Parents Made Me Pay Rent & Then Kicked Me Out So that My Golden Child Brother could Move in....
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
- Parents Made Me Pay Rent & Then Kicked Me Out So that My Golden Child Brother could Move in. So I Cut Contact, But Now They Want My Inheritance Money Which My Grandparents Left for Me!
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I don't get why families have a golden child. Even in my own life, my mother had a golden child, which was my sister. How do you decide that one child, that you created, is better than the other child, which you created???
_Edit:_ My mother bought clothes for my sister every week while I only got clothes on holidays. She also stole about $10k from me and gave it to my sister.
Likely who they relate/connect to more; Different children are more difficult to deal with. Not Justifying it, but someone falling into that mindset isn't necessarily unbelievable
In complete honesty it comes from evolution. Our brains are still wired to find specific traits more desirable over others, what the person looks for is different between each one because of their positions but yeah the reason why a parent will always have a favourite child if they have multiple comes from the primal instincts.
Some parents usually screw up in the first, or don't want another upon the second.
Not always a favorite but it could be how the older kids see things. My adult sons think their little sister is the favorite but it’s not true. It’s the fact that she is the only one that lives at home so it appears that way to them. She is in orchestra that takes 10 hours a week after school. They both did extra curricular’s also. But they say she does more and gets more. She also already has scholarships for college due to her orchestra.
@@deancarruthers444 sometimes my sisters tried to say i'm the golden child when i was a teenager (as i was facing significant trauma and was autistic, though undiagnosed at the time) but it's not true at all. Though my mom does give a bit more attention to me because of my disabilities and mental health struggles, my sisters are still just as loved by my mom; just older and more independent
Illegitimate child? So, the parents makes some post that saying their child is Illegitimate? Adopted? Or they both acknowledge the mum or dad having an affair?
This story is so all over the place. Kinda stupid, yet amusing.
They were trying to put op down and create a story that makes op a villain of some sort
Yep. To them the only logic that makes sense is "OP abandoned us, everyone dogpile hate on her until she becomes a Giant Doormat and get the Grandparents to give us all of OP's money to us"
The parents failed at paying their mortgage because they were counting on their daughter to continue to be a good doormat and give them money. They totally manipulated OP into getting a job ASAP with the intention of leeching money from her for the rest of her life.
As usual, the golden child & scapegoat child dynamics fall apart when the scapegoat child is no longer there to be a doormat and take the blame and responsibility for everything.
"They admitted to using all that money on their own enjoyment and activities. Never once thinking on how that would affect us". Even if you don't necessarily think about it - spending money means YOU HAVE NO MORE MONEY! A fool and his money will soon part, indeed. At least OP has sensible grandparents and a good head on her shoulders. And it's nice that she wants to patch things up with Brad, but I'd still keep him at arms length.
Him: I failed art school
Germany: welcome 😁
I laughed way too hard at this comment 😂
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I shouldn't have but I did also 😂
And his father punished him severely
OP: "If you don't know me, your opinion doesn't mean $0,02 to me."
Loved that 🔥
Only 2 minutes in and it's the dad the mainly pissing me off right now. Poor OP was trying to be nice to her brother and saved up money to get him a watch . The dad didn't allow it all cuz he gave Brad a more expensive one 🙄😒
Chat help im addicted to these😅
Addicted with AI stories, that's another level of brainrott.
Bro I’m addicted
"... Because no matter who it is, toxic people make your life miserable 🔥" finally an op with a spine who doesn't whine about how cutting toxic people is so hard
All the children in these stories always seem to turn into painters or writers.
I swear this AI must be modeled on a teen drama series.
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Brad? More like Brat.
Marrying someone in Vegas is like a bad comedy film would pull off lol, that's trashy
1. What kind of professors can't afford to pay their mortgage on a 2-bedroom apartment? Or is this a house? Either way, it's pathetic.
2. Teaching her how the real world works? Yeah, as soon as you kick her out of her rented space, you'd be in court, and NO judge would take the landlord's side on this issue.
Yes. If you are the landlord, you are the landlord.
Don't expect to also get the rights of parents. It is one or the other.
The child can still like you if you happen to be friends. That is up to them.
First thing what OP needs to do is, block them on all platforms of communication. Also, OP shouldn't expect sympathy or empathy from people, who don't know the truth, because parents have already presented their twisted tale to them. Now until and unless OP presents her side of the story, she should not expect people to side with her. She should make a post or compose an en email detailing everything that happened to her in her life, and send it to everybody. The more OP keeps quiet, the more they will believe in the twisted tale of the parents. Stand-up for yourself, speak for yourself, put your foot down for yourself, and fight for yourself, and see the difference.
Keep inheritance, screw the parents. They basically abandoned you and left you to basically to rot. Let them rot and acknowledge they messed up.
There should be a law that says that if a minor, regardless of age, is working to contribute to the household. Then the minor can make legally-binding demands on the household, if the parents refuse to abide by those demands they can stop taking money from the minor or face up to 50 years of jail with no bail or parole.
Also are the grandparents or OP not going to sue the parents for the money they embezzle from the education fund?
Ugh… op you had more grace than me… I would’ve stayed with my grandparents and let the golden boy play happy family with the parents
If u wanna teach your child about rent and the "real" world, take a small amount for "rent" set it aside for college funds or as a graduation gift.
This teaches your kids about monthly cost and saving while u do your job as a parent and give instead of take like these idiot "parents"
Could you do me a favor and cram more fucking ads into this video? I just cant listen to reddit stories without yanking my phone out every 5 minutes to skip 6 godamn ads
Charging a child under the age of 18 rent is illegal in the United States in Michigan a mother or a wife consignor a man's final 2 paychecks if he is dead.
It's not your fault it's your parents'fault because they favored their Golden child brother over their own daughter and they wanted her to pay rent and they kicked her out of the house and they only cared about their Golden child brother and they only cared about their inheritance and that's not right and they should pay for their actions and go to hell for what they have done to her and if you guys can't see that then you guys are delusional and they don't deserve anything for kicking her out of the house and making her pay rent and only cared about their Golden child brother over their own daughter and they only cared about their inheritance and you don't have to apologize for anything it's their fault not hers.
Why does this feel like another story I heard on UA-cam? You know, the one where the OP from that story got kicked out from their parents house for OP's pregnant sister.
Because it is the same chemical addition of parental obsession.
Similar effects would be expected.
Hell no I will sue my parents
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do it for dan strikes again
2:31 lol. Spoiled. Lol. Spoiled
Nooooo stop with the new title
This is a repost, no?
Lol hate this story format.. its so boring.. i was the perfect child, amd never bothered anyone. A real saint.. 😅😅😅
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