I just wanted to stop by and thank you all for the outpouring of love and support for my little video. 🥹God laid this video on my heart to share with you all who are turning 40 soon, just turned 40, and my girlies who are over 40. There’s still so much more that I wanna share about this topic after rewatching the video and reading everyone’s comments. Should I make a part 2, to this video? If so, what are some of the things that I you would like for me to talk about?
There is still more life after 40, so many possibilities and so many things to achieve and still look beautiful and amazing, it's about self care! Thank you for lifting up people's spirits in this video!
@@themalawiandiner180 SO TRUE, Sis!!! God told me to share this, to God be the Glory. Thank you so much for commenting and sharing your thoughts. I’m so appreciative. 🙏🏽🫶🏽🤗
I’m 29. I have men trying to tell me, I am old. That I’m not young anymore, it’s wrong how society try to make women feel horrible about themselves. 40 is not old. I can’t wait to be in my 30s, I see my 20s for myself as a baby still becoming an adult. I felt like a kid up until my late 20s. I feel like I a grown ass woman with some sense of the world now. Before I didn’t know myself and my worth. Now I know everything I need is within me. The only opinion I need about myself comes from me. Every else opinion about me doesn’t matter. The only other person who knows my heart, mind and spirt is god. Every woman out there don’t ever let a man put you down or family members. You’re a queen regardless of your past and if you don’t feel like you’re in the right place. You are in the right place. Trust in god and trust in yourself. This world can be ugly but there’s alot of beauty. It’s a balacne. Don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to be happy and to feel loved.
Tell them Sis!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That’s INSANE that a man would even have the thought to say that 29 years old is old?!!! 🤯 The levels of ignorance is incomprehensible. Smh I’m so happy that God has given you great wisdom and common sense to know that those men are ignorant! I remember being your age like it was yesterday. It’s a great age! I started standing up for myself and stop being a pushover with fake friends and toxic family members. Thank you so much for watching and commenting on my little video. I appreciate it so greatly!! 🤗🫶🏽
Let me explain this is only old i.e. 29 and especially 40 in the dating scene or market not in your actual value as a person or a woman but as far as dating goes 29 is considered getting old because after 30 it becomes a lot harder to get pregnant because you lose like 90% of your eggs After 35 you’re considered a high risk pregnancy that’s why 30 is considered old for dating. You’re running the risk of major health issues, deformities, birth defects, in children. This is just scientific fact, That’s why 40 is considered old and for women the best commodity that most women have is what was given to them at birth and by god it’s their look and beauty that’s why girls are so obsessed with how they look, hair, nails weight, etc. etc. now other than dating you’re right 29 isn’t old neither is 40 but for dating yes they are. Anything else is just someone trying to mentally cope and be delusional because they don’t wanna accept it.
Yes I’m an 87 baby and I’m scared lol but now that I’ve gotten older, I realize that we can still look and feel young. But it is an interesting space, because it isn’t young but it isn’t old. I’m a very youthful person at heart & ppl often think I’m in my 20s. I’m glad that I don’t have any grey hair yet lol I guess all I can do is age gracefully and do my best. It just gets annoying hearing people on the internet say that late 30s and 40s are old and washed up, especially when single and childless. I guess I can just tune that out and enjoy my grown womanhood. Thanks for this video sis 🩷
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Gurlll, I remember when I turned 37 and how I felt. I was freaking all the way out. 🤣🤣 Now I look back, and I’m like, why? Lol But I get it, Sis! It definitely hits different when you’re single and childless, but when I think about it, I’m so grateful that God didn’t allow me to settle for any and anyone because I needed to tick a box. Also, the growth and maturity that I have experienced since then I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Nothing before God‘s timing. One more thing!! (😂) when I look at all of the beautiful, GORGEOUS women in their 40’s and 50’s, looking like they’re in their 20’s and 30’s I breathed a sigh of relief!!! 🤣🤣🤣Thank you SO much for watching and commenting. I feel so blessed my little video is blessing so many women.
Yeah, those are just their opinions, you don't need to subscribe to them. 40 is not old. So many people even start all over again at 40, it's possible and you have more wisdom and experience to implement in life. At 40, women look amazing too, just women have to put more effort in self-care, but the results are bomb!
Thank you for these words of encouragement. I'm in my mid 30s and I've got to say so far 30s is way more fun than my 20s. I've gotten a lot done in my 20s. However my 30s is when im really starting to enjoy the fruits of my labor. People still mistake me for a 20 something and my weight is on a healthy decline. I feel good, look good, happily married (no kids), and am in a decent financial situation. I think men and businesses try to trick us into moving too quickly in our youth. That way we don't have as much time to think important decisions through and many of us wind up wasting a lot of time on toxic people and jobs. Worst still many children are brought into this world, not as gifts, but as an unwanted pregnancies or simply boxes to be ticked off sucess bucket lists. No shame in living your best life at any age. I always thought it was a stupid concept to only enjoy the first 25 years of your life while the other 50+ is just boredom and stress. No thanks. Society can miss me with that bs
@@veedem2506 Wowowowowowow!!! Girl!!! You dropped SO many bars!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 You’re so right about people (especially women) rushing into things to tick the box off on the list. 💯👏🏽 I agree your 30’s are a great time! You learn how to start standing up for yourself, saying no, I can’t do this or make it to your event, grow in wisdom and all the tingz. Hahaha That you so much for sharing and watching! I was hoping that women in their mid-30’s would also watch this video. This is so encouraging. May God continue to bless you! 🫶🏽
Whew chile, I’ve been CLINGING on to being 39😅 & trying to embrace my upcoming bday. At the end of the day, I’m grateful, healthy, accomplished, & still evolving. We don’t need to feel “washed up”. Just gotta invest in ourselves. Thanks for this video!🎉
@@tynicole1513 I know the feeling Sis!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I was holding on for dear life! 🤣🤣🤣 You have the right perspective though, in everything give thanks. 🙏🏽 Thank you so much for watching and commenting!! I love y’all!!! 😩🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
@ aww, you’re so welcome. It’s definitely a real thing & I don’t think we talk about it enough. Almost anxiety provoking approaching milestone bdays. Society has a lot of us in a chokehold 😫
Beautiful video Tisha 🧡 and a beautiful message!! I see a lot of xys with ruffled feathers in the comments so you know you’re doing it right 🤭 they can’t stand to see a beautiful, elegant, intelligent, concise woman just continue to get better with age ✨
Awww… thank you so much for your kind words!!! You’re so sweet! 🤗🤗🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽I give God all the Glory. He’s the one who gave me the inspiration for this video. 😁 This UA-cam channel is my open journey from what goes on in the inside of my head. Lol Thank you SO much for commenting! I hope you subscribed? 🙏🏽
@@Divinely_ProtectedAse Young and dumb! 💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Girl, you’ll look back on 33 and say to yourself, what was I complaining about?! 👀😂 The thing with those teenagers and young twenty-something year olds is that they don’t know what a privilege it is to get older. They don’t understand that in order to stay young forever means you’ll have to die young, and non a dem wanna do that! 🤦🏽♀️👀😂😂
This came across my feed. The host is attractive. Strictly based on looks, I'd date her. But like any woman or man in their 40s who are trying to get the best partner, best anything, it starts with trying to be the best version of you. And it also is being honest about yourself. I am harder on myself than others are. Brothers celebrate sisters who have done great things be it Simone Biles, or being the first black woman in excel in any field. That said, when it comes to relationships, its a mine field out there for both genders. I tend to see both genders generalize about the other gender. There are over 40 million of us in all socio economic groups, all over the country, and generalizing is both wrong but inaccurate. I don't blame anyone for my bad relationships but myself as it was my choice and I didn't spot red flags enough, when I was younger I was wrong at times and had to make changes. Good luck to us all....we need it.
Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and your compliment. I’m curious, do you think I was generalizing or dissing men in this video? Because that was certainly not my intent.
You have so much patience for the b*tt hurt men in your comments. Lol. That's right. People need to mind their business!!!!! Women just need to live their lives as they see fit whatever their age.
@@zeewann 🤣🤣🤣 I laugh because they’re clearly average, run of the mill, Joe Shmoe’s throwing shade because they could only “dream” of having a beautiful high value woman without being super rich. I don’t see them! 😂😂 I thank them for watching my video, and for bringing attention to it and my channel! I WON!! 🙌🏽😂🤣 Enough about them, THANK YOU SO MUCH for your support, your kind comment, and for watching!! 🤗🙏🏽🫶🏽
Nahhh… 😂 I had to drop that in just in case a Gen Z’er came in to my comments section with an “we’re pre technology” joke. 🤣🤣🤣 Just the way my brain works. 😂
@@thefifthdon1lol actually I’m not even 40. & you ASSumed that I’m single, wrongly at that 😂 Funny you want to cry about being rude yet you came into this woman’s comment section & called her old. I was asking a simple question, but you got offended lol I’m guessing you are 40 & over, or the hair just ran away early, idk lol Women don’t find that attractive 😊
@@thefifthdon1 you know what’s so funny, people assume that you’re single because you can’t find someone. Anyone can pick up a man and make them their baby father or settle for someone that they’re not in love with or attracted to and make them their husband. There are a lot of us out here that are not willing to compromise and that’s why we are single. Boy bye! 👋🏽 You tried it!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
People offer reasonable advice about having children at an older age, but this irrational woman dismisses it with 'shut up.' Some women think it's cool to rebel against good advice, but such behavior can be foolish and self-destructive.
@@flauze This woman? Irrational for who? My name is the name of my channel and repeated in this video. Secondly, everyone has a right to their own opinion and beliefs. Anywho, thank you for watching and commenting on my video. It brings engagement and attention to my channel. 😁
I just wanted to stop by and thank you all for the outpouring of love and support for my little video. 🥹God laid this video on my heart to share with you all who are turning 40 soon, just turned 40, and my girlies who are over 40. There’s still so much more that I wanna share about this topic after rewatching the video and reading everyone’s comments. Should I make a part 2, to this video? If so, what are some of the things that I you would like for me to talk about?
There is still more life after 40, so many possibilities and so many things to achieve and still look beautiful and amazing, it's about self care! Thank you for lifting up people's spirits in this video!
@@themalawiandiner180 SO TRUE, Sis!!! God told me to share this, to God be the Glory. Thank you so much for commenting and sharing your thoughts. I’m so appreciative. 🙏🏽🫶🏽🤗
I’m 29. I have men trying to tell me, I am old. That I’m not young anymore, it’s wrong how society try to make women feel horrible about themselves. 40 is not old. I can’t wait to be in my 30s, I see my 20s for myself as a baby still becoming an adult. I felt like a kid up until my late 20s. I feel like I a grown ass woman with some sense of the world now. Before I didn’t know myself and my worth. Now I know everything I need is within me. The only opinion I need about myself comes from me. Every else opinion about me doesn’t matter. The only other person who knows my heart, mind and spirt is god. Every woman out there don’t ever let a man put you down or family members. You’re a queen regardless of your past and if you don’t feel like you’re in the right place. You are in the right place. Trust in god and trust in yourself. This world can be ugly but there’s alot of beauty. It’s a balacne. Don’t give up on yourself. You deserve to be happy and to feel loved.
Tell them Sis!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 That’s INSANE that a man would even have the thought to say that 29 years old is old?!!! 🤯 The levels of ignorance is incomprehensible. Smh I’m so happy that God has given you great wisdom and common sense to know that those men are ignorant! I remember being your age like it was yesterday. It’s a great age! I started standing up for myself and stop being a pushover with fake friends and toxic family members. Thank you so much for watching and commenting on my little video. I appreciate it so greatly!! 🤗🫶🏽
Let me explain this is only old i.e. 29 and especially 40 in the dating scene or market not in your actual value as a person or a woman but as far as dating goes 29 is considered getting old because after 30 it becomes a lot harder to get pregnant because you lose like 90% of your eggs After 35 you’re considered a high risk pregnancy that’s why 30 is considered old for dating. You’re running the risk of major health issues, deformities, birth defects, in children. This is just scientific fact, That’s why 40 is considered old and for women the best commodity that most women have is what was given to them at birth and by god it’s their look and beauty that’s why girls are so obsessed with how they look, hair, nails weight, etc. etc. now other than dating you’re right 29 isn’t old neither is 40 but for dating yes they are. Anything else is just someone trying to mentally cope and be delusional because they don’t wanna accept it.
87 here and I am actually excited about the 40s. I messed up in my 20s and I am building in my 30s. I feel like 40 is about to be amazing.
Yassss Sis! You’re setting yourself up to have the most AMAZING decade (and beyond) EVER!! I’m excited for you too!!! 😃🤗🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
i thought you meant you were 87 years old for a second 😭😭😭
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Yes I’m an 87 baby and I’m scared lol but now that I’ve gotten older, I realize that we can still look and feel young. But it is an interesting space, because it isn’t young but it isn’t old. I’m a very youthful person at heart & ppl often think I’m in my 20s. I’m glad that I don’t have any grey hair yet lol I guess all I can do is age gracefully and do my best. It just gets annoying hearing people on the internet say that late 30s and 40s are old and washed up, especially when single and childless. I guess I can just tune that out and enjoy my grown womanhood. Thanks for this video sis 🩷
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Gurlll, I remember when I turned 37 and how I felt. I was freaking all the way out. 🤣🤣 Now I look back, and I’m like, why? Lol But I get it, Sis! It definitely hits different when you’re single and childless, but when I think about it, I’m so grateful that God didn’t allow me to settle for any and anyone because I needed to tick a box. Also, the growth and maturity that I have experienced since then I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Nothing before God‘s timing. One more thing!! (😂) when I look at all of the beautiful, GORGEOUS women in their 40’s and 50’s, looking like they’re in their 20’s and 30’s I breathed a sigh of relief!!! 🤣🤣🤣Thank you SO much for watching and commenting. I feel so blessed my little video is blessing so many women.
Yeah, those are just their opinions, you don't need to subscribe to them. 40 is not old. So many people even start all over again at 40, it's possible and you have more wisdom and experience to implement in life. At 40, women look amazing too, just women have to put more effort in self-care, but the results are bomb!
@@themalawiandiner180 Yup! You said it all in a nut shell! 💯👏🏽👏🏽
@ Absolutely, so true! 🩷
The truth is you give zero F. You want to protect your peace above everything
@@moniquejones379 There’s Jesus first, then my peace! 💯🤣 Thank you so much for commenting!! God bless you Sis.🫶🏽🙏🏽
Thank you for these words of encouragement. I'm in my mid 30s and I've got to say so far 30s is way more fun than my 20s. I've gotten a lot done in my 20s. However my 30s is when im really starting to enjoy the fruits of my labor. People still mistake me for a 20 something and my weight is on a healthy decline. I feel good, look good, happily married (no kids), and am in a decent financial situation. I think men and businesses try to trick us into moving too quickly in our youth. That way we don't have as much time to think important decisions through and many of us wind up wasting a lot of time on toxic people and jobs. Worst still many children are brought into this world, not as gifts, but as an unwanted pregnancies or simply boxes to be ticked off sucess bucket lists. No shame in living your best life at any age. I always thought it was a stupid concept to only enjoy the first 25 years of your life while the other 50+ is just boredom and stress. No thanks. Society can miss me with that bs
@@veedem2506 Wowowowowowow!!! Girl!!! You dropped SO many bars!!! 🔥🔥🔥🔥 You’re so right about people (especially women) rushing into things to tick the box off on the list. 💯👏🏽 I agree your 30’s are a great time! You learn how to start standing up for yourself, saying no, I can’t do this or make it to your event, grow in wisdom and all the tingz. Hahaha That you so much for sharing and watching! I was hoping that women in their mid-30’s would also watch this video. This is so encouraging. May God continue to bless you! 🫶🏽
I joke with my mom that I’m gonna be fine..forrrevaah. Eartha kit, Tina Turner, Angela Bassett fine
@@learningearning8385 Purrrrrr Poo!!! 💯💯💯💯😂🙌🏽🫶🏽
i finally thought I was grown. when i turned 40
@@RenneaAvery-graham yasssss!!! 💯💯💯😂
@@tishainnisyou ever go on podcast ? Like on panels too talk about topics?
@ Hi!!👋🏽 No, not yet. I plan on starting one though. 😊
Whew chile, I’ve been CLINGING on to being 39😅 & trying to embrace my upcoming bday. At the end of the day, I’m grateful, healthy, accomplished, & still evolving. We don’t need to feel “washed up”. Just gotta invest in ourselves. Thanks for this video!🎉
@@tynicole1513 I know the feeling Sis!!! 🤣🤣🤣 I was holding on for dear life! 🤣🤣🤣 You have the right perspective though, in everything give thanks. 🙏🏽 Thank you so much for watching and commenting!! I love y’all!!! 😩🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽
@ aww, you’re so welcome. It’s definitely a real thing & I don’t think we talk about it enough. Almost anxiety provoking approaching milestone bdays. Society has a lot of us in a chokehold 😫
@ So true, so true, everything you said is SO TRUE!!! lol 😖😂
Tisha, this is exactly what i needed to hear!! Thanks for this video, will look back on this often.❤❤
@@nickieh.2838 Awww… blessings Sis!! I’m so glad!! To God be the Glory!! It’s nice over here!! 🫶🏽
Beautiful video Tisha 🧡 and a beautiful message!!
I see a lot of xys with ruffled feathers in the comments so you know you’re doing it right 🤭 they can’t stand to see a beautiful, elegant, intelligent, concise woman just continue to get better with age ✨
Awww… thank you so much for your kind words!!! You’re so sweet! 🤗🤗🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽I give God all the Glory. He’s the one who gave me the inspiration for this video. 😁 This UA-cam channel is my open journey from what goes on in the inside of my head. Lol Thank you SO much for commenting! I hope you subscribed? 🙏🏽
Thank you Thank you Thank you! Preach! I needed to hear this ❤
Awww… thank you so much for commenting and watching!! To God be the Glory! 🫶🏽❤️
Ok but you have an amazing skin
@@olgaabuz6276 Awww… thank you. 😊 🫶🏽
This is a word, wow.
@@imjoceagirl Thank you so much!! 🥹 To God be the glory hun. ❤️
Right on sis! ❤❤
@@Alexandrite7 Awww… thank you. 😊🫶🏽 To God be the glory!!
Lord these men in the comments is projecting🤦🏽♀️. Why are you here??
@@KevonnieElaine 😂🤣
I just turned 33 and I be feeling old. Lol I had a 19 year old tell me I was “over grown” I told her how young and dumb she was lol.
@@Divinely_ProtectedAse Young and dumb! 💯💯💯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Girl, you’ll look back on 33 and say to yourself, what was I complaining about?! 👀😂 The thing with those teenagers and young twenty-something year olds is that they don’t know what a privilege it is to get older. They don’t understand that in order to stay young forever means you’ll have to die young, and non a dem wanna do that! 🤦🏽♀️👀😂😂
This came across my feed. The host is attractive. Strictly based on looks, I'd date her. But like any woman or man in their 40s who are trying to get the best partner, best anything, it starts with trying to be the best version of you. And it also is being honest about yourself. I am harder on myself than others are. Brothers celebrate sisters who have done great things be it Simone Biles, or being the first black woman in excel in any field. That said, when it comes to relationships, its a mine field out there for both genders. I tend to see both genders generalize about the other gender. There are over 40 million of us in all socio economic groups, all over the country, and generalizing is both wrong but inaccurate. I don't blame anyone for my bad relationships but myself as it was my choice and I didn't spot red flags enough, when I was younger I was wrong at times and had to make changes. Good luck to us all....we need it.
Thank you so much for watching, commenting, and your compliment. I’m curious, do you think I was generalizing or dissing men in this video? Because that was certainly not my intent.
This is so wise🎉
You have so much patience for the b*tt hurt men in your comments. Lol. That's right. People need to mind their business!!!!! Women just need to live their lives as they see fit whatever their age.
@@zeewann 🤣🤣🤣 I laugh because they’re clearly average, run of the mill, Joe Shmoe’s throwing shade because they could only “dream” of having a beautiful high value woman without being super rich. I don’t see them! 😂😂 I thank them for watching my video, and for bringing attention to it and my channel! I WON!! 🙌🏽😂🤣 Enough about them, THANK YOU SO MUCH for your support, your kind comment, and for watching!! 🤗🙏🏽🫶🏽
I would’ve thought you were in your 30s!
@@abena8339 I get that a lot! Those who don’t know me personally never think I’m in my 40’s. Lol Thank you! 😊
We created social media soo basically you’re saying our generation destroyed the world!? 😂
Nahhh… 😂 I had to drop that in just in case a Gen Z’er came in to my comments section with an “we’re pre technology” joke. 🤣🤣🤣 Just the way my brain works. 😂
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40 is half way or two-thirds of your life 😢. Yeah it’s old
Did you reach your 40s yet? Hairline says you did 🤷🏾♀️
@ I can see why you’re 40 and single. No manners, men don’t find that attractive at all.
@@thefifthdon1lol actually I’m not even 40. & you ASSumed that I’m single, wrongly at that 😂 Funny you want to cry about being rude yet you came into this woman’s comment section & called her old. I was asking a simple question, but you got offended lol I’m guessing you are 40 & over, or the hair just ran away early, idk lol Women don’t find that attractive 😊
@@AmberBrooklyn24 Lol!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@thefifthdon1 you know what’s so funny, people assume that you’re single because you can’t find someone. Anyone can pick up a man and make them their baby father or settle for someone that they’re not in love with or attracted to and make them their husband. There are a lot of us out here that are not willing to compromise and that’s why we are single. Boy bye! 👋🏽 You tried it!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
People offer reasonable advice about having children at an older age, but this irrational woman dismisses it with 'shut up.' Some women think it's cool to rebel against good advice, but such behavior can be foolish and self-destructive.
@@flauze This woman? Irrational for who? My name is the name of my channel and repeated in this video. Secondly, everyone has a right to their own opinion and beliefs. Anywho, thank you for watching and commenting on my video. It brings engagement and attention to my channel. 😁
@@tishainnis ok...🤷♂
If God does not intervene it's too late
Too late for what? 🙂
@tishainnis if you got to ask then it's definitely too late
@ Please miss me with the negativity. Anywho, thanks for watching and commenting. 😂😂
You still on time to delete this bs
Yet I won’t! Thank you for watching! 🙂
@@tishainnis💪❤