This is a sad case on both sides. He took her knowing she doesn’t love him, which she made clear to him but he made that CHOICE. The wife stayed with him as she didn’t want to disappoint her father. Just sad on both sides as they both never got to experience true love.
Sad for both parties. One gave all his love to the wrong person, and one rejects all opportunity for true love. Bad combination and both suffering from many years of misery
Peb ua neej nyob es ua cas tus hlub yus, yus hos tsis hlub, tus es tsis hlub yus es yus pheej yuav mus hlub ne yom. Kuv li yog lam muaj hmoo li koj mas ntshe kuv yuav hlub nws heev li os.
Tus txiv aw,,,kv yog ib tug neeg sia ntawv kawg tabsis kv mloog kj Żak neej neeg no eś kv nim quaj 2 kv os vim kv pab kj tu siab dhau lawm hais tias cas kj nim tau kj tus poj niam lub ces eś twb tsis tau lub siab. Nim tu 2 kj siab txog hnub kj ua ib siab ncaim lub nyiaj kiag os tus me txiv tsev zoo. Ua ib siab mog lwm tiam yog tseem muaj thiab mam Los nrhiav tus kom hlub 2 kj os.
I have nothing nice to say so I’m not going to say anything to the WIFE but Nrog cov me nyuam tu siab ua poob ib leej txiv zoo. Thov kom kom cov me nyuam ua neej muaj hmoob lub siab zoo muaj zoo peevxwm li Nej txiv nawb mog.
I don't really feel sorry for men who forces someone to marry them KNOWING that person does NOT want them. I side with the girl. If I have wasted that many years with him already, I would stay to ensure he fulfills his duty to me. I wouldn't want to put myself in a divorcee life style. Especially, in the Hmong community. He will just have to reap this loveless marriage because he knew and forced it.
@@lovetoplaywithyou3530: Yeah. I don't know why some people do that to themself. If you know someone straight out don't like you, why do you still proceed then go on living a life of misery. Both of you suffer in misery.
What a miserable life you and your husband had both lived. Neither one of you should have had to live a life without love from a spouse. I wish you both a life full of love and happiness in your next life.
Tus tuag mas yuav tsum yog koj cas tseem cia koj niag txiv tuag thiab so sad for koj niag txiv is tau ib niag poj dab hmoob siab li koj tsi tsim nyog kiag
Nrog koj tu siab kawg nkaus.. Cas ho tsis thim xav thiab txawj qhia tus kheej ntxov es yuav tos txog hnub ntuj teb tag ncua lawm koj mam li txawj xav.. cas kev ua neej nyob pheej tos paub lig xwb li.. yog txhob ua neej nrog txoj kev xav kev ntshaw uas tsis tseeb ces ntshe koj lub neej kev zoo siab yuav nyob nted nrog koj... txhob tu siab mog tus koj tsis xav hlub ces txawm ua zoo los tsis pom muaj nqis, vim yus twb yog tus xaiv txoj kev phem ntawd rau nws mog....mam nrhiav dua mog
Koj mas thiaj yog ib tug poj niam uas txawj siab phem thiab lim hiam tshaj plaws lis ov lawv aws ntiaj teb tsi muaj tug qhua koj hlo lis ov yam nov mus ces koj tsua tau kev npam lawm xwb ov vim koj lub siab phem siab nyoos nkaus xwb ov tau qho zoo koj tsi txau siab ces koj tsua muaj tau qho phem lawm xwb os poj hmoob siab phem nrog koj tus me txiv tu siab tshaj plaws vim ua zoo los tau kev ntsim siab xwb
That’s crazy how some of these comments are saying they feel bad for him. He brought it upon himself. He wanted her so bad he didn’t care about how she felt. And it’s creepy how the older guy wanted her. Like what young girl wants to be with a guy who’s always creeping on you when u just want to enjoy your youth. And flirt or get to know guys around HER AGE. Some these comments are disgusting… imagine how she felt being trapped with a creep who she wanted nothing to do with. She only did it for her parents not for herself.
Tus niam tsev cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj li. Tus txiv tsev no los yeej selfish because he knew that she did not love him yet he continued to pursue her. If a woman had done this to a man society would condemn the woman saying she deserved no love because she knew that he did not love her yet she married him anyways. Ppl would condemn her but not if a man does it. You either love a person or you dont. The heart cant be forced to love someone it doesnt love. I feel sad for you sister. You too deserve love.
Tu niag pog hmoob lim hiam aw koj lub niag siab ma nyoo tiag2 lim hiam tiag222 niag poj hmoob ça yu G hlub luag e G muab luag nrauj Kom luag thiaj mu nrhiav tu neeg lo hlub luag koj ma npam ntau2 tiam ua koj muaj peev xwm G hlub ib tug neeg txog qhov tuag, koj ma lim hiam tiag2, ua txij nkawm nyob yog txog qhov mob twb yuav tuag e luag G qhia ce tu siab tiag2 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
ua txij nkawm nyob ua cas tsis txawj hlub yus tus txiv thaum pib ua lub neej, hnub tus zoo ncaim hauv lub ntiaj teb nrhiav tsis tau lawm, cia lwm tus luag mam tsim thiaj paub tias tus hlub yus yog leej twg.
I'm sorry that your life ended up like this. Mistakes are already made. The past is in the past. Let it go and try to be happy. Hope things will be better for you. Good luck! 💗
Tu poj niam no ma lim hiam tiag2,,,,koj yuav npam mu txhua2 tiam li mog tu niam tsev vim koj txoj kev lim hiam tsim2 koj tu txiv tuag ku...zoo li koj txhob mu yuav txiv dua lawm tsis li ce koj tu Tom ntej no tsua muaj ntau ncaw koj lawm xwb mog vim koj npam loj dhau lawm
Me viv ncaus aws... luag tej laus yeej 1 txwm hais tias luam zoo thawj ntsug es txij nkawm zoo thwj tus no nes. Peb ua neej nyob ces tsuas ntshaw tus txij nkawm hlub2 yus xwb yog lawv hlub2 yus lawm ces nyob twj ywm hlub2 lawv thiab es lub neej thiaj li nyob kaj siab. Koj txoj niag hmoov twb tsis zoo es txawm koj tau tus koj nyiam2 mas ntshe koj haj yam mag qws ntxoj dua.
Lady, don’t miss your late husband because if he’s still alive today, you would still treat him like 💩. You only miss his tolerance for you and you know that other men won’t tolerate you. Now that he’s gone, you have all the freedom to date anyone so quit regretting it and move on.
Ya don't know what ya have till it's gone. Money can't get you love but will get you used and abused. One life to live and love yet this is one that was too late to be realized.
Koj twb yog muaj hmoo tau tus txiv hlub koj khwv rau koj ntshaw ib tug txiv hlub yus li koj tus xwb os tu siab tiam no kuv yug los ua tug neeg tsi zoo nkauj es thiaj tsi tau tus txaus siab kos hlub kgwv rau kuv noj kuv siv os.
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj os lawv 😭😭😭 tus ntshaw ntshaw kev hlub ces nim ntshaw tag tiam tiag tiag os lawv aw
Tu siab dhau lawm os niam ntsuab teev aw...hlub tus txiv tsev no heev li os...mloog kua muag los² li os
Yog lawm. Zaj dab neeg no yog ib zaj rau pej cov viv ncaus hmoob suavdaws kawm mog😢😢😢
This is a sad case on both sides. He took her knowing she doesn’t love him, which she made clear to him but he made that CHOICE. The wife stayed with him as she didn’t want to disappoint her father. Just sad on both sides as they both never got to experience true love.
Sad for both parties. One gave all his love to the wrong person, and one rejects all opportunity for true love. Bad combination and both suffering from many years of misery
Well said.
Peb ua neej nyob es ua cas tus hlub yus, yus hos tsis hlub, tus es tsis hlub yus es yus pheej yuav mus hlub ne yom. Kuv li yog lam muaj hmoo li koj mas ntshe kuv yuav hlub nws heev li os.
Tab si yog kj tau tus hlub kj tab kj g nyiam nws ce yeej zoo li nws xb os
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Wow, what a BH you are! Hope you have a happy life after him!
How is it that you can't love someone who truly love & and care about you?!!! This lady really don't deserve happiness...I feel sorry for this man! 💔
Tus txiv aw,,,kv yog ib tug neeg sia ntawv kawg tabsis kv mloog kj Żak neej neeg no eś kv nim quaj 2 kv os vim kv pab kj tu siab dhau lawm hais tias cas kj nim tau kj tus poj niam lub ces eś twb tsis tau lub siab. Nim tu 2 kj siab txog hnub kj ua ib siab ncaim lub nyiaj kiag os tus me txiv tsev zoo. Ua ib siab mog lwm tiam yog tseem muaj thiab mam Los nrhiav tus kom hlub 2 kj os.
You can never truly blame one! Marriage like this should never happen
Agree!
You can definitely blame him.
Not ur fault to love him
Just find ur happiness
This woman don't deserve any love!
Let’s see you get guilt trip to marry someone you don’t love.
I have nothing nice to say so I’m not going to say anything to the WIFE but Nrog cov me nyuam tu siab ua poob ib leej txiv zoo. Thov kom kom cov me nyuam ua neej muaj hmoob lub siab zoo muaj zoo peevxwm li Nej txiv nawb mog.
Agreed 💯
Mloog mas los los kua muag li os. Tus neeg tsis ntxim hlub ces ua zoo los yeej tsis muaj tus hlub
Eb cas kv los los kua muag hlub koj tus txiv txoj kev hlub ua hlub koj heev li😭😭😭
I feel bad for him, however, he trapped her. He put himself in that predicament.
She was given the green light to leave, but chose not too.
I don't really feel sorry for men who forces someone to marry them KNOWING that person does NOT want them. I side with the girl. If I have wasted that many years with him already, I would stay to ensure he fulfills his duty to me. I wouldn't want to put myself in a divorcee life style. Especially, in the Hmong community. He will just have to reap this loveless marriage because he knew and forced it.
Neeg tsis sawm zoo neeg siab siab Poj ntxoog ces kawg tag txhob xa tias yus yuav zoo yav Tom ntej.
Yav zoo tag lawm vim tus qub txiv muab hlub dhau lawm. Cov los tom qab ces dab li dab lawm xwb.
Ab cas peb ho ntshaw2 ib tug txiv zoo2 li koj tus txiv kawg li ne
Pab hlub tus txiv uas tuag lawm
No! Tsis hlub os. He should go marry someone who love him.
@@lovetoplaywithyou3530: Yeah. I don't know why some people do that to themself. If you know someone straight out don't like you, why do you still proceed then go on living a life of misery. Both of you suffer in misery.
What a miserable life you and your husband had both lived. Neither one of you should have had to live a life without love from a spouse.
I wish you both a life full of love and happiness in your next life.
Tu2 siab heev li os niam lau
Tus tuag mas yuav tsum yog koj cas tseem cia koj niag txiv tuag thiab so sad for koj niag txiv is tau ib niag poj dab hmoob siab li koj tsi tsim nyog kiag
Sorry for your husband’s life, in his life he had no love😢😢😢
He chose not to have love.
😢 lucky for people who have their partner love them
Nrog koj tu siab kawg nkaus.. Cas ho tsis thim xav thiab txawj qhia tus kheej ntxov es yuav tos txog hnub ntuj teb tag ncua lawm koj mam li txawj xav.. cas kev ua neej nyob pheej tos paub lig xwb li.. yog txhob ua neej nrog txoj kev xav kev ntshaw uas tsis tseeb ces ntshe koj lub neej kev zoo siab yuav nyob nted nrog koj... txhob tu siab mog tus koj tsis xav hlub ces txawm ua zoo los tsis pom muaj nqis, vim yus twb yog tus xaiv txoj kev phem ntawd rau nws mog....mam nrhiav dua mog
Koj mas thiaj yog ib tug poj niam uas txawj siab phem thiab lim hiam tshaj plaws lis ov lawv aws ntiaj teb tsi muaj tug qhua koj hlo lis ov yam nov mus ces koj tsua tau kev npam lawm xwb ov vim koj lub siab phem siab nyoos nkaus xwb ov tau qho zoo koj tsi txau siab ces koj tsua muaj tau qho phem lawm xwb os poj hmoob siab phem nrog koj tus me txiv tu siab tshaj plaws vim ua zoo los tau kev ntsim siab xwb
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Peb ua neeg ces txoj kev txij nkawm yeej'muaj 50.50 xwb nws tsis yog 100 thaum muaj tej yam zoo Li no mam tig Los hlub qaib qu'à lig yus sawv ntxov
That’s crazy how some of these comments are saying they feel bad for him. He brought it upon himself. He wanted her so bad he didn’t care about how she felt. And it’s creepy how the older guy wanted her. Like what young girl wants to be with a guy who’s always creeping on you when u just want to enjoy your youth. And flirt or get to know guys around HER AGE. Some these comments are disgusting… imagine how she felt being trapped with a creep who she wanted nothing to do with. She only did it for her parents not for herself.
Tus niam tsev cas koj lub neej yuav tu siab ua luaj li. Tus txiv tsev no los yeej selfish because he knew that she did not love him yet he continued to pursue her. If a woman had done this to a man society would condemn the woman saying she deserved no love because she knew that he did not love her yet she married him anyways. Ppl would condemn her but not if a man does it. You either love a person or you dont. The heart cant be forced to love someone it doesnt love. I feel sad for you sister. You too deserve love.
Neeg tsis sawm zoo thiab niag neeg tsis ntxim hlub ces zoo li koj ko mas .
Tu niag pog hmoob lim hiam aw koj lub niag siab ma nyoo tiag2 lim hiam tiag222 niag poj hmoob ça yu G hlub luag e G muab luag nrauj Kom luag thiaj mu nrhiav tu neeg lo hlub luag koj ma npam ntau2 tiam ua koj muaj peev xwm G hlub ib tug neeg txog qhov tuag, koj ma lim hiam tiag2, ua txij nkawm nyob yog txog qhov mob twb yuav tuag e luag G qhia ce tu siab tiag2 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Npam koj lawm. Koj ces yuav quaj txog hnub siav tu nrho. Pab hlub koj txiv heev. Nws tsis tau txoj kev hlub li.
Yog mas! Poj niam siab phem.
Ua cas zaj neej neeg no yuav tu siab ua luag
Cas yuav tu siab ua luaj i 😢
Tu siab kwg...😢
ua txij nkawm nyob ua cas tsis txawj hlub yus tus txiv thaum pib ua lub neej, hnub tus zoo ncaim hauv lub ntiaj teb nrhiav tsis tau lawm, cia lwm tus luag mam tsim thiaj paub tias tus hlub yus yog leej twg.
Pab hlub koj tu txiv kawg os thovkom lwm tiam koj tu txiv los tau tu poj niam nyiam nw kom nw tau txoj kev hlub tiag mog 😢
Cov poj niam hmoob es zoo zoo nkauj ces yeej siab phem li no nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...
I heard many stories like this one. 😢😢😢too sad
I'm sorry that your life ended up like this. Mistakes are already made. The past is in the past. Let it go and try to be happy. Hope things will be better for you. Good luck! 💗
Ua tsaug yuas koj Tug txiv tua txog kev kaj lawm os
Ntse yuav ua ib siab nyob ib leeg thiaj tsis raug tsim.
nev22 heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim na has vim koj tsis hlub koj tus qub txiv ne thiaj npam koj mas
Omg im literally crying while listening to this story.
Tu poj niam no ma lim hiam tiag2,,,,koj yuav npam mu txhua2 tiam li mog tu niam tsev vim koj txoj kev lim hiam tsim2 koj tu txiv tuag ku...zoo li koj txhob mu yuav txiv dua lawm tsis li ce koj tu Tom ntej no tsua muaj ntau ncaw koj lawm xwb mog vim koj npam loj dhau lawm
Zoo kawg nws tuag vim mob txaus2 lawm txog caij koj mus nrhiav tus koj nyiam li koj xav lawm tiag koj tsis hlub nws tabsis nws hlub koj nws twb mus pauv ib pob nyiaj rau koj lawm zoo kawg rau koj
Tseem yuav tuaj tham ab tsis na, kav tsis mus yuav tus koj hlub ma.
😭
Dag tiag tiag tuag mam qhuas poj hmoob siab phem xav pom seb koj zoo li neej los zoo li dab
Niag poj dab no ces ntshe nws tsuas quaj rau qhov tias tus txiv tuag lawm ces tsis tau ib lub nyiaj hli lawm xwb.
Tu siab tshaj nim tu siab txog qhov muaj mob lo twb tsis qhia rau tu niam tsev li lawm os😢😢😢😢
Neeg phem tau kev npam ces yog koj los mas.
Muaj ib txhia neeg yeej tsis muaj siab ntsws na...luag twb tsis nyiam yus kiag lo pheej mus zov kom meem txog luag...txawm yog muaj ib niag hluas nkauj nws tsis nyiam es pheej tuaj zov rawv nws lo nws yeej meem txom ib yam thiab...yog yus yiam luag es tseem tshaj li dev zov quav lawm yog yus puam xeeb ntshaw npaum li ntawv yuav tau es nws hlub thiab tsis hlub lo txhob txawj tu siab txhob chim kiag li...yog yus txawj tu siab ces yus paub yus tu kheej txhob yuav xwb....yus lub siab phem yuav luag lo yug me nyuam tag mam tso luag kev thaum no luag tsis tau tu zoo tu luag nyiam lawm na...nyob sib tsim xwb tiag
Koj siab siab phen es
He’s a master manipulator. You can’t force someone to be your wife then get mad when they don’t want to love and respect you.
I have never commented on Niam ntsuab Teev stories. But my first comment to this story is Nyuam Qhuav Ntxim Rau Tus Niam Tsev no xwb!!!
Tseem ntsib tsis tau txaus os. Cia kom mag ntau tshaj no thiaj li.
Koj pheej yuav quaj ua dabtsi na, koj twb tsis hlub koj tus txiv ne. Koj tsim luag tuag kiag tsim nyog koj zoo siab.
It’s 1 in the morning and I’m crying my ass off 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
😢😢😢😭
Me viv ncaus aws... luag tej laus yeej 1 txwm hais tias luam zoo thawj ntsug es txij nkawm zoo thwj tus no nes. Peb ua neej nyob ces tsuas ntshaw tus txij nkawm hlub2 yus xwb yog lawv hlub2 yus lawm ces nyob twj ywm hlub2 lawv thiab es lub neej thiaj li nyob kaj siab. Koj txoj niag hmoov twb tsis zoo es txawm koj tau tus koj nyiam2 mas ntshe koj haj yam mag qws ntxoj dua.
Tus viv ncaus no nws tsi sawm zoo tau ib tug zoo txiv txoj kev hlub peb ua neeg nyob peb tsuas ntshaw tus zoo txiv txoj kev hlub xwb,cov zoo2 nraug kuv tsi ntshaw os cov zoo2 nraug ces yog txiv zej txiv zos xwb
😢😢
Lady, don’t miss your late husband because if he’s still alive today, you would still treat him like 💩. You only miss his tolerance for you and you know that other men won’t tolerate you. Now that he’s gone, you have all the freedom to date anyone so quit regretting it and move on.
😢😢😢hlub kawg
When the love gone, the love will never be the same.
Tu tu siab heev muaj heev neeg tsim xwb os
tus ntshaw kev hlub ces ntshaw tag tiam no los tsi tau ....neeg tsi sawm zoo os thaum nploj lawm mam khuv xim ces lig2 lawm lau
Dev, tsis sawm tsau. Neeg tsis sawm zoo. 😂😂😂
Koj tu txiv hlub g koj ntau tsi taus koj thiaj tsi xav hlub ne
Poj hmoob dab tsi ua cas lub siab yuav mus nyoos ua luaj li tiag.
Neeg Siab phem Ces yog koj os sister
Ya don't know what ya have till it's gone. Money can't get you love but will get you used and abused. One life to live and love yet this is one that was too late to be realized.
Tu sjab heev os 😭😭😭
Koj twb yog muaj hmoo tau tus txiv hlub koj khwv rau koj ntshaw ib tug txiv hlub yus li koj tus xwb os tu siab tiam no kuv yug los ua tug neeg tsi zoo nkauj es thiaj tsi tau tus txaus siab kos hlub kgwv rau kuv noj kuv siv os.
Kuv nyiam kawg koj tus txiv keej tshaj nplaws vim koj xav tau ib tug txiv neej kaus koj kuv kuj pab koj tus txiv zoo siab tshaj li os peb zoo nkauj tshaj koj peb twb tsis tau ua koj ua kuv yog ib tug mi ntxhais yog ntxhais zoo nkauj tab sis kuv tsis ua li ua npam koj loj heev os koj yuav paub zoo heev txij hnub koj txiv muab koj tso pov tseg zoo zoo tshaj nplaws
Zoo kawg
Koj tsi txawj hlub lawv ces khuab nis ntxim xwb koj mas tsi ntxim nyog rau koj tus txiv hlub li os
Wow ....how heartless can you be. Your husband was a good man.
😭😭😭😭
Such a sad story.
I cried listening to this !!!! You are ungrateful and karma did its job !!
Ntuj e... hnub no mam khuv xim yus tus ces lig2 lawm tig tsis tau lub caij nyoog rov lawm os...
Good luck
poj niam nyob ntiaj teb no koj yogib tug poj niam siab pem tsaj paws tsis muaj ib tug siab yuav pem li koj li os
Niam ntsuab teev koj muab hais lus seev dhau lawm txhob hais lus seev seev ces 3 cov mloog xob xob plaub hau li pauv hais lus nawb ok
Yog lawm
Yog Tsis nyiam yuav Tsum muab nrauj Thaum hluas. Kom neb txoj kev muab thiaj li tsis tau uv ntev npaum no
Omg so sad 😭😭😭
tu siab kawg li o
Oh kuv mas laj mloog cov stories uas cov niag poj niam/txiv neej siab phem no es txog ntua nhub nws txom nyem thiab lig2 rau nws lawm nws mam this xav ua luaj no lau...
As a 2x cancer surviver and also lost my husband to cancer....I can't even feel sorry for this sister.
Don’t blame her when she doesn’t love him.
Tu2 siab tshaj plaws li os niam ntsuab teev aw😢
Tu siab o😢😢
You never appreciated until it gone
Sister Muaj haiv neeg ua ces Muaj haiv neej tsim mas
It’s “heev” neeg.
Yus ua rau yus tus kheej xwb os. Tsis txhib nco tus tuag. Tus tuag twb tau zoo lawm.
😢😢😢เสียใจด้วยนะคะ
Zaj no mas tsim nyog nyhos kawg!! Cia lum tus muab tsim es thiaj li paub kev hlub. 😂😅
Kuv n tshaw tus txiv zoo li koj tus ko xwb cas koj ho tsis hlub nws kheev lam yog kuv tus ntshe kuv yuav hlub nws tshaj li os
Wow! Your dreams came true and finally got a taste of real love 👊🏻. You must be happy now for not loving your husband that loves you until death.
Cas tus neeg tsis hlub yus saib yus tsis muaj nuj nqis yus pheej hlub tso tsis taus nws. Yus mus qhov twg tsheej hnub los nws yeej tsis hu xov tooj rau yus yeej tsis nco yus hos nws mus tsheej hnub los nws yeej tsis hu ib los rau yus. Yus hu xov tooj rau nws ma nws tsis xav teb yus li. Ntshe yuav tau ua ib siab tu siab nrho qe muag ua neej lawm xwb los cas.