I am 72 I have a very active life , my grown children still lives with me and they are a great blessing, always encouraging me to try new things. I think I am one of the lucky ones
Grateful children who live with their grandparents respect & treat them very well are God sent .Also adults who care for their parents in their golden years are the best second generations there is !!!😂❤ Jora
My wife & I are past 75 years of age; but my 39 yr. old son, he is a nurse, still enjoy living w/ us. This is super existence as senior citizens here in America with an old fashion mentality offspring !!!❤😊 Jora
There are still old fashion Americans ,with old fashion culture & they take care of their old folks in their golden years! I give them my big salute & praise !!!❤😊 Jora
Well said!!! Raised my daughter, helped raise my Grandbabies and still helping, lost my hubby to sudden death , after being together 40 years, it will be 1 year in a few months since he has been gone , griveing has made me stronger , with a lot of self improvement, i am retired at 66, now !!! it is my time to live what life i have here on this earth do exactly what I want too, God is good as I continue walking and following his direction on this new Journey !!! Peace Everyone!
I am 83, living with my daughter and her family is a blessing,grateful for their caring and thoughtfulness, cant hear any complain, my son in law is a blessing to consider him my best friend, so thankful to God for all the blessings. God bless us all.❤❤❤
I’m 77years young and I’m having a good life I’m enjoying good health enjoy my freedom I’ve finally distant myself from my adult children I miss them and my grandchildren who live in another country from me life can be lonely here in the winter in Ireland but I always make walking a priority having a car gives me freedom to travel to places that I like to visit and I always find nice people to talk with I avoid senior citizen activities because I don’t find interacting with people who only talk about their health and grandchildren I love younger people and children and I chat to them about their interesting lives
By the tone of your comment, it is best you avoid people…I’m sure you are insufferable to be around for any length of time. At your age it is probably too late, but I find a sense of humour serves a person well.
I congratulate you! I feel the same way about illness and grandchildren conversations. Keep up the good work! And keep enjoying your life, your good health and your beautiful island! Love you!
@@Katrn30 What is wrong with you? Didn't your mother tell you that unless you have something nice to say, say nothing? I think Eleanor is amazing. She knows exactly who she is, and what she needs in her life. I have never joined any senior groups, either, and never will. I also do not depend on my grown kids, and they can not depend on me, or take me for granted. I am done raising them. I have a life, and I deserve to do what makes me happy. I think Eleanor feels the same.
🙌 This video is spot on! I'm over 60 and I wish I had heard this advice years ago. It's so important to surround yourself with positive and supportive people as you get older. 🙏 Thanks for sharing this wisdom! 💖
Know one thing. Physically we all have slowed down, but church life remains the same, for He is ever NEW. Thank God for this life. Enjoy every minute of it. Amen.
I am 66 years old and I am same as Natalia !!! 🙏💕 thank God I found this video I need more encouragement to make the step I am trying to make for a long time…
Motivational and real experience of life after 60.. very well explained..few have courage to bring out the real facts of life.. nicely put into words.. keep motivating.👌👌
Thank you for your help, this is my story. I'm living with my daughter... It's not what I wanted, but circumstances had made me make that decision. I'm not happy with my live , sick and depending on my daughter was not my plan for my elderly years. She is a single mom with a 13 years old . She divorced her husband because a bipolar condition , it was a nightmare living together.. She works hard and have to travel a lot. I'm the one who stay at home and take care of my grandson and the dog. I'm on charge of running the house practically. I have some time for myself to watch my programs f I have time, but that's about it. She travels a lot!! My grandson is sweet to me but being a teenager , his live is after going to school, chatting with friends or playing online. My daughter is always complaining about everything and I'm sick just to hearing her yelling at her son or yelling at me. I don't have an alternative, because I have no money to rent an apartment. And I love my grandson, who is going to take care of him ???
😮Prayer helps! Try it. Your daughter may be frustrated with work or the boss maybe expecting more of her, talk to your daughter and ask her why she is always yelling at her son and you when she is home, something is bothering her. Talk! Talk! Talk and then more talk!😇🙏🙏🙏❤
She is yelling because she is tired - maybe working at her job requires her to work 12-14 Hours with no breaks for lunch Etc. Then she has no energy to show you love or her son love. She maybe unaware she Even yelling. I am sure she appreciates and loves you and her son . Is her job demanding . Pray and ask God to help you with this issue. Than you for your wonderful love you have for her your daughter, your grandson. Such a wonderful family. God Bless you and bring you All peace.
Children weren’t asked to be born ! You parent(s)wanted them , as I am one too. I wanted a child and they don’t stop being your child (children) just because they grow up. You still need to be there for them when they need you from time to time so they still have the sense of belong to who can support them mentally when you can’t do both (financially) that’s my opinion as a mother to my over 20 yrs old son. When I can’t support him financially at least I can support him mentally 😊 and he knows that.
I am 78 retired public sch, Teacher. Its my RULE to my 3kids in der High sch years that if THEY GET married THEY will be OUT and LIVE a LIFE of Der OWN thats AN ORDER.!!! Now I am ALONE,BUSY in MY CHURCH Works. PRIVACY makes me HAPPY. SILENCE & SOLITUDE with GOD.Amen
I am nearly 70 and have raised seven children. Everything you say has resonated with me. The problem is that after all these years, now I have the freedom to do what I want and go where where I want I just don’t know where to start 😢
Hi Angela, hope you are OK. Do you need a professor to support you in what you want to acheive? Please see your GP and request to see a Psychologist or a Social Worker who may be able to help you find out about clubs and network groups to meet new people but also they can help you plan other things.
Baby steps…👣 Sometimes being on your own with your own thoughts can be uncomfortable, but don’t fight the discomfort, sit with it for a while, let it be a more familiar feeling. Maybe go out for a meandering walk by yourself at a nearby park for the sole purpose of being alone with your thoughts? You can set a time limit. After a few times, your thoughts might solidify to a few ideas on what you might like to try out in this new phase of your life. Whatever you decide upon, give it time like 3-6 months because they are new to you and you are out of your comfort zone. And remember, you are allowed to change your mind 😊
@@Harmony-f3i She doesn't need a professor or a psychologist, or a PG or a social worker! Every church, or senior center, have social clubs. They are all online! Good luck, Angela.
I agree! I am almost 77, and I don't feel old at all. At least not yet! I do everything I have done my whole adult life, maybe a bit slower. I am on my own, and enjoy my life more than ever. 60 is quite young, but you must take care of yourself, by not smoking, or drinking, or overeating, or sitting too much. Engaging in physical activities, having a rich social life, eating nutritious food, getting enough sleep, living a stress free life, getting rid of toxic people, and having a positive outlook at life is a key to a healthy aging.
This reminds me of the parable of the 10 virgins (5 wise 5 foolish who always took life from others). There comes a time there's no more for those who only take. I'm 70 and this is all very true, I don't have the energy anymore. Not sure it was ever a good idea to bear some people as long as I did but no more...
I am 65 and have my 95 and 94 year old parents living with my husband and I. I love thrm but I work so much even though they have their caretakers. They pull all my energy with their illnesses and demencial behavior. My husband and I are exhausted and we have an unhappy relation now. I suffer of cronic pain and three autoimune diseases.My sisters live in Canada and deal with her own problems...my parents are not their concern. I manage my parents money and everyday lives. My husband and I have started to travel to see our medical doctor in Boston more often. We have started to think to live with he and his wife, we are very lonely people socially partly because we have been taking carevmy parens for 8 years. I can not see myself living with my husband. He has developed an explosive character...I an at a point of burn out but I dont want to give my own problem to my only child!! 22:43 hild
I truly understand I'm 68 and really trying to get my husband to understand so much we can do at this age our children are grown and don't depend on us we can do so much after our sacrifice with our children they are grown ❤😅
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I am 68 and living with elderly Sister and Brother In law and their Son, A toxic dysfunctional family, a complainer, clingy, cringy, complainer, posessive, religious but sinners. Psychic Vampires who suck my energy, we dont see eye to eye..😢😔.
Always have no in your vocabulary. When u get up in age, and may not have family, where u r retired, u can be put, in a vulnerable position. If a manipulative person comes along, and asks u for money, soda, chips, more than once, in a month, dont let them in your house. They want to use u
I am 72 I have a very active life , my grown children still lives with me and they are a great blessing, always encouraging me to try new things. I think I am one of the lucky ones
I too am blessed to have adult children who treats me well have their own homes. I'm living my best life with no regrets.
Grateful children who live with their grandparents respect & treat them very well are God sent .Also adults who care for their parents in their golden years are the best second
generations there is !!!😂❤ Jora
My wife & I are past 75 years of age; but my 39 yr. old son, he is a nurse, still enjoy living w/ us. This is super existence
as senior citizens here in America with an old fashion mentality offspring !!!❤😊
Jora
There are still old fashion Americans ,with old fashion culture & they take care of their old folks in their golden years! I give them my big salute & praise !!!❤😊
Jora
Some are not very lucky..
😂
Thank God. I'm so glad I am living my life for
ME and very satisfied with it. I maybe alone but definitely not lonely.
Well said!!! Raised my daughter, helped raise my Grandbabies and still helping,
lost my hubby to sudden death , after being together 40 years, it will be 1 year in a few months since he has been gone , griveing has made me stronger , with a lot of self improvement, i am retired at 66, now !!! it is my time to live what life i have here on this earth do exactly what I want too, God is good as I continue walking and following his direction on this new Journey !!! Peace Everyone!
Well said n Good Advice
I am 83, living with my daughter and her family is a blessing,grateful for their caring and thoughtfulness, cant hear any complain, my son in law is a blessing to consider him my best friend, so thankful to God for all the blessings.
God bless us all.❤❤❤
My kids are not "somebody else" and if I can help them somehow I will always do it.
TQ for your sharing. It is a good reminder for all of us to be responsible for our own life and happiness. ❤
To the beautiful souls here, may your life be filled with purpose, happiness, and peace. Sending you blessings of success! 💫
Amen. Thank you. I wish you the same. 🙏 🤲🏻 ❤
I’m 77years young and I’m having a good life I’m enjoying good health enjoy my freedom I’ve finally distant myself from my adult children I miss them and my grandchildren who live in another country from me life can be lonely here in the winter in Ireland but I always make walking a priority having a car gives me freedom to travel to places that I like to visit and I always find nice people to talk with I avoid senior citizen activities because I don’t find interacting with people who only talk about their health and grandchildren I love younger people and children and I chat to them about their interesting lives
By the tone of your comment, it is best you avoid people…I’m sure you are insufferable to be around for any length of time. At your age it is probably too late, but I find a sense of humour serves a person well.
I congratulate you! I feel the same way about illness and grandchildren conversations. Keep up the good work! And keep enjoying your life, your good health and your beautiful island! Love you!
@@Katrn30insuferrable? You are Not serious right?
@@araucana1976 totally serious…you sound like a jerk.
@@Katrn30 What is wrong with you? Didn't your mother tell you that unless you have something nice to say, say nothing? I think Eleanor is amazing. She knows exactly who she is, and what she needs in her life. I have never joined any senior groups, either, and never will. I also do not depend on my grown kids, and they can not depend on me, or take me for granted. I am done raising them. I have a life, and I deserve to do what makes me happy. I think Eleanor feels the same.
I wish everyone who reads the comments after watching this meaningful video always peace, happiness and success!❤❤
Thankyou for that very encouraging and powerful teaching that I enjoyed listening to, I am 63 now and that helps me.
🙌 This video is spot on! I'm over 60 and I wish I had heard this advice years ago. It's so important to surround yourself with positive and supportive people as you get older. 🙏 Thanks for sharing this wisdom! 💖
Know one thing. Physically we all have slowed down, but church life remains the same, for He is ever NEW. Thank God for this life. Enjoy every minute of it. Amen.
You made my day, thank you.
There are always negative people in our life. Some even discourage us doing charitable work😢. They can’t be alone.
I am 66 years old and I am same as Natalia !!! 🙏💕 thank God I found this video I need more encouragement to make the step I am trying to make for a long time…
A very educational message.🎉
❤@Peace with myself & the World around ME!!!!
Motivational and real experience of life after 60.. very well explained..few have courage to bring out the real facts of life.. nicely put into words.. keep motivating.👌👌
Very good tips ❤
Beautiful...thanks for your video ❤
Thanks channel, the sharing is very useful, we would like to learn and spread
That's what happens to me thank you for reminding me 🙏
Thank you for your help, this is my story. I'm living with my daughter... It's not what I wanted, but circumstances had made me make that decision. I'm not happy with my live , sick and depending on my daughter was not my plan for my elderly years.
She is a single mom with a 13 years old . She divorced her husband because a bipolar condition , it was a nightmare living together.. She works hard and have to travel a lot. I'm the one who stay at home and take care of my grandson and the dog. I'm on charge of running the house practically. I have some time for myself to watch my programs f I have time, but that's about it. She travels a lot!! My grandson is sweet to me but being a teenager , his live is after going to school, chatting with friends or playing online. My daughter is always complaining about everything and I'm sick just to hearing her yelling at her son or yelling at me. I don't have an alternative, because I have no money to rent an apartment. And I love my grandson, who is going to take care of him ???
Pour love on your daughter n she will change. Continue to live with hwe. Place some indoor plants in your home.
😮Prayer helps! Try it. Your daughter may be frustrated with work or the boss maybe expecting more of her, talk to your daughter and ask her why she is always yelling at her son and you when she is home, something is bothering her. Talk! Talk! Talk and then more talk!😇🙏🙏🙏❤
@rosannaburgess714 Thank you! ❤️
Her yelling seems she's frustrated taking care of the son and you living there.
She is yelling because she is tired - maybe working at her job requires her to work 12-14
Hours with no breaks for lunch
Etc. Then she has no energy to show you love or her son love. She maybe unaware she
Even yelling. I am sure she appreciates and loves you and her son . Is her job demanding . Pray and ask God to help you with this issue.
Than you for your wonderful love you have for her your daughter, your grandson.
Such a wonderful family.
God Bless you and bring you
All peace.
Awesome video 👍🙏💖
Thank you for sharing this reminder ..
More power ..
It was a pleasure to care for my mother until she finished her assignment on earth
Surly they will want someone to take care of themselves 🎉
Thank you for a reminder.
Children weren’t asked to be born ! You parent(s)wanted them , as I am one too. I wanted a child and they don’t stop being your child (children) just because they grow up. You still need to be there for them when they need you from time to time so they still have the sense of belong to who can support them mentally when you can’t do both (financially) that’s my opinion as a mother to my over 20 yrs old son. When I can’t support him financially at least I can support him mentally 😊 and he knows that.
I am 78 retired public sch, Teacher. Its my RULE to my 3kids in der High sch years that if THEY GET married THEY will be OUT and LIVE a LIFE of Der OWN thats AN ORDER.!!! Now I am ALONE,BUSY in MY CHURCH Works. PRIVACY makes me HAPPY. SILENCE & SOLITUDE with GOD.Amen
❤😊 thanks for sharing your words of wisdom good to know
Thank you for this great advise... A lesson to learn too 😊
Thank you, for your video.
- fellow Buddhist 😊
Mediation, exercise, and being alone are blessings. Help by pointing these centering practices and the exit😊
Teaching is beautiful ❤❤❤❤
Thank you very much for sharing ❤❤❤
Good video thanks.
I am nearly 70 and have raised seven children. Everything you say has resonated with me. The problem is that after all these years, now I have the freedom to do what I want and go where where I want I just don’t know where to start 😢
Hi Angela, hope you are OK. Do you need a professor to support you in what you want to acheive? Please see your GP and request to see a Psychologist or a Social Worker who may be able to help you find out about clubs and network groups to meet new people but also they can help you plan other things.
Better late than never,go ahead & start off...
Baby steps…👣
Sometimes being on your own with your own thoughts can be uncomfortable, but don’t fight the discomfort, sit with it for a while, let it be a more familiar feeling.
Maybe go out for a meandering walk by yourself at a nearby park for the sole purpose of being alone with your thoughts? You can set a time limit.
After a few times, your thoughts might solidify to a few ideas on what you might like to try out in this new phase of your life.
Whatever you decide upon, give it time like 3-6 months because they are new to you and you are out of your comfort zone. And remember, you are allowed to change your mind 😊
Very good advice. One love jean
@@Harmony-f3i She doesn't need a professor or a psychologist, or a PG or a social worker! Every church, or senior center, have social clubs. They are all online! Good luck, Angela.
Wisdom risks experiences are guidance to emerging freedoms by growth
very good
I am 66 and I must say 60+ is not elderly. 60 is the new 40😊😊.
I agree! I am almost 77, and I don't feel old at all. At least not yet! I do everything I have done my whole adult life, maybe a bit slower. I am on my own, and enjoy my life more than ever. 60 is quite young, but you must take care of yourself, by not smoking, or drinking, or overeating, or sitting too much. Engaging in physical activities, having a rich social life, eating nutritious food, getting enough sleep, living a stress free life, getting rid of toxic people, and having a positive outlook at life is a key to a healthy aging.
Amen
You said things right to the points Tks
This reminds me of the parable of the 10 virgins (5 wise 5 foolish who always took life from others). There comes a time there's no more for those who only take. I'm 70 and this is all very true, I don't have the energy anymore. Not sure it was ever a good idea to bear some people as long as I did but no more...
I am 65 and have my 95 and 94 year old parents living with my husband and I. I love thrm but I work so much even though they have their caretakers. They pull all my energy with their illnesses and demencial behavior. My husband and I are exhausted and we have an unhappy relation now. I suffer of cronic pain and three autoimune diseases.My sisters live in Canada and deal with her own problems...my parents are not their concern. I manage my parents money and everyday lives. My husband and I have started to travel to see our medical doctor in Boston more often. We have started to think to live with he and his wife, we are very lonely people socially partly because we have been taking carevmy parens for 8 years. I can not see myself living with my husband. He has developed an explosive character...I an at a point of burn out but I dont want to give my own problem to my only child!! 22:43 hild
That’s tough gin. I hope you can find some peace. It’s important for you to take care of yourself and have some time for yourself too.
I'm 66 very healty and happy no drugs, no drogas im always looking for something new, no one Telles me what to do
Thank you ❤ Amen 🙏
I truly understand I'm 68 and really trying to get my husband to understand so much we can do at this age our children are grown and don't depend on us we can do so much after our sacrifice with our children they are grown ❤😅
Thanks. 🤓😇💖
Thanks
Annoing the slow movement of the picture
Very advise
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Thank you so much for all of this ❤️🙏 for reminding things that are totally resonating my life i do love what you've said 😊
Whether you are 60 or over, don’t live with a husband who throws tantrums! 😅
Moving on is the biggest mistake when you become older !!!
How so? Moving on is the best advice. Life is all about changes. Find something you like to do, and go for it. Have fun!
❤ZTY for this message, U pretty n red..Peace & Love...🫶😤🙏🙏🩵✌️💪
I am 68 and living with elderly Sister and Brother In law and their Son, A toxic dysfunctional family, a complainer, clingy, cringy, complainer, posessive, religious but sinners. Psychic Vampires who suck my energy, we dont see eye to eye..😢😔.
Maybe you should detach yourself 😊
I am happy with my cats.
The woman at time 1:08 has six fingers on her right hand. Does anyone else see this?
Thanks for your advice please l too need club to go to ginger my body
I am a life piggy but no longer running the streets no more hoods or busts free as water
If u have a chronic pain its a struggle not feeling young anymore
Always have no in your vocabulary. When u get up in age, and may not have family, where u r retired, u can be put, in a vulnerable position. If a manipulative person comes along, and asks u for money, soda, chips, more than once, in a month, dont let them in your house. They want to use u
I say NO if I don’t like 🎉🎉🎉
You are not elderly until 80
It's good 🎉
I,have,5yrs,experience.
Is there really such a nun's outfit in tibet? I visited there couple of dozens times and never met any religious women as you are displaying here.
actualy i feel drained, tired, worn out; dealt with a controller, frankly the guy was an idiot with a lot of watches...needless to say it clashed
That beautiful old Asian lady made me finish the video too bad she’s not real
your wrong for this lmao
I’m trying to take your video seriously but really? Elderly women with bodies of 20 year old?
Agree. 2 assumptions
ChatGPT4. Or good photoshop tools
She has a good plastic procedures
However, it does make people feel “want to be”.
Am all ear
I could not live with you. So much complaining. Just smile and count your blessings 😊😊😊.
By the way, the content of this channel is good but why used much younger body to old figure, not match 😊
LUV THIS❤❤❤SO TRUE ❤
Exactly, I don't play house,:is called fornication,, as far as living with a lover, it would have to be a husband!!!!!!
I can say, you're an adult now.
Marriage of 59 years with complainer!!!
Sick people! The whiners!
You lost me at the intimacy talk. No thx