Adrienne was hurt by what she used to tolerate. This is what happens when you love and give yourself completely to that, you put yourself lower naturally. It's crazy how women love, I'm glad she found the man that suits her.
Men and women love differently. When men love they love hard! Women waste time loving bad boys who don’t love.. than she treats the guy who really loves her bad and not the same as the guy before him..
Going through this now. 7 years and my husband keeps mentioning divorce. We can argue over the most basic things and he’ll mention divorce. It hurts! I hope one day to have what she has found. She’s glowing and her confidence is radiating.
Adrienne was always in toxic relationships. She buyin a bmw for one dude, gettin locked out from the next, forced to sign an NDA from another. like thank god she got it together 😭
I hope she really did. Because she acted like Lenny was so perfect ... the same way she acts about Israel ... and now she speaks about him like he's the worst man alive.
@@porschexo not completely as she has mentioned that he would check up on her when she had drama with Israel (everyone thought they were cheating on their respective spouses). I just dont think he wanted to settle down with her and now shes looking back realising there were signs. I know I would be angry if I looked back and realised I went through all of that and it wasnt worth it.
Great segment. Tamera looks stunning and I felt really bad for Adrienne. She looked sad and embarrassed, however it all happened for a reason. She has a husband now and she’s happy.
You shouldn't have to give up every aspect of your privacy for relationships. We don't have to trade passwords, but if I ask to see something you're doing it shouldn't be a big deal.
Facts I remember I would be asking my ex to see his phone and he would hide it from me But I was cool abt it Caz am like I dont wanna see things am not suppose to see I was like 16.. I have went through adult's and friend's phones and be seeing things am not suppose to see yk when u scroll the wrong direction in the gallery So I just learn to respect people's privacy And I trusted him caz he would tell me who he texting and what they saying and send me pictures of the convo I would give up my password if he asked but I trusted him so I didnt push it.
Adrienne was really "real" here. And i think a lot of people deal with what she did relationship wise. Not just the key thing. And I'm glad loni didn't hear the whole story because she was seeming uncaring and disrespectful.
@@jennyoneill8879 who tamera or Adrienne cause I think it was about 6 months with Adrienne and tamera I don’t know the full years but I know they broke up for about a year before they got back together.
@Shay91 the guy wasn't exactly Christ-like either, stop coming for the women in the relationship dang. They both committed immature acts, but it DOES NOT mean they are being punished.
Shay91 she didn’t do no crime didn’t kill no body all she did was have sex and you are disobeying god because you trying to knock some one down if you call you self a believer don’t judge other actions and chooses
Just because he has a key doesn't mean he lives there 🤷🏽♀️ I have the key to places I don't live but it's because of emergencies, if they need me to drop by while they're out of town. If something is going on but I'm closer.... And if we're in a serious relationship I would expect that person to be my go to person for stuff like that Therefore I would give them my spare key 🤷🏽♀️
A man who will hand his phone over to you when showing you something and oh my god when you’re looking at pictures and he says you can scroll, that is SO attractive to me. That means you’re not out here lying, trying to play me and have nothing to hide from me
Not necessarily. It can mean that but it could also mean that he just deleted the bs before he showed you pics🤷🏾♀️. Especially if u are in a situation where he knows you do not trust him so he will use that tactic to show you that you can trust him. Don't be fooled is all I'm saying.
@@jasibae00 My ex always show me his phone, later i found out he was cheating with an older woman who got him a job, a car and he was living at her place.
@@neyradafnelizardelucatero2545 Dang sis that's crazy!! See that's what I'm saying tho. You just can't put it past these men when they show you their phone smh
This by far has been my favorite girl chat segment ever. What Adrienne went through was sad however I'm glad she learned somethings about herself from this difficult experience. I was paying rent to a friend to let me stay with them and they didn't offer me a key for a while....it was embarrassing. I was thinking to myself I paying you to evade your space.... it was a lesson learned
I'm with Loni on this one. I'm the kind of person that really values personal space & boundaries, so I'm not the girl that would be trying to exchange keys or phone passwords, etc. That doesn't mean that I have something to hide or am not that into my partner, I just like having things of my own.
I am with you on this 100%! I don't share passwords,keys and I dislike anyone showing up at my house unexpectedly. Even my mom! I'd eventually let her in but she'd know I have a problem with it
This reminds me of the Sex in the City episode when Big didn't give Carrie a key to his apartment and she got upset b/c she was mistaken for a hooker....you live and you learn. Know your worth peeps.
I don't live with my boyfriend, but I have the keys to his place. He doesn't have mine because I still live with my parents. I only went over to his apartment one time when he wasn't home because there was too much traffic and I was really tired after classes and took a nap haha. He said that I can come over whenever I want. I won't move it with him because I want us to get married first.
My situation was very similar to yours. Years ago my fiance who was my boyfriend at the time had his own place. I was technically still living with my parents, and he gave me a key to his place. I didn't ask for the key. But I pretty much "lived" there, I was over there more than I was at my parents house. We got an apartment together now 5 years later, because ain't no way I'm moving into someone else's place because I wouldn't feel like it was my place too, if that makes sense. The only thing I regret is that we won't have too mich to look forward to when we get married because we've been living together for 5 years haha. So we already know how it feels to live together
Hasta ahorita se acordó que dejó a a la persona que era su marido se fue a la aventura por casi 9 años y ahora viene como si nada ya se acavo lo que abia entre tu y yo ahora ando en busca de hotra princesa
@@andreac.5596 Big'big mistake.Never live with a man who you are not married to.5 years!!!!!? My'God.I hope he finally make a lady out of you by now.Good luck.God bless
@@leonietaylor7054 We are still together and living together. It works for us and everyone is different. May not be something you would do, but everyone has their own opinion and I respect that.
“I can’t imagine any relationship where it’s awkward to be open” I now know that Jeannie. Because I used to feel just how Adrienne used to. Scared to y’all about stuff that’s bothering me, or worse, scared to talk bout stuff that should be a given. But Adrienne’s right. They only do what you allow. If you put our foot down from the jump and they still disrespecting, you gotta go. She was living there and still ain’t have a key?! Yeah that fool was up to something. I don’t agree with giving out keys just like Loni cause I don’t like anyone in my space. If we ain’t married, it ain’t necessary. But Adrienne was living there and he was clearly up to something. You can see it still hurt her feelings. It hasn’t been that long since she and that dude has broken up. Glad she didn’t marry him though. Great for her.
Its very crazy that I constantly watch this clip because I am so touched by Adrienne's story and I can relate, she had bad relationships like I did, which is the reason I decided to just stay single until God sends me that special person into my life. I know I am gonna find true love and be appreciated one day because I love LOVE and will never give up on LOVE, there is still good men out there. I am sorry A, you can tell that she is hurting was treated very badly. Thanks to God, she now has a husband who loves her. I am wishing her the best of wonderful lifetime with her husband. I love you A.
When I saw the title I was like : a key to what ? My home ? You ain't moving in with me until we married... forget all that ain't nobody got time for that.... I'm a guy and to me a key is not just a key... it shows security in your relationship & a sense of progression... so once I move in I would to progress further than just living together... living together to just live together and shut your girl up is different than living together to move the relationship forward... you get what I mean!
john smith well that means these men need to stop being with little girls and get with a WOMAN. There are plenty of women who would be a great wife but men look over them for girls who are materialistic and bossy because they want a “trophy”. And yes women do it too! I hope you find the person for you because everyone deserves to be loved and appreciated. Unfortunately I’m shy and don’t really talk to people so it’s hard for me to find someone but when I do...🤞🏾 🖤🔐
Adrienne: Helped a lot of people know that they were not the only ones who fell for the oke doke. We all have but it teaches us what real Love is... Mrs. Houghton ❤️❤️❤️
I don't think it's about suspecting them of cheating, but it's about them being close with you. For example, my sister and best friends know the password to my phone. It's like people close to you deserve that privilege.
I think sometimes people are not transparent because they are not ready to be that open with you at the level. It deep but so important to pay attention to these things as they speak louder than words !!! love this show
Delayva I think they just ignored it bc even people who are just friends give each other the passwords on their phone so it shouldn’t be a big deal to give your gf/bf your phone password
I just gave my boyfriend a key to my first apartment. It was a huge step for me and I made it very clear that this is my space and that I WILL take my key back if he ever comes over unannounced. I’d never cheat on him so that’s not the reason I’d just be absolutely terrified thinking that someone’s breaking in! He doesn’t even use it... he still rings the door bell lol
Adrienne just wasnt compatible with that person. Like Loni said, some people just dont like giving keys. But if u feel hurt by that then your not with the right person. Ultimately, you know what u need in order to feel validated in a relationship. I had an ex that would do things all the time that got me upset. But i realized it wasnt always him doing something "wrong", but it was just that we weren't compatible in that way.
First. I am not giving any key to anyone unless we are married. And as for the phone thing..girl I have nothing to hide and if you need to borrow my phone to make a call whatever I’ll give like if you ask I’ll show, but if you just randomly ask me I’m sorry I’m saying no. My privacy is my privacy.
I was always taught to treat others when it's my birthday, so i expect when the birthday person herself calls us for the birthday she's treating us out... If we were planning a party for someone else obviously we would take care of it.
When I asked my ex what he was doing on his phone, it took him about 5 seconds to turn his phone around and show me and I could clearly see the movements of his fingers as he closed out of what he was on and opened something else to show.
Hearing Tam say she has a 5 yr old still in her bed reminds me of how on Tia and Tamera's reality show, she gave Tia a hard time for having Cree in her bed, and how when she becomes a parent, she wouldn't allow that.....lol
He gave me a key to his place,after 2 weeks of dating him.we were not evn staying together.for me it felt like he was just putting a hold on me.as he was from a broken marriage.his actions towards me were not making justice as to why i have the key.he was insecure and had trust issues.the key thing it made me feel like he wanted me to feel like i was the only one..whereas his heart was still stuck in the past.i gave the key back,and told him .having a key to his place does not change anything for me.i wanted a key to his heart not his house.the guy was too posessive and we ended up breaking up.when guys give keys sometimes they have hidden intentions than what it really means to us ladies.
Marriage doesn’t mean my life is a tell all book it is about having a mutual respect for each other and the relationship. When you are talking about getting a password helps you establish trust, you have some insecurities that you need to resolve. i don’t want the password to my bf’s phone, so I am not giving him mine. I think people should expect some level of privacy if it isn’t causing harm by putting someone at risk physically or emotionally.
DeVon Thomas Exactly. I’m not tolerating insecurities. It isn’t that I have anything to hide, it is because they have trust issues. No matter what you do, they will always will have an issue with trust.
A key to a guy's place means absolutely shi They'll still cheat they'll still play you they'll still switch up all that and neither is a password TRUST ME MEN CHANGE
Happy that Adrienne found someone that values her ❤️ and loni your friend needs to stop being around broke people That’s embarrassing especially on your birthday if they knew they didn’t have the money should of stayed home people need to stop using other people .
Me personally , I would love to live with my significant other before we get married and plan a life together just to see how they act . Sleepovers and actually living together is two completely different things especially if you & the person have differnt schedules , different ways of cleaning , different ways of even getting ready in the morning . But for the people out there saying you're not supposed to live with a man until you're married shut up . You cannot judge someone else's preference if you're not living their life I rather my significant other take his time before just immediately asking me to marry him , marriage is a big ass step buy people don't understand that .
Loni acts like a priss sometimes. She's very closed off and acts very single . I'm surprised she doesn't sleep in single beds in the same room😂 like damn what do you do in a relationship that is a relationship??
It's frustrating watching this sometimes. Will they just allow Ade to complete her sentences! This isn't something to make light of she is helping others who are possible in the same situation or see those flags. It's annoying how they kept interrupting her. I'm so glad Ade is in a better place. Wish her nothing but the best.
Ok I’m young and in uni: my friends and I all assume it’s separate and we all just set it like that from the beginning. I think if you’re just clear about that that’s amazing.
I agree with Tam. I don't think sharing passwords is necessary if you're secure in yourself, your relationship, and trust each other. If you have to look in their phone, you're going to find something regardless if they are doing something shady or not. That's cause your frame of mind is already in that space.
Loni's "You aint gettin no key sweetie" gets a BIG right on from me. You do not need a key to my apartment. Come visit- ring the bell, spend the night and go home and I do not need one either. Tell it Loni!! Poor Adrienne. I could tell she was still hurt with the old thoughts of that man who basically made her beg to gain entry to his home that he was allowing her to reside in at that time. Yet, he had all her apt keys. He had NO respect or regard for her at all and wanted her to know it. As beautiful as she is, to him she was just someone to pass the time imo.
Just because you don’t get a key to your boyfriend‘ s place it doesn’t make a prediction of a relationship but it shows a trust thing it builds a trust thing
I don’t care how much you have or don’t have - if you hand out invites to your birthday and expect people to pay you cannot afford it! You’re actually inviting people to a venue not a party! Because imagine how many times we’d spend if everybody in our lives did that or that was the norm? Throw events / parties you can afford! And for all those who agree to do a lunch date/ meet up and will always escape the bill you have something else coming!
Simple solution to inviting people for a birthday dinner... Send out the menu to everyone and ask if that restaurant is OK.. Real friends will say if its too expensive and then it's clear everyone is paying.
I've never had a birthday party, because I never wanted to force friends to come, pay the bill, and give me gifts. I've had very close friends do it one on one, or my partner.
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Adrienne: "You are only treated the way you allow someone to treat you" I love this statement👌👌
Facts upon facts!
1000000% YES 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 come on people!
@MR.SHEPHERD huhh?!?
Your mama neva told you that???😒
I'm with Lonnie. No one has my keys but ME!
Adrienne was hurt by what she used to tolerate. This is what happens when you love and give yourself completely to that, you put yourself lower naturally. It's crazy how women love, I'm glad she found the man that suits her.
Exactly what I went through
Exactly
Experience helps. At least she learnt from it. Some people don’t.
Men and women love differently. When men love they love hard! Women waste time loving bad boys who don’t love.. than she treats the guy who really loves her bad and not the same as the guy before him..
Going through this now. 7 years and my husband keeps mentioning divorce. We can argue over the most basic things and he’ll mention divorce. It hurts! I hope one day to have what she has found. She’s glowing and her confidence is radiating.
You two heifers knew this??
Girl, us AND America heard the story, where were you?
😂
Lol Loni is too busy talking over people to hear the story!
Loni listens to argue not to comprehend
Lenny was Terrible. Adrienne put up with way too much in her past relationships.
A lot of women do unfortunately
J Woods !!!
Exactly
Who is Lenny
Sherita Armstrong her ex
OG watchers of the real know that man was Lenny
Tessa Yup. Lol
Yep😂😂
I started to watch it and I now it is Lenny
Adrienne was always in toxic relationships. She buyin a bmw for one dude, gettin locked out from the next, forced to sign an NDA from another. like thank god she got it together 😭
jimini14 You forgot the tattoo of one!
She went away from her usual types that’s why
I hope she really did. Because she acted like Lenny was so perfect ... the same way she acts about Israel ... and now she speaks about him like he's the worst man alive.
@@porschexo not completely as she has mentioned that he would check up on her when she had drama with Israel (everyone thought they were cheating on their respective spouses). I just dont think he wanted to settle down with her and now shes looking back realising there were signs. I know I would be angry if I looked back and realised I went through all of that and it wasnt worth it.
@@omphilemoerane2569 I dont think they're gonna get a divorce. Both of their reps would nosedive. But if they do, we'll definitely get the real tea.
Great segment. Tamera looks stunning and I felt really bad for Adrienne. She looked sad and embarrassed, however it all happened for a reason. She has a husband now and she’s happy.
???????
The reason is she cheated. Karma is a b**ch, but she is everyone's good old pal.
Yes, Israel is do sweet with her
"And that's why he's your husband "
If it’s just a key then give me one tf...😒🤔
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Exactly 😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
He did!😂
😂😂😂
You shouldn't have to give up every aspect of your privacy for relationships. We don't have to trade passwords, but if I ask to see something you're doing it shouldn't be a big deal.
Facts
I remember I would be asking my ex to see his phone and he would hide it from me
But I was cool abt it
Caz am like I dont wanna see things am not suppose to see
I was like 16.. I have went through adult's and friend's phones and be seeing things am not suppose to see yk when u scroll the wrong direction in the gallery
So I just learn to respect people's privacy
And I trusted him caz he would tell me who he texting and what they saying and send me pictures of the convo
I would give up my password if he asked but I trusted him so I didnt push it.
I agree.
thank you 👏
Exactly
AGREE 100%
Adrienne was really "real" here. And i think a lot of people deal with what she did relationship wise. Not just the key thing. And I'm glad loni didn't hear the whole story because she was seeming uncaring and disrespectful.
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This made me even more happier for Adrienne...her husband brings her so much joy and it shows🥰🥰🥰🥰
When Tamera said “ohhhhh” after Adrienne said four years 💀💀💀😂
Didnt she marry her husband after 8 months of dating?
@@jennyoneill8879 who tamera or Adrienne cause I think it was about 6 months with Adrienne and tamera I don’t know the full years but I know they broke up for about a year before they got back together.
Tamera is so unfamiliar with foolishness. Her standards are so high
The only man having a key is my HUSBAND!
Yall need to stop giving these boyfriends all these husbands privileges.
Not everyone wants a husband tho, they are fine with them just being a boyfriend/partner
@Shay91 agree
Amen 👏🏽👏🏽
Shay91 Adrienne didn’t waste six years, she learned a lot from it
Cröw&M●○N divorce happens all the time. Marriage does not guarantee that you want part ways.
My heart broke for Adrienne😢 I am so glad she is with Israel now and he is so smitten with her and makes her his whole world.
Oh Adrienne, he disrespected you so much 😭😭😭
@Shay91 Stop judging like damn 🙄
john smith Are you Lenny?
@Shay91 the guy wasn't exactly Christ-like either, stop coming for the women in the relationship dang. They both committed immature acts, but it DOES NOT mean they are being punished.
@john smith youre single and always angry
Shay91 she didn’t do no crime didn’t kill no body all she did was have sex and you are disobeying god because you trying to knock some one down if you call you self a believer don’t judge other actions and chooses
I'm so happy Adrienne found someone who loves her madly like Israel...they're just too perfect with each other!!!
Im not living with no man until we are getting married
blackbutterfly233ify not everyone agrees, but I do. It’s part of my Christian values
If you having sex with him it doesn't really matter I think. I just say that for people saying this for religious reasons
blackbutterfly233ify 100% right!
Shay91 for such a Christian you sure do judge a lot . SIN SIN SIN👹
Just because he has a key doesn't mean he lives there 🤷🏽♀️ I have the key to places I don't live but it's because of emergencies, if they need me to drop by while they're out of town. If something is going on but I'm closer.... And if we're in a serious relationship I would expect that person to be my go to person for stuff like that
Therefore I would give them my spare key 🤷🏽♀️
Oh hell no is RIGHT!!! So glad Adrienne found her Prince.
Jeanie have me laughing mad! "oh, you didn't have that either? That's a check check bye byeeee"
A man who will hand his phone over to you when showing you something and oh my god when you’re looking at pictures and he says you can scroll, that is SO attractive to me. That means you’re not out here lying, trying to play me and have nothing to hide from me
Not necessarily. It can mean that but it could also mean that he just deleted the bs before he showed you pics🤷🏾♀️. Especially if u are in a situation where he knows you do not trust him so he will use that tactic to show you that you can trust him. Don't be fooled is all I'm saying.
@Connor Hickory II ACTUALLY EXACTLY YES also why would anyone want to look at another persons phone anyway???? lmao the insecurityyy
@@jasibae00 My ex always show me his phone, later i found out he was cheating with an older woman who got him a job, a car and he was living at her place.
@@neyradafnelizardelucatero2545 Dang sis that's crazy!! See that's what I'm saying tho. You just can't put it past these men when they show you their phone smh
Plus a lot of people have 2 or 3 phones like on Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married Too"
This by far has been my favorite girl chat segment ever. What Adrienne went through was sad however I'm glad she learned somethings about herself from this difficult experience. I was paying rent to a friend to let me stay with them and they didn't offer me a key for a while....it was embarrassing. I was thinking to myself I paying you to evade your space.... it was a lesson learned
We dont need keys to each other's place unless we live together...and we are not living together unless we are married!
@john smith That's fine...I'd rather be alone ANYDAY than be with a bum!
@john smith If they are expecting sex it does....
YESSSSSS finally someone understands
You’ll regret that. Living together changes everything.
I'm with Loni on this one. I'm the kind of person that really values personal space & boundaries, so I'm not the girl that would be trying to exchange keys or phone passwords, etc. That doesn't mean that I have something to hide or am not that into my partner, I just like having things of my own.
U cute
Facts! Like I fully believe in identity theft.
I am with you on this 100%! I don't share passwords,keys and I dislike anyone showing up at my house unexpectedly. Even my mom! I'd eventually let her in but she'd know I have a problem with it
"No Hoe, you don't have to go!" - Loni Love
If Loni’s hair was white it would look like a judges wig
Supercalifragilisticthisbesuchadopekid that’s really funny yo
I can’t unsee it now.
love your username!
I can’t!!!
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This reminds me of the Sex in the City episode when Big didn't give Carrie a key to his apartment and she got upset b/c she was mistaken for a hooker....you live and you learn. Know your worth peeps.
My EXACT THOUGHT!
adrienne loves that show for a reason lmaoooo
Lenny was her Mr. Big.
Then in the movie, he stood her up at the wedding like sis, you are wasting your time!
I don't live with my boyfriend, but I have the keys to his place. He doesn't have mine because I still live with my parents. I only went over to his apartment one time when he wasn't home because there was too much traffic and I was really tired after classes and took a nap haha. He said that I can come over whenever I want. I won't move it with him because I want us to get married first.
My situation was very similar to yours. Years ago my fiance who was my boyfriend at the time had his own place. I was technically still living with my parents, and he gave me a key to his place. I didn't ask for the key. But I pretty much "lived" there, I was over there more than I was at my parents house. We got an apartment together now 5 years later, because ain't no way I'm moving into someone else's place because I wouldn't feel like it was my place too, if that makes sense. The only thing I regret is that we won't have too mich to look forward to when we get married because we've been living together for 5 years haha. So we already know how it feels to live together
Hasta ahorita se acordó que dejó a a la persona que era su marido se fue a la aventura por casi 9 años y ahora viene como si nada ya se acavo lo que abia entre tu y yo ahora ando en busca de hotra princesa
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@@andreac.5596 Big'big mistake.Never live with a man who you are not married to.5 years!!!!!? My'God.I hope he finally make a lady out of you by now.Good luck.God bless
@@leonietaylor7054 We are still together and living together. It works for us and everyone is different. May not be something you would do, but everyone has their own opinion and I respect that.
Adrienne is such a sweet heart and I'm so glad she eventually settled for a man that deserves her kind heart.
Why Adrienne sayin "that person" as if everyone didn't know who she was with when they started this show lol
J Woods because otherwise all the magazines would be like ” ADRIENNE HOUGHTON TRASH TALKS EX BOYFRIEND LENNY” 😂
Because he can sue her for slandering his character.
Cuz when she names Rob they bash her for attention
“I can’t imagine any relationship where it’s awkward to be open” I now know that Jeannie. Because I used to feel just how Adrienne used to. Scared to y’all about stuff that’s bothering me, or worse, scared to talk bout stuff that should be a given. But Adrienne’s right. They only do what you allow. If you put our foot down from the jump and they still disrespecting, you gotta go. She was living there and still ain’t have a key?! Yeah that fool was up to something. I don’t agree with giving out keys just like Loni cause I don’t like anyone in my space. If we ain’t married, it ain’t necessary. But Adrienne was living there and he was clearly up to something. You can see it still hurt her feelings. It hasn’t been that long since she and that dude has broken up. Glad she didn’t marry him though. Great for her.
I love Tamera outfit!! I wish I knew where she got it from.
😦😮this is the first time I see anywhere that has the same name as me😱
Its very crazy that I constantly watch this clip because I am so touched by Adrienne's story and I can relate, she had bad relationships like I did, which is the reason I decided to just stay single until God sends me that special person into my life. I know I am gonna find true love and be appreciated one day because I love LOVE and will never give up on LOVE, there is still good men out there. I am sorry A, you can tell that she is hurting was treated very badly. Thanks to God, she now has a husband who loves her. I am wishing her the best of wonderful lifetime with her husband. I love you A.
When I saw the title I was like : a key to what ? My home ? You ain't moving in with me until we married... forget all that ain't nobody got time for that.... I'm a guy and to me a key is not just a key... it shows security in your relationship & a sense of progression... so once I move in I would to progress further than just living together... living together to just live together and shut your girl up is different than living together to move the relationship forward... you get what I mean!
I really like this dance especially coming from a man! Thank you for this
Same, ive had relationships where the guys wanted to move in but marriage was not in the picture. Each left after realizing that i was NOT shacking up
john smith well that means these men need to stop being with little girls and get with a WOMAN. There are plenty of women who would be a great wife but men look over them for girls who are materialistic and bossy because they want a “trophy”. And yes women do it too! I hope you find the person for you because everyone deserves to be loved and appreciated. Unfortunately I’m shy and don’t really talk to people so it’s hard for me to find someone but when I do...🤞🏾 🖤🔐
Better to live together b4 marriage you don't really know someone unless you have lived together.
Myronn Coleman preach it!
😂😂😂 “where do u cup him??” Tam: 😏😏😏😉😉
I am so happy for Adrienne! She is married to someone who loves her genuinely and would do anything for her, and vice versa!
A, I'm so happy you're in the relationship you're in now!
Adrienne: Helped a lot of people know that they were not the only ones who fell for the oke doke. We all have but it teaches us what real Love is... Mrs. Houghton ❤️❤️❤️
I love how Loni always say, “ let’em know.”
ANNNNNDDDDD This is what we call a REAL conversation. I just love these ladies so much.
The phone password is too far to me. I don’t want to invade my partners privacy in that way. If I felt like you were cheating I’d just leave
I 100% agree. Finally I found someone who actually understand boundaries
My thing is I will trust you unless you give me a reason not to. Then I’m out.
Agreed, and when you're just dating that's definitely too far.
@@shivanidevaguptapu2968 Absolutely!
I don't think it's about suspecting them of cheating, but it's about them being close with you. For example, my sister and best friends know the password to my phone. It's like people close to you deserve that privilege.
I think sometimes people are not transparent because they are not ready to be that open with you at the level. It deep but so important to pay attention to these things as they speak louder than words !!! love this show
I almost broke down crying for Adrienne😪😭😢😥
“If you’re DATING, why do you need the password?” They should’ve answered that. But Fiancé status, for me, is when my man and I traded keys 🔑
Delayva I think they just ignored it bc even people who are just friends give each other the passwords on their phone so it shouldn’t be a big deal to give your gf/bf your phone password
My boyfriend handed me his phone on our first date with the passcode so I could DJ. Nothing sketchy. Totally open. It’s made for a great relationship.
That’s why the checks are separate when it’s a group
I just gave my boyfriend a key to my first apartment. It was a huge step for me and I made it very clear that this is my space and that I WILL take my key back if he ever comes over unannounced. I’d never cheat on him so that’s not the reason I’d just be absolutely terrified thinking that someone’s breaking in! He doesn’t even use it... he still rings the door bell lol
When loni said no Ho you don’t have to go... I legit choked😂😂
Yassss! That purple is Loni's color 😍
Adrienne just wasnt compatible with that person. Like Loni said, some people just dont like giving keys. But if u feel hurt by that then your not with the right person. Ultimately, you know what u need in order to feel validated in a relationship. I had an ex that would do things all the time that got me upset. But i realized it wasnt always him doing something "wrong", but it was just that we weren't compatible in that way.
Adrienne wanted him to open up his heart and he didn’t, and now she got a good man 😊
The girls are all looking incredibly beautiful 😍😍😍
This is stil sad to watch😥
That 70's vibe is amazing on jeanie
This is one of my favorite looks of Lonis. ❤️ they’re all so beautiful !
First. I am not giving any key to anyone unless we are married. And as for the phone thing..girl I have nothing to hide and if you need to borrow my phone to make a call whatever I’ll give like if you ask I’ll show, but if you just randomly ask me I’m sorry I’m saying no. My privacy is my privacy.
I was always taught to treat others when it's my birthday, so i expect when the birthday person herself calls us for the birthday she's treating us out... If we were planning a party for someone else obviously we would take care of it.
I love Adrienne.
She is such a pure spirit
When I asked my ex what he was doing on his phone, it took him about 5 seconds to turn his phone around and show me and I could clearly see the movements of his fingers as he closed out of what he was on and opened something else to show.
uh oh...
@@OngezwaDumel Your boyfriend is sadly cheating or he is looking up engagement rings. Either way, kick his *ss for hiding things lol
Hearing Tam say she has a 5 yr old still in her bed reminds me of how on Tia and Tamera's reality show, she gave Tia a hard time for having Cree in her bed, and how when she becomes a parent, she wouldn't allow that.....lol
Lonnie: "oh...just cold.....okay🙄"
😂😂😂😂😂
He gave me a key to his place,after 2 weeks of dating him.we were not evn staying together.for me it felt like he was just putting a hold on me.as he was from a broken marriage.his actions towards me were not making justice as to why i have the key.he was insecure and had trust issues.the key thing it made me feel like he wanted me to feel like i was the only one..whereas his heart was still stuck in the past.i gave the key back,and told him .having a key to his place does not change anything for me.i wanted a key to his heart not his house.the guy was too posessive and we ended up breaking up.when guys give keys sometimes they have hidden intentions than what it really means to us ladies.
yep...theyre all manipulative...or should I say MANipulative.. ;)
Marriage doesn’t mean my life is a tell all book it is about having a mutual respect for each other and the relationship. When you are talking about getting a password helps you establish trust, you have some insecurities that you need to resolve. i don’t want the password to my bf’s phone, so I am not giving him mine. I think people should expect some level of privacy if it isn’t causing harm by putting someone at risk physically or emotionally.
DeVon Thomas Exactly. I’m not tolerating insecurities. It isn’t that I have anything to hide, it is because they have trust issues. No matter what you do, they will always will have an issue with trust.
Ariel H #Facts. You better preach !!
What's the big deal if y'all have each other passwords if there's nothin shady...
I'm glad someone feels like me.
Tam's stories make my day.
Tamera my man and I cuddle the EXACT same way! -Alabama
Sooo, do you have Jeezy's passwords to all of his phones Jeannie Mai? 🤷🏽♀️
A key to a guy's place means absolutely shi
They'll still cheat they'll still play you they'll still switch up all that and neither is a password TRUST ME
MEN CHANGE
imso happy adrienne is married now. she deserve it! smh some of her storys from past relationships are crazy.
Happy that Adrienne found someone that values her ❤️ and loni your friend needs to stop being around broke people That’s embarrassing especially on your birthday if they knew they didn’t have the money should of stayed home people need to stop using other people .
Me personally , I would love to live with my significant other before we get married and plan a life together just to see how they act . Sleepovers and actually living together is two completely different things especially if you & the person have differnt schedules , different ways of cleaning , different ways of even getting ready in the morning . But for the people out there saying you're not supposed to live with a man until you're married shut up . You cannot judge someone else's preference if you're not living their life I rather my significant other take his time before just immediately asking me to marry him , marriage is a big ass step buy people don't understand that .
Loni acts like a priss sometimes. She's very closed off and acts very single . I'm surprised she doesn't sleep in single beds in the same room😂 like damn what do you do in a relationship that is a relationship??
Maybe she’s just been hurt over and over. There’s always a reason why someone acts closed off.
i just skip loni’s parts at this point
It's frustrating watching this sometimes. Will they just allow Ade to complete her sentences! This isn't something to make light of she is helping others who are possible in the same situation or see those flags. It's annoying how they kept interrupting her. I'm so glad Ade is in a better place. Wish her nothing but the best.
Struggle relationships are real!!! Get out get out!! We’re worth so much more!!
A key is a big deal, it shows how much a person trusts you.
Everybody needs boundaries Adrienne
Taylor Givens uhhhhh after 4 years?? ... u don’t need to b in a relationship with that mentality 🥴
Ok I’m young and in uni: my friends and I all assume it’s separate and we all just set it like that from the beginning. I think if you’re just clear about that that’s amazing.
She didnt get a key to his home yet she gave one to him? Adrienne was stupid at that time. But atleast she knows it was a wrong relationship.
she should've changed the key lock if after 1 or 2 years he didn't give her his key
I have no business watching this tbh, and I can't believe I watched the whole thing. But they right lol
I agree with Tam. I don't think sharing passwords is necessary if you're secure in yourself, your relationship, and trust each other. If you have to look in their phone, you're going to find something regardless if they are doing something shady or not. That's cause your frame of mind is already in that space.
"Is your trainor hot btw" i love Jeannie hahahaa
Loni's "You aint gettin no key sweetie" gets a BIG right on from me. You do not need a key to my apartment. Come visit- ring the bell, spend the night and go home and I do not need one either. Tell it Loni!! Poor Adrienne. I could tell she was still hurt with the old thoughts of that man who basically made her beg to gain entry to his home that he was allowing her to reside in at that time. Yet, he had all her apt keys. He had NO respect or regard for her at all and wanted her to know it. As beautiful as she is, to him she was just someone to pass the time imo.
Where I live the person who's celebrating the birthday pays the bill. Everyone else brings gifts for that person. It's different in the US I guess.
Omg Jeanie take a breath sometimes, let others finish their thought before you jump in. this is a reminder to myself too.
I learn a lot from this ladies all the time
Just because you don’t get a key to your boyfriend‘ s place it doesn’t make a prediction of a relationship but it shows a trust thing it builds a trust thing
Tamera’s eyebrow at the end 😭😭😂
I don’t care how much you have or don’t have - if you hand out invites to your birthday and expect people to pay you cannot afford it! You’re actually inviting people to a venue not a party! Because imagine how many times we’d spend if everybody in our lives did that or that was the norm? Throw events / parties you can afford! And for all those who agree to do a lunch date/ meet up and will always escape the bill you have something else coming!
I hate how they all act surprised at Adrienne telling the same story she told like 3-4 times already
I love lonies LONG hair, it's sexy on her.
Looking good Lonni 😍😍😍
I like Tams hair!
*JEANINE MAI JENKINS HAIR IS LAAAAYEEDD HUNNAY 💆🏻♀️*
any birthday dinner I have ever had, everyone pays for themselves... I was shocked when I started to see how it can be considered rude lmao
Never ever ever give a man a key, unless he's paying half the rent. Never
@john smith yes, why should a woman get a key to your house if she doesn't live there. No key
Wait....so they’re never actually “live” when they air?
I love loni she is such a good friend.
12:15 - 12:23 I lost it with Loni Love HAHAHA I was drinking water, Loni. Water just went through my nose, DAMN hahaha hysterical
Simple solution to inviting people for a birthday dinner... Send out the menu to everyone and ask if that restaurant is OK.. Real friends will say if its too expensive and then it's clear everyone is paying.
A romantic relationship. A key and a place should be shared. For lifelong hopefully successful companionship.
I've never had a birthday party, because I never wanted to force friends to come, pay the bill, and give me gifts. I've had very close friends do it one on one, or my partner.