I love how your advice is more lighthearted and rooted in compassion rather than the lecherous vibe that pick up artist videos put out. Seriously, this is awesome!
YourCharismaCoach Please make video about how to develop communication and some fun joke that everyone will laugh please do this 😀? In confidence I am pretty low so I can learn from you and some different from many people that gonna help my life ?
Hey Marcus, After discovering your videos tonight and watching several of them in continuation with(out) particular order, I wanted to stop and not only thank but encourage you to continue to deliver your insight, work and knowledge on the things you talk about. Your lessons delve into subjects that cover many different psychological fronts and I think it's important to note that with use of the internet you are distributing great understanding and all in all bettering the people who engage with your content. I only say this as this relates to me and I will accurately assume it applies to others. Please continue to be who you are.
Great videos Marcus, thank you. They're really helping me a lot. I would really appreciate it if you could do a video exactly like this again in a bookstore, and make it about tips to add more excitement and energy to your facial expressions in conversation? (I really struggle with this, because I'm a really calm person and I think I project my conversations to be dull and boring, and I really need some tips on facial expressions and voice tonality to help me out). Thanks for your time.
Thanks man! I did this about 20 years ago, whit a much older married woman and it worked! Then few years later the Game came along (pua's) and i got lost in this war of marketing between the routine guys and the so called naturals. This video is great man!
I watched this video ages ago, annd now I'm coming back to be re-inspired by this all over again. It's how I found this channel. mman I wish they still uploaded, their stuff was incredibly helpful!!!!
“PENNsylvania call and wants it’s pens back” is what I said in my college library. Then sat down in the table across and pulled out my pen collection to rewrite my notes. (I’m talking 15 different colored pens)
Way to go! I love this, especially that if a moment in which you could but didn't talk to somebody pases, later you find yourself in a similar situation and use the line or witty remark that you felt bad for not using in the first place. On a sidenote your videos have been getting better visual quality which is great. Thumbs up for more videos in the future! ^_^
Great stuff Marcus, agreed its all to do with whether you find it funny, and the vibe you have. The book upside down is a classic, have done that a few times and is definitely my fave :).
Honestly if someone asked me do you like books I would burst out laughing. I would fire back I can’t stand them I came here to glare into them so they know my hatred!
Heres my attempts...id prob never say them because i feel like they are all dumb but these are what id write if i actually wrote something in a bookstore... Why are all these dvd cases full of papers? Excuse me do you know if they have any books in here? Hey can you help me? How do you turn on the audio book feature? *Hold book to ear* Excuse me sorry to bother you but im not a very good reader... Can you help me with this word? *Open book and point to the "a" in a sentence. Hey is that book your reading the one about the guy who interrupts the woman reading so she can put her number in his phone and take her out for coffee the next day? (Then give her your phone in the contacts section.... Kind of a pick up line i doubt would work but still counts right?) Dont you just love bookstores? I certainly do... Except for all the book...
These are great! As long as they make you happy, you’re winning. At this point, it doesn’t really matter how they react. The point is to express yourself and have fun. You’ll notice that many people “rejected” us at first. That’s to be expected. In some cases I’m breaking social norms. In others it is just unexpected and they are confused for a second. You can try these out and see what happens. Even if they are lame, you’ll learn something important. Go. Have fun!
it would be funny if you messed with people and get great reactions like how some pranksters like LAHWF, BigDaws etc. (they do simpler pranks like giving awkward compliments etc)
I’m supes antisocial and shy, hence why I’m here. Would you say that trying out the jokes in person is really vital in the beginning? Or is it unnecessary, since the purpose is to think faster (I am pretty sarcastic and dry tho)
Trying out the lines allows you to express yourself. That way you are not worrying about impressing anyone. Simply enjoying the things you’ve written down to try. You’re also going to get valuable feedback on what you’re doing by trying them out. If that’s too big a step right now, writing things down allows you to train that part of your mind to be flexible and witty when you want it most. Saying them out loud can be the next step you get to.
You're telling me to go to a bookstore with the intent of talking to strangers, sit down with a pad of paper and a pen, observe people trying to privately shop, then develop a funny thing to say to them so they will like you and talk to you? This is straight out of the book of an intense sociopath.
How about “that book is a dangerous one. Yeah yeah, I was reading it and then got a cut on my hand. Yep, page 87. Yeah, so I’m never going to cut vegetables and read books at the same time ever again.” Make a witty comment, make a paper cut expectation, then smash it with gold
I really like that idea of a book being dangerous. "Careful with that one mate, it sucks souls. I started reading it last week and 4 hours of my life vanished."
Don't let the book about how to draw dogs and the books about how to draw cats together, there won't get together with all the scratching or whatnot. Was that british enough?
I need more lame jokes my jokes are usually they miss or seriously crack ppl up but lame jokes everybody laughs either cuz it was actually funny or they don’t want to make u feel bad
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"rather than trying to make a good impression, you're trying to create a good expression" Dang. That's good advice
I thought the "do you like books" comment was hilarious! It was witty in its own right
indeed you just have to back it up with a smile to make it clear you were joking
hahaha i know right! that was the funniest one, along with the spy
So did I. I actually laughed so much because it's something I would say in such situations
You need to read more books.
Bee Movie reference?
*lady looking at books in a bookstore* "do you like books?" lmao i lost it.
I aim to be creative
I love how your advice is more lighthearted and rooted in compassion rather than the lecherous vibe that pick up artist videos put out. Seriously, this is awesome!
+yeah oh right Thank you! Its good to be light hearted.
And what about if one is actually stupid one is maybe also witty?
"do you like books" was funnier than all of the actual jokes
This is the way
I think its sad I'm searching this
Not if you're trying to improve your life. That's commendable
SAME
YourCharismaCoach Please make video about how to develop communication and some fun joke that everyone will laugh please do this 😀? In confidence I am pretty low so I can learn from you and some different from many people that gonna help my life ?
actually extremely witty well done
I think it's sad you searching this too. Jk :p
"Wouldn't go up there mate, bit boring it's full of books." Ahahaha. :D
I was dying when he said" I wouldn't go up there, it's filled with books"
Glad to see you are alive and well now
@@YourCharismaCoach 😂
😂
Dictionary joke made my day.
This comment made mine!
I don't think this guy really gets bookshops -"look around at all the bored looking people reading books"
Wildonederer legit.
I can see why you need help being more witty and playful lol
step one of seeming more witty: sound british
+roywhiteo5 Huzzah!
Or kill a brit
,😍🤩
roywhiteo5 easy when you are British😂...I’m British.
fuck i don't want to be witty anymore
Who else has offensive humor
Defo your mother... how are you son.
I don't have offensive humor as my channel shows, but I do find it funny 😂😂😂
The best type of humor 😂
Meeee
"do you like books"😂😂😂😂
to be honest that could be funny to ask depending on your tone xD
Does anyone else have a hard time understanding someone whispering in a British accent??
Tell me about it, I can't even hear myself think sometimes! ;-)
Me
Alyssa SanJorge I know I do!
its not that, the music's too loud
I really liked the dictionary one lol
Me too. That made me chuckle.
'Expressing yourself' - right on! love it
If I were at a book store and a guy came up beside me and asked if I liked books, that would honestly make me laugh. 😂
Hey Marcus,
After discovering your videos tonight and watching several of them in continuation with(out) particular order, I wanted to stop and not only thank but encourage you to continue to deliver your insight, work and knowledge on the things you talk about. Your lessons delve into subjects that cover many different psychological fronts and I think it's important to note that with use of the internet you are distributing great understanding and all in all bettering the people who engage with your content. I only say this as this relates to me and I will accurately assume it applies to others. Please continue to be who you are.
Caleb Simmons Thanks for the support Caleb. More on the way soon
That “Do you like books?” in a book store made me die of laughter 😂
This was really good and helpful. I realized when my humor is too serious or unfunny or when to switch it up. Thank you!
The world needs humor now more than ever.
*do you like books ?* i died 😂😂
I love this channel. The real-life aspect is fantastic; so entertaining and inspirational. Thank you :-)
Good to see you back Marcus
Thank you! Good to be back!
the dictionary one got me haha
Great videos Marcus, thank you. They're really helping me a lot. I would really appreciate it if you could do a video exactly like this again in a bookstore, and make it about tips to add more excitement and energy to your facial expressions in conversation? (I really struggle with this, because I'm a really calm person and I think I project my conversations to be dull and boring, and I really need some tips on facial expressions and voice tonality to help me out).
Thanks for your time.
If it's too clever, you run the risk of intimidating her. Don't ask a question or make an observation that doesn't leave room for a response.
Thank you for this video. I liked how you not only gave your advice but also put it into action.
Subscribed, sir!
Thanks! We better pull our thumb out and make some more videos!
Thanks man! I did this about 20 years ago, whit a much older married woman and it worked! Then few years later the Game came along (pua's) and i got lost in this war of marketing between the routine guys and the so called naturals. This video is great man!
I watched this video ages ago, annd now I'm coming back to be re-inspired by this all over again. It's how I found this channel. mman I wish they still uploaded, their stuff was incredibly helpful!!!!
Thanks! We're still around and we here ya! We better make some more videos :-)
Great content. Fun viewing.
Last sentence was brilliant!
Look forward to experimenting 😂
Please do! It'll often feel a bit awkward but push through that because the risk makes the reward!
I really love who you are bro, and to think i could have found your content all of 7 years ago. really solid advice and steps, thank you
It's really great, perfect
Hi Marcus, just passing by to say that you had here the best channel on this topic. I hope you resume your videos soon!
Thank you! My aim is to get more useful stuff out shortly. Hang in there!
the dictionary line was a good one i havent seen before. ill try that next time im near a book store. thanks guy
The Great Deception what did he say? Haha I c
Bros in creative mode just using human experiments
"The Dictionary" sounds like a badass action spy film.
Book upside down. Flips over. That makes much more sense, unlike my life.
That's pretty funny! Definitely would have used in this video
“PENNsylvania call and wants it’s pens back” is what I said in my college library. Then sat down in the table across and pulled out my pen collection to rewrite my notes. (I’m talking 15 different colored pens)
I see your digesting that book what flavor is it
Very useful! Please keep doing these videos :)
nice use of the four words of power in your videos
Way to go! I love this, especially that if a moment in which you could but didn't talk to somebody pases, later you find yourself in a similar situation and use the line or witty remark that you felt bad for not using in the first place. On a sidenote your videos have been getting better visual quality which is great. Thumbs up for more videos in the future! ^_^
More on the way
I looked up “Witty Banter” and I got this
Great stuff Marcus, agreed its all to do with whether you find it funny, and the vibe you have. The book upside down is a classic, have done that a few times and is definitely my fave :).
"Rather than creating a great impression, you're creating a great expression"
Really good advice, do you think thinking in my head works or have to write it down
Experiment! Writing tends to help the mind cement behaviours, so it's worth a try.
Love these videos mate! Cheers from California
The hardest part about this would be actually walking up and using the lines on the people.
We can teach you how to do it effortlessly. It really becomes very fun.
@@YourCharismaCoach Wow, thanks for the reply, dude. :) This was a great video by the way. I took notes and I'm actually gonna use it.
Great! Let me know how you get on with it.
Great video Marcus, just next time please turn the music a bit down so I could hear the splendid charisma coming from your voice! 5Q + 5Q ..... ;)
Honestly if someone asked me do you like books I would burst out laughing.
I would fire back I can’t stand them I came here to glare into them so they know my hatred!
That would be brilliant!
I love your videos! :) thanks so much for making these.
+muses&mustangs Thanks! More on the way!
I loved the package one. It's made me giggle
That’s the goal.
I come up with really silly shit to say in my head. I'd laugh at my own expense haha.
I love this! thank you marcus
0:33 You could probably do something with the Kama Sutra on the top left shelf
Sure. You might like turning it upside down and remarking “There. That seems like the right position now.” With a smile. And see what happens.
I see you, stealing all the words out of that book for free =))))))))))))
Fantastic content as always buddy! Keep em coming!
timeless
Instructions unclear, brain has gooped out of head
Heres my attempts...id prob never say them because i feel like they are all dumb but these are what id write if i actually wrote something in a bookstore...
Why are all these dvd cases full of papers?
Excuse me do you know if they have any books in here?
Hey can you help me? How do you turn on the audio book feature? *Hold book to ear*
Excuse me sorry to bother you but im not a very good reader... Can you help me with this word? *Open book and point to the "a" in a sentence.
Hey is that book your reading the one about the guy who interrupts the woman reading so she can put her number in his phone and take her out for coffee the next day? (Then give her your phone in the contacts section.... Kind of a pick up line i doubt would work but still counts right?)
Dont you just love bookstores? I certainly do... Except for all the book...
These are great!
As long as they make you happy, you’re winning. At this point, it doesn’t really matter how they react.
The point is to express yourself and have fun. You’ll notice that many people “rejected” us at first. That’s to be expected.
In some cases I’m breaking social norms. In others it is just unexpected and they are confused for a second.
You can try these out and see what happens. Even if they are lame, you’ll learn something important.
Go. Have fun!
Nice video. Keep up the good work
I had to be patient watchin u.. funny for me....
Iam investing in myself!
The sound quality wasn't great, by I get your point thanks
Delivery is key
Over in Canada, making a witty joke to a random woman in a bookshop gets you labeled as a rapist.
* be funny *
Me: searches "how to be funny"
not many people can look so cute in that cap not even cats but you do ;D
Man once he put his lines to the test i couldn't understand a damn thing he was saying
it would be funny if you messed with people and get great reactions like how some pranksters like LAHWF, BigDaws etc. (they do simpler pranks like giving awkward compliments etc)
3:25 made me laugh so hard
lol that dictionary one was good :) I like this advice
I love trolling people but i dont do it enough. I should do it more
its fine line between appearing idiotic and witty.....
Some of these were funny and I’m stealing them
I’m supes antisocial and shy, hence why I’m here. Would you say that trying out the jokes in person is really vital in the beginning? Or is it unnecessary, since the purpose is to think faster (I am pretty sarcastic and dry tho)
Trying out the lines allows you to express yourself.
That way you are not worrying about impressing anyone. Simply enjoying the things you’ve written down to try.
You’re also going to get valuable feedback on what you’re doing by trying them out.
If that’s too big a step right now, writing things down allows you to train that part of your mind to be flexible and witty when you want it most. Saying them out loud can be the next step you get to.
I think being light hearted is great but way way better if it’s spontaneous. The canned and pre planned lines really felt awkward, forced and fake
brilliant
You're telling me to go to a bookstore with the intent of talking to strangers, sit down with a pad of paper and a pen, observe people trying to privately shop, then develop a funny thing to say to them so they will like you and talk to you? This is straight out of the book of an intense sociopath.
It's not about making people like you. It's about developing more fun ways to interact with the world and the people in it.
I see. Thank you for the reply! I was just joking, after all.
If people say you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover why is it that people are always looking at its backside?
That's sharp! Love it
@@YourCharismaCoach :) Love your video
How to be a creepy cringelord in the library :)
Maybe we should run with that title! ;-p
Was this filmed in Waterstones in Belfast by any chance?
How about “that book is a dangerous one. Yeah yeah, I was reading it and then got a cut on my hand. Yep, page 87. Yeah, so I’m never going to cut vegetables and read books at the same time ever again.” Make a witty comment, make a paper cut expectation, then smash it with gold
I really like that idea of a book being dangerous. "Careful with that one mate, it sucks souls. I started reading it last week and 4 hours of my life vanished."
was the sounds super low for anyone else, or just me? had my speakers turnt all the way up lol
I can't quite hear your speakers from here. Could you turn them up a bit more?
Who the fuck goes to libraries anymore? Do libraries still exist? If they do then Phone booths do too.
true. libraries are declining worldwide. less books more internet cafe type areas being setup instead.
Would be great to see the captions :(
I'll look into it
I wouldn't be able to force myself to say these things, maybe I'm too self conscious?
It's always a risk to say something different. If yous ay it with a smile, you reduce the risk of it falling flat.
Your not supposed to plan out your conversations! 😂🤦♀️
You’re right. If you want to stay at your current level.
watching this made me think - why am i seeing this? have i become so lonely and jobless? Heck NO...
The best joke was stealing those for free
It's finally here!!!
Don't let the book about how to draw dogs and the books about how to draw cats together, there won't get together with all the scratching or whatnot.
Was that british enough?
Okay, that's nice. But why not show us the follow up? Telling one joke and moving on doesn't accomplish anything.
Check out the rest of the channel for examples!
That was entertaining
It's finally here haha
It's a shame that the audio is so bad.
I need more lame jokes my jokes are usually they miss or seriously crack ppl up but lame jokes everybody laughs either cuz it was actually funny or they don’t want to make u feel bad
Trick is to also deliver them with a smile so the other person knows your joking (although a dry delivery can also be fun!)
Some of these felt preplanned and cringe but most are very witty and funny 👍
Great. I learn nothing