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I've been looking for non-biased information for soo long but it's almost impossible on youtube especially on these same topics, thanks for the recommendation Blaire :)
I'm glad that you are working with GROUND news, because they provide balance news, unlike MSM! Thank you as always, Blaire. Keep up the fantastic work! 💟
45 yr. old, Bi female who is NOT a girly girl. When I was growing up we were called Tom Boys, if I grew up today they would have told me I was trans. I am NOT trans, I'm just a woman who happens to like traditional male things. My heart breaks for children today.
I was effeminate as a child and still am in some ways, I suppose. I'm just a gay man. I don't know how we went from progressive views on gender and then after the 2010s we somehow reverted back to this over-simplified, rigid idea of what it means to be a man or a woman. It can't be led by science because any critical thinking tears it apart. It's greed and ego, like they said in the video.
My son (16) was asked if he was "questioning his identity" by his school counsellor. He told her "No, I'm not". She then started hounding him about it for the next few days. When he refused to give her the answer she wanted, she called me about it. I asked her why she thought that, and was shocked by her reply - " Well, he does have long hair, so I'm concerned he's not being honest with himself". My son has a mullet! And so do ALL my son's, who are EXTREMELY masculine! I complained to the school about her. She lost her job not long after, and is now crying "Discrimination"! 🤦🏼 I'm glad someone who IS trans like yourself can see just how ridiculous this has become, and I love your honesty in regards to this. Thanks Blair! 😘🇭🇲
@@Ariana-wv4pf Define appropriate haircut bc it's up for everyone to decide😊 I'm happy to hear that everything turned out well Samantha! But that's insane! But imagine how busy School councellors would have been trying to convince young healthy men that they're are female if this scenario took place in end of 70's but otherwise 80's and 90's😂 It was after all extremely popular primarily due to bands, whom also had long hair - men & woman🤣
I work at an insurance company and I started looking for another job after finding out a man with cancer can’t get his testosterone approved because it doesn’t meet the guidelines, but gender dysphoria was an approved diagnosis
This comment right here. Men can’t get testosterone and women can’t get hormone shots for real medical issues because of guidelines and “ethics” yet they have no problem giving them to children.
Yikes. And there you have it. Obviously this is just a comment with no proof but I don’t doubt it. I know some friends, sick friends, that can’t get certain health coverage but T get everything at a snap of a finger.
I'm a detrans kid, and honestly, my transition ruined me socially and mentally for a LONG time. Every time someone misgenders me now since not everyone knows I am detransitioned, it is like a reminder of my mistakes and how people around me failed to care enough to stop me. I'm completely all for transitioning. It's a beautiful thing that people have access to that and that it makes them happy, but I was 11... and I was still allowed to do that to myself. Yes I take responsibility for some of that experience, but I was in psychosis and mentally unstable during my transition the WHOLE TIME and people knew that. I just think it's cruel.
💛🫂 I'm so sorry you weren't protected the way you deserved to be. I'm so sorry that everyone who was supposed to look out for your best interest failed you.
I really hope you come to understand that you were a child and were completely taken advantage of. You had no idea what was going on. Children cannot give consent. I pray you come to love yourself, mistakes, faults and all. It makes us who we are. We all go on a journey and some things we do as kids will haunt us forever, but remember, we were just kids. Thank you for being strong. Many more healthy years for you honey
Hugs! My heart breaks when I hear this is happening to children. It’s not your fault. Several adults in your life failed you. I hope you find peace, happiness, and comfort.
Wow, 11? I think the people that pushed it for you likely thought they were doing you a favor. It is very popular to claim if the kid isn't transitioned, they'll end it all. So it's not exactly true that they cared nothing for you and didn't look out for you. They thought they were. And I'm not on their side, in case that's how that looks.
Real trans people with real diagnosed BDD/dysphoria have to go through years of proper therapy. Even then it's only a small percentage and most are still not happy with the results. It's not good to do in any case.
Years ago, I never had a problem with gay, trans etc... You do you. In the recent years I got so sick of it all because, as a woman for the last 60 yrs, I was offended with bearded men wearing dresses wanting to be accepted as women. Women being belittled and mocked by these men. Seeing men try to breastfeed, oufff. But, you Blaire White are the perfect example of a real and true trans woman. I do have respect for you and I do watch your channel. You have respect for others and you are out there trying to help. Keep it going! xxxooo
"Why do we have to try to look like a woman, we are women" No, you're not. If you want to transition, you need to TRANSITION. If you can't put in the work to get where you want to be, you don't deserve to be where you are. I 100% agree with you.
You dont hate gays or trans, you hate the people who are part of that cult. It includes also straight people and a lot of them are straight girls. Even me as a gay man i cant stand them anymore, and ive been surrounded by the community for the most part of my life and let me tell you that TODAY its 100% a cult, and not a cute one. They are anarchists who want to destroy every concept known to mankind and reshape it as they please. Weaponizing empathy at every occasion they have. They best we can do is to ignore them or to not show weakness when they confront us
@@slightlydapperdwarf49I agree! I do think personally that even if you fully transition you are still a trans woman, but I will happily call people like Blaire she, it feels like the only logical option, but I will not do the same for these bearded boys in dresses who say that words alone are enough to make them safe around us. Blaire can use my bathroom space anytime ❤ but a full on man in a dress will make me feel unsafe because I don’t want masculine energy in my safe and private feminine space.
That guy who stood up just to encourage Blaire to never give up and to praise her efforts was totally awesome and to remind her we've got her back. We do not have enough of those people in today's world who openly praise the fight for Truth. That was very cool of him.
The fight for truth? The truth is that Blair White is a man who went through a ton of plastic surgery to look like a woman. He may be an effeminate gay, it he will NEVER be a woman. That’s the hard truth that dishonest and delusional people can’t grasp. The truth.
It was never "the dress" it was how I was expected to act in the dress. Act like a lady even tho you're only 2-10. Sit and be an object instead of playing, getting dirty, and just being a child. But that first lady does resonate with me so much. If I were a kid now this would be so confusing.
Have a friend who knows someone with autism that's trans. They really despise the way they look. It's definitely a sensory issue. The crazy thing is, they're in a relationship with someone who is gay. Now, his friend who is trans does NOT believe in letting children change their sex and believes they're not mentally able to decide at such a young age, but their boyfriend, does and they're constantly at heads with the issue. It's wild seeing actual trans people fighting against child abuse while their counterparts are cheering it on.
It’s genuinely insane. I have plenty of trans/queer friends who advocate for not allowing children to transition for so many reasons, but I ALSO have plenty of straight, non-trans friends who believe that kids should be allowed to medically transition… it’s absurd.
Bi female 46 who just found out I'm High functioning Autistic.. the sensory issue comment hit hard. That scratchy shit under girls dresses should be considered a form of torture.
I was a kid in the 50s and 60s. Those cotton girls dresses had scratchy netting under them to make the skirts stand out fuller. Awful! I tearfully refused to wear some of my dresses and tried to argue. Surprisingly, one day, my mother got scissors out and cut out all the scratchy netting. Problem solved.
@seraphimknight3754 crazy coincidence, I wish I was better with sewing and patterns. I just thought about this a couple weeks ago. I'm too old to still have a total melt down over a seem in my socks.
Same here with the first girl and her sensory issues. It wasn't always a problem with dresses, it was fabrics, seams, certain styles/fit of clothing. Also had major problems with loud noises and any unexpected changes to our plans. I know I made my mom's life really difficult at times. But fortunately she listened when I kept saying that certain shirts were painful to wear and she let me pick out things that didn't hurt.
with that second question ," why do you think Doctors lean into this" there's also another element here. it's socially safe. there's not likely going to be much backlash for a doctor. prescribing a treatment to transition someone over denying that transition. they're more likely to get problems if they attempt to deny it
And the ones that really don't want to usually just punt them to a gender specialist so they don't have to take responsibility. They're just like that's out of my expertise.
One side calls it transgender, i call it roleplaying. A child roleplaying to get a better understanding of the world. Once they get a basic understanding of men and women, then they build on the learning on being what their sex is.
Gender dysphoria is a real issue that real trans people experience and struggle with. It's not as simple as roleplay, which a lot of today's alleged trans youth appear to display, and hence the detransitioner phenomena. there's so much misrepresentation of real trans people by the current alphabet movement.
Literally I was a confuse middle school kid who thought I was a boy. Eventually came to the conclusion that I wasn’t a boy because I like pink and make up. weird I know but it worked. I feel like if I was a kid right now that wouldn’t have happened.
@@TariqNavabiGamingi dont think they meant real trans people but literal children being labelled as trans without understanding what gender really is and once they grow up a bit and understand themselves better then they can make those decisions on their own
I thought I was a trans male from the ages 12-14 ish, but I was just active in the wrong part of the internet and being convinced that I was a male. I remember my parents being so confused about where it was coming from. I'm almost 30 now and happily a (very girly) woman.
Same thing happened to me but it was for like 7 yesrs, it was pushed so much by my family, doctors, and just people online that I felt so pressured to be seen as a boy but I never once told anyone to call me he, son, or brother but they do and I'm so uncomfortable but I'm so scared to tell them to stop and I just don't want to have to explain my existence to them, I wish they would just stop, I'm not a fucking boy, I'm just a lesbian! Sorry for the rant but it sucks
This happened to so many of my friends. It really was (and probably still is) such a common and encouraged path for insecure, young teenage girls in certain internet circles and fandoms. Such a strange and destructive social contagion.
To realize you’d been lied to and allowed to irreparably harm your own body is something I cannot imagine. How devastating… and then to have the “community” turn on you for trying to course correct is absolutely appalling! 😢
It took my therapist a long time to properly diagnose me. I'm very grateful for that. Symptoms can overlap. As Arielle said, they're throwing a blanket over the real issues....
everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda. the second story hit really close to home. it’s crazy how easy it is to misdiagnose someone with bpd and a developing ed (often comorbid with bpd) and just say that they’re trans. that’s what happened to me and living as a trans guy for years since i was 16 just made me develop an ed faster and ruined my mental health further. 27 now and still struggling with body dysmorphia and going back to therapy every time i start thinking i “actually might be trans” (i know i’m not, it just means i’m getting unstable again) over and over again
I think the people who think that "If you like girl things then you must be a girl" or vice versa are sexist. Just because you are a girl who likes sports does not mean you are a boy and just because a boy may want to play with a doll, does not mean he is a girl.
I thought I was a boy when I was 6. I didn’t have the vocabulary to say I saw myself as not looking feminine. But it got bad, I started wishing I had a penis. That lasted a year and I’m so happy nothing happened. My mom is progressive and on the left but she wouldn’t let me lean into it. Now I’m a very happy woman. I love love living as a woman. It makes me so sad how many detransitioners there are whose life’s are forever changed for the worst.
It concerns me that young women are especially vulnerable to being mistakenly directed into the trans catagory, given that autism is harder to detect in women.
I had a friend who I grew up with who identified as female from birth to 17y/o. She is autistic and you could almost immediately tell. So I wasn't surprised to hear that she medically transitioned which was weirdly okayed by her physician and eventually went on to date another autistic trans person she met during treatment. This is ridiculous.
Borderline PD is wild. For me it felt like living in a film set, had to change my personality to fit in with whatever scene was playing. I'm under a management plan now but I absolutely could have been convinced that I was xyz because my lack of identity would cling to anything. Love to all dealing with any and all mental health conditions ❤
Remember the question on jubilee about what Blair did for her community.... This is the answer and it's only a portion of the people she helped because some of her fans aren't in the US.
I have two daughters an 11 year old and a six year old My six year old for the last 4 years has completely resented any idea of dressed , pink, foo foo girly things … This year she has embraced dresses and make up and hair accessories… for the longest time I said oh man she’s a Tom boy and the last two months she’s done a total 180 it just goes to show that children don’t know what they want they’re discovering so much through out their adolescence and it’s important as a parent to not push anything on the cause with the snap of a finger they could change their mind
Oh my god! That first lady! I just want to hug her! (I'm an autistic female, I don't look, sound or dress 100 per cent that way, and I've always struggled to understand what the whole being female thing is all about- and I've even had little shit kids stop dead in their tracks, in the street, to look at me and ask "are you a girl, or a boy?") ...that's all :) I just really wanted to express that here, in a safe space ;)
@livviebrundle I've found tons of people don't understand the experience of looking naturally androgynous. There's lots of folks who try to make themselves *intentionally* androgynous (such as a girl getting a "boy" haircut etc). But it's a whole entire thing to get the "are you a girl or a boy?" quiz when you're just walking around being obliviously yourself. I've struggled myself to explain it to people.
It was an absolute honor and privilege to see you and speak to you at your show, Blaire 💙 God's beloved Daughter, God's beloved son. *hugs* I sincerely hope we meet again
My daughter has said she wants to be a boy. When i asked why, she said it was because only boys can play minecraft and wear boys clothes. I told her that girls can absolutely wear boys clothes and play minecraft. It was obvious to me that she went to school and some other kid told her what she could and couldn't do.
She will continue to be told this, and because she is young it can easily influence or discourage her. Even at my age as a tomboy I get concerned folks who tell me I shouldn’t do this or that. Hence why many of today’s tomboys feel pressured to transition.
I talk to my children openly about homosexuality, transexuality and all the important things. We’ve been talking sex, periods, sexuality, gender from a young age. I feel like my children are prepared. We also live in a conservative part of California. Thank god.
@@Ennaitakbelieve it or not yes. Maybe not as conservative as some other parts of the country, but is mountain folk love guns and god. Blair is from CA!
@@keashablew7728 I've known quite a few conservatives from CA, including currently one of my sisters and her husband. They all say the same thing. It's the folks in SoCal who are a bag of fruits and nuts. LOL
I have always been this way with my kids! My twins are 16 male and female. My female has always been a tomboy and my male always feminine. They have homeschooled since 6th grade because things in my county were out of hand. My female is still tomboy but loves her nails done and wants to be a mom, my sweet boy finally came out gay about a year ago. (My momma heart always knew). Openess, conversation, and understanding are 100% a must as a parent in today's world to keep from the confusion around. My son recently thanked me for sitting and talking him through the time he thought he was "trans" and not allowing Dr intervention before having long heartfelt conversations and not attacking him.
@keashablew7728 I know Blaire is from CA, but to my understanding, she was from a more liberal part and that a conservative Californian is like finding a unicorn lol
I remember wanting to be a boy cuz my older bro (just 1 yr older) got to be comfy at parties and run around. I had to wear a dress and "don't rip your stockings, don't dirty your dress, don't bend down and show your panties, be careful!" The moment i was allowed to pick my own clothes at 10, it was nothing but flare jeans, tshirts, sneakers. He was allowed to sleep over at friends, got his own set of keys at 9, was put in charge of me when out. He was ONLY 1 yr older. I didn't get my first set of keys till hs. All because he was a boy
I’m a late diagnosed autistic/adhd adult (woman), and I know for a fact I would’ve been dragged into the whole trans thing if I was a child these days. It breaks my heart seeing so many kids and young adults these days who are clearly just autistic and confused, being brainwashed into thinking there is something wrong with them. Or they have weak support systems that don’t teach how to navigate life, like I did Throughout my entire childhood I thought there was something “wrong” with me as a person, not knowing the majority of my struggles were due to being autistic. I didn’t have a good support system, I had no one that understood me and I was being constantly gaslit by the medical industry into thinking I was mentally ill I was pressured to take medication I didn’t need, which I genuinely believe have scrambled my brain to the point of no return. I have never felt the same mentally after being put on countless anti-that’s and anti-this’s. If only I had ONE person back then in my life to step up and help me, someone who could recognize my very obvious, autistic struggles. But no one did. Everyone made excuses or turned their back on me because it was too hard to admit I was different. I blame society for placing so much pressure on everyone to be exactly the same and treating everyone like cogs in the machine If you don’t fit in completely or fit the “mold” that society has created, you’re labelled as sick or mentally unstable. YOU have to change, when society should be changing
It's a great insight because a lot of times kids just say that because they just want to wear pants because they're more comfortable. They want to be comfortable. It's not because they really think they're a boy. They don't understand.
My daughter always fought with me about her school uniform. She hated the skirts. Finally I asked her why, and she said "They flap around my legs and it feels weird." She didn't get her ASD diagnosis until she was 18.
WAS NOT expecting ME to be the first thing I saw when I clicked on this video holy shit! Thank you Blaire and Arielle for hearing my concerns and answering my question!!!!🥹🙌🏻💞💞💞💞 I also meant 4-5 not 2-3 years old (I was superrrrrr nervous)
I absolutely feel you there How nervous I'd be I can't even imagine myself up there, let alone getting my words out how I mean, I barely do when I'm _not_ nervous
I’m a late diagnosed autistic woman and I don’t feel “unique” and never have. I feel ostracized, even as an adult. I’ve been bullied heavily, scapegoated at work and school, ridiculed just for existing, you name it. It’s a disability. It’s not “uniqueness.” Yes, I am different. But isn’t everyone? Even if my uniqueness is praised by the few people who love and care for me, what does that matter when most of society treats me like I’m undeserving of basic human respect or dignity?
They are disservicing people when they made it a "spectrum", added a bunch of diffrent types of people with diffrent labels and needs, and then got lazy and slapped it as a general diagnosis catch all.
i see what you're saying, but, this is not the way to go about it. autism is a disability, and a pretty severe one at that for autistic people with level 2 & 3 autism. people need a diagnosis and support to survive (more education, therapies, learning how to manage and support sensory sensitivities, difficulty with routines & hygiene, etc.) it's not only a "uniqueness". yes, there are charming aspects that people with disabilities have, but we can't only focus on that because they'd never get the proper support they deserve. those two things can actually be mutually exclusive and it's better to recognize this for their safety and wellbeing 😁
Ok so the girl in the beginning & I share that we both thought we were boys as kids. Had it been today they would have convinced me at least to transition and that scares me. I am a woman and love being one as an adult and I would be emotionally ruined now had I ruined that opportunity to be ME & have my son. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria as a kid and went through STABILIZATION therapy(which is not like conversion therapy 🙄)which is neutral. They don’t ever convince for or against transition bc it’s the last resort not an idea upfront that you take the very consequence filled void that is transitioning physically, health, mental health, & how even if those would be ok, if you’re not stable in your mental health you can’t do something like transitioning bc it only an external change. Your brain still is sick if you don’t handle that first! and they don’t come at you for appearing to be, which means managing mental health throughout childhood and teen hood as well as learn why you feel that way. No transitioning bc most kids, over 90% of gender dysphoria effected kid grow out of it. I did. By 13 it was gone. Most kids I let through mental health groups did as well. Only one transitioned. Let kids have the opportunity to learn who the hell they are like the rest of all humanity This was the 90s btw. Long before it was well known and was super rare which is proof it’s an ideology trend now in comparison to the good ole days when it had to be organic bc nobody even knew what it was
27 yr old bisexual registered dem but have always been a centrist ✋🏾 I was never in the lgbt community as many of them would dismiss me as being a part of the community due to being bisexual and I grew up as a major tomboy playing “male-centered” activities and started dressing girly towards the end of high school. Now, I feel like the extreme left want to erase tomboy and gay boys and make everyone trans when in fact for many many children it’s a phase to figure out what I like and don’t like. Parents don’t want to bother educating their kids anymore and it’s honestly really sad. What happened to if a child thinks they’re a girl/boy to just let them wear unisex clothing and experiment with their hair socially. Now they just want to ship them off to a doctor that can sign off on giving them meds and surgically transition instead of socially. A couple years from now I PRAY they finally see “wow this is the hill we decided to die on?”
@@SpoiledHippie I stated I’m bisexual to give context about how I feel about the lgbt community as someone that is”considered” as part of the community but in reality not and inputted registered dem to show that I’m a dem that loves everything that Blair stands for as many leftists compare Blair as a radical right when that’s not the case anyone with common sense regardless of what political party you’re into can see Blair just makes sense and says things out loud that other people are too scared to say
I know I can't be the only one who just thought trousers were more comfortable or just hated to be told "you can't do this bc you're a girl." but that doesn't mean I wanna be a boy, gosh.
This has been by far the best video you’ve ever uploaded Blaire. And no shade to all the others in the past. Seeing you and others I look up to talking about serious issues and giving straight forward, and understanding answers/advice to questions we’re all asking is so amazing. ❤❤
Biological autistic woman here, I shared a little of my story below. Feel free to ask any questions you have in the reply. I think this is a super good point this woman brought up to Blair. Autistic woman here, if it weren’t for my family protecting me, I would be a blue haired “ non-binary” thank you to Jesus for making me just the way I meant to be into my family for protecting me from the people who tried to immediately affirm my “trans identity” I’m a woman. I have a vagina, uterus and boobs just as God intended ❤
When my daughter was 12 she declared she was non-binary. I supported her and allowed her to adopt an image to go along with it. She cut her hair and wanted specific clothes. And I was fine with it. Now she is 16 and is proud to be a girl. She was going thru something and it was at the same time she hit puberty. I allowed her to figure out who she really is. That is was is needed with parents. Don't do anything permanent. I would never mutilate my child. Love your kids enough to give them time. I really respect what Blaire stands for. She is so amazing to me.
Response to the first woman that spoke: 10000% agree. I am autistic woman that found out about their diagnosis in adulthood. My (awesome) parents chose to not tell me as a child because they didn’t want me to feel different or use it as a crutch. They believed I could still achieve anything I wanted. I don’t fully agree with this approach because it caused other issues in my life versus had I known, I would have just been able to deal with it as the issues came up versus masking. However, that was my PARENTS CHOICE. I never felt like I “fit in” I had issues with clothing due to sensory issues and liked “boy” things. So if I had outsiders making me feel like I “fit in” aka GROOMING, I would have probably been groomed into the lgbtq+ world and potentially transitioning with life altering effects just because I wanted so desperately to fit in somewhere. And then ended up with even more to deal with. Yes, acknowledge mental health issues but WITHIN THE HOUSEHOLD!! NOT IN SCHOOLS!! Praise the lord I wasn’t exposed to the crap now adays as I’m a full blown homemaker loving life as a soon to be wife and hopefully someday mother as well (godwilling). All while enjoying going out shooting, golfing and watching sports with my fiance! ❤️ I’m as woman as they come. But also enjoy “man” things and that’s OKAY!! Also side note and a potentially controversial take, mental health should be talked about and observed but not shoved down children’s throats. Now adays it seems like teenage angst and NORMAL hormonal changes that cause NORMAL discomfort are making children believe and self diagnose that they’re “mentally ill”. I’d say majority are not. But they get the idea that they are because it’s shoved down their throat. In conclusion, these are all things that should be handled by ADULTS. And responsible, qualified adults to make these decisions. Period. EDIT: I see later in the video almost all of this was talked about 😅
The first lady’s comment hit hard with me. I also despised dresses, makeup, and stereotypically “feminine” clothing as a child because of my autism and sensory issues. As I grew up, I learned to love and enjoy getting dolled up every once in a while. I still don’t like form-fitting pants and shirts (take leggings or athletic wear like that, for example) but I do enjoy dressing up now, as long as I’m the one deciding what to wear and when. If I want to wear a tailored suit or a dress, it’s completely my choice. It also wasn’t always the clothes that bothered me… it was how people expected me to act while wearing them.
As someone whos been misdiagnosed as having gender dysphoria and bipolar and I was actually dealing with bpd and anxiety. I was on meds for most of my life (since 14). And I was put on medications that worsened my bpd and made me appear bipolar. Also, my therapist and psychiatrist just went along with me having gender dysphoria when it was actually a reaction to trauma and my therapist kept trying to talk about surgery. Something needs to happen because I am better now but it wasn't because of any doctors or therapists, it was my own realizations.
Protect autistic youth… I also would have been encouraged to be a boy if I was a child right now. I was a tomboy as a child, but I’m happy to be a woman now.
No teen knows who they are or feel comfortable with the changes in their mind & body. Normalizing normal again would be a good start. I'm a woman through & through & I'm not autistic & i don't like dresses except for special occasions. Jeans are comfortable & practical. I don't know where the "pressure" comes from bc even labeling it autistic to not like uncomfortable clothing is a problem. I don't like the texture of cooked vegetables... it's a preference not a mental disorder. We over corrected on the "breaking taboos about mental health" & created problems to be solved (& make money from)
More people ARE NOT speaking out against the trans movement because of consequences from the public. People have lost their jobs, friends, and family bonds over it. So when detransitioners come out and ask why didn't anyone say anything to them, this is why more people don't. Blaire has the PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, COURAGE, and NERVE and that's why she speaks out for the well being of the public ❤
There's three guys in dresses with a beard but pink long hair standing in front of you; Guy one demands you see him as a woman, because while even though you can clearly tell he's a dude with his beard, he's wearing a dress, and got pink hair and make up on, so you should recognize those feminine things and see him as a woman. Guy two demands you still see him as a man, because while even though you can clearly see he's a dude, with his beard, he's wearing a dress and got pink and make up on, and you figured you'd call him a woman, but then he got upset because "clothes are a social construct and I'm a full man wearing whatever he wants, why are you calling me a woman? Can't you see my beard, I'm clearly a man". Guy three demands you ask "them" for their pronouns and how they want to be called every time. One day they can be a dude with a dress, one day they can be a woman in a dress, another day they'll be a "xer", and if you don't ask them every time, you are erasing their existence. You simply cannot make these people happy, even if you wanted. You're always offending at least one but most times two of them by trying to facilitate the third.
The over arching problem is that the bulk of cosmetic surgery is just that, COSMETIC! Its a business not about helping people medically, but to sell services. SELL! SELL! SELL! Its about money not helping people.
I love these beautiful people attending. No crazy extremes one way or another or people screaming, just people living their lives and having conversations. Awesome
These are such important stories to hear and share. Thank you to all of those who have shared it, despite how personal and possibly embarrassing it may be, its important we hear detransitioners. The people who push things like "gender affirming care" try to assert that its so super duper rare and practically non existent, and that the channels you have to go through like doctors and psychologists to gain access to blockers/HRT/ surgery is so fool-proof and tightly sealed. Such a long a painstaking process to verify that you're a proper candidate. Then you hear stories like the second girl shared "i walked in to the gender clinic. I was asked how long I've identified as trans, and they did my bloodwork, i got my prescription". Sounds on-par with getting a medical card for weed lol. To hear people just come out and share "I was that kid that went down that road at a young age, im older now,and I regret it. No one stopped me from getting it" is so unbelievably valuable to the conversation. Thank you all for sharing.
I love how you talk about how when people are (in simple terms) good or bad, that comes out in their face, and it's just so clear because of how BEAUTIFUL every single one of your supporters are!! Each of the speakers had such different and unique faces, and every one of them radiated with goodness. Wonderful to see ❤
As a person who is diagnosed Aspergers and also more in the non than the binary, I would add to this conversation why are so many people “trans” now and maybe we are just autistic and that being said, why are there so many autistics? Why are so many of us being born on the spectrum? Seriously. There is a much MUCH bigger issue here yet to be discussed.
I'm 16, and for about 3 years i thought i was trans. Turns out i was just insecure about myself, and then as I start questioning "am i really trans?" I got into a VERY toxic relationship. He wouldn't let me be me, i couldn't wear feminine clothing. It made my insecurity worse. After we broke up, i got healthier mentally and physically. My confidence grew. I'm not trans. But i AM a 16yo girl who just happens to like cars, have ADHD, and had issues with my body at some point. But no one tried to tell me i was wrong. Not even my therapists. It's insane
I’ve been subscribed since 2017. Seeing Blaire doing an in-person event like this makes me deeply proud to the point of getting emotional. I’m touched by the love and support that people are showing her and I hope this tour is really refreshing to her soul 💖
Very nearly bought a ticket to your show in Houston coming up, but this economy is hurting us a lot.. So to see these snippets is such a wonderful surprise! Thank you so much!
These doctors need to held accountable for the damage they have caused. That poor woman that doesn't know if she can have children... and they let her make that life changing decision as a child. They're a modern day Mengele.
Thank you so much for posting the tour. I wanted to go very much but I’m still getting over a respiratory infection. All of the beautiful souls there sharing their opinions and love for what you do, is awe inspiring. You go girl! ❤
Thank you for uploading clips from your tour for us who couldn’t make it to see you live. Trying not to tear up with the last clip your showed. Being raised Catholic and finding out that I’m attracted to the same sex brought a lot of shame into my life. I still have this internalized homophobia and have struggled to make peace with myself. I ran from God and had a lot of anger towards Him for “making me gay”. I recently came back to Him around the same time you started seeking Him. Seeing your spiritual journey inspired me to resume mine.
That first girl is spot on! I have been deatransitioning for a few weeks and even though I’m 28, it’s still pushed even in Florida! I’m one of the very few MTFTM detransitioners speaking out! And I’m in Florida where it’s supposed to be “transphobic” or deadly for trans people! Yet surgery is pushed with one 20 minute therapy interview and hrt is informed consent! This country is in ruins right now!
I really really don't know how parents in the west don't realise that there are people on the internet actively trying to change the gender of children because they get off on that type of stuff thank. god people staying to talk about it
girl, I dunno about your plans, but it would be incredible to get your lives fully out there. I have no doubt you still get the income from the live shows (plus of course you can enjoy the experience). But getting these lives out connects on such a deep level. To hear MORE and DIRECTLY from people about their questions and experiences. It's SO important. Hope you consider
You’ve got some really fantastic conversation going on here. Super thoughtful questions and insight from your audience. It is so refreshing to sit and listen to a room full of light without yelling and screaming, and calling names and all of the other bull crap that goes along with speaking against the narrative. Thank you so much for what you guys and gals are doing and for encouraging others to use their voices.
thank you for doing this. Im from argentina (sorry for my bad grammar). Really thank you for all the things for being active in spreading real experiences for pointing out people who want to harm kids thanks
YESSSSS PLEASE start your own "jubilee-esque" thing We need HONESTY in our debates. I believe you would be the perfect person to platform debaters who are well intended and want to find TREU middle ground
I was the only girl in 10 years in my family...everyone else, including my brother, was a boy. I was VERY much a tomboy. I was the dirties kid playing in mud. I HATED dressed. I hated my hair long and loose. I hated barbies, I hated very generic girl things. I played Doom with my brother and dad, cops and robbers, rugby, judo, got into fights. By all accounts in modern day I would have been dubbed as trans. I'm just a bit of a tomboy who likes the rougher things. I hate that kids can't be kids without being shoved into labels and categories. Kids are meant to be discovering life, the world, and themselves, without having to subject themselve to life altering decisions.
All of you are so incredibly inspiring. The fortitude to stand up for what you believe in a society like this and the courage it takes brings literal tears in my eyes. I leadership hearts here.
Don't get caught up in biased reporting or one-sided stories. Go to ground.news/blairewhite to get 40% off unlimited access this month with the Vantage Plan and see every angle for yourself.
I've been looking for non-biased information for soo long but it's almost impossible on youtube especially on these same topics, thanks for the recommendation Blaire :)
The 1st thing is parents RAISE their kids - NOT SCHOOLS - NOT THE GOV'T. Don't let them strip YOUR RIGHTS away...
I'm glad that you are working with GROUND news, because they provide balance news, unlike MSM! Thank you as always, Blaire. Keep up the fantastic work! 💟
Who's the co anchor insuring the news isn't one sided? Is it Alex Jones? 😂
@@ldw3366I'd love to know what UA-cam channel or channel's would you recommend?
It is crazy how many older gay people are fed up with the whole Alphabet movement.
I'm also a young gay man and I hate these demented people
Im a younger gay person and this alphabet soup stuff is stupid
@@kennygamingepic FR
@@kennygamingepic Advocate to the young people to throw away the label and just be normal. If they want LGBT to be normal that's what has to happen
Every older gay person I know no longer has "pride" but embarrassment over what our community has become.
45 yr. old, Bi female who is NOT a girly girl. When I was growing up we were called Tom Boys, if I grew up today they would have told me I was trans. I am NOT trans, I'm just a woman who happens to like traditional male things. My heart breaks for children today.
I was effeminate as a child and still am in some ways, I suppose. I'm just a gay man.
I don't know how we went from progressive views on gender and then after the 2010s we somehow reverted back to this over-simplified, rigid idea of what it means to be a man or a woman.
It can't be led by science because any critical thinking tears it apart. It's greed and ego, like they said in the video.
It’s never too late for a real transition 😊
@@robertfrancois6064How about you transition from moronism into intellectualism? It's not too late.
That's creepy @@robertfrancois6064
@@katarzvnayou ate them up
I hope blaire uploads videos of her tour since a lot of us couldn't attend.
Yes! She unfortunately was coming nowhere near my state, I'd love to get the Blaire White experience!
Im in Australia. Do you think she will come 🤞🏻 Tucker was very popular. We love conservatives here.
same! i live in new zealand so theres like no possibility of me even considering going without spending a fortune 😭
I’m the one standing against the white wall with the blonde hair lol
Hope so too! I’m in Alberta Canada so I couldn’t attend either.
My son (16) was asked if he was "questioning his identity" by his school counsellor. He told her "No, I'm not". She then started hounding him about it for the next few days. When he refused to give her the answer she wanted, she called me about it.
I asked her why she thought that, and was shocked by her reply - " Well, he does have long hair, so I'm concerned he's not being honest with himself".
My son has a mullet! And so do ALL my son's, who are EXTREMELY masculine! I complained to the school about her. She lost her job not long after, and is now crying "Discrimination"! 🤦🏼
I'm glad someone who IS trans like yourself can see just how ridiculous this has become, and I love your honesty in regards to this. Thanks Blair! 😘🇭🇲
Omg that’s so scary! You are a great parent and he is a strong willed kid!
Thank god. she is a real monster. all parents should protect kids from those kind of predators 😡
A mullet is a crazy haircut. Weird that all your sons have it. A more appropriate haircut is in order.
Glad she got fired
@@Ariana-wv4pf Define appropriate haircut bc it's up for everyone to decide😊
I'm happy to hear that everything turned out well Samantha! But that's insane!
But imagine how busy School councellors would have been trying to convince young healthy men that they're are female if this scenario took place in end of 70's but otherwise 80's and 90's😂 It was after all extremely popular primarily due to bands, whom also had long hair - men & woman🤣
I work at an insurance company and I started looking for another job after finding out a man with cancer can’t get his testosterone approved because it doesn’t meet the guidelines, but gender dysphoria was an approved diagnosis
This comment right here. Men can’t get testosterone and women can’t get hormone shots for real medical issues because of guidelines and “ethics” yet they have no problem giving them to children.
Honestly, that is so horrific. I really hope people start exposing these companies and how disgusting it really is.
That's appalling.
Absolutely disgusting
Yikes. And there you have it. Obviously this is just a comment with no proof but I don’t doubt it. I know some friends, sick friends, that can’t get certain health coverage but T get everything at a snap of a finger.
I'm a detrans kid, and honestly, my transition ruined me socially and mentally for a LONG time. Every time someone misgenders me now since not everyone knows I am detransitioned, it is like a reminder of my mistakes and how people around me failed to care enough to stop me. I'm completely all for transitioning. It's a beautiful thing that people have access to that and that it makes them happy, but I was 11... and I was still allowed to do that to myself. Yes I take responsibility for some of that experience, but I was in psychosis and mentally unstable during my transition the WHOLE TIME and people knew that. I just think it's cruel.
💛🫂 I'm so sorry you weren't protected the way you deserved to be. I'm so sorry that everyone who was supposed to look out for your best interest failed you.
I really hope you come to understand that you were a child and were completely taken advantage of. You had no idea what was going on. Children cannot give consent. I pray you come to love yourself, mistakes, faults and all. It makes us who we are. We all go on a journey and some things we do as kids will haunt us forever, but remember, we were just kids. Thank you for being strong. Many more healthy years for you honey
Hugs! My heart breaks when I hear this is happening to children. It’s not your fault. Several adults in your life failed you. I hope you find peace, happiness, and comfort.
Wow, 11? I think the people that pushed it for you likely thought they were doing you a favor. It is very popular to claim if the kid isn't transitioned, they'll end it all. So it's not exactly true that they cared nothing for you and didn't look out for you. They thought they were. And I'm not on their side, in case that's how that looks.
Real trans people with real diagnosed BDD/dysphoria have to go through years of proper therapy. Even then it's only a small percentage and most are still not happy with the results. It's not good to do in any case.
Years ago, I never had a problem with gay, trans etc... You do you. In the recent years I got so sick of it all because, as a woman for the last 60 yrs, I was offended with bearded men wearing dresses wanting to be accepted as women. Women being belittled and mocked by these men. Seeing men try to breastfeed, oufff. But, you Blaire White are the perfect example of a real and true trans woman. I do have respect for you and I do watch your channel. You have respect for others and you are out there trying to help. Keep it going! xxxooo
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"Why do we have to try to look like a woman, we are women" No, you're not. If you want to transition, you need to TRANSITION. If you can't put in the work to get where you want to be, you don't deserve to be where you are.
I 100% agree with you.
You dont hate gays or trans, you hate the people who are part of that cult. It includes also straight people and a lot of them are straight girls. Even me as a gay man i cant stand them anymore, and ive been surrounded by the community for the most part of my life and let me tell you that TODAY its 100% a cult, and not a cute one. They are anarchists who want to destroy every concept known to mankind and reshape it as they please. Weaponizing empathy at every occasion they have. They best we can do is to ignore them or to not show weakness when they confront us
@@slightlydapperdwarf49I agree! I do think personally that even if you fully transition you are still a trans woman, but I will happily call people like Blaire she, it feels like the only logical option, but I will not do the same for these bearded boys in dresses who say that words alone are enough to make them safe around us. Blaire can use my bathroom space anytime ❤ but a full on man in a dress will make me feel unsafe because I don’t want masculine energy in my safe and private feminine space.
the real problem is you can't escape the cognitive dissonance and the whining that lgbstd ppl don't have same rights as everyone.
To be pretty, smart asf, righteous, and witty is a fcking QUADRUPLE threat. Love u Blaire!💕
Hahahahaha
Blaire is pretty inside and out ❤
It's called surgery
@@XEzomoX well… I guess in this case, the outside DOES INDEED match the inside right? What you see is 99% of what you get
@officialchrizzz8766 yea, because he got surgery. Also, it doesn't match. He still has a male sex organ
That guy who stood up just to encourage Blaire to never give up and to praise her efforts was totally awesome and to remind her we've got her back. We do not have enough of those people in today's world who openly praise the fight for Truth. That was very cool of him.
The fight for truth? The truth is that Blair White is a man who went through a ton of plastic surgery to look like a woman. He may be an effeminate gay, it he will NEVER be a woman. That’s the hard truth that dishonest and delusional people can’t grasp. The truth.
Blaire is a man who believes in the idea of "true trans."
It was never "the dress" it was how I was expected to act in the dress. Act like a lady even tho you're only 2-10. Sit and be an object instead of playing, getting dirty, and just being a child.
But that first lady does resonate with me so much. If I were a kid now this would be so confusing.
Yes! (That’s me) that’s why I briefly mentioned the societal things expected of the genders as well!
@@aspotlessmind004 from one "tomboy" to another 💛 glad we made it
@@happi0420yes!!!🥹🥹🫶🏻🫶🏻
Same 😂 as a child I hated dresses and the upkeep for long curly hair. They would of snatched my spectrum ass so fast.
Exactly. Also being yelled at when you just want to be a kid
Have a friend who knows someone with autism that's trans. They really despise the way they look. It's definitely a sensory issue. The crazy thing is, they're in a relationship with someone who is gay. Now, his friend who is trans does NOT believe in letting children change their sex and believes they're not mentally able to decide at such a young age, but their boyfriend, does and they're constantly at heads with the issue. It's wild seeing actual trans people fighting against child abuse while their counterparts are cheering it on.
It’s genuinely insane. I have plenty of trans/queer friends who advocate for not allowing children to transition for so many reasons, but I ALSO have plenty of straight, non-trans friends who believe that kids should be allowed to medically transition… it’s absurd.
@@thespadeexperience the straight people don't understand what that experience is like
@@thespadeexperience It’s 100% virtue signaling and wanting to seem and feel morally superior to others.
Having a hard time figuring out if you are trolling because all the insane ish that you just spewed is probable from some bat ish crazy lefty loon.
Bi female 46 who just found out I'm High functioning Autistic.. the sensory issue comment hit hard. That scratchy shit under girls dresses should be considered a form of torture.
Take this as you will, but there sounds like an opportunity for you to make, test, supply sensory appealing clothes.
I was a kid in the 50s and 60s. Those cotton girls dresses had scratchy netting under them to make the skirts stand out fuller. Awful!
I tearfully refused to wear some of my dresses and tried to argue. Surprisingly, one day, my mother got scissors out and cut out all the scratchy netting. Problem solved.
@seraphimknight3754 crazy coincidence, I wish I was better with sewing and patterns. I just thought about this a couple weeks ago. I'm too old to still have a total melt down over a seem in my socks.
Same here with the first girl and her sensory issues. It wasn't always a problem with dresses, it was fabrics, seams, certain styles/fit of clothing. Also had major problems with loud noises and any unexpected changes to our plans.
I know I made my mom's life really difficult at times. But fortunately she listened when I kept saying that certain shirts were painful to wear and she let me pick out things that didn't hurt.
Why would you wear something that scratches or makes you itch
with that second question ," why do you think Doctors lean into this" there's also another element here. it's socially safe. there's not likely going to be much backlash for a doctor. prescribing a treatment to transition someone over denying that transition. they're more likely to get problems if they attempt to deny it
Very true
And the ones that really don't want to usually just punt them to a gender specialist so they don't have to take responsibility. They're just like that's out of my expertise.
Blaire and Ariella? What a treat!!!
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One side calls it transgender, i call it roleplaying. A child roleplaying to get a better understanding of the world. Once they get a basic understanding of men and women, then they build on the learning on being what their sex is.
Gender dysphoria is a real issue that real trans people experience and struggle with. It's not as simple as roleplay, which a lot of today's alleged trans youth appear to display, and hence the detransitioner phenomena. there's so much misrepresentation of real trans people by the current alphabet movement.
Literally I was a confuse middle school kid who thought I was a boy. Eventually came to the conclusion that I wasn’t a boy because I like pink and make up. weird I know but it worked. I feel like if I was a kid right now that wouldn’t have happened.
That’s just false considering you’re literally seeing Blaire who did not accept ‘that basic understanding of her sex’
Only a small number of kids are actually experiencing gender dysphoria @HigumaHoney
@@TariqNavabiGamingi dont think they meant real trans people but literal children being labelled as trans without understanding what gender really is and once they grow up a bit and understand themselves better then they can make those decisions on their own
I thought I was a trans male from the ages 12-14 ish, but I was just active in the wrong part of the internet and being convinced that I was a male. I remember my parents being so confused about where it was coming from. I'm almost 30 now and happily a (very girly) woman.
Wow, that's crazy to think the internet did that to you so many years ago, and it's only gotten worse!
Same thing happened to me but it was for like 7 yesrs, it was pushed so much by my family, doctors, and just people online that I felt so pressured to be seen as a boy but I never once told anyone to call me he, son, or brother but they do and I'm so uncomfortable but I'm so scared to tell them to stop and I just don't want to have to explain my existence to them, I wish they would just stop, I'm not a fucking boy, I'm just a lesbian! Sorry for the rant but it sucks
Same experience! So scary and sad
This happened to so many of my friends. It really was (and probably still is) such a common and encouraged path for insecure, young teenage girls in certain internet circles and fandoms. Such a strange and destructive social contagion.
@@method_squirtle the lesbian erasure is real
To realize you’d been lied to and allowed to irreparably harm your own body is something I cannot imagine. How devastating… and then to have the “community” turn on you for trying to course correct is absolutely appalling! 😢
It took my therapist a long time to properly diagnose me. I'm very grateful for that. Symptoms can overlap. As Arielle said, they're throwing a blanket over the real issues....
That last guy. I hope he finds a true friend. Losing all your friends, realizing they were never really your friends... That's not easy.
everyone loves talking abt the importance of mental health awareness until it starts contradicting their agenda. the second story hit really close to home. it’s crazy how easy it is to misdiagnose someone with bpd and a developing ed (often comorbid with bpd) and just say that they’re trans. that’s what happened to me and living as a trans guy for years since i was 16 just made me develop an ed faster and ruined my mental health further. 27 now and still struggling with body dysmorphia and going back to therapy every time i start thinking i “actually might be trans” (i know i’m not, it just means i’m getting unstable again) over and over again
I think the people who think that "If you like girl things then you must be a girl" or vice versa are sexist. Just because you are a girl who likes sports does not mean you are a boy and just because a boy may want to play with a doll, does not mean he is a girl.
I thought I was a boy when I was 6. I didn’t have the vocabulary to say I saw myself as not looking feminine. But it got bad, I started wishing I had a penis. That lasted a year and I’m so happy nothing happened. My mom is progressive and on the left but she wouldn’t let me lean into it. Now I’m a very happy woman. I love love living as a woman. It makes me so sad how many detransitioners there are whose life’s are forever changed for the worst.
It concerns me that young women are especially vulnerable to being mistakenly directed into the trans catagory, given that autism is harder to detect in women.
I had a friend who I grew up with who identified as female from birth to 17y/o. She is autistic and you could almost immediately tell. So I wasn't surprised to hear that she medically transitioned which was weirdly okayed by her physician and eventually went on to date another autistic trans person she met during treatment. This is ridiculous.
Borderline PD is wild. For me it felt like living in a film set, had to change my personality to fit in with whatever scene was playing. I'm under a management plan now but I absolutely could have been convinced that I was xyz because my lack of identity would cling to anything. Love to all dealing with any and all mental health conditions ❤
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society"
-J. Krishnamurti
NOT BLAIRE GETTING SPONSORSHIPS!? GO BLAIRE GO! WE LOVE YOU!
I support Detransitioners. Thank you Blaire.
Remember the question on jubilee about what Blair did for her community.... This is the answer and it's only a portion of the people she helped because some of her fans aren't in the US.
Absolutely! I'm not from the US and I have been following her for years!
I have two daughters an 11 year old and a six year old
My six year old for the last 4 years has completely resented any idea of dressed , pink, foo foo girly things …
This year she has embraced dresses and make up and hair accessories… for the longest time I said oh man she’s a Tom boy and the last two months she’s done a total 180 it just goes to show that children don’t know what they want they’re discovering so much through out their adolescence and it’s important as a parent to not push anything on the cause with the snap of a finger they could change their mind
Oh my god! That first lady! I just want to hug her! (I'm an autistic female, I don't look, sound or dress 100 per cent that way, and I've always struggled to understand what the whole being female thing is all about- and I've even had little shit kids stop dead in their tracks, in the street, to look at me and ask "are you a girl, or a boy?") ...that's all :) I just really wanted to express that here, in a safe space ;)
@livviebrundle I've found tons of people don't understand the experience of looking naturally androgynous. There's lots of folks who try to make themselves *intentionally* androgynous (such as a girl getting a "boy" haircut etc). But it's a whole entire thing to get the "are you a girl or a boy?" quiz when you're just walking around being obliviously yourself. I've struggled myself to explain it to people.
Hi I’m that first girl that talked about being autistic thank you sooo much 🥹💞
@@aspotlessmind004 aww, you're welcome, sweet 1 :D :hugsyoutight: thank you for sharing your experience xx
@@livviebrundlethank you so much! It took a lot to get up there! I only have publicly made it known I’m autistic a year or so ago now🥰
Kid, YT comments are the least safe space. 😂😂😂😂😂
It was an absolute honor and privilege to see you and speak to you at your show, Blaire 💙 God's beloved Daughter, God's beloved son. *hugs* I sincerely hope we meet again
I was there. This was a great, heartfelt show. Thanks blaire for providing such a safe space for us. And signing my poster with cream bronzer 😂❤
My daughter has said she wants to be a boy. When i asked why, she said it was because only boys can play minecraft and wear boys clothes. I told her that girls can absolutely wear boys clothes and play minecraft. It was obvious to me that she went to school and some other kid told her what she could and couldn't do.
She will continue to be told this, and because she is young it can easily influence or discourage her. Even at my age as a tomboy I get concerned folks who tell me I shouldn’t do this or that. Hence why many of today’s tomboys feel pressured to transition.
I talk to my children openly about homosexuality, transexuality and all the important things. We’ve been talking sex, periods, sexuality, gender from a young age. I feel like my children are prepared. We also live in a conservative part of California. Thank god.
There's a conservative part of California??
@@Ennaitakbelieve it or not yes. Maybe not as conservative as some other parts of the country, but is mountain folk love guns and god. Blair is from CA!
@@keashablew7728 I've known quite a few conservatives from CA, including currently one of my sisters and her husband. They all say the same thing. It's the folks in SoCal who are a bag of fruits and nuts. LOL
I have always been this way with my kids! My twins are 16 male and female. My female has always been a tomboy and my male always feminine. They have homeschooled since 6th grade because things in my county were out of hand. My female is still tomboy but loves her nails done and wants to be a mom, my sweet boy finally came out gay about a year ago. (My momma heart always knew). Openess, conversation, and understanding are 100% a must as a parent in today's world to keep from the confusion around. My son recently thanked me for sitting and talking him through the time he thought he was "trans" and not allowing Dr intervention before having long heartfelt conversations and not attacking him.
@keashablew7728 I know Blaire is from CA, but to my understanding, she was from a more liberal part and that a conservative Californian is like finding a unicorn lol
I remember wanting to be a boy cuz my older bro (just 1 yr older) got to be comfy at parties and run around. I had to wear a dress and "don't rip your stockings, don't dirty your dress, don't bend down and show your panties, be careful!" The moment i was allowed to pick my own clothes at 10, it was nothing but flare jeans, tshirts, sneakers.
He was allowed to sleep over at friends, got his own set of keys at 9, was put in charge of me when out.
He was ONLY 1 yr older.
I didn't get my first set of keys till hs.
All because he was a boy
That's good for Blaire White Buck angel and Ariella scarcella for listening to all these people ongoing issues
thanks for posting this for those us who can’t attend.
I’m a late diagnosed autistic/adhd adult (woman), and I know for a fact I would’ve been dragged into the whole trans thing if I was a child these days. It breaks my heart seeing so many kids and young adults these days who are clearly just autistic and confused, being brainwashed into thinking there is something wrong with them. Or they have weak support systems that don’t teach how to navigate life, like I did
Throughout my entire childhood I thought there was something “wrong” with me as a person, not knowing the majority of my struggles were due to being autistic. I didn’t have a good support system, I had no one that understood me and I was being constantly gaslit by the medical industry into thinking I was mentally ill
I was pressured to take medication I didn’t need, which I genuinely believe have scrambled my brain to the point of no return. I have never felt the same mentally after being put on countless anti-that’s and anti-this’s.
If only I had ONE person back then in my life to step up and help me, someone who could recognize my very obvious, autistic struggles. But no one did. Everyone made excuses or turned their back on me because it was too hard to admit I was different. I blame society for placing so much pressure on everyone to be exactly the same and treating everyone like cogs in the machine
If you don’t fit in completely or fit the “mold” that society has created, you’re labelled as sick or mentally unstable. YOU have to change, when society should be changing
It's a great insight because a lot of times kids just say that because they just want to wear pants because they're more comfortable. They want to be comfortable. It's not because they really think they're a boy. They don't understand.
My daughter always fought with me about her school uniform. She hated the skirts. Finally I asked her why, and she said "They flap around my legs and it feels weird." She didn't get her ASD diagnosis until she was 18.
WAS NOT expecting ME to be the first thing I saw when I clicked on this video holy shit! Thank you Blaire and Arielle for hearing my concerns and answering my question!!!!🥹🙌🏻💞💞💞💞 I also meant 4-5 not 2-3 years old (I was superrrrrr nervous)
I absolutely feel you there
How nervous I'd be I can't even imagine myself up there, let alone getting my words out how I mean, I barely do when I'm _not_ nervous
@@Kolateak_yes !! I still can’t believe how well I did - usually I stumble over my words a lot more when I’m nervous!🥹
protect autistic youth!🥰🥰🥰 (you did great sweetie)
Dude your tattoo sleeve is sick
"When you get hate you know you're doing something right." I remember this gentleman when I came to your tour. Very smart gentleman and so true! 💯💯💯
I feel like so many ppl being diagnosed as autistic is a disservice to some. Like they are nullifying your uniqueness. IMO
I’m a late diagnosed autistic woman and I don’t feel “unique” and never have. I feel ostracized, even as an adult. I’ve been bullied heavily, scapegoated at work and school, ridiculed just for existing, you name it. It’s a disability. It’s not “uniqueness.” Yes, I am different. But isn’t everyone?
Even if my uniqueness is praised by the few people who love and care for me, what does that matter when most of society treats me like I’m undeserving of basic human respect or dignity?
Imagine saying this about diabetes. "Now, that everyone's sugar levels are so high, I'm not unique anymore". Wut?
They are disservicing people when they made it a "spectrum", added a bunch of diffrent types of people with diffrent labels and needs, and then got lazy and slapped it as a general diagnosis catch all.
i see what you're saying, but, this is not the way to go about it. autism is a disability, and a pretty severe one at that for autistic people with level 2 & 3 autism. people need a diagnosis and support to survive (more education, therapies, learning how to manage and support sensory sensitivities, difficulty with routines & hygiene, etc.) it's not only a "uniqueness". yes, there are charming aspects that people with disabilities have, but we can't only focus on that because they'd never get the proper support they deserve. those two things can actually be mutually exclusive and it's better to recognize this for their safety and wellbeing 😁
Ok so the girl in the beginning & I share that we both thought we were boys as kids. Had it been today they would have convinced me at least to transition and that scares me. I am a woman and love being one as an adult and I would be emotionally ruined now had I ruined that opportunity to be ME & have my son. I was diagnosed with gender dysphoria as a kid and went through STABILIZATION therapy(which is not like conversion therapy 🙄)which is neutral. They don’t ever convince for or against transition bc it’s the last resort not an idea upfront that you take the very consequence filled void that is transitioning physically, health, mental health, & how even if those would be ok, if you’re not stable in your mental health you can’t do something like transitioning bc it only an external change. Your brain still is sick if you don’t handle that first! and they don’t come at you for appearing to be, which means managing mental health throughout childhood and teen hood as well as learn why you feel that way. No transitioning bc most kids, over 90% of gender dysphoria effected kid grow out of it. I did. By 13 it was gone. Most kids I let through mental health groups did as well. Only one transitioned. Let kids have the opportunity to learn who the hell they are like the rest of all humanity
This was the 90s btw. Long before it was well known and was super rare which is proof it’s an ideology trend now in comparison to the good ole days when it had to be organic bc nobody even knew what it was
27 yr old bisexual registered dem but have always been a centrist ✋🏾 I was never in the lgbt community as many of them would dismiss me as being a part of the community due to being bisexual and I grew up as a major tomboy playing “male-centered” activities and started dressing girly towards the end of high school. Now, I feel like the extreme left want to erase tomboy and gay boys and make everyone trans when in fact for many many children it’s a phase to figure out what I like and don’t like. Parents don’t want to bother educating their kids anymore and it’s honestly really sad. What happened to if a child thinks they’re a girl/boy to just let them wear unisex clothing and experiment with their hair socially. Now they just want to ship them off to a doctor that can sign off on giving them meds and surgically transition instead of socially. A couple years from now I PRAY they finally see “wow this is the hill we decided to die on?”
In all honesty what does bisexual registered dem mean? And why put such a title on your self rather than be? No hate im trying to understand
@@SpoiledHippie I stated I’m bisexual to give context about how I feel about the lgbt community as someone that is”considered” as part of the community but in reality not and inputted registered dem to show that I’m a dem that loves everything that Blair stands for as many leftists compare Blair as a radical right when that’s not the case anyone with common sense regardless of what political party you’re into can see Blair just makes sense and says things out loud that other people are too scared to say
I love seeing this community come together to have hard conversations and just uplift each other. This is really cool to see
I got chills in the end when you said God is real. God bless you, Blaire.
I know I can't be the only one who just thought trousers were more comfortable or just hated to be told "you can't do this bc you're a girl." but that doesn't mean I wanna be a boy, gosh.
This has been by far the best video you’ve ever uploaded Blaire. And no shade to all the others in the past. Seeing you and others I look up to talking about serious issues and giving straight forward, and understanding answers/advice to questions we’re all asking is so amazing. ❤❤
"Don't give your kids to the State" nuff said!
Biological autistic woman here, I shared a little of my story below. Feel free to ask any questions you have in the reply. I think this is a super good point this woman brought up to Blair.
Autistic woman here, if it weren’t for my family protecting me, I would be a blue haired “ non-binary” thank you to Jesus for making me just the way I meant to be into my family for protecting me from the people who tried to immediately affirm my “trans identity” I’m a woman. I have a vagina, uterus and boobs just as God intended ❤
When my daughter was 12 she declared she was non-binary. I supported her and allowed her to adopt an image to go along with it. She cut her hair and wanted specific clothes. And I was fine with it. Now she is 16 and is proud to be a girl. She was going thru something and it was at the same time she hit puberty. I allowed her to figure out who she really is. That is was is needed with parents. Don't do anything permanent. I would never mutilate my child. Love your kids enough to give them time. I really respect what Blaire stands for. She is so amazing to me.
Why are doctors so comfortable with misdiagnosis? Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Money ;)
And it doesn't really matter what it is, but certain medical procedures make way more money than others.
Response to the first woman that spoke: 10000% agree. I am autistic woman that found out about their diagnosis in adulthood. My (awesome) parents chose to not tell me as a child because they didn’t want me to feel different or use it as a crutch. They believed I could still achieve anything I wanted. I don’t fully agree with this approach because it caused other issues in my life versus had I known, I would have just been able to deal with it as the issues came up versus masking. However, that was my PARENTS CHOICE. I never felt like I “fit in” I had issues with clothing due to sensory issues and liked “boy” things. So if I had outsiders making me feel like I “fit in” aka GROOMING, I would have probably been groomed into the lgbtq+ world and potentially transitioning with life altering effects just because I wanted so desperately to fit in somewhere. And then ended up with even more to deal with. Yes, acknowledge mental health issues but WITHIN THE HOUSEHOLD!! NOT IN SCHOOLS!! Praise the lord I wasn’t exposed to the crap now adays as I’m a full blown homemaker loving life as a soon to be wife and hopefully someday mother as well (godwilling). All while enjoying going out shooting, golfing and watching sports with my fiance! ❤️ I’m as woman as they come. But also enjoy “man” things and that’s OKAY!!
Also side note and a potentially controversial take, mental health should be talked about and observed but not shoved down children’s throats. Now adays it seems like teenage angst and NORMAL hormonal changes that cause NORMAL discomfort are making children believe and self diagnose that they’re “mentally ill”. I’d say majority are not. But they get the idea that they are because it’s shoved down their throat.
In conclusion, these are all things that should be handled by ADULTS. And responsible, qualified adults to make these decisions. Period.
EDIT: I see later in the video almost all of this was talked about 😅
The first lady’s comment hit hard with me. I also despised dresses, makeup, and stereotypically “feminine” clothing as a child because of my autism and sensory issues. As I grew up, I learned to love and enjoy getting dolled up every once in a while. I still don’t like form-fitting pants and shirts (take leggings or athletic wear like that, for example) but I do enjoy dressing up now, as long as I’m the one deciding what to wear and when. If I want to wear a tailored suit or a dress, it’s completely my choice.
It also wasn’t always the clothes that bothered me… it was how people expected me to act while wearing them.
As someone whos been misdiagnosed as having gender dysphoria and bipolar and I was actually dealing with bpd and anxiety. I was on meds for most of my life (since 14). And I was put on medications that worsened my bpd and made me appear bipolar. Also, my therapist and psychiatrist just went along with me having gender dysphoria when it was actually a reaction to trauma and my therapist kept trying to talk about surgery. Something needs to happen because I am better now but it wasn't because of any doctors or therapists, it was my own realizations.
Awww Blair!!! So sweet to see your intelligent supporters sharing ❤❤❤❤❤ we are with you!!!!
Protect autistic youth… I also would have been encouraged to be a boy if I was a child right now. I was a tomboy as a child, but I’m happy to be a woman now.
No teen knows who they are or feel comfortable with the changes in their mind & body. Normalizing normal again would be a good start. I'm a woman through & through & I'm not autistic & i don't like dresses except for special occasions. Jeans are comfortable & practical. I don't know where the "pressure" comes from bc even labeling it autistic to not like uncomfortable clothing is a problem. I don't like the texture of cooked vegetables... it's a preference not a mental disorder. We over corrected on the "breaking taboos about mental health" & created problems to be solved (& make money from)
Would’ve loved to have seen you in NC. Just can’t travel but so thankful you met some wonderful people
More people ARE NOT speaking out against the trans movement because of consequences from the public. People have lost their jobs, friends, and family bonds over it. So when detransitioners come out and ask why didn't anyone say anything to them, this is why more people don't. Blaire has the PASSION, INTELLIGENCE, COURAGE, and NERVE and that's why she speaks out for the well being of the public ❤
Hey kid, you have a 18 years test drive and if by the end you don't like it, you can change it.
I was binge-watching Blaire’s video, and she randomly just posts after a month. I manifested this video, yall.
There's three guys in dresses with a beard but pink long hair standing in front of you;
Guy one demands you see him as a woman, because while even though you can clearly tell he's a dude with his beard, he's wearing a dress, and got pink hair and make up on, so you should recognize those feminine things and see him as a woman.
Guy two demands you still see him as a man, because while even though you can clearly see he's a dude, with his beard, he's wearing a dress and got pink and make up on, and you figured you'd call him a woman, but then he got upset because "clothes are a social construct and I'm a full man wearing whatever he wants, why are you calling me a woman? Can't you see my beard, I'm clearly a man".
Guy three demands you ask "them" for their pronouns and how they want to be called every time. One day they can be a dude with a dress, one day they can be a woman in a dress, another day they'll be a "xer", and if you don't ask them every time, you are erasing their existence.
You simply cannot make these people happy, even if you wanted. You're always offending at least one but most times two of them by trying to facilitate the third.
The over arching problem is that the bulk of cosmetic surgery is just that, COSMETIC! Its a business not about helping people medically, but to sell services. SELL! SELL! SELL! Its about money not helping people.
I love these beautiful people attending. No crazy extremes one way or another or people screaming, just people living their lives and having conversations. Awesome
These are such important stories to hear and share. Thank you to all of those who have shared it, despite how personal and possibly embarrassing it may be, its important we hear detransitioners.
The people who push things like "gender affirming care" try to assert that its so super duper rare and practically non existent, and that the channels you have to go through like doctors and psychologists to gain access to blockers/HRT/ surgery is so fool-proof and tightly sealed. Such a long a painstaking process to verify that you're a proper candidate. Then you hear stories like the second girl shared "i walked in to the gender clinic. I was asked how long I've identified as trans, and they did my bloodwork, i got my prescription". Sounds on-par with getting a medical card for weed lol.
To hear people just come out and share "I was that kid that went down that road at a young age, im older now,and I regret it. No one stopped me from getting it" is so unbelievably valuable to the conversation. Thank you all for sharing.
I love how you talk about how when people are (in simple terms) good or bad, that comes out in their face, and it's just so clear because of how BEAUTIFUL every single one of your supporters are!! Each of the speakers had such different and unique faces, and every one of them radiated with goodness. Wonderful to see ❤
Blair, is this your natural hair?. I LOVE how healthy and shiny it looks!. Tips please!🙏🏻
As a person who is diagnosed Aspergers and also more in the non than the binary, I would add to this conversation why are so many people “trans” now and maybe we are just autistic and that being said, why are there so many autistics? Why are so many of us being born on the spectrum? Seriously. There is a much MUCH bigger issue here yet to be discussed.
Its amazing what Blaire has started since that first day she decided to post that first video on her computer webcam.
I'm 16, and for about 3 years i thought i was trans. Turns out i was just insecure about myself, and then as I start questioning "am i really trans?" I got into a VERY toxic relationship. He wouldn't let me be me, i couldn't wear feminine clothing. It made my insecurity worse. After we broke up, i got healthier mentally and physically. My confidence grew. I'm not trans. But i AM a 16yo girl who just happens to like cars, have ADHD, and had issues with my body at some point. But no one tried to tell me i was wrong. Not even my therapists. It's insane
proud of you, all your fans seem like down to earth people 🩷🖤
Love you Buck and Blair!
I love the positive energy in that room. Very healing.
I’ve been subscribed since 2017. Seeing Blaire doing an in-person event like this makes me deeply proud to the point of getting emotional. I’m touched by the love and support that people are showing her and I hope this tour is really refreshing to her soul 💖
blaire is such an icon. love her
Very nearly bought a ticket to your show in Houston coming up, but this economy is hurting us a lot.. So to see these snippets is such a wonderful surprise! Thank you so much!
I love Blaire so much ❤😭 she’s the one that opened my mind to stop being a brainwashed lib. Forever my fave 🫶
"Do what you can when you can, and don't beat yourself up when you can't." Great advice, and nice environment for the Q&As.
These doctors need to held accountable for the damage they have caused. That poor woman that doesn't know if she can have children... and they let her make that life changing decision as a child. They're a modern day Mengele.
Thank you so much for posting the tour. I wanted to go very much but I’m still getting over a respiratory infection. All of the beautiful souls there sharing their opinions and love for what you do, is awe inspiring. You go girl! ❤
Thank you for uploading clips from your tour for us who couldn’t make it to see you live. Trying not to tear up with the last clip your showed. Being raised Catholic and finding out that I’m attracted to the same sex brought a lot of shame into my life. I still have this internalized homophobia and have struggled to make peace with myself. I ran from God and had a lot of anger towards Him for “making me gay”. I recently came back to Him around the same time you started seeking Him. Seeing your spiritual journey inspired me to resume mine.
Upload vids from your tour
That first girl is spot on! I have been deatransitioning for a few weeks and even though I’m 28, it’s still pushed even in Florida! I’m one of the very few MTFTM detransitioners speaking out! And I’m in Florida where it’s supposed to be “transphobic” or deadly for trans people! Yet surgery is pushed with one 20 minute therapy interview and hrt is informed consent! This country is in ruins right now!
Can we get a video of you talking about your spiritual journey?
I think many of us are going to through it
I love the openness and non judgemental aura surrounding these 2 beautiful women
Powerful discussion. Teared up. I'm so glad to see people have Blair's back in person. I realize now how important that is for her and us all.
I really really don't know how parents in the west don't realise that there are people on the internet actively trying to change the gender of children because they get off on that type of stuff thank. god people staying to talk about it
girl, I dunno about your plans, but it would be incredible to get your lives fully out there. I have no doubt you still get the income from the live shows (plus of course you can enjoy the experience). But getting these lives out connects on such a deep level. To hear MORE and DIRECTLY from people about their questions and experiences. It's SO important. Hope you consider
You’ve got some really fantastic conversation going on
here. Super thoughtful questions and insight from your audience. It is so refreshing to sit and listen to a room full of light without yelling and screaming, and calling names and all of the other bull crap that goes along with speaking against the narrative. Thank you so much for what you guys and gals are doing and for encouraging others to use their voices.
I am so happy your sponsor is Ground news! Good one, I like their app a lot.
thank you for doing this. Im from argentina (sorry for my bad grammar). Really thank you for all the things for being active in spreading real experiences for pointing out people who want to harm kids thanks
YESSSSS PLEASE start your own "jubilee-esque" thing
We need HONESTY in our debates. I believe you would be the perfect person to platform debaters who are well intended and want to find TREU middle ground
I was the only girl in 10 years in my family...everyone else, including my brother, was a boy. I was VERY much a tomboy. I was the dirties kid playing in mud. I HATED dressed. I hated my hair long and loose. I hated barbies, I hated very generic girl things. I played Doom with my brother and dad, cops and robbers, rugby, judo, got into fights. By all accounts in modern day I would have been dubbed as trans.
I'm just a bit of a tomboy who likes the rougher things.
I hate that kids can't be kids without being shoved into labels and categories. Kids are meant to be discovering life, the world, and themselves, without having to subject themselve to life altering decisions.
All of you are so incredibly inspiring. The fortitude to stand up for what you believe in a society like this and the courage it takes brings literal tears in my eyes. I leadership hearts here.
I'm borderline and I would have been pushed into trans...
Love seeing Blaire and Arielle up there together! ❤
Buck, too ! ❤