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КОМЕНТАРІ • 267

  • @flyingpillarsinternational9776
    @flyingpillarsinternational9776 4 роки тому +137

    I will never take my wife for granted ..this story is an eye opener to me

    • @judynjerimwaura943
      @judynjerimwaura943 4 роки тому +11

      May the Lord bless your union and always find ways to cope together

    • @user-pi6bc1zw5p
      @user-pi6bc1zw5p 4 роки тому +3

      God bless you for that..

  • @margaretmaina9430
    @margaretmaina9430 4 роки тому +68

    This reminds me my dad since my mum died my dad he brought up 9 children's all alone we love you dad you are a strong man I have ever seen

  • @highlights6176
    @highlights6176 4 роки тому +52

    This reminds me of my father, he raised and educated me. If you have your Mother, you are blessed. Take the chance to love her.

  • @wanjerimumbi8709
    @wanjerimumbi8709 4 роки тому +38

    These men are the strongest men I know, right now. They've put themselves out there and showed us who they are. God grant them love and peace.

  • @anne_mwangi_
    @anne_mwangi_ 4 роки тому +28

    I've learnt to be the best wife if i can while i can when i can.. 😐🙁

  • @paulngangah
    @paulngangah 4 роки тому +17

    This story is really touching.I will do better and appreciate my wife more.I know better,i must do better!!!

  • @bryanjoseph970
    @bryanjoseph970 4 роки тому +51

    Everyone taking their spouses for granted should know that people are missing such opportunities.
    I remember my high school principal telling us the importance of a river is only realised when it dries up.Brethren cherish your spouses when the river is still flowing.
    Be blessed 🙏

  • @selpherpauline6424
    @selpherpauline6424 4 роки тому +18

    😭😭😭💔💔💔💔💔 i know and seen how much pain my dad went through after we lost our mum😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭God please 😢 I want to love and see my dad till the last day of life after Forever. I love my father so much and anything else will come after him . I celebrate all widow father they are the strongest people on this planet 🤞💯.

  • @MrKurenjiJNR
    @MrKurenjiJNR 4 роки тому +29

    Happy father's Day to these legends, they deserve better.

  • @janewambui6608
    @janewambui6608 4 роки тому +17

    This is true.After loosing my husband 8yrs ago,the thought of remarrying is just not possible. Issue of comparison, is very real.

  • @theresemaina1020
    @theresemaina1020 4 роки тому +7

    I really respect these men for not remarrying. Despite the pain despite the struggles of trying to be both the father and the mother. It's not easy for sure.

  • @winniewa37
    @winniewa37 4 роки тому +11

    Widowers.. Most times they are overlooked, may the Lord help us to be intentional about standing with them 🙏

  • @JC-el5ic
    @JC-el5ic 4 роки тому +6

    It's so heart breaking to hear Roger Ogolla's story (my primary school art teacher). I did not know that he had lost his wife and his story on single parenthood. Pole sana mwalimu.

  • @judyjepchumba1638
    @judyjepchumba1638 4 роки тому +30

    Also one dad to cellebrate, Tedd Josiah he is a strong man too who needs to hit this screens some day his story is great .

    • @faithkarimi5685
      @faithkarimi5685 4 роки тому +2

      He'll be on the screen today with Grace Msalame

    • @judyjepchumba1638
      @judyjepchumba1638 4 роки тому

      @@@faithkarimi5685 oooh wow thank youu i will make sure to cath that

  • @virginiamuya56
    @virginiamuya56 4 роки тому +13

    My great teacher Rodgers Ogolla he has raised great kids .

  • @claremayaka8474
    @claremayaka8474 4 роки тому +16

    Never take your spouses for granted no matter what

  • @angiewamuchomba8106
    @angiewamuchomba8106 4 роки тому +9

    Loosing a loved one is not easy,Only God Suppresses Death,You are strong God bless u...

  • @misss7758
    @misss7758 4 роки тому +4

    Life is painful for singles even more. They never had the comfort of the spouse. Some will never have kids. But the pain of widows and widowers is more socially accepted.

  • @odongonicholas1569
    @odongonicholas1569 4 роки тому +14

    May God bless and protect these legends. They've offered what fatherhood is.

  • @agneskatuvee5523
    @agneskatuvee5523 4 роки тому +10

    This made me cry, God bless you wonderful Dads for stepping in

  • @zoesoteria5327
    @zoesoteria5327 4 роки тому +12

    I salute every wife and the men who step up for the family.

  • @macynyawira6452
    @macynyawira6452 4 роки тому +5

    Losing a mum/wife is really tough.I never thought I would ever be deppressed in my life.

  • @olgarkitur7710
    @olgarkitur7710 2 роки тому +1

    Being a widow and a widower is not easy. God will protect and provide for us all. Never judge single people know the story behind their singleness. Touching stories 😢

  • @dorcaskirigo118
    @dorcaskirigo118 4 роки тому +2

    This is so refreshing that our men are getting in touch with their feelings even though it is through such a painful experience.

  • @lynda78
    @lynda78 4 роки тому +5

    It is great that they came up with a group to console each other. Praying for them and their families.

  • @shirumama6489
    @shirumama6489 4 роки тому +11

    May God continue comforting you, and everyone else who has lost their better half🙏

  • @joyobessa1364
    @joyobessa1364 4 роки тому +2

    A very beautiful and inspiring compilation! They are all super dads! May they continue to find peace! 🙏

  • @maryndaba4651
    @maryndaba4651 4 роки тому +10

    We lost our Dad in 2018. We really miss him and it has been really tough at times.But I know for sure, had it been the other way round, that my Mum passed before my Dad, I know my Dad would not survive a year. My Mum was my Dad's rock and she made sure that Dad had everything together. Made sure that Dad took his medicine everyday. They were so good together. So good. It would however, have been worse had it been the other way round. From what I have seen, men find it hard to cope after the loss of their wives.

  • @hobbygirlsworld1817
    @hobbygirlsworld1817 4 роки тому +5

    Happy Father’s Day...May God continue giving you strength she was beautiful

  • @connie7192
    @connie7192 4 роки тому +4

    I'm so proud of this men. May God continue giving you strength.

  • @simonkimani7062
    @simonkimani7062 4 роки тому +2

    What an emotional story. Those fathers are the best. Lesson learned. I will never take my wife for granted. I will endeavor to be there for her forever

  • @estherwanjiru2154
    @estherwanjiru2154 4 роки тому +7

    Rose wangui.. thank you for giving us stories that is giving hope to society and educating us to

  • @angelabuzz2691
    @angelabuzz2691 4 роки тому +23

    There's importance in doing things together with your spouse.. like shopping..cooking..making bed discpline kids so when they are not there you have a clue..

  • @lillymumbi.3969
    @lillymumbi.3969 4 роки тому +3

    😭It broke my soul when this man said "if someone should leave, let it be the man" it's true men do suffer when they're windowed but most people don't really understand them.

    • @kihato80
      @kihato80 3 роки тому

      I shared the same sentiments when my wife passed on. You feel so inadequate and realize that void all too well, in my times of grief and pain I prayed so many times for positions to be switched seeing my 1 year old crying and feeling so inadequate. Now we are 6 years old 😊

  • @edwinoketch3364
    @edwinoketch3364 4 роки тому

    Mike you are a strong pillar to your family. These are inspiration stories to overcome grief. Happy Father’s Day to all.

  • @pamelarombo7940
    @pamelarombo7940 4 роки тому

    This stories are really sad but encouraging too , this men are real men,they really had the love to their wives, l just love this ,God is watching over you,because you have children to take care of,,where there is children there is God always,,l have always raised my children alone,but the presence of God in the family has made me reach this far,,God is great l can tell you this without fear. Amen

  • @mercyowino2981
    @mercyowino2981 4 роки тому +2

    You don't know strength until it's the only option,,Kudos to this heros.Death is cruel!!

  • @terrywarui482
    @terrywarui482 4 роки тому +1

    Such an emotional piece. Thank you for sharing your stories. Let's appreciate our spouses when they are still alive

  • @smileboxbettie3736
    @smileboxbettie3736 4 роки тому +5

    This has really made me cry.... Too emotional. May God see them through, Numbers 6:24-25.

  • @shamixevents5102
    @shamixevents5102 4 роки тому +2

    Listening to this just moved me since i recently lost my mom😥😥😥

  • @hopeinallah5112
    @hopeinallah5112 4 роки тому +1

    Da vulnerability you have let us in is admirable . I never experienced a father's love so let me wish u happy fathers day dear ones

  • @patriciaanyembe9441
    @patriciaanyembe9441 4 роки тому +1

    Waaaa...may God continue giving you the peace of mind and strength you need! This was emotionally draining for me.

  • @Bahatiedit
    @Bahatiedit 4 роки тому +3

    Lord I pray for Divine health and long life with my family, hubby me and our kids long life is our portion in Jesus name

  • @faithgatwiry
    @faithgatwiry 4 роки тому +2

    Oh my, may God bless those kids that were left with their mothers.

  • @noellasakwa4107
    @noellasakwa4107 4 роки тому +2

    I thank God for my mom everyday.

  • @margaretmuiru005
    @margaretmuiru005 4 роки тому +2

    Men with Golden hearts...the grave yards tell it all...R.I.P Queens

  • @kezndiangui7
    @kezndiangui7 2 роки тому

    Having a dad as my mum and dad as well since I was 9 ,I have developed a higher respect for men out there....three children all alone with very little just love for us.... that's what makes me love my favorite dad ....he did his best and still doing the same till today....he tried to fill every inch he could.....love all dad's and much respect

  • @florriewairimu3408
    @florriewairimu3408 4 роки тому +1

    Happy fathers day to this man and dear dad ..i wish i had a dad 😢

  • @VJMASTERMIND
    @VJMASTERMIND 4 роки тому +11

    May God give you all the strength you need.

  • @henixobuchunju6454
    @henixobuchunju6454 4 роки тому +3

    Kudos Rose Wangui, such a nice piece

  • @violetjustine9566
    @violetjustine9566 4 роки тому

    A very great peace! Cheers to such legends outside here!

  • @rukungahjohn4631
    @rukungahjohn4631 4 роки тому +1

    Sure you can't replace, NTV thanks for the share. When you go Meru My Dad's success story is there. He raised up the 8 of including the 2yrs old. God's sufficient.

  • @Joyful-gu5bj
    @Joyful-gu5bj 4 роки тому

    Belated happy Father's Day to this amazing Fathers. May the Holy Spirit continue to strengthen you all. Congratulations to taking care of your children. God bless you all.

  • @thedaringunravel
    @thedaringunravel 4 роки тому +3

    This is deep, I felt sorry for the losses these men suffered, I don't have a clue of what they go through but I shed a tear.

  • @karenmuthoka1574
    @karenmuthoka1574 4 роки тому

    V touching.God bless you dads.May he continue upholding you as you take care of your children.

  • @lilianlee9775
    @lilianlee9775 4 роки тому +5

    Great Ecncouragement..Death is so cruel.💔

  • @annmaxwell1249
    @annmaxwell1249 4 роки тому +1

    this remind me of my dad passed on in 1996. 25 yrs down the line my mom have been single. with 3girls babies we are grown n we left to abroad now mum is all by herself i feel like she need someone i wish she can get married again and have a company.she is 56 yrs . i will make sure she joins that group.

  • @miriammwangi1520
    @miriammwangi1520 4 роки тому

    Am mesmerized by how much you loved your. wife I have always believed that men dont liove take heart brother and get another companion.

  • @glorykk1364
    @glorykk1364 4 роки тому

    Wow! Very encouraging. May God bless you all for even when u were about to fail you can tell God still held you. May he give u happiness not just for your Kids to see but for your own personal joy. Be blessed

  • @patricrenison4362
    @patricrenison4362 4 роки тому +1

    I never had the opportunity to grow with my dad but I believe dad's are great people. To those men who are growing up kids alone I want to congratulate you and wish you God's guidance. You truly great men.

  • @DocHub254
    @DocHub254 4 роки тому +13

    Am moved by their stories. Things we take for granted. Waah!!!

  • @perismugo138
    @perismugo138 4 роки тому

    The dads are so strong,may God continue give strength

  • @mvilika
    @mvilika 4 роки тому +3

    Maybe the curriculum should be rechecked, content that children learn...it should be parents cook or do this and that and avoid gender role-ing'! Our curriculum should aim at bringing and educating our children to think broadly, well rounded.
    I am so touched by these stories. I feel their pains and also their bounce backs. Thank you for hosting this.

  • @franciskimani8110
    @franciskimani8110 4 роки тому

    Thank you.. This is wonderful.

  • @samuelmjomba4043
    @samuelmjomba4043 4 роки тому +1

    Nothing is hard like loosing your partner. Just like a hand loosing one finger. Hard to cope. Take heart my brothers n sisters.

  • @metrinekaxoha8997
    @metrinekaxoha8997 4 роки тому +1

    Great piece NTV, May God grant all widowers strength, resilience and wisdom.

  • @dorcusnjeri4251
    @dorcusnjeri4251 4 роки тому +2

    Jeeez chess you are always strong it's hard to tell that you've gone through all this...and to all fathers who played the role of a dad and a mum at the same time we always celebrate you

  • @janies3581
    @janies3581 Рік тому

    I'm so proud of this gentleman

  • @gorogoro9693
    @gorogoro9693 4 роки тому +1

    This made me cry coz it's 10yrs now since my husband passed away and i was left with my daughter when she was 3yrs.... But i can say am not only me we have single caring dads out there bravo

  • @valerieokoiti9010
    @valerieokoiti9010 4 роки тому +2

    May God continue giving you all strength to endure 🙏🏽

  • @christinemwikali461
    @christinemwikali461 4 роки тому

    Am so sudden to hear about the death of my friend Mrs Keboi she was the best with such a beautiful soul and smile. Be encouraged the Lord is our comfort 🙏

  • @giannazanelle8751
    @giannazanelle8751 4 роки тому +1

    These dad's are very strong and a very good example to the society. May God bless them.

  • @kananu578
    @kananu578 4 роки тому

    I salute those men may the good Lord keep them save to take care of their kids

  • @hassanpixels5938
    @hassanpixels5938 4 роки тому

    His strength to share the story. A very good story teller!

  • @ritaopiyo7163
    @ritaopiyo7163 4 роки тому +1

    I feel for these men. you will only realize the importance of someone once she is gone. people should treat each other with love and respect.

  • @leonongiri
    @leonongiri 4 роки тому +1

    Happy father's day legend

  • @nancynjoki9002
    @nancynjoki9002 4 роки тому

    Sorry for the loss may our good Lord continue to help you accept those things you can't change.

  • @mpendamuziki
    @mpendamuziki 3 роки тому +1

    Never take your spouse for granted. Losing a spouse is like losing half yourself. The pain in all these men is evident. Hope they take courage to soldier on.

  • @keeleymorgan8678
    @keeleymorgan8678 4 роки тому

    Almighty God bless you father's,and continue to strengthen you, and jehovah God, give single mothers long life, their kids needs them lord.

  • @mercylinenzaro1104
    @mercylinenzaro1104 2 роки тому

    It's painful I am a widow I know the cry when everyone is asleep. Above all you are strong men

  • @pamelamonyangi7125
    @pamelamonyangi7125 4 роки тому +2

    Losing a loved one and a partner is a painful experience that time will heal. i dint know that even men go through such. Take heart and one thing for sure i can tell you, having been in these for the last 14 years, is that God is faithful, He will see you through. Spend time with Him and He will show you the way. Sorry for the lose

  • @jenwythe
    @jenwythe 4 роки тому

    Wonderful people may God bless them

  • @achiengnyasuba
    @achiengnyasuba 4 роки тому

    It's never the same. And when you try to move on after and that next person hurts you. You close doors, never to be reopened. May God grant ppl in this situation peace that can only come from him.

    • @culateemma349
      @culateemma349 4 роки тому +1

      It really hurts when you try to move on then you find it's the wrong decision you ever made.

  • @faithligaka7619
    @faithligaka7619 4 роки тому

    May their souls RIP. Condolences to you dads with your families, may God comfort you

  • @steveomondi2839
    @steveomondi2839 4 роки тому +1

    The story is great. let me complement on the cutaways and how you've used them to add to the story. brilliantly done!

    • @simonkimani7062
      @simonkimani7062 4 роки тому +1

      She told the story in the best way possible.The editing was super fine

  • @faboge
    @faboge 4 роки тому

    God bless these very fine men and the children.

  • @janeckaburu2762
    @janeckaburu2762 4 роки тому +1

    Wow. Kudos to these great dad.

  • @keruboebby4526
    @keruboebby4526 4 роки тому

    May the Lord almighty give them more strength peace and comfort.

  • @trishmativo6051
    @trishmativo6051 4 роки тому

    They are really strong. May God keep giving them strength

  • @sharikharib
    @sharikharib 4 роки тому +1

    Godspeed sir...Godspeed

  • @danielogana3972
    @danielogana3972 3 місяці тому

    You are all blessed for the job well done. Keep it up!

  • @SylviahandRichard
    @SylviahandRichard 4 роки тому

    God bless you all,,u deserve the best,you are strong legends

  • @MollisMulier
    @MollisMulier 4 роки тому

    Brave men. Poleni. I wish you all well. It must be tough...very tough.

  • @georginathiongo9719
    @georginathiongo9719 4 роки тому

    May the departed souls rest in eternity. ....May the good Lord give you peace and strength to move on..

  • @dennismuvaa6029
    @dennismuvaa6029 3 роки тому +1

    So sad for these men. May they find peace and comfort

  • @mariamsay5121
    @mariamsay5121 4 роки тому

    May God give you New strength to overcome all this God is Almighty

  • @lucykaranja3287
    @lucykaranja3287 4 роки тому +5

    I know this first family. Fantastic people

  • @vokstheboss
    @vokstheboss 4 роки тому +1

    I shed some tears after hearing stories from these men, where did death come from?

  • @Suesinging
    @Suesinging 4 роки тому +1

    Woie mpaka tuchapo wanapikanga....may God give strength...

  • @njokiwaititu3964
    @njokiwaititu3964 4 роки тому

    This is my former Boss...and my mentor @chess this is so sweet...