Steve Harvey Explains Why Women Will Use You In The Friend Zone

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  • @ghostk-7926
    @ghostk-7926 3 роки тому +889

    “No man has ever said she so fine I’m gonna make her my friend”
    -Chris Rock.

    • @teflon_da1
      @teflon_da1 3 роки тому +47

      Or even an average looking chick for that matter

    • @precirose742
      @precirose742 3 роки тому +4

      So r u trynna say that boys find every girl fine. Bcos if u find her ugly why cant u be friends?

    • @flrbase
      @flrbase 3 роки тому +28

      @@precirose742 because most females are needy. They need someone to talk to or need you to help them with something.

    • @keithlukeswanson9345
      @keithlukeswanson9345 3 роки тому +32

      Women think it’s okay to have a guy best friend who they can just “vent to” and talk about their issues. Let that sink in

    • @flrbase
      @flrbase 3 роки тому +13

      @@keithlukeswanson9345 I seen strippers do that during a lap dance...always venting. Just shut up a grind those hips 😀

  • @zosa313
    @zosa313 3 роки тому +1181

    “Women have boyfriends and girlfriends. If you’re not having sex with her, you’re her girlfriend.”
    -Rollo Tomassi

  • @Braylon1997
    @Braylon1997 3 роки тому +1109

    She making you wait while she got her mouth wide open like spongebob “aaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!”

    • @damacfierro534
      @damacfierro534 3 роки тому +61

      😂😭😂 this comment is underated

    • @maliqflowers5112
      @maliqflowers5112 3 роки тому +21

      😂😂😂😭

    • @juju8470
      @juju8470 3 роки тому +14

      LOOOOL 🧽

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 3 роки тому +9

      Wide tf open 😏

    • @zoobear84
      @zoobear84 3 роки тому +3

      🔥🔥🔥🤣🤣💯🤷🏻‍♂️

  • @julianblackycaesar7472
    @julianblackycaesar7472 3 роки тому +712

    The “FRIENDZONE” is not what a woman is capable of putting a MAN in. Boys put themselves there. Show your cards, and if she don’t play, WALK AWAY. Period...!

    • @yahyaelmi8435
      @yahyaelmi8435 3 роки тому +73

      Real talk , if a girl put you in the friend zone it means your watching other niggas getting time to play , while your sitting on the bench . What to do ? , been professional and walk away to another girl who will give you playing time

    • @sman14GTA
      @sman14GTA 3 роки тому +78

      Facts, the zone only exists if you let it. No grown man should have "crushes".
      It's either you approach and get her, or leave and move on to another one.

    • @Sacciuiguai
      @Sacciuiguai 3 роки тому +30

      That sucks so hard thinking about that I really behaved like that in the past, but we're all humans, we learn by commiting mistakes and we keep going forward no matter what.
      When something becomes forced, unidirectional and not natural as it should be, LEAVE!

    • @progers86
      @progers86 3 роки тому +4

      ✊🏾✊🏾

    • @ThatGuyAlon
      @ThatGuyAlon 3 роки тому +16

      I’m 19 if someone would’ve told me this 2 years ago. My life would be completely different

  • @Stephenqwavy
    @Stephenqwavy 3 роки тому +872

    Bruh Steph is just naturally funny, like when he came out the womb doctors already started laughing

  • @Brani
    @Brani 3 роки тому +1262

    I’m too tapped in on my purpose, I don’t wanna deal with no girls right now

    • @maliqflowers5112
      @maliqflowers5112 3 роки тому +55

      Facts me either💫💯

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 3 роки тому +72

      I entertain the thought every now and then. Especially when I'm at the gym but then I'm like. "I done came a long way. No way she'd give me a chance the first day I walked into the gym. I been going here for 8 years and every time a girl got in the way I slacked." *does extra set with 10% more intensity.

    • @sevilleweathington6931
      @sevilleweathington6931 3 роки тому +4

      Facts

    • @otcwavie9485
      @otcwavie9485 3 роки тому +7

      That part

    • @hahaha0085
      @hahaha0085 3 роки тому +11

      I think dats most guys right now, ninjas wising up

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +478

    Never forget there are no women out there more beautiful than freedom…

  • @LivingALifeOfAbundance
    @LivingALifeOfAbundance 3 роки тому +440

    Women: “Where are all the good men?“
    “You mean the traditional, caring, providing ones? You got rid of those. They were toxic. Remember?“

    • @jameshamilton5947
      @jameshamilton5947 3 роки тому +61

      U mean they friendzoned most of those good men, because those women were young and in their prime

    • @mynamelildarryl71
      @mynamelildarryl71 3 роки тому +49

      Or they thought they were lames. Even though mama and grandma tried to put them on game, they ain't listen. They loved Tyrone and he left her and he got what he wanted.

    • @jameshamilton5947
      @jameshamilton5947 3 роки тому +11

      @@mynamelildarryl71 Facts

    • @niki.goddess
      @niki.goddess 3 роки тому +1

      they dont know yet.💔

    • @enrolaiuma
      @enrolaiuma 3 роки тому +18

      As much i know about them more i know how ridiculous they are. If i respect them and treat them well they put me on friendzone because of the attention i provide. If im a bad guy and treat them as just someone out there they want to empty my balls. These chicks are crazy i dont know more what should i do when im with them. Treat them like insignificant and empty my balls every day or treat them with education and go to FriendZone? This game is crazy............

  • @dtraversodt
    @dtraversodt 3 роки тому +203

    Also what's crazy is women will keep guys in the friendzone but will NEVER set him up with one of her single girlfriends cause of how good things would turn out

    • @lonniejolly5882
      @lonniejolly5882 3 роки тому +64

      Real talk they don't want you but don't want nobody to have you fuckin crazy.

    • @thebucketmanj8525
      @thebucketmanj8525 3 роки тому +61

      They do that because they do have little interest in you. They think you attractive but with a woman it's more than that. They looking for whatever you lacking to level up to improve based on how you interact with her and what you tryna do with her. Like for instance a girl would look at you up and down ready to give it to you. If you play it right. But let's just say that dude wants a real relationship with that woman. Then the woman gonna do a full scan on you to see if you worthy of that. If you dont meet the requirements or if she not looking for that right now. she gonna put you on the back burner and try to manipulate you to stay or hide you from other girls until she ready or until you meet them requirements. If you just ugly she just gonna use you for attention.loooool. you got to really listen to the signs. Cuz a girl is not gonna tell you her true intentions..

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 3 роки тому +22

      I remember years ago i met this woman. I didn't want to pursue no sex with her wasnt my type but we remain associates. One day i out the blue i had called her another woman answered her phone. She told me she using her friend phone she will get her. Finally the other associate get on the phone. I ask who was that. She told me one of her female friends go way back but her she broke up with her boyfriend an gone be staying with her a few days told me she is off limits cause they just broke up. I told her let her tell me that for herself let me speak back to her while im asking i hear her friend ask how i look an the associate tell her oh he aight not all that. Im saying to myself this chick trying to block me. Finally get on phone i ask for a pic an sent her one. Once she got my pic it was a wrap they got into how you gone keep him away from me he is fine where did yall meet an yall never had sex. Ask me to come get her that day. Her friend was hating but as i sat on the other side of the fence i seen the associate with several different men when i visited her friend 😂 i dont know something told me dont do it an im glad i didn't she was out there

    • @dtraversodt
      @dtraversodt 3 роки тому +2

      @@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 lmaoo she was for the office ..you dodged a bullet

    • @dtraversodt
      @dtraversodt 3 роки тому +9

      @@thebucketmanj8525 oh trust that little interest that you know she has in you is her way of keeping one foot in the door until you blow up...and then she will oddly be readily available talking about how a guy like you should not be single trying to get with you

  • @kd6457
    @kd6457 3 роки тому +386

    “Business advice on what?! She works at Walmart” 💀💀💀

  • @lamereohargett8897
    @lamereohargett8897 3 роки тому +165

    Facts and haven't you noticed as soon as they get in a relationship with another dude that fake ass friendship with you go away lol

    • @Vibes876Ent
      @Vibes876Ent 3 роки тому +33

      Omg this is the one, she find me back soon as they split up

    • @taydawg5487
      @taydawg5487 3 роки тому +12

      MOST TIMES THAT'S Facts 🤣🤣

    • @progers86
      @progers86 3 роки тому +5

      😂😂

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 3 роки тому +36

      Of course cause dude aint having that. But rest assure once dude fuck up she gone be back trying to be your friend behind his back. I have peeped that too. Most times they use you to get boyfriend jealous.

    • @OgeeThegodfather
      @OgeeThegodfather 3 роки тому +7

      Hell yeah !!! An when that nigga play her there she goes HEY FRIEND or Hey stranger

  • @dri6972
    @dri6972 3 роки тому +355

    Never accept the friendzone. Simple. Tell her: "We aint friends and I have no interest of being one" ✍🏿🗿💯

    • @jtf-joshtfitnessandlifesty3470
      @jtf-joshtfitnessandlifesty3470 3 роки тому +19

      Or tell her we can be friends only if it comes with benefits

    • @jtf-joshtfitnessandlifesty3470
      @jtf-joshtfitnessandlifesty3470 3 роки тому +22

      ödīñ ŵïlšøń From my experience that actually works because when you show women that you go for what you want they will respect you more and their attraction will grow

    • @tebelelolekoana2586
      @tebelelolekoana2586 3 роки тому +5

      Or just tell her "I want to smash you "😂😂😂😂

    • @mohamedadan6678
      @mohamedadan6678 2 роки тому

      just did this last night with a cute girl from work, after I sent it i blocked her.

    • @westsidesagittarius3103
      @westsidesagittarius3103 2 роки тому +1

      @ödīñ ŵïlšøń friends with her only hurts you if you expecting more. Just live life n have fun with her if y'all have good chemistry

  • @malcolmwhite72
    @malcolmwhite72 3 роки тому +388

    Why all men should be able to feel need to get out of the friend zone? 1. Expand your circle, 2. Add a little mystery, 3. Don't always too available, 4. Start setting boundaries, 5. Learn to say no and pretend that you're busy even if you're not. 6. Start putting yourself first so you can be more productive, organized, and a confident person in general. 7. Create your own happiness. 8. Become the hero of your own story, 9. Learn to walk away by regaining the power to be in control of your own life, and 10. Let go and mind your own business.

    • @lonniejolly5882
      @lonniejolly5882 3 роки тому +12

      Real talk.

    • @Saixjacket
      @Saixjacket 3 роки тому +41

      Being busy is the greatest deterrent or attractant. If you aren’t busy, get busy, even if you look like a damn loser.

    • @yaircelis1175
      @yaircelis1175 3 роки тому +13

      @@Saixjacket get your money straight! Lotta folks lack money! Focus on the bag. Don’t let the bag chase you!

    • @joswasi4144
      @joswasi4144 3 роки тому +21

      6. You don't need to get out of the friend zone if you didn't put yourself there in the first place

    • @somethingdifferent4u247
      @somethingdifferent4u247 3 роки тому +1

      True.

  • @thalastblackhippie
    @thalastblackhippie 3 роки тому +56

    Treat her like a queen and she'll leave you on seen

  • @peezyfilms8741
    @peezyfilms8741 3 роки тому +249

    I ain’t gone lie, the more you persue her she gone keep playing with you, using you for validation, Energy Vampires 🧛‍♀️

    • @why-kg6kx
      @why-kg6kx 3 роки тому +7

      add you to the orbiter collection...gthoh

    • @rikshaw2233
      @rikshaw2233 3 роки тому +18

      @PEEZY FILMS. Any young Man that's about (college, work, house, car, his money.) The last thing he needs is a soul sucking Vampire that's just "(played with him.)" Then She knocking your door when she's (35 years old, 3 kids, single, with financial problems) asking you "How you doing?"

    • @peezyfilms8741
      @peezyfilms8741 3 роки тому +1

      @@why-kg6kx 🤣🤣 facts

    • @peezyfilms8741
      @peezyfilms8741 3 роки тому +1

      @@why-kg6kx big facts

  • @care4rami
    @care4rami 3 роки тому +372

    If you want to focus on how much your life sucks, you won’t get anywhere in life. You gotta be your own close friend and lift yourself up.💫

    • @maliqflowers5112
      @maliqflowers5112 3 роки тому +10

      Ong bro🙏🏿💫❤💯

    • @yxng_trxppkidd5112
      @yxng_trxppkidd5112 3 роки тому +10

      needed that.

    • @iamenergy9310
      @iamenergy9310 3 роки тому +9

      Facts

    • @Jmelpegues
      @Jmelpegues 3 роки тому +7

      Facts but I use that as motivation thats that push when I'm working out thats the push whenever I'm at work. If you're in a bad situation in life take a quick look at it and use that as motivation. I got friends that changed up on I've had many relationships with women that I was cheated on and was blamed for that so I'm not putting my heart out there for people but I use all of that as a push

    • @rikshaw2233
      @rikshaw2233 3 роки тому +8

      Facts 100% "(be your own close friend & lift yourself up)" I've done that but, Guys you Seriously Underestimate how Devious & Wicked a Woman can be. When some Women get to 35years Old & she's (out for revenge, any Man will do, if you're her target, only one of you may survive.) There are Smarter Men than I will ever be, that's (in jail or dead) because of a toxic Woman. Believe, You will never see Her coming. 😒

  • @justis2430
    @justis2430 3 роки тому +306

    don’t ever let someone treat you like your just an option

    • @yarik12341
      @yarik12341 3 роки тому +4

      but she an option for me. I feel like a lot of this redpill videos are for dudes who have to really try. dudes that dont have to really try live in a different culture.

  • @demetriharris2071
    @demetriharris2071 3 роки тому +248

    He's right men and women can't be friends especially if they're attracted to each other

    • @kacpermoney2820
      @kacpermoney2820 3 роки тому +52

      All my female relatives have had a “best friend” that was a guy that ended up almost killing themselves or ghosting her completely because of how long he waited in the friendzone. These females honestly have no idea why their male best friend didnt want to be friends with them anymore.

    • @Saixjacket
      @Saixjacket 3 роки тому +13

      Talking with a female laborer on the job lately has been hilarious because I talk to her like a pissed off dude, not like a woman and the conversations are great. I would never, ever spend time to try and hang out with her or ask for a number though. Being roped into her circle would be like deciding to take a trip about 14 years into my past, haaaaayl no!!!

    • @givemecash9404
      @givemecash9404 3 роки тому +5

      It only takes 1 person to have that attraction level

    • @razorsharp9545
      @razorsharp9545 3 роки тому +3

      @@kacpermoney2820 exactly its a simp move thats why i say its Bros Over Hos but i have a lot of female friends too and i just move to another cheek 💯

    • @razorsharp9545
      @razorsharp9545 3 роки тому +1

      @@givemecash9404 thats what im saying

  • @JaysWorld92
    @JaysWorld92 3 роки тому +266

    I be worried about Steph at times. I swear he be going through flashbacks while putting us on game. But it's appreciated never the less..

    • @iamenergy9310
      @iamenergy9310 3 роки тому +19

      His energy is alive for sure, I dig it though

    • @mynamelildarryl71
      @mynamelildarryl71 3 роки тому +51

      Ever real one done been the nigga that they talking about before. Pain makes you see life for what it is.

    • @yessir4757
      @yessir4757 3 роки тому +36

      Bruh steph gon be alright he’s in control of his past. He’s just making sure we don’t make the same mistakes he made

    • @fxstdribbler6427
      @fxstdribbler6427 3 роки тому +8

      Its most likely because he's digging out girls who have men in the friendzone.

    • @raycutler2524
      @raycutler2524 3 роки тому +1

      @@fxstdribbler6427 I doubt it from how he's sounding rn...

  • @JustMe-ro5vq
    @JustMe-ro5vq 3 роки тому +30

    "They will keep you around as long as they can use you"...

    • @JohnJunior-l9z
      @JohnJunior-l9z 5 місяців тому

      A woman that I know uses me for money.

  • @KevinSingletonJr
    @KevinSingletonJr 3 роки тому +161

    Lol I deadass have no friends. Male or female friends. Just tryna focus on my success. Don't need my time wasted

    • @kjthomas4553
      @kjthomas4553 3 роки тому +11

      Amen same

    • @kazi8895
      @kazi8895 3 роки тому +6

      Bruh

    • @gregoryk6279
      @gregoryk6279 3 роки тому +10

      This is my life bruh

    • @lilrog0909
      @lilrog0909 3 роки тому +30

      This is me at the job and every female there trying to get me to open up 😂. Naw I'm getting to the money.

    • @purge3883
      @purge3883 3 роки тому +6

      Life is about ppl focus on becoming the best however keep good people around you

  • @landismithCOJ
    @landismithCOJ 3 роки тому +137

    The end zone is more important than a friend zone. Onward, brothers!!!

  • @BrooklynMadeMarcel
    @BrooklynMadeMarcel 3 роки тому +157

    A woman told me today “ we can be friends tho” 😴. I have toooo many friends, I’m tryna get in them guts till she BUH! (Steph voice). Point is soon as you let it be known to a woman you want her she automatically places you in the friend zone. But she’ll let Tyrone with no job, dig her out 🤦🏾‍♂️. Stay focused gentle man 💯

    • @zachmondrala8614
      @zachmondrala8614 3 роки тому +21

      True, that happened to me before. Like before I let her known that I liked her/want her, she would be talking to me, 24/7 hitting me up, wanting to hang out. But not anymoreee ayee but that's a good thing because you weeve out the bad ones and you know what to look for now, so it's a big blessing that girls reject you, because it gets you closer to the one you're ment to be with

    • @user-bu9ne7ef3q
      @user-bu9ne7ef3q 3 роки тому +5

      They’re weird bro

    • @MailmanNick
      @MailmanNick 3 роки тому

      Facts

    • @samjames807
      @samjames807 3 роки тому +3

      Lol the life of a New Yorker..the Brooklyn way 😂😂

    • @mikerugoyi4606
      @mikerugoyi4606 3 роки тому +1

      Its because she don't get wet 4 u, u ain't her glass of champagne keep it moving maybe she into dirty sprite 😂

  • @GoaWay4Sanity
    @GoaWay4Sanity 3 роки тому +152

    *“...nobody loves me but my mother ...and she could be jivin’ too...”* - B.B King

    • @jamescheaye927
      @jamescheaye927 3 роки тому +5

      @John Balnis The Song Remains The Same G

  • @lilswish5093
    @lilswish5093 3 роки тому +128

    yo no joke my lady friend who i known for a couple of years told me that she liked me and she wanted to be my girlfriend, i was bout to say yes but then i remembered she literally dated all my other homies, and she broke up with all of them, and i declined her

    • @Braylon1997
      @Braylon1997 3 роки тому +80

      The beta male almost consumed you until you smartened up

    • @AZrakoon
      @AZrakoon 3 роки тому +4

      Good choice!

    • @lilswish5093
      @lilswish5093 3 роки тому +20

      @@Braylon1997 i aint ganna shes HELLA fine but i
      know i made the right decision

    • @lilswish5093
      @lilswish5093 3 роки тому +5

      @@AZrakoon thanks

    • @time2k66
      @time2k66 3 роки тому +3

      Good stuff

  • @Megacorn22
    @Megacorn22 3 роки тому +88

    Female I was fooling with tried that friendzone mess with me,told her no but she persisted, straight said Im not that guy, guess who's pregnant and looking in my face now. If they wanna be friends then treat them like they don't exist

    • @ichoosemysanity6467
      @ichoosemysanity6467 3 роки тому +11

      I put someone in the friendzone now she has a baby 😆

    • @kennethjones5334
      @kennethjones5334 3 роки тому +7

      I hope you told her to go be friends with the guy who got you pregnant and kick rocks baby mama!!!

    • @Megacorn22
      @Megacorn22 3 роки тому +7

      @@kennethjones5334 pretty much, don't give her the time of day, she back with the locked up baby daddy with another man's child on the way

    • @GArmand715
      @GArmand715 3 роки тому +1

      Leave them on read and keep it moving my guy let that heffer be

  • @watermelon681
    @watermelon681 3 роки тому +72

    As a female I approve this message lol I don’t have male friends anymore for this reason it never works out Bc the men try they luck . Then all the girls do is complain to you about the other dude..There’s literally no point. Being a male friend to an attractive women is like guarding money at the bank that you can’t take home with you 😂.

  • @jameshamilton5947
    @jameshamilton5947 3 роки тому +248

    I don't have any females friends for long because they all know they can't use me and I refuse to do everything they want me to do.

    • @kenyatta4rmdabeach745
      @kenyatta4rmdabeach745 3 роки тому +59

      Bruh I have a female friend she asked me to help her move I simply replied and said no ask your boyfriend. Long story short she doesn't ask me for any more favors.

    • @jameshamilton5947
      @jameshamilton5947 3 роки тому +36

      @@kenyatta4rmdabeach745 U did Urself a favor because she would've even take it further than that

    • @kenyatta4rmdabeach745
      @kenyatta4rmdabeach745 3 роки тому +42

      @@jameshamilton5947 bruh facts like I treat females I'm cool with like the homie call me get to the point Im not sitting on the phone 30 plus minutes hearing you complain about yo relationship

    • @jameshamilton5947
      @jameshamilton5947 3 роки тому +18

      @@kenyatta4rmdabeach745 Word! U and Ur friend suppose to be chilling and having fun even if no sex involved but not to be helping in money or relationship problems

    • @kenyatta4rmdabeach745
      @kenyatta4rmdabeach745 3 роки тому +8

      @@jameshamilton5947 exactly so I rarely talk to her fam

  • @BrooklynMadeMarcel
    @BrooklynMadeMarcel 3 роки тому +48

    Prove yourself to yourself not to others 💯

  • @DangerousDeon11
    @DangerousDeon11 3 роки тому +73

    My moms probably watching. two seconds later. “Let spread them checks open” let me get in them watery guts! Deeeen Bus 🤣😂

  • @Speakinurmynd
    @Speakinurmynd 3 роки тому +37

    A male friend to a woman is just a "light" boyfriend, just st like a light beer! They get the benefits of a boyfriend without all the calories..ie them having to put out!!

  • @MrXbox36022
    @MrXbox36022 3 роки тому +45

    A few years ago I had no problem with it but now. If any women call me there friend I leave them on read.

    • @brhiandavila6987
      @brhiandavila6987 3 роки тому +1

      Word

    • @billclark5055
      @billclark5055 3 роки тому +1

      Lol, Ive done the same

    • @danielnelson869
      @danielnelson869 2 роки тому +3

      It's disrespectful as hell bro. You definetly maintain masculine frame by walking away. Salute brother

  • @raycarlbrown-amory3509
    @raycarlbrown-amory3509 3 роки тому +88

    Only time you friends with women when YOU don't want her. That's straight up cold 🥶

    • @jvcarter21
      @jvcarter21 3 роки тому +17

      Yea true I have a lot of female friends. Like from school work and the gym. I just keep it coo with them. Ain't nothing wrong with it.

    • @Madness1299
      @Madness1299 3 роки тому +5

      @@jvcarter21 You got female friends from the gym you ain't trying to slide into? You sure bout that lol? You really wanna see her mouth talk instead of those ass cheeks in them yoga pants? 😂

    • @baolate2406
      @baolate2406 3 роки тому +2

      @@Madness1299 🤣😭😭

    • @jvcarter21
      @jvcarter21 3 роки тому +7

      @@Madness1299 well if u read my comment I said I just keep it coo with them. Meaning I'm not pursuing them whatsoever. Don't get me wrong of course there are some attractive girls around. For example, if I'm in school and what not I can't really ignore them . Especially if we have group projects and such. So I just keep it cool around them. I never ask them out outside from it. While all my classmates are simps asking them to lunch and shit and I just do my own thing. There are girls who have said hi to me at the gym and I say hi back and keep it coo. I don't ask for numbers or anything.. And to keep it real when u stay coo and laid back these women will want u more. I actually hooked up with one and till this day we are coo..No relationship. Just good vibes and fukn here and there haha. And keep in mind she came up to me and pursued me.

    • @Madness1299
      @Madness1299 3 роки тому +8

      @@jvcarter21 Understood, so those gym females aren't friends then, they're just chicks you come across that say hi. That's more like it. And if she wants to become 'friends' she better either do some missionary workouts with you or gtfo the way and stop distracting you lol.

  • @crownlessking101
    @crownlessking101 3 роки тому +65

    You know that girl broke Stephs heart, he bring it up all the time lol.

    • @illwitness
      @illwitness 3 роки тому +33

      In the end she did us all a service. This guy out here like a Jedi Knight waking dudes up to the treacherous nature of female psychology. If she never did that we might not all be here learning from someone who is teaching us real life wisdom. What’s so amazing is the fact he’s so young. Truly awe inspiring.

    • @josiaha5260
      @josiaha5260 2 роки тому +1

      I thank the girl that hurt me because if it wasn’t for her action i wouldn’t be the cold dude I am now, or at least it would have taken me a looooooonnnnnnngggggggg time to get cold💯

  • @maliqflowers5112
    @maliqflowers5112 3 роки тому +84

    That's why i have them stay in the friendzone I'm not chasing no woman and steph keeping it real because it's the truth🐐🥶💯

  • @brosef9878
    @brosef9878 3 роки тому +85

    Platonic friendship??? Ain’t that when the earth shake??? Oh well I’m good ma I’m just trying to shake them guts

    • @SMFCAWFAN
      @SMFCAWFAN 3 роки тому +15

      I know this is a joke but that’s plate tectonics fool! 😂😂😂

    • @packman3979
      @packman3979 3 роки тому +1

      @@SMFCAWFAN he was trying to make a pun

    • @SMFCAWFAN
      @SMFCAWFAN 3 роки тому +2

      @@packman3979 Yea I’m aware it’s all jokes

  • @TakeshixStudios
    @TakeshixStudios 3 роки тому +44

    My mom gave me simp advice and I had to undo it lmao
    Love my moms but my uncle gave me the REAL advice for dating lol

    • @lesterblackmond6716
      @lesterblackmond6716 3 роки тому +16

      Times were different in your parent's time. I got the same advice but it worked for me during the 90s and early 2000s but now the game is fucked up and I have to undo everything I was taught too.

    • @adamalbaghali7944
      @adamalbaghali7944 3 роки тому +6

      @@lesterblackmond6716 exactly bro back then they told you that if you were a gentleman you’d pull all the shawtys. Now if you treat the girl like shit you’ll pull them all

    • @TheJayMoeShow
      @TheJayMoeShow 3 роки тому

      Real Talk 💯

    • @dwaynebrando2018
      @dwaynebrando2018 3 роки тому +1

      That's Right mom's just make fellas better beta males. Men's advice (alpha) is more valuable cause they have experienced life from a male perspective and understand and aware of some obstacles you face as a man, whereas our mothers incapable or should i say its harder for them to understand the world from a male perspective due solipsism. Solipsism is evolutionary adaptation in women for survival as the weaker sex, in other words women view the world and issues within from their standpoint and their needs first and anything else is secondary. And nothing is wrong with that it is what is.

    • @heruapocalypse2021
      @heruapocalypse2021 3 роки тому +1

      Most Mother's did that Shit.And if Someone's Mom didn't! She was exceptional.

  • @ASMR_wit_TEE
    @ASMR_wit_TEE 3 роки тому +38

    Im a woman and hes speaking nothing but facts

  • @RichObiQuan
    @RichObiQuan 3 роки тому +28

    I sent this vid to my girl. And she said it’s true. Im glad she on the same boat with me. She aint got no guy friends and the moment i find out I’m gone and i made that clear to her from day 1.

    • @kingmitchell8209
      @kingmitchell8209 3 роки тому +5

      May have caused more secrecy but good one.

    • @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106
      @retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 3 роки тому +6

      @@kingmitchell8209 Exactly! She not gone tell him now since he made it clear. Honestly at the end of the day if she ain't your wife cant tell people who they can and cant be friends with. Grown ass people being told they cant talk to this or that person along with giving up what you cant do cause you dont want them doing it. It's about respect if that person chose not engage with the opposite sex let that be on them. That way you can see clearly what type of person they are.

    • @kingmitchell8209
      @kingmitchell8209 3 роки тому +2

      @@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 Exactly, respond with action not vulnerable prone demand.

    • @jlee9640
      @jlee9640 3 роки тому

      They smart, they find a way.

    • @RichObiQuan
      @RichObiQuan 3 роки тому +1

      @@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 yo chill. first of all, she never really had any guy friends her friend group are all girls. Second of all I don't do this to all women that I've been with only the ones I've analyzed for months and can see that she is worthy enough. but even now I'm still analyzing, you cant rest or you'll be caught slipping. we can have deep conversations about these things and most of the time she takes the words right out of my mouth. not everyone is the way you think they are. most but not all. you need to change that mindset. can it flip down the road? yes. nothing is 100% and I accepted that. I'm not 100% invested emotionally and I can tell bcuz shes always asking me if ill leave her or if I still care about her, shes always fetching validation from me just to keep her in check and it should be like that with every relationship I feel. the women are supposed to feel on her toes and not fully comfortable or you lose.

  • @vazquezvalemtine
    @vazquezvalemtine 3 роки тому +48

    "Just a friend" has slept with more women than all of us put together

  • @carnage3208
    @carnage3208 3 роки тому +92

    Only time you're able to be friends is if there ain't no attraction. Cause you don't want anything. But if you're attracted and they reject you. Do not accept friendship bro, you will only be torturing yourself. Gotta get out and leave it, no matter how cool they are. Took me years to learn that

    • @ichoosemysanity6467
      @ichoosemysanity6467 3 роки тому +9

      If you work with them then yea but otherwise nope. We aren't 10 years old. I can't use a friend right now.

    • @carnage3208
      @carnage3208 3 роки тому +3

      @@ichoosemysanity6467 Exactly. I already have friends and I'm not looking for more, ain't no point

    • @westsidesagittarius3103
      @westsidesagittarius3103 2 роки тому

      You right but you basically saying they gotta be ugly to be you're friend and I wouldn't wanna be friends with ugly women tbh. ive been friends with cute girls I'm attracted too without wanting anything it's possible you just need to stop thinking about smashing them think of them as a human. Sex isn't all u want you gonna want trust, communication etc in female friends. If u want sex then have a line up of women who u want that for keep them and friends seperate or turn her into a friend with benefits

    • @carnage3208
      @carnage3208 2 роки тому +1

      @@westsidesagittarius3103 Well the way I see it if I'm attracted to you imma wanna shoot my shot at some point it's as simple as that. I already got my established friend groups so I'm already not looking for new friends. Not saying they gotta be ugly but if there's no attraction then it's easy to be just friends

  • @rexthegreat9323
    @rexthegreat9323 3 роки тому +75

    Steph: THAT SH*T DONT WORK!
    his neighbors: we need to move

  • @s.mack1300
    @s.mack1300 3 роки тому +14

    When I was in high school my mother told me “if you wanna get with a girl get to know her and be her friend first”
    That shxt put me deeper into the friend zone

  • @lilrog0909
    @lilrog0909 3 роки тому +36

    The funny thing about all this is a man can friendzone a woman and still get those sweet watery guts.

  • @1114rome
    @1114rome 3 роки тому +28

    We live in a world where most people have to be positive and tell a nice lie instead of telling the damn truth

  • @sketchghouler7874
    @sketchghouler7874 3 роки тому +5

    7:36 “THAT SHIT DONT WORK!!!!” 💀💀💀😂😂😂

  • @Andre-iv7ys
    @Andre-iv7ys 3 роки тому +17

    3:09😂........that’s the straight up truth bro!😭, men dont care how your day go.

  • @joshuastephenson1334
    @joshuastephenson1334 3 роки тому +37

    its hard to even be genuine friends even with a woman you arent necessarily attracted to because you can never interact with her , talk to her, and expect the same outcome as you would when interacting with one of your home boys. Have you ever even tried having a real convo with a woman and observed how illogical and unaccountable they are lol. They also will get very offended at something that ypu thought was a joke or purely innocent to say. we are just wired differently and you cant be genuine friends with somthing or someone that is vastly different from you.

    • @user-bu9ne7ef3q
      @user-bu9ne7ef3q 3 роки тому +3

      They are terrible friends
      How can a girl friendzone u and they don’t even give their number

    • @jessetheguy654
      @jessetheguy654 3 роки тому

      The girls i talk to get less offended than some of the guys i talk to tho

    • @GArmand715
      @GArmand715 3 роки тому

      A lot can’t start conversations at first I thought it was me then later I realize these women are boring no type of conversation skills which is why most men ain’t approaching them anymore in public try being on FaceTime with one of them and have them initiate the conversation you’ll hear crickets I he having to hang tf up bc it be so damn dry 😭😭

    • @Sarah-kv3qs
      @Sarah-kv3qs 3 роки тому

      Depends which girl you make friends with. You can tell right away if they don’t have a sense of humour or if they can’t even talk to you about anything. I have met guys that are the same way and I run because who wants to stare at each other on face time 😂

    • @scechi4948
      @scechi4948 2 роки тому

      @@GArmand715 nah my boy she just won’t open up to you because you not making her feel comfortable enough. A lot of y’all take what steph says and turn it into women are bad. No they aren’t. They are women.

  • @cindychelsea784
    @cindychelsea784 3 роки тому +75

    The truth of the matter is if u aren’t attracted to her in any way then you can be friends with her. But if you’re attracted to her and you’re waiting in line for a relationship, it ain’t gonna happen

    • @workingsix43
      @workingsix43 3 роки тому +25

      But she will change her attitude when she see him with chick

    • @ivanivez7456
      @ivanivez7456 3 роки тому +32

      @@workingsix43 That’s what I don’t understand. A girl will friendzone a guy but get jealous when he gets a girlfriend. Why is that? Lol

    • @flyclyfire188
      @flyclyfire188 3 роки тому +24

      Or until you date a woman that's hotter than her. Or until she's had her fun got pregnant and the BD left her in the dust then all of a sudden the woman friend wants you. Or she sees how you treat your current fiancée / wife like royalty then tries to tell you "I loved you since we met".......trust me I curved all of those women that tried to get out of the friend zone the ones that put me in the friendzone and guess what most of them are preggo and single and well miserable. While me and my fiancée travel all over chilling in peace.

    • @TheNorthhorizon
      @TheNorthhorizon 3 роки тому +26

      Men don’t associate with women they aren’t attracted to

    • @kjphantom3445
      @kjphantom3445 3 роки тому +4

      @@flyclyfire188 GOOD SHIT BROO😭😭😭😭

  • @shazam3458
    @shazam3458 2 роки тому +2

    Facts and they hate hearing that phrase cause they know it’s true

  • @romanparrish6911
    @romanparrish6911 3 роки тому +7

    My grandmother my aunts my sister my female cousins and even my mother never put me on game on female nature i had to learn and still learn about female nature

  • @ghettonerd6007
    @ghettonerd6007 3 роки тому +57

    Every Alpha red pill. It's like a person that I can relate to A female has played them. Now we're playing The females.

  • @TheGabrielberki
    @TheGabrielberki 2 роки тому +4

    Please... for the love of GOD... NEVER... EVER be okay with the friend zone.

  • @sbmars7137
    @sbmars7137 3 роки тому +5

    probably the only time Steve Harvey made sense

  • @cefrio
    @cefrio 3 роки тому +29

    Cool giving Kevin Samuels his well deserved credits right there 💪🏾

  • @absalom0412
    @absalom0412 3 роки тому +76

    If the woman is a dime and her friends are dimes, then it's good to be in the friend zone, that way u can get at her friends. And this is according to tariq nasheed, which makes perfect sense. Brazilian women don't play that friendzone crap. Either they will politely reject you, or let u know she wants you.

    • @supremeuzumakii6024
      @supremeuzumakii6024 3 роки тому +8

      Facts

    • @solodolo_mma3971
      @solodolo_mma3971 3 роки тому +11

      That’s what I like about about them. There’s no games. If they like you, you’re going to know. I’m only dating Brazilians from now on.

    • @jonathanbhatty8592
      @jonathanbhatty8592 3 роки тому +2

      Latina women are known for their straight forward nature they will boldly show interest in you instead of trying to shit test or play hard to get.

  • @hofsaiyanjin4649
    @hofsaiyanjin4649 3 роки тому +12

    Had a “bsf” like that, she helped me with my confidence and told me a lot of stuff in her life and vice versa complaining about her man how he was always ghosting and shit and then would flirt and be showing me pictures of herself in practically nothing but nothing came of it. Never doing that again but luckily I was 18-19 at the time so I took that as a learning experience

  • @Sugabullets
    @Sugabullets 3 роки тому +30

    What ppl don't realise it happens the other way as well. I wanted to be friend with females, just friends because I wasn't attracted to them and they get attracted to you and want more. It don't work either way.

    • @inspirationalshanae5129
      @inspirationalshanae5129 7 місяців тому

      Yep. I hurt by a male co worker. I told him as a friend I do not want to hear about dates with another women. I ended it

  • @carnage3208
    @carnage3208 3 роки тому +21

    I already have friends, what I'm looking for is either a relationship or something sexual. Anything else is a waste of time at this point. I don't understand why girls think you just wanna be friends when you approach them for something else clearly

    • @Deek2Concious
      @Deek2Concious 8 місяців тому

      They're use to using guys and validation 😂😂

  • @nardbynature
    @nardbynature 3 роки тому +17

    Man Biz Markie told you this a long time ago 🎶oh baby you got what I need but you say he's just a friend but you say he's just a friend🎶

  • @TroyJohn1130
    @TroyJohn1130 3 роки тому +3

    You tookkkk me ouuuuutttttttt “ iM bOuTtA bUsT” you just got a new subscriber lmao

  • @R.J_
    @R.J_ 3 роки тому +8

    Had experience on this topic man , it kills you inside for real man , you try harder but don't get anywhere , you stay depressed until you move on G

  • @jasmeetsingh5
    @jasmeetsingh5 2 роки тому +4

    The only way to get out of the friendzone is to end the friendship. Plain and simple.

  • @BenniHunnit
    @BenniHunnit 3 роки тому +4

    That venom carnage poster is everything

  • @markmark3872
    @markmark3872 3 роки тому +30

    Look at Steph being inspirational 💯💯

  • @mallwilliams8695
    @mallwilliams8695 3 роки тому +10

    I tell these broads this all the time and when they call and want to hangout i ghost them...im not your friend...periodt

    • @elyseelouis9134
      @elyseelouis9134 3 роки тому

      Lol you're punishing yourself cause you wanna be an alpha so bad. Gotta get some ass man. You can have females friends as long as you dont fell in love with them. Just have them around to fuck cause even if she likes you she still trynna wanna play game to manipulate you if she find a weakness so I know not to like the bitch except if she prove her self over time cause they’re nothing without a vagina.

  • @manassahyoung8218
    @manassahyoung8218 3 роки тому +6

    “She complaining about that dude in them sweet watery guts” x3 I’m so happy you said that 3 times so it could sink in.

  • @Jewel0612
    @Jewel0612 3 роки тому +21

    Personally I don't care about having friends. .....i don't force people to be friends with me

  • @jdavis7168
    @jdavis7168 3 роки тому +7

    Im amazed at how young this dude is and got more understanding of female nature than grown ninjas with kids😂😭😭😭

  • @1stopshop875
    @1stopshop875 3 роки тому +11

    Business advice but she work at walmart🤣, too funny steph😂👏

  • @peezyfilms8741
    @peezyfilms8741 3 роки тому +18

    Business advice on what, she works at Walmart 🤣🤣🤣

  • @assassinx6325
    @assassinx6325 3 роки тому +62

    Wow 😳 stave actually told the truth about woman am I dead?.

  • @LeiDontPlay
    @LeiDontPlay 3 роки тому +28

    In all seriousness, you can learn from a woman by having her as a friend. Not by what she says but by what she does. I was friendzoned plenty in highschool and while we were supposedly “friends” I was on the back burner taking notes.

    • @westsidesagittarius3103
      @westsidesagittarius3103 2 роки тому +4

      Smart man being friends with women can be beneficial if u aren't expecting anything like sex or relationships just simply be friends with them live life improve yo life n that's it let them make the move on that stuff first.

  • @Th3RidiculousOn3
    @Th3RidiculousOn3 Рік тому +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 “I’M BOUT TO BUSS!!” Yo i watch this back to back all the fucking time and it makes me laugh every time. Love Steph. He on his shit. Thanks for putting me on game bro

  • @illnavis
    @illnavis 3 роки тому +4

    "Still ain't met a female that put me on game about women" That $#!÷ is hard Steph!

  • @romanhall9139
    @romanhall9139 3 роки тому +5

    yoooo steph you are fuckin hilarious cause you are so dead serious. all facts were spoken 💯 we all been there

  • @rando3963
    @rando3963 3 роки тому +22

    Ayo Steph Steve been watching you lmfao.

  • @michaelhouston3450
    @michaelhouston3450 3 роки тому +26

    This had me thinking back to when I was in high school, my cousin said the same thing that men and women cannot be friends. I didn't want to believe him because I was young. Now it all makes sense.

  • @theoffworlder
    @theoffworlder 3 роки тому +5

    I friend zoned a girl who was being a little flaky. It caught her off guard. I moved on.

  • @JoshJourney1
    @JoshJourney1 3 роки тому +8

    "He will slide in that crack the moment he gets an opportunity "
    - Steve harvey

  • @krhawkins91
    @krhawkins91 3 роки тому +16

    I don't have female friends they serve me no purpose and I have no time for that. Also I'm not trying to be the gay male girlfriend.

  • @michaelaker1621
    @michaelaker1621 3 роки тому +4

    Steph, your tone for this one was pure late-80s/early-90s WWF promo. Well done. Jake The Snake with an occasional Mountie when you raised your voice.

  • @dtraversodt
    @dtraversodt 3 роки тому +7

    Steve ain't lying

    • @demetriharris2071
      @demetriharris2071 3 роки тому

      You're right about that

    • @maliqflowers5112
      @maliqflowers5112 3 роки тому +2

      You ain't lying shit maybe he needs to give Michael b Jordan some lessons💯

  • @apeele298
    @apeele298 3 роки тому +1

    Facts. No simp zone on this channel

  • @mohamedjbarrie144
    @mohamedjbarrie144 3 роки тому +15

    This is an Anti-Simp zone, like to mark your registry ☑️⚠️

  • @andrewpouncil8411
    @andrewpouncil8411 Рік тому +2

    Keep up the good work steph

  • @Waves-bf2sx
    @Waves-bf2sx 3 роки тому +13

    I think it's ok to have female friends if you aren't attracted to them or don't want a relationship. If you really like them best to be upfront.

  • @duandavis
    @duandavis 3 роки тому +11

    Biz Markie - Just A Friend
    "But you say he's just a friend." 🤔

  • @austinmurray6134
    @austinmurray6134 3 роки тому +11

    It's so fucking true. I had dated a woman a while back and we had "mutual" friends (we were dating before I knew they were there) and then the moment we split these people that I thought were "friends" tried to get with her. They weren't successful because obviously that strategy never works but it's still so fucking true.

  • @D_Whit3
    @D_Whit3 3 роки тому +5

    Female Friend: Tell her how you feel, keep it real with her.
    Steph: 🗣THAT SHIT DONT WORK!

  • @asunthegreat5893
    @asunthegreat5893 3 роки тому +4

    So true Steph.....I been in the friend zone so many times. I let go of that friend zone.

  • @monster20874
    @monster20874 3 роки тому +3

    My strength grows stronger everytime I listen to stephiscold!...and I'm succeeding!!

  • @jhayabusa9344
    @jhayabusa9344 3 роки тому +4

    Steph is the person that will crack you up even when they’re 💯 because of how expressive he is.

  • @Zenoandturtle
    @Zenoandturtle 3 роки тому +8

    I want you to do a podcast why mothers never disclose THE GAME! My mom never did. And mom should be the first one to do so.

  • @carlcharles3053
    @carlcharles3053 3 роки тому +4

    Men out there seeking happiness and love and all that focus on your purpose find yourself work hard face adversity don't give up. We all got struggles just better yourself.

  • @snipesentertainment9037
    @snipesentertainment9037 3 роки тому +7

    My female besty is only my sister.

  • @_7.8.6
    @_7.8.6 3 роки тому +15

    Real men are their own best friend first. I don’t make myself emotionally available to random chicks who want a hit of attention
    Keep it moving

  • @AZITHEMLGPRO
    @AZITHEMLGPRO 3 роки тому +3

    Yeeaaa I avoid small talk with women as much as possible

  • @shaneking39
    @shaneking39 3 роки тому +3

    I've walked this road twice and that's too many times. This guy is on point. Keep the content coming

  • @trillamannwinters6963
    @trillamannwinters6963 3 роки тому +38

    Friend zone perks:
    Paying her bills if need.
    Taking her on date with nothing in return
    Listening to her complain about the guy she really wants
    And belittling you as well
    That’s why I’m single
    P.S. that’s why I’m never friends with women

    • @GArmand715
      @GArmand715 3 роки тому

      Nah if she belittles you then you have to do it 10 times worse get disrespectful with some of these women who treat you like shit !!

    • @kennethprice8517
      @kennethprice8517 2 роки тому

      I learned the hard way sadly information is more out here nowadays for men who were hardworking that didn’t date much as myself and tricked off money in foreign countries oblivious too female nature cause the environment I was in finally get back the us I was lost too green I appreciate the knowledge I obtained this really helped me