Would've been nice if you described what a "loser" is, since it can be very subjective from person to person. And most of the girls who date in ur view "losers", don't think of those guys as losers. So elaborate on that so they know the general traits of a respectable man. Assuming you don't have radicalized values in regards to that.
I dont rly think its subjective, tbh everyone knows what a loser is.. kinda feels like ur comment is just a projection especially considering the last sentence I apologise if im wrong but i doubt it lol.
She literally did in the first minute and a half. “Not their equal counterpart, don’t treat them well, disrespect them, don’t give them attention” etc. aka the loser is below the girl on the social heirarchy
@@shoumeifps If everybody knew what a loser is, then why do so many women get heartbroken. You trynna tell me they're attracted to losers? Or that grown and matured women are too emotionally stupid to tell that the guy is a red flag? Nonetheless, you can sit and generalize human psychology all day, which tells me you're very simple and close-minded, to deny what women consider attractive or loser-like can all be generalized. And that's only if he isn't playing an act and pretending to be Mr. Nice guy. This topic is way too deep to be discussed in a UA-cam comment section.
What constitutes a loser? A 20-year-old man with a neckbeard and no job who dropped out of high school? Or a man who's below 6 foot and happens to be a virgin at a slightly later than usual age? Because when most women think of a male "loser", they picture the latter.
Personally I base loser-ism on character and values, I’m 20 and still know male virgins who no one I know would consider ‘losers’. Attractiveness also has very little to do with it in my view.
Healthy relationships require trust, respect, and mutual affection. Before seeking comfort in someone, ensure you have self-respect and a sense of completeness. It's about being strong individually before coming together. This is coming from a "loser" who's working towards improving themselves s so take what I say with a pinch of salt. At the end of the day I'm just another digital stranger. Ladies & Gents just know your worth, and be honest if you're in a place where you ready for a commitment and actually have something to bring to the table as well as your partner.
I agreed Sister! From a young man who thought I could fix her while finishing my engineering degree to get a good job and move closer to her. I dated this loser for 5 month then 1 yr long distance. Gave her two hours a day after work and studying, listening to her "stuggles" and would save up to fly and see her and pay for her to see me. I gave everything just to be cheated for 3 months till she broke up with me after i told her so excited and proud i got the job... Anyways, you talked about finding someone you can build a future with. So, if they can't even commit to a career path or still dont know by 20, move on.
Some great points, but I don’t agree about the manifestation bit. Not saying women should be out there chasing men, but both men and women need to put in the work and be the best they can and most importantly work together on building a relationship. You do partly address that in the add-on comment on being a lady if you are expecting chivalry from the man.
no girl/guy will ever stop dating losers, because 50% of people has anxiety attachment style so its very hard to get off this "drug", especially when you can find a nice guy/girl everywhere and they are just boring for gen z mentality, i've seen a lot of pain through this hook up epidemic, from guys and girls, i think we all should try to unite in healthy relationships, and not shift responsibility on each other and of course chivalry and gentelmaning is dying because of already said hook up culture, things like just: wait, and you're the prize are very hard to understand because how any guy will get that you are that feminine when everybody around is not. I completely agree that dating with low self-esteem is bad idea, but many do that anyway, burning their sense of security,trust and then not giving next person a chance and thats sad
Your advice makes people conceited and insecure. The "Manosphere" promotes the same warped logic but reverses it to cater for men, while also justifying it through pseudo-scientific arguments about gender. What do you know about how people should live? Come up with a better argument please.
@@sarenka11 They shouldn't. What I was arguing against is the supposed solution to "dating losers" being to view yourself as an incandescent trophy since it promotes an insecure superiority complex under the verisimilitude of self-love. Plenty recognise this through gym bros thinking they're entitled to a girlfriend, but don’t with girls thinking they're entitled to a boyfriend. Self-image plays a crucial role in relationships but there are more productive methods to improve it by fixing more fundamental issues including thought patterns, lifestyle and trauma rather than reducing empathy for the opposite sex. The advice fails to achieve what it sets out to accomplish; only further distorting the concept of a healthy relationship.
Would've been nice if you described what a "loser" is, since it can be very subjective from person to person. And most of the girls who date in ur view "losers", don't think of those guys as losers. So elaborate on that so they know the general traits of a respectable man. Assuming you don't have radicalized values in regards to that.
I dont rly think its subjective, tbh everyone knows what a loser is.. kinda feels like ur comment is just a projection especially considering the last sentence I apologise if im wrong but i doubt it lol.
@@shoumeifpswomen think about it genetically unconsciously while men tend to think about who or what that guy is sociologically speaking
She literally did in the first minute and a half. “Not their equal counterpart, don’t treat them well, disrespect them, don’t give them attention” etc. aka the loser is below the girl on the social heirarchy
@@shoumeifps If everybody knew what a loser is, then why do so many women get heartbroken. You trynna tell me they're attracted to losers? Or that grown and matured women are too emotionally stupid to tell that the guy is a red flag? Nonetheless, you can sit and generalize human psychology all day, which tells me you're very simple and close-minded, to deny what women consider attractive or loser-like can all be generalized. And that's only if he isn't playing an act and pretending to be Mr. Nice guy. This topic is way too deep to be discussed in a UA-cam comment section.
What constitutes a loser? A 20-year-old man with a neckbeard and no job who dropped out of high school? Or a man who's below 6 foot and happens to be a virgin at a slightly later than usual age? Because when most women think of a male "loser", they picture the latter.
I hear that
Personally I base loser-ism on character and values, I’m 20 and still know male virgins who no one I know would consider ‘losers’. Attractiveness also has very little to do with it in my view.
What percent of the losers would you say are good looking versus bad looking?
Healthy relationships require trust, respect, and mutual affection. Before seeking comfort in someone, ensure you have self-respect and a sense of completeness. It's about being strong individually before coming together. This is coming from a "loser" who's working towards improving themselves s so take what I say with a pinch of salt. At the end of the day I'm just another digital stranger. Ladies & Gents just know your worth, and be honest if you're in a place where you ready for a commitment and actually have something to bring to the table as well as your partner.
Great video, especially for young women. There's no changing anybody, only finding the one that deserves the love you have to give.
Traditionalism to women is when you finance their consumer lifestyles
I agreed Sister! From a young man who thought I could fix her while finishing my engineering degree to get a good job and move closer to her. I dated this loser for 5 month then 1 yr long distance. Gave her two hours a day after work and studying, listening to her "stuggles" and would save up to fly and see her and pay for her to see me. I gave everything just to be cheated for 3 months till she broke up with me after i told her so excited and proud i got the job... Anyways, you talked about finding someone you can build a future with. So, if they can't even commit to a career path or still dont know by 20, move on.
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As a person with childhood trauma, it is really uncomfortable to me when someone chases me :/ I prefer when things flow naturally
Some great points, but I don’t agree about the manifestation bit.
Not saying women should be out there chasing men, but both men and women need to put in the work and be the best they can and most importantly work together on building a relationship. You do partly address that in the add-on comment on being a lady if you are expecting chivalry from the man.
no girl/guy will ever stop dating losers, because 50% of people has anxiety attachment style so its very hard to get off this "drug", especially when you can find a nice guy/girl everywhere and they are just boring for gen z mentality, i've seen a lot of pain through this hook up epidemic, from guys and girls, i think we all should try to unite in healthy relationships, and not shift responsibility on each other
and of course chivalry and gentelmaning is dying because of already said hook up culture, things like just: wait, and you're the prize are very hard to understand because how any guy will get that you are that feminine when everybody around is not.
I completely agree that dating with low self-esteem is bad idea, but many do that anyway, burning their sense of security,trust and then not giving next person a chance and thats sad
good video .if only more women watched your channel.
I know someone who isnt a loser 😮
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Your advice makes people conceited and insecure. The "Manosphere" promotes the same warped logic but reverses it to cater for men, while also justifying it through pseudo-scientific arguments about gender. What do you know about how people should live? Come up with a better argument please.
Please explain your logic as to why people should settle for partners that don’t value or respect them
@@sarenka11 They shouldn't. What I was arguing against is the supposed solution to "dating losers" being to view yourself as an incandescent trophy since it promotes an insecure superiority complex under the verisimilitude of self-love. Plenty recognise this through gym bros thinking they're entitled to a girlfriend, but don’t with girls thinking they're entitled to a boyfriend. Self-image plays a crucial role in relationships but there are more productive methods to improve it by fixing more fundamental issues including thought patterns, lifestyle and trauma rather than reducing empathy for the opposite sex. The advice fails to achieve what it sets out to accomplish; only further distorting the concept of a healthy relationship.
well maybe YOU are the loser? hmm?
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