TMM How Can I Deal With Anxiety In Ranked?

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 326

  • @astro_1707
    @astro_1707 4 роки тому +121

    In practice I can pull off staples in almost every delay setting. While in ranked I can't even backdash without almost having a goddamn panic attack.

    • @olishonick
      @olishonick 4 роки тому +21

      This is how playing irl and in tournaments has felt for me.

    • @softandsquishycat1253
      @softandsquishycat1253 4 роки тому +15

      Yes this happen to me too! My backdash suddenly become almost looks like a teabag(?). I even drop a really easy combo

    • @nitomono
      @nitomono 4 роки тому +4

      Happens to me all the time

    • @thewind9177
      @thewind9177 4 роки тому +1

      Happened to me at a big tournament in my area and defeated the top 1 player(my area)..... ofc I was using prime Leroy soo I laughed it off

    • @jay____l
      @jay____l 4 роки тому +16

      That means you are taking ranked way too seriously. I noticed a huge difference in play style when I played in ranked versus player match. Once you realize ranked means nothing, you will be able to play normal. You have to change your mindset essentially.

  • @IAMOP
    @IAMOP 4 роки тому +178

    When stressed, scream MASKU at the opponent

  • @SparklyChainsaw
    @SparklyChainsaw 4 роки тому +26

    I feel this in my soul. I have OCD and deal with horrifying levels of perfectionism and other people judging me. I really love fighting games, the characters, learning more etc. but I used to get cold sweats even in casual Street Fighter. And I just started Tekken 7 a month ago and I’m feeling that again. Weirdly, just having someone I see as a god level Tekken player say “I understand, it’s okay to not take it so seriously, just learn, have fun, and celebrate the small stuff” is very relieving. Thank you for this.

  • @Messatsu01
    @Messatsu01 4 роки тому +84

    When I play ranked, I always remind myself that if I get demoted that it's no problem. I got to that rank before, and I can do it again. With that peace of mind, I can focus on what moves I should be looking out for that my opponents will use out of habit: snake edges, command grabs, how do they respond to an unsafe move that I throw out and do they know its unsafe?

    • @swaglish1415
      @swaglish1415 4 роки тому +1

      Honestly I really don't care if I get demoted I usually get clapped by simple tactics by my enemy but my sister said if I can't get through the low level tactics I'm not ready for higher ranks

    • @Messatsu01
      @Messatsu01 4 роки тому

      @@swaglish1415 either you practice fundamentals or play character that win for you.

    • @swaglish1415
      @swaglish1415 4 роки тому

      @@Messatsu01 I play lee my fundamentals used to be really good but my controller broke still getting used to this one

    • @Messatsu01
      @Messatsu01 4 роки тому

      @@swaglish1415 lee is very technical, especially for beginners. He's fun and flashy though. Which was why I played him often in TTT2.

    • @xXSH1N0B1Xx
      @xXSH1N0B1Xx 4 роки тому

      I love throwing out snake edges

  • @toto_feather8732
    @toto_feather8732 4 роки тому +84

    For me personally:
    Just try having fun when playing Tekken. ^^

    • @mychaeljones7526
      @mychaeljones7526 4 роки тому +5

      They say the same with LEAGUE of Legends.

    • @hatsunemiku8007
      @hatsunemiku8007 4 роки тому +9

      @@mychaeljones7526 yea but tekken is actually a good game lol

    • @shadowsage6253
      @shadowsage6253 4 роки тому

      @@mychaeljones7526 true but except for some stuff in the game and the spammers wich there are in every game tekken is actually enjoyable

    • @LightWavess
      @LightWavess 4 роки тому

      How does one have fun with it?..

    • @Mm-vr9mt
      @Mm-vr9mt 4 роки тому

      @@mychaeljones7526 As a man who escaped the hell hole that is league I can tell you team games are so much worse.

  • @loto7197
    @loto7197 4 роки тому +46

    I would happily lose all day at Tekken. For some reason it's more fun for me to fight someone better and continually try to win. If I win like 3 games in a row i get bored unless they're really tight games.

    • @tidjane2001
      @tidjane2001 4 роки тому +1

      Same here

    • @mahadjawad5528
      @mahadjawad5528 4 роки тому +1

      A man of culture

    • @jay____l
      @jay____l 4 роки тому

      Yup, once I see there is no one online that is around my skill, it does get boring. I like it when it's an even match going back and forth.

    • @arielariel1176
      @arielariel1176 4 роки тому +2

      lol please tell that at stupid losequitters in Tekken. people are too afraid to lose these days

    • @loto7197
      @loto7197 4 роки тому +9

      @@arielariel1176 some people play to have fun and losing isn't fun for everyone. I can understand it, people play for different reasons

  • @roamalot3000
    @roamalot3000 4 роки тому +34

    I absolutely love that Tekken 7 doesn't show the losses, only the wins. It takes stress about dumb W/L stress that so many people have, even me.

    • @olishonick
      @olishonick 4 роки тому +7

      Me too. Part of the reason I stopped playing mk11 online was because of the w/l ratio that shows. Just makes you feel bad when you don't have above 1.1

    • @roamalot3000
      @roamalot3000 4 роки тому +1

      @@olishonick I'm happy that my WL in MK11 is positive, because I'd always be unnecessarily stressing about it

    • @Grayfox541
      @Grayfox541 4 роки тому +4

      You don't know how much I can relate.

    • @impactchaos9796
      @impactchaos9796 4 роки тому

      wow what a sad life u guys must have for stressing this much over losing in a video game.

    • @roamalot3000
      @roamalot3000 4 роки тому +1

      @@impactchaos9796 Ok

  • @chacazulo1987
    @chacazulo1987 4 роки тому +29

    Nothing is more frustrating than seeing characters who don’t deserve to get buffed get buffed, and i have to put up with that? Online? With lag? Nah, fuk that.

    • @mauricemoss5277
      @mauricemoss5277 4 роки тому +4

      You are very correct,they were like,Hworang now has chip damage and his key aggression tool is +15 on block

    • @Proletrolliat
      @Proletrolliat 4 роки тому +1

      paul's situation rn

  • @rippedreaper7279
    @rippedreaper7279 4 роки тому +28

    When I transitioned online last year, I got my ass kicked for about a month. I would get to Brawler and then demoted right back down. Tekken online can be brutal and disappointing but you gotta keep learning and not let the defeats get to you, just like in real life.

    • @vl6901
      @vl6901 4 роки тому

      Consider it as opportunity to train your stoicism. Its just a game

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 4 роки тому

      @@vl6901 also a game that you play with your body in real life

  • @IamLmoon
    @IamLmoon 4 роки тому +15

    he is giving advices on how to avoid anger, not anxiety. I almost always feel anxious playing tekken every single time, it's exhausting, even though I'm winning.

    • @VittamarFasuthAkbin
      @VittamarFasuthAkbin 4 роки тому +4

      it is a very existencial game - your wrong reads may cost your character's life. You identify with that character. Maybe you can give up the steering wheel, accept that you are always play with limited information, set small goals and see that you and that other person comes together to play. Not making fun/being rude (taunt) to the other also makes yourself more comfortable in the match

    • @xXSH1N0B1Xx
      @xXSH1N0B1Xx 4 роки тому

      @@VittamarFasuthAkbin trolling other players makes me more comfi then tryharding, when I actually try hard and lose its a more intense loss. If I just troll the L won't matter as much cuz I was just trolling.

    • @VittamarFasuthAkbin
      @VittamarFasuthAkbin 4 роки тому

      @@xXSH1N0B1Xx right, but even better than tryharding and trolling is playing "calm" and without annoying intent. That's why I wrote "Maybe you can give up the steering wheel"

    • @xXSH1N0B1Xx
      @xXSH1N0B1Xx 4 роки тому

      @@VittamarFasuthAkbin I calmly troll.

    • @VittamarFasuthAkbin
      @VittamarFasuthAkbin 4 роки тому

      @@xXSH1N0B1Xx nice

  • @b.henriques9871
    @b.henriques9871 4 роки тому +4

    One major tip is, meditation, it improves not only your anger management and anxiety control but pretty much every single aspect of your mind. Awareness, clear thinking etc

  • @Sykboogie
    @Sykboogie 4 роки тому +7

    This is spectacular advice. Sometimes, you're on a losing streak and it feels horrible, but if you take it as a learning experience and focus on the positive, it helps.

  • @Section8dc
    @Section8dc 4 роки тому +2

    A guy who had played SF for many years once said to me "to be good at fighting games you have to practice A LOT, and get your ass kicked NO LESS than 10,000 times"
    The second part is very important I've come to find, put on a movie while you play, take your hands off the controller to answer your phone mid match, let ranks mean nothing and the fear will fade

  • @brooklynballer2455
    @brooklynballer2455 4 роки тому +3

    When I face new matchups and have no idea I just laugh my ass off yelling "wtf do I even do here".

  • @yamatosama6028
    @yamatosama6028 4 роки тому +2

    Something I realize works for me is sending a GG or just a positive comment after the match, and every time they answer it makes me feel better about mistakes I might have made and what not

  • @Grandmaster992
    @Grandmaster992 4 роки тому +3

    If I lose I always send a " good game" or "nice moves" message. This always makes me feel better even if I got destroyed.

    • @l3unnies
      @l3unnies 4 роки тому +1

      That’s actually a really good idea.

  • @HouseMusicNinja
    @HouseMusicNinja 4 роки тому +4

    Just go in to learn, have fun and not give a care about winning or rank placement. Tekken and Soulcalibur are the only series where I genuinely enjoy fighting an uphill battle because of how much experience and a confidence boost it gives me towards refining my characters (Lars, Anna for T7 & Kilik and Xianghua for SC6). Yeah nobody wants to lose but its more all about what you take from the battle and less about the end result.

  • @Alexman208GR
    @Alexman208GR 4 роки тому +12

    TMM you made a whole lot of great points but I have some small disagreements or more like clarifications based on how I understand this topic. Not everyone feels anxiety playing ranked. I would sometimes feel anxiety but other times it would literally be zero. There is a reason for this and it has to do with what anxiety is. Anxiety is LEARNED, so there's a past experience that makes you anxious when you play online. Personally it was feelings of inadequacy and mostly rejection from peers in team games that gave me performance anxiety. So if you feel anxious playing online you need to think exactly what you're afraid of. It's very hard to look inside and find that thing, but it's there and you'd benefit greatly from finding it. It could also be related to your identity. If your identity is based on your performance in the game then competition will hurt because a loss directly attacks who you are and your value as a person. In Indian psychology there's the term "ahamkara" which is one of the main parts of the mind. It is the false self, the self that is based on external things like your job, hobbies, wealth, sports team you support, your friends, nationality. Anything external of you. Everyone has an ahamkara and when there's negative emotion it tries to create excuses to protect you from those emotions, and one way it does that is by building a false sense of self based on all kinds of bullshit, like how good are you at a game which is something lots of gamers struggle with. Their sense of value as a person is tied to their performance in the game because they don't have an inherent sense of value that comes from within. :(
    The cool thing about anxiety is that it's future oriented, and when you live in the moment your don't feel it. If you are at home and think of an errand you need to do tomorrow and that errand gives you anxiety then that's gonna feel like hell unless you find a way to distract yourself. But if I come up to you that day and tell you, "right now! follow me and let's go do errand x" you'll feel much less anxiety because you don't have time to think of the future, you'll live more in the present, and in anxiety lives in the future only. So the equivalent of that in Tekken is that you're thinking of "what will happen if I lose?" instead of "How do I win this round right now?".
    So in conclusion people feel anxiety because they are afraid of something. And if you feel anxiety you need to sit down and figure out exactly what you're afraid of and why/when did that start. And also think about who you really are and where does your value as a human being come from? If you are really serious about this I'd highly recommend starting meditation.
    Some sources: wiki.healthygamer.gg/en/Anxiety , wiki.healthygamer.gg/Ego

    • @jonashjalmen5232
      @jonashjalmen5232 4 роки тому

      Interesting points, well spoken @armanlex. Though personally ive no interest in meditation but keeping in mind the things you said about anxiety being future-dependent and that it stems from a sense of self that is identified with the superficial.

    • @slipperyman6034
      @slipperyman6034 4 роки тому +1

      This is a very well written and insightful comment, thanks for posting.

    • @yusassin1449
      @yusassin1449 4 роки тому

      Some I kinda agree with others I'm like this is ridiculous. I mean false self hmmm okay I can see how that could be a thing. But its based on your job, hobbies, family, nationality and all these other things that sometimes define people and what they really like and care about? And that's what you mean by false self, I call bullshit on that. I might not be very well learned on indian meditation practisis but this is just not right.
      People feel strongly about these things and sometimes it defines them as people and they're happy with it, how can you just say: yeah that thing your really passionate about that's not really you.
      That just does not make any sense to me.

    • @Alexman208GR
      @Alexman208GR 4 роки тому

      @@yusassin1449 Hey hassasin, I'd love to have a short back and forth discussion about this idea of false self. I don't think youtube is great for those kinds of discussion so if you want, hit me up on discord Armanlex#1286 . If you don't want to that's fine I can post my response here.

    • @yusassin1449
      @yusassin1449 4 роки тому

      @@Alexman208GR Check discord

  • @RasKass__
    @RasKass__ 4 роки тому +2

    The video ended on the most calming music from Tekken XD
    More seriously, winning feels good but losing (even if it's multiple time in a row) is part of the game, we can't always win ! Even a pro player isn't flawless. So the thing to remember is playing to have fun and not saying to yourself "if I play I need to be the best, I have to get greater ranks again and again, if I lose and lose ranks I'm a bad player". If you win it's great but if you lose tell yourself that you can do better next time.

  • @omegaweaponredux
    @omegaweaponredux 4 роки тому +7

    getting demoted just means your next matches are gonna be easier, if anything promoting should be the stressful part thats the right mindset.

    • @vl6901
      @vl6901 4 роки тому +1

      Its not gonna be easy at any rank

  • @dk9695
    @dk9695 4 роки тому +4

    what makes me salty is getting air juggled.. once my character is in the air, the opponent is doing his juggle and i have absolutely no control over anything.. its like as if my opponent is in practice mode...this was the reason why i dropped out of serious play, because air juggling is such fundamental part of tekken and it frustrates me.. i play for fun, instead. not competively.

    • @moxdegiourno7984
      @moxdegiourno7984 4 роки тому +1

      I remember in marvel vs capcom 3 they have a way to get out of juggle or combo

    • @somethingsomething9006
      @somethingsomething9006 4 роки тому

      @@moxdegiourno7984
      You can only break combos in Marvel 3 if you try to do a 1 of 4 direction tag switch after a launch, but if they didn't do that, then no, you couldn't get out of combos.

  • @RaeBordz27
    @RaeBordz27 4 роки тому +1

    Honestly whenever i play rank i always feel this anxiety "everyone is so much better than you in rank so you not gonna win" and yeah i keep thinking like that's why i keep losing,get frustrated,salty,etc. it's not a very pleasant feeling in the game but if you can conquer this you can pretty much do fine in rank, You really have to be control of your mentality when it comes to things which is not easy btw because we are just human that are trying to deal with problems in life in the end
    But i decided to stop playing at Overlord which a lot of people see not a high rank but im very happy and satisfied with it like i can say to myself "oh im actually not trash in this game anymore" but yeah i decided not to deal with toxicity with rank anymore the ki charge,plug,3 bars,cheese,you know the rest and yeah i just want to remind people that *ITS OK TO LEAVE SOMETHING THAT YOU DONT ENJOY* it's totally fine no one is forcing you to do something so that no one gets mad or annoyed at you (except if you ki charge or plug but that's a different story) and if they do get mad at you *completely ignore it,dont give a single attention,try not to care at all,their not the one feeding you*

  • @Kuratchi96
    @Kuratchi96 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for the advice Mainman, this has been really helpful as I also get anxious about playing competitive games online, especially when playing on my own.

  • @sledge_TT2143
    @sledge_TT2143 4 роки тому +67

    Tmm wait only 2 years I am coming to defeat you 3-0

    • @softandsquishycat1253
      @softandsquishycat1253 4 роки тому +24

      That's the spirit I'm rooting for you!

    • @Erased-_
      @Erased-_ 4 роки тому +5

      You’re going to drop the game next month lol stfu

    • @ichigokurosakisubsoulreape7592
      @ichigokurosakisubsoulreape7592 4 роки тому +19

      Chronicflame love seeing people project themselves.

    • @syaredzaashrafi1101
      @syaredzaashrafi1101 4 роки тому +9

      @@Erased-_ nice bait there

    • @breezye8942
      @breezye8942 4 роки тому +8

      @@ichigokurosakisubsoulreape7592 honestly😂. "I can't do it so he can't" it's really pathetic.

  • @Z1nt3k
    @Z1nt3k 4 роки тому +1

    Playing online really feels like taking an exam but all the questions are in a different language. By the time you’ve figured out how to deal with the problem, you have to deal with the lag affecting your reaction time.

  • @3lectronX
    @3lectronX 4 роки тому +13

    I'm an absolute beginner and I finally got to brawler with Jin, after many crashes, disconnects, non stop choking during promo matches, and for some reason the game would just stop reading my inputs from my pad and/or keyboard. Anyways, my save data got corrupted and had to start from the beginning. Seems Tekken doesnt want to let me get to brawler.

    • @accelerator9145
      @accelerator9145 4 роки тому

      tell me your not actually playing on wifi

    • @sashimi879
      @sashimi879 4 роки тому

      @@accelerator9145 probably he is

    • @3lectronX
      @3lectronX 4 роки тому

      @@accelerator9145 I'm not, my PC can't connect without an actual cable.

  • @FeddaCheezy
    @FeddaCheezy 4 роки тому +14

    I'm a deathmatcher. This was a good message. I think I'll chill

  • @elvivacious9487
    @elvivacious9487 4 роки тому +13

    I totally agree that dodging is fine ,
    I wouldn’t play against gimmicky characters , I play like 3 times a week , and I take breaks from the game frequently cuz I do other things , by the time I get back I probably forgot a few things so to me it’s not worth it playing bs characters I just wanna enjoy my time and no one enjoys their time getting mixed and played with

    • @mikayd
      @mikayd 4 роки тому

      Totally agree, I got a no DLC Policy as well as a no cheesy characters. Oh and a two match policy, sometimes I just play my opponent once and then dip. When I feel like I’m getting drawn into the ever ending climb to Rank, I simply quit for a few weeks or maybe even months off.

  • @yyuseii3257
    @yyuseii3257 4 роки тому +14

    Just heard this on his stream and has good message!!!

  • @MuzzYADam
    @MuzzYADam 4 роки тому

    FUN over everything. if you aren't having fun against a character or playing as a character then you aren't obligated to continue.
    that also includes losing. if you're losing in a particular set and it's effecting you a lot then just leave after playing first to 2 or 3.
    have a goal in mind when playing besides just trying to win.
    Maybe you want to try out playing with optimal range. maybe you want to improve your whiff punishment or throwbreaks or knowing when to apply pressure etc.
    Small victories are going to be better in the long run for your mentality & overall mood going forward.

  • @moxdegiourno7984
    @moxdegiourno7984 4 роки тому +11

    The only thing i hate when im playing this game is thinking that the enemy will abuse a low and mid mixup kinda like every drag that ive met or king or law

    • @_kqcper_332
      @_kqcper_332 4 роки тому +1

      King abusing lows? Law and Dragunov definiately but King? I'm jus surpirsed because I main him amd most of his lows are shit. I'd say his throws and grab chains are MUCH worse when it comes to cheese. If you think ali kicks are cheesy yoi can parry or block the third one and launch punish.

    • @mikayd
      @mikayd 4 роки тому +1

      I agree with you, yes King is in the bunch as well. I play so many Kong’s that abuse the low and mid. Every time I play a king I assume he will play that way, I make it my best to keep him pushed back and on his back at all times. I don’t force a rematch afterwards.

    • @_kqcper_332
      @_kqcper_332 4 роки тому

      @@mikayd Kust out of curiosity may I know what lows are you struggling with? King has abusable mid/high 50/50 but I don't know any good, cheesy lows.

    • @mikayd
      @mikayd 4 роки тому

      _kqcper_ oh no you assume I have trouble playing against lows, or the king match up. I do lower my skill to my opponents level in order for teach a lesson, once I sense cheese, I’ll play around a bit, I’ll do the same move over and over again. It’s just gets old playing like this, yes I’m winning but it the grand scheme of things I’m losing cause I’m not learning anything and I’m not having fun, I just can’t quit the match without penalty. Throws are easy, I simple keep my opponent away and interrupt his attacks, I call it the dink and dunk, I keep them on honest, small jabs, lows and quick crouch jab. He can’t grab and defend at the same time.

    • @_kqcper_332
      @_kqcper_332 4 роки тому

      @@mikayd yeah I know what you mean. I'm not used to playing online but king was my main sonce I remember. I was just surprised that besides his grabs he's considered a cheap character

  • @ichigokurosakisubsoulreape7592
    @ichigokurosakisubsoulreape7592 4 роки тому +1

    Wow MainMan, very good advice in this video that can literally make a player. Glad you’re helping the community and being a good person overall.

  • @SLarith89
    @SLarith89 4 роки тому +18

    i love Tekken but the only thing that make so damn stress and upset is when I facing with spammers and laggers!

    • @Routhe99
      @Routhe99 4 роки тому +9

      Spammers will build your defence-skills. Still a pain in the ass to play against Sometimes though, lol

    • @LoneTaurus82
      @LoneTaurus82 4 роки тому +1

      Hopefully with Season 4 changes ranked will be better since you will be able to avoid the laggy wifi players that abuse spamming moves to fight the lag.

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 4 роки тому +1

      Try to learn how to abuse the frames as much you can

    • @davipenha
      @davipenha 4 роки тому

      Kbd and punishing

    • @SLarith89
      @SLarith89 4 роки тому

      @@davipenha thanks for info man :D

  • @VTrigger
    @VTrigger 4 роки тому

    I would just try to remember "it's just a game." For those that say they aren't improving because ranked is bad practice, like TMM said "take the small victories", like how you reacted to parrying lows, or duck punishing high strings.
    In my opinion, sometimes playing by reactions is better than anticipating, I feel this is a very strong skill to have for offline settings.
    Like Anakin says "You're not training to get better @ Online, you're playing online to get better at offline."
    Tricks where it usually doesn't work.
    But as with this ongoing pandemic I know that it's hard to find local players nowdays.
    Just find someone online that is willing to get good with you at your level, then move up(which is hard to find too) you do get better the more you play and learning the matchups.

  • @SpiciestTuna
    @SpiciestTuna 4 роки тому +5

    gosh just like after one ranked match my hands start shake reaaal baaad then all of a sudden i forget how to execute anything.

  • @b.henriques9871
    @b.henriques9871 4 роки тому +2

    Just imagine having guy has a dad. Amazingly wholesome

  • @softandsquishycat1253
    @softandsquishycat1253 4 роки тому +5

    Yeah i even can't do backdash or do simple combo, i can't even punish... On top of that. The anxiety multiple if i got mirror match which make me even more nervous....

    • @3lectronX
      @3lectronX 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah playing someone who beats you with your own character just sucks, but if they are better than you, you can learn set ups, combos, or any new tech from them.

    • @softandsquishycat1253
      @softandsquishycat1253 4 роки тому +1

      @@3lectronX yes i couldn't agreed more! they give me some new technique i could use!

  • @brooklynballer2455
    @brooklynballer2455 4 роки тому +1

    The only thing that affects me in that scenario is my movement. But apart from that just remember once you become better at the game rank will mean nothing you will get to the place you deserve when you're ready

  • @umermahmood
    @umermahmood 4 роки тому +9

    TMM: Remember when we used to have tournaments ?
    Pepperidge Farm remembers.

  • @josipportner7002
    @josipportner7002 4 роки тому +32

    I just play negan when i feel bad. My day brightens up immedietaly 😂

    • @mychaeljones7526
      @mychaeljones7526 4 роки тому +13

      Take it like a champ

    • @moxdegiourno7984
      @moxdegiourno7984 4 роки тому +8

      Playing agaisnt a tekken god prime as a blue rank in quick match with negan doesnt give me anxiety at all lol

    • @hatsunemiku8007
      @hatsunemiku8007 4 роки тому +21

      @@moxdegiourno7984 it's crazy that it's scarier to fight a brawler king on ranked than a tekken god prime on quick match

    • @mauricemoss5277
      @mauricemoss5277 4 роки тому

      @Sarincrow Same here

  • @player1and2inc.62
    @player1and2inc.62 4 роки тому

    I found players that were above my lvl of promotion and got use to their stress and its been working for me ever since then. I found TTG or TGP for different characters in a facebook tekken group to just spar and learned the match up at an advance lvl. Its been working for me ever since then. Just beat a 300th ranked TWT in ft5, learned and had fun. Not a big accomplishment but its something of a testament to how far I've come in the game.

  • @aghilesbessad6946
    @aghilesbessad6946 4 роки тому

    i didn't know ranked was so important to people, i never feel anxious or anything with video games, sometimes you win sometimes you lose you just have to accept it

  • @duedah837
    @duedah837 4 роки тому

    Some amount of anxiety is a good thing. You don't want to be so chill that you lose focus or just don't care if you win or lose.

  • @peterkoh1358
    @peterkoh1358 4 роки тому

    If you're a new player to the series and you're anxious about your actual skill level, do pay a visit to your local offline gathering once social distancing ends. You'll be surprise with the offline experience compared to online, especially if you devoted alot of time into practicing fundamental skills.
    Suddenly all those flash guards you were buffering would work and your movement would feel alot more fluid too. Lag does wonders to your experience regardless if it's a 5 bar or a 3 bar match. It also questions your skills which leads to anxiety
    Tekken online has its merits. However, tekken online is not there for you to judge your skills. It's only there to let you play a bootlegged ver. of tekken with people, if you're unable to do so offline.
    P.S. This is the reason why you don't see junkyard spamming laws or lucky Chloe string players in offline tournaments as well. IT JUST DOESN'T WORK OFFLINE.

  • @yousufhellsing581
    @yousufhellsing581 4 роки тому

    5:43 the main man swe is really understand us as players of low level

  • @mistersandman94
    @mistersandman94 4 роки тому +2

    for me. its the feeling that ya im new and bad but if i get stomped by a similar ranked its the worse feeling in the world and i feel so shiity

  • @happ0bapp0
    @happ0bapp0 4 роки тому

    I used to have anxiety about going online too. it’s weird too because when I jump into ranked I get into the groove pretty quickly. It’s just a tough game, but I also don’t think I’ve ever played any game that was more rewarding to win at. It’s a double edged sword. It’s always worth getting cut on both sides though.

  • @isseisagawa7346
    @isseisagawa7346 4 роки тому

    I completely agree with mainman that you alone carry yourself so this can be positive and negative, how so?
    Well because if you are able to seize the victory and be dominant in the match you gain the feeling of becoming powerful or confidence in yourself but the downside sometimes is if you are unable to push yourself further and all you feel is lost and discontent then it's clearly your fault alone.
    This is a great topic and I'm glad TMM uploaded this so people would have clarity on this 👍 much love from 🇵🇭

  • @hatsunemiku8007
    @hatsunemiku8007 4 роки тому +3

    I wish there was a way to just hide your rank on your screen, so you can play all you want and be clueless about your rank unless you go check it or turn it on

    • @trainedbog6801
      @trainedbog6801 4 роки тому

      Its called player match, friend.

    • @l3unnies
      @l3unnies 4 роки тому

      Trainedbog player match still shows your rank?

    • @trainedbog6801
      @trainedbog6801 4 роки тому

      @@l3unnies yes. But you dont need to worry about losing ranks or gaining ranks.

  • @FinnDarius
    @FinnDarius 4 роки тому

    lag definitely was my biggest cause of anxiety, going back to replays and seeing your jab punishes get blocked after blocking -13 moves, or watching easy guaranteed combos drop repeatedly really gets your head scratching

  • @TheDocbach
    @TheDocbach 4 роки тому

    My method is this. The first match, I play in a way that is totally void of emotion. Not saying that I intentionally throw the first match, but I really only do pokes and small frame traps to see what my opponent knows and how he reacts to it. By doing that, I can see pretty clearly how the players brain works. I don't throw on any emotional investment or do any risky moves until I understand what I am going up against. That usually happens around the second or 3rd game for me.
    If I get totally blasted out of the water 2 to 3 games straight to the point where I cant even see how it is happening. Time to move on. Lab it or avoid it.

  • @LickyMyNippy
    @LickyMyNippy 4 роки тому +1

    I just refuse to look at the progress bar so I never know if I’m gonna promote/demote. I also don’t pay attention to the loading screen so I can’t see it there either. Currently sitting at Suzaku. 🤷🏽‍♂️ focus on the game and learning. The stress goes away after that.

    • @kurowkarasu
      @kurowkarasu 4 роки тому

      For me the absolute worst part about ranked is the loss streak counter.
      If I'm having a bad day and almost all of the last 10 matches are shown as losses it really siphons all my motivation.

    • @LickyMyNippy
      @LickyMyNippy 4 роки тому

      DoKhyi Altan Ord yeah I agree with that. I usually set myself a limit to avoid raging out in the end. Years of playing fighting games you learn when to take a break.

  • @alvinkim1305
    @alvinkim1305 Рік тому

    What helped me was to instead, imagine I'm playing with a human and not the character. It's less annoying to know that a relatable human being is who I'm fighting with not a violent emotionless "character/puppet".

  • @blockchainballer4542
    @blockchainballer4542 4 роки тому +1

    I try to make a habit of rematching a few times even when I’m pissed off... Live by the MASKU, die by the MASKU.

  • @thorrezz9778
    @thorrezz9778 4 роки тому

    When I get demoted I just say to myself out loud "Dayum I suck ass!" Then I think about how I lost and improve from there.

  • @WeedSmoker69
    @WeedSmoker69 8 місяців тому

    you can generally tell who won't rematch you depending on how feral they play. I think it's obvious that most people that one and done aren't doing it because of frustrating match ups, it's because they simply don't want to lose their MMR. it's fragile egos and results-based reasoning at the end of the day for most players that won't rematch after one game

  • @kevinjbonetguadalupe1729
    @kevinjbonetguadalupe1729 4 роки тому

    Needed this video
    Playing with friends that are way better than usual ranked people, and im cool.
    Playing against randon people on ranked that i can figure out in a match or two and my palms start sweating like crazy and my mouth dries up

  • @jperk2228
    @jperk2228 4 роки тому +1

    This is a great message. It gave me a new perspective on the game

  • @amosjohnson6348
    @amosjohnson6348 4 роки тому

    So, a weird strategy I had to getting around the salt, was getting flat out wasted. I was playing casually with devil jin (I was at mighty ruler at the time) and thought 'fuck it'. Legit, the booze made my nerves ease, and got all the way to fujin. Strangest ranked session ever

  • @do8152
    @do8152 4 роки тому

    The thing I find most frustrating about rank is how jank the points system is.
    I win i get 1100pts but i lose, i lose 1900pts.
    How the hell am I suppose to not get anxious and frustrated.
    I been stuck in red ranks for 5 months ( granted i play on and off).
    But the anxiety and feeling of inadequacy stay.
    Ranked is the only place for me to find players within my skill range

  • @Scorpio1025
    @Scorpio1025 4 роки тому

    How to handle ranked stress...player matches. I’ll concede with my Savor rank as it was more painful than anything to get there

  • @ladrellhart2063
    @ladrellhart2063 4 роки тому +1

    I can agree. But people no longer play ranked to get better, they just... Play it to get bigger ranks. Im often one matched just for being a difficult opponent. Rather I win or lose. I do first to 3 in ranked against all characters at all skill levels. There are some good sports out there though I went back and forth for 4 hours in ranked with a fahkumram player. We just couldn't get two wins straight on each other.

  • @madnesssupreme
    @madnesssupreme 4 роки тому

    Well, the biggest hurdle to fighting another live player is to stop being used to doing what you wanna do, when you wanna do it.
    In other words, don't act like it's you're fighting the CPU, and doing flowchart attacks all day.
    While going balls to the wall sometimes gets one to come out on top, at the end of the day, skill takes lead in Tekken; especially long sets.

  • @brandonforster3719
    @brandonforster3719 Рік тому

    Just got thru some ranked matches on Tekken 8 and it keeps putting me up against Warriors and I'm in 1st Dan so I have won like 2 matches out of 12 it's bs. I don't mind getting better and practicing but I'm sure there aren't enough people playing so it forces me to play veterans. Lol, I will get them back in the future. Your right tho I was hanging in there with Warrior Ranked players and I haven't played Tekken since the arcade at Putt Putt. Lol, I do have a lot of Street Fighter 6 experience and MK11. Thanks for the tips!

  • @kazumasjourneyofsong511
    @kazumasjourneyofsong511 4 роки тому

    This is very wise! I appreciate you sharing your wisdom! Love from a small weeb!

  • @frankdtank5195
    @frankdtank5195 4 роки тому

    Really needed this advice not just for tekken but for other games aswell

  • @Alex-RNG
    @Alex-RNG 4 роки тому

    Great advice. I’ve been playing this since release and I still get sooooo salty. Accepting the game and focusing on small wins I really like that advice. Thx

  • @HeyListenRadio
    @HeyListenRadio 4 роки тому

    NGL, Anakin and JDCR playing rock, paper, scissors is still hella cute.

  • @olbaze
    @olbaze 4 роки тому +1

    4:26: TMM talking about salt in Tekken while showing footage of the TWT champion losing a match to a Law player doing a 10-hit string. Very appropriate footage.
    I have never understood the "deathmatch until promotion/demotion" mindset. If two people who go 50/50 do that, they will each gain 100 points per match. This is 1/19th of a full win, and will mean you need 30-75 matches to get a promotion. If the matches are really close, this could be 2-6 hours of playing the same person over and over. And if you're Fujin or higher, having close matches like this will mean you're literally never going to promote. And if you're not having equal matches, then what's the point? What could be more self-harming than deathmatching someone while knowing you're the loser, that you're just slowly pushing yourself towards a demotion?

  • @nine5693
    @nine5693 4 роки тому

    Backup saves is a good remedy against anxiety.

  • @VegetaMentality
    @VegetaMentality 4 роки тому

    As a league player i can assure you, losing in tekken is much easier to accept than losing in league since there are no other players that are holding you back. If you lose it is because of yourself.

  • @GoldF4TE
    @GoldF4TE 4 роки тому

    Glad to see you talking about anxiety!

  • @GuitarManPremium
    @GuitarManPremium 4 роки тому

    If you got the rank before you can get it again. If you get demoted and promoted enough you begin to grow numb to the change.

  • @RedBull78hero
    @RedBull78hero 4 роки тому

    Those unpleasant feelings wouldn't have been that common if everyone played with fast connections. With the current netcode situation and overall responsiveness, it's more like PREDICTING what's the opponent going to do instead of REACTING to it. That's it....that's where frustration comes from in Tekken.

  • @Grandmaster992
    @Grandmaster992 4 роки тому

    I've always wanted to get to the blue ranks. I'm currently at mighty ruler and while I think I'm proficient with Bryan, there are certain matchups that are just not fun. Eliza, eddy, kuma, alisa, and lucky Chloe piss me off.

  • @Nakon96x
    @Nakon96x 4 роки тому

    This video is incredible because is at very important video, i don t now how with anxiety in this game and salty much. Thanks main man for this video and sorry for my English xD

  • @MaxxSeemov
    @MaxxSeemov 4 роки тому

    My movement and punishment drops significantly in ranked compared to quick match. It's like there's a curse.

  • @subrezon
    @subrezon 4 роки тому

    Fuck ranked. Maybe for someone who plays Tekken as their main game for couple dozen hours a week ranked is an enjoyable experience, but I just always find myself constantly against toxic players with cheese characters/strategies. Beating them doesn't feel good, losing to them feels like you're being punished for not tierwhoring/cheesing. I just play with friends, we keep the character pool limited to 2-4 per person. Ideal for having fun sometimes instead of never.
    But, still, what helps me during the rare times that I play ranked is having 2 mains. Psycologocally it gives you the insurance of "well, if I get demoted with Eddy now, my Jin's still Warrior", as well as extra motovation of wanting to 1up your other character. You also have another option for when it's just *that* day, when the electric ain't quite right. The important bit here is to limit yourself to one character switch per day. If you switched, and want to switch back - it's time to quit and do something else.

  • @thoraero
    @thoraero 4 роки тому

    Losing against Kazuya: "You're pretty good. Let's rematch."
    Losing against Leroy: "See you again once you're properly nerfed."

  • @thestanman1486
    @thestanman1486 4 роки тому

    I love ranked modes in games. Overwatch, Mortal Kombat, even fucking UFC 3. I think I just enjoy the idea of having a competitive match. When I picked up tekken recently, goddamn, I am getting destroyed. It's made me not want to touch competitive. I feel like I still have too much to learn to play it.

  • @homiixide
    @homiixide 4 роки тому

    I recommend smoking a blunt or taking percs before playing ranked, that’s the best and easiest way to get over anxiety.

  • @kakacech
    @kakacech 3 роки тому

    So much respect to you, from a fellow mortal loser who poops, pisses and gets scared in life.

  • @FC-eh5jw
    @FC-eh5jw 4 роки тому

    Another thing guys, take breaks! Go outside, get some fresh air to sooth your mind. Then go back and carry on.

  • @ShuusakuSama
    @ShuusakuSama 4 роки тому

    the only thing I get frustrated is when I know what I am supposed to do but can't do it . . . other than that, losing is just part of the game

  • @Perryhdp
    @Perryhdp 4 роки тому

    Remember it's just a game. Learn from losing and rank doesn't really matter. You don't get any money for being higher ranked

  • @GORO911
    @GORO911 4 роки тому

    Ranked anxiety is why i stopped playing at Ryujin rank now.
    Can't afford to be demoted.
    Will play again after S4 when netcode is improved.

  • @iroxz251
    @iroxz251 4 роки тому

    Just stop trying to always win no matter what, think about learning and accepting the fact that you aren't the best in the world and you are going to lose to some weird ass guy doing some weird ass stuff. And when you go to play ranked, dont just play 3 or 4 games. Push yourself to play like a full hour or two. That way you can learn to get used to playing ranked, it becomes more of a normal thing instead of a thing that you're super stressed over. BUT more importantly HAVE FUN :) can't be stressed out if your having fun.

  • @mattheugaudin4976
    @mattheugaudin4976 4 роки тому

    Ft2 if im losing, death match if im winning/even.. Perfect rank setup.

  • @dori-dowei2415
    @dori-dowei2415 4 роки тому

    don't look for wins (most of the online players are looking for! these days)... when you lose you are in the right place and you have a big chance to improve yourself... after three matches you can figure this out. Just look for better players to beat your ass and from them, you will learn how to be better than you were before.

  • @ramaeltheriault5421
    @ramaeltheriault5421 4 роки тому

    Since Bryan is fundamentally based I need movement and punishment but with latency I can’t execute any of this. Like people at these ranks to be honest aren’t even good but if you can’t block shit or get punishes which makes my anxiety levels at an all time high because these dumb asses can keep doing unsafe moves and you don’t get a fucking punish. This shit is so fucking frustrating. Bryan is not even usable in this bullshit.

  • @beveon
    @beveon 4 роки тому

    Thanks TMM! Really appreciate this vid!

  • @kodaiyoung
    @kodaiyoung 4 роки тому

    Getting bodied for me is not a problem. A problem for me is to keep loosing for people who turtle behind super effective movements that requires no execution, you learn nothing from matches like these and it's annoying af.

  • @danny50117
    @danny50117 4 роки тому

    That's why I practice everyday but online facing a another competitor is very tricky

  • @blodia958
    @blodia958 4 роки тому +1

    There's nothing to be anxious about in online ranked Tekken really, atleast here in Asia i guess? Real anxiety inducer are offline matches, look back at the korean arcade days of Tekken 5, 6, Tag 2. You are playing ranked face to face with someone and there are spectators behind, imagine how it feels that way

    • @chinogambino9375
      @chinogambino9375 4 роки тому +1

      I find offline with strangers much more comfortable since you are not ranked, you don't feel like you are taking an exam. It just doesn't feel good being evaluated and worse seeing the result shoved in your face.

  • @sammystipsandtricks6338
    @sammystipsandtricks6338 4 роки тому +15

    I have depression because of tekken...

    • @shermantang4
      @shermantang4 4 роки тому +1

      Me but with fucking anger management issues

    • @sammystipsandtricks6338
      @sammystipsandtricks6338 4 роки тому +2

      @@shermantang4 me too all because of hwoarnag and law players I dont know how to tackle them especially hwoarang...

    • @shermantang4
      @shermantang4 4 роки тому +1

      For me it's laggy players, I once lost 4ranks in a day because of them and I broke my controller lmao
      Also for Hworang I usually dickjab alot to interrupt him, maybe that could work for ya

    • @sammystipsandtricks6338
      @sammystipsandtricks6338 4 роки тому +1

      @@shermantang4 I thanks for the advice ❤🙏

    • @lucasmarques9131
      @lucasmarques9131 4 роки тому +1

      Sammy's Tips And Tricks try duck hwo’s low high (d3 4) its launch punishable

  • @optimusprime5166
    @optimusprime5166 4 роки тому +1

    I only play rank on my good days. So like if im doing good playing lobby or quick matches that day I hop on rank. Right now I'm genbu never been demoted yet with 160 something wins.

  • @Neofire60
    @Neofire60 4 роки тому

    My whole strategy in Tekken is to annoy my opponent to death, making them anxious. Suffice to say I don't get many rematches from easily annoyed players.

  • @doomi_nukem
    @doomi_nukem 4 роки тому

    I took a month break from Tekken and my anxiety is mostly gone now

  • @therealmccoy2004
    @therealmccoy2004 4 роки тому +1

    Ranked matched pissed me off so bad today!! Literal promotion match had the hyworang beat 2 rounds bout to get the promotion and here comes the 2/3 bar lag setting in and i lost the promotion!!
    😡🤬🤬🤬

    • @angelpacheco1608
      @angelpacheco1608 4 роки тому +1

      Aww damn. I hope you get the promotion man. Good luck !

    • @therealmccoy2004
      @therealmccoy2004 4 роки тому

      @@angelpacheco1608 thanks man. Me too

  • @aaron.biketrials
    @aaron.biketrials 4 роки тому

    Citalopram and pregabalin do wonders for me lol