Fan Q&A With The Toms | Everybody Loves Tom | Ep. 06
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- Опубліковано 1 лис 2023
- Schwartz & Sandoval answer questions from Patreon fans. Lots of hot goss, juicy deets, & VPR-BTS. Plus, they talk about the upcoming BravoCon, the new season of Winter House and neck tattoos?! Some say this is our most jammed packed episode!… Join the Patreon to ask The Toms anything you want!
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Tom Sandoval is an actor, model, singer and restaurateur. He has starred in the Emmy nominated reality series, Vanderpump Rules for 10 season. He has since graduated from bartender at SUR to part-owner of TomTom and Schwartz & Sandy's with his best friend Tom Schwartz. Tom also fronts his own party cover band appropriately named, Tom Sandoval & The Most Extras. Don't forget to check them out when they come to a city near you!
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Tom and Tom have a more solid relationship with each other than they each did with their past romantic partners. This is a forever friendship.
That’s not a flex at their age.
True unconditional love and support in that friendship is not suppose to be a “ flex” it’s admirable that they support each other even when your at you’re worst and for schwartzy to want to learn about Sandoval , his friend
@@user-lf2ji8li1oi feel like two things can be true at once. In this case, the Toms friendship is admirable, yet their incapability to provide that same level of love, support and loyalty to their romantic partners is reprobable.
@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarieagree! If I cheated why would my best friend of 30 years cut me off and never talk to me again? Like I don’t get peoples thinking. Shit happens guide your friend to grow and at the end of the day don’t meddle in your friends relationships!
@@RealiTEAwithKristaMarie Too bad he couldn’t put that same energy into his marriage and don’t even try to blame Katie for trying to love that drunken bum.
Schwartz is a child! It is not attractive in any way.
As someone who went through the whole tizzy of “anti-Sandoval” for a while, honestly this podcast has been so fun to watch. I started watching out of curiosity and stayed because I’m totally wowed by Sandoval’s growth. Tom, you look SO healthy, happy, and the honest conversations are refreshing and so fun.
Blessings from The Lou!!
Exactly I never picked a side I am far from an Ariana Stan lol but watching the podcast I’m like I like it 😂
I got shit on in the subreddit but idgaf it’s the truth I like the podcast hahaha
I did the same! I also feel the same way. Changed my view of Tom tremendously. I don’t think what he did was right, never will, but I do not hate him and actually enjoy watching these a lot!
Tom's a good dude. He made a mistake. The same mistake everyone on the show has made. The hate is incredibly disturbing. Who are these people, and are they so perfect? I really doubt that they are.
I feel like people have more hatred towards Tom than they do Lenny Hochstein ( RHWOM) who literally cheated on his wife of 15 years. .. and they have kids!! People are just so strange
Right?! I said the exact same thing!! I feel like we are now seeing the real Tom.
Tom was the only guy that stood up for people like James when they were attacked by others unfairly, even if it isn’t popular he will protect his friends! Nobody remembers the bravery he had in those situations!
The Schwartz is with you
Freaking love the podcast! The stories are great and love Tom joining. Sandoval is physically looking really good nice job dude 🙌🏻 really appreciate the details on the non alcoholic drinks
Loved this Q & A with Schwartz !
I cant stop looking at Sandoval's Nomi Malone nails!😂💅
People are forgetting that Tom wept when he took Kristin outside at one of the restaurants- he was apologizing for hurting her and he wished her well and she received it. And I agree that Arianna did put Tom down numerous times she talked down to him a lot- watch the past seasons- she put him down ALOT!!!!! Had no respect for him !
Nice to see both Toms smiling and doing well! I am thoroughly enjoying this podcast!
Don't do it!!! Neck tattoos hurt like hell and are nightmare to get removed... According to my husband! Stick with the fake ones sir!! 🙌🏼
Love this one! Felt like I was hanging out with you guys with regular conversation while you're answering questions from fans. And you're not holding back on your answers which I think is great too.
“Check yourself before you wreck yourself”
Kudos to Tom and anyone else who has the presence of mind to check themselves. It’s the healthiest way to progress, evolve and move forward
Honest critique - Tom's producer needs to stop being a Tom apologist. I get he feels protective, but it comes off as super annoying to the audience who wants to hear Tom answer the hard questions as thoughtfully as he has been. He needs to answer the "loaded" questions and just keep sharing honestly and vulnerably. You're not going to save Tom from the internet by constantly justifying and excusing the whole situation. It's the vulnerability that is keeping us watching and giving Tom a "second chance". Mr. Producer, you need to stop trying to control the audience's perception and just let him get real even if you feel like it's unfair.
Best episode by far was when he wasn’t there.
Totally agree! I find him annoying and it’s unnecessary for him to be there.
Preach! That guy is so annoying 🙄
He's not just the producer, he's in the band AND a friend do he's going to be protective. If you haven't watched episode 2, go watch it. You may understand a little more
He's not just the producer, he's in the band AND a friend do he's going to be protective. If you haven't watched episode 2, go watch it. You may understand a little more
Another great episode. I loved hearing the Toms reminisce about old episodes, fights, etc. 😊
I'm glad you're doing this podcast, Tom! Please do more Q&A 😊
Getting a neck tattoo would be the nail in the coffin for you Tom hahahahah😅😅😅
Tom do you ever see bumper stickers on Rolls-Royce? Don't do a neck tattoo lol
I dont know why people target the bar and band members. No matter what you've done, you have a right to make a living... to earn an income. You need it to survive.
Great show and it is really nice to see this side of Tom. I am glad you didn't give up. Time does heal old wounds and things seem to be better, honestly it really shouldn't be about who's side are you are on because sometimes we make decisions based on how we are feeling regardless write or wrong... and need to work out inside of ourselves what is missing the hard way, I wish the best for all of you in the VPR world for putting yourselves out there but it is my favourite reality show. I love seeing the group grow and hopefully come together again.
Hi Tom... Regards from Chile... Great Podcast as always... 😄😄
I love this podcast and I love to see both Tom’s
Love you guys together. Do another show soon!
Now that you are not drinking, will you create a new book with non-alcoholic drinks for people who want the flavor but not the alcohol?
Just mix all the ingreadiance and drop the alcohol 🙋🏼♀️
Still saying it is Ariana’s fault…
Hes not mature enough to take responsibility
Yep. She pretty much emasculated him and drove him away.
Love this podcast so much! No matter what, I'm a forever Tom & Tom fan! Love you guys ! My two favorites from Vanderpump Rules! ❤
Tom, if people hadn’t had you on such a pedestal then they wouldn’t have become so upset. You were always the moral compass of the group and not that I ever thought you were innocent but I felt you were sensitive to others feelings.
I love the podcast! Keep it up!
No neck tattoo!
Agree. Neck and face tattoos are horrible. Not attractive in the least
totally agree, no! stick with the temporaries, plus you can change them out whenever instead of being stuck with what you got
Good to hear your doing well
U guys are SO FUNNY! 😂
Tom you handled bravo-con like a champ and you looked amazing!
GREAT PODCAST!!! Thanks For Sharing!!
Great show! Love seeing you guys just hanging out. Keep swimming ❤
Soooo bummed, Toms! Flying into MI on the 19th so I will miss y'all by 2 days! You are going to love Wyandotte. Nice lil town with great cafes & food. Reminds me of mystic falls, and by the water.
Your not less passive you are just generally positive and don't like conflict!
This is nice😊
The 2 Toms are my favorite part of Vanderpump Rules 💞
SCHWARTZY..You are QUITE the artist..that is really amazing..great job
The Tom's are both looking wonderful.
Jason seems like a good guy.
Killer drummer.
Why not do supermassive black hole instead of hysteria if they must do a Muse song?
It's nastier & more raw.
In fact, why not do a Stooges song? (NOT I wanna be your dog; it's been done to death).
Suggestions would be maybe 1969, Dirt or Little Doll.
Neck tattoo is hokey at this point.
The guy has a beautiful face and is trendy enough with all the little kid bracelets.
It would really appear to be trying too hard.
Maybe something small & personal at back of hairline/nape, but otherwise it's
just going to look corny.
PLEASE DO NOT GET A GKN NECK TATTOO TOM. The girl was disgusted she’s the only one that made the shit decision lmao (I have tattoos)
I love the Tom’s 💕
Bravocon abuse - to the haters give them the finger on stage or take a bow, you didn't kill anyone so stop being a patsy to strangers and statistically most of them have cheated or have been sketchy in their relationship. It is so ridiculous how this played out around the world as people are dying in wars. Also, I just listened to Muse, Wont Stand Down and the lyrics and they are amazing!
My new fave podcast! :)
Miss you on winter house
You need to interview Cory Feldman!
That would be a great interview!!!!
Tom , thank you so much for being so honest and answering my questions, they were very personal and it really did make me understand where your head was and now looking back ( it sucks that it went down that way ) BUT it forced a very needed change for both of you and I hope one day Ariana can be healed and able to feel the same Because i also beleive that -Ariana knew this was NOT you their just was a perfect storm of surrounding circumstances that just made “SCANDOVAL” happen’ and trust me I was sweating and speechless at 4 am when another podcaster woke me up to tell me what happened! I was very upset and confused by it and now I get it
Surprised how much I like the podcast …
I like Tom Sandoval. Even though what he did to Ariana my ex did the same to me. But I think Tom
Is very regretful but I think he did fall in love with Raquel and I wish now they would have worked out. No neck Tattoo Tom..
It wasn't love it was lust love is what Ariana gave him unconditional and look at how that worked out for her.
BTW- it should’ve NEVER been one of her friends & finally I absolutely love the theme song I listen to this song at least 2x a day! Such a vibe!!!
it probably wasn't a ballroom brawl but a ballroom blitz!!!!!!!!!!! ;) lol
Schwartz🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
He’s looking hella cute lately 😅
Tattoos on youthful skin looks cool. But we aren’t getting any younger, and those tats, that were once cool, look saggy, faded, and sad.
I for one still love the Tom’s. If anything else, this is a great podcast from Tom just to discuss why he felt the way he did and what caused him to do what he did. He has taken his accountability for it, and he is very remorseful, so respect that at least all you haters. Everyone makes mistakes, and he deserves forgiveness. He does not need to be hated. God knows that nobody is perfect, so if you think you can judge him then you need to check yourself and find out what’s wrong with you. I find much more vial people on Reality TV and in the world than the Tom’s!!!! He is not even in the top 1,000! It’s just ridiculous!
Alcohol is toxic and contributes to good people doing bad things. I believe You are a good guy that was raised better than Your past behavior reflected... proud of You for saving Your life by being alcohol-free now. You are looking so much healthier and happier these days. I like Your podcast much more than I thought I would ... sober Tom is very enjoyable!
Why do you thrive so much to be cool for other people? Love yourself and be original. Everyone has tattoos it's not original. Who cares what the beautiful girl says or if she made fun of you. Once you get the tattoo you can't take it back without screwing up your skin. I know this because I had them and I removed them and it discolored my skin. My skin looks terrible. I wanted to be cool too. Thank goodness no one has that kind of influence on me anymore. You're so handsome and you will change your looks forever so think long and hard before you do it. Good luck.
As an OG who was plenty ticked during the Scandovol of it all, but not one who felt you should be dragged for life, I’m really enjoying this podcast. I’m liking this Tom we are seeing a lot & hope to see much more. Wishing you much success & hope you are able to heal yourself & maybe a few friendships. Keep up the great work.
ok hear me out: Tom, Tom, Jason at TomTom for an intimate, private podcast sesh. Sell tickets that inc food + 2 drinks. Ppl will pay HUNDREDS! Hear me, Lisa? I’ll be the hostess w the mostest that day 😊
I do love Ariana & I felt so bad for her bcuz being cheated on (let alone by one of her best friends) is just excruciating pain. I am upset at Tom cuz he should’ve just been honest but he didn’t. So now he’s facing consequences, she’s definitely winning. But I must agree the more I watch VPR the more I see things. I see Ariana treating him just as he’s described & I also see how very firm, stern non bending in her opinions she is which is fine but she’s very into her sensitivities but not others. As caring as she is she is very much abt her feelings. Like when Katie didn’t want Schwartz & Raquel to make out Ariana thought she was being to sensitive. I could go on but I see Toms point more so now then when the scandal first started. Ultimately he should’ve just ended it but we all mess up.
Exactly!!! I've watched from the beginning and always thought it was unfair how her opinions always dominated the relationship, and she took out issues with her ex on him. It really was messed up how she seemed to deflect her and Tom's relationship connection to Kristen's cheating so people wouldn't focus on her and the way she talked so poorly about Miami girl, knowing it was true and they weren't even together. Those were choices she made. She can't convince me she didn't benefit from it because she didn't want to look bad. The no marriage, no kids (that last minute effort was after they started counseling and didn't seem genuine) and always talking to him like crap publicly. I can't imagine anyone feeling good or content with that. You can be with someone for a long time and things go badly, but it's seen as far back as 7 years ago! Even if he was acting strange, girl that's your man! You pull him to the side and not emasculate him in front of your friends. Relationships take work and it's hard to feel bad for the former side chick when she said "totally inappropriate" over them having deep conversations when she was doing the same thing and he said this season 2 reunion.
Stick with the temp tattoos Tom. Best of both worlds..no one knows and you can always change them or not have them at all..And don’t put anything on that handsome face of yours. And Special Forces, WOW, now THAT show will really test your inner strength. You should be proud of yourself. One question: Do you miss IMO’s pizza? I’m from STL and i crave the toasted ravs, the pizza, and their cheese! Great podcast!
I like Ariana for her, it has nothing to do with you. It comes across like you cannot fathom that people could like/support/be fans of Ariana for her but just to be against you.
That's because he's a giant narcissist. How funny that after his last episode where Dr. Drew told him it's alot about HIM... He does a Q&A episode. 😂
I liked Tom before Ariana was even on the show... still do... His podcasts are excellent, he's just him ... And he's not a narcissist ...he has a lot of empathy 🩷✌🏼.... We all have narcissistic traits some have a little, some have a lot
Definitely a narcissist, ALWAYS HAS BEEN!!!! LIKE SINCE DAY ONE, NOT ANYTHING NEW.. literally Ariana had fans before you cheated and STILL has fans lmao has nothing to do with "Scandoval"
People with narcissism personality dont have low self esteem as Tom describes so thats wrong. Just because you make mistakes do not mean that you are psykopat or narcissist or sociopat, has nooooothing to do with it. And people that think that need to be more educated on the topic.. its kind of sad that people are just throwing this terms out, that is so stupid to put a label on someone you dont know on a personal level, you just should not to that.
@@samoyedjoy1I hear you and agree. Just sorry he got trapped with a psycho. Both Toms did - now finally FREE!
Tattoos are so common now there not actually cool anymore. Rock the fake ones. jmo
I have a neck tattoo and it’s my fav one ever! Completely want a much bigger one and my husband is nottttttt for it 😂😂 so I say yessss Tom do it! 😂😂❤️
Tom GET ON THE MIC. Everyone has to be up on the mic so we can hear you.
To be honest I never in my life heard such horrible language at the reunion. Andy should’ve stopped it or Lisa should’ve told those horrible subhuman people on the other side
Absolutely disgusting
James & Lala behaved absolutely abhorrently. Ariana had a reason to be mad, But the display from those other two was disgusting. It was good to see that at least Katie kept it classy..
If i were Ariana i would have said worse and done absolutely evil 😊
@@LevaFatisi-qe5qy you are what’s wrong with people now. You are a shallow shell
Where’s this narcissist test, I wanna take it lol
It’s not accurate. Don’t waste your time.
I am a hairstylist and have a few tattoos (so they are ok in my profession).. when I was in my early 20s, I got my daughters name tattooed on the side of my neck in beautiful cursive writing. It is currently my only tattoo that I'm considering having laser removed bc neck tats don't hold up well. Do not get a neck tat you will regret it and be lazering it off like you did that horrible ass tat you did (btw, that scene scared me away from doing it myself so thanks for that 😜)
Sandavol, you look great! Keep it up!! No neck tattoos 😳 !!
Love Tom, and he’s looking great! Please don’t get a neck tattoo!!!!!!
The podcast needs to be rebranded into The Tom’s.
I'm surprised that they didn't ask you to be on House of Villains. Would you do that show if they ask you to (if there is a season 2)?
I hope not - haven't seen the show but that doesn't sound appealing
@hayfergroup1916 It's actually not a bad show. They have Jax Taylor, Johnny Bananas, Omarosa, New York, and some other people all living in a house while competing in challenges.
Some guy from Survivor sabotaged Jax in a blindfolded driving challenge. Then they have eliminations until only 1 is left. Show has only been on a few weeks.
New York made Jax tear up. She called him a demon with a black heart.
@@kristelcorrea769 I'll watch anything Tom is on, but to me just the title of the villains, just makes it seem like glorifying the bad instead of the good in my opinion - and waiting for fights to happen, I'm personally so over the fights
He is not a villain, He done a couple of bad things & a lot of good things.
Jax belongs there.
@rekawrecked7268 no he doesn't lol he was super nice to everyone and left crying. He's definitely a changed man
At first I was thinking okay they clearly aren’t reading or answering ALL the questions, and just hand picked the easy breezy ones. Because these were super benign. But then remembered he said these came from Patreon, so obviously they’re coming from fans, only and not anything hard hitting. Side note, Sandoval looked disappointed that Schwartz scored lower on the narc test lol
Schwartz, would love to see you in both Summer and Winter houses! I’m sure scheduling is an issue but I love with that cast. Would also love seeing you as a friend on Southern Charm, but I’m probably reaching there ☺️
This podcast wasn’t created just so people could come in and demand that their hard questions be answered. Tom has been on an apology tour since last March and everyone needs to get a life of their own and let him go on with his. If he wants to answer questions, fine, but he’s eaten enough crow to grow wings and a beak and it’s time to move on.
@TomSandoval how did u quit smoking??! Did u use anything to help u quit or did u taper or did u just quit cold turkey??! I really wanna quit but it’s hard!
Start vaping?
Don't start vaping! I quit smoking after 17 years and used chantex or whatever the pill is called. Hear there are crazy side effects but I had zero. Been off since 2016. Telling ya you won't want cigs anymore after 2 weeks on that pill
Live🌟Laugh🌟 Love🌟Temp neck tattoos
If you guys toured to West Virginia or at least Pittsburgh, I’d be 😊!
Love both Tom’s friendships. They are both cute & fun to watch. Watched Special forces & loved how Tom Sandoval courages rope crawling high cliff to victory, out of the 14 people only 2 made it successfully & Tom won both the ladder & the rope crawl. I found Tom as the true winner on Special forces since he won also since his boxing twice.he won the first boxing. Glad JOJo caught on to trainers favoritism folly. Tom & JoJo were the true Winners❤
Jason is over the top for Tom.
Tom you should have dumped Arianna and none of this would would of happened love the podcast btw
You don't dump people they are not trash.
Tom is real man 😊💪
Schwartzyyyy
Me patiently waiting for the tana episode 😅
Omg the duo I never knew I needed
❤❤❤❤🥰
I love love Special Forces and I so wish Sandoval will win the whole thing..
He’s killing it I think he’s gotten the most passes out of anybody no? 😅
You don't need tats. You don't seem like a tat guy. Not that there is a type. Stay with fake to see how you feel. It might be a phase.
Of course, do what you want. Just a suggestion, you may get it out of your system. Wishing you all the best.
Tom on Winter House Katie really liked you. I do understand, I've been single by choice for years. Healing is so important, being alone is essential.
Loving yourself and knowing your worth is key.
I must say," I watched a couple of your shows" they were very interesting as well real. Loved your show with Dr. Drew. My question would be if you really cared about Raquel, why didn't you stick by her side?no shade intended. Ive been a fan since the beginning.
No question just a comment. Sandoval I think you and Swartz need to have your own reality show. Kind of like LuAnn and Sonja from RHONY do. ❤
I have neck tattoos and got them in my fifties go for it
As ozzy once told kelly…if you want to be cool nowadays don’t get any tattoos. It’s what everyone is doing and the point of it at one time was it was needlessly taboo
Bravo con TOM Sandoval get a neck tattoo!! I
Love that if it’s real !! You look amazing at Bravo con
Hey Tom, now that you aren’t drinking alcohol, I’m wondering if that includes cannabis? And would you be interested in starting a cannabis infused drinks that can be served at bars (hopefully one day 🤞🏼)
So happy Swartz is w you!!!!♥️♥️
Unfortunately you’re a sacrificial lamb for every girl that had a heartbreak
Exactly. Ariana pushed him away, little by little. She is no saint.
Tom and Tom are so entertaining love your podcast wait a year and see if you still wanna get get it
Tattoo’s on the neck, face and actually most places are tacky. Go find a pair of jeans that you LOVED from 10 years ago and let me know if you still like them. That will give you your answer.
Sometimes I wonder if people have actually watched the same show as I have! It wasn’t a healthy relationship on either side. I am surprised it lasted as long as it did. People get stuck in a rut, the routine of everyday life, then something exciting comes along. It happens and we all know it was handled wrong. The public put Ariana on a pedestal but she did play a factor in the scandal. I am not saying what you did was right, Tom, but I can understand why the affair happened.
kristen got her cheap shots in there too- she hit tom and tom A LOT
Your too handsome for face or neck tattoos.. Tom
Schwartz always goes after the women in these altercations: Doute,Stassi, Katie…Shorts is my least favorite on VPR
Edit to say that I absolutely loved Tom at his wedding and the time he bought Katie the mariachi band that was so sweet other than that absolutely not
I like to call him Shartz lmao
The back bright wall with the tv screen is blinding!
It needs something to tone down the brightness
Do you and Jax plan to do each other's podcasts?
i tried giving this podcast a chance but oof. my scandoval opinions aside, this content just straight up doesn't feel genuine. it kind of makes me uncomfortable and im not sure why
Tom Sandy, Wowsa, your looking more buff than ever!! Holy moly ❤❤❤🔥🔥🔥🔥