The Difference Between Love and Lust (with Andrew Comiskey)

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  • Опубліковано 4 лис 2022
  • How can you tell the difference between love and lust? Andrew Comiskey and Christopher West share their experience and wisdom.
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  • @hilaryxko
    @hilaryxko Рік тому +4

    Woow, this is so important to me, praise be to GOD

    • @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8
      @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8 Рік тому

      Anybody collecting money for ministering or saying that same-sex marriage is a sin when it is not now part of the Great Tribulation that started September 1st. They will be blacked out from the holy Spirit and experience such mental torment that it will bring them to repentance or they will wait too late and die with the wicked.
      The answer to end covid is for all the thieving ministers to return the money (Malachi 3:8 . . . Malachi 2 proves it's prophetic instruction for the thieving ministers to repent.)
      Mathew 19:12
      🏳️‍🌈 Eunuchs that are born that way are transgender.
      🏳️‍🌈 Eunuchs made that way by others were abused.
      🏳️‍🌈 Those that choose to live like Eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven are bisexual people that choose partners of the same sex but opposite in gender.
      I am Elijah of Malachi 4:5-6. Acts 3:22-23 says it will come to pass that anyone that fails to listen to me will be UTTERLY destroyed from among the people.
      Male or female is determined by gender, located in the brain. I am the forerunner to the return of Jesus, who was transgender and will return as a woman. Most of the famous prophets from the Bible were transgender as well, including David and Joseph.
      Anyone saying ssm is a sin wont be here much longer. God prefers it 😊🏳️‍🌈.
      Lev, Corinth, and Tim is referring to pedophilia. Billy the money-hungry lying wolf Graham translated it wrong. Romans is NOT referring to Eunuchs where one partner is transgender. And God did it on purpose because they were trying to procreate during orgies.
      And in Deuteronomy it clearly states no one was castrated back then. That doesnt fit anyhow. No one is born making the decision to be celibate, nor born castrated. But that's what God wanted the lying preachers to think so they wouldnt take it out of the bible.
      Politicians, judges, police, and all rich people are also evil and will be part of the Great Tribulation until they make a public apology or they will wait too late and die with the wicked. STAY OUT OF THE FAKE CHURCHES IF YOU WANT TO LIVE.
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      .mlp

    • @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8
      @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8 Рік тому

      Matthew 19:12 says God prefers same-sex relationships and anybody saying any different is now part of the Great Tribulation that started September 1st and will remain blacked out from the holy Spirit until they repent and accept truth or wait too late and die with the wicked.

  • @jaysantiagoofficial6133
    @jaysantiagoofficial6133 Рік тому

    I resonate with this so much.

  • @roccocarlino067
    @roccocarlino067 Місяць тому

    The difference between lust and love is rather obvious and not the problem...
    It's the deception of the vice of lust because it only serves to take in order to satisfy an insatiable desire. It's basically an emotional and physical addiction which needs addressing just like any other addiction. It becomes like a cancer within the soul and will always eventually ruin a healthy relationship.

  • @sitka49
    @sitka49 Рік тому +2

    Lust is looking at a person and feeling both a strong sexual attraction and a pull toward imaginative details that the relationship could one day possess. Love is a feeling of commitment and adoration for a person that you've put effort into.
    I guess when I first met my now wife I wasn't attracted to intelligence or personality initially, I was attracted to looks, figure ( sexually) How do you define attraction without noticing them physically? I have met a lot women that had a great personality, virtuous ,but I could never see having a physical relationship with. How fair is that to them to pursue a relationship with when I have no physical attraction to them?

    • @jouzelfeather-pelt7686
      @jouzelfeather-pelt7686 Рік тому +4

      There are women I wasn’t initially attracted to, but over time I became attracted. Comes with chastity in all honesty. Not many men attain the grace because they fall prey to masturbation. I noticed that with chastity, the most beautiful woman was unattractive. Why? Because without God, they were shallow. I went to a nightclub and the women were pretty, but compared to those who practiced the faith, the pull wasn’t there. It’s very hard to explain, because hardly any men stay single and attain this grace. It’s quite lonely because the guys who follow the faith can’t relate to me because I was bestowed this grace, so they’re in a spot I surpassed with the help of Jesus.

  • @paulsapiano6535
    @paulsapiano6535 Рік тому

    It's hard to express,I know that you are speaking the truth. I feel it within my heart. I believe in Jesus as my saviour. I also feel like I've done so much wrong in my life. While trying to work out what to..... really love .....actually entails and coming to know that all love is something sacrificial and sacred. I look back and see the train wreck of selfishness and sterilisation. A life of trying to be in control while being out of control with lust. Is there any hope for sinners like me?

    • @amanewgirl
      @amanewgirl 6 місяців тому

      Of course! Jesus died and rose again for that hope. Just look at Paul who used to murder Christians then had a complete change once he believed and now look at the legacy that decision to trust in the Lord has left! Most of the new testament, churches established, lives, cities and generations changed. Don't disqualify yourself from recieving a gift given in the full knowledge of what your life would be from start to finish. Trust Jesus.

  • @jessegonsalves5412
    @jessegonsalves5412 Рік тому +1

    Question: Dr. West or whoever can answer my question. What does rightly ordered sexual embrace between a married couple look like?? I sincerely dont know. How does it vary from lust/mutual use for pleasure? Please help. A vid on this would be great. Thank you.

  • @chandelritchie929
    @chandelritchie929 Рік тому

    How can i get this video in spanish?

  • @caribaez5711
    @caribaez5711 Рік тому +1

    Someone told me that you have to have lust to be attracted to the one you love.

    • @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8
      @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8 Рік тому +1

      I wouldn't call it lust, but you definitely have to have desire
      I think less is somewhat the same thing but lust is more about desiring something you can't have.

    • @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8
      @elijahmalachi45-6dieker8 Рік тому

      Anyone saying that same-sex marriage is a sin when it is not is now blacked out from the holy Spirit and part of the Great Tribulation that started September 1st. Matthew 19:12 says God prefers the same sex relationships. Anyone collecting money for ministering in any ways also blacked out from the holy Spirit part of the Great Tribulation and will be mentally tormented until they either repent or wait too late and die with the wicked. The answer to end of covid is Malachi 3:8 and Malachi 2 proves it's telling the thieving church leaders to return the money and God will end covid.

    • @jesseholthaus8357
      @jesseholthaus8357 Рік тому +7

      Lust is wanting to use someone for my own gratification. Love is the gift of myself to another. Lust is taking. Love is giving.

    • @sitka49
      @sitka49 Рік тому

      @@jesseholthaus8357 Frame it any way you want , but when it's all boiled down your looking for sexual gratification even in a marriage (for self) - If your being totally honest.
      If a the husband doesn't climax the act isn't complete! The wife’s completion of sexual satisfaction (orgasm) is not necessary, but if it happens it good, but for the most part that's all that's said about it - kind of after thought. And 70% of women can't orgasm from intercourse alone, and the orgasm gap in Christian marriages, men will orgasm about 98% - 99% of the time, and women in those same marriages about 49% of time ,and secular women in marriage will orgasm 70% - 75% ( why you ask? Because I think there ( secular) husbands are more open about what it takes to give the wives an orgasm - Some Christian men are of the mindset why fix something if it isn't broke?) of the time the secular men the same as Christian men.
      That's why they say, a quickie is having sex when your wife doesn't want to.

  • @ArthurMPena
    @ArthurMPena 11 місяців тому

    "love is love"....I don't think people mean by that "lust is lust", as you claim. I think they mean that genuine self-sacrificing love can exist between people of the same sex (and can be experienced in the same sex sexual act as well), and that love between people of the same sex can be the same quality love as between a man and a woman. Is that entirely true? I don't know. I think it is. But, even if it weren't entirely true, it is at least somewhat true (there can be a great deal of love, sexual love, including sefl-sacrificing love, between people of the same sex, that cannot be reduced to mere egoistic pleasure). And therefore, your argument loses a lot of its potential strength, I think.