The real red pill is the neoreactionary power analysis and the realization that our society is being steered into the ground by an adaptive fantasy in the form of a sovereign memeplex that selects for power rather than truth and that this terminal state of affairs can only be rectified by reembodying sovereignty in the form of a monarch. Curtis Yarvin grabbed the term first, the manosphere coopted it.
Exactly this. Old red pill content helped me a ton. I have better interactions with ladies than I ever did. It taught me how to actually play the game instead of all the useless advice you hear most of your life. It also extended into other things besides dating. This new age is all about gaming the algorithm for money, and it is not helpful in the slightest.
It wouldn't have mattered. Red Pill was probably being attacked as misogyny before. The grifters just gave them something to point at. The misandry feminists will turn anything into abusing women. Heck, they can't stop shaming MGTOW, but 4B is everything they complain MGTOW is.
Bro doesn't even know what the red pill is. It's not about hating wymin it's about understanding reality of what they want and how to do what's best for you
@@m3redgtHe will be the bitter type though, since he will have enough experience of women that the double standards and outright lies they tell him to his face will bother him. Then when he mentions his issues, he will be told he is a misogynist and eventually, this will wear him down until he truly does feel that way.
Harsh but 100% true, what I have learned in my life is that looks alone overshadows everything else put together. You can do pretty much anything and you will still get a pass if you are good looking enough. After looks comes money, the rest is just so insignificant that it does not matter really.
Race doesn't matter as much as a lot of people think, but height absolutely does. It's like weight for women. People notice looks first and physical attraction before anything else. Yes, it's unfair that a guy can't control their height and women can control their weight, but it's just how it is.
@@Illumirage Lol Isn't it a meme about how much black men love white women and vice versa? I've also heard of Asian women being particularly fond of white men. Sure, it's not weird for races to stick together, but as IWLGaming said, it's far less important than height. Idk where you got that idea from but put it back.
Every. Single. One. Of my short guy friends who have girlfriends/wives have no-nonsense attitudes with the behaviour of their women. Even the tall guys who are attached long-term have the same attitude. Don't be an asshole, but have the capability to be an asshole and she'll respect you for it. That's it.
Amen. Also, show your gf/wife that you are not a beta by not being kind to everyone at random. show her she is Special by showing her that she is an exception. you do not need to be aggressive, being rude is quite enough in most cases.
@@shadowgirl11 what's so yikes about my statement? They're all great guys. Just because I said they don't tolerate any type of drama fishing most women unintentionally do, it doesn't mean they're shitty to them. In fact, it's the opposite. When I bring my wife down from her BS, she always says stuff like, "Thanks for evening me out when I get out of hand". Healthy women appreciate a guy who doesn't join their emotionally driven downward spirals. We always see the tailspin and right the plane before the crash happens. Anyone who doesn't leads it to the end of the relationship.
@@AM-ko4pi you should know that is exactly why she sperged out and commented lol. Some of these women are just obsessed with bad boys and will just get angry and reentful if you simply refuse to play their shit test game 😂.
When girls will hit the wall after giving all their best years to random badboys, they will ruin the lives of men such as him. I hope he get over the need of a companion so no one will be able to ruin his life later.
they say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. stop being polite and be a funny a-hole. They love it.
The problem is already in the title. He "doesn't want to be redpilled" as if it means to Hate women or something. Anon forgot that he needs to be a Man, assertive, strong, opinionated.
😅 yes, he also needs to work out harder, get a broccoli haircut, be more dominant, "just be", earn more cash, be a good wagie......... and all will be fine and he gets a 10/10 babe and live happily ever after. (dude btw, did you ever watch the movie Magnolia with Tom Cruise? watch it)
Bro doesn't understand that it only gets worse when you meet the physical requirements. Having to play the long game because you aren't a magnet atleast lets you eventually find someone who's genuine about liking you. Constantly having women attracted to you for the wrong reasons is more blackpilling than any amount of loneliness.
I honestly don’t care about a man’s height. I am 5’9 and only rejected people if I didn’t feel like we had a connection. At 22, I met my now husband; he is 5’2 and stocky. He tried online dating for 6 years, and would get one match every 3 months or so. When we first matched, he actual almost unmatched me because he thought I was a bot. Luckily he didn’t and now we are happily married. For some women, height doesn’t matter.
Sadly, the "Some Women" to Short man ratio is not too favorable. Especially if those same "some women" have the option to not date a short man 🤷🏿 but height can be overcome. It's just a rare personality that can do that
The halo effect is real. If you look like an Adonis, people will treat you like one. And that doesn’t mean attractive. A stripper can be attractive. I mean embodying every characteristic of natural beauty within a human, with none of the trashiness.
Though, ironically, many women that have done things to see from a guy's perspective end up partly hating women because they're seeing just how shitty women can be and think it's okay.
@Silver_The_Dreadful Not always them taking it to extremes. It's also the haters twisting it. Like feminists that claim "equal rights, equal fights" is about men wanting to abuse women when only feminists use it that way. And then they ignore any rebuttal about women hitting men with impunity.
Don't make yourself a victim. Don't put all your effort into catering to women's needs. Do what is good for yourself, and have confidence in that. There is nothing you are "supposed" to do in life. There is only what you want to do. Some people may give you advice, an idea, to help you find your way. But you have to walk it yourself.
Literally the best advice. Just be yourself, and like-minded people will gravitate towards you. That includes women. Too many people stress over what they're supposed to do/be/act like. That's why I hate "dating/masculinity/feminity coaches". They're telling you how to live your life in a box, a cookie cutter shape. But be yourself, take advice that's good for anyone to follow and just grow and thrive within yourself.
I'm short and brown and can kinda understand his viewpoint. I've just reached a stage where I've accepted I won't be seen as anything more than a friend. Acceptance of that will help you move on and help you focus on things that matter. I now just give the same amount of energy back to people. And what happened is that only some of my male friends have reached out to me. Its been a year since I've talked to any of my friends who are girls and I'm fine with that. Point of my comment is save your energy for people who deserve it. You'll be happier.
Nah imma just put a scale at the entrance of my house, if your over a certain amount then you better have brought your own food and or money to feed yourself, cause they are not gonna drain my fridge and my account
Doesn't sound like he was trying hard at all. Doesn't sound like he was desperate when he approached them either. If I had to guess, I'd say he's just too nice. I had that problem for years.
I say he's almost there but his issue is he's stopped improving himself. He thinks he's done everything he needs to start but doesn't realize he still needs to look at himself to see what HE'S doing wrong. He's too focused on other people. Uglier, shorter and poorer people than you get partners all the time so it's not a "I'm too short" thing. Are you seeming desperate? Are you giving creeper vibes you are not aware of? Do you seem too soft? Keep trying but try new things and methods. No attempt to get a girl is a fail of you learn from your mistakes each time
There is only so much someone can do before the max out. In addition, why put in all that work only to then get low quality in return it just isn't worth the effort in current year. Either leave the country or get a doll.
OP, at the end of the day, Love is just a type of ab.use that we all crave. The only reason it's been held up as it has been is because it helped Western people to move away from arranged marriages and marriages of convenience, if it ain't you then it ain't you. Join a boxing/MMA gym, a gun club, hell even join up with sword nerds and get into that Medieval Swordsman Martial Arts thing that Skallagrim does. I went down this path and it helped me to learn what's truly important.
In most cases it is the guys own fault. he did not talk about it so i assume he is living in a major city, most likely a blue one. or may god have mercy on him... cali. that is like complaining about getting no meat in a vegan restaurant.
Do you think he’d do better in a rural conservative area with hardly anyone around to date in the first place? And as a short brown man in America that’s the last place I would go in his his situation for a relationship.
@@crowbarviking3890 nope I grew up in a city and live in the country now as an adult I can tell you for a fact from personal experience there is virtually nobody here that is 20/30 something. Overwhelmingly middle aged parents and their kids or old people.
People think that being a tall white guy who makes good money is some kind of cheat code to having women fawn over you regardless of who you are but it is NOT. Im am literally 6’3” white guy who makes a hair under 100k a year. I promise that those things do not make you romantically successful on their own. Maybe they help, sure, but people seem to think its like an “attractiveness switch” and its frustrating to hear those sentiments because every time i hear it, its low key insulting me, implying that im playing on ultra-easy-mode and still losing.
Be yourself. Because based on how he speaks, he is trying to give an image just so he can get a relationship, but who knows how his real version will be once he gets one.
Am I crazy? Height matters for sure but I dont think Ive heard too many people complain about race with dating? Theres some obvious stereotypes and preferences but as a 6’2 white guy myself Ive seen plenty of girls go for shorter brown guys. In highschool a lot of girls straight up said they preferred Hispanic guys when asked. I think he needs to talk to tall girls. A lot of guys dont like tall girls so they often go for shorter guys anyhow. Its definitely an interesting dynamic
Wanting to love someone and be loved in return is special and can't be forced. Taking care of urself is a good start but, maybe try taking care of someone else. It could be voluntary work for the elderly or for rescue pet animals. Lovely people tend to be around caring activities and they also are more likely to be attracted to others who are loving and caring for something. No need to despair, show appreciation for life and life will give small rewards back I guess xD
Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore. I'm 187cm, white, decent looking guy, with a moderate gym physique. Still get zero attention from women. As much as I agree with resenting the redpill mindset, I feel like there is one single piece of advice these guys are right about. Go find someone overseas, eastern europe/asia. The women there seem so much more friendly, respectful, and feminine.
As someone who was born and raised in Romania, I can safely say at this point that it's all too late. The western influence reached us as well and it's poisoning the mindsets over here as well and it's becoming worse by the year. I've given up on dating fully for almost a full year at this point and it allowed me to gain some more perspective. Neither side are any better in their own right. Humans just became more sh!t in general and not just in dating exclusively. A lot of folks never heard the phrase "two wrongs don't make one right" before and it shows ... HEAVILY ...
6,2" white guys here, can confirm race and height matter. Most girls won't give me the time of day because of my race, and the ones that do it's because I am tall.
Notice how he doesn't mention his personality at all. Job/salary/education. That's it. Is he funny? Charming? Is he fun to be around? Is he pleasant to be around? To put it plainly and logically, some people are just born "unfortunate" looking, to society's standards. As unfortunate as that is... No matter how much they look max, and try to look better. They'll always have the same face, height, race, hair color/type, eye color, teeth orientation, face shape, etc. They're going to have a much harder time than most others. He's told that height and race don't matter. But they do. Just like any other physical traits. Because people are allowed to have preferences. Imagine the slightly overweight, red headed woman would also be having this same struggle, but hes acting like this is just a problem only men experience from women. Where that couldn't be farther from the truth. How many times are "plain" looking women passed up by everyone, especially the attractive guys? The lanky, no booty/no chesty/no curvey women? And how often do you hear those women label this as this being a "men are this or that!" issue? Harley ever. They just accept it for what it is. They're usually the quiet/shy/awkward/reserved women that are always passed up for the promiscuous, more forward acting, easily available women. But I almost never hear these kind of complaints from these women.
Stop trying, anon. Give in to the urges, treat them like lesser beings and stop being respectful to anyone. Give the world what it deserves, it's all rigged anyway
I am overcome with that putrid odor of desperation just from reading the words. Women know when you're desperate. They really know when you're desperately trying not to look desperate. Nothing dries them up faster. Doesn't matter if you're tall and white or short and dark. Desperation is unattractive. My eventual wife fell for me by listening to me talk not to her but to other men. I was genuine, funny, smart and I made it my goal to hear her adorable laugh every day. That's still my goal 10 years and 4 kids later. Take the focus off your appearance and take it off them entirely. Put it on whatever arouses your passion. A quality woman wants someone real
the difference is guys who “dont try” cus theyre genuinely chill and happy by themselves, compared to guys like this who try to “not care” just in hopes of secretly getting a girl lmao
Anon is gray manning by accident by being too nice and boring. All those self improvement things are great and certainly make you a cut above but learning how to communicate your value to a woman is just as much as a skill you need to work on as is all the other stuff.
It will never matter if all the things he says here are what he leads with. Women want someone worth wanting- and that has nothing to with being explicitly respectful to women. Women don't want desperate losers... and if you're honest with yourself, men don't want them either.
@@loganblackwood2922that applies mostly to liberal women though. many men are f-ing themselves by chosing to live in liberal cities while wanting a conservative relationship. at that point it is their own fault.. like a meat lover insisting on eating in a vegan restaurant and then complaining about the lack of meat.
@@sirbacon1617it’s funny cause that’s like .00001 percent of PEOPLE not just men on this planet are like that, they are SCREWED if they don’t lower their standards
Hey dude i hate to break it to you,your only option is to find a shorter chick,otherwise yeah,youre done for. Ive been in your shoes,still am,im 5'6. I know how it is. Most women i meet are as tall as me or taller. It sucks but thats just how it is.
Hight definitely doesn’t matter 6’2” and I’ve been searching for someone for almost 12 years now so no… hight doesn’t matter. If someone is going through what I have and this guy has with being lonely just tell yourself “let go, the universe is going to do whatever the universe wants so if it was meant to be it will be so”. There is no use in getting sad, mad, depressed, or even anxious about a future nobody can even possibly begin to predict. So with that in mind just “let it go” and plus if the woman around you don’t love you in that way do you even want to be with them, you want someone who will love you not only for you but also your flaws also stop romanticizing relationships, IRL love is nothing like the movies and entertainment put into the ethos
Well you set yourself up for failure, by focusing so much on putting your happiness in someone else's hands. Complaining about not getting a girlfriend, is about as boring as complaining about not getting chocolate flakes on your icecream.
I'm 6'4" and lemme tell ya, that shit doesn't matter my guy. It's a thing people do because they think they know what they want but there's so much filtering nowadays that people miss opportunities to just live life and have experiences even if they don't work out. This goes both ways, tons of guys have rediculous filters too.
@Bluman99 seems to be chastising white women for wanting white kids. Placing subtle blame on them for not wanting to mix. Blaming white men for his failures
As a 6'6" white dude as this guy describes, height does NOT matter as much as lots of guys think. I get constantly rejected just as often as anon here. The trick is to either marry a good church girl young, or use money to brute force your way into being a "high status man". In either case, you have to be confident and charismatic.
Yeah, becoming good at being single does not make one good in a relationship. To be honest i think the issue is also what he is not talking about. The location. I am 5'8 and chubby and was unemployed and got a girlfriend / now wife. was never single for more than a few months in total since i turned 18
@MrOnepiece14 getting a partner that is only with you when you are as attractive as you can be... And then wondering why they leave you when you lose your looks due to an accident or lose your job.... That is like a rich guy believing no woman wants him only for his money.
I never considered myself any kind od Chad Thundercock. But i'm not, not one. Pillaged .y family for good genes, go to the gym 5 times a week (though i go slob mode during winters ngl). I've had girls approach first. Had lady friends catfight over me... you get the drift. But also, I've been in 2 years long dry seasons, got rejected times beyond counting, got cheated on twice, even though i never did. I feel like Anon is counting hits and not seeing the misses other guys suffer. That fail sht happens to everyone.
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Black pill: Don't skip gene day
I skipped gene day.
I'll never skip leg day again.
Anon actually confused the red pill for the black pill.
Not really.
@@bobfg3130 Indeed, he did.
@@bobfg3130really
@@bobfg3130 Really really.
That's how you know they're a Fed.
some people have no idea what "red pilled" actually means. I blame the manosphere grifters for hijacking the term
The real red pill is the neoreactionary power analysis and the realization that our society is being steered into the ground by an adaptive fantasy in the form of a sovereign memeplex that selects for power rather than truth and that this terminal state of affairs can only be rectified by reembodying sovereignty in the form of a monarch. Curtis Yarvin grabbed the term first, the manosphere coopted it.
Exactly this. Old red pill content helped me a ton. I have better interactions with ladies than I ever did. It taught me how to actually play the game instead of all the useless advice you hear most of your life. It also extended into other things besides dating. This new age is all about gaming the algorithm for money, and it is not helpful in the slightest.
It wouldn't have mattered. Red Pill was probably being attacked as misogyny before. The grifters just gave them something to point at. The misandry feminists will turn anything into abusing women. Heck, they can't stop shaming MGTOW, but 4B is everything they complain MGTOW is.
Give us your definition of _"red pilled"_ then.
Since you are the one who knows what it means.
Bro doesn't even know what the red pill is. It's not about hating wymin it's about understanding reality of what they want and how to do what's best for you
he's already redpilled himself without realizing
@@m3redgtHe will be the bitter type though, since he will have enough experience of women that the double standards and outright lies they tell him to his face will bother him. Then when he mentions his issues, he will be told he is a misogynist and eventually, this will wear him down until he truly does feel that way.
@@m3redgt hes a cuck beta bitch scared of red pill lol
@@m3redgt Sounds like life did that for him more than anything.
Red pill is about hating women. Having such mindset does not help interacting with women in positive manner
"JuSt Be CoNfIdEnT bRo"
she sensed Chad's inner light and lack of desperation even though Anon said they both approached her the exact same way LMFAO
@@voicelessglottalfricative6567 totally wasn't the difference in face, no way at all
Bro's confused the red pill with the black pill.
2:50 Grab a passport and go travelling. Results may vary but will DEFINITELY eclipse the amewreka experience.
^this is exactly the case I've found. No woman appreciated me til I met my fiance from central america
I saw a dude that did that (not saying this will always happen) and she started poisoning him with bleach to keep citizenship and life insurance
Life is a beauty contest.
Choose the right parents.
Harsh but 100% true, what I have learned in my life is that looks alone overshadows everything else put together. You can do pretty much anything and you will still get a pass if you are good looking enough.
After looks comes money, the rest is just so insignificant that it does not matter really.
@@GenericUserName443 I feel like this hits the nail on the head, although personality can get you pretty far and can compensate for lack of funds.
Race doesn't matter as much as a lot of people think, but height absolutely does. It's like weight for women. People notice looks first and physical attraction before anything else. Yes, it's unfair that a guy can't control their height and women can control their weight, but it's just how it is.
Race matters too. People want kids that look like them
@@Illumirage Lol
Isn't it a meme about how much black men love white women and vice versa? I've also heard of Asian women being particularly fond of white men. Sure, it's not weird for races to stick together, but as IWLGaming said, it's far less important than height. Idk where you got that idea from but put it back.
@@IllumirageI’ve never heard that ever, and I’m I Canadian, THE melting pot of earth, that has never been stated before, don’t state it again
Im 6’2” and giving up haha height doesn’t equal a meaningful relationship
Over 90% don't date outside of their race.
Every. Single. One. Of my short guy friends who have girlfriends/wives have no-nonsense attitudes with the behaviour of their women. Even the tall guys who are attached long-term have the same attitude.
Don't be an asshole, but have the capability to be an asshole and she'll respect you for it. That's it.
Amen. Also, show your gf/wife that you are not a beta by not being kind to everyone at random. show her she is Special by showing her that she is an exception. you do not need to be aggressive, being rude is quite enough in most cases.
Yikes lol
@@shadowgirl11 what's so yikes about my statement? They're all great guys. Just because I said they don't tolerate any type of drama fishing most women unintentionally do, it doesn't mean they're shitty to them. In fact, it's the opposite.
When I bring my wife down from her BS, she always says stuff like, "Thanks for evening me out when I get out of hand". Healthy women appreciate a guy who doesn't join their emotionally driven downward spirals. We always see the tailspin and right the plane before the crash happens. Anyone who doesn't leads it to the end of the relationship.
@@AM-ko4pi you should know that is exactly why she sperged out and commented lol.
Some of these women are just obsessed with bad boys and will just get angry and reentful if you simply refuse to play their shit test game 😂.
Huh...
This is actually adivice I can get behind.
It's rare to find this these that I'm almost in shock that I found it here.
When girls will hit the wall after giving all their best years to random badboys, they will ruin the lives of men such as him. I hope he get over the need of a companion so no one will be able to ruin his life later.
they say the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results. stop being polite and be a funny a-hole. They love it.
Just let go, man. Learn to be happy alone. Stop trying, stop bothering. Ultimately it's not worth it.
For real. The only way to really win the game is to not play.
The problem is already in the title. He "doesn't want to be redpilled" as if it means to Hate women or something. Anon forgot that he needs to be a Man, assertive, strong, opinionated.
2:13 I don’t even need to listen anymore op pointed out the issue right there “confident guys”, he’s playing himself if he doesn’t fix that.
OP just needed to become a passport bro 😭
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He needs to be more confident 😂
😅 yes, he also needs to work out harder, get a broccoli haircut, be more dominant, "just be", earn more cash, be a good wagie......... and all will be fine and he gets a 10/10 babe and live happily ever after. (dude btw, did you ever watch the movie Magnolia with Tom Cruise? watch it)
How lol
@@spacebear916yeah that sound like some of the shittiest advice I’ve heard in a while, and I’ve watched Andrew tate say some heinous shit
@@spacebear916also are you blind and or deaf, the first 3 seconds will make your statement useless
@@gagefallon1566 ever heard of "humour" and "sarcasm" or "irony"? it's quite new concepts so...
You can’t do anything. Just accept you’ll never find love and try hard to cope. It’s what most of us guys will have to do
Bro doesn't understand that it only gets worse when you meet the physical requirements.
Having to play the long game because you aren't a magnet atleast lets you eventually find someone who's genuine about liking you.
Constantly having women attracted to you for the wrong reasons is more blackpilling than any amount of loneliness.
I honestly don’t care about a man’s height. I am 5’9 and only rejected people if I didn’t feel like we had a connection. At 22, I met my now husband; he is 5’2 and stocky. He tried online dating for 6 years, and would get one match every 3 months or so. When we first matched, he actual almost unmatched me because he thought I was a bot. Luckily he didn’t and now we are happily married. For some women, height doesn’t matter.
Sadly, the "Some Women" to Short man ratio is not too favorable. Especially if those same "some women" have the option to not date a short man 🤷🏿
but height can be overcome. It's just a rare personality that can do that
The halo effect is real. If you look like an Adonis, people will treat you like one.
And that doesn’t mean attractive. A stripper can be attractive.
I mean embodying every characteristic of natural beauty within a human, with none of the trashiness.
redpill isn't (wasn't at least) about hating women
Though, ironically, many women that have done things to see from a guy's perspective end up partly hating women because they're seeing just how shitty women can be and think it's okay.
yeah, It's the same thing with anything. A bunch of teenyboppers come in and take it to extremes giving everyone else a bad name.
@Silver_The_Dreadful Not always them taking it to extremes. It's also the haters twisting it. Like feminists that claim "equal rights, equal fights" is about men wanting to abuse women when only feminists use it that way. And then they ignore any rebuttal about women hitting men with impunity.
You just gotta vibe harder brooooooo
Dude should try to “dont even try”
Don't make yourself a victim. Don't put all your effort into catering to women's needs. Do what is good for yourself, and have confidence in that. There is nothing you are "supposed" to do in life. There is only what you want to do. Some people may give you advice, an idea, to help you find your way. But you have to walk it yourself.
Literally the best advice. Just be yourself, and like-minded people will gravitate towards you. That includes women. Too many people stress over what they're supposed to do/be/act like. That's why I hate "dating/masculinity/feminity coaches". They're telling you how to live your life in a box, a cookie cutter shape. But be yourself, take advice that's good for anyone to follow and just grow and thrive within yourself.
I'm short and brown and can kinda understand his viewpoint.
I've just reached a stage where I've accepted I won't be seen as anything more than a friend.
Acceptance of that will help you move on and help you focus on things that matter. I now just give the same amount of energy back to people.
And what happened is that only some of my male friends have reached out to me. Its been a year since I've talked to any of my friends who are girls and I'm fine with that.
Point of my comment is save your energy for people who deserve it. You'll be happier.
Don't skip height day bruhs.
Anon got heigh mogged, giving women rights was a mistake
literally
Nah imma just put a scale at the entrance of my house, if your over a certain amount then you better have brought your own food and or money to feed yourself, cause they are not gonna drain my fridge and my account
Maybe just don't try as hard. Desperation can be smelled off from miles.
Doesn't sound like he was trying hard at all. Doesn't sound like he was desperate when he approached them either. If I had to guess, I'd say he's just too nice. I had that problem for years.
This is very correct, it's like blood in the water for sharks.
This was the advice I was given. Can confirm it does not work
The first mistake he made was being cringe enough to say "vibe" unironically.
Move to Asia. Not even joking.
Bro if you cant love yourself how can you expect someone to love you
Short AND brown? It's over
I say he's almost there but his issue is he's stopped improving himself. He thinks he's done everything he needs to start but doesn't realize he still needs to look at himself to see what HE'S doing wrong. He's too focused on other people. Uglier, shorter and poorer people than you get partners all the time so it's not a "I'm too short" thing.
Are you seeming desperate? Are you giving creeper vibes you are not aware of? Do you seem too soft? Keep trying but try new things and methods. No attempt to get a girl is a fail of you learn from your mistakes each time
There is only so much someone can do before the max out. In addition, why put in all that work only to then get low quality in return it just isn't worth the effort in current year. Either leave the country or get a doll.
"How do I deny objective reality? My pattern recognition is leading me to draw conclusions that hurt my feelings."
Grow up, Anon. It is what it is.
Love is a chaotic force anon
OP, at the end of the day, Love is just a type of ab.use that we all crave. The only reason it's been held up as it has been is because it helped Western people to move away from arranged marriages and marriages of convenience, if it ain't you then it ain't you.
Join a boxing/MMA gym, a gun club, hell even join up with sword nerds and get into that Medieval Swordsman Martial Arts thing that Skallagrim does. I went down this path and it helped me to learn what's truly important.
In most cases it is the guys own fault. he did not talk about it so i assume he is living in a major city, most likely a blue one. or may god have mercy on him... cali.
that is like complaining about getting no meat in a vegan restaurant.
Do you think he’d do better in a rural conservative area with hardly anyone around to date in the first place? And as a short brown man in America that’s the last place I would go in his his situation for a relationship.
@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986 the fact you think that there are too few people in the countryside to meet tells me you are a city dweller.
@@crowbarviking3890 nope I grew up in a city and live in the country now as an adult I can tell you for a fact from personal experience there is virtually nobody here that is 20/30 something. Overwhelmingly middle aged parents and their kids or old people.
And there’s the political side gtfo now, your tyrannical politicians are unwanted in this conversation
@@sirsurnamethefirstofhisnam7986could be much, much worse. Not sure why you're painting that like hell on earth
People think that being a tall white guy who makes good money is some kind of cheat code to having women fawn over you regardless of who you are but it is NOT. Im am literally 6’3” white guy who makes a hair under 100k a year. I promise that those things do not make you romantically successful on their own. Maybe they help, sure, but people seem to think its like an “attractiveness switch” and its frustrating to hear those sentiments because every time i hear it, its low key insulting me, implying that im playing on ultra-easy-mode and still losing.
Be yourself. Because based on how he speaks, he is trying to give an image just so he can get a relationship, but who knows how his real version will be once he gets one.
Am I crazy? Height matters for sure but I dont think Ive heard too many people complain about race with dating? Theres some obvious stereotypes and preferences but as a 6’2 white guy myself Ive seen plenty of girls go for shorter brown guys. In highschool a lot of girls straight up said they preferred Hispanic guys when asked. I think he needs to talk to tall girls. A lot of guys dont like tall girls so they often go for shorter guys anyhow. Its definitely an interesting dynamic
10 rejections is not many tbh. For most of us conversion rate is so poor this is within error tolerance.
Wanting to love someone and be loved in return is special and can't be forced. Taking care of urself is a good start but, maybe try taking care of someone else. It could be voluntary work for the elderly or for rescue pet animals. Lovely people tend to be around caring activities and they also are more likely to be attracted to others who are loving and caring for something. No need to despair, show appreciation for life and life will give small rewards back I guess xD
Just find a girl shorter than you. They exist.
probably still wont be interested in him ; 5ft girls still end up with 6ft guys
Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore. I'm 187cm, white, decent looking guy, with a moderate gym physique. Still get zero attention from women. As much as I agree with resenting the redpill mindset, I feel like there is one single piece of advice these guys are right about. Go find someone overseas, eastern europe/asia. The women there seem so much more friendly, respectful, and feminine.
As someone who was born and raised in Romania, I can safely say at this point that it's all too late. The western influence reached us as well and it's poisoning the mindsets over here as well and it's becoming worse by the year. I've given up on dating fully for almost a full year at this point and it allowed me to gain some more perspective. Neither side are any better in their own right. Humans just became more sh!t in general and not just in dating exclusively. A lot of folks never heard the phrase "two wrongs don't make one right" before and it shows ... HEAVILY ...
"Nowadays even height doesn't matter anymore."
lol sure brother, how would you even know at 187cm
same IM in nursing 189cm's (In a proffesion with mostly women) i don't bother Im not ugly or nothing i just am bad with women (am 32)
maybe you're weird
No find a normal chick here. Mixing is cuckery
6,2" white guys here, can confirm race and height matter. Most girls won't give me the time of day because of my race, and the ones that do it's because I am tall.
Where are you living? You need to move to the Midwest and look in rural areas
Notice how he doesn't mention his personality at all.
Job/salary/education. That's it.
Is he funny? Charming? Is he fun to be around? Is he pleasant to be around?
To put it plainly and logically, some people are just born "unfortunate" looking, to society's standards. As unfortunate as that is... No matter how much they look max, and try to look better. They'll always have the same face, height, race, hair color/type, eye color, teeth orientation, face shape, etc.
They're going to have a much harder time than most others.
He's told that height and race don't matter. But they do. Just like any other physical traits. Because people are allowed to have preferences.
Imagine the slightly overweight, red headed woman would also be having this same struggle, but hes acting like this is just a problem only men experience from women.
Where that couldn't be farther from the truth.
How many times are "plain" looking women passed up by everyone, especially the attractive guys? The lanky, no booty/no chesty/no curvey women?
And how often do you hear those women label this as this being a "men are this or that!" issue?
Harley ever.
They just accept it for what it is.
They're usually the quiet/shy/awkward/reserved women that are always passed up for the promiscuous, more forward acting, easily available women.
But I almost never hear these kind of complaints from these women.
Stop trying, anon. Give in to the urges, treat them like lesser beings and stop being respectful to anyone. Give the world what it deserves, it's all rigged anyway
How tall is OP?
tall as strawberry it seems
Probably 5'7
@@TwistedLullabiesthat's usually what guys mean when they say their short. While I'm over here at 5'1 seething at those guys.
Focus on getting rich. That matters most tbh
I am overcome with that putrid odor of desperation just from reading the words. Women know when you're desperate. They really know when you're desperately trying not to look desperate. Nothing dries them up faster. Doesn't matter if you're tall and white or short and dark. Desperation is unattractive.
My eventual wife fell for me by listening to me talk not to her but to other men. I was genuine, funny, smart and I made it my goal to hear her adorable laugh every day. That's still my goal 10 years and 4 kids later. Take the focus off your appearance and take it off them entirely. Put it on whatever arouses your passion. A quality woman wants someone real
She likes u being gay
100% woman are attracted to confidence first and foremost. If they think you're desperate, they hold all the cards.
the difference is guys who “dont try” cus theyre genuinely chill and happy by themselves, compared to guys like this who try to “not care” just in hopes of secretly getting a girl lmao
The former is highly uncommon. Near non existent I'd say
> Why don't I get any girls?
> Be short
Anon, how couldn't you figure out the answer yourself? It's over
ahhhh being a Psychopath is hard nowadays... be authentic stop giving a f*** and play with their masks....
It makes things more intriguing
He will choose the green pill _inshallah_
Cringe
Anon is gray manning by accident by being too nice and boring. All those self improvement things are great and certainly make you a cut above but learning how to communicate your value to a woman is just as much as a skill you need to work on as is all the other stuff.
It will never matter if all the things he says here are what he leads with. Women want someone worth wanting- and that has nothing to with being explicitly respectful to women. Women don't want desperate losers... and if you're honest with yourself, men don't want them either.
What they want is a tall jacked handsome rich dude who is a bad boy but good to them specifically.
@@loganblackwood2922easy enough right?
@@loganblackwood2922that applies mostly to liberal women though. many men are f-ing themselves by chosing to live in liberal cities while wanting a conservative relationship. at that point it is their own fault..
like a meat lover insisting on eating in a vegan restaurant and then complaining about the lack of meat.
@@sirbacon1617it’s funny cause that’s like .00001 percent of PEOPLE not just men on this planet are like that, they are SCREWED if they don’t lower their standards
Hey dude i hate to break it to you,your only option is to find a shorter chick,otherwise yeah,youre done for. Ive been in your shoes,still am,im 5'6. I know how it is. Most women i meet are as tall as me or taller. It sucks but thats just how it is.
Rejecting truth just because other people say so is beta AF
Hight definitely doesn’t matter 6’2” and I’ve been searching for someone for almost 12 years now so no… hight doesn’t matter. If someone is going through what I have and this guy has with being lonely just tell yourself “let go, the universe is going to do whatever the universe wants so if it was meant to be it will be so”. There is no use in getting sad, mad, depressed, or even anxious about a future nobody can even possibly begin to predict. So with that in mind just “let it go” and plus if the woman around you don’t love you in that way do you even want to be with them, you want someone who will love you not only for you but also your flaws also stop romanticizing relationships, IRL love is nothing like the movies and entertainment put into the ethos
watch Better Bachelor for red pill content.
There's no gym for your face or height bro
Also.... just show them a bit of the animal and strength, pick them up during a hug, things like that.
make them understand how powerful you are.
Well you set yourself up for failure, by focusing so much on putting your happiness in someone else's hands.
Complaining about not getting a girlfriend, is about as boring as complaining about not getting chocolate flakes on your icecream.
I'm 6'4" and lemme tell ya, that shit doesn't matter my guy. It's a thing people do because they think they know what they want but there's so much filtering nowadays that people miss opportunities to just live life and have experiences even if they don't work out. This goes both ways, tons of guys have rediculous filters too.
Chad does not care about women and that’s your first problem manlet
Red pill isn't about hating women.
I agree with the women, avoid this racist incel
How is he racist exactly?
@Bluman99 seems to be chastising white women for wanting white kids. Placing subtle blame on them for not wanting to mix. Blaming white men for his failures
@@Bluman99 By claiming he is rejected because he is brown and targetting a specific race of girl. Deserved.
@@legendecoton984 that makes no damn sense you're retarded
@@Bluman99 why are you defending that racist? I guess you are one too
As a 6'6" white dude as this guy describes, height does NOT matter as much as lots of guys think. I get constantly rejected just as often as anon here.
The trick is to either marry a good church girl young, or use money to brute force your way into being a "high status man". In either case, you have to be confident and charismatic.
You have freak height lil bro. 6'1 to 6'3 is the spot, 6'5 if you got that jack reacher build. You're probably either a lanklet or a chubster
Guy focuses entirely on himself and doesn't understand why it doesn't make him more attractive
Yeah, becoming good at being single does not make one good in a relationship.
To be honest i think the issue is also what he is not talking about. The location.
I am 5'8 and chubby and was unemployed and got a girlfriend / now wife.
was never single for more than a few months in total since i turned 18
Focused on entering himself to be more attractive
If is he just supposedto do? Slob around?
@MrOnepiece14 getting a partner that is only with you when you are as attractive as you can be... And then wondering why they leave you when you lose your looks due to an accident or lose your job....
That is like a rich guy believing no woman wants him only for his money.
I never considered myself any kind od Chad Thundercock. But i'm not, not one. Pillaged .y family for good genes, go to the gym 5 times a week (though i go slob mode during winters ngl). I've had girls approach first. Had lady friends catfight over me... you get the drift. But also, I've been in 2 years long dry seasons, got rejected times beyond counting, got cheated on twice, even though i never did. I feel like Anon is counting hits and not seeing the misses other guys suffer. That fail sht happens to everyone.