Sometimes you don't leave the person ... You leave the situation they caused ... The love lives on ... from a distance ... The situation can just be too painful to endure.
One sided relationship for many years. I lost myself trying to make him happy. He made me feel I was never good enough. I’m exhausted and finally left.
I will probably always love him. I had to walk away after 6 years of devoting my heart to him because I guess I ran out of hope that he could love me too. It hurts so much because i gave my all and now I’m just lost and as alone as I was when I first loved him. 😔 thank you Derrick for understanding and acknowledging what we go through as loyal and devoted women.
I love someone but I feel more love for him when I keep myself away from him than when I'm with him because of who he is. So I'd rather leave him and keep love in my heart.
Straight Up Truth . I'm Not Putting Up With Empty Promises , Disrespect . Being Ignored & Not Growing & Building With Me . Putting Me Last In Everything . Nope Not Happening Any More . Just Saying ...
Loved this video, you are 1000% correct! I have been through this exact thing and I warned the person but they didn’t listen, so I loved myself way more to gracefully bow out!! Thank you❤️🙏🏾
I have not left the relationship but you right “something’s not right” and what you’re saying resonates. I need to make a very difficult decision. This hurts so badly.😞
Derrick listen it took my heart to be broken so badly from him for me to realize that it was me I needed to love... That's where my journey began. I let him go because I had to save myself. 💗
It’s 100% true!!! I still loved my husband DEEPLY before, during and after we were divorced. I didnt WANT to love him, but I still did and it infuriated me!!
Absolute 💯 facts … coming from a woman !!! I just left a relationship still loving him based on the facts you just spoke ❤ in fact you have helped me clarify within myself that I did the right thing . Thank you
If people would give their love and loyalty to the LORD JESUS CHRIST, yall wouldn't even be on here, the only true peace you will EVER HAVE, IS having a personal relationship with Jesus ❤
I Had This Feeling intuition this Afternoon When He Came To See Me I Asked Him What’s Wrong 😑 Something Just Wasn’t Right With Him I Told Him I’m Not Going To Put Up With Nonsense.. There Was No Straightforward Communication 😑Today.. 🔍 And The Saying Go’s What’s In The Dark Will Comes To Light ..
yep, he misused and mistreated the love I had for him. And because of our child became suicidal, I had to choose our child. I should have left in 2015 if I should have done more to protect our child, but I was in a bubble getting more and more sick physically, and not until 2021 I became wiser🤯 You are so spot on Derrick, Thank you 👏🏻❤
I had to let go of the relationship that was turning me to what I wasn’t & recognised!! It was a tough decision because I had grow to care about him & there was the last straw! Still think about him but unfortunately & fortunately have grown way up to go back down!!😢😢😅😅
I did Derek I was with my kids father 7 years and he put me through so much but I had to leave him I just felt he was not my person we got you know beautiful children but I had to walk away
Yes u right my angel tht happened with 😮 ex hubby yrs ago and now I'm marrying the love of my life soon once again and this time fr good ....this time I'm not letting this beautiful soul go !!!❤🙏
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A woman’s intuition is never wrong.
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Sometimes you don't leave the person ...
You leave the situation they caused ...
The love lives on ... from a distance ...
The situation can just be too painful to endure.
100% me right now.. and I don't want to leave.. but I need to
Same girl 😮💨
I understand completely
Same with me 😔
Leave
Facts after facts. Intuition is never wrong.
Everything You said Derrick was absolutely True
You are speaking life to my soul! Thank you for being here my brother!!
One sided relationship for many years. I lost myself trying to make him happy. He made me feel I was never good enough. I’m exhausted and finally left.
I will probably always love him. I had to walk away after 6 years of devoting my heart to him because I guess I ran out of hope that he could love me too. It hurts so much because i gave my all and now I’m just lost and as alone as I was when I first loved him. 😔 thank you Derrick for understanding and acknowledging what we go through as loyal and devoted women.
I love someone but I feel more love for him when I keep myself away from him than when I'm with him because of who he is. So I'd rather leave him and keep love in my heart.
Everything you said is true! I'm thrilled you were able to articulate so clearly how I've been feeling.
I'm at this point right now!
Straight Up Truth . I'm Not Putting Up With Empty Promises , Disrespect . Being Ignored & Not Growing & Building With Me . Putting Me Last In Everything . Nope Not Happening Any More . Just Saying ...
Yep, some deal breakers, I left😅.
BTW…I’ve worked hard &SELF SUFFICIENT. I’m free to walk away from any/all negativity.
Sweet peace & freedom by the Grace of God🧚♀️❣️
I went through this almost 3 years ago .. what a waste😢 of
I agree
Loved this video, you are 1000% correct! I have been through this exact thing and I warned the person but they didn’t listen, so I loved myself way more to gracefully bow out!! Thank you❤️🙏🏾
Aye. Left for psychological self-preservation.
And so much on point.
I left the love of my life because his family was too toxic. My life would’ve been hell!!!
💯 FACTS 💯
I share with my three daughters and sister-in-law all the time. We love your knowledge. 😊💯
Loved him dearly, but had to leave him for my peace and growth
It’s hurting so bad… but I need my peace of mind
Yes.
I love him, but I can't keep dealing with the baby mama dramas!!!
It's called, "loving you front a distance"!
PERFECT explanation! It feels good to hear it articulated like this.
Facts!!! 💯💯💯💯💯
I have not left the relationship but you right “something’s not right” and what you’re saying resonates. I need to make a very difficult decision. This hurts so badly.😞
I’m in the same sitch😊 . I know I need to let him go but it hurts to do so.
@@lala86jr Loving someone with everything you got comes with a heavy price indeed. It’s a soul tie that needs to be broken off us.
great message
Derrick listen it took my heart to be broken so badly from him for me to realize that it was me I needed to love... That's where my journey began. I let him go because I had to save myself. 💗
I've LOVED & LEFT everybody but one.
I'm speechless, how smart and right you are !!! 👌💯👏👑❤️🌹
I really, really, really can relate
It’s 100% true!!! I still loved my husband DEEPLY before, during and after we were divorced. I didnt WANT to love him, but I still did and it infuriated me!!
YOU ARE SPEAKING FACTS!
Going through it now! It's a battle within myself!
That's been me, but I left him post years.
Your all the way on point going thru it now
Absolute 💯 facts … coming from a woman !!! I just left a relationship still loving him based on the facts you just spoke ❤ in fact you have helped me clarify within myself that I did the right thing . Thank you
Brother Derek you is speaking all the way truth 100 and men need to hear and women need to hear hear the truth God bless you as a message
Brother I just have to say thank you for your wisdom this really helps a lot of us women🎉❤
Very accurate reading lived it 👌 an walked away 👏 you are spot on 🎉
YES SIR! THERE NOW! GOTTA MOVE ON! HE'S SHOWING ME THAT WHEN I BACKED AWAY HE ONLY WANTED HIS FREEDOM!
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I fully agree. I
If people would give their love and loyalty to the LORD JESUS CHRIST, yall wouldn't even be on here, the only true peace you will EVER HAVE, IS having a personal relationship with Jesus ❤
Facts! Everything you said 🎯
This happened to me in 2020. I still love him but he's not my person. Too much work!
You telling the whole Truth.
I Had This Feeling intuition this Afternoon When He Came To See Me I Asked Him What’s Wrong 😑 Something Just Wasn’t Right With Him I Told Him I’m Not Going To Put Up With Nonsense.. There Was No Straightforward Communication 😑Today.. 🔍 And The Saying Go’s What’s In The Dark Will Comes To Light ..
Brother Derek you are speaking facts beacon 100 again
💯💯 hard core facts❤
Absolutely 💯 Thankyou Big Brother!
Speaking BIG FACTS on ALL Levels‼️✌🏽
Reasons why I closed the doors and LEFT!!!!
I agree
yep, he misused and mistreated the love I had for him. And because of our child became suicidal, I had to choose our child.
I should have left in 2015 if I should have done more to protect our child, but I was in a bubble getting more and more sick physically, and not until 2021 I became wiser🤯
You are so spot on Derrick, Thank you 👏🏻❤
I had to let go of the relationship that was turning me to what I wasn’t & recognised!! It was a tough decision because I had grow to care about him & there was the last straw! Still think about him but unfortunately & fortunately have grown way up to go back down!!😢😢😅😅
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Hands Down thee Most Accurate video yet!
An Unacceptable version of myself…..✌🏾
BIG FACTS! SPEAK BROTHER! 💯
I have no more time for games and inconsistencies from men
You are speaking facts. Thank you!!
You’re so right get💯💯
You are speaking facts 🙏🏾💪🏾
You tell it Big Brother!! 🙏🏼
Still love him way more than I want to.... But I can't lose myself trying to wait for the promises that never last 💔
Speaking hella facts Sir ❤✨
Yes I did big brother .I had to leave him .and he know why .🙏🏾❤️💯
You're on it, all factual
Going threw it now
Love yourself more than you love him.
I like today's topic
Speaking facts 🙌
I did Derek I was with my kids father 7 years and he put me through so much but I had to leave him I just felt he was not my person we got you know beautiful children but I had to walk away
"I"...Absolutely!!❤💔💔
I.
I just had to do it again, but this time hurt baaaaad.
Anxious/Avoidant dynamic, and I thought his ignoring me was him manipulating me!
So much truth!!
Yes u right my angel tht happened with 😮 ex hubby yrs ago and now I'm marrying the love of my life soon once again and this time fr good ....this time I'm not letting this beautiful soul go !!!❤🙏
Straight facts!!!
Facts
Yes please keep looking out for us
And Don’t! Our intuition don’t care and neither do we!
100 % FACTS!
Yes me too. love is still there but I had to move on for the good for myself
Absolute facts.
I feel you’re talking exactly to me
You are spot on.
Right! Gotta gooo
Derrick. I agreed 💯💯💯
...🤍...WE CAN'T STAY WHERE THEY DON'T WANT US ... REMEMBER ACTIONS SPEAK HIGHER THEN WORDS...
I at this point also. Glad I'm not alone girls!
Facts that's me I Had toooo let Go!!!!!
I just left him but my heart is still with him. I made the right decision how I feel.
I've invested too much energy enough is enough
Hallelujah.., Exactly!!
Yes I loved him but had to leave him 😢
This is me 100 percent right now
Facts facts facts facts 😢
Facts and only facts
Facts!!!!!❤❤❤❤
It is facts
I totally agree!!! 💯🎯💯🎯💪🏾
Very well said thankyou
I this so True!!!
Yep!