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  • Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
  • Nkanyiso sees a second wife in Phumla, but his first wife MaZuma does not agree.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 534

  • @lusscrew338
    @lusscrew338 4 роки тому +531

    These men should start by saying I’d like to apologize for cheating on you with another woman because this is cheating. 🚮🚮💔💔💔💔💔

  • @nokuthulabuthelezi3111
    @nokuthulabuthelezi3111 4 роки тому +236

    This thing causes a lot of trauma to women,God help us,this is really painful

  • @queennandi7979
    @queennandi7979 4 роки тому +53

    I love the way Phumla says umdaaaala. 😂😂😂

  • @janedoe5510
    @janedoe5510 4 роки тому +276

    I would never allow my husband to even think or fantasize about asking my permission to take a second wife. Just ask for a divorce buddy

    • @gospelallthewaymlilo5783
      @gospelallthewaymlilo5783 4 роки тому +6

      It's easy in rural areas cause they know the culture. But, in cities they're cheating big time.

    • @bighomiehydro1422
      @bighomiehydro1422 4 роки тому +6

      A divorce? You are being unrealistic. And whether u agree or not he will start another family with some1 he truly loves regardless of what u say.

    • @mahlozinibasi9560
      @mahlozinibasi9560 4 роки тому

      period!

    • @nikiwengubane3746
      @nikiwengubane3746 4 роки тому +32

      A divorce is much more better than standing for this nonsense it's cool if he start a life with another wife that he truly love as long as I'm not there futhi I wouldn't care what he is doing life goes on it's not like I'll die without a husband

    • @prettydamsel9237
      @prettydamsel9237 4 роки тому

      @@bighomiehydro1422 tell them, even if u think the man looks faithful he has a family elsewea

  • @linkysodi677
    @linkysodi677 4 роки тому +236

    Dating a Zulu man must just be considered as one of the "1000 ways to die" Yeeii y'all cause heart attacks with your s'thembus maan

    • @mlulekishezi1798
      @mlulekishezi1798 4 роки тому +7

      Mina ngifuna wena

    • @mlulekishezi1798
      @mlulekishezi1798 4 роки тому +2

      0823401858

    • @nalankosi
      @nalankosi 4 роки тому +4

      As a Zulu man I think I falling in love with you. We like the ones who come across as stubborn like you. Then I'll show who is a man....lol

    • @siyabongashezi2969
      @siyabongashezi2969 4 роки тому

      😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @sphelelemvemve890
      @sphelelemvemve890 4 роки тому

      I lyk u Linky Sodi😀😀😀😀

  • @thembisamakhoba7219
    @thembisamakhoba7219 4 роки тому +140

    Cheating on your spouse must fall.

    • @lokishvibes202
      @lokishvibes202 4 роки тому +1

      Ay isiZulu isiZulu
      Isthembu ukwakha umndeni 😌

    • @ninahmbatha1890
      @ninahmbatha1890 4 роки тому

      4 real

    • @ayandangcobo6773
      @ayandangcobo6773 4 роки тому

      @@lokishvibes202 if u knew people who grew up esthenjini u would realise how counter-productive this is to "ukwakha umdeni"

    • @lokishvibes202
      @lokishvibes202 4 роки тому

      @@ayandangcobo6773 yah "if"

  • @mary-annsetlhare8298
    @mary-annsetlhare8298 4 роки тому +31

    Good Girl👏Siyabonga Ma, dont allow if he insist, walk away futhi you are beautiful and your answer makes you more beautiful!

  • @mduntsele
    @mduntsele 4 роки тому +25

    These guys always say "ngifuna ukuvusa umuzi kababa" baphi labobaba abafuna ukuvuselwa imizi

    • @phindiledaintyndabandaba8760
      @phindiledaintyndabandaba8760 2 роки тому

      Exactly!!!! Like where are they and what did they live you with? Did they live you with a mind set of sleeping around? And secondly, if everyone listen to every nightmare you have in your sleep 🤷‍♀️ thats means this world will rule us and we will not have any direction whatsoever 🤷‍♀️

    • @sikhanyisilencube233
      @sikhanyisilencube233 2 роки тому +1

      Kkkkk ngiwuthanda umbuzo wakho Mdu

    • @carolthembelihleneta508
      @carolthembelihleneta508 Місяць тому

      Bona why bengazivuselanga imizi yakho sebezovuselwa nguwe

  • @MrsD_2022
    @MrsD_2022 4 роки тому +105

    I love the wife, straight answer, does not beat around the bush. Strictly firm.

  • @linetmazibuko4251
    @linetmazibuko4251 4 роки тому +117

    Yoh baze bavelelwa abantu besfazane ngale sthembu nkosi yami🙆🙆

    • @linetmazibuko4251
      @linetmazibuko4251 4 роки тому +7

      Angiyizwisisi nje mina lento yokuzocela kunkosikazi😏😏 uqale ujole uze umbone ukuba ngumfazi ongamthatha then sewuzocela kumkakho? Why ungaceli before ushele yikwedelelwa kwabafazi nje lokhu 🤞

    • @TheSARAFINA2000
      @TheSARAFINA2000 4 роки тому +3

      Uqinisile linet, why ? mele acele zissuka

    • @luvunoluvuno5907
      @luvunoluvuno5907 4 роки тому

      Nami ngiyafisa ukuthatha isithembu ngiyasithanda futhi ngisebenza kahle

    • @triston9618
      @triston9618 4 роки тому +1

      @@luvunoluvuno5907 ngiyakhuza Jesus ungaqali.

  • @phomellozoemakhabane2299
    @phomellozoemakhabane2299 4 роки тому +30

    Refuse les'thembu. File for divorce, sue him for maintance and emotional trauma for all eternity

  • @blinkym21
    @blinkym21 4 роки тому +77

    Lets just change the title of this program to “1st First Wife Ambush”... the way this man is so chilled out about the No is because he knows he has a back room to still handle his mess🙄

  • @maefomawela6196
    @maefomawela6196 4 роки тому +131

    THIS SHOW IS PURE DISRESPECT TO WOMEN...IT MUST STOP...ITS DISGUSTING

    • @mbongenifriendie4262
      @mbongenifriendie4262 4 роки тому +1

      This show can stop but constitutionaly n traditionally polygamy is allowed

    • @letamonteirod2036
      @letamonteirod2036 4 роки тому +1

      I agree yazi

    • @nomsaz6558
      @nomsaz6558 4 роки тому +1

      I agree with that totally, this is disrespectful.

    • @ayandangcobo6773
      @ayandangcobo6773 4 роки тому +3

      @@mbongenifriendie4262 so is divorce. Women in 2020 won't stand for such nonsense!

  • @chuenemasoga1935
    @chuenemasoga1935 4 роки тому +160

    Can this show stop please 🙄

    • @nikkymthelebofu299
      @nikkymthelebofu299 4 роки тому +2

      Eish I also feel like it should stop. My blood is boiling yoh

    • @mariaboshomane3314
      @mariaboshomane3314 3 роки тому +2

      There are people who enjoy watching this show so please, if you do not like something, then don't watch it nor entertain it, it is that simple. Not everyone will like the same thing and that is a fact. If this show was upsetting a lot of people, obviously the show would have been canceled. So please guys, if something upsets you, move on from it. Don't include everyone is your annoyance.

    • @chuenemasoga1935
      @chuenemasoga1935 3 роки тому

      @@mariaboshomane3314 eh wena I'm sharing how I feel about the show. ...you can't tell people what to say or what not to say about it. There is a comment section on this videos for people to comment their opinions and feelings, you won't tell me what to do

    • @mariaboshomane3314
      @mariaboshomane3314 3 роки тому

      @@chuenemasoga1935 🤣I spoke to... Let me keep quiet.

  • @nontumbaleki9406
    @nontumbaleki9406 4 роки тому +15

    I can't wait to have a sister wife. She's welcome. Then I go back to my party days, enjoy myself while she's taking care of all these uncles and sisters in laws. Ngiyafisa Jehova, she must come 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sandilegasa2180
    @sandilegasa2180 4 роки тому +16

    The smile on Seleku's face
    You can see his use to this 😂

  • @loveimpactedteeth
    @loveimpactedteeth 4 роки тому +63

    iMultiChoice namanyala....same WhatsApp group. Nasi...🤞🏾

    • @lonasontsele8674
      @lonasontsele8674 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂Multichoice is a business, they saw an opportunity there by the Zulu tribe🤷‍♂️

  • @dinnymams488
    @dinnymams488 4 роки тому +36

    Such a beautiful wife... men will humble u

  • @philisiwenkosi7305
    @philisiwenkosi7305 4 роки тому +47

    This Phumla gal is probably same age ne first born yakhe lobaba. He rightfully said it kuthi bahleli kahle ekhaya labo and other ppl surely envy them, msangano wani ke lo westhembu,Nkanyiso?

    • @eunicenxusa6141
      @eunicenxusa6141 4 роки тому +2

      she is a gold digger sies -we are in 2020 not 1820 in the time of Jan Van Riebeck

    • @nelisiwenkwanyana698
      @nelisiwenkwanyana698 4 роки тому +3

      Even lastborn ikhehla lilula imisipha enganeni we kodwa nalezingane zithanda izinto bakithi

    • @luvunoluvuno5907
      @luvunoluvuno5907 4 роки тому

      Kanti kuyicala yini ukuthanda umuntu

  • @njabuloshabalala5918
    @njabuloshabalala5918 3 роки тому +18

    I felt that "ebemndala, KAKHULU, like Khakhulu..."

  • @dieketsengmoloi
    @dieketsengmoloi 4 роки тому +146

    This is so wrong on so many levels,if you wanna have a second wife nami let me have a 2nd husband

    • @lokishvibes202
      @lokishvibes202 4 роки тому +1

      Ay no
      Feminism is not allowed in Zulu🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @netanyahonevalorbendavid3240
      @netanyahonevalorbendavid3240 4 роки тому +8

      @@lokishvibes202 Thats some B.U.L.L.S.H.I.T.

    • @dinnymams488
      @dinnymams488 4 роки тому +7

      Yes wena girl

    • @gugumpanza3665
      @gugumpanza3665 4 роки тому

      No no no that's not alowed lokho ma Moloi KwaZulu.

    • @kethmkhabela6210
      @kethmkhabela6210 4 роки тому +21

      Exactly my sister...this is just pure oppression by men on women and the way they are busy smiling throughout it makes me sick😤

  • @hlulanikubayi5489
    @hlulanikubayi5489 4 роки тому +28

    I’d rather leave Shem. This is one thing I wouldn’t bekezela in a marriage, I didn’t sign up for this kind of ‘for better for worse’. It’s a deal breaker yohhhhhh....sec wife my foot. I’ll pack my bags and return to my fathers house hahhhh🥵

  • @busisiwebaloyi7111
    @busisiwebaloyi7111 4 роки тому +93

    Dear potential second wife will U agree to a third wife ,cause guess what that day is coming.Amen

  • @yourmommasfavoritechild2257
    @yourmommasfavoritechild2257 4 роки тому +16

    Yeeer this man sounds like my father ..... eeeww 😭😭😭💔💔💔

  • @nomusamimmy3716
    @nomusamimmy3716 4 роки тому +36

    Very good MaZuma isile lengane nalobaba maaan

    • @eunicenxusa6141
      @eunicenxusa6141 4 роки тому +4

      what is the 2nd wife bring in - she must go and work very hard for herself [she wants ready made things ] gold digger

    • @prettydamsel9237
      @prettydamsel9237 4 роки тому

      @@eunicenxusa6141 mscheew as if the first wife is also not taken care of, n yes second wife brings kids too some men want babies n plenty

  • @katendlovu7535
    @katendlovu7535 4 роки тому +55

    Umsizi or someone who can fulfill your desires? Usile wena baba ondala

    • @shelovesvibes7564
      @shelovesvibes7564 4 роки тому +8

      Usile kakhulu futhi😂😂😂

    • @katlegomhlauli8423
      @katlegomhlauli8423 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dieketsengmoloi
      @dieketsengmoloi 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @katendlovu7535
      @katendlovu7535 4 роки тому +4

      @Mzwandile Mbuyazi jabula but not on expense of others. Kuyicala ukujabula phezu kwezinyembezi zomunye umuntu. You can't build your happiness on someone else's tears or sadness. Uma ufuna ukujabula ungashadi. Jabula wedwa nabafana nawe abangashadile.

    • @katendlovu7535
      @katendlovu7535 4 роки тому +4

      @Mzwandile Mbuyazi Mzwandile usho uma kungeke kukhale wena. Yini pho wena ungabi uhubby number 2 uma ungaboni kuyinkinga lokho? Or boyfriend number 2. Umuntu angakhulumi kakhulu kodwa akasoze ayivuma leyonto. Kumnandi uma kwenziwa kwabanye. Igama elilodwa nje enginalo selfishness. Ukungabi nozwelo nomunye umuntu.

  • @benncube3529
    @benncube3529 4 роки тому +3

    This Show Angers Me Sooo Much. Nkare Nka Fopha Everyone Involved Ka Feish...

  • @lungibawuti4868
    @lungibawuti4868 4 роки тому +6

    Dear Baba Mseleku please keep ur show KwaZulu Natal coz apha eEastern cape asinaxesha lale kaka!

  • @khwezis
    @khwezis 4 роки тому +36

    Ngyabazwela omama bethu nkosi yami .

  • @lolopale4424
    @lolopale4424 4 роки тому +48

    the moment you accept iproposal yo thando ku muntu oshadile its a rhaaaaaa

  • @theecandy6888
    @theecandy6888 4 роки тому +19

    I'm breathing through the wound with this show..its too much😂😂

  • @nothilemdunge9972
    @nothilemdunge9972 4 роки тому +9

    Ahhh Bakithi and the Wife is so beautiful😭 uzotholi nokuzotha😩 Ahh these Men don’t know what they want🚮 and We women deserve better Qha.

    • @nothilemdunge9972
      @nothilemdunge9972 4 роки тому

      Stubborn Frog 🤣🤣🤣JEALOUS ABOUT WHAT?!!!😳👀

    • @Somegirl3602
      @Somegirl3602 3 роки тому

      Amadoda awoneli, very ungrateful creatures

    • @nothilemdunge9972
      @nothilemdunge9972 3 роки тому +1

      @@Somegirl3602 True hey🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @pammbambo1062
    @pammbambo1062 4 роки тому +8

    Please post the ful vid

  • @madam.president.mbuli1
    @madam.president.mbuli1 4 роки тому +44

    This show is showing us ladies what trash men can be. Whatever age even. 😂✌

    • @lungibawuti4868
      @lungibawuti4868 4 роки тому +1

      Amen mntase!

    • @chusta1555
      @chusta1555 4 роки тому +5

      Why don't you blame the women that agree to be side chicks elsewell

  • @mercyhlapo4741
    @mercyhlapo4741 4 роки тому +8

    Oh waze wasethwesa ubunzima thina abantu bezifazane esishadile babuMseleke ,nceda Jehovah!!!

  • @zinhleimmaculate5298
    @zinhleimmaculate5298 4 роки тому +11

    Saze saga nkosi, abaningi abafazi bazovuma.ngoba belethelwe loMseleku.Mina anganya umuntu,ngingamkhipha ngamanzi abandayo hayi nashisayo udinga awe fridge azophaphama

    • @sikhululiwemkwananzi211
      @sikhululiwemkwananzi211 4 роки тому +1

      Zinhle Immaculate say that again.

    • @nomusamimmy3716
      @nomusamimmy3716 4 роки тому

      🤣🤣🤣🤣😂Futhi nje uqale ngaze yena loyo oseziphendule uTHUMA MINA eqeda ukuhlala phansi uwalande kwangathi angaze abe nama ice cubes APHAPHAME KAHLE🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @mandisamandisa3377
      @mandisamandisa3377 4 роки тому

      😆😆 nami ngokunjalo

    • @buntumagaqa4083
      @buntumagaqa4083 4 роки тому +1

      Ngingamphoxa phamb keamacamera lawo...indoda enjan ethum eny indod indaba zomuzi wayo. Nxaa ghaaaa man

  • @leratopelesa5260
    @leratopelesa5260 4 роки тому +19

    Poor women you are always on the receiving end of these sad practices

  • @mampelesetla387
    @mampelesetla387 4 роки тому +7

    Ntombazana, please hlala esikolweni for a long time, uyekele ukugijimisa amadoda abantu, ingathi sihlulwa wumjolo! Cha! Ngeke gal, I think you will regret your decision later.

  • @confidencesmozamomokhemisa4389
    @confidencesmozamomokhemisa4389 4 роки тому +4

    Once he marries you uzozenza izinto za bantu abadala lil gurl 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣 You will see flames🔥🔥

  • @guguzulu987
    @guguzulu987 4 роки тому +2

    alkho qiniso kulento yesthembu kyakhohliswana nje lentoye sthembu. inezidumbu phansi kuhlekwa katinhliziyo. Vutha malangabi 🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @phumikhanyile6318
    @phumikhanyile6318 4 роки тому +5

    For this old man is just a matter of mid-life crisis nje....surely sleepibg with this young girl makes him feel young too😡😡.

  • @veritymabunda7316
    @veritymabunda7316 4 роки тому +2

    That Kakhulu, like kakhulu 😂😂

  • @nobuhlengwenya6414
    @nobuhlengwenya6414 4 роки тому +6

    Haii ngeke sokumele ashaye mthetho we age differences, ingane phela leyi.. nomaZuma naye she is not that old,

  • @mazaleniengineeringandproj9607
    @mazaleniengineeringandproj9607 4 роки тому +28

    This is nonsense, ufuna ukwandisa umzi when in actual fact its his own greed. Glad the wife did not agree to this nonsense.

    • @mtimande1002
      @mtimande1002 4 роки тому +2

      This is nonsense in its high grade, wandisa umuzi wamasimba noma uhlushwa zinkanuko nokunganeliseki.

    • @babalwamagodla604
      @babalwamagodla604 4 роки тому +2

      Uyahlanya wandisa umuzi esegugile ebehleleleni sonke lesisikhathi ukudelela nje oku

  • @slindilengcobo5633
    @slindilengcobo5633 4 роки тому +1

    Uma ungasazi isithembu uzongena kuso mina ngisazi kahle ngzalwa kuso ubuthakathi obuvuka lapho ukhala ngojesu ongazange wambona

  • @promiseshongwe6617
    @promiseshongwe6617 4 роки тому +2

    Mina ngibona ngathi lokhu ukuba selfish bazicabangela bona bodwa abanandaba nawe ukuthi wena uyathanda noma cha

  • @mercymayeza2654
    @mercymayeza2654 4 роки тому +4

    Lord have Mercy on me..... Mayeee babo

  • @thandekadakile9552
    @thandekadakile9552 4 роки тому +10

    Lol!!!! Amanye amadoda ayofa ezilanda, inkosi.

  • @molokomathiane4864
    @molokomathiane4864 4 роки тому +13

    I wonder what this men will do if us women decide to bring our side plate and ask to make them our second husbands 🤔coz dsnt seem to be a problem on their side🤐

  • @tswanaqueen2552
    @tswanaqueen2552 4 роки тому +5

    At this point what's the use of refusing. He has already cheated

    • @phindilememela1243
      @phindilememela1243 4 роки тому

      OLORATO LEFENYA TSWANA QUEEN it’s about not giving him satisfaction of doing it freely

  • @sifundo77
    @sifundo77 4 роки тому +15

    What made you attracted to him was his money.

    • @oumamoraba1889
      @oumamoraba1889 4 роки тому +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😹😹😹 I'm finished

    • @sifundo77
      @sifundo77 4 роки тому +5

      @@oumamoraba1889 there's nothing wrong but let's be honest, women desire security more than anything else.

    • @Nokss87
      @Nokss87 4 роки тому

      😂😂

    • @shauneysmallberg8744
      @shauneysmallberg8744 4 роки тому

      @@Nokss87 h

  • @PorshyNila
    @PorshyNila 4 роки тому +2

    That man is old enough to be her daddy and I think this man have kids of her peers so now they will have call her stepmama?

  • @nondumiso8397
    @nondumiso8397 4 роки тому +14

    The wife is hurt, shame

    • @ellamhlongo83
      @ellamhlongo83 4 роки тому +3

      She looked like she was ready to cry😔😢

    • @peternechi
      @peternechi 4 роки тому +2

      She was ready to cry but she was holding herself and I really feel for the wife😢😢😭😭😭

  • @nondumisopromisebiyela6806
    @nondumisopromisebiyela6806 4 роки тому +2

    Benze Kahle nje wamugabha uMaZuma vele lokhu kwentombazane kunenqondo encane🙄mxm

  • @hleniwefuneka7402
    @hleniwefuneka7402 4 роки тому +11

    I wonder when as women will stop hurting each other

    • @joyjoy449
      @joyjoy449 4 роки тому +1

      So the man is exonerated for his sin, but the woman gets all the blame. If only you could see that he's the one that started all this. He is way older than the younger woman, he started it all.

    • @hleniwefuneka7402
      @hleniwefuneka7402 4 роки тому +1

      @@joyjoy449 the man is wrong too but two wrongs don't make it right

  • @khetombimbi8457
    @khetombimbi8457 4 роки тому +4

    Yjooo lobaba akanamfundiso ebantwaneni or in the whole South African young ladies , izinto ezimbi ziba selubala in this last days , in this days , into entle yile embi , embi yile entle yhooooo Nkosi uJesu siza abantwana bakho ngenelela Baba wethu oseMaZulwini

  • @ncumisatsawulwayo41
    @ncumisatsawulwayo41 4 роки тому +4

    Yoooh ai bo kunzima la seqhelile kuba ngiyi1 lethwa munye 😶😶😶🙆🙆🙆🙅🙅

  • @gugumaseko2039
    @gugumaseko2039 4 роки тому +10

    U should do this in the treets baba and keep it there not in your hous and this show have no sense at all what Mseleku promuting it totaly..wrong ubufebe 9.9

  • @kerone_fontein9205
    @kerone_fontein9205 4 роки тому +10

    Kwaze kwanzima shame😢💔

    • @luyandadlamini8576
      @luyandadlamini8576 4 роки тому +6

      Kunzima kakhulu haiibo. Woman are just treated like we are commodities just buy another one 💔 💔

    • @eunicenxusa6141
      @eunicenxusa6141 4 роки тому +2

      this is simply say no- finish and klaar - this young girl must go and work hard for her own future [sly queen]

  • @mpumikhumalooh2103
    @mpumikhumalooh2103 4 роки тому +1

    Ay cha kodwa kushuth lobaba uyazithanda nje izintombi ezincane ngoba phela no maZuma akamdala kangako.. kodwa engikuthanda ngomaZuma akavumeli wonke umbhedo lo.. wenzekahle wamunqabile ukuthatha isthembu

  • @kennethmpofu6726
    @kennethmpofu6726 4 роки тому +5

    In as much as many commenters are having difficulties accepting that we come from different spheres of life and will never have same life practices and beliefs, this show serves to give us an idea of what polygamy is all about in this generation. It has been there in almost every race, tribe, all generations and will be there throughout human nature. Yes, we are all not made to practice or believe in it, but we must all learn to believe that it makes sense to those who do and we all must respect that, in as much as we wish or expect respect on our own believes from others.

    • @ginakuhlmann211
      @ginakuhlmann211 4 роки тому +5

      HIV was not there in those time's, if he catches it, they all have it, these practices are no longer practical in modern times.

    • @kennethmpofu6726
      @kennethmpofu6726 4 роки тому +1

      @@ginakuhlmann211 Hiv and STIs are a different topic all together. Remember polygamy is originally a structure based on loyalty, as good as marriage. It doesn't mean that one man one woman marriages are not subject to sexual infidelity.

  • @nelisiwentanzi1244
    @nelisiwentanzi1244 4 роки тому +1

    God how I wish amadoda asale wodwa nomhlaba wawo ngathi siphile sodwa sabesifazane I know ukuqala kukamusa nesithembu sakhe kuzokwenza abesilisa benze nje

  • @nxodlamini9416
    @nxodlamini9416 4 роки тому +3

    All this girls want is money..why would you be sleeping with an old Topi. They are hurting families, kids suffer most in this kind of messed up culture. We married woman are human with feelings too, my respect towards the man i am married to is not a weakness, it is just kindness that i can decide to strip at any moment.

  • @thandophikela2788
    @thandophikela2788 4 роки тому +1

    Yabona nje thina Abanye sogcina singashadanga struu 🤔🤔

  • @thobehzondi5627
    @thobehzondi5627 4 роки тому +1

    Ngoba indoda emadodeni???all along ubuyinsizwa ngikhona???

  • @slindileslie6634
    @slindileslie6634 4 роки тому +1

    As soon as eqeda ukucela imvume yami ngifuna i divorce ngiphume ngiphele

  • @amaizinglegendsindi4893
    @amaizinglegendsindi4893 4 роки тому +3

    Manje nina Bafazi enishadile,batjeleni ukuthi nani nizofuna 2nd husband sizobona ukuthi bayavuma na,because always bafazi bayahlukunyezwa la,2ND HUSBAND NEXT NEXT UNTIL 4 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @amaizinglegendsindi4893
    @amaizinglegendsindi4893 4 роки тому +3

    Yoooo mina the way my husband akhathaxa ngakhona ngiyasifuna isithembi mybe angaba ncono ,maye uyahlupha lobaba
    Uyathetha for no reason
    Akafuni kubona umuntu ehlezi even kids
    Makufika yena sonke siya emakamereni even kids
    In his office bayakhala ngaye cs uyahlupha
    Umemeza everday akadimwa so 2nd wife u are welcome 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙇

  • @siyandafata8521
    @siyandafata8521 4 роки тому +2

    Niyakhal manje huh kodwa niya enjoyer ukbuka uthando nesthembu

  • @portiaolifant4549
    @portiaolifant4549 4 роки тому +1

    Bafazi niyazi bona izinto esi shiyelwayo bakithi cha aba fana badlala ngathi...I'm leaving..

  • @hasanibethuelndomanyane1470
    @hasanibethuelndomanyane1470 4 роки тому +6

    I will wait to watch an episode of a well educated financially strong wife being asked this.

    • @wethujonga8681
      @wethujonga8681 4 роки тому +3

      Well you might not watch it on Mselekus show but I'm living it. I'm a second wife, 30 years old with a postgraduate degree in communication and working for a major Bank in Africa. Mamkhulu has a postgraduate degree in finance and works for an international company. Our husband is a chemical engineer with an MBA. We are happy.

    • @hasanibethuelndomanyane1470
      @hasanibethuelndomanyane1470 4 роки тому

      @@wethujonga8681 between you and Mamkhulu one is FAT with a pot belly and has low self esteem.

    • @nngonyama
      @nngonyama 4 роки тому +5

      @@wethujonga8681 Education is not a cure for foolishness. When a person stops thinking about themselves, they will consider the impact of their deplorable behaviour towards their fellow woman. Unfortunately a lot of people have become proud about being upgraded from side chick status to 2nd wife, it shows that there is a lot wron with us as a gender, a community and nation, to feel comfortable with causing another woman emotional pain.

    • @wethujonga8681
      @wethujonga8681 4 роки тому

      @@hasanibethuelndomanyane1470 lol 😂 none is fat with a potbelly and no one has a low self esteem... We love our hubby and each other that's it. We are both gorgeous.

    • @wethujonga8681
      @wethujonga8681 4 роки тому +1

      @@hasanibethuelndomanyane1470 funny how your standard has changed from being educated and being financially successful or secure... In the end you are not the one to inform any person how they should live. What works for two gorgeous, confident, educated and secured women need not work for you and that's cool hey but don't try and invalidate us because we like green and not red like you.

  • @nondumisoHlabathi
    @nondumisoHlabathi 4 роки тому +1

    Thanks maZulu

  • @MahlatseSS
    @MahlatseSS 4 роки тому +7

    Let's respect that this is not "the bold & the beautiful", its Zulu culture. How it is practiced, it's a different question altogether

  • @ayandayogat4265
    @ayandayogat4265 4 роки тому +9

    For me no angivumi iyangicika lento haaa kunzima

  • @OscarineMlisana
    @OscarineMlisana 4 роки тому +1

    Old man where is your respect for your wife, really bringing this girl with no respect, your wife is everything

    • @Somegirl3602
      @Somegirl3602 3 роки тому

      Clearly their wives are not everything...look at how they treat them. The love is gone, they've forgotten where they come from nabafazi babo.

  • @thabilemhlanzi9845
    @thabilemhlanzi9845 4 роки тому +6

    This man says bahleli kahle how? Just because he's been a good liar, fooling his his wife nengane eyincane. Is this Phumla having some learning disability? This is too irritating to watch.

  • @Mbegabulawe
    @Mbegabulawe 2 роки тому

    Mseleku just went on flight mode! The response was short and loud! And the man said 'mhm...'??

  • @muneiwa527
    @muneiwa527 4 роки тому +5

    The man is just in denial, he refuses to grow up

  • @makhosazanekoloane1751
    @makhosazanekoloane1751 4 роки тому +2

    Nkosi yami engifisa ukukukwazi ukuthi indoda ngayinye inezimbambo ezingaki, ngoba lithi "ibhayibheli" kwathathwa ubambo olulodwa ku Adam kwenziwa UEva Ayi izimbambo, Ayibo Women of South Africa must wake up. This is a certain level of abuse

    • @netanyahonevalorbendavid3240
      @netanyahonevalorbendavid3240 4 роки тому

      I cpuld not decipher what yu said man..But the section in English I agree. Thus is another new form of abuse.

  • @thembisamakhoba7219
    @thembisamakhoba7219 4 роки тому +36

    This is cheating! 😠

    • @eunicenxusa6141
      @eunicenxusa6141 4 роки тому +6

      just imagine working hard to build your marriage and there comes a new girls !! 2nd wife my foot

    • @nelisiwenkwanyana698
      @nelisiwenkwanyana698 4 роки тому +2

      Lobaba nalengane kudala batamatana uyibase kwaze kwashisa

    • @kethmkhabela6210
      @kethmkhabela6210 4 роки тому +2

      Exactly in disguise of so-called culture

  • @zonkezonkezi9545
    @zonkezonkezi9545 4 роки тому +2

    Uthanda imali nje wena.. Uzifaka emakhehleni

  • @NolithaMfihlo
    @NolithaMfihlo 3 роки тому +1

    Akasemdala rhaaa nabo nabantwana abafunayo at that age bazothi xa befika koo 21 Abe sefile mos. ..lamadoda asileyo

  • @nomandlanyosi5126
    @nomandlanyosi5126 Рік тому

    Mna mXhosa onesciko esingavaleki ngeke ndilunge nje kwakulento mna tu

  • @LizzyLiz464
    @LizzyLiz464 4 роки тому +2

    Isthembu is part of Isintu

  • @snethembamaduna8727
    @snethembamaduna8727 4 роки тому +4

    Can we have more of this please. I respect isithembu sooo much

  • @boomgate4444
    @boomgate4444 2 роки тому +1

    Uma esethi mdaaaalaa kaaakhuuuluu🤣🤣🤣

  • @maxwellmakuta9290
    @maxwellmakuta9290 4 роки тому +1

    Phumula go get a young man who can treat you better than settling for such an old malume. If he was divorced better.

  • @sylviasibeko4644
    @sylviasibeko4644 3 роки тому +1

    Stuff like this happened only in SA
    Its appalling

  • @sphelelemvemve890
    @sphelelemvemve890 4 роки тому

    Ncela kuba ishende lomkakhe plzzzz

  • @ncediwemagadlela8475
    @ncediwemagadlela8475 4 роки тому +1

    Mxwww yarhuba wena ustho ngamabele angaphandle

  • @sibongisenilinganiso579
    @sibongisenilinganiso579 4 роки тому +1

    It wouldn't be a problem because nzozfunela boyfriend nami and he must accept that

  • @motlokoangwato8736
    @motlokoangwato8736 4 роки тому

    This show is far better than the rubbish that we have to watch on Mzanzi channels.

  • @sindimakhele9489
    @sindimakhele9489 2 роки тому

    Ladies stay away from this kind of people......love yourself enough to leave such situations......improve your education...find your dream job and be happy maan.

  • @aqaulibriumprojects6621
    @aqaulibriumprojects6621 3 роки тому

    Women must learn theyre worth, yes some woman dont mind the whole thing of isthembu and that fine but for those who dont likr it must not tolerate it at all,
    And this thing of ukwandisa umzi ka baba ngamasimba lawo.

  • @stanelystanely8781
    @stanelystanely8781 4 роки тому +1

    I ngathi ingakufebela unye lengane

  • @siphodlamini6976
    @siphodlamini6976 4 роки тому

    Nice one wena girl its a NO
    I wonder how is the relationship now that he mentioned such to her ... utsi bantfu basatayihalela lemphilo yenu nyalo? Lets wait and see mfethu

  • @noziphothusi529
    @noziphothusi529 3 роки тому +1

    This guy looks like Hlomla Dandala

  • @busimathews5873
    @busimathews5873 4 роки тому +2

    Waze wangaythanda u girl ukukhumulela ikhehla lonke nje🤦 where is your pride my dear? Haai bo! Khuzani toe!

  • @prettydolwana1884
    @prettydolwana1884 2 роки тому

    This gal uphumla ngangfund naye ehighschool, wayejola nothisha vele so I'm not surprised

  • @mtseksmatlali9249
    @mtseksmatlali9249 4 роки тому

    Yes girl stop this if u don't feel like