
    @hayfergroup 8 місяців тому +15

    So we're driving to Nashville to see you guys play tonight and just heard the podcast in the truck. Btw, you're all over the place - the diver, billboards, podcast, your band, we love it!!!
    Our opinion, you already apologized and don't need to keep on and keep on. The social media people who attack over and over, it's words on a screen.You've seen in real life that they exhaust themselves and end up having fun at your shows. We see that too after being to 9 of your shows. They really do have fun.
    I hope there's some Everybody Loves Tom merch we can get at the show tonight, see you guys in a few hours, can't wait!!! - Kasha & Bill⚡️

    • @samoyedjoy1
      @samoyedjoy1 8 місяців тому +1

      Have fun, send him some love , we can't wait to see him in Florida 🎺💚💪🏼🩷🎶🍄🧑🏻‍🎤💅💰🕺🏻🐙⚡✌🏼✨👑😎🤩🍸👏🦑

  • @tonibrooks9719
    @tonibrooks9719 8 місяців тому +14

    I love Jerry O’Connell! I also want to say that I think it is time for people to move on and allow Tom the space to grow and live his best life. He has apologized, he’s remorseful and I can see his growth. I thoroughly enjoyed this episode and I think Jerry was the perfect guest for the show.

  • @kate1356
    @kate1356 8 місяців тому +2

    Kudos to Jerry for coming on and owning up to what he said.

  • @jessicasarchette4199
    @jessicasarchette4199 5 місяців тому

    Does anyone else ever think
    Tom always had a soft spot for the underdog. When everyone turned on James Tom was ALWAYS rooting for him outloud.
    He deserves for someone to root for him!
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @bobrob3841
    @bobrob3841 8 місяців тому +2

    I noticed recently the tide is changing about Ariana. She's getting blasted in social media. All her dirty transgressions are being brought back up. I'm speaking of noticing it the last several weeks.

  • @tomm7232
    @tomm7232 8 місяців тому +1

    Still supporting you brother! At some stage of our lives we make mistakes and obviously some bigger than others.I've been cheated on before, but for me my lesson was I should of left way before and there are warning signs a relationship is heading for disaster.
    Even though we know your story which I think you were publicly smashed and put on dispay unfairly (for the views I guess). I believe we both know that person for years did be-little you, disrespected you infront of your friend group etc. I always used to clench when that person ridiculed you. I wish you nothing but the best in life my bro! Big love from Australia

  • @franny025
    @franny025 8 місяців тому +3

    The thing is Tom’s apologies always sound defensive.

  • @DavidDevanMT
    @DavidDevanMT 8 місяців тому +4

    For the viewers that don’t follow Jerry for many years, understand that Jerry asks these questions to HELP bring out the words that he thinks will help Tom be understood more by the public cause Jerry is a very caring sweetheart with several decades of public relations experience that knows what the public wishes to hear and understand.

  • @anthearobertson9663
    @anthearobertson9663 8 місяців тому +2

    I don't think for a lot of people it's about the sorry it's about how Tom's mask fell and we saw who he really is I think it's one of those things you see it or you don't I can't get passed his smugness

  • @melissack4377
    @melissack4377 8 місяців тому +1

    Saw you in Roseville this past weekend. Amazing show! No haters there! 😊

  • @RandiSavageYT
    @RandiSavageYT 8 місяців тому +4

    It would be great/ create much more accessibility if these had closed captions

  • @MichelleSanGiorgio
    @MichelleSanGiorgio 8 місяців тому

    Bravo Jerry O'Connell 👏. You are simply saying what we are thinking. However, Tom please remember that we watched your decade long relationship grow, on the show. It felt so personal to many a woman who had been similarly hurt. God bless and hold your head up pal! :)