Good tips. As a 75 year old female I don’t go to the grocery after dark. My gas tank is always half full. I walk with a purpose and watch my surroundings.
I'm 75 and in the last 10 yrs here in ;I've been robbed, mugged and hammered to the ground! Left fl a d moved back! Robbed on my bike! The police caught him! 14 yrs old! Yes in daylight ! My 55 plus is not safe either! Kids chase us in our gated pool area with fists! The police use the race card and tell .e everything has changed and the kids get away with everything! What! So unless you get really hurt no help! The hoa board says we can't afford security! Our society's in trouble! The elderly aren't safe a d no consequences for the kids and thugs! Im trained and run bike etc! More fit than alot of the kids these days! I was safe as a kid in my factory town! Now it's a crime area! God help us all!Great video!
@@JackRainfield I meant to say the tank is never below half so I have enough to get away from a situation. No running out the gas on the side of the road.
@JackRainfield You don't run out of gas. On strange road if somebody abducts you . Unfortunately I had that happen to me when I was a teenager. Rnning out of gas in the middle of a strange town is what saved me.😢
@@411OutdoorsNo problem! Thanks for replying! I only recently discovered your channel. I'm approaching middle age fast and own a S&W Airweight .38 +P as an "equalizer".
I'd like to thank you for thinking like I do. One has to seriously think about one's limitations, I think it was Johnny Cash who did a song winning fights, and how that worked out. In my younger days, I never lost a fight, now that I'm 83 I'll do whatever it takes to avoid confrontations ,and any kind of work! Your advice is very good and anyone who disagrees is just not thinking right . THANKS .
I'm 78 and know most of what you were showing, alot of people don't know, ignor the idiots that put you down, you're doing a great job so keep on doing what you're doing.
Yes! Keep going. Don’t ever listen to the keyboard warriors. Your voice is important and your perspective is welcome. Don’t back down. Your channel is growing well!
Yes, IGNORE the critics, for every critic there are many more that appreciate what you're teaching them. Thank you for showing the shock areas of the body, the only one I was aware of was to the eyes. I'm 78 and I know my strength has decreased greatly. Though I have a gun and a carry permit, I seldom carry. I carry a folding knife, but it's in my purse. I don't shop at night anymore, just a few years ago I'd head to the all night pharmacy or all night Walmart at 2 a.m., but not anymore! Keep up what you're doing! 💞
411, it's me again an old man who is a Defensive Tactic Expert. Being an elderly man with a lot of street experience as a retired police officer I think you have done a good job at making people think about their surroundings. One thing I've learned from being a teacher of survival tactics is there is always someone better, faster and younger. It only takes one mistake for things to go the wrong way. I was at a Defensive Tactics Training Simonar in St. Louis Mo, back in the late 80's taking a knife defense course and in the class were several Navy Seals and some SF kids. I say kids because they were so damn young and excited about their jobs. During the demonstration some of the soldiers complained about not going far enough to go for a kill. Having over twelve years experience in Aikido at that time I offered to show them a more lethal move. I explained since the carpeting had very little backing the throw may be a little hard. After demonstrating an outward wrist twist into a knife removal and taking the knife down the victims arm to the back of the skull the soldiers immediately began tossing each other around as young men can. The more they practiced the take down I realized how professional they were and hoped I would never have to confront them on the street. I think knowing where you are going watching your surrounding is very important. Being a Federal Conceal Carry permit holder has its advantages since I carry a handgun and knife at all times. I also use a cane while I'm out running errands. I've been involved in several shooting and know the consequences of my actions. I think what most people don't realize is the bad people come at you when your back is to them and they never give you a break. Our society has changed and it is much more dangerous especially for the elderly. I loved being a police officer, but I kept getting older and the bad guys always got younger. Be Careful Out There!
What I’m afraid of is making the assailant more angry by hurting them and then they attack me more viciously. If I could run it wouldn’t scare me as much. These days the person could kill me and not get in any trouble for it but if I defend myself, because I can carry, I’ll go to jail, like Daniel Penny.
It helps a lot if you live in a safe area, like a rural area. I never worry about walking in a town at night, even in the biggest town in my region--35000 people. I never walk in the forest at night, though.
Very useful. I’m 68 and as I’ve gotten older younger bullies have started to target me. So I’ve stood my ground and made them think again. Bullies do not want to get hurt.
My Dad taught me how to carry myself when I was young. That alone has served me well throughout my entire life, and continues to do so at 67. If we walk down the street like we are victims, by our posture, our stride, and our general body language and facial expression, we may become victims. Trouble makers pick up on that in seconds. It also doesn't hurt to have a few rudimentary skills and a bulldog attitude when it is necessary.
I’m 58 and a heart patient. My S&W 40 is always within reach. A good knife is always in my pocket. But most importantly I avoid shady people and places.
I knew an elderly gentleman several years ago. He was attacked by a young thug. He knocked the punk out. When I asked him about the incident he explained to me that he had learned "tricks" from his father. It seems his father had served in WW2 with a special unit. From what he showed it was edge of hands blows, low line kicks (almost stomps), and palm strikes. It interested me enough that I began deep research on WW2 combatives. They are NOT a martial art, but a VERY quick to learn system. Practice in WW2 combatives, cane, and firearms would help health and go a long way towards safety. Just my random thoughts.
I live in the UK , Lofty Wiseman ,ex SAS , has written three very good books on survival. As you know, the laws in the UK are very strict on carrying any kind of weapon. In his book URBAN SURVIVAL Wiseman advises that the only object allowed that can be used as weapon is a walking stick. I enjoyed your video very much and have liked and subscribed.
Lots of people with few to no defensive skills want a video that will teach how to learn 20 years of defensive knowledge in a 15 minute video. Won't happen. I thank this man for his realistic approach.
I agree with you. lots of people could really just get up and go to a good school and learn and practice instead of sitting on their ass. and you tube is full of usefull videos they can practice with as well as buying DVDs and getting a buddy to practice with.
Exactly. In addition, if you haven’t been doing strength training exercises,you’re likely in denial about how much strength you’ve lost as you’ve aged. Balance too. Recognizing our reality is vital.
Ignore the naysayers! You’re giving great advice, and I’m a 75 yo partially disabled female who listens to every word you say! Thank you for caring about us old folks. 💕👍
Bad to alert a preditor your armed. The last thing an attacker should be the gun they didn't know you had. That's why open carry us stupid. Dandahermit
Thank you so much for videos like these. I'm 61 and disabled can't walk without a cane, running is not a option so I CARRY a firearm. I'm always watching things around me to avoid getting into trouble. But pulling out my firearm is the last thing I ever want to do. Thanks for showing other ways to get out of a bad situation.
Like going in to get ice cream in a wealthy area! Guess I should never go anywhere! I'm well trained now and saved a girls life on a walk and yes supposedly low crime! We all need to think like a cop!
There is a great need for useful tools for seniors. So many of us feel the loss of our youth. Remember all the tools, you still have in your tool box. Such as: we have life experience, We have time on our hands to prepare for potential dangers, Use your imagination, because it's endless. Ditch the victim mentality. And train. I sure hope this too can inspire others. New subscriber on the first video of yours I have just seen. I think you are terrific. Thank you.
Awareness is key, especially for the elderly. Going to the ATM? I recently saw a woman in her 70s look at the ATM machine without ever glancing around. She did two or three transactions, at the end getting cash. She never - NOT ONCE - looked up, and carried the cash away in her hand. I apologized and suggested to her that she keep her focus on her surroundings, not the cash. I showed her the mirror at the ATM, and explained why it was there. Finally, I told her to always put the cash away at the machine, and then walk briskly to the car and get in and LOCK THE DOORS. So much of self defense is situational awareness……
I'm 69 years and I'm seeing more attacks by youth on older folks. A generation ago this was rare. It was a line that kids didn't cross. Thank you sir for your videos.
Speaking as a senior, thank you for being a good teacher and sharing your knowledge. You're absolutely correct for avoidance of a physical conflict to be the highest priority
But a mindful knowledge and mind set of how and what to do saves lives your and that attackers life as well, yes avoid if you can , but know what image you are giving to every one around you , even in the wild nature the attackers look for the ones they think they can control mentally or physically and if you do not let any one see that in you, you stay safe ! even in the worse cases of where you find your self !...
Sir, I'm 76 years old and have had martial arts training in the years past. For my age, I'm not in bad shape but I will say this. Never, never, never let a potential opponent get close enough to grab ahold of you. Bad things will happen. It seems that you are giving advice to aged and possibly infirm folks that will be destroyed by a mugger if they let them get close enough. Younger and stronger perps reflexes are faster, and their strength is far superior; so your advice on getting a firearm along with training is going to be the best equalizer for the senior citizen. A cane or walking stick can be used but be advised that if they are taken away from you, they are gonna be used against you. Do not let any questionable people get close! Be aware of your surroundings!!!! Stay safe. Thanks for putting the videos out there for all the folks. Oh yeah; one thing I almost forgot; advice for guys and girls with bad intentions. Be very careful when targeting old men and women. A young person will likely run away if they can. We cannot. With older folks; many of us have former military training and will kill you if threatened with great bodily harm or death. Just advice for the wise.
Good job young man, thank you, I'm old now I'm unable to do 75% of what I use to. Young people think they willa.ways be in there prime. Everything hurts like hell now but I keep moving.
Yes Clyde keep moving 👍 I have a friend who is 67 and retired last June from being a High school campus supervisor...she has slowed down a lot and just in last 2 months copd acted up and she's in and out of hospital. 😮 I just think we all need to keep moving 👍😁
@@411Outdoors I’m in the UK and our rising crime rates are very concerning. We cannot legally carry anything that is obviously a weapon so your equaliser information is very useful
I met a small, very elderly woman with arthritic hands at the range who shared a story I'll never forget. She & friends were out in the daytime when approached by a man who said he wanted to ask her a question. Something about him must have given her pause & as he approached she said stop right there (distance) and put her hand in her conceal carry purse. It must have been obvious she had a weapon bc she said he immediately turned and left. She told me she practiced this scenario at home and used the range often to stay competent. I was impressed and immediately bought a conceal purse after meeting her.
This is problematic. Threatening a firearm, or any other weapon for that matter, without A.) Actually having one and B.) Bring ready and able to use it without hesitation can get you killed. You'd feel pretty silly reaching into an empty purse, pocket or waistband and having the bad guy pull a real weapon and use it. Too many ne'er-do-wells are armed these days to risk a game of "guess what I've got".
@@michaelotto8696 She never said the lady was faking it or would hesitate to pull the trigger if it became necessary. You injected those thoughts. A couple of times I have also reached in and grabbed my weapon (which will reliably fire while in a pocket or bag) without actually pulling it out. It's a sound and tactically wise thing to do in certain circumstances.
@@Robnord1 You're right, I should not have assumed that was the case. I still stand by my advice to not "fake it" or simply brandish thinking that will solve the problem. If mine comes out there will be just cause and something will go bang.
Situational awareness. I'm 70 years of age and I have taught my children and grandchildren ALWAYS to be aware of what's around them and to have an escape plan. Avoidance is better than walking into trouble.
I've told my sons...if you enter a room, party etc...and you got the feeling this ain't cool. Be smooth and leave asap! Same when you meet someone who is shady..be nice and walk away.
Good sense advice. My mom beat our legs with a oak cow cane , it is very painful, I testify. Evading the cane requires skill. Running is a good response, jumping and leaping as needed. Thank you. My parents gave us skills. Dad never harmed us but encouraged self respect and respect for others. Sticks and stones break bones. A cousin lost an eye by a stone thrown by a playmate. Be careful how you play. Thank you Grana Rose
It doesn’t matter if I already know it, the more I hear it the more automatic it becomes, which is what I need in a high stress situation. I don’t want to be standing there thinking about what to do next, I want it to be instinct.
Good point; as many have not been put to the test, but realize the potential. It makes sense to also imagine yourself walking away from every situation whole, with restoration of safety and balance.
You do NOT talk too much! You explain fully, and have a calm, confident way of speaking that reassures this 78 yr old woman. Easy to look at too, guy ;-} This was very informative and realistic so never mind any negatives...wish I knew you personally...feel like there would be no limit to what could be learned. Us older folks know full well we are sitting ducks. Thank you for spending time out of your life to help us. Much love.
I always enjoy your informative videos. Thanks. I am 73 years old. The cane is a "medical device" that can be taken anywhere. Airplanes, courtrooms etc. Gary Hernandez has a great channel dealing with instructing about canes. A flashlight with a crenulated bezel is a devastating weapon. The Zebra F-701 is a stainless steel pen (including the ink refill) that is a favorite among preppers. Abouut $8. Thanks again.
Thank you for the info about the crenulated bezel flashlight and the Gary Hernandez cane self-defense videos. I did a deep dive into both. As a 72 year old lady, I need all the help I can get.
My father in law used to work in NYC. He always carried a rolled up newspaper under his arm. He told us that a quick jab to the throat would do the trick. A newspaper as a weapon? No one would ever guess that.
Older, with disability, two canes (one a Cane Masters), and other equalization devices. We live in a time where society no longer respects or values the elder or life in general. Many young people are self focused, self interested, and self absorbed with a view on the elder as a target to prey upon. First and foremost, be aware; second nothing good happens at 0 dark thirty; so be aware and don’t be stupid. But if evil comes to you and you can’t escape be prepared to do what is necessary with a view toward life and rationality. Thank you for the sage advice and reminders.
I learned when I was 8 years old, that I was not designed to hold my ground in a fight. Your video is very informative, concise, practical and clear. It is obvious that you truly care about the safety of your viewers. Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge and experience. God bless.
Im a 63 year old woman, if i had to fight I'd be sol, staying away from the threat, distance, screaming, pepper spray and my gun are my defense strategies. Thank you!
Good Morning ! I'm 63 & have seen some Fun. But I also realize I'm not a young man anymore. I've watched both your Vids & learned some things. Thanks. TAKE CARE..
In states such as New York and California it's practically illegal to defend yourself! You've got to rely on the police who're Never There when you Need them! 😮😮
One talks too much if s/he has nothing worthwhile to say. This does not apply to you, sir. What you hda to say in this video was very sensible & helpful. Thank you.
One thing I want to touch on is that people can use the buddy system when possible. When you are in a group you are less vulnerable and not easy pickings for a cowardly aggressor. I know it's not possible for some to have a friend or two coming along on a outing but people have similar needs so find a friend or two to join you in grocery shopping and all of y'all can go to the store together for the same reason and it's a lot more fun 😊 too.
I am 72 and soon will own a truck camper, God willing. Great video, just Great! The only thing that I might add is to think about getting a dog. My personal pick is an Eskimo spitz; the American Spitz is a little smaller. I love the breed. I wanted a dog that would be protective but not aggressive. This is the one that fit the bill for me. Whether it's a small dog, medium, or large, many attackers will back off and pick on someone else rather than tackle someone with a dog. They aren't called man's best friend for nothing, especially if you are a woman. :) May God Bless you richly. There is no telling how many people that you have helped or will help until Heaven .
I'm in my mid 40s and weight train almost every day. My 21 year old son is about the same size and doesn't weight train and I don't stand a chance when we grapple. He's so much stronger and faster it's ridiculous. I can do the math on how helpless the elderly are against a young attacker.
Thank You both videos are great!!!! I am a fitness professional who teaches older adults.. we work on strength, endurance, stability, balance and fall prevention. I encourage everyone to do those things. Falls kill more seniors than any other disease or ailment. If your balance isn’t great, work on it. You can probably find videos to help you if a class is not available in your area. I carry bear mace when I walk my dog. We have coyotes and if I were to run into someone that had bad intentions, the spray goes about 25 feet so it buys me time and distance. I am not looking to let someone get close enough to be in striking distance. I walk in a commercial area and I make friends with the other walkers and employees of the commercial establishment. I make friends at all the places I go. You would be surprised how people look for you and watch out for you when you do that. The other thing I want to say is you can use the physiology of the body to your advantage. Adrenaline is very powerful and you will surprise yourself, but you can really only fight for your life for about 2 minutes on the average, but I never underestimate my seniors. They have my respect.
Far better to be situationally Aware, and healthy enough to avoid any direct confrontations. Posture, poise and preparation can save the day. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by six if it seems life threatening strike first.
Sir, your videos are extremely effective. It's obvious that you understand the world of defensive tactics and offensive. For those reasons I listen when you speak. Those who don't are showing their ignorance.
Why are they watching videos like these if they already know it all! And worse, why leave those negative comments. Move on, you are not the only one in the world. I find these videos informative and appreciate the time you have taken to even think of the invisible population..the elderly. Non-elderly forget that one day they will be elderly…you can’t avoid it unless you don’t die prematurely.
I’m in my late 70s, not in great health, walk w/a cane and can’t run so my options are pretty limited. We seldom go out after dark and most of our travels are to the grocery store, doctor or out to lunch w/friends. Your videos are a good reminder to be keenly aware of my surroundings all the time. I used the cupped hand slap to the ears when I was forced to fight a combative suspect. It instantly disorients & makes the person very dizzy.
First video of yours I've watched. Very well presented. 1. As you said, avoidance is key. Head on a swivel, game face on (don't look like a victim). Stay out of sketchy areas. Cross the street or retreat to avoid a group of people who don't look right. If possible, don't be alone when out walking, shopping, etc. This complicates things for the predators, and they will be less likely to select a pair of people. Another part of avoidance is being able to calm down an angry person, prevent escalation. 2. Do enough exercise to be limber and able to move well (if possible). If you are frozen up, it doesn't matter how many black belts you have. 3. Having any equalizer implies that you can move well enough to use it effectively. If you need a cane for mobility, you should probably have a fire arm. Same with a knife. If I am a predator wearing a coat and gloves, ideally leather, I am not worried about a feeble old geezer with a knife. 4. Personally, I only want two weapons. Either a fire arm for an extreme situation I couldn't avoid, or a thin steel rod about 12" long. Ideal is a 1/4" drive socket extension, which does come in a 12" length. Use it for shins, the head and fists. A tool to keep him at distance. Otherwise I prefer no weapon at all. 5. Because surprise is the best advantage, consider acting weaker than you are. This is if you think getting physical is unavoidable. Program him to be overconfident, then attack. Takes the fight out of a lot of guys. 6. If you have a fire arm, have it in your hand (still in the pocket or holster) or quick to pull out as soon as you perceive danger. Even get it out early. Let him know what awaits him. This is also avoidance, on the extreme end. BTW I am 74, and would give most young guys a hard time.
My wife and I are both in wheelchairs. At home she uses crutches and I use a Walker. I’m 68 and she’s 65. We can’t outrun an attacker even in powerchairs and my arm strength has been on the downturn thanks to nerve damage. If I get hit right in the neck I could end up a quadrapallegic especially since i dodged that bullet already years ago. I carry because we have already come across people who don’t like disabled people. We used to have a couple of very protective large dogs who were with us. Problem solved. Our current dog is large but not aggressive. In these days of increased homelessness, increased use of highly addictive drugs and road rage incidents on the increase the chances of meeting less than friendly people is also increased. I am aware of things around us and if something doesn’t feel right, we’re oughta there. It is definitely a more dangerous world out there and that has nothing to do with the number of guns in this country. Guns make life safer for a lot of people. Like they say though : “I’d rather be tried by 12 than carried by 6”.
Stay safe Dennis. People who don’t like disabled people have never been injured or humbled by life. It comes for all of us in the end. Stay safe and abc - always be carrying!
i am crippled with nerve damage and i walk with a cane, i am always on the alert for i realize i am a target. i keep certain things on my person when i'm out and about because when i do step out with absolute mental clarity / certainty i will return home safe and sound.
Nice work on your videos for seniors (which inspired me to subscribe) and the first on for seniors was spot on. That is coming from a 81 year old that has been involved in martial arts for over 50 years and specializing in teaching folks how to avoid/deal with street violence for the last 20 of that 50 years. I now teach seniors to do the same. I did not see one flaw in anything you said and would recommend to my students to follow you channel.
From someone that talks too much, you do not talk too much, good tips and advice. I am 75 years young and today my mother turns 100 and is still well and active, so I have every reason to live longer. Thanks Tom
As a senior I really appreciate your video presentations geared toward our own safety. Well thought out, and very well presented in a no nonsense way. I learned a lot from you with this and hope you continue along this path. You help a lot of people and that is a big deal these days. Those who think you talk to much probably prefer to hear their own voice most of all so they don't have to actually think. Again...thank you....and job well done!!
I appreciate your videos, I live in the UK and I'm a skinny old 75 year old male, I have owned guns all my life but the UK don't allow ANYTHING to be carried for self defense, I avoid trouble as best as I can and I'm always aware of my surroundings, I also carry something despite the stupid law.
Same in Canada. They want law abiding citizens to be absolutely defenseless. I bring a knife and a walking stick with a concealed sharp point in case I encounter coyotes when walking my dog. But if I were to use these as weapons defending myself in Canada, I'd be the one who got charged.
“ Be water my friend. Water can flow. Water can crash. “ Bruce Lee Be aware, be vigilant. Focus and flow let them hit the wall , move away and keep your distance to prevent any contact in the first place. Thi Chi , Sensei Thank you
I just discovered your channel. I am impressed with your knowledge and skill level. More importantly, you are succinct and your delivery is outstanding. You are definitely a great teacher. Ignore the naysayers, focus on people like me who understand and appreciate your message. Yes, I am elderly now, but my mindset is much younger. I am 75 years old and give thanks to people like you and to my early training in self defense while I was in the Marine Corp. I also thank Smith & Wesson and Sig Sauer. Once again, great job keep it up.
Being able to avoid confrontation is how I’ve been able to live to the age of 65 so far although I I wasn’t able to avoid all confrontation, but I didn’t come out unscathed. 😎🇺🇸👍 but once again thanks for the good solid advice. Keep them coming brother.
I think you do an excellent job of instructing people . Keep up the good work . I am 67 and believe that always being aware of your surroundings is the most important . Don't be afraid to always be looking around especially if something could be threatening to you . And yes , carry yourself in a manner that you don't look like an easy prey . Your calmness as you teach is great too.
Never caught your prior video but though I too were already aware of the information I think you covered via your explanation I still thoroughly enjoyed your video and even as the apostle Peter said concerning the scriptures though you already know this and are established in this, I think it meet to stir you up by putting you in remembrance,so thank you for reminding me and keep up the videos,love the analogy that I win every confrontation I avoid and since I have degenerative disc disease, I have trouble whipping a bowl of ice cream,God bless
Hey thanks brother I’m 66 years old can carry fire on because I don’t wanna break the law enough said about that. I’m a veteran my marriage is over. I’m about to take a road trip everything you’re saying is a huge help to me. There’s not an extra word so thanks again keep up the good work.
💗🙋 Thank you!! 50% of your video is worth 100% supply of confidence .. knowing we don't have to think of ourselves as "victims" and reminders regarding being alert and prepared as much as possible.😊💌
I'm 63 and retired law enforcement. It is much easier to be proactive and avoid being a victim than it is to have to fight someone. 10 years ago I was working in a county jail where I had to be in shape and able to go hands on if needed. At 63, I DO NOT want to go hands on with anyone. So thank you for teaching folks how to avoid getting into the situation first. It's my opinion, if you are in a situation where you have to go hands on, you are actually in survival mode. And that may have nothing to do with trying to overpower someone physically.
Thank you No one goes looking for a fight just bad people looking to make us victims or easy pray. I did watch your first video it was good and thank you for follow up video.
Part 2 was my 1st exposure to your channel. After watching it's 1st few minutes I hunted Part 1 and watched it before Part 1. You did teach important concepts in Part 1. I watched Part 2 and found myself knowing that if I'm tricked into allowing anyone to get close enough for me to need to tell them, "Back up" It's time for me to think I might need to exercise my 2nd amendment right. That's because I keep my head on a swivel and avoid even an elbow brush proximity. I also avoid going near a group of people standing idle and near each other "visiting". Plus if I see some one or a group migrating toward me I make a move to migrate away from them and watch how they react. When shopping I leave at least 10 parking spaces between my vehicle and other vehicles. That allows me to scan the parking lot while going both ways. I'm not paranoid but I'm aware of and am prepared for today's atmosphere. I can and do avoid going to places where "macho" is flaunted as regular behavior. I'd much rather avoid such a fight than to win such a fight. I don't want to need to spend as much time as required with LEOs following 2nd amendment exercise. And I prefer t spend my resources on activities I deem more enjoyable than on answering questions from $500.00 an hour lawyers. I see no need for you to apologise for your teaching. IF people think they need different or additional techniques my thoughts are they found your channel all by themselves, I bet they can find those other types of "tips" they want all by themselves, too.
I’m almost 78.That means I’m elderly by definition. Even 20 years ago I was imposing figure and rarely was confronted. That was then…but this is now. I stay in shape to the best of my ability,but my winning fight days are long gone. I carry two weapons on my person at all times. Most importantly I’m proficient,not great,but proficient…and practice my skills daily. But the object should be,is to avoid being a target.. My advise …use your brains…that’s your most potent weapon.
Thank you for your presentations - I find it informative, and the way you describe events/situations and possible solutions, is easy to absorb. To all your critics, I would like to say that all their crying and moaning does NOTHING to help us old folks to retain some hope for life. I live in South Africa, where every walk to the corner store is a journey speckled with murderers and thieves openly threatening us. My trusty .38Spl is always with me, but as the years progress, I realize that I might not be quick enough to draw and shoot. Avoiding conflict is uppermost in my mind these days. Keep up your work, and may you be blessed for catering for us, the lame and the old.
Information such as this in today's society is so very important. Especially for us vulnerable seniors. Previously our world was so much safer. And people didn't face what's become common dangers that they do today, that threaten our personal safety. I have aged being in a ready mindset. But I see so many seniors younger than I that are walking victims. It's really difficult here in Canada to be in a prepared state of readiness. Because you are NOT allowed to carry anything for the purpose of self defense. That's why there are typically so many victims that don't do well when attacked. Both young and old alike come out on the losing end. There are shootings and stabbings daily in our big cities. It's not so bad further out of those city environments. But in the past couple of years since the COVID, things have clearly deteriorated. So to actually increase your level of survival, that Situational Awareness Factor that you talk about. Becomes extremely important with what we have to work with legally. Other than that to protect yourself or any Loved one that's with you. You are forced to violate the Law the same as the criminal you may be facing. I would recommend that people carry with them whatever it is they feel comfortable with and can effectively use. Even though it may violate the Law. The only person responsible for your safety is you. Carry what you will that increases your ability to survive any street level altercation. You owe it to yourself and your family to live. If you are unable to use a knife against another Human Being. Then don't opt for that. Choose something non-lethal like Pepper Spray. We can buy that here because they sell it for protection against nasty neighborhood Dogs. I look forward to picking up whatever knowledge and techniques I can when it comes to having to venture out in a dangerous world. Thanks for addressing this important area of concern for seniors.
Most important lesson is don't put yourself in a fight if you can help it. Remember there is no such thing as a tough guy. Only the dead and ones that got lucky. Walking away from a fight is probably the hardest and smartest thing you can do.
Great and inteligent presentation! Forget the downers! It seems that being outspoken and criticizing enhances the "armchair warriors" egos. I'm 81, vietnam vet, trained in judo, kung fu, boxing, and more and I still seek to prepare myself for my family and others! I appreciate your expertise and forgiving demeanor!
I wrote this in your 1st presentation & I wanted to say again in this presentation... I'm 73, spent 6 yrs Army Res during the Nam War. I can handle most weapons,because I've shot them all. So why do I have a 20 round mini mag, .22LR laser pistol & a 20 ga. pump action shotgun for home protection?... Because my petite, 5'1" wife can handle both those weapons easily... with me... You'll look like swiss cheese when I'm done with you. And I open carry a 50 cal. non-lethal, 10 round, tear-gas pistol and a 7" blade hunting knife when I road travel on vacation... I have never had a problem, and pray I never do... Thank you, you are a blessing... Don't listen to those trolls & armchair brainiacs🇺🇸
Thanks you sir ,you don't talk too much . I think your presentation is very complete and easy to listen to ! I look forward to your next video !! Glad I found your channel and subscribed !!! I've been subscribed early in this venture 👍✌
Those three tips in the first video are the top three. Health, awareness, weapon. The assault you avoid is the assault walk away from. Second thing, violence from domestic partners and children. Get out of those situations. What I have read is half of assaults on the elderly are from family. For the younger viewers looking out for a parent, I say "you will probably be this old some day." And I am speaking to you. There are other things that can be done to reduce probabilities of being assaulted. Get out of urbanized areas. Stay healthier than your peers. This will require sacrifices over the years. It is easier to stay fit and active than to get fit and active after retiring. There may be financial sacrifices of living like a peasant. You may never go on a cruise. Invest wisely starting young. If you make these sacrifices and live in a quiet small town when you are old the chances of assault go way down.
Tbh there's always gonna be trolls and "experts" on UA-cam. It's easy to criticize, but you'll never see them put out a video in response. Your channel's great and your audience is appreciative ✊
Seniors need tips ! We are retired and traveling Latin America for years. We both do strength training and stay as jacked as possible at 56 and 61. Our number one goal is not looking like an easy target, and at least at this point we don’t. Seniors….stay jacked !
Keep doing what you do. Listening to your positive and calm attitude offers the best advice. Watching dramatized action and technique may be helpful, but you stress the mindset and mentation, which is something anyone can do. And I think that's the most important part of self-defense and not being a victim. Cheers!
Thank You from a 74 year old lady from Tampa, Florida. For me your video gave me valuable information. Information that I did not know. I will continue listening and watching your channel. I was hoping for some self defense for women and elderly. Our country has become very frightening ! Thanks again ! Jeannie
As an almost 75yr old female whose health has gone down hill since having covid (no jab) who walks with a cane,has a firearm and pepper spray I GREATLY APPRECIATE this video and the way you Comunicated it!! Thank you Sir!! New subscriber that needs to watch part 1❤
Thank you i am a79 year old woman with a 83 year old husband who has had several strokes and i have many problems myself so any information you have for us is greatly appreciated God bless you
Morning, thought the last vid. was freaking perfect! This one as well. You did NOT talk too much, nor was it impractical...nor was it all common knowledge. I learned something (Valuable knowledge1) that I didn't know. Your delivery, editing, background shots...all easy on the eyes and ears. Keep up the great work!
Good tips. As a 75 year old female I don’t go to the grocery after dark. My gas tank is always half full. I walk with a purpose and watch my surroundings.
Very smart Mimi! Stay safe!
I'm 75 and in the last 10 yrs here in ;I've been robbed, mugged and hammered to the ground! Left fl a d moved back! Robbed on my bike! The police caught him! 14 yrs old! Yes in daylight ! My 55 plus is not safe either! Kids chase us in our gated pool area with fists! The police use the race card and tell .e everything has changed and the kids get away with everything! What! So unless you get really hurt no help! The hoa board says we can't afford security! Our society's in trouble! The elderly aren't safe a d no consequences for the kids and thugs! Im trained and run bike etc! More fit than alot of the kids these days! I was safe as a kid in my factory town! Now it's a crime area! God help us all!Great video!
What does a half full gas tank do for your safety?
@@JackRainfield I meant to say the tank is never below half so I have enough to get away from a situation. No running out the gas on the side of the road.
@JackRainfield You don't run out of gas. On strange road if somebody abducts you . Unfortunately I had that happen to me when I was a teenager. Rnning out of gas in the middle of a strange town is what saved me.😢
Who the heck says "You Talk Too Much?" I listen to every damn word you say and value it!
Much appreciated my friend!
@@411OutdoorsNo problem! Thanks for replying! I only recently discovered your channel. I'm approaching middle age fast and own a S&W Airweight .38 +P as an "equalizer".
Hahahaha. You talk the right amount. I talk too much but you seem to get to the point. Keep going
I carry an Airweight 22 mag, seven rounds. Accurate & reliable. Great pocket weapon.
@@sjmiller6012 ...S&W makes a 7 round .22 mag...?
Take no notice of the those who chose not to listen. I’m 70 and I found your video really helpful. Thank you.
Thank you!
I'd like to thank you for thinking like I do. One has to seriously think about one's limitations, I think it was Johnny Cash who did a song winning fights, and how that worked out.
In my younger days, I never lost a fight, now that I'm 83 I'll do whatever it takes to avoid confrontations ,and any kind of work! Your advice is very good and anyone who disagrees is just not thinking right . THANKS
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@@stevemiller3789A boy named Sue.
@@stevemiller3789Dirty Harry/Clint Eastwood’s famous quote was; “A man has to know his limitations.”
@@oldcop18
From u.k.
Remembered that for decades!
Take care, crazy at the minute!
I'm 78 and know most of what you were showing, alot of people don't know, ignor the idiots that put you down, you're doing a great job so keep on doing what you're doing.
Will do! Thanks my friend 🙂
Yes! Keep going. Don’t ever listen to the keyboard warriors. Your voice is important and your perspective is welcome. Don’t back down. Your channel is growing well!
Yes, IGNORE the critics, for every critic there are many more that appreciate what you're teaching them.
Thank you for showing the shock areas of the body, the only one I was aware of was to the eyes.
I'm 78 and I know my strength has decreased greatly. Though I have a gun and a carry permit, I seldom carry. I carry a folding knife, but it's in my purse. I don't shop at night anymore, just a few years ago I'd head to the all night pharmacy or all night Walmart at 2 a.m., but not anymore! Keep up what you're doing! 💞
411, it's me again an old man who is a Defensive Tactic Expert. Being an elderly man with a lot of street experience as a retired police officer I think you have done a good job at making people think about their surroundings. One thing I've learned from being a teacher of survival tactics is there is always someone better, faster and younger. It only takes one mistake for things to go the wrong way. I was at a Defensive Tactics Training Simonar in St. Louis Mo, back in the late 80's taking a knife defense course and in the class were several Navy Seals and some SF kids. I say kids because they were so damn young and excited about their jobs. During the demonstration some of the soldiers complained about not going far enough to go for a kill. Having over twelve years experience in Aikido at that time I offered to show them a more lethal move. I explained since the carpeting had very little backing the throw may be a little hard. After demonstrating an outward wrist twist into a knife removal and taking the knife down the victims arm to the back of the skull the soldiers immediately began tossing each other around as young men can. The more they practiced the take down I realized how professional they were and hoped I would never have to confront them on the street. I think knowing where you are going watching your surrounding is very important. Being a Federal Conceal Carry permit holder has its advantages since I carry a handgun and knife at all times. I also use a cane while I'm out running errands. I've been involved in several shooting and know the consequences of my actions. I think what most people don't realize is the bad people come at you when your back is to them and they never give you a break. Our society has changed and it is much more dangerous especially for the elderly. I loved being a police officer, but I kept getting older and the bad guys always got younger.
Be Careful Out There!
Thank you for your service and for your perspective
Nana,
Thank You Much!
What I’m afraid of is making the assailant more angry by hurting them and then they attack me more viciously. If I could run it wouldn’t scare me as much. These days the person could kill me and not get in any trouble for it but if I defend myself, because I can carry, I’ll go to jail, like Daniel Penny.
Thank you for your service sir.
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I’m an 81 year old woman and I REALLY appreciate you presenting these videos…..much appreciated and I learned much !
You don't look a day over 71
Stay safe and stay healthy!
It helps a lot if you live in a safe area, like a rural area. I never worry about walking in a town at night, even in the biggest town in my region--35000 people. I never walk in the forest at night, though.
Very useful. I’m 68 and as I’ve gotten older younger bullies have started to target me. So I’ve stood my ground and made them think again. Bullies do not want to get hurt.
My Dad taught me how to carry myself when I was young. That alone has served me well throughout my entire life, and continues to do so at 67. If we walk down the street like we are victims, by our posture, our stride, and our general body language and facial expression, we may become victims. Trouble makers pick up on that in seconds. It also doesn't hurt to have a few rudimentary skills and a bulldog attitude when it is necessary.
@@watchmanonthewall14If doesn't hurt to carry a 357 SIG or 45 and know how and when to use it, either.
I’m 58 and a heart patient. My S&W 40 is always within reach. A good knife is always in my pocket. But most importantly I avoid shady people and places.
Yes. Don’t go to those places. Stay safe Steven!
I'm 65 and usually home before dark. At least 99% of the time.
I knew an elderly gentleman several years ago. He was attacked by a young thug. He knocked the punk out. When I asked him about the incident he explained to me that he had learned "tricks" from his father. It seems his father had served in WW2 with a special unit. From what he showed it was edge of hands blows, low line kicks (almost stomps), and palm strikes. It interested me enough that I began deep research on WW2 combatives. They are NOT a martial art, but a VERY quick to learn system. Practice in WW2 combatives, cane, and firearms would help health and go a long way towards safety. Just my random thoughts.
Thank you for sharing!
I live in the UK , Lofty Wiseman ,ex SAS , has written three very good books on survival. As you know, the laws in the UK are very strict on carrying any kind of weapon. In his book URBAN SURVIVAL Wiseman advises that the only object allowed that can be used as weapon is a walking stick.
I enjoyed your video very much and have liked and subscribed.
Lots of people with few to no defensive skills want a video that will teach how to learn 20 years of defensive knowledge in a 15 minute video. Won't happen. I thank this man for his realistic approach.
Well said!
I agree with you. lots of people could really just get up and go to a good school and learn and practice instead of sitting on their ass. and you tube is full of usefull videos they can practice with as well as buying DVDs and getting a buddy to practice with.
Exactly. In addition, if you haven’t been doing strength training exercises,you’re likely in denial about how much strength you’ve lost as you’ve aged. Balance too. Recognizing our reality is vital.
Ignore the naysayers! You’re giving great advice, and I’m a 75 yo partially disabled female who listens to every word you say! Thank you for caring about us old folks. 💕👍
Thank you!
I display a sign in my living room which says”I carry a gun because I’m too young to die…and too old to take an ass whoopin’”.
Haha love it!
LOL...good one!! Thanks!!
I've got a tin sign on my front door saying ** No Trespassing...We're Tired Of Hiding The Bodies...**
Hahahaha. That’s the way i feel many days
Bad to alert a preditor your armed. The last thing an attacker should be the gun they didn't know you had. That's why open carry us stupid. Dandahermit
Thank you so much for videos like these. I'm 61 and disabled can't walk without a cane, running is not a option so I CARRY a firearm. I'm always watching things around me to avoid getting into trouble. But pulling out my firearm is the last thing I ever want to do. Thanks for showing other ways to get out of a bad situation.
I am 63. Poor health and alone.
@@marysmith9107Buy a Colt 45 and you will never be alone
As the saying goes: "Shooting someone is the last thing I want to do. But it's still on the list." 😅
You American's are so lucky we in the UK cannot carry any type even things like knuckle dusters knife's etc
@@CliffordBird-r1lCarry a horse shoe.
"Best way to avoid punch is not be there." - Mr Miyagi
Wax on, wax off.
Like going in to get ice cream in a wealthy area! Guess I should never go anywhere! I'm well trained now and saved a girls life on a walk and yes supposedly low crime! We all need to think like a cop!
I avoid, Being in the wrong place at the right time.
BEST ADVICE 😊
I am 76 yrs old and I really like your videos because you make them for seniors like myself, and I thank you very much, Sir.
There is a great need for useful tools for seniors. So many of us feel the loss of our youth. Remember all the tools, you still have in your tool box. Such as: we have life experience, We have time on our hands to prepare for potential dangers, Use your imagination, because it's endless. Ditch the victim mentality. And train. I sure hope this too can inspire others. New subscriber on the first video of yours I have just seen. I think you are terrific. Thank you.
Awareness is key, especially for the elderly. Going to the ATM? I recently saw a woman in her 70s look at the ATM machine without ever glancing around. She did two or three transactions, at the end getting cash. She never - NOT ONCE - looked up, and carried the cash away in her hand. I apologized and suggested to her that she keep her focus on her surroundings, not the cash. I showed her the mirror at the ATM, and explained why it was there. Finally, I told her to always put the cash away at the machine, and then walk briskly to the car and get in and LOCK THE DOORS. So much of self defense is situational awareness……
Absolutely 🙂👍👍
I agree 100 %.
I'm 69 years and I'm seeing more attacks by youth on older folks. A generation ago this was rare. It was a line that kids didn't cross. Thank you sir for your videos.
Exactly .. technology era ..no manners ..no values..no principals...
No traditions .
I live in London and I see this a lot ..is sickening
My mother in law is 76 and afraid to go out alone because of punks,it’s sad kind of like being in prison but without the bars. 😢
Speaking as a senior, thank you for being a good teacher and sharing your knowledge. You're absolutely correct for avoidance of a physical conflict to be the highest priority
But a mindful knowledge and mind set of how and what to do saves lives your and that attackers life as well, yes avoid if you can , but know what image you are giving to every one around you , even in the wild nature the attackers look for the ones they think they can control mentally or physically and if you do not let any one see that in you, you stay safe ! even in the worse cases of where you find your self !...
@@jimmybutler1379 Excellent advice.
Sir, I'm 76 years old and have had martial arts training in the years past. For my age, I'm not in bad shape but I will say this. Never, never, never let a potential opponent get close enough to grab ahold of you. Bad things will happen. It seems that you are giving advice to aged and possibly infirm folks that will be destroyed by a mugger if they let them get close enough. Younger and stronger perps reflexes are faster, and their strength is far superior; so your advice on getting a firearm along with training is going to be the best equalizer for the senior citizen. A cane or walking stick can be used but be advised that if they are taken away from you, they are gonna be used against you. Do not let any questionable people get close! Be aware of your surroundings!!!! Stay safe. Thanks for putting the videos out there for all the folks. Oh yeah; one thing I almost forgot; advice for guys and girls with bad intentions. Be very careful when targeting old men and women. A young person will likely run away if they can. We cannot. With older folks; many of us have former military training and will kill you if threatened with great bodily harm or death. Just advice for the wise.
Being 73 years old, I appreciate your channel, thank you for your videos.
Thanks for watching!
Good job young man, thank you, I'm old now I'm unable to do 75% of what I use to. Young people think they willa.ways be in there prime. Everything hurts like hell now but I keep moving.
Thanks my friend! Keep at it🙂
Yes Clyde keep moving 👍 I have a friend who is 67 and retired last June from being a High school campus supervisor...she has slowed down a lot and just in last 2 months copd acted up and she's in and out of hospital. 😮 I just think we all need to keep moving 👍😁
Ignore the critics- great information
Thank you!
@@411Outdoors I’m in the UK and our rising crime rates are very concerning. We cannot legally carry anything that is obviously a weapon so your equaliser information is very useful
@@jokennedy2943I agree 👍
I met a small, very elderly woman with arthritic hands at the range who shared a story I'll never forget. She & friends were out in the daytime when approached by a man who said he wanted to ask her a question. Something about him must have given her pause & as he approached she said stop right there (distance) and put her hand in her conceal carry purse. It must have been obvious she had a weapon bc she said he immediately turned and left. She told me she practiced this scenario at home and used the range often to stay competent. I was impressed and immediately bought a conceal purse after meeting her.
This is problematic. Threatening a firearm, or any other weapon for that matter, without A.) Actually having one and B.) Bring ready and able to use it without hesitation can get you killed. You'd feel pretty silly reaching into an empty purse, pocket or waistband and having the bad guy pull a real weapon and use it. Too many ne'er-do-wells are armed these days to risk a game of "guess what I've got".
@@michaelotto8696 She never said the lady was faking it or would hesitate to pull the trigger if it became necessary. You injected those thoughts. A couple of times I have also reached in and grabbed my weapon (which will reliably fire while in a pocket or bag) without actually pulling it out. It's a sound and tactically wise thing to do in certain circumstances.
@@Robnord1 You're right, I should not have assumed that was the case. I still stand by my advice to not "fake it" or simply brandish thinking that will solve the problem. If mine comes out there will be just cause and something will go bang.
Situational awareness. I'm 70 years of age and I have taught my children and grandchildren ALWAYS to be aware of what's around them and to have an escape plan. Avoidance is better than walking into trouble.
I've told my sons...if you enter a room, party etc...and you got the feeling this ain't cool. Be smooth and leave asap! Same when you meet someone who is shady..be nice and walk away.
Great video. As a 69 year old I would offer..Awareness…Avoidance…De-escalation…and if all else has failed, hit first.
Good sense advice.
My mom beat our legs with a oak cow cane , it is very painful, I testify.
Evading the cane requires skill.
Running is a good response, jumping and leaping as needed.
Thank you.
My parents gave us skills.
Dad never harmed us but encouraged self respect and respect for others.
Sticks and stones break bones.
A cousin lost an eye by a stone thrown by a playmate.
Be careful how you play.
Thank you
Grana Rose
It doesn’t matter if I already know it, the more I hear it the more automatic it becomes, which is what I need in a high stress situation. I don’t want to be standing there thinking about what to do next, I want it to be instinct.
Good point; as many have not been put to the test, but realize the potential.
It makes sense to also imagine yourself walking away from every situation whole, with restoration of safety and balance.
You do NOT talk too much! You explain fully, and have a calm, confident way of speaking that reassures this 78 yr old woman. Easy to look at too, guy ;-} This was very informative and realistic so never mind any negatives...wish I knew you personally...feel like there would be no limit to what could be learned. Us older folks know full well we are sitting ducks. Thank you for spending time out of your life to help us. Much love.
Thank you so much!
You articulated my own sentiments so well! All I can add is a big 👍
I always enjoy your informative videos. Thanks. I am 73 years old. The cane is a "medical device" that can be taken anywhere. Airplanes, courtrooms etc. Gary Hernandez has a great channel dealing with instructing about canes. A flashlight with a crenulated bezel is a devastating weapon. The Zebra F-701 is a stainless steel pen
(including the ink refill) that is a favorite among preppers. Abouut $8. Thanks again.
Anytime!
Don't 'need' a cane, but sometimes carry a self-defense cane when advisable. Thanks for your tips.
Thank you for the info about the crenulated bezel flashlight and the Gary Hernandez cane self-defense videos. I did a deep dive into both. As a 72 year old lady, I need all the help I can get.
I'm66yrs old and I thought you did fine!! I understood what you meant!!
My father in law used to work in NYC. He always carried a rolled up newspaper under his arm. He told us that a quick jab to the throat would do the trick. A newspaper as a weapon? No one would ever guess that.
Good job.👍 I'm 73, semi outdoorsman now. Thanks for educating us senior citizens .
Well done. God bless and protect you and yours.
Thanks, you too!
Amen. God gives us the right of protection. He is our protector and provider. God bless us all.
You don't talk too much. Keep up the great work.
I appreciate that🙂
Older, with disability, two canes (one a Cane Masters), and other equalization devices. We live in a time where society no longer respects or values the elder or life in general. Many young people are self focused, self interested, and self absorbed with a view on the elder as a target to prey upon. First and foremost, be aware; second nothing good happens at 0 dark thirty; so be aware and don’t be stupid. But if evil comes to you and you can’t escape be prepared to do what is necessary with a view toward life and rationality. Thank you for the sage advice and reminders.
Thank you!🙂
Suggest a S&W Airweight 22 mag for pocket carry.
I learned when I was 8 years old, that I was not designed to hold my ground in a fight. Your video is very informative, concise, practical and clear. It is obvious that you truly care about the safety of your viewers. Thank you for taking the time to share your knowledge and experience. God bless.
Im a 63 year old woman, if i had to fight I'd be sol, staying away from the threat, distance, screaming, pepper spray and my gun are my defense strategies. Thank you!
Good Morning ! I'm 63 & have seen some Fun. But I also realize I'm not a young man anymore. I've watched both your Vids & learned some things. Thanks. TAKE CARE..
Thanks for watching!🙂
In states such as New York and California it's practically illegal to defend yourself!
You've got to rely on the police who're Never There when you Need them! 😮😮
Stay safe Brushbum!
Thank you ,I am a disabled veteran in my 70
Thank you for your service brother.
One talks too much if s/he has nothing worthwhile to say. This does not apply to you, sir. What you hda to say in this video was very sensible & helpful. Thank you.
One thing I want to touch on is that people can use the buddy system when possible. When you are in a group you are less vulnerable and not easy pickings for a cowardly aggressor. I know it's not possible for some to have a friend or two coming along on a outing but people have similar needs so find a friend or two to join you in grocery shopping and all of y'all can go to the store together for the same reason and it's a lot more fun 😊 too.
I was just going to suggest that myself in the comments. There's always more safety in numbers.
I am 72 and soon will own a truck camper, God willing.
Great video, just Great!
The only thing that I might add is to think about getting a dog.
My personal pick is an Eskimo spitz; the American Spitz is a little smaller.
I love the breed.
I wanted a dog that would be protective but not aggressive.
This is the one that fit the bill for me.
Whether it's a small dog, medium, or large, many attackers will back off and pick on someone else rather than tackle someone with a dog.
They aren't called man's best friend for nothing, especially if you are a woman. :)
May God Bless you richly. There is no telling how many people that you have helped or will help until Heaven .
I'm in my mid 40s and weight train almost every day. My 21 year old son is about the same size and doesn't weight train and I don't stand a chance when we grapple. He's so much stronger and faster it's ridiculous. I can do the math on how helpless the elderly are against a young attacker.
Thank You both videos are great!!!! I am a fitness professional who teaches older adults.. we work on strength, endurance, stability, balance and fall prevention. I encourage everyone to do those things. Falls kill more seniors than any other disease or ailment. If your balance isn’t great, work on it. You can probably find videos to help you if a class is not available in your area. I carry bear mace when I walk my dog. We have coyotes and if I were to run into someone that had bad intentions, the spray goes about 25 feet so it buys me time and distance. I am not looking to let someone get close enough to be in striking distance. I walk in a commercial area and I make friends with the other walkers and employees of the commercial establishment. I make friends at all the places I go. You would be surprised how people look for you and watch out for you when you do that. The other thing I want to say is you can use the physiology of the body to your advantage. Adrenaline is very powerful and you will surprise yourself, but you can really only fight for your life for about 2 minutes on the average, but I never underestimate my seniors. They have my respect.
I like your channel. Haters need to sit down and shut up. You have lots of variety in your content. Keep it up!
Thanks so much!
Far better to be situationally Aware, and healthy enough to avoid any direct confrontations. Posture, poise and preparation can save the day. Better to be judged by 12 than carried by six if it seems life threatening strike first.
That fellow is a good instructor. Wish he were my neighbor. Thanks for the informative video. A lot taught in a short video
Excellent video sir! I'm 58 and I know I can't fight anymore, I'm physically not able to and I truly appreciate the content you are providing us!
You’re very welcome!
Sir, your videos are extremely effective. It's obvious that you understand the world of defensive tactics and offensive. For those reasons I listen when you speak. Those who don't are showing their ignorance.
Yes. Ignore the negative. Keep making your videos.
Why are they watching videos like these if they already know it all! And worse, why leave those negative comments. Move on, you are not the only one in the world. I find these videos informative and appreciate the time you have taken to even think of the invisible population..the elderly. Non-elderly forget that one day they will be elderly…you can’t avoid it unless you don’t die prematurely.
So well said 🙂 thank you!
A very calm,reasonable, and thoughtful presentation
I’m in my late 70s, not in great health, walk w/a cane and can’t run so my options are pretty limited. We seldom go out after dark and most of our travels are to the grocery store, doctor or out to lunch w/friends. Your videos are a good reminder to be keenly aware of my surroundings all the time. I used the cupped hand slap to the ears when I was forced to fight a combative suspect. It instantly disorients & makes the person very dizzy.
First video of yours I've watched. Very well presented.
1. As you said, avoidance is key. Head on a swivel, game face on (don't look like a victim). Stay out of sketchy areas. Cross the street or retreat to avoid a group of people who don't look right. If possible, don't be alone when out walking, shopping, etc. This complicates things for the predators, and they will be less likely to select a pair of people. Another part of avoidance is being able to calm down an angry person, prevent escalation.
2. Do enough exercise to be limber and able to move well (if possible). If you are frozen up, it doesn't matter how many black belts you have.
3. Having any equalizer implies that you can move well enough to use it effectively. If you need a cane for mobility, you should probably have a fire arm. Same with a knife. If I am a predator wearing a coat and gloves, ideally leather, I am not worried about a feeble old geezer with a knife.
4. Personally, I only want two weapons. Either a fire arm for an extreme situation I couldn't avoid, or a thin steel rod about 12" long. Ideal is a 1/4" drive socket extension, which does come in a 12" length. Use it for shins, the head and fists. A tool to keep him at distance. Otherwise I prefer no weapon at all.
5. Because surprise is the best advantage, consider acting weaker than you are. This is if you think getting physical is unavoidable. Program him to be overconfident, then attack. Takes the fight out of a lot of guys.
6. If you have a fire arm, have it in your hand (still in the pocket or holster) or quick to pull out as soon as you perceive danger. Even get it out early. Let him know what awaits him. This is also avoidance, on the extreme end.
BTW I am 74, and would give most young guys a hard time.
Like your drive socket extension idea. 'Clubs' are illegal in my state. Always carry a S&W Airweight 22 mag in a pocket.
Thank you very much. I'm 73, fat, can't run. You did a great job.
My wife and I are both in wheelchairs. At home she uses crutches and I use a Walker. I’m 68 and she’s 65. We can’t outrun an attacker even in powerchairs and my arm strength has been on the downturn thanks to nerve damage. If I get hit right in the neck I could end up a quadrapallegic especially since i dodged that bullet already years ago. I carry because we have already come across people who don’t like disabled people. We used to have a couple of very protective large dogs who were with us. Problem solved. Our current dog is large but not aggressive. In these days of increased homelessness, increased use of highly addictive drugs and road rage incidents on the increase the chances of meeting less than friendly people is also increased. I am aware of things around us and if something doesn’t feel right, we’re oughta there. It is definitely a more dangerous world out there and that has nothing to do with the number of guns in this country. Guns make life safer for a lot of people. Like they say though : “I’d rather be tried by 12 than carried by 6”.
Stay safe Dennis. People who don’t like disabled people have never been injured or humbled by life. It comes for all of us in the end. Stay safe and abc - always be carrying!
I always carry an Airweight 22 mag. Pocket carry. Very accurate & reliable.
i am crippled with nerve damage and i walk with a cane, i am always on the alert for i realize i am a target. i keep certain things on my person when i'm out and about because when i do step out with absolute mental clarity / certainty i will return home safe and sound.
I think you are giving the right info. You need to talk to teach. The complainer that said you talk to much is mentally disoriented
Well said!
"Disoriented" ... I've been seeing more of those lately
🤨 Where do they all come from? 🤔
@freeto9139 the broken medical system
Nice work on your videos for seniors (which inspired me to subscribe) and the first on for seniors was spot on. That is coming from a 81 year old that has been involved in martial arts for over 50 years and specializing in teaching folks how to avoid/deal with street violence for the last 20 of that 50 years. I now teach seniors to do the same. I did not see one flaw in anything you said and would recommend to my students to follow you channel.
I guess I would apply this to those who feel like that their strength and ability to handle young assailants is diminishing
From someone that talks too much, you do not talk too much, good tips and advice. I am 75 years young and today my mother turns 100 and is still well and active, so I have every reason to live longer. Thanks Tom
As a senior I really appreciate your video presentations geared toward our own safety. Well thought out, and very well presented in a no nonsense way. I learned a lot from you with this and hope you continue along this path. You help a lot of people and that is a big deal these days. Those who think you talk to much probably prefer to hear their own voice most of all so they don't have to actually think. Again...thank you....and job well done!!
Glad it was helpful!
I appreciate your videos, I live in the UK and I'm a skinny old 75 year old male, I have owned guns all my life but the UK don't allow ANYTHING to be carried for self defense, I avoid trouble as best as I can and I'm always aware of my surroundings, I also carry something despite the stupid law.
Same in Canada. They want law abiding citizens to be absolutely defenseless. I bring a knife and a walking stick with a concealed sharp point in case I encounter coyotes when walking my dog. But if I were to use these as weapons defending myself in Canada, I'd be the one who got charged.
California is also a place where it is made next to impossible for honest citizens to carry. Totally onerous restrictions and regulations.
“ Be water my friend. Water can flow. Water can crash. “
Bruce Lee
Be aware, be vigilant.
Focus and flow let them hit the wall , move away and keep your distance to prevent any contact in the first place.
Thi Chi , Sensei
Thank you
I just discovered your channel. I am impressed with your knowledge and skill level. More importantly, you are succinct and your delivery is outstanding. You are definitely a great teacher. Ignore the naysayers, focus on people like me who understand and appreciate your message. Yes, I am elderly now, but my mindset is much younger. I am 75 years old and give thanks to people like you and to my early training in self defense while I was in the Marine Corp. I also thank Smith & Wesson and Sig Sauer.
Once again, great job keep it up.
I appreciate you my friend. Have a wonderful day!
Being able to avoid confrontation is how I’ve been able to live to the age of 65 so far although I I wasn’t able to avoid all confrontation, but I didn’t come out unscathed. 😎🇺🇸👍 but once again thanks for the good solid advice. Keep them coming brother.
Thank you will do!
I think you do an excellent job of instructing people . Keep up the good work . I am 67 and believe that always being aware of your surroundings is the most important . Don't be afraid to always be looking around especially if something could be threatening to you . And yes , carry yourself in a manner that you don't look like an easy prey . Your calmness as you teach is great too.
Never caught your prior video but though I too were already aware of the information I think you covered via your explanation I still thoroughly enjoyed your video and even as the apostle Peter said concerning the scriptures though you already know this and are established in this, I think it meet to stir you up by putting you in remembrance,so thank you for reminding me and keep up the videos,love the analogy that I win every confrontation I avoid and since I have degenerative disc disease, I have trouble whipping a bowl of ice cream,God bless
Hey thanks brother I’m 66 years old can carry fire on because I don’t wanna break the law enough said about that. I’m a veteran my marriage is over. I’m about to take a road trip everything you’re saying is a huge help to me. There’s not an extra word so thanks again keep up the good work.
Thank you!
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Thank you!!
50% of your video is worth 100% supply of confidence .. knowing we don't have to think of ourselves as "victims" and reminders regarding being alert and prepared as much as possible.😊💌
75 here,and I still carry Concealed, and always will ✝️🇺🇸🙂
And the House is covered as well 😀
Your talking is much appreciated, so is your advice. Thanks and thumbs up!
I appreciate that!
I'm 63 and retired law enforcement. It is much easier to be proactive and avoid being a victim than it is to have to fight someone. 10 years ago I was working in a county jail where I had to be in shape and able to go hands on if needed. At 63, I DO NOT want to go hands on with anyone. So thank you for teaching folks how to avoid getting into the situation first. It's my opinion, if you are in a situation where you have to go hands on, you are actually in survival mode. And that may have nothing to do with trying to overpower someone physically.
Thank you No one goes looking for a fight just bad people looking to make us victims or easy pray.
I did watch your first video it was good and thank you for follow up video.
Part 2 was my 1st exposure to your channel. After watching it's 1st few minutes I hunted Part 1 and watched it before Part 1. You did teach important concepts in Part 1.
I watched Part 2 and found myself knowing that if I'm tricked into allowing anyone to get close enough for me to need to tell them, "Back up" It's time for me to think I might need to exercise my 2nd amendment right. That's because I keep my head on a swivel and avoid even an elbow brush proximity. I also avoid going near a group of people standing idle and near each other "visiting". Plus if I see some one or a group migrating toward me I make a move to migrate away from them and watch how they react. When shopping I leave at least 10 parking spaces between my vehicle and other vehicles. That allows me to scan the parking lot while going both ways. I'm not paranoid but I'm aware of and am prepared for today's atmosphere. I can and do avoid going to places where "macho" is flaunted as regular behavior.
I'd much rather avoid such a fight than to win such a fight. I don't want to need to spend as much time as required with LEOs following 2nd amendment exercise. And I prefer t spend my resources on activities I deem more enjoyable than on answering questions from $500.00 an hour lawyers.
I see no need for you to apologise for your teaching. IF people think they need different or additional techniques my thoughts are they found your channel all by themselves, I bet they can find those other types of "tips" they want all by themselves, too.
I’m almost 78.That means I’m elderly by definition.
Even 20 years ago I was imposing figure and rarely was confronted.
That was then…but this is now.
I stay in shape to the best of my ability,but my winning fight days are long gone.
I carry two weapons on my person at all times.
Most importantly I’m proficient,not great,but proficient…and practice my skills daily.
But the object should be,is to avoid being a target..
My advise …use your brains…that’s your most potent weapon.
Thank you for your presentations - I find it informative, and the way you describe events/situations and possible solutions, is easy to absorb. To all your critics, I would like to say that all their crying and moaning does NOTHING to help us old folks to retain some hope for life. I live in South Africa, where every walk to the corner store is a journey speckled with murderers and thieves openly threatening us. My trusty .38Spl is always with me, but as the years progress, I realize that I might not be quick enough to draw and shoot. Avoiding conflict is uppermost in my mind these days. Keep up your work, and may you be blessed for catering for us, the lame and the old.
In the US, can buy a S&W Airweight 22 mag for pocket carry. Very accurate, very fast.
Information such as this in today's society is so very important. Especially for us vulnerable seniors. Previously our world was so much safer. And people didn't face what's become common dangers that they do today, that threaten our personal safety.
I have aged being in a ready mindset. But I see so many seniors younger than I that are walking victims. It's really difficult here in Canada to be in a prepared state of readiness. Because you are NOT allowed to carry anything for the purpose of self defense. That's why there are typically so many victims that don't do well when attacked. Both young and old alike come out on the losing end.
There are shootings and stabbings daily in our big cities. It's not so bad further out of those city environments. But in the past couple of years since the COVID, things have clearly deteriorated.
So to actually increase your level of survival, that Situational Awareness Factor that you talk about. Becomes extremely important with what we have to work with legally. Other than that to protect yourself or any Loved one that's with you. You are forced to violate the Law the same as the criminal you may be facing.
I would recommend that people carry with them whatever it is they feel comfortable with and can effectively use. Even though it may violate the Law. The only person responsible for your safety is you. Carry what you will that increases your ability to survive any street level altercation. You owe it to yourself and your family to live.
If you are unable to use a knife against another Human Being. Then don't opt for that. Choose something non-lethal like Pepper Spray. We can buy that here because they sell it for protection against nasty neighborhood Dogs.
I look forward to picking up whatever knowledge and techniques I can when it comes to having to venture out in a dangerous world. Thanks for addressing this important area of concern for seniors.
Thank you!
I really hope the Canadian People Vote that Dictator out of Office this Time.
Man, this is something that I haven't thought much about. Thanks for getting the wheels turning.
Any time!
Thank you so much from a 76-year old widow.
Most important lesson is don't put yourself in a fight if you can help it. Remember there is no such thing as a tough guy. Only the dead and ones that got lucky. Walking away from a fight is probably the hardest and smartest thing you can do.
Even when we already know things, we need to be reminded.
That’s exactly right🙂👍
Great and inteligent presentation! Forget the downers! It seems that being outspoken and criticizing enhances the "armchair warriors" egos. I'm 81, vietnam vet, trained in judo, kung fu, boxing, and more and I still seek to prepare myself for my family and others! I appreciate your expertise and forgiving demeanor!
Thank you! I’m a 62 year old women and I understood the content and your intend. ❤
Thank you very much. I appreciate your concern for others. Be safe.
I wrote this in your 1st presentation & I wanted to say again in this presentation... I'm 73, spent 6 yrs Army Res during the Nam War. I can handle most weapons,because I've shot them all. So why do I have a 20 round mini mag, .22LR laser pistol & a 20 ga. pump action shotgun for home protection?... Because my petite, 5'1" wife can handle both those weapons easily... with me... You'll look like swiss cheese when I'm done with you. And I open carry a 50 cal. non-lethal, 10 round, tear-gas pistol and a 7" blade hunting knife when I road travel on vacation... I have never had a problem, and pray I never do... Thank you, you are a blessing... Don't listen to those trolls & armchair brainiacs🇺🇸
I carry a 4 in blade folder…open carry is illegal in Florida…concealed is not.
At home…the pump shotgun…or my 1911…which I also carry
Great advice!
Ignore the haters. I appreciate your style and information. 😊
Thank you, I will🙂
Thanks you sir ,you don't talk too much . I think your presentation is very complete and easy to listen to ! I look forward to your next video !! Glad I found your channel and subscribed !!! I've been subscribed early in this venture 👍✌
Thank you for your content us aging Americans face an ever increasing dangerous America each day .
You do not talk too much.
Thank you from most of us!
Those three tips in the first video are the top three. Health, awareness, weapon. The assault you avoid is the assault walk away from.
Second thing, violence from domestic partners and children. Get out of those situations. What I have read is half of assaults on the elderly are from family.
For the younger viewers looking out for a parent, I say "you will probably be this old some day." And I am speaking to you. There are other things that can be done to reduce probabilities of being assaulted. Get out of urbanized areas. Stay healthier than your peers. This will require sacrifices over the years. It is easier to stay fit and active than to get fit and active after retiring. There may be financial sacrifices of living like a peasant. You may never go on a cruise. Invest wisely starting young. If you make these sacrifices and live in a quiet small town when you are old the chances of assault go way down.
Situational awareness is the BEST defense for anyone of any age.
I’ve been training and helping people to learn how to defend themselves my whole life and I think your advise is very good advice.
Thanks
Tbh there's always gonna be trolls and "experts" on UA-cam. It's easy to criticize, but you'll never see them put out a video in response. Your channel's great and your audience is appreciative ✊
I appreciate you greatly!
@@411Outdoors thanks bro!
It's not common knowledge. Don't worry about the shmucks. Thanks for the video. It's great.
Thanks for that!
Seniors need tips !
We are retired and traveling Latin America for years. We both do strength training and stay as jacked as possible at 56 and 61. Our number one goal is not looking like an easy target, and at least at this point we don’t.
Seniors….stay jacked !
Keep doing what you do. Listening to your positive and calm attitude offers the best advice. Watching dramatized action and technique may be helpful, but you stress the mindset and mentation, which is something anyone can do. And I think that's the most important part of self-defense and not being a victim. Cheers!
Thank You from a 74 year old lady from Tampa, Florida. For me your video gave me valuable information. Information that I did not know. I will continue listening and watching your channel. I was hoping for some self defense for women and elderly. Our country has become very frightening ! Thanks again ! Jeannie
If you said one thing that helps one person, the video is worth it! Thank you.
Yep, avoidance is #1...if you can.
As an almost 75yr old female whose health has gone down hill since having covid (no jab) who walks with a cane,has a firearm and pepper spray I GREATLY APPRECIATE this video and the way you Comunicated it!! Thank you Sir!! New subscriber that needs to watch part 1❤
Thank you!🙂
New Subscriber. 62 Yr Old Disabled Woman. Thank You. MAY YAHUSHUA HA’MASHIACH BLESS YOU ✝️✝️✝️
Thank you! 🙂
Thank you i am a79 year old woman with a 83 year old husband who has had several strokes and i have many problems myself so any information you have for us is greatly appreciated God bless you
You as well!
I’m a 68 year old retired postal worker! I’m a man who has been around guns my entire life! I refuse to be a victim!
Morning, thought the last vid. was freaking perfect! This one as well. You did NOT talk too much, nor was it impractical...nor was it all common knowledge. I learned something (Valuable knowledge1) that I didn't know. Your delivery, editing, background shots...all easy on the eyes and ears. Keep up the great work!
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you!
Thank you. Please keep providing this type of information. You are an excellent teacher.
Thank you for the encouragement!