The first half of this was frustrating because Naftali interrupted her multiple times. It isn't like she was being long winded and not allowing him space for conversation flow--she was very mature in her approach to their exchange of perspectives. I know he is passionate but by the 3rd or 4th interruption, it was getting disrespectful. I hope he watches this back a few times to realize that is an area he needs to work on.
I couldn’t finish the show. After 5 minutes, I had to stop watching or continue to be frustrated in the man who has a lot to say but doesn’t know when to listen. God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. He thinks he has 2 mouths and 1 ear. 👂 He speaks so fast too at times. She is a true coach and therapist because she knows how to actively listen.
There is no evolving without communication between men and women, there are no easy answers as a collective opens the door to better understand each other roles.
I literally cannot stop thinking about this comment Neftali made. It makes me really think about sexually differently from both perspectives. The same can be said about men who reject a women’s emotional nature. The beautiful dance of man and women, logic and emotion, primal and nurturer. 🤯 I never felt bad providing sex to serve my man, I have always felt bad after when he would reject my emotion needs. It’s a give and take. Fucking mind blown. This kid is a genius
Dené: Shrinks at the implication of complete submission to a mans leadership & to be ruled over by him. Me: (on the edge of my seat) I want to sign up for that type of relationship! Ultimately Naftali isn't advocating for Men to be tyrants. Ive seen enough content to know that he advocates for complete Masculine Responsibility for his partner & children. That IS worth fully Submitting to! YES! I WANT to Submit to a fully Responsible Dominant Man who has Mastery over himself! He can tell me to do anything if he is Completely Responsible, Dominant & takes Accountability for himself & our Life together. I do experience fear & anxiety at the thought of complete Submission to a man when my feelings are invested, and that is why selecting for an Ethically Dominant Responsible Man, over an Emotionally Immature or Tyranical man is important for our expression of Vulnerability in a solid container of safety.
Couldn't take it after 10min. He's cutting her off, and trying to get her support (as the "double" SME? as a woman AND psychologist) on statements he makes as truths...
He has good points, however, she is probably saying…”If you invited me to share my expertise then let me talk or do your podcast alone”. Skillful therapists know what help their clients is becoming a good active listener. Everyone wants to be heard and seen. It’s very rude to invite a guest on the show and be a “know it all”. Great interviewers are humble and active listeners.
Yes and no.. I want hear her perspective too.. but she talks some litle nonsens and does not enliten like he does. She shifting constantly in acceptions and trying to make those the rule.. She brought up female opression .. as if men never where opressed. Talking about they cannot have a bank account and nonsens like that.. she clearly never looked deep into this .. He hase deeper knocklege ..she only surface lvl.. but still i would let her talk just to hear her perspektive and why she thinks that way and maybe he can help connect her thaught or show her another side. Just let her talk... she will entangle herself ..it is their nature.. no matter how integrated they are.
I beginning to think that men have a different definition of "interrupting' when they do it and when they say women do it. Men have so many double standards.
She is spot on. He would have done well to give her more room to fully share her thoughts. He started this conversation with his own answers to the questions that he asked her. 😂 He's speaking to a woman and he wants to tell her what woman want. I'm sorry, but I find him a bit arrogant. 🤭
Im mature and independent AND at the same time, love to feel protected 🥲 the amount of women claiming they dont like or need this is partially why sone men stop doing it 😭😂
All I wanted was to hear her finish her sentences and thoughts. Such a frustrating video to watch, and continues to validate me in why men are so frustrating.
Are we talking about what male/female relationships in the context of Evolution or man/woman relationships in the context of Creation? I ask because, life and relationships would reflect in our being and needs. if I am evolved then there is no value in emotion or marriage. If I am created then my creator has endowed me with an intangible intellect and qualities that enable me to be a capable in an emotionally mature relationship with someone who is biologically and characteristically different because of gender specifics. I believe men and women are different but the same regarding our spiritual needs. Evolution doesn't explain why male and female exist in the first place or why so different, though the same. Wouldn't we be more successful if were just all parthenogenetic single gender? When you have some people who believe in evolution and some creation, then you have a conflict of basic self identity and inconsistent understanding of gender roles. Fundamentally, according to what the Scriptures teach us about ourselves., a man and woman need to be on the same page from the beginning about their purpose and goals, in order to have a successful marriage and family.
Aligne to your true values there will be the one who will love it Its called art of intimacy... but you try to fit into so many ideas even non of them are yours...fake candy😅 Learn to create secure atachment...the art to give and the art to recive...its called art of intimacy or it is party of attachments or attractions from amazon shoping basket... hard cookie😅
Waoman want to bee seen in the way he can connect to her emotion not freak out or feel threathened regulate her emotionally...cortisol daddy can only regulate her flight and fight response Man want to be respected means he needs to bee seen she can filter her emotion to see him at core she wont activate fight and flight response control cortisol. Once u both learn this know thyself main player estrogen progesgeron testoterone does its work with 50 neurotrasmiters... U get it..its efortless...he feels it and is it and she feels it and it is... Futher you can shift it but its nothing outside...iths hormones...he does not even he can smell rised cortisol from stressed old sick woman and its accecting him and vs Man want
It would be nice if he was willing to listen instead of cut people off and force attention towards him. We are all still working on ourselves. In front of the camera just as those behind the camera. It is interesting to read the energy of the individuals who share the space with him. They seem to be just trying to get through the experience.
The first half of this was frustrating because Naftali interrupted her multiple times. It isn't like she was being long winded and not allowing him space for conversation flow--she was very mature in her approach to their exchange of perspectives. I know he is passionate but by the 3rd or 4th interruption, it was getting disrespectful. I hope he watches this back a few times to realize that is an area he needs to work on.
He's also 24 or 25 yrs old. He'll get better lol
I couldn’t finish the show. After 5 minutes, I had to stop watching or continue to be frustrated in the man who has a lot to say but doesn’t know when to listen. God gave us 2 ears and 1 mouth for a reason. He thinks he has 2 mouths and 1 ear. 👂 He speaks so fast too at times. She is a true coach and therapist because she knows how to actively listen.
There is no evolving without communication between men and women, there are no easy answers as a collective opens the door to better understand each other roles.
Wowww “ you reject the man’s animal nature, he will reject your emotional nature. 🤯
I literally cannot stop thinking about this comment Neftali made. It makes me really think about sexually differently from both perspectives. The same can be said about men who reject a women’s emotional nature. The beautiful dance of man and women, logic and emotion, primal and nurturer. 🤯 I never felt bad providing sex to serve my man, I have always felt bad after when he would reject my emotion needs. It’s a give and take. Fucking mind blown. This kid is a genius
@@C0smicbeauty1990but that’s what it is you didn’t reject his primal animal nature.. yet still reject your emotional or not
Fulfill..
What’s the point of having a guest on the show if you’re gonna interrupt them? I was really looking forward to this episode smh
The interrupting got beyond frustrated couldn’t keep watching
I am impressed by Naftali. He is really amazing and educated. Wow 😊
Rt… yes he is interrupting her to much
Why doesn't he give her a chance to speak
Dené: Shrinks at the implication of complete submission to a mans leadership & to be ruled over by him.
Me: (on the edge of my seat) I want to sign up for that type of relationship!
Ultimately Naftali isn't advocating for Men to be tyrants.
Ive seen enough content to know that he advocates for complete Masculine Responsibility for his partner & children.
That IS worth fully Submitting to! YES! I WANT to Submit to a fully Responsible Dominant Man who has Mastery over himself! He can tell me to do anything if he is Completely Responsible, Dominant & takes Accountability for himself & our Life together.
I do experience fear & anxiety at the thought of complete Submission to a man when my feelings are invested, and that is why selecting for an Ethically Dominant Responsible Man, over an Emotionally Immature or Tyranical man is important for our expression of Vulnerability in a solid container of safety.
Grow up.
Host likes to hear himself talk!
well done naftali....you're such an inspiration and the conversation flowed beautifully
Nice video. But Naftali you kept interrupting all the time. That's rude as hell
She's so cool, a role model
Let her talk bro
Couldn't take it after 10min. He's cutting her off, and trying to get her support (as the "double" SME? as a woman AND psychologist) on statements he makes as truths...
How many times does he interrupt her?
Exactly!
To be fair, she isn’t putting her arguments on the table. She is commenting while he is placing his observations and perspective.
He has good points, however, she is probably saying…”If you invited me to share my expertise then let me talk or do your podcast alone”. Skillful therapists know what help their clients is becoming a good active listener. Everyone wants to be heard and seen. It’s very rude to invite a guest on the show and be a “know it all”. Great interviewers are humble and active listeners.
Yes and no..
I want hear her perspective too.. but she talks some litle nonsens and does not enliten like he does.
She shifting constantly in acceptions and trying to make those the rule..
She brought up female opression .. as if men never where opressed. Talking about they cannot have a bank account and nonsens like that.. she clearly never looked deep into this ..
He hase deeper knocklege ..she only surface lvl.. but still i would let her talk just to hear her perspektive and why she thinks that way and maybe he can help connect her thaught or show her another side.
Just let her talk... she will entangle herself ..it is their nature.. no matter how integrated they are.
I beginning to think that men have a different definition of "interrupting' when they do it and when they say women do it. Men have so many double standards.
She is spot on. He would have done well to give her more room to fully share her thoughts. He started this conversation with his own answers to the questions that he asked her. 😂 He's speaking to a woman and he wants to tell her what woman want. I'm sorry, but I find him a bit arrogant. 🤭
Im mature and independent AND at the same time, love to feel protected 🥲 the amount of women claiming they dont like or need this is partially why sone men stop doing it 😭😂
Is this lan interview or podcast? This conversation is great but it's not really an interchangeable of ideas. He's just talking.
All I wanted was to hear her finish her sentences and thoughts. Such a frustrating video to watch, and continues to validate me in why men are so frustrating.
Are we talking about what male/female relationships in the context of Evolution or man/woman relationships in the context of Creation?
I ask because, life and relationships would reflect in our being and needs. if I am evolved then there is no value in emotion or marriage. If I am created then my creator has endowed me with an intangible intellect and qualities that enable me to be a capable in an emotionally mature relationship with someone who is biologically and characteristically different because of gender specifics. I believe men and women are different but the same regarding our spiritual needs. Evolution doesn't explain why male and female exist in the first place or why so different, though the same. Wouldn't we be more successful if were just all parthenogenetic single gender?
When you have some people who believe in evolution and some creation, then you have a conflict of basic self identity and inconsistent understanding of gender roles. Fundamentally, according to what the Scriptures teach us about ourselves., a man and woman need to be on the same page from the beginning about their purpose and goals, in order to have a successful marriage and family.
He s acting like a motormouth on cocaine absolutely insufferable and arrogant
I agree with the lady, not so much with you. And please, like others have said. LET.HER.TALK
Yes I agree with the sex part
Yes, I think he interrupts too often😮.
🎯💯
Yes, he interrupts too much 😮.
Let the therapist speak please.
Aligne to your true values there will be the one who will love it
Its called art of intimacy... but you try to fit into so many ideas even non of them are yours...fake candy😅
Learn to create secure atachment...the art to give and the art to recive...its called art of intimacy or it is party of attachments or attractions from amazon shoping basket... hard cookie😅
This guy is terrible in his way of interviewing - he comes through as passive aggressive himself and angry
A lot of mansplaining
Brain slave buzzword conditioning.
Waoman want to bee seen in the way he can connect to her emotion not freak out or feel threathened regulate her emotionally...cortisol daddy can only regulate her flight and fight response
Man want to be respected means he needs to bee seen she can filter her emotion to see him at core she wont activate fight and flight response control cortisol.
Once u both learn this know thyself main player estrogen progesgeron testoterone does its work with 50 neurotrasmiters...
U get it..its efortless...he feels it and is it and she feels it and it is...
Futher you can shift it but its nothing outside...iths hormones...he does not even he can smell rised cortisol from stressed old sick woman and its accecting him and vs
Man want
I don't like this man ...too forward
It would be nice if he was willing to listen instead of cut people off and force attention towards him. We are all still working on ourselves. In front of the camera just as those behind the camera. It is interesting to read the energy of the individuals who share the space with him. They seem to be just trying to get through the experience.