I have seen the toughest and bravest guys who laughs in the face of dangers IRL. Yet... Crumbles in tears when they loose at love. Women are dangerous indeed.
Dismissive Avoidant people reach a flaw-finding point with their partner to create an excuse to distance themselves emotionally and eventually ghost them.
But thry keep it to themselves so the person doesn't even know they've found a "flaw" nor do they realize they've been put on a pedestal. Thry find their own reason to discard or they just emotionally disconnect
I’m definitely “feminine”, but I also have hobbies that are considered “masculine”. For instance, I love to help my husband work on his bikes, and I build furniture and do woodwork on my own (he’s not into that, it’s too frustrating for him, LOL). But this isn’t the kind of thing he’s talking about, right? Not saying I didn’t have a traumatic childhood, my life was like a movie (I sometimes wonder if I made it all up, it was so crazy), but just bc I enjoy more masculine hobbies doesn’t reflect on whether I’m being authentically feminine, right? I’m asking honestly, I’m just not exactly sure what he means by this so I wanted some clarification.
I have quit associating anything as masculine or feminine because those are roles society made up for everyone. Years ago, heels make up and wigs were considered the ultimate masculine thing to do. It's all made up
I think he's talking about "masculine" vs "feminine" mindset instead of hobbies. Masculine mindset includes traits such as ambition, future vision and planning (not just for himself but his family), leadership, assertiveness. Feminine traits, on the other hand, consist of nurturing, intuition, attention to details, receiving etc. Now it doesn't mean a feminine woman cannot be assertive, as a matter of fact, she should be assertive but it looks very different in a man vs a woman. Man and woman can both share feminine and masculine traits but I believe this man is talking more in a relationship dynamic sense rather than on an individualistic level. That sometimes, women push ambitious and driven men away due to their own fears and past trauma. They'd rather be with a submissive man in order to maintain the power dynamic they think they need.
There are so many women who have experienced trauma and become people pleasers and don’t become more masculine. Nit sure where he is getting such inaccurate information?
Maybe because, when women do people pleasing, they're playing a form of masculine manipulation instead of being in their feminine energy. It's an act based on control
Just because Here is the complete analysis of the text: Line 1: "To act at the feminine level is connection." Harmful This statement is harmful because it reinforces gender stereotypes, implying that femininity is solely defined by connection and nurturing qualities. Line 2: "And people, and I really mean this, you need to know your system of values." Helpful This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to define their personal values, which is a positive step in personal growth and relationships. Line 3: "And so you know, I'll give you guys a story as a girl I met very attractive, very intelligent." Harmful This statement is harmful because it objectifies a woman based on physical appearance and gendered traits, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes. Line 4: "And that's the thing that's typically what's going to happen is okay, if you're very feminine, you're going to get the more masculine response." Harmful This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes, implying that individuals will respond in a certain way based on gendered expectations. Line 5: "And now, you also have to remember what is put you in these positions to begin with are these underlying insecurities..." Helpful This statement is helpful because it acknowledges the importance of understanding underlying insecurities and their impact on relationships. Line 6: "And if you don't have those three values that I talked about you will never confront them." Helpful This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to develop core values and confront their insecurities, leading to personal growth. Line 7: "You have to remember that these things could actually be pushing you away from the things that you want..." Helpful This statement is helpful because it recognizes how insecurities can affect relationships and encourages self-reflection. Line 8: "Because they are not something that was necessary for survival. You're actually still reinforcing that survival when you're not surviving, meaning you're holding on, and you want to heal, that's just not how it's gonna work." Harmful This statement is harmful because it blames individuals for their own trauma and implies they're not "surviving" properly, which is dismissive and unhelpful. Line 9: "There's a lot coming up here. And just be patient with me because I do believe that there's so much value in what you're talking about here." Helpful This statement is helpful because it acknowledges the value of the conversation and encourages patience and understanding. Line 10: "So much value here. And I think a lot of you guys, even Jeanette and a lot of ways is masculinized after her first relationship, and that sucks, right?" Harmful This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and implies that individuals must conform to traditional gender roles. Line 11: "But it's not impossible. But here's what I want you guys to know. Is that what we need? To do is kind of make a U-turn." Helpful This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to reflect on their actions and make positive changes. Line 12: "You can't just flip the boat. What that means is pretty much as far as women have gone in the masculine direction, they need to voluntarily turn it around, because it's the right thing to do." Harmful This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and implies that individuals must conform to traditional gender roles. Line 13: "Not because they want to or it's easy because it's not easy. And then they need to sail it back. And some that's what it takes." Helpful This statement is helpful because it acknowledges that personal growth and change can be difficult, but is still possible and worth it. Line 14: "And the same thing goes for men, right? I have all of these emotions, all of these sensitivity." Helpful This statement is helpful because it encourages men to acknowledge and express their emotions, which is a positive step in breaking down harmful gender stereotypes. Line 15: "My hand highest, the most sensitive, overly bearing emotional person right now I'm there for others. I give people security." Helpful This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to prioritize empathy and support for others. Line 16: "Why wouldn't I want to do I want to go fuck that. I don't care about this. I don't care about that. Let me hustle." Harmful This statement is harmful because it encourages a harmful and exploitative mindset, prioritizing personal gain over others' well-being. Line 17: "And then when I do it, I fucking finished the party. I thought I was a cool Pam telling these girls to fuck off." Harmful This statement is harmful because it objectifies and degrades women, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes. Line 18: "But really, I feel like shit. I feel in
political correctness has its flaws, just because you dont like stereotypes because you dont fit into it, doesnt mean most other ppl who do fit in are the odd ones...
I don’t think you get it. Seems you weren’t PRESENT throughout. This channel may not be for you if you think in terms of gender stereotypes instead of returning to one’s feminine essence as a woman, which includes challenging men who hide from themselves and therefore their relationships. As well as challenging themselves as women, when being dishonest.
I understand your request now. I apologize for the earlier misunderstanding. Based hello here is your AI analysis. ❤ 1. "If you're very feminine, you're gonna get the more masculine response." (Implies that femininity is a problem to be solved) 2. "You're actually still reinforcing that survival when you're not surviving..." (Blames the individual for their own trauma) 3. "You're keeping everybody at arm's reach and nobody gets close." (Accusatory tone, implies the individual is responsible for others' emotional distance) 4. "You want an honest one? Whether it's pretty or it's not, you want an honest one." (Objectifies women, prioritizes physical appearance) 5. "What really makes a woman beautiful is the connection to her beauty. Inner beauty is what makes a woman beautiful." (Defines a woman's worth by her beauty) 6. "You guys masculinize...and then you mistreat others." (Stereotypes women as inherently mistreating others when they adopt masculine traits) 7. "If a woman is hurt enough by men...she will degrade them." (Stereotypes women as seeking revenge or degradation when hurt) 8. "You're rejecting and you'll find other men to exploit." (Accuses women of exploiting men) Please note that these statements may be taken out of context, and the speaker's intention might have been different. However, these phrases can still be harmful and perpetuate toxic gender stereotypes.
I donr understand why people can't let go of gender stereotypes. It changes over time so thr bare is constantly moving. At one time the ultimate masculine male wore heels wigs and make up. It's all BS
What a cliffhanger of an ending! So not fair! 😂
Watching all of these after a breakup.
Same. This is the worst.
Now we know
@@MrViper1330 me 4, yoo! this informative.
Me ..too
I have seen the toughest and bravest guys who laughs in the face of dangers IRL. Yet... Crumbles in tears when they loose at love. Women are dangerous indeed.
Absolutely brilliant!!! Very insightful. ❤
Your medsage is so needed! Bravo! ❤
Dismissive Avoidant people reach a flaw-finding point with their partner to create an excuse to distance themselves emotionally and eventually ghost them.
But thry keep it to themselves so the person doesn't even know they've found a "flaw" nor do they realize they've been put on a pedestal. Thry find their own reason to discard or they just emotionally disconnect
Yeah. That's my ex.
I can't just focus listening if l'm watching him.
He is too handsome.
I’m definitely “feminine”, but I also have hobbies that are considered “masculine”. For instance, I love to help my husband work on his bikes, and I build furniture and do woodwork on my own (he’s not into that, it’s too frustrating for him, LOL). But this isn’t the kind of thing he’s talking about, right? Not saying I didn’t have a traumatic childhood, my life was like a movie (I sometimes wonder if I made it all up, it was so crazy), but just bc I enjoy more masculine hobbies doesn’t reflect on whether I’m being authentically feminine, right? I’m asking honestly, I’m just not exactly sure what he means by this so I wanted some clarification.
I have quit associating anything as masculine or feminine because those are roles society made up for everyone. Years ago, heels make up and wigs were considered the ultimate masculine thing to do. It's all made up
I think he's talking about "masculine" vs "feminine" mindset instead of hobbies. Masculine mindset includes traits such as ambition, future vision and planning (not just for himself but his family), leadership, assertiveness. Feminine traits, on the other hand, consist of nurturing, intuition, attention to details, receiving etc. Now it doesn't mean a feminine woman cannot be assertive, as a matter of fact, she should be assertive but it looks very different in a man vs a woman. Man and woman can both share feminine and masculine traits but I believe this man is talking more in a relationship dynamic sense rather than on an individualistic level. That sometimes, women push ambitious and driven men away due to their own fears and past trauma. They'd rather be with a submissive man in order to maintain the power dynamic they think they need.
Thank you for sharing this eyeopening content 💙
Thanks for watching!
19:50 💫
Is there a sequel to this video? I want to hear why women are so dangerous to men.
Sameeeee
You are pretty insightful.
19:20❤
Moses 🎉
As a man we genuinely do not appreciate the name energy the first female that called expressed.
There are so many women who have experienced trauma and become people pleasers and don’t become more masculine. Nit sure where he is getting such inaccurate information?
Maybe because, when women do people pleasing, they're playing a form of masculine manipulation instead of being in their feminine energy. It's an act based on control
Have you heard of feminism? Especially modern day women feminists?
Just because Here is the complete analysis of the text:
Line 1: "To act at the feminine level is connection."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it reinforces gender stereotypes, implying that femininity is solely defined by connection and nurturing qualities.
Line 2: "And people, and I really mean this, you need to know your system of values."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to define their personal values, which is a positive step in personal growth and relationships.
Line 3: "And so you know, I'll give you guys a story as a girl I met very attractive, very intelligent."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it objectifies a woman based on physical appearance and gendered traits, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes.
Line 4: "And that's the thing that's typically what's going to happen is okay, if you're very feminine, you're going to get the more masculine response."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes, implying that individuals will respond in a certain way based on gendered expectations.
Line 5: "And now, you also have to remember what is put you in these positions to begin with are these underlying insecurities..."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it acknowledges the importance of understanding underlying insecurities and their impact on relationships.
Line 6: "And if you don't have those three values that I talked about you will never confront them."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to develop core values and confront their insecurities, leading to personal growth.
Line 7: "You have to remember that these things could actually be pushing you away from the things that you want..."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it recognizes how insecurities can affect relationships and encourages self-reflection.
Line 8: "Because they are not something that was necessary for survival. You're actually still reinforcing that survival when you're not surviving, meaning you're holding on, and you want to heal, that's just not how it's gonna work."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it blames individuals for their own trauma and implies they're not "surviving" properly, which is dismissive and unhelpful.
Line 9: "There's a lot coming up here. And just be patient with me because I do believe that there's so much value in what you're talking about here."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it acknowledges the value of the conversation and encourages patience and understanding.
Line 10: "So much value here. And I think a lot of you guys, even Jeanette and a lot of ways is masculinized after her first relationship, and that sucks, right?"
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and implies that individuals must conform to traditional gender roles.
Line 11: "But it's not impossible. But here's what I want you guys to know. Is that what we need? To do is kind of make a U-turn."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to reflect on their actions and make positive changes.
Line 12: "You can't just flip the boat. What that means is pretty much as far as women have gone in the masculine direction, they need to voluntarily turn it around, because it's the right thing to do."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it reinforces harmful gender stereotypes and implies that individuals must conform to traditional gender roles.
Line 13: "Not because they want to or it's easy because it's not easy. And then they need to sail it back. And some that's what it takes."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it acknowledges that personal growth and change can be difficult, but is still possible and worth it.
Line 14: "And the same thing goes for men, right? I have all of these emotions, all of these sensitivity."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it encourages men to acknowledge and express their emotions, which is a positive step in breaking down harmful gender stereotypes.
Line 15: "My hand highest, the most sensitive, overly bearing emotional person right now I'm there for others. I give people security."
Helpful
This statement is helpful because it encourages individuals to prioritize empathy and support for others.
Line 16: "Why wouldn't I want to do I want to go fuck that. I don't care about this. I don't care about that. Let me hustle."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it encourages a harmful and exploitative mindset, prioritizing personal gain over others' well-being.
Line 17: "And then when I do it, I fucking finished the party. I thought I was a cool Pam telling these girls to fuck off."
Harmful
This statement is harmful because it objectifies and degrades women, perpetuating harmful gender stereotypes.
Line 18: "But really, I feel like shit. I feel in
political correctness has its flaws, just because you dont like stereotypes because you dont fit into it, doesnt mean most other ppl who do fit in are the odd ones...
@@3minutesofglory700 this is AI..not necessarily my views ..
I don’t think you get it. Seems you weren’t PRESENT throughout.
This channel may not be for you if you think in terms of gender stereotypes instead of returning to one’s feminine essence as a woman, which includes challenging men who hide from themselves and therefore their relationships. As well as challenging themselves as women, when being dishonest.
I would love to collab with you.
If you are a man of God, you shouldn't be cursing
Curse words are made up. Society told you they're bad words
Jesus Christ
I understand your request now. I apologize for the earlier misunderstanding. Based hello here is your AI analysis. ❤
1. "If you're very feminine, you're gonna get the more masculine response." (Implies that femininity is a problem to be solved)
2. "You're actually still reinforcing that survival when you're not surviving..." (Blames the individual for their own trauma)
3. "You're keeping everybody at arm's reach and nobody gets close." (Accusatory tone, implies the individual is responsible for others' emotional distance)
4. "You want an honest one? Whether it's pretty or it's not, you want an honest one." (Objectifies women, prioritizes physical appearance)
5. "What really makes a woman beautiful is the connection to her beauty. Inner beauty is what makes a woman beautiful." (Defines a woman's worth by her beauty)
6. "You guys masculinize...and then you mistreat others." (Stereotypes women as inherently mistreating others when they adopt masculine traits)
7. "If a woman is hurt enough by men...she will degrade them." (Stereotypes women as seeking revenge or degradation when hurt)
8. "You're rejecting and you'll find other men to exploit." (Accuses women of exploiting men)
Please note that these statements may be taken out of context, and the speaker's intention might have been different. However, these phrases can still be harmful and perpetuate toxic gender stereotypes.
If you need AI to understand this I feel bad you never developed critical thinking
I donr understand why people can't let go of gender stereotypes. It changes over time so thr bare is constantly moving. At one time the ultimate masculine male wore heels wigs and make up. It's all BS
Why do I have such impatience for listening to the women on this call? I have that issue in general. Ughhhhhhhh
I think men in genuine have that, 😂I'm with you
@@mariuszdziaczynski8556 I'm a woman LOL
Unpack that
Yeah dig deeper and unpack that@mariuszdziaczynski8556
Cause the first woman is so neurotic and self-centred!
wtf is this guy talking about? it's like hearing a child trying to tell a story
You’ll get there.
I used AI to help me in understand.