I do not accept - Mnakwethu | Mzansi Magic
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- Опубліковано 17 лют 2020
- MaNzama says she will try to allow her husband to take a second wife after Musa Mseleku helps to convince her.
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For crying out loud! They dont even have couches but he wants a second wife. Bathong 😭
Yey.. It was said in the end 7 women will cling to one man.
The nerve😂🤣🤣
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Say that again
Dead dead dead😂🤣😂😂😂🤣😂😂
The wife looks like Penny Lebyane at a glance...
I thought they had invited her as a guest presenter before watching. They do look alike.
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Reah Ndaku
she is soo beautiful
This show doesn’t deserve a second season. I find it highly offensive, I can’t watch such heartbreak.
Mxm
Ya wena don't watch it thina we love it
It's sickening indeed.
I agree with you
Thank you Stha it effen doesn't make sense yoh
He can't even afford the first wife but he is adding another poverty on top
Sis! You can say that again,xm
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😂😂😂😂 chaaaai poverty indeed
Yaz
Yaz nam I see poverty nje, and muhle lo sis we 1st wife nginguye mina il leave lobhuti nale girlfriend yakhe
Kodwa our sisters are so cruel 💔💔how do you cause so much pain for another sister 😢😢😭😭aysuka 💔💔I felt her pain
You can say that again.... how can another sister do this to another sister and at the end say... I'm happy....haaw
Leadership
@@fulufhelokhalushi2584 and yall women claim to be united and love each other! This proves that women dont love each other and only think of themselves!
But the woman did not promise to be faithful to the other woman. The man said the vows and promised his eternal love to his wife. He must respect that. With that being said, yes other women don't respect other people's relationships.
I guess in the end you agreed with me-@mpume phakathi 😊we ought to protect each other from this toxic thing instead of putting more luggage and pressure amongst our fellow sisters but point taken!
When Mseleku said "Thina asi cheati siyathandwa" 😭 As a man I feel gutted with that statement!!! What kind of animals are we kodwa Madoda??💔
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I felt that too
That's just an excuse for his lustful ways, but God will not be mocked. He will judge the adulterers and fornicators.
Syoyoyo uGogo wakho abethe uyi sthembu sesizwe🤔
The whole thing is disguting
“We don’t cheat,we fall in love” 😂😂😂😂head office yamasepa words I tell you. Am shoook
RUBBISH, LOVE SE FOOT. MSELEKU KE MPSA
😂😂😂😂😂 imagine
i mean the audacity of Mseleku to utter such nonsense.
The wife is absolutely GORGEOUS!
This episode broke my heart, the way she shed tears and leaned against the wall for support! I felt it with you my sister....
Was gonna pack my bags and leave
Don't know what this show is promoting
Nelisiwe Nkwanyana I am honestly trying to be open minded about this show. But all it brings is pain and uncertainty for our fellow sisters.
When the lady of the house cried # that broke and touched my heart deeply...
That true😓
Ya
Me too wanted to cry too
Hmmmm kunzima
And the husband doesn't even care that she's crying. That hurts.
This guy can't even afford to buy a furniture for his house but still want second wife
Ayimbi indlu ngekuqalwa ngayo bf kuyolotyolwa omnye umntu akukubi njr
Uyabheda lomfo
Kodwa you want a 2nd wife ngapho uhluleka to fix your house?
Thandiwe Thandi Silengane house where??? Its a hostel. There isn’t even a couch or room divider
It's sad
Bahlez ogqokwen lwebhentshi yo nalogal nx
Isthutha nje lesi
Thandiwe loool eish you make me laugh yaz but maybe ksemqashweni lapha kwaaaaks yaz izinto esizibona Lana zyahlekisa ngempela nghlekiswa kakhulu yibhetshi abahleli kulona yooooh eish
The first wife is too gorgeous to put up with such nonsense i advise her to go get tested imagine being in the state of being controlled and compelled by such situations with a volume of poverty added at hand if it was me would move out in peace find a job and start afresh
I agree
2:21 "Cheating if for western people", remember that when you come home after a hard days work and you find your wife in bed with the neighbor, remember its not cheating they are in love.
@Ch17, l love how you say this 😂😂😂😂
A married woman found with another man in bed uyabufeba,= isifebe simple. Married man found in bed with another woman is isolated = uyathandwa!!!
Anasimba wodwa lawa
@@TheSARAFINA2000 that irritated me too much n the fact dat i hate this show👹👹👹
🤣🤣🤣🤣True
I wish women can just walk away from this emotional distress but they always stay and agree to be sister wives
Why though? 😭😭😭 like how do they do it? Yohhh I guess I'm weak cause I'm out ✌
I am asking myself the very same question, Why are they staying?
@@nomaswazikamathe3047 Beacuse they devoted their lives into being housewives with no other income except from their husbands. That's what you get for making some decisions in life. Education and/ or hardwork are not for men only.
I think I'm not ready for marriage because in situations like these, l won't hesitate packing my bags and going back home. This is an indirect way of a man saying "It's over"🙄
The moment this mseleku man pops in ,I'll go to my room n pack my bags without even listening to their nonsense
@@mphomtshali9501 😂😂😂😂 for real!!! The minute I see him, I'M OUT 😂😂😂
I did exactly that . I left .where is his isothembu dololo .2nd wife after me left .the one who was going to be isothembu with me is nowhere to be seen .I sithembu siqina nge competition .No rivalry no competition no Isithembu
@@solimeko7131 👏👏👏👏
Marriage to a man who loves you and cherishes you is a beautiful thing. Unfortunately that doesnt make for good entertainment. So you wont see it on tv. Dont be discouraged marry a good man. They exist, I'm married to one and so are many women like myself. Pray for a good man God will grant you. Marriage is still a beautiful thing.
This whole show does not deserve another season.
Honestly 😭😭😭
Vutomi Mabaso it’s just so oppressive 💔
True...its so emotionally abusive
True dat.
But this show just shows reality, show or not.. This is what our sisters go through everyday.
How could U want second wife if U can't afford the first wife yah nee
Facts only 👏👏👏
This is an emotional abuse to us as women. Phantsi ngoMseleku nokubhidliza imizi yabantu phantsi!!!
MSELEKU is just showing the reality of what's going on out there..
PHANSI
I doubt this has anything to do with uMseleku but it shows how evil women are, we are actually the initiators of this abusive how do you carry on dating a married man knowing very well what you doing is hurting another sister. We are promoting this demand period
Uyanya
Whether this show is here or not but this is what most women go through everyday
THIS SHOW MUST BE CANCELLED!!!
Why
It a useless show that can cost lot of untrusting and cheating because awoman can cheat and tell you that you were cheating before let me do the same
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show must be cancelled but u watching it
Thats why the is a high rate of hiv in the country
Hiv is not only in South Africa but da whole world
Especially in KwaZulu-Natal because of such bullshit, they say they don't cheat they love
Nxe Mseleku nje fuseg!!! You guys undermine us soooo much😡
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U happy for putting tears in another woman's eyes hawu ngi happy se foot is there anyone out there who can help Manzama to get a job she needs employment to deal with such nonsense
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Eish I am praying for her😢😢
Do you think they care it is all about them .
How do you ask for another wife, when there are no sofas in the house..... Ay no no
Yaz!
The man has no means to sustain two wives..look at the state of the house the wife living in.
@@sindisilezwane5301 They'll have to get a job. 3 incomes can do better.
Mybe its not about tht of not having sofas i thnk they want 2 do it culturally 2 use those wood chairs and don't 4gt i ancestors use 2 have many wifes and da waams no job at tht time amd mybe me and u we're in life cos of tht polygamy marriage but we don't knw
@@billymashamaite9892 dear already they are 2, so I would love to believe that better 2 than one, but already the 2 is unable.
The poverty in this fools house, sitting on a wooden bench like a witchdoctor’s consulting room... these women are too beautiful for this mess.
Do u even understand the word witchdoctor...?
Rassie Matsobane ..perfectly and I used it in its intended meaning, and no I was not confusing it with a traditional healer or ancestral doctor.
OK dear, thanks a million n I appreciate that, since I was not fighting but will to educate.
Rassie Matsobane all is well🤗
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Look at the house🤷♀️ how is he going to afford a second wife? Mistress: Nje....ngi happy....happy for what?? Your husband cannot even afford to buy his first wife a chair...
Njeee
That's a point useless sidechick
MaNzama is a gem; the husband does not realise it. She is humble and beautiful. I just wish she could realise this and have self belief and the strength to walk away from this marriage. Im sure she will be successful on her own.
That man can't even buy decent chairs for the wife but he want a second wife😂😂😂😂😂😂....this must be a joke bathong
The way I wish singakhe siyocelwa kwaXhosa esi sithembu 🤣🤣🤣singabona umhlola nje🤣🤣🤣
I wish nam mntase I want to see something I respect my Xhosas ladies kunganyiwa
Singanyisa plus noMseleku lowo wabo thina
Im sorry is there no polygamy in xhosa culture?
@@nompilontuli7195 there is baby
Ntombizandile Msizi angazisola kaloku yena lowo ba ebesiyaphi🤣🤣🤣
Ufuna Isthembu kodwa basahlala emabhentshini🙄🙄 ayivalwe leShow ngeke! Musa is promoting uku cheata not isithembu..
Gugu Kubeka tell me about that 😩rhaaa amadoda
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And angikaze ngibone indoda enjengaye lOMSELEKU ENEMALI KILO MNAKWETU KONKE NJE OMALAMBANE HAI SUKA
Akunazihlalo endlini ufuna omunye umfazi
She said she has to accept she had no choice I felt she does not have anywhere else to go and she is not employed, he goes to work
There is always a choice if you scratch your head hard enough . I was unemployed when I took my kids and left, without qualifications I took every job that came. I would do it all over again
Imagine as beautiful as she is. I blame poverty in all this😭
@@charlottendimande8964 i thought she said she studied at Unisa. She only needs someone to motivate her and convince her she can make it on her own outside this marriage. A respectable man who will cherish, love and respect her is waiting somewhere out there and its just a matter of time before he finds her. Have courage and walk away MaNzama!!!!
Yes. Felt the same uyazi. She does not have anywhere to go shem
i cant wait to have a female on the show to inform her husband that she wants to be taken by another husband.
Hai guys in all honesty this show must come to an end really. i know this might be tradition to others but this is leaving so many women heart broken. Even when the lady says no, they will still find a way to make her agree to this, they dont have a choice but to say YES to all of this.... SAD
Thandi Buthelezi even if the show comes to an end it will still continue 🙄 let other people make their money in peace 🙄 don’t watch if you have a problem with it
@@millasmilla6265 i guess thats all that matters in this day and age MONEY
@@thandibuthelezi3441 abantu ave ezizlima useleku unikhombhisa ukwenzekayo LA emnyango if u don't like the show keep gpwing who stopped u
@Truth Speaker primitive
😂😂😂😂He said "we don't cheat we get loved " 😂😂😂hayi ke if that's how being in love works then I don't want to love anyone.
If I do get married and my husband does this to me, I will definitely leave him...I mean we cry ourselves to sleep because of men most of the time,we go through things and tolerate their under performance, but when we under perform they find someone to fill the need mxm bullshit on another level......I hope these women heal from such disrespect.
@Truth Speaker We are adults , if you feel pressured then speak up, no one is obligated to do anything they don't want to do, I mean its your life, you get to choose what to do with it, if you don't want commitment , then be truthful from the word go. Don't be hurting someone else's daughter for nothing.
@Truth Speaker If you are unsure of your actions, then why act on them to begin with?
Only u hu cries over men dear, live ue life stop stressing
@@sasahsanelemasondo9481 men think with thwir penises, they start regretting later. As far as i know stability is the only thing wich can keep me with someone, i can never police a man, n never love a man that is nonsense wich will cause u heartbreak
@@prettydamsel9237 Its quit clear that most women are weak when it comes to relationships, we put extra efforts even on people who don't deserve it.
i nearly cried when the wife cried.
"We don't cheat." 😩😭 I died a death
So his not cheating his falling in love 😂😂... this is straight up fuckery!!!
Mseleku he is a destroyer how on earth he is going around spreading evil nd hurt women if I was those zulu women I was gonna cheat nd cheat like no body's business
I don't know what to say, but it hurts 😞😞😞
It shows that the devil is at work
Unfortunately you are not them bye
And that would help you how?
You sound like you're already doin it!!
My heart sank when he said "impilo iyaqubeka"
Why are they sitting on bunk stools kodwa isithembu is an option?
Money isnt everything BUT ngeke ndi ngene kwi poverty ndiyibona. I repeat NGEKE
This is poverty at a Highest level 🤔
if im one of these woman..once ngbon uMseleku ill run n run n run 🤣🤣🤣
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Ngimnikele nenja imlume strue
Babu Mseleku ukuba usifundisa ngokuphathana kahle kwabantu abaganene Kule show yakho kungaba sikushayeli zandla,ukuba usifundisa ngokuthi siwugcina kanjani umlilo wothando obonakala ushabalala Kumar long relationship ngoba I cheating iqala lapho kube sengathi kungcono ngaphandle kunala ukhona,loku okwenzayo kuchithimizi,but may be you promoting it cause nawe awzhluphanga ngokulungisa inkinga owawunayo wabona I solution kunguku thatha the second wife.
Second wife for what esahlulwa ukunakekela lo oyedwa bahlala emabhentshini 🚮 two plate stove no tiles on the floor maye babo 🤣 kodwa Mseleku xovizwe ake abheke phakethe lendoda before enze lento lana nje uyabona bazixakekele nje. Mseleku ngeke ayikho lento
"we don't cheat, we fall inove" 😂😂😂😂😂 heeey siscam lento marn hayi
Buka leslima esinesisu. "AsCheat thina maZulu, syathandwa..." loool masimbenja!
I feel like this woman was forced to agree, the fact that she cried should mean something to the husband.. 💔💔💔
2020 cheating quote Men dont cheat they get loved 🙆🏽♀️
Tell me about it.... he says he was not cheating
Cheating is for the English so he said
Nonsense 🚮 😒🙄
@@slindelokuhleerzungu3805 then tell us how you say a man is cheating in isiZulu?
Hayi cc unembadi usulethelwa omahosha bamatragi cc unkosi ibenawe uthandaze kulento ekwehlele
When u get married to a zulu man,just prepare 2 welcome a second life.
The guy says cheating is for western people😂😂
One word for Mseleku "Sathane" hheyyii uSathane lobaba😭😭😭😭👏👏👏👏
Ushoda ngomsila weNja🐕
mxm Aai unesibindi soku landa uzavolo athi second wife Eeey ba lungile abanye abafazi 🤦♀️🧟♀️
Hes evil. I now believe uhamba ngezinyoka.
@@sportzd7077 apartheid existed before deklerk but hes currently being blamed for it, my men. And since it existed before we were born, does its extended existence make it right? Dont be a headless chicken brah.
@@sportzd7077 I'm not even going to attempt answering you. You are just an immature imbecile 👏
@@portiaphiri2682 He is proof that common sense is not sooo common
As a Zulu guy, I'm 22 never have I heard of a "situation" that would ever require one to take more than one wife
This is the First episode I have ever watched. This lady was completely heart broken. So unfair and sad. Rather you tell her before you marry her that you want is'thembu than spring it up later. 😓
He can’t afford to paint his house or buy a decent sofa kodwa he wants a second wife?! ....and he said the first wife is not beautiful but she has good character something like that and I was like wow, really!! Uyadelela ufudu shame! Let him get a carer for umawakhe and stop using her health condition as an excuse 😏nx!
Exactly my point
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UMaNzama is beautiful... Dont know why this man said she was not.
Musharuka I was surprised as well. She is umufazi ogcweleyo and has the character ethobekileyo to match it. It just broke my heart seeing her humiliated and disrespected like that😢
Weeeeee mmmmmm kwa bhlungu😔 MaNzama especially musu😢khala,kodwa Khuzwayo yini kodwa lamanisa MaNzama ngento embi🙆 kanjena pho??? Wena MaNgubane jabule🤔ngenyembezi😢 zika MaNzama,bt kuyeza nakuwe ngelinye ilanga🤞🤞🤞
My point exactly,lol
Nami ngivele ngakhala uthini loxamu wendoda noma engakhala kuzodlula engabe iya kuye iyamududuza
There are lot of men who are not married. why must you to another woman's house my sister. Some of us Men are just dissapointing nje, we put beautiful women through a lot
I think the must be a university that teach us woman so say no as long that thing it breaks us
Funny thing is wonke lamadoda omalambane😭😭😭😭😭😭
Bafazi asisebenzeni sibe independent coz lendaba yomshado ngat nje sijike yaba yijoke.sithembo for wat uhlulwa ngu first wife .mina ma bengeza kwami bayophuma begijima ngibaphethe ngenduku emqolo.i don't take nonsense
Ys
Nje ngi happy, klibhi !!! kuphi khona? Uyakwazi ukwakha umuzi wena? sowu happy nje.Yaz ibhlungu lento cause labo mamkhulu bafika singenayo imizi,basenzise ingqondo yabo ukuthi kubekhona imizi Kanye noshado and ba sacrifice izinto eziningi ezinjabulo ukuze kwakheke umuzi,la becabanga khona ukuzkhipha namadodabo bebona isimo sesingcono nekhayaselikhona bhuh indoda ngesaprice yentombi,isifunisthembu.its painful guys.
Lo mnetfu ulihlazo kitsi ngatsi ahlala ehostel afuna stsembu yini kodwa Maye umama wase khaya muhle kuneletfo layiladzile le sies nxa bhuti ulihlazo u still young
That's my biggest worry, labantu basebasha ngapha bagijimisana nes'tsembu,nakacedza lapho utsi noma lomake angakhala keja imphilo iyachubeka.
Musa I love you!!! Greetings from Germany 🇩🇪. As a South African woman, I find the whole thing okay, these women are not forced. There are 54 Countries in Africa if the women choose to stay and be unhappy it’s their choice.
What's okay about this when the wife says no and get coerced into something she's into. These guys depend on the host and camera presence to pressure the women in agreeing. 54 countries and your point being?
Akasampintshekile uMseleku ebhentshini 😂😂
Haaaa
Why at the end of the day these ladies accept mara.🤦♀️
Question is: what makes them allow it? Whatever the reason is... I hate it.
My question exactly......
they all say no then yes..
Is the yes genuine kumbe its for tv nje
Its like the ladies are coerced into agreeing..
It because of love. If uthanda umuntu wakho you'll say yes.
@@nalankosi haybohhh ngumbhedo kodwa lowo
Even if you understand that it's gonna b a hurtful marriage after this polygamy thing but you still say yes?
If luv is soo Good,So then why does it hurt so bad?
@blessing chauke, they accept becuase a woman never means what she says, women are indecisive by nature and always vacillate. Only a few women can put their foot down permanently.
This episode chopped so many onions, when she lean against the and cry😭😭😭, and another one says I am happy. What went wrong with us women😢😢
I see her pain in her face as she speaks
Mseleku is the poster boy for toxic masculinity! For him to sit there and openly say that cheating is a ‘western’ thing. It’s not cheating, ukuthandwa. A grown man speaking utter rubbish. I truly pity this woman, this is not a marriage worth staying in.
Mina guys ekhaya I'm always welcome back If izinto zingalungi phambili
Yebo
"Usengazi phendulela"😂😂😂😂😂😂
Umzwile umxovi eseziqhelisa lol
Inja!
😂😂😂 that sent me 😂😂
The Hurt in her eyes is too deep. I can feel it. This is not her 1st pain, life has never been good to her. I wish I could hide her. She is depressed already anyway..
the moment i saw her sitting on a low bench and the men sitting on a high bench... i got annoyed.
Mara! What is mseleku doing mara! Why is he breaking our hearts mara😭😭😭😭😭. We loved you Mr mseleku but bringing this to us,ayi! Nna akesa go kwishisha indeed mmmm!😢
Mthakathi lo
He needs to sort out the poverty issue first
Kanti bavumelani labo mama
I love how they do their makeup before they start the show.
😅😅
was asking myself who did her makeup...
Marry one woman support her in everything then you will know how supportive this people are. In fact no woman can give everything just like us men we hev our weakness does that mean the woman must be married to many husbands? Guys isithembu can be seen working in the husband's presence but when you die you will be regretting in your grave seeing that fire you started burning your empire to ashes. Even to you Mr Mseleku all those women you married will be poisoning each other one day mark my words. Just be happy about what your wife brings and learn to forget about what she doesn't offer
AyyymaNzama akashiye zothola mendo ayikho phela lento ayihlalele kupatanisiwe laphana kodwa kuzofakwa omunye umama ayyy 💔💔💔.... Bafanelene laba bowu2 vele
Yiqiniso lelo
How can you be happy while someone is hurt hai sies...thats being self centred
Cheating is western?! The host has the nerve
Firstly if you broke you have no business in being married in the first place , wanting a second wife is not only abuse it's a crime ,
So the other lady is crying and some one has the nerves to say they are happy .Wow Ladies ngiyanisaba.
She is to beautiful for this and can do so much better for herself... This lady is just so calm and humble 🚫
Sthembu is not info yokudlala you must have a very good reason to do that like example when your wife cant have children for you....it is allowed Sthembu sifuna ube nemali and use muti for peace to rain in your house...hayi kuva kusutsa kwe lipapa then you say you want isthembu
The 1st Wife is so beautiful though, clearly being beautiful means nothing!
(I wanna watch a show where a Lady wants another Husband, which already exist)
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This woman deserves a better man she is very beautiful an look very decent
I'll never settle for this
He can't buy even sofas In house but he need sec wife
Kodwa nineskhwele boDadewethu hhawu yekani amadoda
Both women are so beautiful inside and outside this man is so lucky. Both women are amazingly strong I wish them all the best.
This is sad you can tell that the wife is hurt. This i show is detrimental to all the woman who are in this and also to us as youth. Mseleku must fall for promoting downgrading woman. He has a nerve to call cheating a western thing. Would it still be regarded as falling inlove if it was the woman who was cheating. Nonsensical double standards. Mseleku is enabler akanaso nesazeli I am so pissed as woman
Humiliating your wife like this? Sies. Is this love. LoMseleku must go. This show must go.
I think they should do the same show but in reverse.. ''the woman wants to take a second husband''
I think this show is staged coz labafazi hlezi be ready neshiya on fleek. N uyabona nje baficwa behleli belindile
Kodwa Mzansi woman hayibo Kwathuleka nje nicindezelwa kangaka lo Mseleku akalindi nokuthi unkosikazi acsbange yena usuke ezokwenza sure ukuthi uya vuma, uma etshengisa ukungavumi uMseleku uyena ogxeka kuqala Women of South Africa ,. Are we so dependebt on men that we can allow such pain and abuse? Kwashonaphi ukuthi "Wathinta abafazi wathinta imbokodo" Lento iyadumaza
" nje, ngiHappy"! Square head is happy ngokuyozifaka kwiPoverty angafunwa kuyo.
Square head 😭😭😭🤣
You won’t kill me now, I’ m telling you!!
We are getting disrespected here😢😢😢This show must be stopped.
Akuthina esfuna isthembu,isimo somuzi esifuna isthembu,if kunjalo why you don't fix that situation yomuzi efunisthembu? Musukudlala ngathi Mseleku
Should I ever run into Mseleku ngzomshaya ngestini 🤞🏽🤞🏽 I seriously do not like this guy and hate this show
why is it that we have to accept these unfair requests that these man bring to us 💔💔💔💔💔💔
I get that
Uthi ngi happy!phofu another woman is crying sies
Feel like she was forced into that final decision
Lol so Zulu man dont cheat,they fall inlove