Big time stalkers! It's bad when they find another victim, but good for the person they originally stalked. No contact will help to keep them from ever returning.
Yes!! When I heard Danish say that, I shivered. Because that is exactly how we always FELT around them-as if we truly were the prey. I have a Mother, Sister and two Sisters in Law who are all covert narcissists. I didn’t figure any of this out until I was in my late 50s. But now I have had years of therapy via UA-cam, and it has transformed my life. These people really are ‘entities’. They have proven themselves to not possess authentic human qualities. 😑😔😒. Block them out of your life.
@julieanna8495 That's tough. I hope that with the knowledge, you can still have some contact and set your boundaries. They don't necessarily 'rub off' on you, but they leave an impression, especially when it's family members. I understand what you're going through. You must be doing something right. 💞👍🎗
When a crocodile is biting its prey, tears flow down its eyes. This is no way means it cares about its prey. Same is the case with a narcissist. They are only paranoid about losing their supply. No regrets, no moral compass, no empathy, no humane emotions. Pure evil.
They regret LOSING. Narcissists are never good at saying goodbye, and, in my experience, the narc will not be on 'good' terms with you again. It's risk-taking to test their supreme ego once you're FREE. Stay free ❤🎉💞
@@norcal1009 I don’t think it ever goes away. They hold onto things forever. That is why, I feel they become more bitter and twisted as the age. But regret 🤣. Nah! That’d he admitting they did something wrong and wish they’d done it differently. Given a Narcissist is NEVER wrong, it stands to reason, they have nothing to regret. 🙄
@maggie6 😂 Regret is too complicated a word for them, just like the word "commitment" or love. Crazy how they self-sabotage just about everything they get their putrid hands on!
They regret it... Only because they don't want the karma And they are afraid they may need you Or lose a opportunity because of what they did But they don't care about you
Narcissist 1 run the world 2 are the majority 3 are also learning 4 are much more articulate and subtle than you can imagine This is an excellent channel to learn what your surrounded by .
Wow, the way you describe them, flesh suits, soulless beings, nobody home, is exactly how I feel about my parents. Im ill for 3 years now and just recently told my mother that Ive finally found out what it is and there is a chance I can fully heal. Her reaction was as if I had said something about the weather. And Ive only realized how weird her reaction was because other people did manage to listen to me for longer than 2 sentences and even show empathy. Thank you for your videos and sharing your own struggles.
I bet your illness might have to do with the narcissistic upbringing. My frozen shoulders are from all the stress I suffered as a child and I lost my job as a flight attendant through this. I have been flying around the world for 30 years and when I said that I lost my job, she only said something...well now you are not flying anymore....My goodness the amount of empathy they show , mindboggling 0%!! I still cannot wrap my mind around it and why did I not see this earlier this sick behaviour? I am wishing you all the best luck with your recovery Eline 💚 You can heal your body, watch the video's of Dr. Joe Dispenza mind over matter 💖
Oh Yes. 💯 % SPOT ON. The ONLY thing my ex-husband regrets is that he didn't manage to break me, like he did to his former partner that stayed with him for many years. He broke her to the point where she got pancreatic cancer, she died, and he didn't have the human decency to claim her dead body. He didn't even bother nor have the decency to go to her cremation service. Yeah, that's what you get if you stay with an NPD narcissist.
Mom didn't tell me my funeral job was to I.D. her cremation body, so I avoid seeing dementia diva whose finally locked up and have avoided 8 yrs so far? I gave that duty to my back stabbing half cuz, they're together in the same province anyway... I'm glad you're strong as am I, they underestimate our strenght and it sucks to be them!
@@norcal1009 Thank you very much. I feel incredibly blessed that I became aware of narcissism and what it TRULY is and very early in my marriage and I was able to get out in only 11 months into my marriage. That was 3 years ago. I made my self a promise, that if I got out alive and/or intact, I will do my very best to help others. So here I am. I will soon be part of a narcissistic abuse documentary available on UA-cam. I will announce it's release at various narcissistic abuse channels in hope that I can continue to help as many people as possible.
This reminds of an ex boyfriend of many years. His wife got cancer, this guy made $100,000 a year at the time, she worked also, but she didn't have insurance! He actually let her die because he wouldn't foot the bill. The monster wouldn't even pay for hospice. There was delight in his voice when he told me she died in great pain and was paralyzed at the time of her death Oh but you can bet he had a life insurance policy. Then he treated his step daughter like a trophy wife, suspicions of them having an affair. The bastard even bought her a Wrangler light pink jeep They were awful, that jeep would have paid her mother's insurance easily Then she had a kid - that looked a bit like him, a little girl Absolutely evil and disgraceful. His wife was beautiful woman, way too good for him And now he gets to play the grieving widow to get other women. He doesn't have any shame, even tattooed her birthrate on his arm to score with other women
@@courtneymeyers82 Good grief what you wrote is practically identical (minus the pink jeep and kid) to my ex-husbands former relationship and the insurance and everything else, including making very close to $100,000 salary. I feel deep disdain and disgust!
Yes and unfortunately Gen Z and Zillenials are incredibly narcissistic. Satan has sent a legion. All empaths, light workers and warriors, we have to fight these evil people
I was going through a divorce with a narcissist right now. When she realised that I no longer want anything to do with her canceled our mediation and went after my family home where my parents still live and my pension. Im trying to deal with my anger but wake up every night in a rage of bad dreams. I've never hated but I now do.. She's pure evil.
I wish you the best through this difficult time. Therapy helped me with SO MUCH loss. At times, it seemed unbearable, but I stuck with it and proved any doubts I had wrong. You're a warrior! You can fight a narcissist, hands down, but concentrate on you most of all. 💞
Grieve the loss, quickly and thoroughly, if you can, so that you can step out of their matrix of fear. It's their disorder, and they want to affect you too. But you don't have to react. Just accept that they're really ill. It doesn't have to be your problem as well.
Is there a lawyer who is experienced in narcissistic abuse? I had a notary who delat very well with my narcissitc ex when I explained him what was going on! There surely must be soemone who has dealt with these evil people who can help you. Ask the universe to help you and you will receive the help 🙏 I wish you all the best luck with the divorce!
While you are going through all that anger, decide deep in your soul that she will not turn you into her. That is serious. Be prepared to put a period on it and free yourself. Revenge is entanglement with evil.
They never regret what they do because that would mean something is actually their fault. At best they regret not pushing on you harder than they did but no matter what happens the failure and fault will always be yours, not theirs.
My soon-to-be ex-husband, a diagnosed covert and malignant narc NPD, has NEVER expressed any remorse, or even said the words "I'm sorry" for abusing me narcistically along with Domestic Violence assaults, which lead to his arrest. He actually said what he did to me and our marriage, was "minor indiscretions" Yeah, a twice fractured wrist and a bleeding head concussion is "minor indiscretion" 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Glad you're free, what a horrible person, a toddler on steroids, mine pulled my head once, called the cops, never touched me again, I hope you find someone nice!
After many DV episodes all with brushing black eyes dislocated jaw hair ripped out of my head I was told I was cheating on him all the while he got one of his supplies pregnant the last time he put his hands on me he went to the kitchen got a knife put it to my neck and said he was going to kill me and my dogs that made me snap and fight back .....he's in prison now about to turn 60 with his baby waiting on him to get out.
It's justice when these perpetrators are FINALLY punished! The longer the better, since they don't change and return to their abusive narcissistic predatory behavior.
@@joseenoel8093 Thank you very much Josee. Hhhhmmm, the idea of dating again after being involved with a narc, has "left the building" LOL Buuut we'll see what is written in my book of life...
@@debprobst330 I'm sorry you were abused. I am very happy you got away and he's locked up. Full healing takes time, but one day, you WILL get there, for SURE !!
They regret but only for themselves. They couldn't care any less if you die in front of them. Edit - in fact, the narc ex-wife tried to poison me. I had to leave and file charges.
@@LoveDancingLoveSinging I've seen this firsthand. They even go to church and cry there but they keep trying to harm us. It's a great wonder how they can even dare to show their face in church.
My mother always said one thing whenever I dint used to act according to her or listen to her- that she regrets of sending me outside for studies and supporting me on everything.
My sister is always threatening to take her life that's why I stick around but it's so hard. However , you taught me something I didn't know which is they won't miss you when you're gone. Didn't know that. Thanks so much for sharing this.
REGRET means to feel sad, repentant or disappointed. For example being disappointed in themselves for failing to treat you right. Sorry for the way they treated you etc., Does that sound anything like a narcissist. Normal people feel regret. Narcissists regret nothing because nothing is ever their fault. They only feel bitterness and anger. So when you finally stop caring about them and leave them- they don’t feel regret at their actions that caused you to leave. They just feel bitter and angry that you didn’t appreciate all the weeks, months or years they wasted on you.
Narcissists don't know how to feel. The emotion of anger is unregulated, and so they stay in a perpetual state of self-pity and disillusionment. To make matters worse, they don't tell this to their victims. It's a lot of criminal-minded behavior and getting a high off you, utterly disgusting people.
My sister has recently showed her npd self full on.shes usually gets her way with me or I yell back and we dont talk for years. this time around we had a run of 10years with some ups and downs but after I chose to go no contact with our dad whos also has npd she sorta lost her mind and are having a full blown npd collapse.coming at me with all kinds of weird ways to try to get me to rekindle a contact with dad wich NEVER gonna happen cos now im enlightend both educationally bout npd and spiritually.She tried all the tricks in her book but they all failed miserably as I stood my ground.as she was bout to leave she started crying and I felt bad for her but now I realize it was not for the common greif of our realtionships falling apart but she had lost the ability to control me and use me as a pond in her superficial scheme. she also has brainwashed her daugter to recent me also.its like living in a twisted movie but I see their mental illness and know im the sane one living this life as a human beeing with a soul :D
well I thought I was the only one who had such parents, I wish we had videos on this issue before so I wouldn't have blamed myself and tried to fix everything, these people don't change and never regret hurting anyone
Can you imagine what the narcissists would do after you went no contact on them? Imagine the trap they made when they catch us! We were the prey that ran away. After my no contact one of the narcissists in my life told my daughter how much she misses me. I told my daughter that those people have been erased out of my life.
Narcisists feel no guilt, because of that they do no regret anything. But they can simulate these feelings. Danish is amazingly strong, blessed for realizing still at young age the reality of being a narcisistic family's scapegoat.
How sad does one feel at the end of this dysfunctional relationship with a narcissist friend or other narcissists and their flying monkeys we the victims learn too late that these people even exist!😢
I know, but it is never too late, I was 50 when I got to know what narcissism was and discovered that my mother is a narcissist. I wished as well if I had known this in my 20ties. But I was never educated at school about narcissists. I think there is a reason for that as most politicians, managers of big companies and many CEO's of big companies are narcissists.
The father of my son was cheating when I was pregnant. Someone told it to the husband of the woman with whom he was cheating. The father of my son believed I was the author of the message and yelled to me: poor guy, can you imagine how he feels! And now he keeps having an affair with the same woman, ignoring the "poor husband" . Yes, his compass changes.
I can feel you, I left my narcissist family narcissist parents,m not going back anywhere to that hell ,whatever happened to You happened the same with me,they don't really regret losing me,they are still trying to make my life hell by rumours that i am a crazy child etc etc
Thank you, Danish. It's very hard to imagine someone feeling nothing while hurting others. But we must, in order to stay free. My ex(es) definitely regret not ruining my life, as hard as they tried! Now I focus on today and tomorrow. If anyone out there is holding on to hope for change...well you'll be the first one ever, in this universe for all time, to see a conscience in a narcissist!
Right, a narcissist with a conscious doesn't exist but survivors move on, and the narcissist hates us for it. There are very sick people in this world.
Your words and examples of narcissistic people are of pure gold Danish 👌 You have a fantastic sense of understanding and empathy due to what you tragically experienced as a child by horrific narcissistic parents. I'm so sorry for the emotional and physical trauma that you went through and are sadly having to process and overcome as an adult. I know you know that the pain never leaves you, but all of us who have (and still) suffered/suffer can rise above the narcs in our lives by shutting them out and working on loving ourselves, nurturing our inner child and setting boundaries to guard our inner peace. Thank you for helping so many abuse victims through your self-sacrificing spirit 🙏 May you continue to heal, be strengthened, and blessed throughout your recovery process. Take care.
Thank you Danish for sharing your experiences with us and for educating us. Indeed do never go back to them as they have no self reflection and indeed they do not regret what they said or did do to you. They are always pointing the finger towards another person 👉👉 The other person is always wrong, did wrong to them and they are always right. Sometimes I wished I could check their brains to see what is going on in those brains. Never ever did I receive an apology from my narcissistic mother or ex boyfriend or covert narc. ex- friend. Even not after a silent treatment of 6 weeks. They do not care at all! Thank you for your insightful video's Danish, they help me to really recover from my narcissitic mother and her abuse and I want to spot them immedialtely. The world is full with narcissists unfortunately 😤
Another very helpful video. I’m deeply struggling after an incomprehensible discard. Your kind and calming tone, your knowledge and acknowledgement of how “we” feel is also very helpful. I like your new style of videos. Mahalo
Spot on Danish. Painfully the case. Nobody knows what’s behind the mask the narcisist included. Only God can help a narcisist and the kindest thing we can do is to remove ourselves from their presence.
incredible - let me add - I gave my family an opportunity to say whatever they wanted to me, with a deadline. My father emailed me, not phoned, and the morning AFTER the deadline to talk about his covid and did not mention anything to do with the fact that he would nevver hear from me or see me again. Total disregard, even at the last moment. Imagine that! The proof is in your face.
The only regret that the narcissist and other narcissists and their flying monkeys have is that you have found out the real truth about them and will never go back to them! No contact is best thing ever for these kinds of people, who you Unfortunately used to know but now know their real self and their Unscrupulous mind! No contact is happy-go-lucky for you not to the narcissist and their Unscrupulous friends who you don't want or need in your life!😂
I'm so glad you got out. I'm so glad you learned and can teach us from your experiences. Thank you. So many are still stuck or holding on to hope. I've been in both places. Gaining complete freedom is an ongoing process even when you feel completely free.
Aww yes I've seen him clearly now and I'm no contact, he hates me anyway so it suits him. I wish I had never met him 32 years ago, I have to, start over and reassure our 4 kids that we will be OK, he's happy as Larry with his new girlfriend and we are still married, sick sick being,
When I was around 4 years of age I “literally” repeatedly hit my head against a concrete step out of sheer frustration dealing with my narcissistic mother, what was my mother’s response? She stood there laughing calling me an idiot (that’s how you know you have a narcissistic parent). She had no remorse for her demands and no concern about me injuring myself. Even at 4 years of age I knew her reaction was not right so at a very young age I knew there was definitely something wrong with her but didn’t know what it was. Any normal parent would have been shocked, immediately jumped in to stop me from injuring myself and shower me with affection and tell me that they loved me, I got the opposite. She deliberately wanted to humiliate and shame me and didn’t care if I injured myself.
Wauww that you already knew at 4 years old that something was very wrong with your mother! That was very intelligent of you! It took me 50 years to finally discover that my mother is a narcissist. My mother also did not care for me 1 day I came home at 7 years when I fell off my bike on a summerday in bikini and slipped over the street and got very injured all over my belly and I still do not know how i walked back home. I only recalled myself telling her as it was so incredible painful: "I think I am going to die mom" 😪 and she stayed in the ktiched and did not care for me, not calm me down, not hug me...NOTHING....incredible inhumane behaviour!! I wished I knew then that something was wrong with her! I only knew that I had to take care of myself and became very independent early!
@@Rosalie-ct8mi Rosalie I’m so sorry you had to experience that but I completely understand I too became very independent at a very young age. It was obvious to me because I saw how my mother treated my older brother (by 2 years) and how she treated me, he was and still is the golden child and I’m …… well …. the last time we spoke she told me I was nothing but a piece of shit and we weren’t arguing or in a disagreement, it just came out of her mouth unprovoked and random. Yes I had figured her out at a very young age but I didn’t know what it was, when I got older I thought she might suffer from schizophrenia the way she goes from 0 to 10000 in one second flat. I’ve had to go no contact to save my soul and my health. Hope you have too!
Recently I was feeling very sad that my sister and I don’t have a healthy relationship. However, reaching out to her again would only open the door to more opportunities for her cruelty. She is the soulless flesh suit you describe. Thank you for saving me from my stupid hopium.
May God give such a wisdom to all the men enmeshed by their narcissistic mother, so that they can see that what they think is love affection and attachment is just a way of controlling you. Thanks Danish for spreading awareness, it really helps the survivors survive peacefully ✌️
Thank you so much for this. My murderous covert narc 'mother' in her 90s got me on the phone through another phone number, because she is blocked. Saying in her smooth tired self-pity voice: "I am going to the edery house. Ja.😪 If you will visit me." I was so shocked how come she got me I was nome. I couldn't say even I am praying for you. Then I was afraid of what they were up to again. Then angry, running around like mad because she made me suffer as an animal, made me crazy, trying to send me to my early grave many times as as a child. And later pregnant for my father's inheritance. She didn't want my baby would live and did everything possible and threatened me. After two weeks I am thinking about her inheritance to leave or not to live it, to avoid further attacks on me. Lately, I am thinking maybe we will find peace between the two of us, before she dies. But after this video, I am more than sure that was her last covert attempt to destroy me before she would die because this illness gets even worse through the years. If she would want us to be mother and daughter, she would accept my many offers to go to therapy with me. She never wanted me to exist and she was never interested in being my mother. The desire to be her daughter is my very big pain and hope for whole my life. But it is not real and my trauma started to drive me again. You saved me with this video.☺ I will stay no contact. But I still do not know about what to do with the inheritance... They robbed me when I was pregnant and after my father committed suicide a year earlier. It belongs to me. But I would prefer my sanity and not expose myself they would kill me for that crazy inheritance, in spite I am 10 times poorer than them.
Thank you for helping me understand why my mother treated me that way. She always hurt my feelings but never regrets it. Now i know that there will never be regret..its really sad. Thank u so much. Im still healing..
Thank you so much. I have been thinking that the ongoing contact, even short times, around narcissistic persons & the relationships affected, that the only plausible conclusion of "WHY" is because it's evil. Like you said...an entity walking around . Slowly I am discovering there are good people in the world & it's enjoyable & upbeat. Drowning in isolation blinded me to the joy & freedom & self love & self Worth & self acceptance had in store for me after seeing the light. At 74 my regret is to not have a long life to enjoy this new & lovely & loving outlook on life. O well ! It's not easy but there is no going back. I am working on noticing the fantasy bond that keeps me hoping, wondering, trying & getting hooked. Thank you again. I love your videos.
I wish for you many many more years in joy and freedom and good health and with people who are empathetic, compassionate, loving, caring and supportive 💖🌷 Ps. as the earth is ascending, we are ascending and living longer!
Thank you Danish. I believe my ex-husband narc regret staying to long with me, and letting his sibling ask me to care for his mommy because they was hoping he would aleast change his way and that when the mommy pass away that someone like me would help him to keep him out of trouble but he start resenting me and his family for keeping me around him even if we had this lover relationship . Thought he would change toward me to actually said to me stay here with me and i dont you to ever leave because you a good woman instead once the mommy pass away he could wait to get rid of me discard me, like trash, i believe he didnt feel empathy doing his mom funeral i didnt see his grievance at all he was drinking beer and smoking weed i could believe what i saw so i know if i died he wouldn't care at all in the pass he would i hope your car flip over and you die that let me know he truly meant every word. His regret towards me that he had got rid me sooner and had the new supply around the last 2 years of his life.😢
Thank you , Yes this is exactly , I'm not crazy and your videos have helped my healing And understanding of what was done to me and I have a name to the monster know!!
Once you've been touched b y one at a perfect moment. They prey people they prey they know when to strike. Get out get out . Trust your gut it won't lie your heart will. I pray for you !!!
They do. But that only last less than a day. After a few rounds of that feeling.. especially after they know u figured them out.. any regret they ever had..even so slightly..will never be seen again.
The ex is a Narc. His mom is a Narc that I realized all this after 18 years. His mom told my 13 year old daughter to tell me “we can still be friends” NOPE! I got rid of Facebook. Don’t want to talk to any narcissists. My ex mother in law will always support her sh&tty son. I have my own mother yet mother in law believe she is the BEST mother ever- yeah, the best at creating crap children. 😂 I now refuse to talk to her so I don’t destroy her big a$$ over inflated EGO. 😊 I’m trying to be nice.
Only inasmuch as if you prove to have been not used up that they did not wring all of the potential for goodness and love or potential for growth out of you. Then they regret it. But only in passing.
Can a request be made to coping with a narc at the workplace? I work with a suspected narc and his behaviors scream narc to me. he's the office building's security gard and the way he brags about his role makes me uncomfortable. He thinks he has power for simply being in this role and he talks about how he watches people on the camera, how he has recorded others (who apparently has spoken ill about him) sleeping (really weird), he shows me camera footage and then says "im not suppose to be doing this", and he even got a write up for a huge mistake he made and then discarded his boss because he believe he did everything "perfectly" (his exact words lol) tho there are logs showing him making the same mistake repeatedly, he lingers by my desk like a child, waiting for me to give him attention and if i try my best to stay focus on my job then he forces a covo to get attention. it's so annoying i can not stand him im 100% sure this guy is a narc but i don't know how to cope when every day i have to be expose to this guy. 🙄😮💨
My mother regrets killing my father and that she didn't make the same mistake as it saved my life. My fathers death saved my life. I hope to meet you someday sir. You are my friend, my hero and my brother.
My mum used to slag me off non stop to all her friends. I could often see the freinds were angry at me an I'd wonder what bullshit she had been peddling to them.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. Your story sounds really familiar because I have experienced a very similar situation with my narcissistic dad, and my mom. If I am not mistaken you mentioned your mom being a "vulnerable narcissist". Would you please share more information about "vulnerable narcissists", please? What is the difference between an "enabler" and a "vulnerable narcissist", please? Thank you very much🌺
No, they don’t regret it because they want to be in control. They love hurting you. They regret losing you. They will reap what they sow. What goes around comes around. They’ll get their dessert. A sour moldy one.
I have been in marriage for 12 years and my wife has never said sorry to me, never appreciated whatever i did to her,she accused me of many bad things, including me hiring people to kill her and our son.The only thing keeping me with her till now is i need to give her money for a boat and bus fare.She said she will leave me with our three kids..10,5 and 2.She made me loose my very good job.She hates my family and she made her family hate me.
It's hard to have sympathy for someone who thought it was a good idea to have a second child, never mind a third, with someone you know is a narcissist. You know you can never leave her because, if you do, she will turn the children against you. You're just going to have to find a way of coping for the next 20 years. My neighbour goes on very long walks and spends the remainder of his day drinking beer. He's even moved his cousin in as a distraction and to ensure that she keeps her mask in place. It seems to work but one has to wonder if it's sustainable especially with the winter coming on.
"The regret of a hunter that lost his prey" wow beautifully said.. that's what it is exactly! 😊
😅 My first reaction to the title was "No." Then I thought, 'only once you leave😂'.
Big time stalkers! It's bad when they find another victim, but good for the person they originally stalked. No contact will help to keep them from ever returning.
Yes!! When I heard Danish say that, I shivered. Because that is exactly how we always FELT around them-as if we truly were the prey. I have a Mother, Sister and two Sisters in Law who are all covert narcissists. I didn’t figure any of this out until I was in my late 50s. But now I have had years of therapy via UA-cam, and it has transformed my life. These people really are ‘entities’. They have proven themselves to not possess authentic human qualities. 😑😔😒. Block them out of your life.
@julieanna8495 That's tough. I hope that with the knowledge, you can still have some contact and set your boundaries. They don't necessarily 'rub off' on you, but they leave an impression, especially when it's family members. I understand what you're going through. You must be doing something right. 💞👍🎗
That’s what I just realized about e
When a crocodile is biting its prey, tears flow down its eyes. This is no way means it cares about its prey. Same is the case with a narcissist. They are only paranoid about losing their supply. No regrets, no moral compass, no empathy, no humane emotions. Pure evil.
So they regret not finishing me off.....
They regret LOSING. Narcissists are never good at saying goodbye, and, in my experience, the narc will not be on 'good' terms with you again. It's risk-taking to test their supreme ego once you're FREE. Stay free ❤🎉💞
Even then I don’t think it’s regret they lost. There’s not sad they lost. They’re bloody angry.
@maggie6 oh yes, rage monster too, the kind of anger that does not go away for a long time, if ever.
@@norcal1009 I don’t think it ever goes away. They hold onto things forever. That is why, I feel they become more bitter and twisted as the age. But regret 🤣. Nah! That’d he admitting they did something wrong and wish they’d done it differently. Given a Narcissist is NEVER wrong, it stands to reason, they have nothing to regret. 🙄
@maggie6 😂 Regret is too complicated a word for them, just like the word "commitment" or love. Crazy how they self-sabotage just about everything they get their putrid hands on!
They regret it...
Only because they don't want the karma
And they are afraid they may need you
Or lose a opportunity because of what they did
But they don't care about you
Narcissist 1 run the world
2 are the majority
3 are also learning
4 are much more articulate and subtle than you can imagine
This is an excellent channel to learn what your surrounded by .
Indeed, Danish is one of the most informed and empathetic persons I've seen on UA-cam regarding psychopathy and narcissism.❤💞
@@norcal1009 it’s a much needed Niche
Indeed. Danish is thoroughly informed, detailed, relatable and holistic; it's so helpful. Thanks Danish.
Wow, the way you describe them, flesh suits, soulless beings, nobody home, is exactly how I feel about my parents. Im ill for 3 years now and just recently told my mother that Ive finally found out what it is and there is a chance I can fully heal. Her reaction was as if I had said something about the weather. And Ive only realized how weird her reaction was because other people did manage to listen to me for longer than 2 sentences and even show empathy. Thank you for your videos and sharing your own struggles.
Yah, that's wonderful news! I hope it works out for you
That's the right way to think, these people aren't normal at all
Get better love... Live a long healthy happy life just to spite her😊
Never talk to a narc about ANYTHING personal. Talk about the weather, pretty flowers, cloud shapes. NOTHING personal.
Narcs are just empty. Like they have no soul. Get well Eline. Heal and be happy.
I bet your illness might have to do with the narcissistic upbringing. My frozen shoulders are from all the stress I suffered as a child and I lost my job as a flight attendant through this. I have been flying around the world for 30 years and when I said that I lost my job, she only said something...well now you are not flying anymore....My goodness the amount of empathy they show , mindboggling 0%!! I still cannot wrap my mind around it and why did I not see this earlier this sick behaviour? I am wishing you all the best luck with your recovery Eline 💚 You can heal your body, watch the video's of Dr. Joe Dispenza mind over matter 💖
Oh Yes. 💯 % SPOT ON. The ONLY thing my ex-husband regrets is that he didn't manage to break me, like he did to his former partner that stayed with him for many years. He broke her to the point where she got pancreatic cancer, she died, and he didn't have the human decency to claim her dead body. He didn't even bother nor have the decency to go to her cremation service. Yeah, that's what you get if you stay with an NPD narcissist.
Mom didn't tell me my funeral job was to I.D. her cremation body, so I avoid seeing dementia diva whose finally locked up and have avoided 8 yrs so far? I gave that duty to my back stabbing half cuz, they're together in the same province anyway... I'm glad you're strong as am I, they underestimate our strenght and it sucks to be them!
You are strong, and I feel bad for the person who couldn't handle the abuse!! Murder is in the details of these sick monsters.
@@norcal1009 Thank you very much. I feel incredibly blessed that I became aware of narcissism and what it TRULY is and very early in my marriage and I was able to get out in only 11 months into my marriage. That was 3 years ago. I made my self a promise, that if I got out alive and/or intact, I will do my very best to help others. So here I am. I will soon be part of a narcissistic abuse documentary available on UA-cam. I will announce it's release at various narcissistic abuse channels in hope that I can continue to help as many people as possible.
This reminds of an ex boyfriend of many years. His wife got cancer, this guy made $100,000 a year at the time, she worked also, but she didn't have insurance!
He actually let her die because he wouldn't foot the bill. The monster wouldn't even pay for hospice. There was delight in his voice when he told me she died in great pain and was paralyzed at the time of her death
Oh but you can bet he had a life insurance policy. Then he treated his step daughter like a trophy wife, suspicions of them having an affair. The bastard even bought her a Wrangler light pink jeep
They were awful, that jeep would have paid her mother's insurance easily
Then she had a kid - that looked a bit like him, a little girl
Absolutely evil and disgraceful. His wife was beautiful woman, way too good for him
And now he gets to play the grieving widow to get other women. He doesn't have any shame, even tattooed her birthrate on his arm to score with other women
@@courtneymeyers82 Good grief what you wrote is practically identical (minus the pink jeep and kid) to my ex-husbands former relationship and the insurance and everything else, including making very close to $100,000 salary.
I feel deep disdain and disgust!
Never ..but only for them
Thank you Danish! So in a nutshell, these narcissists are devils who are out to destroy humankind😢
Yes and unfortunately Gen Z and Zillenials are incredibly narcissistic. Satan has sent a legion. All empaths, light workers and warriors, we have to fight these evil people
Of course there are kind ones in that generation, and I feel really bad for them
what???@@courtneymeyers82
I so much wish they feel regret but I guess they don't regret unfortunately..
Honestly these people just can't and will not change just let them be... Enjoy your life ... Experience happiness and grow to your fullest potential 🌹
I was going through a divorce with a narcissist right now. When she realised that I no longer want anything to do with her canceled our mediation and went after my family home where my parents still live and my pension. Im trying to deal with my anger but wake up every night in a rage of bad dreams. I've never hated but I now do.. She's pure evil.
I wish you the best through this difficult time. Therapy helped me with SO MUCH loss. At times, it seemed unbearable, but I stuck with it and proved any doubts I had wrong. You're a warrior! You can fight a narcissist, hands down, but concentrate on you most of all. 💞
Grieve the loss, quickly and thoroughly, if you can, so that you can step out of their matrix of fear. It's their disorder, and they want to affect you too. But you don't have to react. Just accept that they're really ill. It doesn't have to be your problem as well.
They ate evil. No soul. Its not your fault. How would you know? Pray and ask God to help you get what You deserve. Karma will get her
Is there a lawyer who is experienced in narcissistic abuse? I had a notary who delat very well with my narcissitc ex when I explained him what was going on! There surely must be soemone who has dealt with these evil people who can help you. Ask the universe to help you and you will receive the help 🙏 I wish you all the best luck with the divorce!
While you are going through all that anger, decide deep in your soul that she will not turn you into her. That is serious. Be prepared to put a period on it and free yourself. Revenge is entanglement with evil.
They never regret what they do because that would mean something is actually their fault. At best they regret not pushing on you harder than they did but no matter what happens the failure and fault will always be yours, not theirs.
My soon-to-be ex-husband, a diagnosed covert and malignant narc NPD, has NEVER expressed any remorse, or even said the words "I'm sorry" for abusing me narcistically along with Domestic Violence assaults, which lead to his arrest. He actually said what he did to me and our marriage, was "minor indiscretions"
Yeah, a twice fractured wrist and a bleeding head concussion is "minor indiscretion" 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Glad you're free, what a horrible person, a toddler on steroids, mine pulled my head once, called the cops, never touched me again, I hope you find someone nice!
After many DV episodes all with brushing black eyes dislocated jaw hair ripped out of my head I was told I was cheating on him all the while he got one of his supplies pregnant the last time he put his hands on me he went to the kitchen got a knife put it to my neck and said he was going to kill me and my dogs that made me snap and fight back .....he's in prison now about to turn 60 with his baby waiting on him to get out.
It's justice when these perpetrators are FINALLY punished! The longer the better, since they don't change and return to their abusive narcissistic predatory behavior.
@@joseenoel8093 Thank you very much Josee. Hhhhmmm, the idea of dating again after being involved with a narc, has "left the building" LOL
Buuut we'll see what is written in my book of life...
@@debprobst330 I'm sorry you were abused. I am very happy you got away and he's locked up. Full healing takes time, but one day, you WILL get there, for SURE !!
Your honesty about your personal experiences are so courageous Danish!
You are a truth-teller with a beautiful heart!
They regret but only for themselves. They couldn't care any less if you die in front of them.
Edit - in fact, the narc ex-wife tried to poison me. I had to leave and file charges.
Unfortunately so true!
@@LoveDancingLoveSinging I've seen this firsthand. They even go to church and cry there but they keep trying to harm us. It's a great wonder how they can even dare to show their face in church.
True fact!
They are heartless
Yes if I dropped dead, he would walk over me, bastard
My mother always said one thing whenever I dint used to act according to her or listen to her- that she regrets of sending me outside for studies and supporting me on everything.
My sister is always threatening to take her life that's why I stick around but it's so hard. However , you taught me something I didn't know which is they won't miss you when you're gone. Didn't know that. Thanks so much for sharing this.
Live as long as you can. Don't give them the last word about you. Talk about big time supply for them if you go first.
@@doppelganger6091 Exactly. Call her on it! Every time! And please, move on and get yourself free. Bye bye.
They regret the consequences that it brings on them, not us.😂
REGRET means to feel sad, repentant or disappointed. For example being disappointed in themselves for failing to treat you right. Sorry for the way they treated you etc., Does that sound anything like a narcissist. Normal people feel regret. Narcissists regret nothing because nothing is ever their fault. They only feel bitterness and anger. So when you finally stop caring about them and leave them- they don’t feel regret at their actions that caused you to leave. They just feel bitter and angry that you didn’t appreciate all the weeks, months or years they wasted on you.
Narcissists don't know how to feel. The emotion of anger is unregulated, and so they stay in a perpetual state of self-pity and disillusionment. To make matters worse, they don't tell this to their victims. It's a lot of criminal-minded behavior and getting a high off you, utterly disgusting people.
My sister has recently showed her npd self full on.shes usually gets her way with me or I yell back and we dont talk for years. this time around we had a run of 10years with some ups and downs but after I chose to go no contact with our dad whos also has npd she sorta lost her mind and are having a full blown npd collapse.coming at me with all kinds of weird ways to try to get me to rekindle a contact with dad wich NEVER gonna happen cos now im enlightend both educationally bout npd and spiritually.She tried all the tricks in her book but they all failed miserably as I stood my ground.as she was bout to leave she started crying and I felt bad for her but now I realize it was not for the common greif of our realtionships falling apart but she had lost the ability to control me and use me as a pond in her superficial scheme. she also has brainwashed her daugter to recent me also.its like living in a twisted movie but I see their mental illness and know im the sane one living this life as a human beeing with a soul :D
well I thought I was the only one who had such parents, I wish we had videos on this issue before so I wouldn't have blamed myself and tried to fix everything, these people don't change and never regret hurting anyone
Can you imagine what the narcissists would do after you went no contact on them? Imagine the trap they made when they catch us! We were the prey that ran away. After my no contact one of the narcissists in my life told my daughter how much she misses me. I told my daughter that those people have been erased out of my life.
Exactly.They never regret for their misdeeds and senseless talk
Narcisists feel no guilt, because of that they do no regret anything. But they can simulate these feelings. Danish is amazingly strong, blessed for realizing still at young age the reality of being a narcisistic family's scapegoat.
How sad does one feel at the end of this dysfunctional relationship with a narcissist friend or other narcissists and their flying monkeys we the victims learn too late that these people even exist!😢
I know, but it is never too late, I was 50 when I got to know what narcissism was and discovered that my mother is a narcissist. I wished as well if I had known this in my 20ties. But I was never educated at school about narcissists. I think there is a reason for that as most politicians, managers of big companies and many CEO's of big companies are narcissists.
You saved my life more than ever!!!!
The father of my son was cheating when I was pregnant. Someone told it to the husband of the woman with whom he was cheating. The father of my son believed I was the author of the message and yelled to me: poor guy, can you imagine how he feels!
And now he keeps having an affair with the same woman, ignoring the "poor husband" . Yes, his compass changes.
Demons for sure
I can feel you, I left my narcissist family narcissist parents,m not going back anywhere to that hell ,whatever happened to You happened the same with me,they don't really regret losing me,they are still trying to make my life hell by rumours that i am a crazy child etc etc
Thank you, Danish. It's very hard to imagine someone feeling nothing while hurting others. But we must, in order to stay free. My ex(es) definitely regret not ruining my life, as hard as they tried! Now I focus on today and tomorrow. If anyone out there is holding on to hope for change...well you'll be the first one ever, in this universe for all time, to see a conscience in a narcissist!
Right, a narcissist with a conscious doesn't exist but survivors move on, and the narcissist hates us for it. There are very sick people in this world.
Your words and examples of narcissistic people are of pure gold Danish 👌 You have a fantastic sense of understanding and empathy due to what you tragically experienced as a child by horrific narcissistic parents. I'm so sorry for the emotional and physical trauma that you went through and are sadly having to process and overcome as an adult. I know you know that the pain never leaves you, but all of us who have (and still) suffered/suffer can rise above the narcs in our lives by shutting them out and working on loving ourselves, nurturing our inner child and setting boundaries to guard our inner peace. Thank you for helping so many abuse victims through your self-sacrificing spirit 🙏 May you continue to heal, be strengthened, and blessed throughout your recovery process. Take care.
Thank you Danish for sharing your experiences with us and for educating us. Indeed do never go back to them as they have no self reflection and indeed they do not regret what they said or did do to you. They are always pointing the finger towards another person 👉👉 The other person is always wrong, did wrong to them and they are always right. Sometimes I wished I could check their brains to see what is going on in those brains. Never ever did I receive an apology from my narcissistic mother or ex boyfriend or covert narc. ex- friend. Even not after a silent treatment of 6 weeks. They do not care at all! Thank you for your insightful video's Danish, they help me to really recover from my narcissitic mother and her abuse and I want to spot them immedialtely. The world is full with narcissists unfortunately 😤
Another very helpful video. I’m deeply struggling after an incomprehensible discard. Your kind and calming tone, your knowledge and acknowledgement of how “we” feel is also very helpful. I like your new style of videos. Mahalo
WOW SOULESS BEINGS!!! I’ve said something very similar; they’re empty nothing pure or real is in them 😳
Spot on Danish. Painfully the case. Nobody knows what’s behind the mask the narcisist included. Only God can help a narcisist and the kindest thing we can do is to remove ourselves from their presence.
I would say: the most needed thing is to remove ourselves from their presence!
incredible - let me add - I gave my family an opportunity to say whatever they wanted to me, with a deadline. My father emailed me, not phoned, and the morning AFTER the deadline to talk about his covid and did not mention anything to do with the fact that he would nevver hear from me or see me again. Total disregard, even at the last moment.
Imagine that! The proof is in your face.
The only regret that the narcissist and other narcissists and their flying monkeys have is that you have found out the real truth about them and will never go back to them! No contact is best thing ever for these kinds of people, who you Unfortunately used to know but now know their real self and their Unscrupulous mind! No contact is happy-go-lucky for you not to the narcissist and their Unscrupulous friends who you don't want or need in your life!😂
I'm so glad you got out. I'm so glad you learned and can teach us from your experiences. Thank you. So many are still stuck or holding on to hope. I've been in both places. Gaining complete freedom is an ongoing process even when you feel completely free.
Aww yes I've seen him clearly now and I'm no contact, he hates me anyway so it suits him. I wish I had never met him 32 years ago, I have to, start over and reassure our 4 kids that we will be OK, he's happy as Larry with his new girlfriend and we are still married, sick sick being,
Heartless narcissist...just using people to serve them... If they didn't get what they want, then we are their extreme enemies...So Selfish... 😢
Hi you have teach me how to deal with my narrcist uncle and I am applying your precious knowledge it really works!!!❤
You have so much wisdom and insight, and you are so observant and have great understanding of narcissistic behavior.
Once you leave, the narcissist becomes unemployed.
When I was around 4 years of age I “literally” repeatedly hit my head against a concrete step out of sheer frustration dealing with my narcissistic mother, what was my mother’s response? She stood there laughing calling me an idiot (that’s how you know you have a narcissistic parent). She had no remorse for her demands and no concern about me injuring myself. Even at 4 years of age I knew her reaction was not right so at a very young age I knew there was definitely something wrong with her but didn’t know what it was. Any normal parent would have been shocked, immediately jumped in to stop me from injuring myself and shower me with affection and tell me that they loved me, I got the opposite. She deliberately wanted to humiliate and shame me and didn’t care if I injured myself.
Wauww that you already knew at 4 years old that something was very wrong with your mother! That was very intelligent of you! It took me 50 years to finally discover that my mother is a narcissist. My mother also did not care for me 1 day I came home at 7 years when I fell off my bike on a summerday in bikini and slipped over the street and got very injured all over my belly and I still do not know how i walked back home. I only recalled myself telling her as it was so incredible painful: "I think I am going to die mom" 😪 and she stayed in the ktiched and did not care for me, not calm me down, not hug me...NOTHING....incredible inhumane behaviour!! I wished I knew then that something was wrong with her! I only knew that I had to take care of myself and became very independent early!
@@Rosalie-ct8mi Rosalie I’m so sorry you had to experience that but I completely understand I too became very independent at a very young age. It was obvious to me because I saw how my mother treated my older brother (by 2 years) and how she treated me, he was and still is the golden child and I’m …… well …. the last time we spoke she told me I was nothing but a piece of shit and we weren’t arguing or in a disagreement, it just came out of her mouth unprovoked and random. Yes I had figured her out at a very young age but I didn’t know what it was, when I got older I thought she might suffer from schizophrenia the way she goes from 0 to 10000 in one second flat. I’ve had to go no contact to save my soul and my health. Hope you have too!
Hahaha no. Mine is just upset im "removed" from the family but yet there is still so much drama!!!!🤦🏻♀️
Thank you so very much!!! ❤
Recently I was feeling very sad that my sister and I don’t have a healthy relationship. However, reaching out to her again would only open the door to more opportunities for her cruelty. She is the soulless flesh suit you describe. Thank you for saving me from my stupid hopium.
I went back once, but won't make that error again. The abuse gets worse.
May God give such a wisdom to all the men enmeshed by their narcissistic mother, so that they can see that what they think is love affection and attachment is just a way of controlling you.
Thanks Danish for spreading awareness, it really helps the survivors survive peacefully ✌️
I left my family 9 years ago. Sometimes they reach out, but I learned my lesson. I had to let them in over and over until I met my wife. She saved me
Mr or Mrs
Bumbohole Narcissist
Champion 🏆 Danish
Is Not for "Play Play"
He is educating We🌍
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He tells NO lies ☺️
8:10 never break no contact
Thank you so much for this. My murderous covert narc 'mother' in her 90s got me on the phone through another phone number, because she is blocked. Saying in her smooth tired self-pity voice: "I am going to the edery house. Ja.😪 If you will visit me." I was so shocked how come she got me I was nome. I couldn't say even I am praying for you. Then I was afraid of what they were up to again. Then angry, running around like mad because she made me suffer as an animal, made me crazy, trying to send me to my early grave many times as as a child. And later pregnant for my father's inheritance. She didn't want my baby would live and did everything possible and threatened me. After two weeks I am thinking about her inheritance to leave or not to live it, to avoid further attacks on me. Lately, I am thinking maybe we will find peace between the two of us, before she dies.
But after this video, I am more than sure that was her last covert attempt to destroy me before she would die because this illness gets even worse through the years. If she would want us to be mother and daughter, she would accept my many offers to go to therapy with me. She never wanted me to exist and she was never interested in being my mother. The desire to be her daughter is my very big pain and hope for whole my life. But it is not real and my trauma started to drive me again. You saved me with this video.☺ I will stay no contact.
But I still do not know about what to do with the inheritance... They robbed me when I was pregnant and after my father committed suicide a year earlier. It belongs to me. But I would prefer my sanity and not expose myself they would kill me for that crazy inheritance, in spite I am 10 times poorer than them.
"Banging my head against the wall...." I know how tat feels☹️
Thank you for helping me understand why my mother treated me that way. She always hurt my feelings but never regrets it. Now i know that there will never be regret..its really sad. Thank u so much. Im still healing..
Thank you so much. I have been thinking that the ongoing contact, even short times, around narcissistic persons & the relationships affected, that the only plausible conclusion of "WHY" is because it's evil. Like you said...an entity walking around . Slowly I am discovering there are good people in the world & it's enjoyable & upbeat. Drowning in isolation blinded me to the joy & freedom & self love & self Worth & self acceptance had in store for me after seeing the light. At 74 my regret is to not have a long life to enjoy this new & lovely & loving outlook on life. O well ! It's not easy but there is no going back. I am working on noticing the fantasy bond that keeps me hoping, wondering, trying & getting hooked. Thank you again. I love your videos.
I wish for you many many more years in joy and freedom and good health and with people who are empathetic, compassionate, loving, caring and supportive 💖🌷 Ps. as the earth is ascending, we are ascending and living longer!
Narc's don't have the ability for introspection. Any "regret" they experience is simply lost opportunity, not corrective adjustment.
Narcissists feel 0 regret because from my perspective they have a seared conscience
DO NOT EVER GO BACK!!!!!!
Thank you Danish. I believe my ex-husband narc regret staying to long with me, and letting his sibling ask me to care for his mommy because they was hoping he would aleast change his way and that when the mommy pass away that someone like me would help him to keep him out of trouble but he start resenting me and his family for keeping me around him even if we had this lover relationship . Thought he would change toward me to actually said to me stay here with me and i dont you to ever leave because you a good woman instead once the mommy pass away he could wait to get rid of me discard me, like trash, i believe he didnt feel empathy doing his mom funeral i didnt see his grievance at all he was drinking beer and smoking weed i could believe what i saw so i know if i died he wouldn't care at all in the pass he would i hope your car flip over and you die that let me know he truly meant every word. His regret towards me that he had got rid me sooner and had the new supply around the last 2 years of his life.😢
I understand yeah Ofcourse a lot of this comes from some sort of deep fragility it’s super hard
You just described my Mother and my Family.
Danish, We are Brothers now!
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Exactly! Thank you
Thank you , Yes this is exactly , I'm not crazy and your videos have helped my healing And understanding of what was done to me and I have a name to the monster know!!
thank you for warning and support
Revenge is the feeling of a narcissist like you with stoic type of emotion.
Great video, thanks.
Yeah they will apologize, but they don't mean it it's just to pull you back in
Thank you, kindly. This explains a lot which is a heavy relief. Praise God! God bless you for your work.
Thanks for trying to help.
Sho. Powerful words Danish❤
I will certainly take heed
Its pure horror! The regret... Danish is nailing it!
I get it. They are snakes.
Once you've been touched b y one at a perfect moment. They prey people they prey they know when to strike. Get out get out . Trust your gut it won't lie your heart will. I pray for you !!!
They regret nothing. They are sick to the core
and evil to the core
They do...but don't show ...when PPL don't respond to their tricks ...when their plans fail with ppl who know their pattern.
“They want me back, not bc they actually want me back, they want me back to serve”
They do. But that only last less than a day. After a few rounds of that feeling.. especially after they know u figured them out.. any regret they ever had..even so slightly..will never be seen again.
Don't ever even meet them anymore rest of your life. For me I can be so heartless like this if myimit is gone blood relationship is don't matter to me
I am learning so much from your videos. Thank you !
4 the love 4 them & those around them start @ less 2 pray 4 them then U can do more 4 them !
Such an informative piece of useful information, Danish your the big brother I wish I had but I don't have brothers only sister's 😢
Needed this thank you good sir! God bless you 🙏🏼♥️
The only way they'd hate it, is when they become old and helpless and their victims prey on them.
No, he has no idea at how i have protected him and i will continue to do so because of my son
The ex is a Narc. His mom is a Narc that I realized all this after 18 years. His mom told my 13 year old daughter to tell me “we can still be friends” NOPE! I got rid of Facebook. Don’t want to talk to any narcissists.
My ex mother in law will always support her sh&tty son. I have my own mother yet mother in law believe she is the BEST mother ever- yeah, the best at creating crap children. 😂 I now refuse to talk to her so I don’t destroy her big a$$ over inflated EGO. 😊 I’m trying to be nice.
You are a champion sir
Brilliant!
Yes for himself, bcs of punishes by court by prosecutor by me
Only inasmuch as if you prove to have been not used up that they did not wring all of the potential for goodness and love or potential for growth out of you. Then they regret it. But only in passing.
Can a request be made to coping with a narc at the workplace? I work with a suspected narc and his behaviors scream narc to me. he's the office building's security gard and the way he brags about his role makes me uncomfortable. He thinks he has power for simply being in this role and he talks about how he watches people on the camera, how he has recorded others (who apparently has spoken ill about him) sleeping (really weird), he shows me camera footage and then says "im not suppose to be doing this", and he even got a write up for a huge mistake he made and then discarded his boss because he believe he did everything "perfectly" (his exact words lol) tho there are logs showing him making the same mistake repeatedly, he lingers by my desk like a child, waiting for me to give him attention and if i try my best to stay focus on my job then he forces a covo to get attention. it's so annoying i can not stand him im 100% sure this guy is a narc but i don't know how to cope when every day i have to be expose to this guy. 🙄😮💨
My narcissist shouted and abused me when he could not fulfill his plan of destroying me after I was caught having a relationship with him
No! Hell no!
My mother regrets killing my father and that she didn't make the same mistake as it saved my life.
My fathers death saved my life.
I hope to meet you someday sir.
You are my friend, my hero and my brother.
My mum used to slag me off non stop to all her friends. I could often see the freinds were angry at me an I'd wonder what bullshit she had been peddling to them.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. Your story sounds really familiar because I have experienced a very similar situation with my narcissistic dad, and my mom. If I am not mistaken you mentioned your mom being a "vulnerable narcissist". Would you please share more information about "vulnerable narcissists", please? What is the difference between an "enabler" and a "vulnerable narcissist", please? Thank you very much🌺
No, they don’t regret it because they want to be in control. They love hurting you. They regret losing you. They will reap what they sow. What goes around comes around. They’ll get their dessert. A sour moldy one.
I have been in marriage for 12 years and my wife has never said sorry to me, never appreciated whatever i did to her,she accused me of many bad things, including me hiring people to kill her and our son.The only thing keeping me with her till now is i need to give her money for a boat and bus fare.She said she will leave me with our three kids..10,5 and 2.She made me loose my very good job.She hates my family and she made her family hate me.
It's hard to have sympathy for someone who thought it was a good idea to have a second child, never mind a third, with someone you know is a narcissist. You know you can never leave her because, if you do, she will turn the children against you. You're just going to have to find a way of coping for the next 20 years. My neighbour goes on very long walks and spends the remainder of his day drinking beer. He's even moved his cousin in as a distraction and to ensure that she keeps her mask in place. It seems to work but one has to wonder if it's sustainable especially with the winter coming on.
Hi Danish,make a vedio on malignant narcissistic in detail.please please...i hope you are doing well after separation of your narcissistic parents.