REALISTIC NIGHT WITH A NEWBORN *3 Weeks Old!*

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  • @Nicolelelagreen
    @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +107

    Please LIKE + SUBSCRIBE and join the fam! LOVE YALL!

    • @vanivijayan5024
      @vanivijayan5024 3 роки тому +5

      In the same situation with my 3rd week newborn but very sad emotional.

    • @lindsey.117
      @lindsey.117 3 роки тому

      Subscribing and joining the fam!! 200k congrats mama! 🎉

    • @carolwendy9621
      @carolwendy9621 2 роки тому

      Very cute baby❤

    • @nathonspecht7198
      @nathonspecht7198 2 роки тому

      Ok

    • @jimjim7008
      @jimjim7008 2 роки тому

      Don't.. it's the most beautiful thing in life ever... Just focus on getting to know your baby well

  • @rosiesaints9138
    @rosiesaints9138 Рік тому +550

    I’m a grandma and I wanted to say not all babies are the same. Sometimes new moms look at this videos an expect to see the same on their babies. I often struggle with helping my daughter to feel secure. Take it a day at a time. Don’t feel bad for asking questions or help from family. I currently helping my daughter with night feedings due to latching issues with her baby. To all the moms out there you are wonderful, beautiful and stronger than you could ever imagine. Bless you all.

    • @MariaCurry
      @MariaCurry Рік тому +5

      Bless you too

    • @lily5836
      @lily5836 Рік тому +9

      thank you for such warm words ❤

    • @danyelgarcia3689
      @danyelgarcia3689 Рік тому +2

      Thank you so much ❤❤❤

    • @sarahhorley752
      @sarahhorley752 Рік тому +6

      Tell the health visitor that lol they seem to think they know everyone's child 😆

    • @monicab9434
      @monicab9434 Рік тому +9

      Yes! I can't handle the amount of internet content that tries to tell everyone all babies will be soothed by X, or all babies will sleep well if you do X. Babies are individuals and they all act differently.

  • @maryaddy8151
    @maryaddy8151 Рік тому +78

    Just became a mom last week Tuesday! My baby boy is a week and is absolutely perfect. Only a week so not too much crazy late night feedings! Every baby is different so just learning and growing with him ❤❤❤ congratulations to all the new moms and future moms to come!!

  • @katelin4531
    @katelin4531 3 роки тому +278

    My baby girl is almost 2 weeks old and we’re slowly but surely getting the hang of things. I’m glad I stumbled across your video because it shows me that I’m not alone and that I’m doing things the best I can 💜

  • @bethanysummers3377
    @bethanysummers3377 6 місяців тому +11

    Love this! Reminds me of how i did it with my kids, now 15 and 11....i think a good routine is key to getting sleep yourself. Waking for day feeds routinely, having light in the day, keeping it quiet/dark at night, not picking her up in the night straight away, not rocking to sleep in arms, using a sound machine, putting them down from awake, always burping them. These techniques help for a calm baby overall. They know the routine and feel secure.
    I was thinking maybe she woke more than usual in the night u filmed cos the night light was on still to film and it was different for her!

  • @ChelseaRaeAnderson
    @ChelseaRaeAnderson Рік тому +5

    “You’re crinkle hair is so cute” love you’re guys happy marriage there is so much love here!!

  • @n.c.4829
    @n.c.4829 2 роки тому +17

    I recently learned that with the haaka the correct use is to start feeding baby on one breast, move them to the next breast and then place the haaka on the breast the baby just fed from. You don't want to use the haaka on the breast before it's been fed from.

  • @frostedtips760
    @frostedtips760 2 роки тому +31

    I just want to encourage you that you are such a great role model for your kids! It’s one thing to be so disciplined in your routine, but to ALSO carve out time to shoot and edit a video like this to help others is amazing. As a person who creates videos for a living I know how time consuming all this can be so I just want to say- thank you for the time you’ve given us!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  2 роки тому +10

      That means a lot, thank you so much 🙏🏼 it’s def not easy but I truly believe it’s helping other mamas and that’s what I’m called to do!

    • @renboo5289
      @renboo5289 2 роки тому +1

      Can i just ask how often should women feed there new born

    • @carolineduran4772
      @carolineduran4772 2 роки тому

      You like Target?

    • @Liamluv707
      @Liamluv707 Рік тому

      @@carolineduran4772 Are there actually people out there that AREN’T obsessed with Target 🎯?!?! Hhmm have yet to meet one in the “wild”

  • @theasheng
    @theasheng Рік тому +17

    Love how relaxed and happy you are and I’ve seen many moms videos, you seem the most natural and real. Thanks for sharing your day and night schedule. Very helpful and made me feel soo calm and ready to meet my first baby. 🥰

  • @julissalee9555
    @julissalee9555 3 роки тому +13

    Omg Richie cracks me up when he layed down for bed and you were just being so sweet trying to include him.

  • @mandepilot
    @mandepilot 3 роки тому +215

    Oh my gosh...sorry, I'm a mom so yes...I laughed out loud at the last spit-up!! Love your calm demeanor and your babies are precious.

  • @meganrichards2937
    @meganrichards2937 Рік тому +4

    Thanks so much for this video. I’m currently 9 days into newborn life with a toddler and I was feeling hopeless and alone there for a bit but this helped me realize I’m not alone and this exhaustion is normal 😊

  • @emmarigby5279
    @emmarigby5279 3 роки тому +32

    Aw my gawd I laughed so much at the end 😂 34 weeks pregnant and a first time mum so it’s fab to see these kind of videos to give myself a bit of an idea of what it’s going to be like 😊

  • @maribelbanuelos7678
    @maribelbanuelos7678 2 роки тому +28

    Im having my first in 7 months. I wake up with so much reality check of the amount of change that will happen, struggling to find the clarity and reassurance and I often try to listen to affirmations and mommy blogs to soothe that anxiety. Your video definitely made me feel more content and at ease, just the way you handled things gave me confidence that I’m capable of this new journey. It reminded me of the joy and sweet in between moments that make the tiresome worth it.

    • @KB-----
      @KB----- 2 роки тому +3

      Girlllll I can relate to this comment! I found out I was pregnant in March. I give birth in November and until now it's been nothing but chaos and reality checks. The father wants nothing to do with her and isn't helping. I was too sick to work my 1st trimester. Car stolen. Needed to find a new place to live. Etc...And now I'm just embracing this transformative experience and stepping into motherhood.

    • @dknealellis
      @dknealellis 2 роки тому +1

      you definitely can do this. Will say education is power and failing to plan is planning to fail. Knowledge and a plan are the best tools to succeed at anything.

    • @allanilulu4992
      @allanilulu4992 2 роки тому +1

      When are you due? I’m 26th Jan 🥰 and I feel everything you’ve said in your comment 😬🥹 xxxx

    • @maribelbanuelos7678
      @maribelbanuelos7678 2 роки тому

      I’m not worried as much anymore now I’m just excited for everything! Birthdays holidays cute outfits sports school there is so much I always wanted to do with my own kid and now that opportunity is here :’) it’s our turn to raise the next generation and we’re going to have a album to show our kids of us back in the days like our parents did! Isn’t that awesome!

    • @marsha7442
      @marsha7442 2 роки тому

      Same. I’m due next month and I have the same feels.

  • @0osqueakso0
    @0osqueakso0 3 роки тому +247

    Just want to point something out for first time moms out there, be careful with schedules if you are breastfeeding, a schedule with a newborn can really mess up your supply. At this age, feed on demand always !! Newborns feed A LOT and its totally normal ! Of course everyone does what works for them, but I feel like this should be mentionned ❤
    You have a beautiful daughter Nicole, she is the sweetest ❤❤

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +22

      Thank you for the kind words! And for sure! I made a little note with the schedule on the screen that I also follow her cues because thats important!

    • @Bold-Math
      @Bold-Math 3 роки тому +15

      Yes, this is so important for milk supply. Feeding on demand and on both sides.

    • @kimberlylois4855
      @kimberlylois4855 3 роки тому +31

      I couldn't agree with this more! Our western culture seems to be very focused on getting babies on schedules and sleeping through the night asap. Feeding on demand and throughout the night is, of course, great for a sufficient milk supply and a wonderful tool to get baby dialed down and back to sleep!

    • @barbarapicelliklein5561
      @barbarapicelliklein5561 3 роки тому +20

      Yes! Feeding on demand and avoiding plastic nipples (bottles and pacifiers) are extremely important to build a good milk supply.

    • @GenK1991
      @GenK1991 3 роки тому +39

      As a mom I believe you do what’s best for you and your baby. Whether its scheduled feeding or on demand. Whatever is best for you. Don’t let anyone on the internet and that also goes for relatives with unsolicited advice, tell you whats right or wrong.

  • @lillianformosa2551
    @lillianformosa2551 3 роки тому +28

    Love how realistic your videos are & how minimal you are. You don’t buy a ton of over priced, unnecessary items for your baby girl. I’m a first time mom of twin girls, 28 weeks on Friday.
    So I watch a lot of these videos & so many UA-cam moms buy fancy, over priced items that more than likely won’t get used, but it’s just for the looks. you are super real in your videos. I like that.
    Anyways, your family is beautiful. You can truly see how happy you are to have a little girl and how in love you are with her. It’s beautiful! Take care.

  • @amandarecarey4224
    @amandarecarey4224 3 роки тому +248

    Absolutely love this!! I’m about to become a new first time mom and this was so comforting to watch!!

  • @paigeylaine
    @paigeylaine Рік тому +23

    I’m so glad I found this!! I am a FTM and my little guy is just over 4 weeks old. Watching this reassured me that we are doing things exactly the same, almost to a T! Currently exhausted but so in love. Funny how similar newborns are ☺️ Aria is so cute! Thank you for this 🩷

  • @WearItMilano
    @WearItMilano 2 роки тому +26

    This is such an amazing video! I’m 8 months pregnant and this video actually made me feel less stressed! Your family is amazing, lovely kids ❤

  • @damnyankee2137
    @damnyankee2137 2 роки тому +3

    Love this video! I’m a 62 yr. Old grandma (Meme). I raised three and breast fed them…..it is so rewarding. Keep up the good work. Look how organized you are…you’re a pro!

    • @carolineduran4772
      @carolineduran4772 2 роки тому

      Hello Grammy you like Avatars heh? What are their names?

    • @damnyankee2137
      @damnyankee2137 2 роки тому

      @@carolineduran4772 👈Someone here is mentally ill and has nothing better to do than try to bring others done to their painful level. How’s it feel Caroline to be called out by your own self-destructive comments? People can see the real you just by what you say. Are you in a prison or mental facility? Or maybe in your room at home with no job or life? Sooo obvious! 😂

  • @pamelarevenaugh4888
    @pamelarevenaugh4888 2 роки тому +4

    I’m glad you post the real struggle. So many Instagram girls post the “perfect times” and it’s not always as easy as it seems.

  • @RajeyaMiller
    @RajeyaMiller 3 роки тому +26

    I am 10 weeks pregnant and I have a 15 month old. I am so nervous for this transition but this video actually helped calm my anxiety about it! I still have time to prepare myself but I will definitely be looking back at these videos in a few months. Thank you Nicole 💞

    • @aubreynaarcher8916
      @aubreynaarcher8916 3 роки тому +1

      So dope! I'm 12 weeks pregnant. Due date June 20. I'm assuming we're both have a similar due date.
      I've been experiencing horrible morning sickness. Wbu?

    • @brandiryan90
      @brandiryan90 3 роки тому +2

      @@aubreynaarcher8916 Hi! I’m 12 weeks on Thursday. My due date is June 23rd. My morning sickness was horrible during week 6-9 and now it’s only in the morning or if I get hungry. Congrats!!

  • @shadzie3078
    @shadzie3078 Рік тому +1

    I thought I was evil for feeling exhausted 😭 I get sooo frustrated
    It brought peace just watching this, knowing I’m not the only one, though your little one is a year + possible by now. Thank you ❤

  • @TaylorRaine
    @TaylorRaine 3 роки тому +10

    I know you posted this video last week so you might not see this, but if you find that your baby is more comfortable nursing in the football hold you might want to have her checked for torticollis. My son had torticollis when he was born (it’s like a tightness in one side of the neck ) and it made it more difficult for him to nurse on one side as opposed to the other. We found ourselves having to do the football hold a lot. It’s easy to identify and fix so I just thought I would throw it out there in case.

    • @77jesusislord
      @77jesusislord 3 роки тому +2

      I know this is for Nicole but I wanted to say thanks for commenting. My son has Torticollis and get mad a lot when nursing (my forceful let down doesn’t help but I think it’s also related to the torticollis) so I’m going to try the football hold to see if it makes a difference

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +3

      Wow thanks for this info, so helpful! She's doing a lot better now so I don't think she has that BUT in case it starts up again I will def have this checked out. Thanks mama

  • @katiem586
    @katiem586 3 роки тому +43

    Aria and Jayce are seriously too adorable! Seeing how small Aria is makes me miss the newborn stage so much😭 definitely going to purchase this book in the future for baby #2!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +3

      Yes you’ll love the book! And ahh I know I forgot how much I love newborns until I had another one hehe

  • @potterfan4life14
    @potterfan4life14 2 роки тому +2

    NestedBean swaddles are a LIFESAVER. I used one with my first and now with my second who is 2 months. He actually sleeps more than 30 minutes at a time which has been crucial when I have a 2.5 year old to take care of too.

  • @stacyrodriguez9736
    @stacyrodriguez9736 3 роки тому +43

    the most realistic night with a newborn i've ever watched. I really enjoyed it

  • @tundra3145
    @tundra3145 2 роки тому +4

    This is so lovely. I will be a first-time mum in early Dec. Thank you for this. I never had my own mother, and my grandmother passed in my early 20's so I don't have a lot of other women in my life guiding me on what to do or expect!

    • @amydv8123
      @amydv8123 2 роки тому

      I’m in the same boat, new mom no mother or grandma let me know if you want to exchange info!

  • @leilacamuslamnaouar
    @leilacamuslamnaouar 3 роки тому +14

    For new mamas out there. This is one way to do it and not the only way. Do what you're comfortable with, but know there's nothing wrong with being as responsive as you want or as you feel your baby needs, cuddling your baby whenever and however they need (you don't have to be business like), and feeding on demand. Don't stress yourself about a schedule unless you want or need one.
    The cuddles are something you can never get back.

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +1

      For sure great reminder! There’s so many ways to do this, this is just what works for our family 🧡

    • @leilacamuslamnaouar
      @leilacamuslamnaouar 3 роки тому +3

      @@Nicolelelagreen yes! And you do it beautifully and make it look easy...even getting thrown up on! I just remember my first weeks with my newborn and being extremely stressed about trying to follow books and schedules and wondering whether or not to wake my baby, want to be sure mamas know it's ok to do what's right in their hearts. Love your content and what you share publicly about you and your beautiful family!

  • @gabbygirl9600
    @gabbygirl9600 3 роки тому +21

    We’re being induced in about 11 days if we don’t go in naturally, and this has really helped encourage me to know more of what it’s going to be like afterwards. Thank you! 🙏🏻❤️

    • @Annisa_Kacang
      @Annisa_Kacang 3 роки тому +1

      You’re almost there! Take the last few days and weeks to try and relax.
      You got this Mama 💙 Annisa

    • @SuperSugarbubble
      @SuperSugarbubble 3 роки тому +1

      If there’s no medical reason as to why they are inducing you then you would absolutely go into spontaneous labour. Synthetic oxytocin in which they give to start labour can lead to extra interventions and also intensify your contractions to become unbearable resulting in an epidural.

    • @Annisa_Kacang
      @Annisa_Kacang 3 роки тому

      @@SuperSugarbubble I agree with Hayley but I don’t know the reason and do what you you feel is right for you. You have a choice in every decision and can say no. 💙 Annisa

    • @CPeetG
      @CPeetG 3 роки тому +1

      @@SuperSugarbubble Natural labor can be unbearable too. I had an epidural with all 3 of mine. Thank god. Especially my 3rd baby, I felt like my body was being split in half.

    • @SuperSugarbubble
      @SuperSugarbubble 3 роки тому +1

      @@CPeetG It depends on your mindset and environment, if you’re in a unfamiliar environment with strangers you may have a different experience. I experienced no pain and had no drugs.

  • @abiquafarmgirl
    @abiquafarmgirl 2 роки тому +3

    I nurse #5, my 5 week old, on one side each feeding and sometimes twice on the same side to get the hind milk! He’s not ready to empty both sides yet or maybe my milk supply is good with all the electrolytes and water I drink.
    I also always nurse my babies to sleep if they want, it’s pretty natural and healthy for them! I also only wake my babies to if I’m too full of milk and neeed to nurse to relieve it.
    Babies don’t really go on any kind of schedule for a few months as they get used to life outside the womb.

  • @TiffanyDesign
    @TiffanyDesign 3 роки тому +2

    This is SO helpful, I am 17 weeks pregnant with bubba number 1 and its so great to see how actually its not all that scary, I've built it up in my mind a lot. tysm

  • @EstheticallyZhaneLLC
    @EstheticallyZhaneLLC 2 роки тому +5

    I’m currently a new mom with a 2 week year old , so far it’s been challenging for me but for her daddy it’s pretty easy for him. Definitely taking all the notes

  • @josephfarrell483
    @josephfarrell483 3 роки тому +1

    I'm on my son's account .I'm an old lady now but watching you helped me remember alot. You're such a good mom and you have a wonderful family. Thank you

  • @MelissaJDL
    @MelissaJDL 2 роки тому +8

    Amazing work! I also have a 3 week old right now and our night time routine is not nearly as flawless as this! Great work momma!

  • @mariahford8724
    @mariahford8724 Рік тому +2

    Thanks for sharing! I’m 5 months pregnant and this makes me so excited to meet my baby boy ❤️

  • @ljFilmsStuff
    @ljFilmsStuff 3 роки тому +117

    I’m about to be a FTM and this was so precious. Loved when she “fed” you at the end 🤣

    • @ngochip-victory
      @ngochip-victory 2 роки тому

      Thanks, your genitalia's life is very important for us.

    • @gabrielagomez6288
      @gabrielagomez6288 2 роки тому +9

      @@ngochip-victory i assumed they’re saying “full time mom” or possibly “first time mom”

  • @AndreaHuerta-bs5qz
    @AndreaHuerta-bs5qz 5 місяців тому

    This works! Used this same concept for my first three babies. Each baby responded differently but consistency gave me confidence over time!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  5 місяців тому

      That’s awesome, yes, consistency is KEY!

  • @OliviaAdali
    @OliviaAdali 3 роки тому +30

    This makes me feel so much less alone! I have a 2 week old and our routine is similar to yours

  • @jehniskamorales2355
    @jehniskamorales2355 3 роки тому +2

    Girle never noticed how hard but lovely it was to be a mother I’m 16 and just had a baby girl she’s 4 weeks now and she doesn’t sleep good she keeps me up allllllll night but I’m thankful my mom lets my babydaddy stay cause he’s a lot of help . Ik you don’t know me just wanted to vent . I’m laying here at 3:34 being able to watch your video cause she finally went down . And I’m starting school in two weeks 😭😭imma gonna cry like idk how I can go to school like knowing I’m leaving my baby alone well with my mom and sister but still

  • @sharizzle09
    @sharizzle09 3 роки тому +36

    This is suuuuch a good video!!!!! She is so so sweet, my goodness! I have a 3 month old little girl myself (that I’m currently nursing while watching). It is nice to feel validated and not alone in the daily adventure of keeping this little girl fed and happy ♥️

  • @TheTemporosaJourney
    @TheTemporosaJourney 2 роки тому +5

    Nicole you are a wonderful mom. So inspiring. Im 6weeks pregnant after 10years of waiting. 🥰
    We are believing for a baby girl too. Great job, i love the last part of the video " you are worth it even though im exhausted" the love of a mother! To all of the moms out there...Nicole is our representative.🥰☝️💪👊

    • @TheTemporosaJourney
      @TheTemporosaJourney 2 роки тому

      Our baby did not make it. We lost it... 😭😭😭😭

    • @cshayen
      @cshayen 2 роки тому

      Ohnooo lots of love

  • @masumachowdhury
    @masumachowdhury 3 роки тому +6

    Jace wiping his tears and trying to not cry so he can eat his banana. My HEART 😭

  • @_cindy_4208
    @_cindy_4208 3 роки тому +38

    That throw up at the end 🤣 love your night time routine!! She seems like such an easy baby!

  • @sarahrast7534
    @sarahrast7534 8 місяців тому

    Loved this. I currently have an 11 day old, and this video makes me feel not as alone with the tiresome nights. Also just got a Zen One and excited to use it tonight☺️

  • @Capmomebaby
    @Capmomebaby Рік тому

    personalized baby blankets and swaddles are great gifts for baby showers as they are practical, unique, and sentimental. Parents love to receive items that are customized for their baby, and it makes for a thoughtful and memorable gift.

  • @kass_G59
    @kass_G59 2 роки тому +12

    Thank you so much for this! I’m 34 weeks & SUPER anxious about being a first time mama, but this helped me a lot! 💗💙

  • @lackitudenails3538
    @lackitudenails3538 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you for this video, I’m currently pregnant and this video is so helpful to mentally realise how it really is like! ☺️

  • @RainbowhrtFlower
    @RainbowhrtFlower 3 роки тому +4

    My daughter was having trouble feeding in the evening as well, turns out the muscles in her mouth/face/shoulders were extremely tense causing facial fatigue! Consider going to a lactation consultant to get her checked 🙂 it’s like night and day now! We got her full body massages 3 times and a chiropractor visit!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +1

      Wow never heard of that! Def sounds like she might have some tense face muscles when she’s resisting. Thanks for the tip mama!

  • @Borntobereading
    @Borntobereading 3 роки тому +8

    “No, you did not.” 🤣🤣🤣
    That spit up life is no joke!

  • @eleanormapp8253
    @eleanormapp8253 9 місяців тому

    I love your baby aria she's so cute and yes your right shes definitely worth it. ❤ I recently lost my baby girl😢 and I just came across your channel and seeing you with your baby makes me happy

  • @elainetchi
    @elainetchi 3 роки тому +6

    Great video! My baby is also around 3 weeks and our nights are not nearly as smooth (lots more crying and crying). You handle everything so well!

  • @draupne
    @draupne 3 роки тому +15

    Love this video! I'm 13 weeks pregnant, and soaking up all the information I can to be kinda prepared for the new life ahead 🥰

  • @sebastiaanboonstra7471
    @sebastiaanboonstra7471 10 місяців тому

    Very informative and heartwarming to see as a father to be. Moms are amazing.

  • @chelseasiegel1511
    @chelseasiegel1511 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you for sharing this video - my due date is 1 week away with my first bubba and I know this content is showing the less glamorous side of motherhood but it's still making me so excited!

  • @sarahrast7534
    @sarahrast7534 11 місяців тому

    This was such a great informational video on what to expect. I’m expecting my first in just a few months now and will certainly be taking a lot of pointers from this. Also for sure getting that sleep sack!

  • @КатеринаМирон-е4л
    @КатеринаМирон-е4л 2 роки тому +1

    Can we just say that Nicole is doing great job taking care of the baby but also not forgetting about her son? A lot of parents focus too much on newborn making thier oldern children feel lonely. Nicole shows that the balance can be achieved even if your baby wants all of the attention.

  • @jennb9730
    @jennb9730 Рік тому +31

    To be moms out there: not all babies are like this. And it was a huge slap in the face for me and I had to release all expectations. It’s not what you see on UA-cam and instagram. It’s not always this easy. It’s not always beautiful. Sometimes breastfeeding is hard and it can be heartbreaking. To the moms that don’t struggle with these things, you’re lucky. But some new moms need to know, it is not like this.
    I struggled so so much the first month because of the expectations and things I saw while I was pregnant. My baby is 3 months now and I’m just now learning his habits and we have a good routine. I still find it hard to do tummy time, etc. we are just surviving at this point. Being new parents is exhausting. I’m so grateful to my husband for the help he gives me! We didn’t get 4-5 hours of sleep until he was around 2 or 2 1/2 months old.
    This video doesn’t show the crying. It doesn’t show the puking. Also if your baby is colicky, it’s not like this at all!!! My baby was colicky after my milk dried up. We ended up switching his formula and taking him to the chiropractor. He is doing soooo much better now.
    Also I had every intention of my baby sleeping in the bassinet next to our bed but he is such a loud sleeper and made so much noise. I was waking up with every little sound he made. Also my grandma would have to come watch him for a few hours some days so I could nap!

    • @emsqua
      @emsqua Рік тому +5

      True that! My baby is almost a month old and my third baby in 3.5yrs... babies can be wildly different from each other and at different times! My baby is currently an 'easy' baby, she feeds between 9-10, and my husband cuddles her and does house jobs until 2/3am when I have her and he goes to sleep (it means guaranteed sleep for both of us each night). As long as she's held she's generally happy! I know that this phase won't last, because babies phases never last in my experience, and that's ok: ride the wave!
      This video shows a calm baby in an easy phase, great for her mum!
      My middle child who is now 20m is a cmpa baby, projectile vomiting so often we lost our sanity and the washing was overwhelming and soul destroying. When babies are having a hard time, its a really hard time for the parents too, I'd say to FTM: give yourself the grace you would show a friend, you're baby parents, it's your first time and you can read and watch all the things but it doesn't give you the experiences that your own child will, and you will be an expert on your own child in no time!

    • @ashleycurry8112
      @ashleycurry8112 8 місяців тому +3

      Here’s the thing…. I’m sorry that you had a hard time, however this is in fact HER experience with HER baby. There are UA-cam channels that show all of the things you described for example kristiana channel has show her baby colic, the fits, the constant crying all day and night ECT her breaking down all of it. And that was Kristy’s experience with that one baby. So much so that she no longer wants another. She has prior children who were just like this baby so she didn’t expect this. The thing is, anyone watching these basing their lives off this already have an issue simply in that. To think that you watching SOMEONE ELSES life will be reminiscent of yours is just insane. But also this is clearly within the first few weeks when MOST babies are like this even colic babies.
      I get what you are saying but it’s also false. All you have to do is put in colic baby, or sleep regression or whatever you are going through and there in fact is someone on the other side of UA-cam that is experiencing it also. But to sit and watch what we deem “an easy baby” and say oh! My life is going to be just like this is just crazy! That’s like someone sitting f and watching me with a night nurse and nanny and saying I’m gonna do that but not incurring the cost of it. It’s not realistic for everyone .

    • @jennb9730
      @jennb9730 8 місяців тому +3

      @@ashleycurry8112 oh I thought maybe a man was writing this and I just got mansplained 🤣
      Thanks for completely dismissing my situation. I almost didn't survive that first year. I don't need anyone telling me what my expectations should have been. Do you even have kids? Have you ever had PPD?? It is not just this post but almost everything you see about babies on social media, is not realistic. I was seeing it before I had my child. So why would I seek out colicky baby videos. 🙄🙄 Absolutely ridiculous for you to come here and say this to me. Obviously 20 other people feel the same way I do! And I have never seen a channel that is realistic and shows colicky babies. Also my baby was sick for 6 months with colic. Not the first few weeks. You know nothing about my situation. Women need to know it's not all sunshine!!!

    • @animalsaroundus2
      @animalsaroundus2 4 місяці тому

      @@jennb9730I think the person above this responses point is that you’re being rude to the creator of this video. She isn’t glamorizing anything and isn’t a first time mom either. I don’t know why you feel the need to be so accusatory towards her. Yeah, it’s obviously not realistic for all newborns, but this is HER experience.

    • @jennb9730
      @jennb9730 4 місяці тому

      @@animalsaroundus2 ok this was ONE YEAR AGO!!! I was not in a good place mentally. Obviously

  • @ashleybrude2846
    @ashleybrude2846 3 роки тому +15

    Girl-you are so blessed! Our son is 7 weeks old and we would love to have nights as “easy” as this. (He has tummy troubles that we’re having a hard time figuring out a solution for.) I’m happy that things are going well for you! Say a prayer that things will get better for us soon 😆 🥱 😅

    • @ukiealby
      @ukiealby 3 роки тому +1

      This was our life & still kinda is. cut out dairy soy gluten and egg and no change.. even tried formula to make sure it wasn’t my milk. Have you tried “colic calm” it seems to help a little. It gets better mama!! He’s a lot better than he was as a newborn but still haven’t found out why guess just his immature digestive tract :(

    • @ashleybrude2846
      @ashleybrude2846 3 роки тому

      @@ukiealby 💛 I haven’t tried that; thanks for the suggestion!

    • @thelittlemermaid6645
      @thelittlemermaid6645 2 роки тому

      @@ukiealby hmm whats colic calm exactly?☺

    • @ukiealby
      @ukiealby 2 роки тому

      @@thelittlemermaid6645 it’s a gripe water with tons of natural ingredients with charcoal being the main one it’s suppose to help with all sorts of GI issues. He’s 6 months now and no more problems! So I think they just grow out of it

  • @simonerennis250
    @simonerennis250 11 місяців тому

    You are an ammmmmazing mom!! Thank you so much for this. I'm an expecting mom and this video really put a lot of gitters to rest. Thank you!💗

  • @KaeRoque
    @KaeRoque 3 роки тому +978

    Im pregnant and terrified… lmao this looks wild affffff

    • @amberschutte9496
      @amberschutte9496 2 роки тому +162

      I’m pregnant with baby number two and let me tell you aria seems like a chill baby compared to my first🤣

    • @AStarozzy89
      @AStarozzy89 2 роки тому +67

      I have a 2 week old … it is wild over this side lolll 😅😩🥰

    • @WombToWorld
      @WombToWorld 2 роки тому +28

      Is baby born? How are you doing???

    • @KaeRoque
      @KaeRoque 2 роки тому +30

      @@WombToWorld not yet ! I have 9 weeks to go. 😭😭

    • @KaeRoque
      @KaeRoque 2 роки тому +65

      @@amberschutte9496 girl i think this is my one and done cause pregnancy ALONE has been extra af tbh 🤣 ur brave

  • @carolgreeve3947
    @carolgreeve3947 Рік тому +2

    You’re an awesome mom, so good of you to share your routine with other young moms as it gives them a real idea of how life will be when baby comes. The joys of being a mom! God bless your beautiful family!

  • @danad2307
    @danad2307 2 роки тому

    Such a good video, dear. Thanks for sharing, I am in my last month of pregnancy and you made it easier for us to imagine how it looks and will go once baby is born. As you say, realistic but very sweet to experience a day you with Aria. ❤️🙏

  • @cicigigi633
    @cicigigi633 8 місяців тому

    Wonderful video. Thank you. Im pregnant with my third child & this definitely helps new moms know what to expect.

  • @sjimenezvaldez
    @sjimenezvaldez 3 роки тому +16

    Love this! So helpful for new mamas. And you're SUCH a trooper staying so calm while she threw up in your mouth! 😆 Mom life!

    • @Annisa_Kacang
      @Annisa_Kacang 3 роки тому

      Mine almost peed in my face 😅🤣 Annisa

  • @tetianahodzic8291
    @tetianahodzic8291 Рік тому +8

    What a perfect baby! our first 3 weeks were a nightmare. Cluster feeding, low supply, feeding every hour. I started supplement with formula and life got better.

    • @shadrach6299
      @shadrach6299 7 місяців тому +1

      You did the right thing

  • @madelinedallow31
    @madelinedallow31 3 роки тому +2

    I’m due to give birth next week and your video made me feel so comfortable and excited 😇 thank you

  • @nirmalakamath2385
    @nirmalakamath2385 3 роки тому +2

    Just wanted to say hi, our daughters are only a couple of days apart and my daughter is named Arya! Found this video just now and was such a happy coincidence 🧿

  • @angelft462
    @angelft462 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed your video! My baby girl is 4 weeks tomorrow. We have been struggling a bit, especially with our night routine. It's good to know everything we have been experiencing is normal.
    I'm so getting a glow in dark pacifier and white noise machine!

  • @alyssaybarra12
    @alyssaybarra12 3 роки тому +7

    Okay, Aria is so cute 🥲 I am expecting my second, a boy, at the end of January! I love watching your videos. They’re helpful & have good info. You’re doing great, mama!

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +1

      Aww thanks!! So happy to help and CONGRATS!!! So excited for you!

  • @marianoelmontesdeoca5491
    @marianoelmontesdeoca5491 Рік тому +2

    my baby sleeps at much 2 hours streches and she is almost 6 months jajja your night is heven for me. all babys are diferent and every mom and family have to lern from their babies and whats best for them. It is very exausting but when your baby gives you that little smile after feeding everything worth it. It is also very important to ask form help if you have the oportunity spetialy for naping douring the day. FROM URUGUAY

  • @christinemanjourides5447
    @christinemanjourides5447 3 роки тому +51

    As a first time momma of a little girl whose to be born in March- I can use all the info! Thank you and God bless 💕

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +2

      You are so welcome!

    • @christinemanjourides5447
      @christinemanjourides5447 3 роки тому

      @@alyssaa1328 Awww congratulations! I love the UA-cam community for this very reason- so supportive. Rosaline is a BEAUTIFUL name. 🙏🏻😃

    • @rebeccanoyoutube
      @rebeccanoyoutube 3 роки тому +1

      my first time as momma as well, and my little girl is also to be born in march! good luck for both of us. sending love from brazil =)

    • @libera7161
      @libera7161 3 роки тому

      me too, my baby is a boy, but also my first child and Birth-Date is in March. :D

  • @orselenadidi
    @orselenadidi 3 роки тому +7

    Since I gave birth, every baby I see looks like my newborn baby girl 🤣 Your baby girl is beautiful! ❣

    • @orselenadidi
      @orselenadidi 3 роки тому

      Also my baby girl doesn't have hair in front just like yours! Ahah

  • @areyouearthing
    @areyouearthing 9 днів тому

    Our baby slept in his own room as the little noises that he made as a newborn would keep me awake. I nursed in his room in the middle of the night. Those were some of the loneliest nights. It was dark and I was the only one awake in the house and in the neighborhood. I had no help during his infancy, and I had postpartum blues, so it was a very difficult time. It was also winter. My husband never took time off because he had his own business. Every mother needs a helper.

  • @mariamcpodcast
    @mariamcpodcast 2 роки тому +6

    I just discovered your channel, I love the energy you have...it is so hard going through newborn stage. Your video made me chill and feel confident for my n2 coming soon

    • @carolineduran4772
      @carolineduran4772 2 роки тому

      Yes, it is very hard to get through the newborn stage. Target has great stuff to help with that.

  • @melissazoubek6275
    @melissazoubek6275 2 роки тому

    I have two daughters 27, 23 and a 2nd grand baby on the way. It is scary at first but you figure it out. I didn't lots of what they have now for babies and they grew up fine. There are different challenges at every age. Happy babies!

  • @kennydianabrown7359
    @kennydianabrown7359 3 роки тому +2

    Sweet video. So similar to how our nights were with our newborn (now 2 month old) except all the gassy problems that made our girl so unhappy and fussy. It was rough, happy to know your not dealing with that. It was hard. Baby sleeping well at night 3-5 hr stretches also made my period come back at 6 weeks hahahaha
    For anyone who has rough nights, just know that it will pass and although that is not helpful (like hearing people say that to me was not) you will get through it ❤️

    • @Nicolelelagreen
      @Nicolelelagreen  3 роки тому +1

      Thanks for the super encouraging comment!! Def a good reminder that this won’t last forever. Honestly I feel like a month just flew by so it’ll only be a matter time before she’s fast asleep all night and I’ll be missing our midnight snacks haha

    • @kennydianabrown7359
      @kennydianabrown7359 3 роки тому +2

      @@Nicolelelagreen we are first time parents and had our baby at home in a birth pool so everything felt like SO MUCH the first few weeks. When I see Mama's who seem to have perfect newborns, postpartum bodies and overall lives I feel sad for all the rest of us who had such a rough go at it all in the begining (I am happy for those women and believe they deserve to be heard where they are) With each stage there will be challanges so hearing from Mama's in each stage is so encouraging. Our girl now goes to bed at midnight and sleeps 7-8 hrs then cluster feeds all day LOL! Just when you think you have a little routine down, it all changes ❤️

  • @jamillagaiia
    @jamillagaiia 3 роки тому +1

    You literally have the BEST mommy baby videos on UA-cam. Thank you for your knowledge. I’m currently pregnant and watching your videos helps me soooo much!

  • @Chloe-ly7nq
    @Chloe-ly7nq Рік тому

    Hi Nicole, is the 6pm Supper feed a half or full feed? Im so glad I found your channel I am a FTM with a very fussy little baby with milk allergies but trying to get some sort of routine in place to help settle her better. You ooze a calm aura and I am really comforted by watching your videos!

  • @Sanguine_Addiction
    @Sanguine_Addiction Рік тому

    My wife is 7 months pregnant with fraternal twins, C-section scheduled middle of November. What's making me nervous is the circumcision. I already told the doctor to make sure my little one is numbed up good before doing anything, to alleviate the pain as much as possible. Otherwise my fists will start flying and daddy will be in handcuffs before the kids make it home lol.

  • @TheGyrosgyros
    @TheGyrosgyros Рік тому +1

    This was so cool! You're a pro mom! I love how calm you are. It actually makes me think it's all manageable and maybe I can manage it too! Thanks again:)

  • @Ashwanishetty
    @Ashwanishetty 3 роки тому +1

    I’m yet to deliver my first one and your video seems so satisfying and informative that what an gonna create and going to face in another 1.5 month gives me stress and happiness both at the same time❤️🙈

  • @schnitzel711
    @schnitzel711 Рік тому

    That last part with her throwing up a little bit on you was hilarious and so realistic haha! But as you said they’re aaalll worth it

  • @QueenFreya2017
    @QueenFreya2017 11 днів тому

    The first night you start training them the newborns. With the sleep pattern and day/ night.
    I did that with all four of my children's like that one on the way in February next month. It pretty easy to do.☺️

  • @KendallM0219
    @KendallM0219 2 роки тому +3

    What bassinet is that! It’s so gorgeous! Also thank you for the video, I’m pregnant with my first and it’s nice to have an idea of what a night will look like when she’s here.

    • @AmberShelley-h4z
      @AmberShelley-h4z Рік тому

      Baby Bay... i think its the maxi based on the size

  • @ryazanovaSasha
    @ryazanovaSasha 2 роки тому +2

    Oh, thank you for such a realistic video :) I’m pregnant with my first child and on the 16 week now.. I just need to know what to expect:) your little princess is soo adorable 🥰

    • @lizettemartinez7824
      @lizettemartinez7824 2 роки тому +1

      I’m with you ! I just found out I’m pregnant with my first baby I’m 6 weeks. This video made me feel much calmer and definitely helpful

  • @rachelstrode652
    @rachelstrode652 3 роки тому +4

    This was a great video. I’m impressed with the very nice schedule you’ve made.

  • @ElinaG85
    @ElinaG85 2 роки тому +1

    I know this video is a year old but it popped up in my feed and I’m going thru this stage now and it was so interesting to see other moms go through it too :)

  • @elizabethalfson
    @elizabethalfson 3 роки тому +2

    OMG the part where she throws up in your mouth - I laughed out loud! You poor, exhausted mama. Watched this because I am due with my first baby girl in 3 weeks. :) I'll have to watch your other videos too! Thanks for sharing!

  • @kaileycrowe6234
    @kaileycrowe6234 2 роки тому +1

    I'm 15 weeks and this made me so excited!! Thank you!!

  • @JJ-oq3tz
    @JJ-oq3tz 3 місяці тому +2

    I love babies and I had a young cousin who a baby at the age of 19 with her husband for her lifetime and I'm so glad I can watched this video!!!💕😭❤️💯

  • @MrsRexLover
    @MrsRexLover 2 роки тому +1

    So glad I watched til the end with that little present she gave you during your morning cuddles 😂😂 doesn’t get much more real than that

  • @sophierescigno5064
    @sophierescigno5064 3 роки тому +1

    She's the most adorable lil shooting star I've ever seen, such a sweet little blessing 💗💗💗💗💗

  • @averymarquesha
    @averymarquesha Рік тому

    Expecting my second girl and this vlog brought me back to those first few weeks. You handled it like a pro! Thanks for sharing

  • @bethany45101
    @bethany45101 3 роки тому

    I’m a mama of 3 and the spit up on your chin was sooooooo funny! Your sweet girl is a dollbaby. I nursed my babies too and I am so proud of you! Breastfeeding is freakin hard work.

  • @aidamaldonado8135
    @aidamaldonado8135 7 місяців тому

    aww that’s nice I love pink. You seem like a great mom. She is beautiful.

  • @tatiyachaisatephong7584
    @tatiyachaisatephong7584 3 роки тому

    thank you so much! I have 4 weeks old baby and your vdo is really helpful and help me be able to sleep more and go through the night with the baby! I would love to see your baby's day time routine too :) Excellent!

  • @DoladoDK
    @DoladoDK 3 роки тому +3

    Omg, that looks so tiring🥴😑 I'm 37 weeks and I love to watch videos like yours to have an idea of what to expect😁also you have a good vibe and transparency that I really like. You're a great mama💗💗💗

  • @essentialvital2696
    @essentialvital2696 Рік тому

    We have a one week old and wish our feeds was like this lol we are up every 2 - 2 1/2 hours with him feeding in the night at the moment he’s a proper night owl 😂 love this vid keep it up

  • @roschellemcguinness8181
    @roschellemcguinness8181 3 роки тому +16

    So cute!! Making me so excited to meet my girl in 9 ish weeks 🙈

    • @love4clothes
      @love4clothes 3 роки тому

      Im due in ten weeks, cant wait :)

    • @teady012002
      @teady012002 3 роки тому

      Congratulations! I have 4 weeks left 😯

    • @lizettemartinez7824
      @lizettemartinez7824 2 роки тому

      Congrats!!!!🎉 I just found out I’m pregnant with my first baby I’m 6 weeks definitely super happy